"Matching People's Energy: Navigating Negative and Positive Vibes in Relationships,"

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Bobby Frost (00:00):
Yo yo yo, it's your boy, bobby Frost.
And Bobby Frost Media PresentsTri-Parency.
I'm with the beautiful ladyJust Misty.

Jus Mystie (00:06):
Oh, you so used to saying lady, I did.
I said lady, it's ladies.
I caught myself, yeah.

And I'm not gonna start over, we're gonna stick
with that.

Jus Mystie (00:13):
Okay cool, hey y'all , hey.
Oh, I just wanted to say againthat I know we have been doing
this for over a year now.
Every time you say Bobby Mediapresents, I just, I, just I feel
like you over us Is.
You are a pimp.

No, Sad, sad, no Cause I need to be pimpin' right
now.
What do that?

Jus Mystie (00:35):
sound like to y'all Bobby Frost Media presents, and
I'm with the beautiful ladies.
Do you be telling people yousell us?
No, did you promise I need.

Do you promise?
Because I think so.
I promise I be telling peopleyou sell us, no did you promise
I need.
I need you promise because Ithink I promise I need some pros
, because now that I'm down andI can't work I need some pros.

Jus Mystie (00:49):
Pros probably help out a lot at this point.
So do you got somebody thatwant to buy some pussy from me
because I'll sell something foryou this one time at least
that's the best.

That's the best product on the market always.

Jus Mystie (00:59):
And seeing you threw my jeeters away and look what
I'm willing to do for you, andseeing you threw my Jeter's away
and look what I'm willing to dofor you, that's insane.
Listen this friendship is not50-50.

And I didn't even and this is the thing I didn't
even throw the Jeter's away andI still, lightweight, reimbursed
her because I gave it to herfor the Jeter's.
And I did it out the bottom ofmy heart and she made it seem.

Jus Mystie (01:19):
That's the last time I'll bring up the Jeter's and
Courtney Lynn.
It's been a year Right.

Courtney Lynn (01:27):
I don't feel so pretty.
Why not, girl, the fuckingfacial Face peeling and shit?
The seasons changing, it's hotand muggy as fuck out here, like
I'm aggravated.

You know what's funny about that?
She said that I done talked toa lot of females in the past and
Niggas don't notice that shit,don't notice what, like what she
said.
Like I've been looking at herthe whole time, I didn't see
none of that.

I mean like up in here, like it'll start peeling,
it'll get real dry.

Jus Mystie (01:52):
That's cause y'all be Y'all be focused on.
Like not, not what y'allsupposed To be focused on anyway
, it's just like our lips beingashy or nothing.
I have literally been fucking.

Y'all would take a picture and post us with a
fucking slime on the side of ourmouth or some shit.
Y'all don't give a fuck.

Jus Mystie (02:07):
I've been talking to somebody before and then got
back in the car to make a TikTokor a video and was thinking
like now, why in the fuck didn'the say my lips was this dry?
Because he don't give a fuck.

No, because you don lashes d-type.
I mean, of course you ain'tgonna know, you ain't gonna know
the types of the lashes, but Ibet you know when I take these
bitches off.

Jus Mystie (02:29):
No, I ain't got no attention to them.

I'm gonna crack a joke because I know that get on
her female skin, but I don'tgive a fuck about them.
Caterpillar okay.

Jus Mystie (02:36):
So this is what made me know that it was for real
and niggas be just lying.
Y'all know that my maintenanceman one of them is from cuba and
the other one is from mexico.
I'm talking about straightmexicans.
You hear me in cuba and theydamn near I can't understand
what they're saying.
Every fucking time I come towork with no lashes on alejandro
be like misty.
What's wrong?

(02:56):
Nothing.
You keep asking me that shit,nothing.

And guess what, when I say I don't got no lashes
on alejandro, he'd be likeright right yes, so you can't
tell me why he's doing that,though I bet the first time he
probably seen you yeah so nowhe's looking like you do look
different.

Jus Mystie (03:14):
Okay, when I see you on the regular without lashes I
don't care, okay, but see,that's what my niggas do.
It too, though not now.
I didn't have homeboys.
They'd be like you don't needthem.
And then I go pull up on orsomething and I ain't got none
on, and they be like damn, likewhat's wrong.
And I'm thinking like what doyou mean?
Because he custom to see withhim.

He don't give a fuck about it.
He just again.
If I see you too many times,I'll ask is it gonna be like
damn, what is misty goingthrough something?
Because I don't catch you likethat all the time, so it's just
natural.
It's's like a prime example youfucking with a nigga that got
dreads and he keep his shitlined up, or keep his shit
twisted, and his shit ain't likethat.
You like what's going on.
Or a nigga with a haircut youlike Nigga ain't cut his hair in
months.

Jus Mystie (03:51):
Yeah, you like what's wrong.

Yeah, that's it, so I get it.
That's how I go pretty.

No, yeah, I just need a facial new hairdo.
That's it.
She just got her hair braiding.
I need some more.
But um shit, I'm, I'm just herethat's it.

She be killing with them braids.
I I told her uh, she postedabout a week ago something like
that.
I told her she be killing withthem braids.

Jus Mystie (04:17):
I sent her a hairstyle too, with some braids.
I wanted they like.

They was like some big twist things that was
I'm like, yeah, that's probablymy next, my next ones.
I like anything quick and big.
That was real.

Jus Mystie (04:25):
Yeah, I like her with the braids too.
I years and years and years ago.
She had cut her hair one timelike she never been a friend
which none of my friends haveshort hair but me.
But courtney did it at onepoint.
You did the holly berry man, itwas because she had a little
bit, it was so cute like that?

it wasn't.
It's like a bob, like a shortbob, I don't know.

Did you like the chick From?

Jus Mystie (04:44):
Incredibles.
She looked like Kelly.
Yeah, it was giving Kelly OkayRolling.

Yeah, but I I've been chilling, I've been healing
, I've been, yeah, just chillingand healing, that's it.

Jus Mystie (04:57):
Not spiritual healing.
Healing because I whooped herass the other day and she got
stitches.
It was bad.

I got surgery.
I'm fucking healing and yeah,this shit Nah, I'll never again
If this hernia grow back, Iain't getting this shit took out
.

Jus Mystie (05:13):
You just gonna rock it out.
I'll rock this shit out.
My dad had it and his didn'tgrow back, but they do say it's
possible.

Yeah, terry, mama's grow back.

Jus Mystie (05:20):
I be feeling like, if it grow back, it was meant to
be there.
Lord, fuck that surgery.

I ain't going up under the knife again.
Then you got a robot doing it,so this robot been under my skin
telling me to fuck up.
They don't do it.

Jus Mystie (05:31):
That's scary.
Now to think about theprogression of surgery and all
of that shit.
Now it's like I know thatrobots could possibly be more
precise, but what if thatmotherfucker, what if the power
shut off in the middle of mysurgery, but a robot don't have
the sense of.

Care.

Yeah, care, yeah, that's what I'm saying Like
guess what though?

Jus Mystie (05:48):
Now that's going to be a topic we have to talk about
, because do you want precisionprecise, or do you want a
motherfucker to care?

You want both.

Jus Mystie (05:55):
Like, just because you care, don't mean you're
going to do it right, you'regoing to do what the fuck it's
programmed to do yeah, you wantboth.

It keeps doing it .

You kind of want both.

Jus Mystie (06:05):
Can y'all put a heart in the robot?
Does it have a heart?
Y'all heard the Tin man wanteda heart.

Because I might as well get into what I'm doing,
because this can piggyback offCourtney, because I'm healing up
and I can see the one when itwas a couple of doctors and they
shot me so many motherfuckingtime in different spots in my
leg before they did the surgery.

So did you have to get the beta blocker.
It's called a blocker.

Uh-huh, what's that ?
Block your nerves.

It's another thing to put you the fuck out
before they, oh, okay.

And he talked to me about it because I'm like damn,
he like yeah, we gonna wait, wecould do it now.
We gonna make sure you all theway there.
And see a robot probably gonnabe like.

I gave him four.

By the rule of thumb, this motherfucker
supposed to kick in in 15minutes, let's get this bitch
rocking in 15 minutes, buteverybody different.
So you know that's the Karenthing like that, but that's all
I've been doing.
So when that surgery kicked myass, man, I had to get pins in
my bottom of my heel bone toreattach my Achilles tendon.
I had the worst type ofAchilles tendon tear you can
have and I just really got outof like a real depressed spot.

Jus Mystie (07:09):
If you felt like somebody hit you in the back
with a basketball when it popped, I'm very sure it was the worst
type.

No, that's how any Achilles sit.
Feel Anybody tell you that AnyAchilles, that's how you know
it's Achilles.
It feel like somebody hit you.
You're going to look behind youlike what happened.

Jus Mystie (07:23):
I know that that shit got to hurt.
Have you ever hit the back ofthat motherfucker on the bed?

Baby will fuck you up for the whole day, okay.

Jus Mystie (07:30):
You bitch.
It's a funny feeling, man, thatshit hurt right back there.

That's a funny feeling and I just I got out of
the press Because if I ain'tkicked in Like nigga, You're not
about to be walking.

Jus Mystie (07:44):
Why you ain't tell us you was depressed?
We would've came and visitedyou.

Because for me Telling somebody I'm depressed,
for me I be feeling like Damn,I'm bringing that little Dark
cloud around.

You don't even have to say you depressed.
You could've just said Y'allcome over.

Jus Mystie (08:00):
Y'all know I ain't doing to.

You want me to bring something, you want me to
come over.
We want to be no burden.
So you that?
Friend, we gotta just pop up on, but we can't pop up on.

Jus Mystie (08:12):
She know who the fuck we is.
We been doing this podcast fora year and a half.

And that was the thing.
When you have a major injury Towhere you can't, you're not
mobile.
No more, that's the shit reallyfucks with you.
Damn I gotta piss.
When you have a major injury towhere you can't, you're not
mobile, no more, you're immobile.
That's the shit really fuckswith you.
Like damn I gotta piss.
I gotta really work hard asfuck to get to the bathroom,
then work hard as fuck to standup or sit down or don't.

Let you get comfortable and you gotta pee
yeah, that's how it happens itcan definitely get you get up
off this, which is why peoplethat have surgeries like that.

Jus Mystie (08:42):
Like that's usually why they get addicted to the
pain medicines, because it'd bea mixture of depression and
everything.
I was really young when I toremy ACL and I'm happy I didn't
tear it older, but it was verydepressing having to wait for
Rodney and Aaron to get inbetween classes to literally
come help me, go to the bathroomand like I'm sitting here
waiting.
No, it wasn't just them two,but then was my, then my
brothers was helping me, but itis depressing like being on

(09:04):
crutches period.
It's fucking depressing likenormal shit, like I can't still
lift up anything over five toten pounds that's why I always
be saying you know, when myspaceand facebook first came out,
they would put them things upright.
They'd be like you could take apill for perfect health or get
a million dollars a month.
I never thought of the perfecthealth pill, do you hear me?
It was never an option.
But now that I've, now that I'molder bitch, if I could be

(09:25):
perfectly healthy my whole lifeand never get any, I'm picking
that pill because I don't likebeing sick, I don't like being
injured, I don't like y'allbeing injured.
I'm on the team with the injuryreserve both of y'all fucked up
like today, like that's.

You know.
I was depressed about that.
It was my first time drinking.
Yesterday I hadn't drunk insince I hurt myself.

Jus Mystie (09:44):
Clap clap, clap, clap, clap, Because he was going
hard for a minute.
Y'all Proud of you, yeah.

I drank last night because it was like damn, I
really wanted to go to thetailgate.
I ain't missed the tailgate.
Shout out to Northwestern.
I got to get another clapbecause it was a tailgate.

Jus Mystie (09:57):
It was a tailgate today it was.

I mean, I know it , but I didn't know, yeah,
today's the North Westerntailgate.

Oh, today, not yesterday.
And what I always say About ourtailgate Is the truth there's
never been no issues there.

Jus Mystie (10:09):
No, and I and you know, when it comes to that's
always been A flint conversation, right.
Everybody always be mad and I'ma beat your Bucks to the death.

But y'all definitely.

Jus Mystie (10:19):
Didn't start it, though, was the first to do that
on the yard, like how they dothe all-class reunion.
I think Northwestern was thefirst to do it.
The tailgate shit.
I liked that.

And one thing about Northwestern tailgate, the
reason I tell people, even withthem, young niggas that be out
here with the pooch ices andshit on, they don't do shit
because they grannies greataunties everybody be there.
So you have to conduct yourself, you so you have to conduct
yourself.
You know what I'm saying andeverybody usually leave out at
the same time.

Jus Mystie (10:44):
Well, I don't know about this year, because these
motherfuckers right now don'tgive a fuck.
If they mama there, they daddythere.

I say even the Rylas and niggas, like when they
see certain family membersthey're going to see that.
They know I got to be on my,what you call it, so I catch you
nigga on this Listen.

Jus Mystie (10:59):
That's crazy because I really don't know now.
A couple years ago I reallyfelt like that and now I don't
know the only reason why I saidthat, man?

because I had to go check on a little homie at
beecher.
This is like about a month anda half ago.
I had to go check on a littlehomie at beecher and um, I
popped out and it was like 36cars.
They was in his business afterflint graduation a little bit,
you know that day and I got out.
I got out with my gun.
I looked around.
I said hey, let me put thisbitch back in it.
One of these little niggasmight see this bitch bulging or
something.

(11:25):
Man and it was crazy and I seenlike three kids that was from
the center.
They came up mr will, what youdoing up here?
Mr will, what you doing up here?
I'm like, and I say theychanged how they was.
You know, I could see how theywas walking up and when they
seen it was me whole posturechange.
And I always tell people I canfuck how crazy and bad the kid,
it's always gonna be somebody intheir life that they see I'm
gonna straighten up for thisperson.

(11:46):
Now it might not be a multipleone, because a good kid gonna do
it for any grown-up they see,but it's always one person in
the family.

Jus Mystie (11:52):
It could be a granny , great auntie, mama, older
brother, somebody that I gottastraighten up for I believe in
general, like for real, forreally it is always one person
though I didn't even been arounda little situation where I'm
thinking I didn't ask my sonlike what the fuck was this
going on?
And then, like the next day hewas like I ain't gonna say the
little boy name, but the nextday he like he said he was finna
fire on him, but you was rightthere, so they didn't want to

(12:13):
start.
No, you know, I'm like OK, butthese motherfucking kids are
something different.

That's why I love the Northwest.
It's always love that bitch berocking.
You have him up in classes From1971, all the way up to the
last class.
Everybody be there.
So, like I said, you see him upOn grandmama, mama.

Jus Mystie (12:30):
I think you just like it, cause that's your
school, cause I like beacherstoo.

No, it's just not.
Just not school, because I doneseen northern, I done went to
northern Before and they you gotfights and shit.

Going on or Northwesterns or whatever.
Like Beecher, I'm from Beecher,but I'm not from Beecher.
I don't fuck with nobody when Igo to the tailgates.
It's like I don't even havenobody comfortably like to go
sit around or be.
It's just like I'm an outcastwhen I'm there.

Jus Mystie (12:55):
At Beecher's?
Yeah, I don't fuck with nobody.

Like I could say hi to certain people.
I'm not finna chill with theyfamily.
I'm not finna chill with theyfamily.
I'm not finna sit, chit-chat,dance, nothing, it's like let's
wrap this shit up Like Iliterally don't.

Jus Mystie (13:08):
And I fuck with all of them just because I play
basketball.
So I know somebody from eachand all of them, like I know.

but like being comfortable, like my aunt is
from Northern.
So usually when I go toNorthern like my aunt and all
her kids, they from Northern.
Like my aunt and all her kids,they from Northern, so they be
having like tents.

Jus Mystie (13:23):
Their little tent sucks and they all up there.

And then her husband.
He from Northwestern, so theyhad eight tents and all that
different type of shit there.
So it's like I always went toNorthwestern's because, like,
that's like home.

Jus Mystie (13:35):
I think that one year that everybody like it was
the all-class reunion justperiod and everybody had theirs
in different spots, had theirsin different spots, like where
they.
I think that first year theydid it.
That was the best fucking one.
Baby, I was riding fromnortherns to northwesterns back
to beechers what central y'allchatty because I had whoever
central had one yeah, they had acouple I had never been to.

I think I always had something to do they have
more older people there attheirs.

That's what I noticed.
Central is just central hasalways been.

Jus Mystie (14:03):
that's crazy, because that's the school that
has always been Central, like itwas Central.

Like what happened to Southwestern.

Jus Mystie (14:09):
Southwestern was the bougie kids.

They probably had that shit inside of a building.
I remember one time they had itat like Ballinger Park or some
shit like that.

Jus Mystie (14:17):
Southwestern was bougie people like I said Fuck
them Southwestern Knights.
We knew y'all was chatty.

Yep, they was the Knights.

Jus Mystie (14:25):
They was chatty.
Yeah, I always said that I mean, y'all was chatty too.
Wildcats no for us andeverybody.
What the fuck is a Wildcat?
What type of Wildcat is?
You ain't no Bobcat, you ain'tno lion.
You a fucking Wildcat.
No, you just a mixed breed asswildcat.
I'm out here.

Damn.
Letting him know I'm out here.

Jus Mystie (14:47):
Ain't got no buck pride you ain't got.

You ain't no Viking , you just a fucking wildcat, we
out here, you gonna know whatyou gonna get.
That's the thing.
That's crazy.

Jus Mystie (14:56):
Cause mascots really matter.
My son knew school where he atI fucking cobra.
He was like oh, I said that'schatty, I don't want you to be a
cobra why not.

We switch in school , not just because that's chatty
man.
I'm wrong with a cobra, nomascot.
Some mascots be cool.
Then some mascots be like trash, like what is that?
Millendon, I think they mascotis like an atom, it's a chemical
.

Jus Mystie (15:20):
I'm not adam, but uh not I know what you're talking
about a little atom.
Yeah, that's chat.
How can I dress up?
How can I dress up as an atomicbomb?
Adam, I'm whatever.

I know exactly what you're talking about.
You're supposed to a mascot's.
Supposed to be like the hypeman.

Jus Mystie (15:35):
How do I got a snake mascot costume?

That's a snake.
Yep, that sucks Okay.
So what you been on Miss?

Jus Mystie (15:42):
Nothing.
I so what you been on, missNothing.
I'm getting prepared for mytest y'all.
I decided this time that I'mnot going to tell nobody when
I'm taking the test, or nothing.
I scheduled it.
I'm not going to tell nobodytoday.
I'm just going to study hardand I'm going to go do it and
I'll be a real estate agent inabout 60 days.
That's it, and yeah, that's it.

Big things, big things.

Jus Mystie (16:01):
Same shit.
I got another property DamnEvery time I get on here.
I got another property.
But at the end of the day I wason the phone with my boss of
the day and she was telling me,like this is what I need to do.
And I'm like, ok, now you gotme hiring and firing people at
this point.
Bitch, cut the check.
Am I the district manager ornot?
So she was like we working onit, so I should be district
manager soon around the Flintarea.

(16:21):
That's awesome.
And then I'm going to be a realestate agent.
So I just been chillingstudying and getting my fun.

So when you become a real estate agent, what
does that do for your job?

Jus Mystie (16:31):
For my nine to five?
Really nothing.
But for me now I can go sellhouses and um, you know, I gotta
I will have to get under abroker, so which my brother is a
broker, so I can really justhold my license with him.
But I really just want to sellhouses.
You know, my ultimate goalbasically is for the real estate
to pay for law school.
You know what I'm saying?
I'm only 37.
I want to be a lawyer by thetime I'm 42.

(16:53):
So we don't get it rocking.

Yeah, I'm going to start calling you, mrs Pennybags
little Monopoly dude.
That's what his name is, yeah.

Jus Mystie (17:04):
Look, my boss just asked me today, so you coming to
the open house at the uh causeI got a senior facility and I'm
like, uh, I got to record mypodcast first.
Right, she like what.
You have a podcast too.

Yeah, bitch, I got to get it popping.
Okay, and I'm going to pull up.

Jus Mystie (17:21):
Yeah, I'm going to get it, but I mean, you know,
just doing life.

That's the move, man.
Keep it all going.
So we're going to get into thetopic.
We're going to do it a littlebit longer, but I like it was my
fault because I usually keep atrack on it, but I'd be happy to
have my whole crew.

Jus Mystie (17:35):
Oh, I thought you was going to say your hoes.
Look at me.

I was wrong with her, with the whole thing,
because obviously.

Jus Mystie (17:43):
I heard that you said that you'd be selling us.
I wasn't going to say shit, butI heard that you said man,
whoever said that they lying toyou?
Let me call your homeboy,because that's what's happening
Calling and shit.

I'm about to say shit, nigga, that's the case.
Shit, I need some dividends.
You ain't saw nobody on a blade.
I ain't been pulling up.

These hoes keeping their $40 on their own.
They don't need no pips.

That's what put the shit in the game.

Do you know how fucked up we would be?
Because I could just imaginebeing a kid, because I don't
remember that era.
I never saw the strip with thehoes and pips and shit.
Just imagine if we had thatshit.
Now she's a hoe.

Jus Mystie (18:27):
I think we didn't see it because where we live at
I don't think it was that kindof like state, but I'm sure we
had a little track like on doorhighway, north saginaw, but not
like places like oregon.
I've never met nobody fromoregon but I've always heard
it's nothing but pimps and hoesdown there.
And then I finally met somebodyfrom oregon and she definitely
clarified it.
She was was like man.
It is pissing holes everywhere.

It used to be pissing holes up here, the only
thing that hit when crack hit.
It fucked the game up.
Because now, instead of baby,you about to go turn this trick
for this amount of money, thesehundreds and hundreds of dollars
.
I'm about to go turn this trickfor a $20 rock Crack is whack
and it's cheap In my Whitneyvoice.
I always say this and then wecan get into the topic.

(19:07):
I always say this when you goout west, oregon is west.
When you go out to the out weststates, that pimp shit is there
.
I'm moving.
They, man, pack your shit up,son.
They there.
I done ran into them being to afemale and you think the female
talking to you.
You know she's.

No, that shit be having me cracking up and
motherfucking, spying a bitchLike.
Why do y'all think y'all canfuck bitches in Vegas?

What you mean.

Like they actually want to fuck y'all,
just to be fucking y'all and notget paid.
You know what?

You will get If you run into, and that's getting
off track.
But if you run into a group andfemales hate this because they
don't want to get aired out infront of their niggas, and I'll
be like stop the gang in line.
If you run into a group of I'mon my girl's trip, it's six
girls.
Do the math, do the odds Twoout of them, six fucking.
Now what you got to do isfigure out what two it is.

Jus Mystie (20:01):
No, we talking about how y'all try to go get it be
bitches on the street, literallypassing like passing out cars.

No, you know any nigga don't know that out they
mind she's prostituting.
This will give you like they ifyou don't.
I don't know.
No, nigga don't know that.

Jus Mystie (20:13):
I want a car for my pussy too.

I don't know.
No, your girl, your family,they still gonna slack that
bitch on you A business car forpussy.

Jus Mystie (20:26):
That shit blew me when I saw it All on the floor.
A business car for pussy?
Yeah.

I said I'm moving to.

Jus Mystie (20:31):
Vegas.
I am moving to Vegas.
Out West it's niggas and canyou just imagine with social
media now nigga.

That's what I'm telling you Most of them
OnlyFans girls, girls if youlook at them top, only fan girls
.
Go see where they stationed atout west.

Jus Mystie (20:47):
I'm moving that's that shit at the ripe age of 40,
man, it's, it's a trick forevery age group, every and every
race, ethnicity, it doesn'tmatter.

Every fetish, it's motherfuckers.

Jus Mystie (21:00):
Some tricks want a midget no, what it is is what
I've always told y'all sex sales, no matter what.
I don't give a fuck, pussy isthe greatest, it's the power of
the P-U-S-S-Y.

It's the greatest product it is, but it's like
it's the power of the pussy.
But we be want dickies Just asmuch as y'all want pussy.

Jus Mystie (21:14):
They don't know that Cause we already know, wasn't
shit y'all you could write on.

I agree, I agree with you.

Jus Mystie (21:23):
100 cc was wrong I agree with you 100 y'all.
Y'all just not as smart as us.
I didn't tell females thatbefore all I want y'all to know
is on some real shit before wegetting this up.
What would happen if everywoman in the world said we ain't
putting out, y'all would dieoff.
Not because we ain't puttingout, y'all will die off Not

(21:45):
because we ain't giving birth,but because y'all ain't fucking.

Nah, I'm going to be honest.

Jus Mystie (21:49):
If every woman in the world collectively cut the
pussy off, baby y'all would.

I'm going to be honest with you, and this is not
me, so I hope don't nobody getdumb enough to, even because
humans are dumb, just period.
But neither are there.
Niggas are fucking niggas now,anyway.
So, like, is it going to beniggas fucking niggas Now?
They're going to say that's whyyou laughing, because they're
going to be out in the open withit.
Now, nigga, shit, I had to fuckthis nigga.
I couldn't like.
You know what I'm saying.

Niggas are fucking niggas anyway.

So it's been like that, but we're going to get
into the topic.
So the topic I have seen a postone of my Facebook friends and,
like I said, I always go to themajor comments of the actual
post, not when the personreposted.
I've seen it.
It went like this I don't wanta man matching my energy, I want

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a man leading and for me, whenI looked at the at first, I
thought about it from adifferent standpoint.
Like she's saying she don'twant a man being, I guess,
masculine and taking lead of thehousehold.
But again, that's why I readthe comments.
Once I went through thecomments I seen what the fuck it
was and I never understood thiswith females and not all
females, but this is a generalstatement.

(23:01):
You mean you can do dumb shit,bullshit, but this is a general
statement.
You mean you can do dumb shit,bullshit and I'm just supposed
to let you just roll with itbecause you're a female.

Jus Mystie (23:08):
Elaborate on dumb shit and bullshit, because I
don't know what you mean.

Like.
Here's my point.
If I'm in this bitch starvingand you take forever to get the
food to me, it's like alright,cool Nigga.
It's alright If a female getlike.
You never hear a nigga say I'mhangry, that's not if I hear one
of my homeboys say he hangrynigga what type of?

Jus Mystie (23:27):
But y'all be feeling it, dog.

Even if you feel it, you can'tcome out and say you hangry, but
a female, I'm hangry, fix it.
Like right then, and there likewhat?
Or like I'm spoiled.
What the fuck did that mean?
You spoiled?
Your parents did shit for youand went above and beyond.
Okay, who's to say my parentsdidn't go above and beyond?
I can't tell you I can't watch afemale so I'm spoiled.

(23:50):
She gonna look at me crazy likeyou trying to like.
They say you zesty, you tryingto be a bad bitch.
What you telling me I'm spoiledfor so it's certain shit excuse
for them doing dumb shit orfuck shit because they're female
and I'd be looking like what.
So you'd be a prime exampleFemale.
Get an attitude about somethingvery small and make a big ass
argument about it and what yousupposed to do is just be like,

(24:12):
well, she a female, she doing it, let her blow her steam off and
then we get back on track.
Fuck no, because now if I catchan attitude, I'm tripping.

Jus Mystie (24:22):
I think that's crazy , because I didn't take that
from when I read it, because Isaw that post too.

Did you read the comments?

Jus Mystie (24:30):
No, I just read it, because if I made a post like
that, I wouldn't be talkingabout me getting an attitude.
I would be saying, when I say Iwant a man to lead and not
match my energy, I mean, like Ididn't literally heard a nigga
be like, um, I want to put itthe right way.
Like I didn't literally heard anigga, basically like what
you're going to do for me, what,what do you?

(24:51):
What do you mean, what am Igoing to do for you?
Like I don't want, I'm going tomatch your energy and let you
lead.
Like you know what I'm saying.
Like I, I will match yourenergy.
I think you're supposed tomatch somebody's energy, that's
just.
I think it was more so.
Like what you're giving out asa man yeah, you know what I'm
saying.
I thought that's what she wassaying.
Like what you putting out, likeI'm not supposed to put out
what you putting out, so don'tmatch my energy.

(25:11):
I'm the female.
This is feminine energy overhere.

And that's how I took it at first.
Okay, right, the comments arewell, the status of the pain too
.
But just like I have put up a,I put up a post that said what
what's hard about dating you,dating you.
Half of everybody who commentedsaid what somebody else does to
them never what was hard aboutdating them.
People just don't read at all,because I ain't, I ain't putting
up with nobody's shit.

Jus Mystie (25:44):
I think that ain't yeah that ain't what's hard
about dating you.

I said what's hard about that's the reason why I
read the comments, because the alot of, like you said, a lot of
times somebody posts I'm gonnago viral.
The real intent of what wassaid wasn't what it was too, and
then you see how the generalmasses Feel about this, and
that's why I read it.

I think it's illiterate, like cause you're
not reading.

Cause, like when I think.

Just like when Y'all said the post said about
leading, like a lot of dudes Bewant us, I don't Lead too.
Or like why you keep asking me.
Or like we go back and forthAbout who finna do what they
want us to do, and it's likeyou're the man lead, like I'm
taking, I'm following.
Whatever you do, you'resupposed to lead, and I don't
know if that scares y'all whenwe be like a man's supposed to
leave, but a man is supposed toleave, like what the fuck I'm

(26:33):
supposed to go?
Get the nigga in the back.
I can't go to the nigga in theback to leave me.
It's the nigga that's supposedto be in front of me.

Jus Mystie (26:39):
That lead, like lead and then my energy and I can
match yours like once you canlead me.

Now I know what the fuck to do.
I'm following.
Like now, I'm following you.
Now shit can start, the traincan start moving.
Like once you move, I'm moving.

Jus Mystie (26:52):
I think that right and that's a perfect sense.
The train I think that a lot ofdudes think that we be it,
ain't that we want you to put upwith our shit.
It's almost like tame it, nigga.
And then I know that if youfeeling like I got attitude not
supposed to just be like, areyou supposed to just be like
whatever she got attitude?

no, nigga, check me, missy, what the fuck, you
have that's, but what if I don'tknow I'm having an attitude?
Because, I've been doing it forso long and that's where I was
getting that.

That's the point I'm making.
Like god damn, like we adultsnow, when they're younger, I can
understand these type of things.
You get what I'm saying.
But when I'm like I'm in my mid30s, if I'm talking to somebody
Around my age bracket or older,like it's certain shit Now that
I expect, like why am I tamingit?

Like, if I go get a dog, I'm not, it's not
necessarily taming.
If it's something that I don'tknow, that's a problem with me,
right?

Jus Mystie (27:38):
You supposed to check if I'm your bitch and then
if you're not, if you don't, Ihate that we may be using the
word tame that's probably why Isound fucked up, but if you
don't tame it and make meaccustomed to our relationship,
how am I ever going to be thebitch you want me to be?
Because sometimes we haveattitudes for real, though, and
it's unconscious, like literally, or it's not an attitude, right

(28:00):
, finna, come on, because I'mtripping today, but it took me a
minute to realize like you'resnapping on everybody.

And this is my thing I'm saying again, and you
know y'all hate my analogies,but they always gonna come Like
and I know y'all like dogs.
So how many times have y'allwent and got a grown ass dog?

I don't like animals, but you know, when did?

it have y'all when it got a grown ass.
I'm talking about a two, threeyear old dog, big ass dog, I
ain't saying you know I did itone time in my life.

Jus Mystie (28:27):
I did and it was the best dog I ever had.
And I'm not bullshit.

But that's my point .
It's not normal you do that.
If you're going to raise a dog,you're usually going to get a
younger.
How to act when your periodcome on, like you don't know how
to?
I ain't saying walk around thisbitch and be cheerful, that's
not what I'm saying.
But to be sitting around thisbitch like you still 14, 15, 16,

(28:51):
18, 19 you don't know how tomaneuver with that motherfucking
period okay, besides the period, it's unconscious because you
don't know how you, you don'tknow, I don't know.

Jus Mystie (29:01):
But I have been on the phone with at work with a
resident right and when I getoff the phone my co-worker then
came in there like bro you have,why did you just like you sound
like you have a shitty assattitude and I'm like, damn do I
?

and I don't realize it because you literally
don't realize, just like youbroke your, you just tore your
achilles.
Yeah, you probably don't thinkyour attitude is shitty.
You probably think you just,you know, just talking.
But she can take it as yousnapping at her like snappy
she's not supposed to be like.
And see, listen, this is mydifferent and you don't notice

(29:34):
that you're doing it no, I'vebeen in the city space because
it's just not natural.

Achilles getting to .
I get what you're saying, butachilles don't happen.
All the time you've been havingthis fucking period, for you
have one every month, but youcan't you sometimes you can't
control it just like, okay,another one, not even have an
attitude.

Jus Mystie (29:50):
I've also been sitting there watching.
As a matter of fact, it wouldbe crying for no fucking reason.
The green mile.
I don't watch the green mile athousand fucking times, but this
time, one particular time, I'min this motherfucker like I
can't believe they killed thismouse.
I'm really crying and thenbitch you have watched this
motherfucker step on his mouse17 times.
Looked at my calendar, I saidoh okay, your period come on in

(30:10):
three days.

You don't know and that right there don't work for
me.
I get what y'all saying thatwork, like when I hear
motherfuckers say, of course youdon't, you don't, you don't
easy, like now, you soundinglike the politics who want to
tell us about our fucking bodies.

You don't know what we go through when we have
those cycles.
We don't know like, oh, we'renot using it as.
Oh, I'm finna, come on myperiod.
I'm finna, be a bitch.
You don't know why you're goingthrough these different changes
, just like I don't know how itfeel to have menopause, but you
go.
You go with an older womanwho's having menopause.
She's losing her fucking shit.
That she can't control.
But I can't, since I don't haveit.
I can't be like why are yousweating?

Jus Mystie (30:46):
just like you don't know what they call the men's
thing, midlife crisis, we don'tknow what it's like for y'all.
You don't know what it's liketo go through midlife crisis
because you ain't went to meit's still a difference, because
that's not a recurring thing.

When you, when, like if you what you just said,
but it's still a thing so badthat you it's fucking with you.
I get that.
I done been around females thatwhen they period come around,
they know it's coming and theytell you I'm about to come on my
period yeah, you know, soyou're telling me.
You know you acting this waybecause you're coming on your
period, because your period comeevery month so you know we know
why our feelings we know whyour feelings is shifting.

Now it's starting to make sense on why, like even
though the money's here, wedon't just think about our
period 24 7, right, but if Iknow, I've been crying every
time I watch tv.
You tell me a story, I'm cryingor I'm snappy or whatever like
that.
I'm just thinking like why thefuck am I having those mood
swings?
And then that's when you thinklike, oh shit, my period is
gonna come on this week.
That don't give us an excuse.

(31:42):
No, I'm not saying all my period, for this week Not going to be
a bitch, but no, that ain't whatthat's, not what that is.

Jus Mystie (31:48):
And so what you saying to tie it Cause I mean
we're not all talking topic, butto tie it to the topic, you're
saying that when I come in andand I have an attitude this day,
even if it ain't- I'm not aboutto keep putting up with your
attitude because you're tellingme who said you got to put up
with it.

That's why I'm going back to the.
I'm not saying just anybody,I'm saying the people.
How I seen that mass of thegeneral public feeling with that
talking.
So you feel like you can snap,snap my head off, do all this
other shit and it's supposed tobe just pushed to the side
because the anatomy of you is afemale.
That's crazy.
You giving yourself an excuseto be on bullshit because you're
a female.

Jus Mystie (32:27):
It's the same.
You give yourself an excusewhen you cheat.
That is bullshit.
I'm a man, ain't I Hold on.

I wouldn't sit up in front of y'all and tell y'all
that's correct.
That's bullshit.
I can't go fuck mad bitches andbe like, well, you know what?
I got a dick between my legs.
I'm saying you beingmanipulative, that's bullshit.
You using something not to takeaccountability.
You want to justify yourbullshit If I go fuck around and
fuck off on my girl and thefirst thing I tell her is I'm a

(32:56):
man, that's why I did it.
So really, what I'm saying isfuck taking accountability.
I'm on bullshit, but this is mycrush, I'm a nigga.

Jus Mystie (33:03):
Huh, okay.
So if I match your energy whenyou come in and be like damn, I
fucked up, you know what I'msaying, I cheated, boom, boom,
boom.
And then two, three days to I'mgonna say two, three weeks
later I come in and I'd be likeI fucked up, I cheated.
I'm matching your energy, notsaying you said you would do it,

(33:32):
but some men do.
Now you know what?
Now that's being petty, that'sjust not matching energy,
because now we're gonna keepdoing that, we're gonna keep
matching okay.
So I I think that was a goodthing you brought up, because is
matching energy petty anyway?
Because sometimes I sawsomebody just make a status and
it was referring to people notcoming to events right, like, oh
okay, I'm not coming to nobodyevent either.
I think that that can be pettyto a certain extent, but I also
feel it, though.
Don't show up, but don't notshow up for me and I show up for
you.
That's that's on a friendshiplevel, though.

(33:54):
So I get that.
But if you, I feel like, to acertain extent, matching
energies is petty, especiallywhen it's on a negative end.
When it's on a negative end.
I think that's petty.

That's the keep tit for tatting it Because, like,
this is what I'm going to say.
This is me in a relationship.
If I see you keep having littleattitudes, I'm going to give
you a pass first couple of times.
You know what I'm saying andI'll try to talk to you about it
.
But when this shit continues tokeep going like that and you
think like the next day we'rejust supposed to wake up and
it's just with attitude, yougonna get to see how my attitude

(34:27):
is my thing is, communicationis key in every fucking
relationship friendship,relationship family.

We definitely stress that, yeah whatever ship
it is, it should always be openline of communication, whether
it's gonna hurt or anything.

When like I'm gonna coin that the um, what you
calling what?
What she just said, I'm gonnacoin.
I was thinking she said nocommunication gonna sink the
ship yeah, it is.
It is so like I'm posting onfacebook like you said like.

You said like you get it.
What if I was with somebody forfive, six years?
He let me.
That's how he let me talk tohim.
That's how it was.
So I don't think it's nothingfor Me to work on Because he
groomed me this way.
So now I'm with you.
You didn't let me slide Alittle bit, so now we Six months
in Whatever.

(35:16):
However, months in Now you'retalking to me About how I talk
to you.
Why didn't you talk to me?
Why you didn't put a, a nail inthat shit Right when?

it happened Because you thinking that again I don't
, how can?

I fix something that I don't.

I don't know what's broken or is a problem that's
what I said, because in my, inmy mind, if that's a situation,
this is what I'm thinking.
I'm thinking this is not goingto be a pattern, this is not
going to be a reoccurrence.
You just really have some shitthat overwhelmed you at the time
.

You got an attitude, but I know you can see
like for me.
I can see it for myself.
I talk aggressive, like I don'ttalk loud, but I talk
aggressive.
I talk with my hands like Idon't be meaning to be like.
You know, for me it's a bitchthat.
That's just how I talk and ifyou don't like that, nip that
shit in the bud, because now weall these months in now I think
you're just picking with that,but you know that ain't just
friends, that ain't justrelationships, though.

Jus Mystie (36:05):
The way somebody do the best, that's friendships too
.

We've discussed that with her.
Remember I told you that.

Jus Mystie (36:09):
I've had to be like Courtney.
I ain't did shit to you, bitch,Not today.

Right.
That's why I'm saying like,that's why I said this one.
For me it was a good topicbecause it went.
It's for all ships, you know,friendship family to me.

I feel like it is petty, but it's like you gotta
do you can.
You gotta do what puts youcreate a safe space and peaceful
space, okay, so what?

Jus Mystie (36:33):
okay.
So what about?
If, okay, I'm a person likethis, i'ma just use a.
Okay, i'ma use a key.
The kids, for example because Iknow a lot of women be big on
this like no, them bitches ain'tcoming to my kids birthday
party.
You feel me?
Okay?
Boom, I throw a birthday party.
Right, courtney, don't show up.
You know I'm saying, andeverybody else do.
Or two of my friends don't showup.
When it's time for courtney'sson birthday party, I feel like

(36:56):
bitch, I'm coming because I fuckwith your son.
You know I'm saying bitch, you,you didn't come to my kids
birthday party.
Whatever the reason was orwhatever, I don't know.
Maybe you didn't come justbecause you didn't want to, I
don't know.
But I fuck with your son, myson, fuck with your son.
So I'm not going to be pettyand be like no, no, we're not
going because I will give you, Iwill give you a handful of
passes for that.

When I see this is a, what they say, a continual
occurrence, it's like, oh, andthen I see you show up for
everybody else, I see you postso is that the only thing?

Jus Mystie (37:24):
when it's a person, show up for other people?
Yes, because it's me it's meand whoever.

But what really?
What really?
Because I, I'm all about kids,I'm all about supporting the
kids and I and I was like that.
But when my kids see whatpeople well, everybody has to
know, when my kids startnoticing shit is bitch, fuck you
and whoever it's fuck theirdaddy, it's fuck family, it's
fuck anybody.
When I know, when my kids know,we show up for everybody and
after everything is over andthey get to like why such and

(37:52):
such ain't come, like my sonthat ran down all the people he
thought should have been theremy daughter would run everything
down there.
She thought she would be there.
So when my kids start noticingshit, like damn this, they
second time not coming.
You, we always pull up on them.
You always buying a gift forthem, you always doing this.
And it's like once my kidsstart noticing shit, I don't
give a fuck how you feel abouthow I'm reacting, because once

(38:14):
my kids start noticing shit isfuck whoever now is I mean.

Jus Mystie (38:17):
But I can get that when you're as far as, when it's
time for the, yeah, when yourkids expect, but okay.
But I've also had a situationlike that where I was like I'm
gonna be petty, right, I'm likefuck that, I'm not going.
This bitch don't ever come tonone of my shit.
I said that.
But then the son called like isyou coming to my open house,
blah, blah, and I'm like, okay,now, now I can't be petty, I
gotta step into auntie modebecause he called me.

(38:38):
You know what I'm saying and Iwould go off of some shit like
that.
But did I go and give and talkto just him and give him his
shit and then moved around.
Yes, I'm not staying here,bitch, because I ain't got to be
here for you.
I don't know.
I just feel like, like I said,being petty on a negative, tip?

It's really not.
I feel like it's putting me atpeace, because if it's bothering
me I'm not at peace, even if Igo, if it's still bothering me
whether I talked to you beforeabout the last situation.
You wasn't at work, you wasn'tnowhere else, even family, I get
it.
So it's like you show up forevery.
You pick and choose, just likewe say niggas, pick and choose

(39:17):
who they want to spend time withand who they don't want to
spend time with.
Friends, do the shit too.

Jus Mystie (39:22):
Family do the shit too, so is it possible to be
friends with somebody and justnot?

I don't have the energy for anybody.
Nothing that's fake Likefriendship.
We do grow old.
We do have we not kids?
No more.
I'm not going to be at yourhouse 24 seven.
We not probably going to be onthe phone all day.
It might be a day we don't talk.
It might be a day you probablyjust don't want to talk at all.
Nothing is wrong with youworking, don't?

Jus Mystie (39:44):
even ask your phone when you get off work.
That's why I just saw, I just Iforgot the celebrity girl name,
the one that the one that waslike uh, the girl that said uh
boom you didn't.
Britney ain't give it to you.
Whatever her name was, my mansgave it to you.
Uh, at the table when she wasyeah yeah, she had just made a,

(40:06):
uh, a status that see, I meanshe had.
It was a little clip of her andshe was saying like when you
don't talk to somebody, like whydo you feel like she mad at you
?

like why you?

Jus Mystie (40:15):
don't have to have that thought like, why are you
trying to like figure out whyshe's not talking to you?
It could just be because youknow what I'm saying, she's been
busier.
Whatever the case may be, but Iknow people that be like, oh,
courtney ain't talking to me allweek, like fuck her, I'm not
see, I never I never felt thatway or nothing.

That's why anybody I have I have what you
call it like um, come back andtalk to.
The energy is still the same asif we talk every fucking day.
Like I can go hell, even janae,I don't went years without
talking to her on the phone.
But when we finally do talkback, we catch up.
It ain't nothing that.
Oh bitch, you been fake, youbeen with your other friends.
It's never none of that type ofshit.

(40:54):
Like Courtney, I don't talk toher.
She would text out the blue.
I would text her out the blue.
Bitch, what you doing.
Like you all right, you gooddown there.
It ain't shit.
Like we are grown with our ownown problems.
And then I feel like we'regrown enough.
If you know, I'll talk to youevery day, regardless if it's a
text message, a tiktok, or Icome to your job or anything.

(41:15):
If you know, a couple days havewent by.
I ain't talked to you.
Why would you feel like, oh,she must be mad at me.
Why you just can't check on meto make sure I'm fucking good?

Jus Mystie (41:24):
as a grown up like the more I grow, that is how I
move about it like, because, itbeing specific, that's really
pretty much how I go too, thoughCourtney baby is somebody I
used to talk to every day whileshe was here in Michigan, but
now that she's moved we kind ofdon't talk every day.
Um, darissa is somebody that Idon't talk to every day, but I
out the blue, text her like babymama.
That's the, the friend I callmy baby mama.

(41:45):
I text Darissa like BM, bm, yougood, or she would text me, but
it'd be crazy, because whenit's somebody you don't talk to,
sometimes when they text you,you'd be like, oh shit,
something wrong.
Every time Dorissa texts me atfirst, if she texts me first,
I'd be like what the fuck?

But I feel like our instant thing shouldn't be
motherfucking mad at you or doessome shit.
You done some fuck shit to them.

Jus Mystie (42:08):
I don't think you should match energies and know
none of your relationships on anegative side.
I think I'm talking aboutnegative.

I'm on the negative side.

I just rather cut you off.

I'm so I'm so at a point.

I'm at a point to where and that's where I have
been I probably have a handfulof friends.
I might have associates.
They might have associates,they might be misty's friends
and I might be cool with themwhen they with her.
but I have my set of fuckingfriends like I'm not that person
that's gonna have 40 fuckingbest friends, or people like
because that's my expectationson friendship is is not being
met like I want to me.

(42:40):
Don't have friend me and befriends with motherfuckers who
can care less about you, likethat's who you, you praise and
all that type of shit.
But they didn't want to comeover here and give me the bare
minimum of friendship.
So I'd rather just keep thefriends that I have and call it
a fucking day.

My thing.
Like I said when I startedmatching your energy, that's the
last, that's for you, that's tobe the red flag.

You should know something is wrong.
Yeah, you should know somethingis wrong.
Yeah, you should know we'rethere, Not even friends for real
.

Whatever, my relationship, friendship, you
know friends, family, actual,you know relationship
partnership, whatever Once Istart matching your energy, your
energy fucked up.
That's the last warning shot tolet you know yo fix it or I'm
out, because again I just Idon't get when people do that

(43:30):
shit and think it's cool.
I even tell my kids this thisis honest truth Because you know
they're all different ages andmy two kids that bump heads the
most is my youngest daughter andmy second oldest daughter and
they bump heads a lot.
And I had to talk to myyoungest daughter because
everybody knows that's my baby,even though she's not the
youngest, my youngest girl,that's my baby.
I had to tell her like youcan't keep doing shit to your

(43:53):
big sister and think she's justgoing to like keep giving you to
the past because you're alittle sis no-transcript, or I
ain't finna do shit to her.

You shouldn't have been fucking with her.

Because you're at the point that you think that
I'm the princess, I can get awaywith doing it Like she'll do
some wild shit to her and belike can you come fix me
something to?

eat.
Oh yeah, my daughter do that tomy child.
Yeah, well, you know, that'sthe big sister dynamo, little
sister, big sister, big brother,little sister dynamo, I think
that having siblings is.

Jus Mystie (44:33):
I mean like if you have an only kid and that's it,
that's great, I get it.
But when I tell you havingsiblings is a must man it just
is I really think that's true.
You, I did that to Brennanbefore my.
Rest in peace, my baby, I lovemy brother so bad, but I did
that to him before laying in thebed when we was little, fucking

(44:53):
with him, fucking with him,fucking with him.
And so you reached over andbust me in my motherfucking
mouth so hard blood squirted tothe ceiling, do you hear me?
And my mama was like I told youto leave him alone.
It's just that's.
What siblings do we got?

but you know what?
I only said that because I'mtrying to teach my daughter this
, because you will start feelingthat entitlement yeah, we're
everywhere, we're everywhere Ican do shit and other friendship
.
Your boyfriend, you know, that'swhere the shit, that
motherfucker don't start fromyeah, that's why I say
everything the way amotherfucker acts stems from
somewhere.
It just don't come out the blue.
It's been conditioned somewherewhere courtney said that's me,

(45:29):
I'm not.
If you, if I get in arelationship with somebody and
you telling me this is how yourother relationship was, well,
this is the first thing I'mgonna tell you off the dribble.
You shouldn't and it's hard totell somebody that, compared to
doing it, you shouldn't come inwith that anyway, because
apparently it wasn't right,because it didn't work it's my
personality right, I get it, andso for me, the first couple
times you do it, I'm not seeingit as a pattern yet, because I

(45:50):
haven't seen it to be a patternyet, right, but then afterwards
I'm gonna, you know, I'm gonnakind of communicate with you
once you keep doing this shit.
My next thing is oh, let megive you a taste of your own
medicine.
If that don't fix you, I'm outthe door okay I'm out the door
talking about energies.

Why is it so hard to match good energy when
you're in a relationship?

I'm a big friendship, I'm a big component.

If if the energy is good.
Like I'm I'm a nurturer and acarer when I'm in a relationship
, like I'm not affectionate.
But I need to quit saying thatI'm not affectionate because I'm
affectionate to who I want tobe affectionate with.
So people I wasn't affectionatewith, obviously I didn't
fucking like them, like clearly.
But a woman will submitnaturally to a motherfucker who

(46:35):
leads and match your energy aslong as it's like good energy.
Like you take care of me, I'lltake care of you.

I'm going to take that a step further because,
like I ain't saying this to be,this is how I really feel.
All my friendship, like all myhomies I don't know a homie I
got that I can sit up and say,and I don't count favors either.
I'm just saying just how I feelabout it, that I feel like I
sandbagged them with some shit,meaning that I'm I'm probably
giving more out of ourfriendship than my friend do,

(47:02):
but that's just me.
Naturally, it ain't no like oh,I need a pat on the back.
I'm saying it because if I fuckwith you and you fuck with me,
I'm always going to try to match.
Whatever positive you do, I'mgoing to try to match it or go
above and beyond, because that'sme showing my appreciation,
that's you keeping it 100 withme, you keeping it real for me.
I can depend on you.
So I always try to match goodenergy.

(47:23):
I try to take it a step above.
My matching goes both ways.
I'm going to match good energyand bad energy and I'm just not
going to do anytime you get badenergy.
Anytime I see good energy, I'mgoing to match it Bad energy.
I'm not going to match thatevery time.
It's when it becomes a patternwhen I start seeing this shit
over and over.
Yeah, you got to the pointwhere you think you entitled to
act ass or do bullshit and I'mjust supposed to get for a

(47:46):
visual gender.
Or, like I said with friends, Ihave some friends that like
that.
They feel like you know theycan get away with talking, crazy
, doing while shit and I got nota friend, because now they're
right held you.

That's how she act.
Y'all know how she is everytime we take her somewhere, she
acting a fool, like you know.
That's how she is.
Nobody checked her, nobody saidnothing.

I'm gonna clip that .
I'm clipping what she just said, cause I done seen that I ain't
gonna touch on a bunch ofdifferent subjects and
situations, but I done seen thatsituation go so far left with a
motherfucker getting the titlebecause motherfuckers been
letting them get away with.

Jus Mystie (48:26):
This is your behavior I think that some
behavior is like I, I get itwhen it's really fucked, like
how she said that yeah, that wasa trip.
Like you just feel like you cando anything.
But I feel like, when you wasjust saying, like how you
matched a good energy and I feellike you also got to know
somebody.
And it depends on yourrelationship too, because, like
I'm saying, I I always usecourtney, for example, because
that's now that's the friend Italk to the most.

(48:48):
But I feel like I know thatshe's going to go days without
calling and talk.
Like you know, I'm saying, atfirst, when she started doing it
, I probably was like damn, whythe fuck?
You know, because we weretalking on the phone every
single day.
We always did that our wholelife, every single day.
So now I just be like a coupledays go by, like she said, I

(49:08):
just be like, oh damn, let mecall and make sure she's
straight, though, because sheain't calling me.
I don't be like I'm not gonnacall either.
I'm gonna wait till she calledme.
I don't do that.
I have another friend that thebitch might call every day and I
eventually I'll be like okay,I'm not answering the goddamn
phone because she keeps calling.
She don't want shit.
You know what I'm saying andshe might be like Misty acting
funny.
I'm not acting funny.
Please don't match my energy,just stop calling a little.

And I don't want to say that because now I'm
acting funny, because I'mtelling you to stop calling me
so sometimes people right, thatwas my point.

Jus Mystie (49:36):
Sometimes people throw off energy that ain't
meant to be negative, but theperson perceives it like that.
Now you're reciprocating energyand now we finna fall out.
But sometimes.

That's why I just be feeling like healthy
boundaries is met.
Just like you said.
You probably talk to thatperson all day and she called
again there's nothing to it.
What if your social battery isjust fucking low?

But I'm going to go back to what Courtney said.
That's why I said I'm going tocoin that no communication sink
ships.
So what you just said withCourtney, if this is how
Courtney is, if I let you know,I don't want you to change.
But damn, I don't always wantto be the one first reaching out
all the time.
That don't mean you got toreach out every time after that,
but sometimes, hey, sprinkle alittle reach out.

Jus Mystie (50:16):
No, and in her case, and sometimes I don't say let
me call and check on her becauseI be thinking like she straight
.

See her post on.
So she ain't dead, she allright.
No, I won't call, I'll wait forher.
I'm gonna flip.
I'm gonna flip it.
Now.
I'm saying, not saying courtneydoes this, but I'm saying now,
this is where I say I will matchyour energy.
So then let's say, a coupledays gonna pass, I for whatever
reason I've been busy, I didn'tcall courtney.
And then courtney break it outto me like damn, you just ain't
been talking to me then I'mgonna be like bitch, you haven't
been talking to me, get thefuck on.

Jus Mystie (50:46):
I was busy.

Because now see what you said before.
This is Courtney.
It's not negative that shedoing that.
This is how she process things.

Yeah it ain't.

Jus Mystie (50:54):
But, when you start doing it and.

I do it back to you .

Yeah.

And you upset about it.

Jus Mystie (50:59):
Now I got to match up energy, yeah now you being a
bitch because you do me likethat, like yeah, but sometimes
it's because motherfuckers takeit as, oh, you're doing it,
because I do it.
But no, I'm never not talkingto Courtney because you went a
couple days without talking tome, bitch.
It just so happened that wewent a week without talking to
each other.
It ain't never been a week, Imean right.

Like, even like if today didn't slip past, like
it's been a day like damn, Iain't talked to nobody today,
like I probably slept the wholeday.
I probably slept the whole day.
If somebody called, I probablyanswered and got off, got on
social media and whatever.
It just was like today was justa day.
I didn't talk to no fuckingbody.
No pun intended, no, it wasn'tno reason, it was just like I
went through life today.

Jus Mystie (51:37):
I'm afraid that they're going to let it go that
many days?
I don't give a fuck who you is,not if you somebody I talk to
every day.
Like I said, I'm not trippingbecause that's never been our
dynamic.
I haven't talked to Miyoshi inmonths, but Miyoshi gonna call
and say hey, you got anapartment.
I got a client da, da, da, dada, and that's fine.
I still know that's my bitch.

If something happened to pop up at her job,
like, okay, I'll sit at the damnjob, I just saw you today, so I
mean that's how I know shemissed me and she feel like we
ain't talked in a minute.

That's what I mean by she be at my job all day you
ain't gotta match that energy.
That's the dynamic.

Jus Mystie (52:18):
But when a motherfucker do something, and
then when I do it, I think youdon't I think friendships is
different, though, fromrelationships, because in
relationships, I feel like whenyou're matching each other's
energy and y'all going tipattack, I think that ruins the

(52:40):
relationship.
You know what?
I'm saying but on a positive, onthe positive energy in a
relationship, how long is yousupposed to like stay positive?
Like if I'm study, doing stuffwith this man and I'm like I
want that, I'm cooking, I'mcleaning my energy lit list, we
argued I don't want to argueless, but your energy is always

(53:00):
negative.
Instead of matching it, I'mgoing to sit down and have a
conversation with myself and sayyou know what, maybe he doesn't
want the same thing I want.
I feel like if a motherfuckernot matching your energy, like
unconsciously, and it ain't justflowing, something needs to be
discussed, because that meanswe're not equally yoked and this
ain't what it's supposed to beyou can't like me if we ain't

(53:20):
it's not organic

yeah it's not a grant.
I go back to that all the time.
It's not organic and likethat's, that's my thing, match
energy shit.
Sometimes I think that you haveto do it, because now you about
to figure out where the personat, like I said if I go back to
what you said, courtney, I'mgoing to use me.
I used to be a bad communicator, as in the point of this, I
wouldn't come out and tell youabout how I feel.

I don't know how to express my feelings.

Like I know what I'm feeling.
I don't know how to tell youwhat I'm feeling, so I really
just say I'm good, yeah, and Iknow how to tell you I just it,
really I'd be.
I'd be more so with the trustissue.
And when I say trust, peoplethink trust.
When I say I don't trust people, I think they think like,
especially in relationships withfemales.
When I say I don't trust, Ithink they take it as me
trusting, saying you're going tofuck somebody and ain't just
that I don't trust you, that Idon't trust you to.
If I tell you my feelings, youreally gonna throw it back up in

(54:12):
your face not even throw itback.
Are you really gonna, really?
Be, fragile with my care, myfeelings, because you might do
it in the conversation but whathappens down?
two, three weeks down the line,I told you this is, this is that
, and you still not careful withit.
So if you did I, I'm going toget pissed off because I done
told you I might as well justkeep it to me.
And now, when you don't do whatI expect you to do, I'm not

(54:33):
tripping no more because I don'thave once I tell you how I feel
about something.
Now my expectation goes up If Idon't tell you my shit, stay
low.

Jus Mystie (54:42):
You can't let me down.
Think about other relationshipsthat I know about and people
that inbox me.
It just blows me how muchcommunication is so fucking
important, bro.

But you know what communication wasn't really on
top, on top of my list, like youknow, like what, what you want
out of relationship and shit,like that communication wasn't.
It was just like okay, I justwant somebody.

Jus Mystie (55:00):
Basically, now communication is like that's
what I think that's why you'resupposed to be dating somebody
before you, because that's whenyou get to know.
I just talked to a motherfuckerlast night and it was not a
date, like literally we weresitting in a fucking car like
just talking for five hours.
When we left I said I shouldtext him and tell him that was
the best first date ever.
And it wasn't even a date, butit was because we were literally

(55:23):
communicating.
Oh, you don't like that likejust some fluke shit.
I was telling him like how I?
He like his feet rubbed right.
He like I work every day, likeI expect to come home and my
woman not every day, but he likerub my feet, blah, blah.
I had to stop the conversation.
Okay, wait a minute, I don'tfuck with feet at all.
He like wait a minute.
So you mean to tell me yeah, sois this something you can

(55:44):
compromise?
Because I'm not rubbing yourfeet, I can't.
I you a machine, you know I'mwilling to compromise and do
that.

I'll buy you a machine.
That's great.
That's how I rub your feet.

Yeah, you'll get that before it become a big
issue, and that was breaking upbecause but guess what he said?

Jus Mystie (55:58):
This is what I.
I said it because of thematching energy thing he didn
your feet.
He was like, well, do you mindgetting yours rubbed?
Because I like to rub, I wantto give you feet massage and I
and it do bother me, but I said,yes, it bothers me, but I'm
willing to try you.
We have to work on it, though,because when I'm getting a

(56:19):
pedicure, I literally be sittingthere like, oh, my stomach is
rolling.
I don't want her to be touchingmy feet.
I don't want her to be touchingmy feet.
So it's going to be an obstacle, but if I had not communicated
that to you and we fuck aroundand start fucking with each
other and now we in the bed andyou trying to figure out why,
every time you put your legs onme, I'm moving mine he going to
be like why the fuck she don'twant to be up on me?

It's not that I just don't want your feet on me,
you have to communicate it,this kind of go off.
We got to do another topic oncommunication, just that,
because communication is a verymulti-layered thing.
Like people think,communication is just talking,

(56:59):
that's not communicating.
People think listening is justcommunicating.
It's not.
It's deeper than that.
Are you really understandingwhat?

I'm saying You're supposed to listen, to
understand.

Yeah, can you understand Not?

listen to reply.

Because some people can't.
Some people can't really justunderstand, like they don't know
how to.

No, they listen to reply.
They want to give you acomeback as soon as you say
something.

That's what I'm saying.
They don't know how toconversate and understand.
They know how to try to get.
Processing is just going in theear and eventually out the
other.
So that's another thing.
Matching energy that's my thing.
With matching energy, I gothomeboys I used to be real close
with and I'm not close with, nomore and family members as well

(57:38):
too.
That's the reason why ithappened like that, because I
let you a couple times go withthis Cool.
Then, once I do it and you getan attitude behind it, oh
motherfucker, every time you dosomething I'm going to match it.

I just feel like if it's Jeopardy I'm so big on
peace right now and boundariesLike I used to be entitled like
just like I think a couple longepisodes ago when we were saying
like what, if I don't want totalk after 9, o talk early, ass,
motherfucking.
9 pm, I mean 9 am but theentitlement will be like oh fuck

(58:10):
, what misty said, I'm herfriend, she want to talk to me
like it.

Jus Mystie (58:14):
Don't apply to me like she said she don't want to
talk I, I still call in themorning and I know she don't
like to talk in the morning.

If I got something to say, I'm calling,
but when she don't answer, Idon't be like this bitch, I just
be like but it's like you, it'snot entitlement I don't want to
say entitlements, becausesometimes motherfuckers forget,
or whatever it's her pee butit's like I would say, energy is
not kind of like tit for tat,it's kind of like protect your

(58:42):
peace.
Because if I still feel a waythat you do something now, I'm
accepting.
This is the way you are.
I'm sure enough for you knowingthat you're not finna, show up,
this is the way you are.
I'm sure enough for you knowingthat you're not finna, show up
for me, and it's fucking andit's still gonna hurt my
feelings because if I throwsomething else and you don't
show up and organically myfeelings gonna be hurt.
But I'm trying to train my mindnot to get hurt because I know
this is you.

(59:02):
So it's either I'm a septus ofbeing you or get the fuck on
that's deep.
That's why I'd rather get thefuck on, because I expect that's
what I give what I said youknow like I can use.

I had a birthday party, my 35th birthday party,
first birthday party I had sinceI had been like in the fourth
grade and it's a lot of peopledidn't show up and initially I
was like damn because Ioverbooked with the food.
Because people didn't show up,I, and initially I was like damn
cause I overbooked with thefood and one cause people didn't
show up I overbooked with thefood you know what I'm saying.
Yeah, but I let it go Now.
This is my thing.
Now, if I fuck around and cause, this is what I would.

(59:39):
Nah, here goes how my mindgonna work.
So somebody asked me to go toyour shit, just to go.
But here's the difference.
What you just said, say I hadto work a double.
I'm tired.
I really want to go home.
Yeah, I'm taking my ass home.

Yeah, it ain't supposed to be a priority.
If I go, I go, I can understand, even if it is a priority.

Jus Mystie (01:00:01):
I can still understand that you went going
when it motherfuckers won't evengive you an excuse, right, or
it'd be some chatty shit like Iwas.

Bobby Frost (01:00:14):
I was tired, not not not, you went to work and
was tired, but you didn't.
You just didn't get your lazyass about the bed to come to my
event because you was tired.
I've been in these situationsbefore.
I didn't see motherfuckers getmad at me, even if I told them I
was tired, because they so usedto me going above and beyond
that they like no, he didn't doit this time.

Courtney Lynn (01:00:28):
But you train your friends.
You train your mates, you trainyour friends, you change your
family.
That's just like how Misty saidit she go days without talking
to me and she going to call you,training me, like.
Okay, if I don't talk, mistygoing to call anyway.
You not giving me the chance tocall you because I know Misty
is going to call, like so wedon't know.

(01:00:49):
That's training somebody.

And if I don't and if I don't call, I know she's
going to pop up to the job.
So it's like you do trainpeople.

So if a motherfucker know you're going
to come, regardless whether youwork 16 hours, they know Rob
going to come tired and all hegoing to come, but they going to
protect they fucking hell.
Because they tired they don'thave to come, but they know
you're about to come.
That's the magic energy.

You see what I'm talking about, cause sometimes
that's how you what you justsaid, training a motherfucker,
how to deal with you, that magicenergy gonna let you know if
you can train this motherfuckeror not, because that's I give
you a prize up.
This is happening.
A while ago, got right normallywhen you ask here well, this
time I didn't do it right.
Bumped into him in the club,motherfucker really didn't speak

(01:01:35):
, gave me a quick one of these.
I bullshit you not and I'm likethe old me would have been like
maybe something was on on amind, maybe someone's gone there
, but then about it?

like you ain't giving them money.

Yeah, that's where it was from, because then the
other time you I ain't going tosay break your neck to try and
be funny or nothing, butseriously you would come across
the what's up.
But now it was a quick what'sup.

They feel the way ?
Yeah, because they wonder whyyou ain't giving them that money
.

Yeah, now you know, and I'm like damn you know what
I'm saying.
So now, at that point you knowwhat I'm matching energy.
So now, if it's come acrosssome shit like that, I'm going
to give you the same little.
I don't know about my business.
And if you ain't cool with that, then let me know.
Well, you think, for whateverreason, your entitlement is that
much above our friendship andour shit like that.

(01:02:27):
Well, you can stay, you andyour autonomy can stay over
there, and that's just how Imove with it now.
And what you said, protectingpeace, that's one of my ways of
protecting my peace.
You're not going to do anythingto me that I can't do to you,
and that becomes the issue, andI'll tie it up for me back when
I seen the post.
That's just from therelationship side.

(01:02:48):
But friendship, whatever,you're not about to do nothing
to me, man, that you think thatyou can do negatively, and I
posted a seven.
I can't do it back to you,cause now you, I want to get an
entitlement out of it.
That's what it is.
You're telling me, you, yougood enough to do this.
It's your shit.

Don't stink is as far as like the whole tit for
tat thing and just my thing is,if I'm okay with it, like me,
not if you okay with it, andthis could sound fucked up to
some people but if I'm okay andit's not upsetting me and I
would I don't give a fuck ifwe're going tit for tat.
If I'm okay with us going titfor tat, then that's just what
I'm okay with.
When it starts to fuck with mypiece and I start to feel some
type of way, then that's's whenI'm going to just cut it off.
I'm not going to go tip a tat.
Good energy, bad energy.

(01:03:32):
If I'm okay with it, I rollwith it and that's how I protect
my peace Long as Misty's.
Okay then, whatever it is, Idon't give a fuck what the
situation is.
If I'm okay, then that's fine.
Now, if you're not okay, youdecide to exit the situation or
whatever, or switch up how wedoing things, and that's on you.
That's just that.
On that I'm just.
I'm gonna move how I move.

(01:03:52):
You feel me.
I'm not going to.
Um, like I said, I'm still goingto call courtney at nine
o'clock when I get up, becausethat's when I'm up.
You're not up, bitch, soon asyou wake up, call me back.
Then it's a habit almost tocall all my friends.
I know that this bitch said Itry not to talk the first couple
hours I wake up on the phonebecause I'm getting myself.
Well, bitch, I've been up sincefive and I'm ready to talk, so
it needs to happen.

(01:04:12):
And do she answer all the time?
No, that's fine, I'm still.
I still call and she even askedher sometime and I'll be like
what you doing.
And she'd be like, oh, if I endthe bed.

I'll be like, oh, if I answer because I've
probably been up since five andmy two hours is up.

Oh yeah, I just don't.

My thing is, like my mom and dad, I try to find
some type of sense of peace andlike declutter a lot of shit.
So when I read, like when youwake up in the morning, like
quit grabbing your phone and noteven downloading like all this
negative energy, all this oldshit, because we go and I go
instantly from my email, from myemail to my credit score.
After my credit score I'm goingon Facebook, tiktok, instagram,

(01:04:50):
so you download, like I ain'teven prayed yet, like I'm just
still in the bed.
Bitch don't even know that shecan walk for real, just on
social media or whatever thefuck the case may be.
So I'm like, try to pray and Itry to just, you know, be
collectively in my thoughts andjust a peace of mind before
logging on my phone.

And I try to respect that.
But if I can't cause somethinghappened that night before.
That's what I say.
I call one time when she don'tanswer our texts and say bitch,
you have got to answer, I got it.
That's community, I mean.

I still answer because I probably because I do
be up at 5, just because I don'tyou know what I'm saying.
I do be up.
So 7 o'clock I can't talk onthe phone.
8 o'clock I can't talk on thephone.
So it's like I mean I try notto download a lot of shit for me
before I can handle the daybottom line is y'all need to.

We always end ended with that.
Communication is key.

It is.

In every relationship.
Friendship, even with your kids, even everything Like
communication is definitelythat's a big word.

No, I tell you, we got to do a real.
I want to have a desk for thattoo, but we got to do one on
communication, like the layersof communication.

But like, okay, and another thing, this could be
another one Like being friendsin a relationship with
communicating, like, of course,everything be all good because
we're, we're new, so it's easyfor you to say you fucking with
somebody, it's easy for you tocommunicate and say anything,
because it's new, it get hard tocommunicate when feelings get

(01:06:14):
yeah, yeah, it definitely is.
It's definitely kind of like ahow do I, how do I tell this
person, how do I tell thisperson is?
all right, that's real and somepeople don't know how to um, how
is it orally?
Say it, uh, talk it out orally.
Yeah, I don't.

(01:06:34):
Don't text me your feelings.

You have to fucking call me okay, so I ain't gonna
even go into that, because whatif that's the only way I can
express them, dog.

Okay, once you text me that paragraph, just
know I'm calling you, so I won'tmisconstrue shit you had in
your, because you probably saidsomething.
Now you snapping on me.

Okay, but after you elaborate and check my
temperature, we gonna get offthe phone and finish texting,
right?
Because I can tell you betterin text what I was trying to say
.

I mean, you probably can Some people can't
verbally, but if you tell methat I won't have to always call
you, because why the fuck is hetexting me these long-ass
paragraphs?
When I'm calling, I will know,like yo, you're not
confrontational.
You know I get loud when I talkand you want to make sure you
get everything out through atext, because if you talk, you

(01:07:21):
never really get everything outthrough a text.
Because if you talk you neverreally get everything out.
You want to say because I mightbuddy in or whatever the case
may be.
So if you tell me like Icommunicate, like I really text
you, okay, that's fine, get it.

So we're gonna wrap it up.

What, uh what you've been off of, missy, what you've
been uh vibing to um, I've beenon my r&b shit, but I just
tapped into Lucky Day and that'sD-A-Y-E.
I mean, I've been tapped intohim a couple weeks ago but it
was only the song.
Um, that's you.
That shit go hard.
But I didn't just startstepping off into more of his
music and what I'm realizingy'all about me, because I'm

(01:07:53):
about to tell you two othersongs that I've been having on
repeat.
It's so crazy my taste of musiclike it's changing.
Because I do like rap, I'malways like rap, but like I fuck
with that.
Mulholland drive by October Ishis name, it's October something
, but yeah, I fuck with thatMulholland drive.
Like it's like the.

(01:08:13):
The tune I want now is morerelaxed, like even our new
school new R and B.
I really I like the way theyswitching it up, because mahalan
drive is a new guy.
You know I'm saying so it'slike I like the way they're
switching it up.
I don't like the typical r&b,no more.
I ain't gonna say I don't likeit, but I've just been switching
up my music for real, for real,just catching the vibe.
I've been listening to oldschool r&b.

(01:08:34):
I don't know bitch getting old,goddamn what about you court of
now, I don't know.

I just I'm listening to Boston and Richie
right now Like I don't knowTikTok be putting me on a little
song, a little music and shit,even though it's probably been
out for a while Like I've beenlistening to, like him and Sir.

That's my dog.

Yeah, I've been listening to Serves, so it's
kind of like I'm on a mixture ofshit.

That's what you know.
He got the song to John Rancorn.
That's like a song that I couldplay like six times in a row.

No, I can't, I don't know.
Would it do to you Like I coulddance a different dance from
the dance that I just done?
To the whole song, like I don'tknow what that whole song, like
I don't know what that shit.

It's just smooth.
I didn't like.
I remember I put that shit onsnapchat.
A couple females out thereabout like you're going through
some shit, huh, no, no, it wasjust the song.
Just so much of a vibe I getthe sipping and, yeah, I'm about
to write up john red corn bysir I gotta look.

Is it slow song?
No, not that song he got acouple.
It's John Redcorn for me he'sR&B.
Yeah, I got to look it up.
John Redcorn yeah, hold onJ-O-N.
Or John, you ever watch King ofthe Hill?
No, I used to when I wasyounger, you don't remember.

It's nothing, even matter, that's it.

That's my song, yeah that's the one man yeah,
he's nice from la john red corn.
You remember misty, the dudethat talked uh what the fuck is
his name I?
Can't think his name, so let'ssay john red corn.
Sir, that's the name of thesong.
Yeah, sir, uh, what's dog name?
Man on king of the hill?

(01:10:13):
Uh, um, hank hill homeboy, theone with the glasses that his
wife he got like an indian kidand he can't tell that his kid
is not his.
You know what I'm saying okay,wait a minute.

John red corn is the dad.
John red corn is the name ofthe song.
Yeah, okay, and sir is theartist, so I need to click on
sir and I need to add what song?
John red corn.
Let me, then.

This is r&b, right yeah, I'm gonna add it to the
right, sir, nice man you out of,uh, la, okay, add it to her.

Okay.
And then what other man he outof LA?
Okay, add it to her.
Okay.
And then what other song?
Nothing, even matters, he gothits man, because y'all know
when y'all say, nothing evenmatters.
I'm thinking about Lauryn Hilland D'Angelo.
That's what I'm thinking about.
Okay, okay, hill and Bob Marley, grandson or some shit.
That redo was hard did y'allhear it?

oh yeah, he's fast, he's nice, just whatever.
Like I said, we miss whateverbeen going on through Miss Hill
life last 30, 20 years.
We done missed out on a lot ofgood music.
If she could have been in theright space, I think her and
Erykah Badu is some people Ineed to like her Erykah.

I love Erica.

Her Erica Badu and Drieke Gates, is somebody I
just want to just have like awhole conversation with.

Drieke Gates is lit too, I will say this I wouldn't
want to fuck her man because ofthe shit that Kevin Gates said.
I don't know if all that shitis true, what do you do?
And I just hate to say it likethat, because she is a beautiful
woman and I like her femininity.

It's like yeah, it's woman and I like her.

I like her femininity.
It's like yeah it's crazy,because her femininity to me is
is very strong, and it's like Idon't even wear fucking makeup
and she's gorgeous.
That's what I'm saying.

I like it, I mean I'm a person that don't.
I mean, makeup is cool, youfeel me.
Now she do have a bitch popping, but when you can look like
that without makeup, yes, thatbitch gorgeous.

No lashes long she's a beautiful woman Body.

look like it.
Can I swallow it whole and Iain't never ate no pussy she
makes me feel with the ErykahBadu situation.
I get some of that pussy and belike I'm scared of Erykah.
Y'all see what she did to Andre.

Yeah, I always say you have you in the
wintertime Camera.
Comments like everybody Jay.

Electronic.
I said that before in theepisode.
She man, hey man, she'll haveyou in the motherfucking
wintertime Dead winter FebruaryWith Dashiki on Grocery shop.

Okay, what you going to do.
Get some food for bae, yeah.

Organic shit too.
Yeah, whole food All in organicno in the backyard.
In the fucking got four items,that shit.
Nine hundred dollars, allorganic.
Yeah, like I said, drink I justI, I I'd like man, she bad, I
just think like her femininityis just like yeah, you can't
fuck the shit out of her like hedo.
No, that's the thing I'll bethinking like damn, it's like

(01:12:50):
some of that shit that, ifthat's the shit, gotta please
you, I can't get down with someof that shit.

Dog like you spending miles and shit like you
know, courtney like that yes,that's I ain.

I ain't knocking it I can't get comfortable with
that shit, cause you spitting inmy mouth my dick gonna go
instantly.
So I'm like whoa Bitch what didyou just do?

I don't know what y'all be imagining.
When y'all think, it's not likethey don't be imagining.

You can slive in my mouth.
I'm still gonna be trying tododge that drop.
Like what the Drip, drip it onme.

Like that, no bitch, don't put your spit on me at
all.

No I've been listening to everything, man
because, like I said, I was inthe press mode and it's like, uh
, I'm just gonna give y'all thesongs, because normally I give
y'all a project, but since I'vebeen depressed, I'll just be
listening a lot of differentshit.
So in my rotation I'm lookingright now at my um, what they
call a heavy rotation, like ifyou got Apple Music, you have a
heavy rotation mix.

(01:13:40):
It's these the songs I got.
Party Next Door no Chill.
I vibed with that motherfuckerall the time.
That's my shit.
Been bumping Project Pat outthere.
Dmx, look Through my Eyes andTrust by Brent Fires.

Have you been listening to Don't Save Her?
I ain't listened to it.
In a listening to Don't SaveHer, I ain't listened to her in
a minute, but that Don't Save.

Her Out here.
That's my shit, man.

No, I like Brent Fires too by the way, but that's
my favorite toxic nigga, brentFires.
Yes, he's fucking toxic.

That's my dog man.
I've been fucking with himsince like 17.

and got a whole fucking girlfriend.

I don't know if that's true or not.
I don't follow him too muchoutside of the music.
I be hearing shit about him.
What the fuck?

they be having us going through.
And this nigga, a whole familyman around this bitch Ain't that
crazy, but they said thatthough, when.

Who was it?
Carisha, when she had her babyand was with her boy.

She like yo no, I always tell people that listen
Once you find out what sells.

Yeah, you gotta run with it.
You have to run with it, but doyou think that fuck up your
relationship though?
Like okay, say like we all Wasin a relationship.
Like we said when we datepeople, we be like the shit I
put on social media Is notreally like.

I think communication Will save you, but
that's what.

I'm saying they say they okay with you putting
this shit on social media, Like,oh, that's what you got to do.
I only think you got a podcast.
You do this, but when?

I think if I was doing it before you, you're
going to have to roll with it.

I think that shit only I ain't saying this is true
, I just look at some of thecelebrity.
I think that shit only work ifit's like a motherfucker that
was with you before you got bigSnoop Dogg shit on his next
flick special with Cat Wimps andall of them.
She just flashed me, man.
That's why.

My panties was in my booty.
I'm sorry.
So listen.
Sorry, I didn't know, you spentyour time you stood up, so
listen.

Anyways, like I was listening to dog, like snoop
dog been talking about bitches,ain't shit you know his whole
life, but his, his girl, hiswife yeah, was there from high
school on up, so it's like shegot the the just to get to
understand like I can look atthe era when he was a shit I
just just think, if you knowyour partner man, and you know

(01:16:02):
your partner and you trust yourpartner y'all communicate, it's
healthy jealousy, okay.

Healthy jealousy yeah.

We got to put a pin in that.
Pin in that.
What the fuck is healthyjealousy?

I think that might be our next episode, I
mean because I'm just sayinglike I don't want nobody that
don't feel a way like about meat all.
Like you can have confidence inme, like you know I ain't finna
fuck around, but I want a niggato feel a certain way, like you
see

like not crazy jealousy, but like a little
healthy one.
Yeah, cause when I walk out thehouse with my ass cheeks out, I
want you to be like bitch,don't get beat up like shit,
like that, like not reallyseriously, like you gotta take
that off, you finna go yeah,yeah.

I don't want none of that.
I just want like a littlehealthy.

We gotta talk about that alright, alright.

Shout out to my exes man, cause that fucked up
almost all my relationships.
Man now shout out to my exes,seriously, cause I ain't that
type of dude.
That's why I wanted I need sometherapy no, for real.

because, because I shouldn't seek compliments
from everybody else Before Iwalk out the house.
You should be my biggestfucking fan and I'm going to be
your biggest fan.
I'm big on compliments.
Tell me I'm sexy.
Tell me this you don't do noneof that.
Why the fuck do you like me?
I like it.
Yeah, I got to talk about that.

Tell me you're going to beat me up when I get home.

See that.

Don't get up.
When you see my snap and I'm atwork promoting the party and
it's ass shaking what Cardi Bsay.
I be shaking my ass on my story.
Make the photographers horny,don't play with me.
He better be in my inbox LikeI'm whooping your ass.

Yeah, do some shit, but don't really be mad,
Cause you know that I'm cominghome.
You feel me Like, oh, I see youthrowing that motherfucker we
got to talk about.

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