September 25, 2024 • 37 mins
Can emotional decision-making lead to better outcomes than rational planning? Join me, Bobby Frost, as I explore this contentious topic in today's episode of Triparency. We'll take a deep dive into the vibrant hues of Michigan's fall, the joys of autumn fashion, and, more intimately, my personal journey of navigating birthday plans amidst an Achilles injury. But the real crux of our discussion is a provocative quote that questions the ability to have logical conversations with women due to societal conditioning. This claim sparks a fascinating exploration of how logic and emotions clash in relationships, featuring real-life scenarios that you won't want to miss.
Imagine planning your future together, only to face emotional decisions that upend logical financial strategies. I'll share a personal story about a partner's choice to move into a luxury apartment instead of buying a house, shedding light on the financial and emotional implications of such decisions. We also address controversial topics like the misuse of sex as a weapon in relationships, the influence of societal norms on gender communication styles, and the importance of balancing logical thinking with emotional needs for a more harmonious and fulfilling partnership.
Finally, we discuss the broader societal dynamics of logic and accountability, critiquing illogical complaints about gym attire and public behavior, and examining the interplay of power and financial decisions in relationships. We also spotlight some of the hardest-working artists in the industry—Curren$y, Larry June, Jay Worthy, and West Side Gunn—while inviting fellow gamers to challenge me in NBA 2K25 and NCAA College Football 25. This episode promises to be a compelling blend of personal anecdotes, thought-provoking discussions, and community engagement. Tune in and join the conversation!
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Bobby Frost (00:00):
Yo yo yo, it's your boy, bobby Frost, and Bobby
Frost Media presents Tri-Parency.
I am solo dolo.
No beautiful ladies today.
Yeah, my co-hosts.
They had prior obligations,they couldn't get in, so you got
your boy, solo man.
We starting off in fall.
You know, fall just kicked in.
We fresh in the fall.
This is my favorite season.
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I'ma say that before.
I love fall man, I love fall allthe way around.
I like the foliage, you knowthe leaves.
I love that man.
The burgundy, the orange, thered, yellow, gold, all the
colors.
You know what I'm saying forthe leaves.
And I think Michigan got one ofthe most beautiful backdrops
you can have in the fall in theworld.
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Um, I like the holidays, I likehalloween, I like thanksgiving,
you know even for like you cango on walks with your lady or
lady friend.
You know a lot of ladies don'tlike insects and stuff like that
.
So a lot of time, like in thesummertime and stuff, you can't
even go on walks like thatbecause they running and
swatting and all that.
But in the fall, you know Isaid a lot of the um, you know
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they go to.
I think it's calledoverwintering or something like
that.
I have to look it up for thecorrect term for it.
But the insects go inside thetrees, they go on the leaves,
they go underground and they,when a certain temperature comes
, they go into like stasis.
You know what I'm saying.
It's just chill.
So they out the way so you cango.
It ain't too cold, especiallybeginning of fall, middle of
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fall.
It ain't too cold.
You can go on a nice walk,chill.
And I feel like you can dressbetter In the summer.
I feel like you can't reallyget your dress on like you want
to, because you're going to gethot, you're going to sweat and
shit like that.
But Hoodies, nice jackets, youknow what I'm saying Like, yeah,
bombers, all that, you canreally get your dress on.
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You know what I'm saying?
I tell people all the timenothing like a good pair of
Timbs, wheat, butters, dependingon what region you in, what you
call them, put them joints onthem.
They're like, yeah, man, youcan put on your sweatsuits and
get comfortable.
You know, still be looking nice.
Yeah, fall, my know what I'msaying.
So my birthday coming up and Ihad a bunch of plans to do,
couldn't do them, y'all know.
As y'all know, I rushed throughmy Achilles, so your boy trying
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to heal back up.
I'm on the road to, you know,recovery.
I'm on that journey but I'm ina boot so I don't know.
I might figure something outfor my birthday.
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I'm saying but, um, I want toget into a topic, man, you know,
uh, I had I seen a quote andthe quote was you cannot have
logical conversations with womenand, with that being said, like
any other things we touch onand talk on, it's it's not be
all in all.
You know what I'm saying.
It's always going to beoutliers and exceptions to the
rules.
But I kind of felt where theguy who said this quote was
coming from.
And I done been in multiplerelationships marriage, you know
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all that and for the most partthat's true.
You know you can't tell a womannot to be in her emotions.
That's a comfortable place forwomen to be at.
They're raised and even bysociety to be conditioned to be
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in their emotions so they'remore comfortable there.
So that's a natural state.
When anything arises,especially anything with
adversity, they're going to gointo that emotions.
So by going into that emotions,you feel what I'm saying Like
logic goes out the door and thatalways was like a bumping point
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with me talking to my lady.
You know in the past, any of myfemales, my exes and things
like that or you know womenperiod.
And there's some guys that Ihate to say it like this, but
there's some guys you can't talklogical with either.
You know what I'm saying andagain, this is not the be all
end all, but a lot of guysthat's been raised by a lot of
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women.
They have feminine energy.
They like to argue because theylead with their emotions.
You can't have a regularconversation.
Men can have real men.
When I say real men, this ain'tgot nothing to do with you
being a man, meaning your moralsand values line up, your
upbringing lines up with being aman.
Being a man don't really gotnothing to do with all other
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stuff people think Having a man,being having a bag, this, this,
having a car, this, all thatNone of that stuff really makes
you a man.
It's your morals and values,the essence of who you are, your
character.
So real men can logically talka situation out.
That's the honest truth.
You know what I'm saying.
Real men, you can honestly talk.
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You know you might have adisagreement, you can agree or
disagree, but you can come toterms.
I mean, like if you go back andyou know, you look back at the
crime families back in the dayLucky Luciano, all them cats,
you know, I'm saying the finecrime family, genovese and all
that If you go check them out,you know a lot of time they
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avoided big conflicts by havingsit downs, conversations, you
break bread and you talk out theproblem.
Could you use logic?
And the one thing about logicis it's like math, like I always
say.
Like you ask a person you know,especially females, but you ask
you know people in generalwhat's their least favorite
subject in school and the firstthing that come out is what they
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say math.
Well, why do they say math?
Well, I know why they say math.
They say math because math.
Again, that's logic.
Well, I know why they say math.
They say math because mathagain, that's logic.
There's only one answer, unlessyou're doing it with like
extraneous solutions and that'syou know.
But other than that's oneanswer, there's multiple ways
you can get to the answer, butthere's one answer.
It's not subjective.
You can't put emotions intodoing a math equation.
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You got to use that formula.
That's why people don't like it.
When it comes to writing, youcan write and write this way,
write that way, and it's stillsubjective.
One professor or one readermight feel like this is the
greatest work of all time.
Another person might feel likeit's trash.
But logic, logic is just thatyou know what I'm saying.
You're using facts, you'reusing your head, you're thinking
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in a way without emotions.
That's logic and I heardCharleston white talk about that
before too, and a lot of peopletalk about that.
Females get rid of her and I canunderstand.
You know rubs in the wrong way,things of that nature.
I could get it, but that's thetruth.
It's like logic and emotionsand when you think of logical,
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like a, the computer thinkslogical.
You know it's not usingemotions.
So when you're having aconversation with a lady, you
know what I'm saying.
The most time it's going to goshe's upset, or you know it's
might not be upset, she could beangry.
You know she's not baselinebehavior and all everything
she's saying to you.
She's going to listen torespond, not listen to
understand.
She's listening to respond andthat's in her emotions.
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Talking logic ain't going towork because she ain't trying to
hear that shit.
It's some females, man.
You can argue with logic andwhen they find out that you're
right.
They still not going to rollwith it.
They're still going to figureout a way not to take
accountability.
And that's where I think a lotof times females have a bad
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problem with that takingaccountability Because that's
logic, it's logical.
Again, you know the big A wordaccountability.
They don't want to takeaccountability because that's
logical.
You're taking accountabilityfor your actions, you're being
logical.
That ain't something they gonnawhirl with.
So, like the quote I heard inthe clip, it makes sense.
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Like when you with your lady man, you know you want to keep shit
down A lot of times, man, likeyou got to make your decision
without her input and just don'ttalk logical to her.
Man, hit her up when you wantto watch Netflix.
Like, and just don't talklogical to her man, hit her up
when you want to watch Netflix.
Like the guy said, you want towatch Netflix and get a laugh on
.
Or you're going to sit down andwatch one of her shows with her
, or some shit like that.
That's going to keep your shithappy.
When you start bringing logicinto it, you're going to bump
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heads with the average femaleevery time, even females.
I know females that went tocollege and took logic and
reasoning classes and they stilldon't think logically.
It's crazy.
You know what I'm saying?
Like it's wild.
I even bump heads with myco-hosts a lot on that, because
a lot of time that's what makeus work.
They ain't thinking logical,they thinking with emotions.
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And this is the crazy thingabout emotions.
You feel me Like anger neverlies Meaning.
When you get mad, you are mad.
Anger never lies Meaning.
When you get mad, you are mad.
You're not playing mad, you'remad, you pissed off.
You can't fake being mad.
You piss, you piss, but thatdon't mean you correct on that,
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it doesn't mean you mad and youget mad and you laugh, shout and
things of that nature.
But that's not logical.
You just in your emotions.
And I had to step away fromthat and figure that shit out
Cause that he used to piss meoff arguing with my woman and
I'm using nothing but logic.
I'm, I'm, I'm played by playingit.
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You know what I'm saying.
It's like we again using thatcomparison analogy.
It's like we using thatcomparison analogy, it's like
we're doing a big math problem.
And you know, I used to tellkids this when you're doing math
, when I was tutoring kids or atmy job helping kids out.
You know math.
You learn math vertically,meaning, like you know you have
blocks.
When you was a kid, if you madea tower, if you grab any block
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in between the top to the bottom, it'll fall.
Can't grab no blocks.
That's how you vertically learnmath and that's logical.
Now there's other stuff you canlearn horizontal or
latitude-wise meaning.
You can learn history.
You know.
You can know the 1300s, 1400s,1500s, 1600s.
Skip the 1700s, 1800s, no,1900s, 2000s, 2010s, 2020s and
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still be great at history.
You only missed two centuries.
You got all the other ones downpat.
Can't do math like that andthat's how logic is.
So I used to get mad.
I used to be so frustrated Likeman.
Like why are you making it sohard in this conversation,
knowing that I'm using factsstep by step, why, where you
went wrong or we went wrong, whyyou shouldn't have done this
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and did that, and it gets younowhere.
I remember I had you know thisis in my marriage.
Never forget we got into itright around my birthday.
We got into it.
You know what I'm saying.
So I didn't end up spending thebirthday with her.
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She made a rash move emotionallymove, rash move and she went
and moved in these luxuryapartments Okay, and for me it
was like I didn't want to movein another apartment again.
We had a department.
I didn't want to move, I wantedto buy a house and I was so
upset and it was like a bigsticking point for us in our
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relationship for a long time.
So I got over and realized likeI can't be mad at her, I got to
let it go because I'm not beinglogical.
Why would I be mad?
I know she's dealing with heremotions.
She's in her feelings.
Ladies deal in feelings andthat's why women, if you talk to
a woman, the number one thingshe's going to talk about
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especially talking about herexes, baby daddies, anything is
don't play in my face, don'tplay with my feelings.
That's what means the most tothem.
Feelings, not logical.
I mean I didn't even talk tofemales and broke shit down to
females Like this.
Shit seems like it's one plusone equals two.
You know, like my wife I toldher I said man, we're playing.
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At the time we moved into thisenvironment, it was like this.
I said man, we're playing.
At the time we moved into thisapartment it was like this years
ago they started off $1,350.
By the time we left out thatmotherfucker was $1,700 a month.
Now for y'all that live inbigger cities I'm talking about
in Flint.
Now if you're living in fuckingfour or five years ago, you're
living in, let's say, la or NewYork, yeah, that's probably a
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one, a one bedroom in the ghettosomewhere.
But, and at the time in Flint,michigan, like if you're paying
$1,500 a month for rent, thatwas insane.
Or in the Flint surroundingarea.
But I was like man, I just didthe math real quick.
I said man, in 10 months that's$15,000.
In a year that's 18 grand.
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That's 18 grand.
I could have been on the house.
You moved into these apartmentsand we got into it.
You got mad and you wanted toshow me that you can make moves
and do stuff without my input orsay so.
And you did it.
And then you know, we wentthrough our little squabbles and
we got back together and boom,I'm like well, now, this is not
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the plan I had.
The plan I had was logical.
You know, go drop 20 grand on ahouse for the down payment, 20,
20, 30 grand for the downpayment, and we'll keep going
from there.
But you know, and I was madabout it because I'm like no,
you didn't sign the lease, youdidn't give him the money you
got to pay to break the lease.
It's more money out of it.
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So I just stuck with theapartment for a minute and got
out of there.
But the thing was like again itwas that was her and her
emotions.
We had got into it.
She was upset, she felt likeshe was upset.
She felt like, you know, shewanted to show me that she can
handle stuff without me.
And I'm not saying she couldn'thandle stuff without me, it was
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just a point like you didn'thave to.
It's not thinking logical.
I don't talk to females aboutshit like this.
It's like the dumbest shit inthe world.
And again, this is emotional,not logical.
You go talk to a dude who'sknown to be ladies man, smooth,
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um, womanizer, all that shit,and then, when it should go the
way logically will go with you,you upset.
How?
Why are you mad?
What you upset about?
When you met the dude, you knewhe had options.
He had a bunch of options andyou figured out you know it
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didn't work.
And he cause he had options.
Well, you knew that from thejump.
You know what I'm saying andthat's not logically thinking
Now, if you hate to say that,say that phrase in line.
If you were bringing somethingto the table that separates you
from the pack, then yeah, thatmakes sense.
But you came in with the samething that the other females had
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Looks.
I guess you thought she saidshe gained with A1.
You dress nice, you put oneyelashes, you keep a nice wig
on.
You know, boom, you didn'tseparate yourself from his
options.
So, logically, what you thinkwas gonna happen, he was gonna
be loyal to you in your mind,meaning, like, just have sex
with you is crazy, like anothertopic that, um, I'm gonna touch
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on deeper.
But it's another logical thingthat when a lady's on another
logical situation with womenthat just don't make sense, like
, oh, why would you thinkholding out sex is not going to
make a nigga cheat?
And then once he cheat, you'remad.
You was, you was using sex as aweapon or form to get back or
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hurt him or get him in line.
And well, you just knew whatwas going.
Come next.
That's logic.
You know what I'm saying.
Like it don't be making senseto me, man.
A lot of time with ladies, Isaid, but once you get to a
mature step, state in mind andyou get more, even deep, and
logic and logically thinking,you realize, like, don't be mad,
that's them by nature.
There's no reason to get madabout that.
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There's no reason to get upset,you know I, there's no reason
to get upset.
You know what I'm saying.
Like that's why when you ask awoman, hey, what do you want to
eat, they don't know Because,logically, they're not using
logic In their mind.
It's I want you to pick, but Idon't want you to pick.
You know what I'm saying.
Like there's no logic there,there's none.
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They don't use logic, man, it's.
It's, it's wild.
Like I done had someconversations where females get
so fucking mad at me about stuff.
Using logical thinking, they'dbe like man, it's crazy, like
you.
Just if you look at comments oncertain reels and posts
throughout social media you lookat females coming you can tell
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there's no logic there, there'snone.
Like I done heard a female saythis before and some of the
stuff I'm talking about.
We didn't touch on the otherepisode.
But again, logically thinking,you get upset because guys are
gawking at you in the gym butyou got on nothing but skin
tight clothing.
Where was the logic at you?
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Think they wasn't going to belooking at you.
If I come in there,motherfucker, with tight zone,
like I'm about to go do a WWF umprep review females going to
look at me.
So there's going to be somesome guys.
That's the only other waythey're going to look at me.
Should I get mad?
No, I set myself up for that.
Hire a female.
I could dress.
I mean, I remember talking toone female.
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She taught me some of thedumbest shit.
I can walk down the street, butnaked.
Shouldn't nobody be looking atme, making me feel uncomfortable
?
Where is the logic?
You don't Stupid?
I remember talking to femalesabout like and this is a real
sensitive subject.
You know what I'm saying, but Ilove talking about shit that's
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sensitive.
You know what I'm saying.
I like talking about that shit.
That's me.
But like, when I'm saying logic, when I'm using logic this is
what I mean by using logic.
Talked to a female once in atime about rape and she got
upset about me because she gotput in a position where, you
know, she ended up getting rapedand I wasn't insensitive to her
being raped.
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I was telling her what did youthink?
You went over with your friend,while she's going to get her
back blown out.
You know it's another guy there.
So if you want to instill restin that other guy, why would you
go?
You know what's on his mind.
This is logic in here.
So why even go?
Baby girl, you go out byyourself.
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I'm not going.
Why would you go?
That doesn't make sense.
It's not logical.
I'm not saying it's right thatyou got right.
I'm saying where's youraccountability at?
Why did you go?
That's not logically thinking.
I'm not about to go under ahornet's nest and get the plant
around under the hornet's nestand then sting the shit out of
me.
Then I'm playing victim.
No, it's not logical thinkingLike the PDD situation you know
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we had touched on that when thatshit first happened with Cassie
.
But like I see a lot of people,I seen some what they call them
IG models.
I seen some IG models gettingmad about that Like it was crazy
.
I seen some IG models gettingmad about the situation with
Diddy and I'm like I seen it onthe shade room.
I was going through thecomments.
I'm looking like yeah, I knowwhy you mad.
You're an IG model, you waschasing fame and you probably
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been in one of them predicamentswith Diddy or some other type
of entertainer or personal power, and you feeling like, no, it
shouldn't happen like that.
But again, logically, if I'mover some man with power, I'm
over his house, his mansion orhis yacht, and it's one o'clock
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2 am.
What do you think he's lookingfor?
If you're not going to work offyour talent alone, alone off
your talent and that's a longerroad then you got to compromise
yourself.
And ain't that the man abusinghis power?
He's not.
You're abusing your will, yourfree will, because you're
putting yourself in acompromising position.
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Let your talent speak for you.
Don't sit up in there and getput in a position and then play
victim.
That's not logical.
You know what I'm saying?
There's nothing logical aboutthat, and that's females.
Kill me with just the logic,logical thinking man.
That's why females ain't goodwith money a lot Because they
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not thinking logically.
I done talked to females beforeand me and my homies having
conversations about stuff, andit was like prime example,
female will go pay all her billsand feel like the rest of her
money is just blow it onnonsense.
Going to get a dumb ass bag shedidn't need, going to get some
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hills she didn't need, and thenbe upset that she doesn't have
any money.
What did you need that for you?
Just what they call therapyshopping or something like that.
Like that's not logical.
If you don't have the money totherapy shop, you shouldn't be
therapy shopping.
You know, like even with the,we done touched on the 50-50
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thing before.
Here's logic.
If I'm paying all the bills, youdon't have no say so.
What say so do you have?
If I'm paying all the bills,you don't have no say so.
What say so do you have?
Do your kids have say so inyour house?
I ask any single mom this Doyour kids have say so?
And be honest, don't lie.
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Do your kids have any say so inyour house?
No, they can put their input in, but it don't hold no weight
because at the end of the day,the first thing you tell them is
I'm paying the bill, which iscorrect.
If I'm paying all the bills, youdon't have no say so.
You are now a grown kid, that'sit.
You know you don't have no sayso.
So stay in your place, Be quiet.
This is what you wanted.
You wanted the soft girl life,or to be what they call a
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well-kept woman, cool.
Well, you can't get all thepros and none of the cons you
know.
Sit down, be quiet, keep yourmouth closed.
You're a trophy wife.
See what you do.
You don't do nothing else.
You got to keep your mouthclosed.
There's nothing else for you todo.
You know, that's it.
You make sure house clean.
I'm fed and I'm fed and I'mfucked.
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Because there's three F's inlife Fucking, feeding and
financing.
I'm doing the financing, thebiggest F.
You gotta do the other two F'sFucking and feeding, and that's
it.
And even with the fucking fee,now I'm buying the groceries and
I'm fucking your bet.
So I'm doing all the Fs.
You're doing really two.
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So that's logic.
Now, when you go 50-50, you gotto say so because it's half and
half.
You have to say so.
Again, women don't think withlogic.
A woman think well, I should beable to come in this
motherfucker, you bust your ass,you work, I can argue, I can
debate, I can fuss, I can dowhatever I want to do, even
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though I'm not bringing a lickof finance to this motherfucker.
Because and I said this beforelike logically thinking With
women who don't think logic, inthat situation, in that point it
don't make sense because whatyou got to offer I can go pay
for them.
Services I can pay for somebodyto fuck me.
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I can pay for somebody to fixme a meal.
Restaurants I can even pay forsomebody to clean my house, to
have cleaning services.
There's no fucking serviceswhere that's going to take care
of you.
There's none.
I mean, I guess you can go withlike welfare, but even then you
still need a dude to get onwelfare.
You got to get pregnant, sowhat you're asking for a dude to
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do financially, that'ssomething that that services
doesn't exist.
There's no service that's goingto take care of you for free.
There's none.
So everything you want a man todo, he can go find that another
woman or he can go find it in aservice that's provided
Logically thinking.
You know what I'm saying, it'sjust logical.
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You know what I'm saying, man,I got so many examples of just
like I said, my pastrelationship kicking it,
listening to my homeboys.
It's crazy.
Like get another one Vacation.
I remember talking to one of mydogs about this in the vacation
and you know we was talkingabout females and shit like that
.
Why would I take you on avacation, logically speaking?
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Why would I take you on avacation where I'm going to have
to foot the whole bill and allyou want to come to this
motherfucker do is lay down andeat, sit.
You want to go to a bunch ofrestaurants, you know.
Get your clothes on, lookpretty, go to a bunch of
restaurants occasionally, shop alittle bit and lay down.
You could did that shit here.
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That's not why I took you onvacation.
It's not we bought the sightsee.
I need you to be fun.
I need you know I have a goodtime.
I'm not.
You know.
That's logically thinking,though why would I put the bill
to do some shit that we can doat home?
You know like that's logicallythinking.
You know what I'm saying.
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I done heard like I done heard afemale say a man should put me
in my place.
Why am I putting you in yourplace?
That's not logically thinking.
Why are you doing thatemotional, dumb shit in the
first place?
It's crazy and like the guy wassaying, like when you, the
woman never looks stupid arguingwith a man, but the man looks
stupid arguing with a womanbecause you know to another man
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you're going to be like dog.
You knew you shouldn't havebeen doing that because you're
not thinking logically.
Ah, man, let her have it.
You know what I'm saying.
That's it.
And I say this like and I heardladies get mad at me my co-host
said like you know, said likeGod is gay.
No, if I want to have a logicalconversation, I'm going to go
talk to my dog, not talking toyou.
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You're not about to come from alogical standpoint, you come
from your emotions.
You're not even going to giveme good advice.
Your advice is going to be onlogic is again on facts.
Facts remain facts.
Emotions are temporary.
Facts are forever.
So you're giving me advicethat's temporary, temporary
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advice.
How is that temporary advicegoing to help me in the long
term when it's just temporary?
You're feeling a certain way atthis moment.
You're not going to be feelinglike that all the time.
Nah, give me some logic.
I need facts.
That's the foundation and youknow, that's the biggest thing.
Even when I think about all thethings, for the most part that
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didn't go my way or I didn'texecute the way I wanted to,
because I took logic out of it,everything, it ain't an incident
I can think of for real that Igot the short end of the stick
that I use logic with.
And again, a lot of times,logic is cold.
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It's cold because, again, ain'tno emotion in there.
So ain't no, I'm going tosmooth you over.
I'm going to butter you up.
I'm going you know what I'msaying, I'm going to sugar you
up.
No, it's straight.
What it is.
Logic is code, and women like tobe swooned.
That's why I said, man, insteadof just asking a woman
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something from a logicalstandpoint, man, like the dog
said in a little real life sceneit's the truth, man, just fuck
that.
Don't do that with a woman.
Hey, man, let's go.
Hey, bae, let me rub your feet.
Let's go watch Netflix.
Go watch your favorite show.
You want to go get something toeat.
Long as you're doing that,she's going to be cool.
She'll never get out of pocket.
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You get to talking to her aboutsome real logical shit.
It.
You might as well do that shitand don't even have a
conversation with her when itcomes to finances.
She's not going to be there foryou for finances.
For the most part, she's notgoing to understand it.
Get you a financial advisor.
That's why I talk to you withlogic.
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I done dated women that had touse logic at their job.
As soon as we got to the crib,the logic went out the window I
had a man, one of my BMs.
Man, I ain't lying to you, man,she can't show how to fucking
told me she don't give a fuckabout shit else but her feelings
.
I said, man, that's crazy tothink like this.
But you know, I was honest,though I don't give a fuck about
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shit else but my feelings.
Which was, like to me, absurd,crazy, what?
Yeah, man.
So, like you know, logic versusemotions, that's where it's
going to come from.
The Venus versus Mars.
If that's my best advice I cangive to you know, men out there,
hey, man, don't argue, becauseyou arguing with logic, it ain't
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going to work.
You always going to look bad,it's not going to get nowhere.
She's not going to listen tothe logical shit you're saying
and if she do listen, that's newhappens, do list is going to be
down the line.
So, unless you got patience tosee the seed turn into a
motherfucking oak tree, you knowhow long it take a
motherfucking seed turn to oaktree, right, if patience to see
that, that's a lot of times howthey're going to come back
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around and say it might be threemonths, it might be three years
, y'all might have been moved on, y'all in different
relationships.
Nah, she's like yeah, he wasright, is that benefiting you?
Nah, you can say it'sbenefiting her and you always
got love for her, or somethinglike that.
That's cool too.
But yeah, man like man, I'mjust being honest.
And for ladies, like I'm tellingyou, if you start using logic a
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little bit more, I swear yourrelationships go better or you
won't even be in a relationshipat all.
You will see that this ain'twhere you need to be rocking at.
You know what I'm saying.
Like, you'll figure that out.
You'll know this ain't where Ineed to be rocking at.
You know, because you're usingyour logic.
Again, you can look at it.
You might not be.
You might be talking to a guyand a guy is say you're talking
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to a guy and a guy is a guy onthe move all the time.
Well, you're not on the move,type female.
Logically, why would you evengo get in a relationship with
that guy?
Doesn't make sense.
Say, you're talking to a guythat's very sexual and you're
just not a very you know sexualoriented person.
You don't have sexual energy onhigh.
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Why would you go talk to a guythat got that?
Because soon as you slow downon your sexual energy, you're
not going to be fulfilling theguy.
No more.
Be logical, you know, andthat's the truth.
Man, you know what I'm saying.
I'm going to end it because Iwas going to keep this episode
short, because it was just merocking with it.
Yeah, man, that's the realissue with relationships, one of
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the big points of relationshipsnot working Not enough logic in
it.
Feelings switch, feelings flee.
They're not permanent, they'renot long term, they're very
short term.
I don't know nothing too muchshorter than the feelings.
You know what I'm saying.
That's the truth.
I don't know nothing too muchshorter than feelings.
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They are tense.
I love using analogies.
Some people love my analogy,some people don't, but I'm going
to end it with this.
This is a great analogy I canuse with this.
This is a great, great, greatanalogy I can use with this.
This is a great, great, greatanalogy I can use with this.
Real good, this is the analogy.
Feelings are like crack.
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Anybody who done crack or knowanything about crack, been in
any of them A's you will notice.
The daily thing about crack isit's a tense high, but it's only
for a short period of time.
It's a tense, a tense high, butit's only for a short period of
time.
That's what emotions are.
They're very intense, but thememotions are only for a short
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period of time.
They flee.
And when you make a lot ofdecisions on your emotions,
you're going to end up on theshort end of the stick.
You're going to make a lot ofbad decisions.
This is how it go.
You got to use more logic.
You got to use more logic.
You know what I'm saying.
That's the thing and this isadvice I use.
You got to use logic becausewhen you use logic, you can see
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things.
You can see it.
You can see it before ithappens.
You know, being in youremotions is going to keep you in
long friendships, keep you inlong business ventures, keep you
long marriages, because you'rein your feelings.
Logically, if you look at itlike I posted Ben left.
I posted Ben into this.
I posted Ben moved around themlogics.
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You know what I'm saying.
Them logics.
You know I put this post up onmy Snapchat about four days ago.
Capitalism doesn't go togetherwith morality.
That's logic.
I can't get mad at thisbusinessman for his business
practice because he's not usingemotions in his business
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practice.
He's using logic.
If I know how I can get intothis demographic and I can trick
this demographic into doingthis.
I'm going to do it.
That's business.
It's cold and hard, but that'sthe truth.
Just touched on it real quick.
Glad y'all been rocking with me,man, for this long, going
almost on two years.
I appreciate it so much.
I said this before, but this ishonest truth.
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I haven't been on a trail likeI need to be on because I have
an issue with axing people.
I'm not going to lie.
That's my only flaw I ever hadwith doing a podcast.
I don't like axing.
Axing to me equates likebegging, but logically, again,
no, I got to ax.
It's the only other way to doit.
So I'm going to start givingy'all some interesting guests on
here.
This will be the last time, andonly time, you do not hear me on
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here with another person orthree.
I mean two, because it's goingto normally be three, regardless
of the circumstances, what'sgoing on, this will be the last
time.
You all my listeners, followersyou can believe that I will not
shortchange y'all.
I feel like I'm shortchanging.
I talked to a couple of myfollowers.
They're like no man, we likehearing you.
It's cool for you to go rock ashow by yourself.
I felt like, nah, I'm lettingy'all down doing that, so this
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will be my last time doing it.
You know for sure, gotta getback out there on the trail.
I appreciate y'all, man, go tapin on all the platforms to get
the podcast.
Go tap in on YouTube, run themnumbers up.
Tap in on um iHeartRadio.
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And another thing the visuals.
I've been playing around withthe visuals because I got the
camera.
I just don't have a cameraman.
So I think I'm just going tohave to go ahead and invest in
paying a guy or a lady to comedo my cameraman, because I don't
want to set the camera up andy'all just see all of us.
I want to be able to switch it,you know like a switcher, so
you need a cameraman to be ableto do that.
You know what I'm saying, butwe're gonna bring that too,
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cause that's the number onething.
I said it about six times, it'strue.
That's the biggest feedback Iget back when y'all gonna put
the cameras on.
So that's that what I've beenvibing to bumping to.
You know what I'm saying Ilisten to a lot of more of the
underground rappers and y'alldone heard me say this again.
But yeah, his joint nice I'vebeen rocking with my dog, jay
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Worthy.
He got a new co-op made inTokyo.
It's nice time after time.
It's nice Also that new FuzerPluto mixtape I've been
rocking's.
Nice Also, that new Fuzer Plutomixtape.
I've been rocking that too.
So one of the two things I'vebeen locking up, jay Worthy, man
the Chop, that's my favoritesong when I join.
Go hard, nice little project.
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Man, jay Worthy, like I said,man, that's me Personally.
Busy Bees, meaning they workhard, like Currency Larry, june,
jay Worthy, west Side Gun, themguys that I rock with, artists
that put out a lot of music.
You know what I'm saying.
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They don't stray away from whatthey work, what works for them,
and they put out a lot of music.
Them the artists I rock withthe most, being honest, like I
love rocking with them artists.
That's how I like it coming.
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your boy, solo man.
We starting off in fall.
You know, fall just kicked in.
We fresh in the fall.
This is my favorite season.
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I'ma say that before.
I love fall man, I love fall allthe way around.
I like the foliage, you knowthe leaves.
I love that man.
The burgundy, the orange, thered, yellow, gold, all the
colors.
You know what I'm saying forthe leaves.
And I think Michigan got one ofthe most beautiful backdrops
you can have in the fall in theworld.
(00:42):
Um, I like the holidays, I likehalloween, I like thanksgiving,
you know even for like you cango on walks with your lady or
lady friend.
You know a lot of ladies don'tlike insects and stuff like that
.
So a lot of time, like in thesummertime and stuff, you can't
even go on walks like thatbecause they running and
swatting and all that.
But in the fall, you know Isaid a lot of the um, you know
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they go to.
I think it's calledoverwintering or something like
that.
I have to look it up for thecorrect term for it.
But the insects go inside thetrees, they go on the leaves,
they go underground and they,when a certain temperature comes
, they go into like stasis.
You know what I'm saying.
It's just chill.
So they out the way so you cango.
It ain't too cold, especiallybeginning of fall, middle of
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fall.
It ain't too cold.
You can go on a nice walk,chill.
And I feel like you can dressbetter In the summer.
I feel like you can't reallyget your dress on like you want
to, because you're going to gethot, you're going to sweat and
shit like that.
But Hoodies, nice jackets, youknow what I'm saying Like, yeah,
bombers, all that, you canreally get your dress on.
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You know what I'm saying?
I tell people all the timenothing like a good pair of
Timbs, wheat, butters, dependingon what region you in, what you
call them, put them joints onthem.
They're like, yeah, man, youcan put on your sweatsuits and
get comfortable.
You know, still be looking nice.
Yeah, fall, my know what I'msaying.
So my birthday coming up and Ihad a bunch of plans to do,
couldn't do them, y'all know.
As y'all know, I rushed throughmy Achilles, so your boy trying
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to heal back up.
I'm on the road to, you know,recovery.
I'm on that journey but I'm ina boot so I don't know.
I might figure something outfor my birthday.
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I'm saying but, um, I want toget into a topic, man, you know,
uh, I had I seen a quote andthe quote was you cannot have
logical conversations with womenand, with that being said, like
any other things we touch onand talk on, it's it's not be
all in all.
You know what I'm saying.
It's always going to beoutliers and exceptions to the
rules.
But I kind of felt where theguy who said this quote was
coming from.
And I done been in multiplerelationships marriage, you know
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all that and for the most partthat's true.
You know you can't tell a womannot to be in her emotions.
That's a comfortable place forwomen to be at.
They're raised and even bysociety to be conditioned to be
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in their emotions so they'remore comfortable there.
So that's a natural state.
When anything arises,especially anything with
adversity, they're going to gointo that emotions.
So by going into that emotions,you feel what I'm saying Like
logic goes out the door and thatalways was like a bumping point
(03:40):
with me talking to my lady.
You know in the past, any of myfemales, my exes and things
like that or you know womenperiod.
And there's some guys that Ihate to say it like this, but
there's some guys you can't talklogical with either.
You know what I'm saying andagain, this is not the be all
end all, but a lot of guysthat's been raised by a lot of
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women.
They have feminine energy.
They like to argue because theylead with their emotions.
You can't have a regularconversation.
Men can have real men.
When I say real men, this ain'tgot nothing to do with you
being a man, meaning your moralsand values line up, your
upbringing lines up with being aman.
Being a man don't really gotnothing to do with all other
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stuff people think Having a man,being having a bag, this, this,
having a car, this, all thatNone of that stuff really makes
you a man.
It's your morals and values,the essence of who you are, your
character.
So real men can logically talka situation out.
That's the honest truth.
You know what I'm saying.
Real men, you can honestly talk.
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You know you might have adisagreement, you can agree or
disagree, but you can come toterms.
I mean, like if you go back andyou know, you look back at the
crime families back in the dayLucky Luciano, all them cats,
you know, I'm saying the finecrime family, genovese and all
that If you go check them out,you know a lot of time they
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avoided big conflicts by havingsit downs, conversations, you
break bread and you talk out theproblem.
Could you use logic?
And the one thing about logicis it's like math, like I always
say.
Like you ask a person you know,especially females, but you ask
you know people in generalwhat's their least favorite
subject in school and the firstthing that come out is what they
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say math.
Well, why do they say math?
Well, I know why they say math.
They say math because math.
Again, that's logic.
Well, I know why they say math.
They say math because mathagain, that's logic.
There's only one answer, unlessyou're doing it with like
extraneous solutions and that'syou know.
But other than that's oneanswer, there's multiple ways
you can get to the answer, butthere's one answer.
It's not subjective.
You can't put emotions intodoing a math equation.
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You got to use that formula.
That's why people don't like it.
When it comes to writing, youcan write and write this way,
write that way, and it's stillsubjective.
One professor or one readermight feel like this is the
greatest work of all time.
Another person might feel likeit's trash.
But logic, logic is just thatyou know what I'm saying.
You're using facts, you'reusing your head, you're thinking
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in a way without emotions.
That's logic and I heardCharleston white talk about that
before too, and a lot of peopletalk about that.
Females get rid of her and I canunderstand.
You know rubs in the wrong way,things of that nature.
I could get it, but that's thetruth.
It's like logic and emotionsand when you think of logical,
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like a, the computer thinkslogical.
You know it's not usingemotions.
So when you're having aconversation with a lady, you
know what I'm saying.
The most time it's going to goshe's upset, or you know it's
might not be upset, she could beangry.
You know she's not baselinebehavior and all everything
she's saying to you.
She's going to listen torespond, not listen to
understand.
She's listening to respond andthat's in her emotions.
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Talking logic ain't going towork because she ain't trying to
hear that shit.
It's some females, man.
You can argue with logic andwhen they find out that you're
right.
They still not going to rollwith it.
They're still going to figureout a way not to take
accountability.
And that's where I think a lotof times females have a bad
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problem with that takingaccountability Because that's
logic, it's logical.
Again, you know the big A wordaccountability.
They don't want to takeaccountability because that's
logical.
You're taking accountabilityfor your actions, you're being
logical.
That ain't something they gonnawhirl with.
So, like the quote I heard inthe clip, it makes sense.
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Like when you with your lady man, you know you want to keep shit
down A lot of times, man, likeyou got to make your decision
without her input and just don'ttalk logical to her.
Man, hit her up when you wantto watch Netflix.
Like, and just don't talklogical to her man, hit her up
when you want to watch Netflix.
Like the guy said, you want towatch Netflix and get a laugh on
.
Or you're going to sit down andwatch one of her shows with her
, or some shit like that.
That's going to keep your shithappy.
When you start bringing logicinto it, you're going to bump
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heads with the average femaleevery time, even females.
I know females that went tocollege and took logic and
reasoning classes and they stilldon't think logically.
It's crazy.
You know what I'm saying?
Like it's wild.
I even bump heads with myco-hosts a lot on that, because
a lot of time that's what makeus work.
They ain't thinking logical,they thinking with emotions.
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And this is the crazy thingabout emotions.
You feel me Like anger neverlies Meaning.
When you get mad, you are mad.
Anger never lies Meaning.
When you get mad, you are mad.
You're not playing mad, you'remad, you pissed off.
You can't fake being mad.
You piss, you piss, but thatdon't mean you correct on that,
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it doesn't mean you mad and youget mad and you laugh, shout and
things of that nature.
But that's not logical.
You just in your emotions.
And I had to step away fromthat and figure that shit out
Cause that he used to piss meoff arguing with my woman and
I'm using nothing but logic.
I'm, I'm, I'm played by playingit.
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You know what I'm saying.
It's like we again using thatcomparison analogy.
It's like we using thatcomparison analogy, it's like
we're doing a big math problem.
And you know, I used to tellkids this when you're doing math
, when I was tutoring kids or atmy job helping kids out.
You know math.
You learn math vertically,meaning, like you know you have
blocks.
When you was a kid, if you madea tower, if you grab any block
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in between the top to the bottom, it'll fall.
Can't grab no blocks.
That's how you vertically learnmath and that's logical.
Now there's other stuff you canlearn horizontal or
latitude-wise meaning.
You can learn history.
You know.
You can know the 1300s, 1400s,1500s, 1600s.
Skip the 1700s, 1800s, no,1900s, 2000s, 2010s, 2020s and
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still be great at history.
You only missed two centuries.
You got all the other ones downpat.
Can't do math like that andthat's how logic is.
So I used to get mad.
I used to be so frustrated Likeman.
Like why are you making it sohard in this conversation,
knowing that I'm using factsstep by step, why, where you
went wrong or we went wrong, whyyou shouldn't have done this
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and did that, and it gets younowhere.
I remember I had you know thisis in my marriage.
Never forget we got into itright around my birthday.
We got into it.
You know what I'm saying.
So I didn't end up spending thebirthday with her.
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She made a rash move emotionallymove, rash move and she went
and moved in these luxuryapartments Okay, and for me it
was like I didn't want to movein another apartment again.
We had a department.
I didn't want to move, I wantedto buy a house and I was so
upset and it was like a bigsticking point for us in our
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relationship for a long time.
So I got over and realized likeI can't be mad at her, I got to
let it go because I'm not beinglogical.
Why would I be mad?
I know she's dealing with heremotions.
She's in her feelings.
Ladies deal in feelings andthat's why women, if you talk to
a woman, the number one thingshe's going to talk about
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especially talking about herexes, baby daddies, anything is
don't play in my face, don'tplay with my feelings.
That's what means the most tothem.
Feelings, not logical.
I mean I didn't even talk tofemales and broke shit down to
females Like this.
Shit seems like it's one plusone equals two.
You know, like my wife I toldher I said man, we're playing.
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At the time we moved into thisenvironment, it was like this.
I said man, we're playing.
At the time we moved into thisapartment it was like this years
ago they started off $1,350.
By the time we left out thatmotherfucker was $1,700 a month.
Now for y'all that live inbigger cities I'm talking about
in Flint.
Now if you're living in fuckingfour or five years ago, you're
living in, let's say, la or NewYork, yeah, that's probably a
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one, a one bedroom in the ghettosomewhere.
But, and at the time in Flint,michigan, like if you're paying
$1,500 a month for rent, thatwas insane.
Or in the Flint surroundingarea.
But I was like man, I just didthe math real quick.
I said man, in 10 months that's$15,000.
In a year that's 18 grand.
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That's 18 grand.
I could have been on the house.
You moved into these apartmentsand we got into it.
You got mad and you wanted toshow me that you can make moves
and do stuff without my input orsay so.
And you did it.
And then you know, we wentthrough our little squabbles and
we got back together and boom,I'm like well, now, this is not
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the plan I had.
The plan I had was logical.
You know, go drop 20 grand on ahouse for the down payment, 20,
20, 30 grand for the downpayment, and we'll keep going
from there.
But you know, and I was madabout it because I'm like no,
you didn't sign the lease, youdidn't give him the money you
got to pay to break the lease.
It's more money out of it.
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So I just stuck with theapartment for a minute and got
out of there.
But the thing was like again itwas that was her and her
emotions.
We had got into it.
She was upset, she felt likeshe was upset.
She felt like, you know, shewanted to show me that she can
handle stuff without me.
And I'm not saying she couldn'thandle stuff without me, it was
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just a point like you didn'thave to.
It's not thinking logical.
I don't talk to females aboutshit like this.
It's like the dumbest shit inthe world.
And again, this is emotional,not logical.
You go talk to a dude who'sknown to be ladies man, smooth,
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um, womanizer, all that shit,and then, when it should go the
way logically will go with you,you upset.
How?
Why are you mad?
What you upset about?
When you met the dude, you knewhe had options.
He had a bunch of options andyou figured out you know it
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didn't work.
And he cause he had options.
Well, you knew that from thejump.
You know what I'm saying andthat's not logically thinking
Now, if you hate to say that,say that phrase in line.
If you were bringing somethingto the table that separates you
from the pack, then yeah, thatmakes sense.
But you came in with the samething that the other females had
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Looks.
I guess you thought she saidshe gained with A1.
You dress nice, you put oneyelashes, you keep a nice wig
on.
You know, boom, you didn'tseparate yourself from his
options.
So, logically, what you thinkwas gonna happen, he was gonna
be loyal to you in your mind,meaning, like, just have sex
with you is crazy, like anothertopic that, um, I'm gonna touch
(15:23):
on deeper.
But it's another logical thingthat when a lady's on another
logical situation with womenthat just don't make sense, like
, oh, why would you thinkholding out sex is not going to
make a nigga cheat?
And then once he cheat, you'remad.
You was, you was using sex as aweapon or form to get back or
(15:44):
hurt him or get him in line.
And well, you just knew whatwas going.
Come next.
That's logic.
You know what I'm saying.
Like it don't be making senseto me, man.
A lot of time with ladies, Isaid, but once you get to a
mature step, state in mind andyou get more, even deep, and
logic and logically thinking,you realize, like, don't be mad,
that's them by nature.
There's no reason to get madabout that.
(16:06):
There's no reason to get upset,you know I, there's no reason
to get upset.
You know what I'm saying.
Like that's why when you ask awoman, hey, what do you want to
eat, they don't know Because,logically, they're not using
logic In their mind.
It's I want you to pick, but Idon't want you to pick.
You know what I'm saying.
Like there's no logic there,there's none.
(16:28):
They don't use logic, man, it's.
It's, it's wild.
Like I done had someconversations where females get
so fucking mad at me about stuff.
Using logical thinking, they'dbe like man, it's crazy, like
you.
Just if you look at comments oncertain reels and posts
throughout social media you lookat females coming you can tell
(16:50):
there's no logic there, there'snone.
Like I done heard a female saythis before and some of the
stuff I'm talking about.
We didn't touch on the otherepisode.
But again, logically thinking,you get upset because guys are
gawking at you in the gym butyou got on nothing but skin
tight clothing.
Where was the logic at you?
(17:14):
Think they wasn't going to belooking at you.
If I come in there,motherfucker, with tight zone,
like I'm about to go do a WWF umprep review females going to
look at me.
So there's going to be somesome guys.
That's the only other waythey're going to look at me.
Should I get mad?
No, I set myself up for that.
Hire a female.
I could dress.
I mean, I remember talking toone female.
(17:34):
She taught me some of thedumbest shit.
I can walk down the street, butnaked.
Shouldn't nobody be looking atme, making me feel uncomfortable
?
Where is the logic?
You don't Stupid?
I remember talking to femalesabout like and this is a real
sensitive subject.
You know what I'm saying, but Ilove talking about shit that's
(17:57):
sensitive.
You know what I'm saying.
I like talking about that shit.
That's me.
But like, when I'm saying logic, when I'm using logic this is
what I mean by using logic.
Talked to a female once in atime about rape and she got
upset about me because she gotput in a position where, you
know, she ended up getting rapedand I wasn't insensitive to her
being raped.
(18:17):
I was telling her what did youthink?
You went over with your friend,while she's going to get her
back blown out.
You know it's another guy there.
So if you want to instill restin that other guy, why would you
go?
You know what's on his mind.
This is logic in here.
So why even go?
Baby girl, you go out byyourself.
(18:37):
I'm not going.
Why would you go?
That doesn't make sense.
It's not logical.
I'm not saying it's right thatyou got right.
I'm saying where's youraccountability at?
Why did you go?
That's not logically thinking.
I'm not about to go under ahornet's nest and get the plant
around under the hornet's nestand then sting the shit out of
me.
Then I'm playing victim.
No, it's not logical thinkingLike the PDD situation you know
(19:08):
we had touched on that when thatshit first happened with Cassie
.
But like I see a lot of people,I seen some what they call them
IG models.
I seen some IG models gettingmad about that Like it was crazy
.
I seen some IG models gettingmad about the situation with
Diddy and I'm like I seen it onthe shade room.
I was going through thecomments.
I'm looking like yeah, I knowwhy you mad.
You're an IG model, you waschasing fame and you probably
(19:29):
been in one of them predicamentswith Diddy or some other type
of entertainer or personal power, and you feeling like, no, it
shouldn't happen like that.
But again, logically, if I'mover some man with power, I'm
over his house, his mansion orhis yacht, and it's one o'clock
(19:50):
2 am.
What do you think he's lookingfor?
If you're not going to work offyour talent alone, alone off
your talent and that's a longerroad then you got to compromise
yourself.
And ain't that the man abusinghis power?
He's not.
You're abusing your will, yourfree will, because you're
putting yourself in acompromising position.
(20:10):
Let your talent speak for you.
Don't sit up in there and getput in a position and then play
victim.
That's not logical.
You know what I'm saying?
There's nothing logical aboutthat, and that's females.
Kill me with just the logic,logical thinking man.
That's why females ain't goodwith money a lot Because they
(20:35):
not thinking logically.
I done talked to females beforeand me and my homies having
conversations about stuff, andit was like prime example,
female will go pay all her billsand feel like the rest of her
money is just blow it onnonsense.
Going to get a dumb ass bag shedidn't need, going to get some
(20:59):
hills she didn't need, and thenbe upset that she doesn't have
any money.
What did you need that for you?
Just what they call therapyshopping or something like that.
Like that's not logical.
If you don't have the money totherapy shop, you shouldn't be
therapy shopping.
You know, like even with the,we done touched on the 50-50
(21:21):
thing before.
Here's logic.
If I'm paying all the bills, youdon't have no say so.
What say so do you have?
If I'm paying all the bills,you don't have no say so.
What say so do you have?
Do your kids have say so inyour house?
I ask any single mom this Doyour kids have say so?
And be honest, don't lie.
(21:43):
Do your kids have any say so inyour house?
No, they can put their input in, but it don't hold no weight
because at the end of the day,the first thing you tell them is
I'm paying the bill, which iscorrect.
If I'm paying all the bills, youdon't have no say so.
You are now a grown kid, that'sit.
You know you don't have no sayso.
So stay in your place, Be quiet.
This is what you wanted.
You wanted the soft girl life,or to be what they call a
(22:05):
well-kept woman, cool.
Well, you can't get all thepros and none of the cons you
know.
Sit down, be quiet, keep yourmouth closed.
You're a trophy wife.
See what you do.
You don't do nothing else.
You got to keep your mouthclosed.
There's nothing else for you todo.
You know, that's it.
You make sure house clean.
I'm fed and I'm fed and I'mfucked.
(22:26):
Because there's three F's inlife Fucking, feeding and
financing.
I'm doing the financing, thebiggest F.
You gotta do the other two F'sFucking and feeding, and that's
it.
And even with the fucking fee,now I'm buying the groceries and
I'm fucking your bet.
So I'm doing all the Fs.
You're doing really two.
(22:47):
So that's logic.
Now, when you go 50-50, you gotto say so because it's half and
half.
You have to say so.
Again, women don't think withlogic.
A woman think well, I should beable to come in this
motherfucker, you bust your ass,you work, I can argue, I can
debate, I can fuss, I can dowhatever I want to do, even
(23:07):
though I'm not bringing a lickof finance to this motherfucker.
Because and I said this beforelike logically thinking With
women who don't think logic, inthat situation, in that point it
don't make sense because whatyou got to offer I can go pay
for them.
Services I can pay for somebodyto fuck me.
(23:29):
I can pay for somebody to fixme a meal.
Restaurants I can even pay forsomebody to clean my house, to
have cleaning services.
There's no fucking serviceswhere that's going to take care
of you.
There's none.
I mean, I guess you can go withlike welfare, but even then you
still need a dude to get onwelfare.
You got to get pregnant, sowhat you're asking for a dude to
(23:53):
do financially, that'ssomething that that services
doesn't exist.
There's no service that's goingto take care of you for free.
There's none.
So everything you want a man todo, he can go find that another
woman or he can go find it in aservice that's provided
Logically thinking.
You know what I'm saying, it'sjust logical.
(24:14):
You know what I'm saying, man,I got so many examples of just
like I said, my pastrelationship kicking it,
listening to my homeboys.
It's crazy.
Like get another one Vacation.
I remember talking to one of mydogs about this in the vacation
and you know we was talkingabout females and shit like that
.
Why would I take you on avacation, logically speaking?
(24:34):
Why would I take you on avacation where I'm going to have
to foot the whole bill and allyou want to come to this
motherfucker do is lay down andeat, sit.
You want to go to a bunch ofrestaurants, you know.
Get your clothes on, lookpretty, go to a bunch of
restaurants occasionally, shop alittle bit and lay down.
You could did that shit here.
(24:57):
That's not why I took you onvacation.
It's not we bought the sightsee.
I need you to be fun.
I need you know I have a goodtime.
I'm not.
You know.
That's logically thinking,though why would I put the bill
to do some shit that we can doat home?
You know like that's logicallythinking.
You know what I'm saying.
(25:17):
I done heard like I done heard afemale say a man should put me
in my place.
Why am I putting you in yourplace?
That's not logically thinking.
Why are you doing thatemotional, dumb shit in the
first place?
It's crazy and like the guy wassaying, like when you, the
woman never looks stupid arguingwith a man, but the man looks
stupid arguing with a womanbecause you know to another man
(25:37):
you're going to be like dog.
You knew you shouldn't havebeen doing that because you're
not thinking logically.
Ah, man, let her have it.
You know what I'm saying.
That's it.
And I say this like and I heardladies get mad at me my co-host
said like you know, said likeGod is gay.
No, if I want to have a logicalconversation, I'm going to go
talk to my dog, not talking toyou.
(26:00):
You're not about to come from alogical standpoint, you come
from your emotions.
You're not even going to giveme good advice.
Your advice is going to be onlogic is again on facts.
Facts remain facts.
Emotions are temporary.
Facts are forever.
So you're giving me advicethat's temporary, temporary
(26:25):
advice.
How is that temporary advicegoing to help me in the long
term when it's just temporary?
You're feeling a certain way atthis moment.
You're not going to be feelinglike that all the time.
Nah, give me some logic.
I need facts.
That's the foundation and youknow, that's the biggest thing.
Even when I think about all thethings, for the most part that
(26:49):
didn't go my way or I didn'texecute the way I wanted to,
because I took logic out of it,everything, it ain't an incident
I can think of for real that Igot the short end of the stick
that I use logic with.
And again, a lot of times,logic is cold.
(27:10):
It's cold because, again, ain'tno emotion in there.
So ain't no, I'm going tosmooth you over.
I'm going to butter you up.
I'm going you know what I'msaying, I'm going to sugar you
up.
No, it's straight.
What it is.
Logic is code, and women like tobe swooned.
That's why I said, man, insteadof just asking a woman
(27:33):
something from a logicalstandpoint, man, like the dog
said in a little real life sceneit's the truth, man, just fuck
that.
Don't do that with a woman.
Hey, man, let's go.
Hey, bae, let me rub your feet.
Let's go watch Netflix.
Go watch your favorite show.
You want to go get something toeat.
Long as you're doing that,she's going to be cool.
She'll never get out of pocket.
(27:53):
You get to talking to her aboutsome real logical shit.
It.
You might as well do that shitand don't even have a
conversation with her when itcomes to finances.
She's not going to be there foryou for finances.
For the most part, she's notgoing to understand it.
Get you a financial advisor.
That's why I talk to you withlogic.
(28:15):
I done dated women that had touse logic at their job.
As soon as we got to the crib,the logic went out the window I
had a man, one of my BMs.
Man, I ain't lying to you, man,she can't show how to fucking
told me she don't give a fuckabout shit else but her feelings
.
I said, man, that's crazy tothink like this.
But you know, I was honest,though I don't give a fuck about
(28:37):
shit else but my feelings.
Which was, like to me, absurd,crazy, what?
Yeah, man.
So, like you know, logic versusemotions, that's where it's
going to come from.
The Venus versus Mars.
If that's my best advice I cangive to you know, men out there,
hey, man, don't argue, becauseyou arguing with logic, it ain't
(28:59):
going to work.
You always going to look bad,it's not going to get nowhere.
She's not going to listen tothe logical shit you're saying
and if she do listen, that's newhappens, do list is going to be
down the line.
So, unless you got patience tosee the seed turn into a
motherfucking oak tree, you knowhow long it take a
motherfucking seed turn to oaktree, right, if patience to see
that, that's a lot of times howthey're going to come back
(29:19):
around and say it might be threemonths, it might be three years
, y'all might have been moved on, y'all in different
relationships.
Nah, she's like yeah, he wasright, is that benefiting you?
Nah, you can say it'sbenefiting her and you always
got love for her, or somethinglike that.
That's cool too.
But yeah, man like man, I'mjust being honest.
And for ladies, like I'm tellingyou, if you start using logic a
(29:42):
little bit more, I swear yourrelationships go better or you
won't even be in a relationshipat all.
You will see that this ain'twhere you need to be rocking at.
You know what I'm saying.
Like, you'll figure that out.
You'll know this ain't where Ineed to be rocking at.
You know, because you're usingyour logic.
Again, you can look at it.
You might not be.
You might be talking to a guyand a guy is say you're talking
(30:04):
to a guy and a guy is a guy onthe move all the time.
Well, you're not on the move,type female.
Logically, why would you evengo get in a relationship with
that guy?
Doesn't make sense.
Say, you're talking to a guythat's very sexual and you're
just not a very you know sexualoriented person.
You don't have sexual energy onhigh.
(30:24):
Why would you go talk to a guythat got that?
Because soon as you slow downon your sexual energy, you're
not going to be fulfilling theguy.
No more.
Be logical, you know, andthat's the truth.
Man, you know what I'm saying.
I'm going to end it because Iwas going to keep this episode
short, because it was just merocking with it.
Yeah, man, that's the realissue with relationships, one of
(30:47):
the big points of relationshipsnot working Not enough logic in
it.
Feelings switch, feelings flee.
They're not permanent, they'renot long term, they're very
short term.
I don't know nothing too muchshorter than the feelings.
You know what I'm saying.
That's the truth.
I don't know nothing too muchshorter than feelings.
(31:07):
They are tense.
I love using analogies.
Some people love my analogy,some people don't, but I'm going
to end it with this.
This is a great analogy I canuse with this.
This is a great, great, greatanalogy I can use with this.
This is a great, great, greatanalogy I can use with this.
Real good, this is the analogy.
Feelings are like crack.
(31:29):
Anybody who done crack or knowanything about crack, been in
any of them A's you will notice.
The daily thing about crack isit's a tense high, but it's only
for a short period of time.
It's a tense, a tense high, butit's only for a short period of
time.
That's what emotions are.
They're very intense, but thememotions are only for a short
(31:53):
period of time.
They flee.
And when you make a lot ofdecisions on your emotions,
you're going to end up on theshort end of the stick.
You're going to make a lot ofbad decisions.
This is how it go.
You got to use more logic.
You got to use more logic.
You know what I'm saying.
That's the thing and this isadvice I use.
You got to use logic becausewhen you use logic, you can see
(32:13):
things.
You can see it.
You can see it before ithappens.
You know, being in youremotions is going to keep you in
long friendships, keep you inlong business ventures, keep you
long marriages, because you'rein your feelings.
Logically, if you look at itlike I posted Ben left.
I posted Ben into this.
I posted Ben moved around themlogics.
(32:34):
You know what I'm saying.
Them logics.
You know I put this post up onmy Snapchat about four days ago.
Capitalism doesn't go togetherwith morality.
That's logic.
I can't get mad at thisbusinessman for his business
practice because he's not usingemotions in his business
(32:57):
practice.
He's using logic.
If I know how I can get intothis demographic and I can trick
this demographic into doingthis.
I'm going to do it.
That's business.
It's cold and hard, but that'sthe truth.
Just touched on it real quick.
Glad y'all been rocking with me,man, for this long, going
almost on two years.
I appreciate it so much.
I said this before, but this ishonest truth.
(33:18):
I haven't been on a trail likeI need to be on because I have
an issue with axing people.
I'm not going to lie.
That's my only flaw I ever hadwith doing a podcast.
I don't like axing.
Axing to me equates likebegging, but logically, again,
no, I got to ax.
It's the only other way to doit.
So I'm going to start givingy'all some interesting guests on
here.
This will be the last time, andonly time, you do not hear me on
(33:41):
here with another person orthree.
I mean two, because it's goingto normally be three, regardless
of the circumstances, what'sgoing on, this will be the last
time.
You all my listeners, followersyou can believe that I will not
shortchange y'all.
I feel like I'm shortchanging.
I talked to a couple of myfollowers.
They're like no man, we likehearing you.
It's cool for you to go rock ashow by yourself.
I felt like, nah, I'm lettingy'all down doing that, so this
(34:02):
will be my last time doing it.
You know for sure, gotta getback out there on the trail.
I appreciate y'all, man, go tapin on all the platforms to get
the podcast.
Go tap in on YouTube, run themnumbers up.
Tap in on um iHeartRadio.
Tap in on Apple Music ApplePodcast type in on Amazon Music,
spotify, everywhere you can goget the podcast at Check it out.
(34:25):
And another thing the visuals.
I've been playing around withthe visuals because I got the
camera.
I just don't have a cameraman.
So I think I'm just going tohave to go ahead and invest in
paying a guy or a lady to comedo my cameraman, because I don't
want to set the camera up andy'all just see all of us.
I want to be able to switch it,you know like a switcher, so
you need a cameraman to be ableto do that.
You know what I'm saying, butwe're gonna bring that too,
(34:46):
cause that's the number onething.
I said it about six times, it'strue.
That's the biggest feedback Iget back when y'all gonna put
the cameras on.
So that's that what I've beenvibing to bumping to.
You know what I'm saying Ilisten to a lot of more of the
underground rappers and y'alldone heard me say this again.
But yeah, his joint nice I'vebeen rocking with my dog, jay
(35:09):
Worthy.
He got a new co-op made inTokyo.
It's nice time after time.
It's nice Also that new FuzerPluto mixtape I've been
rocking's.
Nice Also, that new Fuzer Plutomixtape.
I've been rocking that too.
So one of the two things I'vebeen locking up, jay Worthy, man
the Chop, that's my favoritesong when I join.
Go hard, nice little project.
(35:30):
Man, jay Worthy, like I said,man, that's me Personally.
Busy Bees, meaning they workhard, like Currency Larry, june,
jay Worthy, west Side Gun, themguys that I rock with, artists
that put out a lot of music.
You know what I'm saying.
(35:51):
They don't stray away from whatthey work, what works for them,
and they put out a lot of music.
Them the artists I rock withthe most, being honest, like I
love rocking with them artists.
That's how I like it coming.
So that's it.
So again, man, you catch me onall social medias Bobby Frost
Media on all social medias.
Catch me everywhere and on IG.
(36:16):
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You know, tap in, oh yeah formy game.
Heads out there, man.
Yeah, two things RobertDye810,I'll.
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