June 5, 2024 • 42 mins
Why is ghosting such a prevalent and polarizing issue in modern dating culture? Tune in as we unpack the emotional and ethical complexities of abruptly ending communication without explanation. From personal anecdotes to heated debates, we question whether ghosting is a cowardly escape from difficult conversations or a misguided attempt to spare feelings. You'll hear about the lengths people go to track down those who ghost them and the importance of mature communication and mutual respect.
We didn't shy away from the tough topics. Join us as we navigate the tricky terrain of sexual compatibility and the need for honest dialogue in relationships. How do you handle conversations about sexual performance, hygiene, and other sensitive issues without causing emotional harm? We dig into real-life examples, emphasizing the nuances of delivering and receiving feedback. Can a straightforward approach coexist with preserving someone's confidence and feelings? Find out as we explore the emotional impact of these challenging discussions.
On a lighter note, we bring you behind the scenes to share some personal milestones and team dynamics. Misty calls out Bobby Frost for not including her and Courtney in his outings, revealing the playful tension within our friendships. We also celebrate Courtney's recent graduation, highlighting the personal achievements within our team. Plus, get excited about our upcoming projects, including an electrifying collaboration between Hit-Boy and Alchemist. This episode is packed with raw honesty, heartfelt moments, and engaging discussions that you won't want to miss!
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Bobby Frost (00:00):
Yo yo yo, it's your boy, bobby Frost, and Bobby
Frost Media presents Tri-Parency.
I'm with the beautiful ladyJust Misty.
Jus Mystie (00:07):
Yo, yo yo.
I'm going to change that up.
I should be a little morehappier.
Do it again.
Say it one more time.
Bobby Frost (00:13):
One more time.
One more time for the road.
Okay, I'm ready.
It's your boy, bobby Frost.
And Bobby Frost Media presentsTri-Parency.
I'm looking at your tonguesticking out, cause I was ready
man get the fuck on.
I don't wanna Just Missy.
Jus Mystie (00:29):
We good, you don't even be amped up enough for me.
That's why I don't be amped up.
Bobby Frost (00:33):
I be trying to.
I swear.
You know you bring the energy,that's your thing.
I so you wasn't feeling ittoday.
Jus Mystie (00:39):
I'm tired bro hey y'all hey, pew, pew, pew.
Bobby Frost (00:44):
And what's up, what y'all been up to.
Man, you know what I'm saying.
We back hey, I ain't lying toy'all.
This show gives me energy andlife.
Though.
I like chopping up with y'all.
I like doing this.
I have fun doing this.
This is my shit, I like doingit.
You all the feedback andsomebody bumping to me out there
(01:07):
or DM me or message me or eventext message me.
You know what I'm saying.
Hit me up.
Hey, I love all that.
I appreciate all of y'all.
Keep it up, man, y'all.
Even at the times I do like man, I got so much shit going on I
don't feel like recording.
That makes me get out andrecord.
I ain't gonna lie to y'all.
So I appreciate it all.
I appreciate it all.
You know ain't shit.
I ain't gonna lie to you.
I ain't no star, but it do feelgood.
Motherfucking coming like, yeah, I'm tapping in with you, bro,
I see you or what you been up to.
(01:29):
Okay, yeah, you about to besuper dope it'd be super dope,
that shit like damn, I'm like,yeah, I fucks with it.
I fucks with it.
So what, you been on misty I'vebeen super busy at work.
Jus Mystie (01:38):
I ain't gonna lie.
You know, the same old, sameold man I am.
It's the first today.
I ought not even be in here.
I ought to be somewherecollecting rent.
But wake up wake up.
Bobby Frost (01:48):
Wake up, it's the first of the month get up get up
.
Get up cash, some checks andcome on for real, yeah, no, I
ain't been on none that man.
You know I had a?
Um funeral to go to and it wasa sad thing.
I ain't gonna touch on it onhere.
But sad situation in myneighborhood was, um, some of my
uh, my home with my homie andit just, yeah, had me for a loop
(02:09):
.
But um, rip my dog, t-nick, forsure, yeah that had me tight,
yeah.
Jus Mystie (02:14):
Yeah, I heard y'all had a lot going on over there in
the hood yeah praying for thefamilies involved that.
It's been a lot of.
It's been a crazy ass week lastcouple of weeks in Flint anyway
, you know what I'm saying.
A lot of people lost theirlives.
I'm praying for all thefamilies involved.
Bobby Frost (02:29):
This was last weekend.
I pulled up to the gas stationin the hood, carpon Road,
saginaw.
Why the fuck was a car like thehuman torch came and torched
that bitch, this bitch.
When I say this bitch was like,yeah, melted all through.
All you had was the frame ofthe car, yeah.
Jus Mystie (02:46):
Yeah, that was crazy .
It was a shooting up there toolast weekend or maybe the
weekend before.
A girl lost her life.
Again praying for all thefamilies involved.
I don't know the details of it,but yeah, shit be getting crazy
in Flint in the summertime andI just have to pray extra hard
for my city man.
Bobby Frost (03:01):
That's the real, that's what you do.
You know, I'm saying that'swhat you do.
That shit, just like I saidthat shit, fuck me up man.
Jus Mystie (03:06):
I said I was, you know I'm gonna get that in two
seconds, but I'm going, I'm no,no, I got you.
Bobby Frost (03:11):
I'm turning it to you so you can have it.
Yeah, what you?
Think about yeah, okay, Ifucked around and, like I said,
I was out you know I'm sayingdangling and I seen that shit,
like I was buzzed, you know Ilooked like what the fuck?
Jus Mystie (03:23):
you've been out a whole lot.
Every I know that the followersand the listeners is peeping
that out and, uh, we have notbeen with you, me or courtney.
Courtney's still around y'all.
She is c doing her thing.
She graduated june 7th.
Shout out to her.
She knocked that shit out.
We missed her.
I'm so tired of talking to justrob, but I love you right they
always ask about her too.
Bobby Frost (03:43):
They y'all always ask about her.
Jus Mystie (03:44):
Yes, she will be back, graduation coming soon,
but you've been out without us.
What the fuck.
Bobby Frost (03:51):
You know, it don't even be like I be going on work
big, I just be out.
You know what I'm saying.
Jus Mystie (03:55):
You think we don't want to just be out with you.
I'm just confused on why youdon't ever call and be like,
because you be being fake onhere and these people probably
think we friends outside of herebut really in real life.
Bobby Frost (04:04):
Man, y'all be having.
This is the thing that y'allain't saying to the listeners
too.
Y'all be having y'all shitgoing on too and just be like I
didn't even know.
Jus Mystie (04:10):
But we called you.
We stopped calling you becauseyou never call us.
Bobby Frost (04:22):
I'm going to have to't know how this is me.
I'm being honest and shout outto my dog Quill, because I've
been doing this before for awhile.
I'm talking about like a sixmonth span when you're not
drinking and you go to the clubor a bar.
It's not, it's fun, no more.
I swear it's not Like if youain't doing no weed, you're not
(04:45):
for the people Anything to getyou intoxicated.
If you just going that bitch,sober as hell to a bar and club,
I know me, I talk to my dog.
You don't want to be there.
I know I don't.
I be like man, shit, what am Ihere for?
Jus Mystie (04:54):
I'm straight.
I didn't want that light rightthere back in my video.
Bobby Frost (04:57):
Okay, yeah, I'm like, yeah, I'm straight, I
don't want to be in that.
Jus Mystie (05:05):
Hell.
Bobby Frost (05:05):
no, what the hell Girl you over there, fight for
your life.
Jus Mystie (05:07):
I'm having technical difficulties.
My fucking Microphone isjumping out at me Damn, yeah,
that shit.
Bobby Frost (05:10):
Yeah, that's crazy though, but yeah, nah, I don't
know.
Man, I need to slow my ass down.
I'm gonna be honest about that.
That's the real.
I definitely need to slow myass down?
Jus Mystie (05:18):
Yeah, cause I think you drinking Like a fifth a day.
Nah, just kidding.
Bobby Frost (05:21):
I did do a fifth last Sunday, did a little bit
over a fifth.
I'm becoming an alcoholic.
That's why I said I got to getmyself together For all my
listeners out there.
We have to jump into this topic.
We at the halfway mark y'allAnything you're listening to
right now, anything in theepisode, pay attention to this.
We at the halfway mark.
Jus Mystie (05:43):
End of the second season, end of the second
quarter.
Bobby Frost (05:44):
If you look at quarter, yeah, if you look at
the right now, it's halftime.
You know you're going there, soif you defeat it, you, you, you
drain.
You feel like you're down onthe scoreboard.
Hey, man, this this coach, rob,coach bobby, talking to you.
Hey, you gotta dig deep, all 10toes down.
Jus Mystie (06:00):
Go out there and go win put them, numbers up, revamp
your goals, look at them, writethem down.
Oh, rob, tell the listenerswhat you did, that I told you to
do.
I'm gonna let you tell them,rob has a planner yep, I had to
go get it, man.
Bobby Frost (06:18):
Rob has a planner and he's organizing his life
yeah, man, like I said, onething I do I'm intentional with
prayer now, like really when Ipray, I don thing I do I'm
intentional with prayer now,like really when I pray, I don't
.
I used to pray vague as hell.
Yeah yeah, now, when I pray,I'm intentional.
I pray for organization,prioritization, preparation.
That's what's up, so I pray forit.
Jus Mystie (06:37):
I'm proud of you.
I'm proud of you.
Before we jump into our subject, that is something else.
I have been on.
I have been.
I told y'all that I wasembarking on my little spiritual
journey and trying to find andget a better relationship with
God.
And for those that do believein that, you know, and if you
don't, that's fine, I ain'tknocking nobody's shit.
But I have actually and y'allknow I do not fuck with churches
, but I found a pastor that Ilike, jerusalem and, um, I've
(07:02):
been eight, eight Sundays in arow.
Bobby Frost (07:06):
That's big.
Jus Mystie (07:07):
Eight Sundays straight, bro, I was like look
at this.
And woke up last week it waslike I was really like oh up,
like I got church, this today.
Yeah, it's just you know.
But I do go.
I ain't gonna lie to y'all.
A lot of fuck with churches.
I do still go as soon as thepastor finna start preaching.
As soon as he done, I leave, Iput my offerings in the thing on
my way out.
(07:28):
I don't really, and it ain'teven that I don't like the
worship part, it's just theychoir chatty, don't tell nobody
else, so I don't even go andwatch the choir.
Bobby Frost (07:38):
What they say, they don't get.
The spirit they don't make meget.
Jus Mystie (07:40):
Yeah, they don't get the spirit moving.
Yeah, it'd be like jesus.
Oh, that's the boring song youknow it's that tempo it's boring
, you know I don't fuck with it.
But yeah, though y'all shoutout to aj, I fuck with him.
He makes sure I understandwhat's going on.
So that's all I've been on okay, so let's get into it.
Bobby Frost (07:57):
Man, the episode today is the art of ghosting,
navigating silent endings,admiring dating.
So with that, saying, I don'tunderstand this shit like this
shit became part of the culture.
Now the ghost people like thatshit is just the big thing to do
.
Jus Mystie (08:12):
Ghosts like I think, define ghosts for the listeners
, even though they already know.
Do you mean, like, stopanswering?
Bobby Frost (08:19):
yeah, you just disappear, you all all the
contact you have with thisperson, you just drop it.
That's like to me that's somewild shit to do, man, and then
if a motherfucker come pop youin your ass or do some wild shit
to you, a motherfucker wouldsit back and think like you know
what I'm saying.
Jus Mystie (08:37):
First of all, let me say this I'm not getting
ghosted.
I'm not getting ghosted Causethat shit is.
That's janky as fuck.
Don't just not At least tell mewhy you don't wanna Fuck with
me no more, cause then you ain'tGonna have to ghost me, cause
I'ma be like, okay, cool, i'mastop fucking with you.
But if you don't tell me it's aproblem, or I don't know why
you don't wanna Fuck with me nomore, or that I don't want me to
(09:03):
talk to you, and then I won't.
Bobby Frost (09:04):
I don't.
The ghosting is crazy, likewhen you really Put that shit
into, like it's crazy.
You just, you, just you gotsomebody Feelings or attention
Rolling with it, they gettinginfatuated With you or whatever
they level Of emotionalattachment.
Jus Mystie (09:21):
Is to you?
And then what if you gosomebody and then you find out
they fucking killed they selfthat next week?
Right, like seriously, though Ifeel like you shouldn't do
people like that, because Ithink closure is important in
any situation, in all honesty,cause I feel like you can't
truly get over a situation, nomatter how light it was or no
matter how big it was.
You can't get over it until youlike no and you ghosting a
(09:43):
motherfucker.
That just that's just not right.
But I'm not getting ghostedagain, I'm popping the fuck up,
and if you get in trouble behindit or if you want to whoop my
ass behind it, then we justgoing to be out here fighting
because you should answer thismotherfucking phone.
Bobby Frost (09:54):
Yeah, it's just like I don't know why this
became a phenomenon now, I trulydon't.
Jus Mystie (09:59):
It is thing um like it's trendy, but I wonder why?
How do you really go somebodythough with social media?
Bobby Frost (10:07):
and shit.
Jus Mystie (10:07):
I mean you just yeah , that's it you think that I'm
gonna stand for being blocked?
No, I'm gonna go right on robpage and look up your shit,
because I know you ain't eventhinking to block rob.
You might buy you, they mightblock courtney, they might block
your immediate friends too.
So you can't see.
You know, they're not gonnaeverybody.
I don't give a fuck if I go andI'm, and it's me and another
bitch, I don't know if we aresitting there having a drink of
(10:30):
smoke and you with somebody else, guess what bitch.
Let me see your phone so I cansee this.
Bobby Frost (10:36):
It's crazy man.
You know what I'm saying Like.
Jus Mystie (10:50):
I ain't getting ghosted.
It is wild like that ghost andshit is wild like it's a
phenomenon like, and it someoneto me some of the chattiest shit
catch on fire, in my opinion.
Bobby Frost (10:54):
You know what I'm saying like you think ghosting
is chatty.
I can't say all the way chatty.
I think it's chatty when you'redoing it because it's trendy.
You know what I'm saying.
Like you, you fucking oversomebody.
Jus Mystie (11:00):
Just be fucking over that's, I don't wait a minute,
okay so you think that ghostingsomebody I don't think ghosting
somebody is fucking oversomebody.
I think that people ghostpeople because they don't want
to hurt nobody's feelings orthey don't want to go through
the communication of saying thatI don't want to fuck with you.
Bobby Frost (11:15):
That's not, that's not being chatty about it.
Like I'm saying, like it's it's, it's it's chatty, like I'm
gonna tell you something I usedto do when I was younger with
Shadi.
You know what I'm saying.
It's a good comparison.
Jus Mystie (11:23):
Hi, Woo Woo.
Bobby Frost (11:24):
Just trying to run up the score of fucking bitches.
That was Shadi.
Now I think about-.
Jus Mystie (11:27):
Wait a minute, you would ghost somebody to fuck
somebody.
Bobby Frost (11:29):
No, I'm saying that was Shadi.
Something I would say whatShadi was done was trendy when I
was growing up.
That's just the era I was don'tagree with that.
Jus Mystie (11:42):
You wasn't doing it because the person didn't like
you didn't like the person.
Bobby Frost (11:45):
You was just doing it because that was high fives.
Jus Mystie (11:47):
I think that that's why you go.
Oh no, I think that's whypeople ghost people.
I don't think it because theydon't be liking them.
Maybe they be dealing with thesituation.
Bobby Frost (11:55):
I went into it with the mindset that I was going.
It was a song called TutorNeboot.
I was going.
I went in there with theattention to Hi Sequan.
I went in there with theattention to knock something
down and get the fuck out ofhere Hi.
Rayanna, that's Chatty.
Jus Mystie (12:08):
Y'all what y'all think about.
Ghosting Y'all.
I mean, that's what we talkingabout today Ghosting how they
just don't call, don't answer,don't text, block you on
everything.
Have any of y'all.
Bobby Frost (12:20):
That's.
That's, that's to me.
If you got a valid reason, youknow what I'm saying.
Jus Mystie (12:24):
You, just somebody, whatever it is, there's no valid
reason to just stop talking tosomebody.
You should be adult.
At this big age you should beable to say you know what, rob,
this friendship ain't working,I'm gonna go my separate way,
you go yours.
Or this relationship ain'tworking, I'm gonna do me, I'm
gonna do you.
There's no reason that I shouldhave to block you on my phone,
block you on social media andlike really ghost you.
(12:46):
That's crazy and then that makepeople worry about you.
Shit, I could be worried aboutyour stupid ass, thinking you in
the ditch dead somewhere.
Nigga, we in Flint, right,don't be fucking ghosting me.
Tell me you don't want me.
No more bitch so I can cry andget over it.
Whatever the fuck the case maybe I.
Bobby Frost (13:01):
I, you know I ain't never ghosted nobody, for the
most part, like I would tell youwhat's up.
Jus Mystie (13:05):
Rex, we talking about being ghosted, when people
just stop talking to you, justdon't text you Nothing.
Bobby Frost (13:12):
Just cut off all communication.
That's crazy man.
Jus Mystie (13:15):
To me like.
Bobby Frost (13:15):
I said it's a wild thing to do.
It's a phenomenon.
I be seeing people talk aboutit.
It's crazy.
Dj Woo said.
Jus Mystie (13:25):
I ghost crazy.
Dj woo said I ghosted amotherfucker because I'm
tenderoni, because I'm tenderoni, woo.
And if you know, and if you onbs and you're not telling me,
i'ma ghost you what bs, what doyou mean?
And then why would you ghost me?
Instead of just why, can't youjust tell me, like you want some
bullshit, I'm finna.
Bobby Frost (13:37):
Get the fuck on down because I'm gonna go back
to what you just said, like thisis the truth.
You know, I'm saying the impactof it, like the emotional
effects of being a person thatgot ghosted.
Like think about that shit.
You really feeling somebody andyou could have done something
wrong, but you didn't know youdid something wrong and they
just cut all communication.
Jus Mystie (13:52):
That's what I'm saying that's why it's not fair
and that's why you're not gonnaghost me.
I am popping the fuck upbecause what?
What did I do tell me?
I'm not a person that can dealwith being ghosted and I'm not
being funny, I don't give a fuckif I catch you out with your
bitch as respectfully as I can.
I'm going to be like hey, rob,how are you bitch?
You shouldn't have ghosted me.
Now if she gonna ask who I amand all of that shit, that's on
(14:13):
you, because you should havetold me why you wasn't gonna
fuck with me, no more like I'mlistening what she says.
Bobby Frost (14:17):
That man says these men don't understand when you
be up front and tell them yougotta ghost them or they'll
manipulate the situation andmake them the victim and you the
villain.
And I'm gonna use, I'm gonna,I'm gonna uh piggyback on what
she said, with changing this isthe truth.
I feel like ghosting somebodylike that, especially if they
ain't know what the fuck theydid.
I think that's like villainorigin stories when
(14:38):
motherfuckers turn into likesuper villains and shit.
That's what I feel like.
It's like you done, fucked theperson up okay.
Jus Mystie (14:43):
So okay, we saying that now there's a destiny, just
said shout out to destiny.
Destiny says sometimes itdepends on what type of
relationship we have.
Like, if we met two or threeweeks ago, then fuck it.
Okay, destiny, I feel that, butI still think that you don't
know how emotionally attached Iwas to you in them two or three
weeks.
I know it sound crazy, but inmy mind I could have been like I
want to make her my bitch.
(15:03):
And now you didn't ghost to meand I don't even know what the
fuck I didn't do that's that'sthat's the problem I'm having
with the emotional side ofsomebody being ghosted I feel
like we, I feel like it's notright, because what if it was
something that I do witheverybody?
and now, as a woman, you didn'tghost to me because I did this
and I could keep getting ghostedbecause of that reason, and I
don't even know because ain'tnobody took their time to
communicate it to me.
That's fucked up.
(15:24):
So I feel like we need tocommunicate with people before
we just ghost them, cause I Iain't going to say I ghost the
motherfucker because I don'tblock them and all of that extra
shit, but I will stop answeringthe phone.
Bobby Frost (15:36):
But you know what?
Now I'm gonna flip the script.
I'm gonna flip the script realquick.
Jus Mystie (15:39):
Me popping up is insane, no, insane, no, you
blocking me is insane I'm gonnaflip the script real quick now.
Bobby Frost (15:44):
I'm gonna flip it.
How about the uh perspective ofthe ghoster, the person who?
Why?
You know why I will somebody,why would somebody want to go
somebody?
Jus Mystie (15:54):
I think that the only reason you would go
somebody is because you don'twant to hurt their feelings, or
you don't want to communicatewhatever the issue was, or you
don't want to communicate thatyou just wanted to fuck and I'm
gone.
Like I think that it's a lackof communication, that person
that's ghosting.
Just they don't know how tocommunicate.
Sometimes it ain't what youthought it was and those.
Okay, so, destiny, why wouldn'tyou just say that to me?
(16:17):
Like you know what I'm saying?
Okay, she said people don'tknow how to express themselves.
I get it, but as adults, youshould be able to say I thought
this day, me and my cousin justtalked about it.
I hate to switch up, but I'mgonna tell you what she said.
She said that she would get upand walk out in the middle of a
date Like you know what I'msaying, like it's not working
and I think that's fucked up.
Like why would you do that?
(16:37):
Why wouldn't you finish it?
And then, during the date, wecan talk about it, like you know
what I'm saying.
Or, or after the date, you canbe like you know, like I I
enjoyed myself, but I thoughtthis was.
You know, I'm saying this and Ifeel like community.
We lack communication, bro.
I can't.
Bobby Frost (16:51):
I'm getting frustrated even thinking about
it, because all it is iscommunication see, and you
saying it, and that's that'swhat I'm saying, that's we just
talking about it?
Ghosting is big man.
Jus Mystie (17:00):
That's fucked up like and people do fall in love,
fast as hell, faster than Inever even saw this shit in life
.
Motherfuckers will fall in love, do you hear me?
And really be loving each otheryeah, and that's what I'm
saying.
Bobby Frost (17:11):
Like now, I'm trying to look at it from both
ways.
I'm looking at it from theperson being ghosted and then a
ghoster, because it might beemotional reason why this person
ghosted.
Now I would say this I have inthe past you know I'm saying not
being funny I have in the pastand that's still ghosting.
Like I get to a point where I'mso overwhelmed or so in a mood
(17:31):
and I'll just be like fuck it.
You know I'm saying I'm notpicking up the phone for you,
I'm not talking to nobody andit's not intentionally, I'm
trying to hurt you feeling.
I'm just overwhelmed, what'sgoing on with me, and I don't
want to bring my baggage, myluggage, to you.
Jus Mystie (17:43):
Okay.
So what's wrong with you sayingthat, instead of having me at
the house losing my mind becauseRob didn't just up and stop
talking to me I don't know whatI did.
I thought we was on tosomething good.
If you having issues, and youare, it's okay to say that.
That's all I'm saying.
People don.
I'm saying people don'tcommunicate.
(18:04):
If you Listen, when my uh, whenmy per be here I just learned
that word Too.
Even though you don't got noperiod, I'm still sharing it
with you.
When my per be here, I don'twant to talk to you, I don't
Want to look at you.
I don't want you to come lay inthe bed with me.
Guess what, when my nigga calland be like what you doing, I'm
finna.
Come over there.
I say that I don't just be like.
Let you think I got an attitudeabout something else.
I'll be like I don't feel likebeing bothered today.
I might not be like nigga, I'mbleeding, leave me alone.
I'm going to be like.
(18:24):
I don't feel like beingbothered, I just want to be by
myself.
Bobby Frost (18:26):
It's funny man, Hold on.
Jus Mystie (18:27):
What's wrong with communication?
Bobby Frost (18:29):
She just said I ghost dudes who dick was trash,
Not going to lie.
I unfollow and block.
Jus Mystie (18:37):
I.
If they find a way to get incontact with me, I'm going to
tell them that's fucked up.
I'm not going to use thosewords, but I'm going to be like
you know, I.
I'm a person that sex isimportant to me.
Did see, did I start that right?
Yeah, yeah, that ain't hurtyour feelings If I'd be like sex
is very important to me and wejust didn't.
Our chemistry chemistry was off, it wasn't.
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That ain't mean, is it?
Bobby Frost (19:07):
no, no, okay, well, I always think that's gonna be
like your dick was little asfuck, like that's what I'm
saying, the ghosting part that'swhy I'm saying it's fucked up,
like the communication part withthe ghost, and like why can't
you just sit up and tellsomebody hey, I'm easing up out
this bitch because of thisreason, like if that was a case,
if the, the dick was trash, hey, hey, what you just said, not
you have it because he mighthave thought the dick was great.
Jus Mystie (19:26):
Okay, fuck, she said .
Destiny said if she textingsomebody, she said you right,
communication is everything, butif I'm texting somebody I will
lose interest in theconversation so quick and just
stop texting back.
So should that be consideredghosting as well?
Yeah, it is considered ghosting, but you know what?
I'm happy you brought that up,because for real destiny I ain't
gonna say a lot of men, becauseI heard a lot of dudes said
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about females too.
Some people just don't know howto hold conversation.
You know, I'm saying it'sboring because I I don't know
why it's boring, but it's boring.
I've ran across dudes that I'llbe texting too and I'll be like
he don't even know what to say.
You know what I'm saying?
He don't know what to say.
He don't know what to say next.
He don't even know how to startthis conversation.
So I stopped talking to him too.
But before I stopped talking tohim I try to initiate it,
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though like I try to say shit,ask questions.
But if you being dry and youdon't know how to talk and hold
conversation, then yeah, I'm out.
Bobby Frost (20:16):
I ain't getting back and see that's, that's all
my whole key thing tonight.
Why not just tell somebody hey,listen, the issue I have right
now is you don't know how tohold my attention, so I'm about
to bag up my thing hold on mything with people when it comes
to ghosting and I ain't neverbeen ghosted like that, you know
.
I'm just saying I have ghostedsomebody, a couple people before
and it wasn't intentional.
(20:36):
But my thing be like this iswhy can't you just tell somebody
how you feel and stand on whatyou said?
You right that, that's it.
Like I'm looking at Porsche.
Porsche that goes and shows alack of maturity and security.
Grow the fuck up andcommunicate Seriously.
Jus Mystie (20:51):
You're right, porsche, cause, I swear to God,
they just do y'all think.
Let me ask y'all a question andwe got 20 viewers, y'all.
Do y'all think that womencommunicate more than men, or do
y'all think it's kind of like aequal thing that motherfuckers
just ain't communicating?
I think it's now.
I think this generation I thinkit's.
Bobby Frost (21:09):
It's depending on the person, who the people is,
because some guys are greatcommunicator.
Myself, I feel like I'm a greatcommunicator.
I'm gonna tell you how I feel,because if you're feeling get
hurt, just feeling get hurt, Iknow I'm not gonna deliver the
message in a fucked up way Ithink that that's the point that
people have to get to thematurity thing that you said.
Jus Mystie (21:24):
I think that's absolutely correct, but I think
that you have to get to a pointwhere you okay with hurting
somebody, feelings like it'sjust.
There's no way that you cantell somebody that they're not
for you without hurting theirfeelings unless they feel the
same way.
Now they feel the same way andthey come back and be like you
know what?
I the same thing.
You know that we wasn't reallyon the same page.
I think that's what's wrongwith the black community period.
Bobby Frost (21:46):
That's why I went back to what I said.
With the ghoster, you got totake the ghoster perspective.
If I don't like here, gopromise up.
I done seen this happen too.
Some people are they're notcombative, so they try to avoid
conflict at all costs.
So, even though they know theydon't want to fuck with this
person or they want to end thiswith the situation, instead of
them being grown about it andbeing like, hey, this is this,
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is that they just gonna say I'mgonna fall back and hopefully
they get the message.
Jus Mystie (22:11):
Okay, but that's another part about maturity on
the other person's end, becausewhy do it have to be a
confrontation or a debate, orwhy does it have to be any
aggression at all because you'renot feeling me or I'm not
feeling you?
A motherfucker gotta acceptthat.
Everybody ain't for everybody.
No I'm with some stuff I doain't gonna be for you.
You feel me like in some stuffanother motherfucker do ain't
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gonna be for me, like why.
Bobby Frost (22:34):
I would say this too in my own past relationships
you know I'm sayingsituationships, all that under
the sun it's sometimes I thoughtabout like I should have
probably just ghosted and wenton about my motherfucking
business, because even me beingmature and telling them about it
, I still got to take thebacklash of you getting upset,
cussing me out, fuck you andlike why are you like you said?
(22:54):
Why are you doing that?
Because I'm telling you how Ifeel.
Jus Mystie (22:57):
I made that girl feel so bad.
I would have said see, you'renot even mature enough for me.
Bobby Frost (23:00):
Man, females, don't give a fuck.
You think I ain't say that?
Jus Mystie (23:03):
Listen, you got to stop thinking.
That's the problem withmotherfuckers.
Niggas think that we don't givea fuck about nothing because we
keep snapping.
Yes, the fuck we do, just likewhen a motherfucker don't react
to us.
Bobby Frost (23:15):
Y'all think that don't piss us off.
Hell yeah, I'm sure enough tocome have a uh, you know, have a
meaningful I mean meaningfulconversation.
Have a meaningful dialogue withyou and I tell you hey, listen,
this is why I'm doing this andthis is why I want to fall back
or be done that's why shestopped explaining why she goes
down.
Jus Mystie (23:31):
Okay, jerron, let me ask you, I'm with her no,
jerron just said that he keep itsimple and be like I'm not
feeling you.
Okay, jerron, as a woman, if Iwas to be like no attitude or
nothing, if I just came back andwas like, damn well, you know
what I'm saying, can you tell mewhy?
Is it something I did?
Because I want to better myselfas a woman.
It could have been somethingthat you could have been like
bitch, you were chewing withyour mouth open.
(23:53):
I don't know Something that Icould have worked on.
I'm just saying would you beable to sit there and have a
conversation with me and saythis is why I'm not feeling you
like you know I'm saying and notbe a dick about it, would you
be able to do that, because Ijust don't think.
Bobby Frost (24:07):
Or here go another thing for a ghoster I'm gonna
take, I'm gonna play deviladvocate for the ghoster.
So maybe a person who's careabout emotion so much they don't
want to hurt somebody emotion,even though you're still gonna
hurt their, their feelings, theydon't want to hurt them I think
, if you deliver, if you deliverit correctly.
Jus Mystie (24:22):
You shouldn't hurt my feelings.
You telling me you're notfeeling me.
Okay, that ain't gonna hurt myfeelings if I be like okay, well
, you know I'm saying like why?
Nah, I mean, I can see.
If it's some shit where you belike your breath stank or some
shit you don't want to tell them, I'm gonna go back to uh, uh in
the live, uh, miss, uh, smith,matia smith, what she said?
Bobby Frost (24:39):
the guy dick was trash Nine times out of ten.
You tell a guy that you aboutto crush him.
Jus Mystie (24:44):
Why do it Delivery Again?
Why would I be like your dick,trash bro.
Bobby Frost (24:48):
So how you going to tell him that the sex is bad?
Jus Mystie (24:50):
When you call again, I'm going to be like you know.
You know what I'm saying.
Last time we was together, Ijust really wasn't feeling it.
Now, when I wasn't feeling itnow, when I say that what you
gonna say, I'm gonna ask what,what was you not feeling?
I don't really think our sexualchemistry was there, and I'm a
big person on sex.
Bobby Frost (25:07):
So what was what?
What I'm because I'm, I'm, nowI'm again.
Let's have this conversation.
Jus Mystie (25:11):
That's my answer.
Okay, so I'm actually.
So what was?
Bobby Frost (25:14):
off with the chemistry.
What was the imbalance?
Jus Mystie (25:17):
um, I just kind of felt like I usually like a
little bit larger.
Bobby Frost (25:21):
You know what I'm saying listen for any of the
fellas in here.
Right now.
If a chick tell you what mistyjust said I like larger how do
you react?
Be honest, I didn't say you waslittle.
Jus Mystie (25:34):
I said I like listen , that's why I need some fellas.
Bobby Frost (25:38):
Y'all gotta tap in on this comment man what if I
reworded?
Jus Mystie (25:42):
They said it wasn't just.
It just wasn't enough for me.
I didn't say your dick, I saidthe sex and it wasn't enough for
me.
Bobby Frost (25:47):
I'm going to ask you what wasn't enough?
The sex.
What about it?
Jus Mystie (25:51):
I didn't last long enough, I didn't have an orgasm.
I'm that's still, you stillknocking the confidence level.
I'm saying it as nice as I can.
Okay, this is what I'm saying.
I can't, I can't, worry aboutyour confidence versus my.
I'm with you, hold on, I'm withyou.
Bobby Frost (26:08):
100 with that, that's.
That's the maturity level I'mgetting at it.
Take a mature person to be ableto sit down.
Jus Mystie (26:14):
Did you just hear my why?
When he said why, I'm going tosay I don't think our sexual
chemistry was there.
Now, what's the next questionto you?
Because the sexual chemistrywas off.
He said that the dude gonna saywhy was the sexual chemistry
off?
And then I'm gonna say it.
Bobby Frost (26:30):
No, I'll say what you said at first.
No, the first one.
You changed it.
I like a little larger.
Jus Mystie (26:33):
I prefer something a little larger how.
Bobby Frost (26:35):
That's why I said ain't no, ain't no man's uh
comment on this.
But I can't.
I'm on podcast If a female tellme that she likes it larger.
You just man.
You just hit a death blow.
I'm on suicide watch now.
Jus Mystie (26:49):
Okay.
Bobby Frost (26:51):
I'm on suicide watch.
Jus Mystie (26:52):
Okay, so what?
God damn, If my pussy stained,what you gonna say?
Or if it was dry, what yougonna say when I say, when I say
why you ain't feeling me?
Bobby Frost (27:01):
I'm going to tell you see, this is me, I'm going
to do it the same way you justdid it, but I'm going to be a
little bit more blunt, but notdisrespectful.
Tell, like you know what I'msaying.
Like I said when I was downthere and shit it was, it was
one of them ways.
Well, why you?
Jus Mystie (27:13):
ain't spit on it.
Bobby Frost (27:14):
I shouldn't have to .
Jus Mystie (27:15):
Yeah.
Bobby Frost (27:25):
People you gonna tell you this is me okay if I'm
not turning this babe I wasn'twet because you didn't turn me
on.
Jus Mystie (27:27):
I was getting there before you said it.
I didn't turn.
I'm not feeling, you know, hurtby that.
I didn't turn you on that.
We not together with okay.
So see, two adults should beable to be like you know, maybe
we shouldn't fuck with a femaley'all.
Bobby Frost (27:31):
That's a little bit different to tell a female that
no, it's not.
Jus Mystie (27:34):
Yes, it is because a little dick and dry pussy.
No, it's not.
No, it's not the same thing I'mgoing to tell you why it's not
the same thing.
Bobby Frost (27:40):
Hold on, I'm going to tell you why it's not the
same thing.
I don't know why fellas ain'tcommenting on it.
They might be a little insecureabout getting this one.
I can comment on it.
You're right, this is the truth.
You can fix not being moistenough.
They have KY jelly and otherthings.
Jus Mystie (27:55):
You're right.
Bobby Frost (27:57):
You can't fix deep enough.
Jus Mystie (28:00):
You know I'm saying you can't get the feelings you
can't fix, there's no fixing.
This is the thing, what you'regonna fix it.
That's why I'm saying okay, see, this is a whole nother subject
.
That's why we need to take itback to sexual education,
because, first of all, you ain'tgot to get deep to make me come
.
You gotta know what the fuckyou doing with that little stop,
stop right there, I tell youyour dick little and I didn't.
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You can't make me cum.
Bobby Frost (28:22):
If you tell a guy that large, and that's why you
you know what I'm saying.
Jus Mystie (28:26):
First of all, hold on, hold on.
This is what I'm saying.
Bobby Frost (28:27):
In that situation I would feel like, yeah, that's
probably just a better ghostingsituation.
You might as well do theghosting let's be clear.
Jus Mystie (28:37):
first of all, Let me just say this he knew his dick
was little before he came here.
I don't give a fuck what theseniggas say.
You know when your dick little.
You knew that before you camehere.
So me putting a stamp on it isjust another bitch.
Putting a stamp on it because Iknow you heard it before.
Bobby Frost (28:51):
That's why I'm going to agree with you.
We need to get her on the showwhat she just said.
Jus Mystie (28:55):
When you coming home so you can get on the phone but
what she just said yeah, I'mwrong with that.
Bobby Frost (29:03):
You might as well just ghost me.
If that was the case, justghost me, Don't.
You ain't got to crush me, butyou knew your dick was little.
And guess what?
Jus Mystie (29:10):
He might not know you think I'm gonna let you get
up out of here and you got mypussy on your dick and you know,
if you spread it they come askme.
That's the response they get.
His dick was little, so he'snever getting no more she said
june 28th.
Bobby Frost (29:25):
We got to get her on because I'm june 28th natia,
I rocks with you in thatsituation.
That's why I was going to it.
That's where I was taking acertain situation.
I think your ghosting is theright way.
That situation right there,yeah, just ghost me.
If my shit ain't adding up, itain't reaching.
Jus Mystie (29:40):
So when should Ghost me?
Okay, so if sex Is an okayreason, well, basically We've
come up with Sex is an okayreason To ghost somebody.
Bobby Frost (29:48):
She just said the same thing.
Just ghost him.
Yeah, just Ghost me.
Man, y'all bitches weak.
Jus Mystie (29:53):
I'm telling that I don't want to have that
conversation.
No, just for that.
Bobby Frost (29:57):
You tell a nigga that nigga on suicide watch.
Jus Mystie (30:00):
When I come, tell a nigga, that man, that nigga on
suicide watch, when I come, whenI come in on live and I got a
black eye, just know that Ididn't tell somebody that's why
I said if a female, I tell afemale, she not, she not moist.
Bobby Frost (30:06):
And the first day female gonna say that's what
she's gonna say, her comeback isyou didn't make me wet, okay, I
can't say you can't come, tellme my dick little.
I could say, well, you didn'tmake it large enough I had no
more grow, though, so I don'tgot no more inches.
I gave you all of my time.
You didn't go find you a littlebitch, I don't know, I don't
know, so I get it.
Jus Mystie (30:22):
Sex may be a good reason to ghost somebody.
I'm getting that Okay.
Sex may be a good reason, butnot when it's something that
they did, like something thatthey could fix.
You know what I'm saying?
I think that you should givesomebody time.
Bobby Frost (30:36):
I'm listening to one person that said First
priority should be pleasing youand making sure you have an
orgasm, no matter size.
I feel like that's how I am too, but again, if the females used
to be knocked down and youcan't knock on the door and now
I'm going to say you can't knockon the door.
You doing this, you doinglittle taps.
You can't come through thatbitch like the ATL.
Jus Mystie (30:52):
Yes, you can Listen.
What can you do?
My niggas is totally opposite.
I I'm tiny because I don't fuckwith no tiny dicks, but that
does not mean that if you candeal with a horse and deal with
a pencil, all of the same youcan come, no matter what.
Bobby Frost (31:09):
Man, listen, I'm going to say this and this is
funny, man, I'll say this Like Iremember.
It's a little video goingaround that was viral a long
time ago.
That's all the reason.
I'm a ghost too.
That's like a female tanninist,right here.
That's like a female tannius,right here.
You just you the right size,you just fit the right size,
that's like.
So what you're saying, I'm, I'm, I'm okay, I'm average.
That's what you said.
That's still.
That's a backhanded compliment,okay.
Jus Mystie (31:37):
First, of all, let me see, let me let me say this I
said it give a fuck if thatmotherfucker 12 inches.
That don't mean you know how tofuck.
So I don't give a fuck if it'sfour inches, that don't mean you
can't fuck.
So when it comes to the size ofyour dick, it's just what y'all
can and can't do.
Y'all have to figure it out.
If that motherfucker littlecause, granted, if it's big
enough, I can just matter what,because I'm filled up with that
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motherfucker.
Y'all with the little dicks dohave to work a little bit harder
.
Sorry, but it can't happen sofigure it out.
Bobby Frost (32:04):
Figure out how to work your tool I'm with you, so
in that case, that's somethingyou should ghost.
I got another question for any,any other situation that you
think you should just gosomebody for, like something
else that you think having aconversation is gonna be.
I went my cuz.
Jus Mystie (32:16):
She said if they can't handle the truth, they
pussy.
Period.
There's a lot of pussy people.
Yeah, I just.
I just wanted to say pussy withthat much aggression behind it.
Bobby Frost (32:25):
Now it's what can you like if I told a female she
was corny, it never mattered.
Jus Mystie (32:29):
Carmel, goddess, you right, it never mattered.
The niggas think it mattersbecause this is me again.
Bobby Frost (32:33):
I don't have this situation never ghosted, but it
was hard for me to tell a femaleyou're corny, like outside of
outside of sex.
What's corny you?
You corny Like I don't likeyour music, taste your shit
bland when we chilling.
I can't hold a conversationwith you.
You're corny.
Jus Mystie (32:48):
Okay, so how long?
Okay, how long should you givea motherfucker Like is it after
the first date, where you justbe like this ain't gonna work,
Listen, I can't tell you off afirst date that you're corny.
Bobby Frost (32:57):
Now people can do that, that you you an amazing
person.
But after I'd been Chillingwith you for a month or two and
I'm just watching like Dog Ghostin his weakest, she corny.
I'd have had a corny chickBefore that.
Her sex was great, but she wasjust corny Like outside the sex.
He wondering why we get donewith sex.
I'm like, yeah, I'm about to.
I got something to go do everytime.
Jus Mystie (33:14):
So what do you want to do?
Bobby Frost (33:17):
Fuck there, corny, I don't I'm gonna start losing
set answers in the sex because,damn nigga, all I can do is
corny like weird.
Jus Mystie (33:25):
No, he's saying corny that he said her music
choice, chatty, he can't hold aconversation with her.
That type shit.
I got tears it's just corny,y'all.
I'm over here laughing at rob.
She said, oh god, I'm dealingwith somebody and they so corny,
and I don't know how to tellhim, so I'm just ignoring him.
Janae, I hooked you up withsomebody.
Chatty.
The african was chatty as helland corny as fuck.
I know he was that's all.
Bobby Frost (33:47):
I've been in that situation before man and it was
hard to tell him, like you,corny listen.
Jus Mystie (33:53):
Yeah, cory, you can shout out to cory jackson,
that's my, uh, that's my husbandbrother-in-law.
No, I mean my husband brother.
Bobby Frost (33:58):
She said my brother-in-law not a nerd, no,
it's just like you're.
You know.
It's a word that we use a lotin the culture now a vibe.
You're not a, you're theopposite of vibe.
I don't even know what the wordis for opposite vibe except for
corn.
Jus Mystie (34:11):
You're not a vibe.
Bobby Frost (34:12):
Yeah, like I did not catch a vibe, yeah like shit
, man, and I'd have had a femalelike that a couple of them
before like this.
I'll have one that the sex wasgood, the other other one that
nigga said if you can't cook, heghosting you.
Jus Mystie (34:22):
Damn, you gonna ghost me.
After we got to the point, Idone cooked for you, yeah there
you go Well at least if youghost me after that.
I know That'll dawn on me Likedamn.
I gave that nigga a plate lastweek.
He ain't talked to me since.
Maybe that shit was nasty.
Bobby Frost (34:33):
I guess I get it football player because I asked
them if they was down low andthey what.
The way they responded wasalarming.
It wasn't masculine response,responses at all.
Jus Mystie (34:47):
Both responses was very telling, see yeah, you got
to do that, though down therewhere you at sister, well, you
got to do that period becauseshit oh, dog said he pulled the
boomerang.
Bobby Frost (34:57):
He said he ghosted her because her toes was fucked
up.
I remember he put eddie pulledthe sheets back up.
Oh my God, corey, that shit wasfunny as hell.
But no, like certain things Ican say, like ghosting, to be
honest, certain shit I can seewhy you are ghosting.
And the other thing, I mean youjust being immature, the corny
situation.
I told her in the best way Icould tell her.
Jus Mystie (35:18):
Tell me what you said.
Bobby Frost (35:19):
I told her.
I said yeah, we just not.
You know compatible.
We not kicking and we vibe.
You know what I'm saying?
We just not.
There's no excitement.
That's how I told her.
Jus Mystie (35:27):
Okay, well, let me get y'all my two cents on how
you tell somebody some fuck shitthat you don't want to tell
them.
I'm going to be honest withy'all.
I joke a lot, right?
So I told y'all that about it.
And then when it comes up andit's a conversation, now we can
really talk about it like I mean, I might be like bro, what was
that last night?
I didn't even come.
(35:47):
That's crazy.
And then he don't think I'mjoking or he gonna be like man,
yes, and then I'll be like no, Ididn't for real, though, like
so you get it.
You know, this is what we gotto do.
That's how I present shit thatI don't want to talk about.
Bobby Frost (35:59):
Yeah, joke no, I, I joke time.
I joke time too, but I tellpeople who know me if you see me
repeating the same jokes, I'mjust changing that bitch up with
the same joke.
It's the truth in there.
I'm trying to let you down easy.
Jus Mystie (36:10):
She said I guess I just.
She said I guess I'm just too100.
I would rather a nigga be realwith me because I'm going to be
real with him.
If I don don't want to fuckwith you.
I don't want to fuck with you,I'm with you.
Dimitri, tell me what's goodyou know what, and I?
Bobby Frost (36:23):
I see everybody saying that and I'm with that.
But this is something I alsoencountered during my trials of
living.
You know, I'm saying my walkthrough life.
People would say that shit,they want the real.
And when you kick the real tothem, even if you deliver good
hell, no, that's why so, cory?
Jus Mystie (36:38):
you just asked me why not just keep, not just
shoot it straight to him?
It that me doing it as a joke?
That's for me because I am aperson that don't really like
hurting people's feelings forreal, for real, like I ain't a
mean ass person, no matter whatpeople think they say.
I'm unapproachable.
I don't want to just shit onnobody like that.
So I rather like joke with you,ha ha ha, and then we can get
off into it, because I don'twant you to think I'm mad about
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it or I don't want you to think,like you know, I'm saying I
don't know, I just joke about itso that you can, so that you
can take it better.
Bobby Frost (37:09):
I don't know that's just say your brother, I said I
love you, that's just.
I appreciate everybody tuning inon a live, because this is my
favorite part of the show whenwe go live and we get the
feedback from the fans.
That's my favorite part of theshow.
I love that.
But yeah, that's like I said.
I think I'm glad we had a gooddialogue about this and you know
(37:29):
what.
What do you do when it comes toghosting, like you know what
I'm saying, because I I thinkand it got to the point where
people think that is the way tohandle all situations.
If it's not going the way youwant to go in a relationship,
some shit shouldn't be said.
Jus Mystie (37:41):
That's too hard of a conversation well, I'm gonna
tell y'all this before I get upout of here don't ghost me,
because I'm popping the fuck upat your mama house.
Bobby Frost (37:47):
She said she's a ghost buster I don't give ghost
buster.
Jus Mystie (37:50):
You hear me who?
Hey, where you at, you ain'tanswered your phone for me.
I just called my nigga.
Didn't call me for seven days,baby.
I called him and said, made himsay it again you a ghost buster
?
Ghost buster ain't no ghost ofmisty.
Bobby Frost (38:03):
No, sir, no hey ain't no ghost of misty, she's
not gonna go.
Hey, babe, what they call theproton packs, he coming, ghost
buster ain't no, ghost, you gotcompany, guess what?
Jus Mystie (38:12):
oh, my bad, call me I'm coming back.
Bobby Frost (38:15):
I ain't bad at you, it's, it's, it's it's.
That's why I said it's up withme.
That's why I said thisconversation.
I was geeked about it when Iseen it because I'm like man.
It's the truth, man.
Like it's hard to not ghostsomebody, but some situations
you can ghost, other ones youdon't.
That's why at first I wasagainst ghosting all the way,
but then when you break it downit's kind of like some shit
needs to be done.
I can respect that.
(38:35):
You know what I'm sayingbecause I have to respect that.
Jus Mystie (38:38):
Just don't ghost me.
Bobby Frost (38:39):
Yeah, you got to tell me my pussy stank or
whatever the fuck.
Jus Mystie (38:41):
The problem is.
Bobby Frost (38:42):
You got to tell me, because some of them shit is
too hard to have.
Jus Mystie (38:44):
Okay, well, what is it?
And if you tell me my pussystank, I'm going to be like why
you ain't tell me when you wasdown there I would have went to
the shower.
Bobby Frost (38:57):
I never told a female I ain't gonna lie to you,
that was it.
That was it, that was it Once.
I figured out that, yeah, thatshit was uh-huh.
You know what?
Let me go ease the fuck up outof here, boy.
That's it.
You know what?
Jus Mystie (39:11):
I'm saying I can't.
Bobby Frost (39:12):
I'm not going to be in this motherfucker with my
nose like this.
Jus Mystie (39:14):
What's crazy is we smell it before y'all.
Bobby Frost (39:17):
So I assume that, because that's what my grandmama
told me.
So I don't know why bitches actlike we definitely do.
Jus Mystie (39:21):
I'm like you didn't know that Sit down on air was
boofing when we got in the car.
Bobby Frost (39:25):
What'd they say?
The sit down win when you sitdown win.
Jus Mystie (39:27):
The sit down air was boofing.
When we got in the car wesmelled it.
Bobby Frost (39:30):
Like it's certain things woman especially, and
your shit really nasty, thatlike you can get you popping up
and everything ain't togetherdying while talking, when that
shit really nasty, while I'muncomfortable being there, I'll
tell you oh yeah, okay now I'mgonna hurt your feelings.
Jus Mystie (39:48):
We're gonna wrap it up with the nasty houses,
because that's a whole differentlevel yeah, I'm, I'm, I'm gonna
hurt, I'm here to hurt yourfeelings.
Bobby Frost (39:54):
I want, because you hurt my feelings, you right,
put me in this situation.
Jus Mystie (39:57):
Nigga, I don't want to come sit over here in the
trap with you fuck you right,yeah, so, um, you know we have
to end up.
Bobby Frost (40:02):
Hey, again, call to action.
Hey, drop them.
Comments on youtube uh, applemusic, spotify, iheart radio
facebook, space jam everywhereagain, pump us up.
We need it, I want it hey wegot another live event coming
too yeah, pump it up, pump it up.
You're running numbers, man.
(40:22):
I'm trying to get the algorithmto pop.
Run them up.
I got to do better, but I needy'all.
We're going to do bettertogether Togetherness.
Oh shit, what you beenlistening to, Rob?
Oh man, Really, I've beeneverywhere, man, Really like not
being funny.
What I've been listening to isProject About to Drop.
You know Hit-Boy the producer,His dad just got out of prison a
(40:44):
little while ago.
Big hit.
I've been listening to thisshit man.
He got a project coming outwith his son, Hit-Boy and
Alchemist and I've been off thatshit.
That gang move in.
Black and white is cold.
I fucks with it.
I fucks with it heavy.
Jus Mystie (40:59):
What you been off.
Um, I have actually beenlistening to a lot of the flint
artists around here.
I got a little project going on.
Um, I'm really finna.
Jump off into this managementshit here first, for real and
the music thing just because, ohyeah, that was just some light
work I ain't really been talkingtoo much about.
But yeah, I've been really likedealing with some producers
(41:20):
just giving my input on music,so I really ain't been listening
to nothing.
Bobby Frost (41:23):
Industry- yeah, that's, that's it.
So yeah, again, call to action.
You can catch me, bobby frost,media, on all social media.
I'm pumping it up at thehalfway mark.
Y'all know I'm saying y'all cansee it, but I'm really about to
go on an overgrind with it,like y'all gonna see me so much
on y'all timelines and shit likethat.
I know y'all gonna be tired ofme.
I can tell you fuck with it.
I don't.
It's up to you.
And where can they catch you?
(41:44):
At Just Misty.
Jus Mystie (41:45):
Y'all can catch me on all social media platforms,
at Just Misty, and that'sJ-U-S-M-Y-S-T-I-E, or y'all can
put in the official real name.
Learn it, it's going to be onbillboards soon.
Yo yo yo, it's your boy, bobby Frost, and Bobby
Frost Media presents Tri-Parency.
I'm with the beautiful ladyJust Misty.
Jus Mystie (00:07):
Yo, yo yo.
I'm going to change that up.
I should be a little morehappier.
Do it again.
Say it one more time.
Bobby Frost (00:13):
One more time.
One more time for the road.
Okay, I'm ready.
It's your boy, bobby Frost.
And Bobby Frost Media presentsTri-Parency.
I'm looking at your tonguesticking out, cause I was ready
man get the fuck on.
I don't wanna Just Missy.
Jus Mystie (00:29):
We good, you don't even be amped up enough for me.
That's why I don't be amped up.
Bobby Frost (00:33):
I be trying to.
I swear.
You know you bring the energy,that's your thing.
I so you wasn't feeling ittoday.
Jus Mystie (00:39):
I'm tired bro hey y'all hey, pew, pew, pew.
Bobby Frost (00:44):
And what's up, what y'all been up to.
Man, you know what I'm saying.
We back hey, I ain't lying toy'all.
This show gives me energy andlife.
Though.
I like chopping up with y'all.
I like doing this.
I have fun doing this.
This is my shit, I like doingit.
You all the feedback andsomebody bumping to me out there
(01:07):
or DM me or message me or eventext message me.
You know what I'm saying.
Hit me up.
Hey, I love all that.
I appreciate all of y'all.
Keep it up, man, y'all.
Even at the times I do like man, I got so much shit going on I
don't feel like recording.
That makes me get out andrecord.
I ain't gonna lie to y'all.
So I appreciate it all.
I appreciate it all.
You know ain't shit.
I ain't gonna lie to you.
I ain't no star, but it do feelgood.
Motherfucking coming like, yeah, I'm tapping in with you, bro,
I see you or what you been up to.
(01:29):
Okay, yeah, you about to besuper dope it'd be super dope,
that shit like damn, I'm like,yeah, I fucks with it.
I fucks with it.
So what, you been on misty I'vebeen super busy at work.
Jus Mystie (01:38):
I ain't gonna lie.
You know, the same old, sameold man I am.
It's the first today.
I ought not even be in here.
I ought to be somewherecollecting rent.
But wake up wake up.
Bobby Frost (01:48):
Wake up, it's the first of the month get up get up
.
Get up cash, some checks andcome on for real, yeah, no, I
ain't been on none that man.
You know I had a?
Um funeral to go to and it wasa sad thing.
I ain't gonna touch on it onhere.
But sad situation in myneighborhood was, um, some of my
uh, my home with my homie andit just, yeah, had me for a loop
(02:09):
.
But um, rip my dog, t-nick, forsure, yeah that had me tight,
yeah.
Jus Mystie (02:14):
Yeah, I heard y'all had a lot going on over there in
the hood yeah praying for thefamilies involved that.
It's been a lot of.
It's been a crazy ass week lastcouple of weeks in Flint anyway
, you know what I'm saying.
A lot of people lost theirlives.
I'm praying for all thefamilies involved.
Bobby Frost (02:29):
This was last weekend.
I pulled up to the gas stationin the hood, carpon Road,
saginaw.
Why the fuck was a car like thehuman torch came and torched
that bitch, this bitch.
When I say this bitch was like,yeah, melted all through.
All you had was the frame ofthe car, yeah.
Jus Mystie (02:46):
Yeah, that was crazy .
It was a shooting up there toolast weekend or maybe the
weekend before.
A girl lost her life.
Again praying for all thefamilies involved.
I don't know the details of it,but yeah, shit be getting crazy
in Flint in the summertime andI just have to pray extra hard
for my city man.
Bobby Frost (03:01):
That's the real, that's what you do.
You know, I'm saying that'swhat you do.
That shit, just like I saidthat shit, fuck me up man.
Jus Mystie (03:06):
I said I was, you know I'm gonna get that in two
seconds, but I'm going, I'm no,no, I got you.
Bobby Frost (03:11):
I'm turning it to you so you can have it.
Yeah, what you?
Think about yeah, okay, Ifucked around and, like I said,
I was out you know I'm sayingdangling and I seen that shit,
like I was buzzed, you know Ilooked like what the fuck?
Jus Mystie (03:23):
you've been out a whole lot.
Every I know that the followersand the listeners is peeping
that out and, uh, we have notbeen with you, me or courtney.
Courtney's still around y'all.
She is c doing her thing.
She graduated june 7th.
Shout out to her.
She knocked that shit out.
We missed her.
I'm so tired of talking to justrob, but I love you right they
always ask about her too.
Bobby Frost (03:43):
They y'all always ask about her.
Jus Mystie (03:44):
Yes, she will be back, graduation coming soon,
but you've been out without us.
What the fuck.
Bobby Frost (03:51):
You know, it don't even be like I be going on work
big, I just be out.
You know what I'm saying.
Jus Mystie (03:55):
You think we don't want to just be out with you.
I'm just confused on why youdon't ever call and be like,
because you be being fake onhere and these people probably
think we friends outside of herebut really in real life.
Bobby Frost (04:04):
Man, y'all be having.
This is the thing that y'allain't saying to the listeners
too.
Y'all be having y'all shitgoing on too and just be like I
didn't even know.
Jus Mystie (04:10):
But we called you.
We stopped calling you becauseyou never call us.
Bobby Frost (04:22):
I'm going to have to't know how this is me.
I'm being honest and shout outto my dog Quill, because I've
been doing this before for awhile.
I'm talking about like a sixmonth span when you're not
drinking and you go to the clubor a bar.
It's not, it's fun, no more.
I swear it's not Like if youain't doing no weed, you're not
(04:45):
for the people Anything to getyou intoxicated.
If you just going that bitch,sober as hell to a bar and club,
I know me, I talk to my dog.
You don't want to be there.
I know I don't.
I be like man, shit, what am Ihere for?
Jus Mystie (04:54):
I'm straight.
I didn't want that light rightthere back in my video.
Bobby Frost (04:57):
Okay, yeah, I'm like, yeah, I'm straight, I
don't want to be in that.
Jus Mystie (05:05):
Hell.
Bobby Frost (05:05):
no, what the hell Girl you over there, fight for
your life.
Jus Mystie (05:07):
I'm having technical difficulties.
My fucking Microphone isjumping out at me Damn, yeah,
that shit.
Bobby Frost (05:10):
Yeah, that's crazy though, but yeah, nah, I don't
know.
Man, I need to slow my ass down.
I'm gonna be honest about that.
That's the real.
I definitely need to slow myass down?
Jus Mystie (05:18):
Yeah, cause I think you drinking Like a fifth a day.
Nah, just kidding.
Bobby Frost (05:21):
I did do a fifth last Sunday, did a little bit
over a fifth.
I'm becoming an alcoholic.
That's why I said I got to getmyself together For all my
listeners out there.
We have to jump into this topic.
We at the halfway mark y'allAnything you're listening to
right now, anything in theepisode, pay attention to this.
We at the halfway mark.
Jus Mystie (05:43):
End of the second season, end of the second
quarter.
Bobby Frost (05:44):
If you look at quarter, yeah, if you look at
the right now, it's halftime.
You know you're going there, soif you defeat it, you, you, you
drain.
You feel like you're down onthe scoreboard.
Hey, man, this this coach, rob,coach bobby, talking to you.
Hey, you gotta dig deep, all 10toes down.
Jus Mystie (06:00):
Go out there and go win put them, numbers up, revamp
your goals, look at them, writethem down.
Oh, rob, tell the listenerswhat you did, that I told you to
do.
I'm gonna let you tell them,rob has a planner yep, I had to
go get it, man.
Bobby Frost (06:18):
Rob has a planner and he's organizing his life
yeah, man, like I said, onething I do I'm intentional with
prayer now, like really when Ipray, I don thing I do I'm
intentional with prayer now,like really when I pray, I don't
.
I used to pray vague as hell.
Yeah yeah, now, when I pray,I'm intentional.
I pray for organization,prioritization, preparation.
That's what's up, so I pray forit.
Jus Mystie (06:37):
I'm proud of you.
I'm proud of you.
Before we jump into our subject, that is something else.
I have been on.
I have been.
I told y'all that I wasembarking on my little spiritual
journey and trying to find andget a better relationship with
God.
And for those that do believein that, you know, and if you
don't, that's fine, I ain'tknocking nobody's shit.
But I have actually and y'allknow I do not fuck with churches
, but I found a pastor that Ilike, jerusalem and, um, I've
(07:02):
been eight, eight Sundays in arow.
Bobby Frost (07:06):
That's big.
Jus Mystie (07:07):
Eight Sundays straight, bro, I was like look
at this.
And woke up last week it waslike I was really like oh up,
like I got church, this today.
Yeah, it's just you know.
But I do go.
I ain't gonna lie to y'all.
A lot of fuck with churches.
I do still go as soon as thepastor finna start preaching.
As soon as he done, I leave, Iput my offerings in the thing on
my way out.
(07:28):
I don't really, and it ain'teven that I don't like the
worship part, it's just theychoir chatty, don't tell nobody
else, so I don't even go andwatch the choir.
Bobby Frost (07:38):
What they say, they don't get.
The spirit they don't make meget.
Jus Mystie (07:40):
Yeah, they don't get the spirit moving.
Yeah, it'd be like jesus.
Oh, that's the boring song youknow it's that tempo it's boring
, you know I don't fuck with it.
But yeah, though y'all shoutout to aj, I fuck with him.
He makes sure I understandwhat's going on.
So that's all I've been on okay, so let's get into it.
Bobby Frost (07:57):
Man, the episode today is the art of ghosting,
navigating silent endings,admiring dating.
So with that, saying, I don'tunderstand this shit like this
shit became part of the culture.
Now the ghost people like thatshit is just the big thing to do
.
Jus Mystie (08:12):
Ghosts like I think, define ghosts for the listeners
, even though they already know.
Do you mean, like, stopanswering?
Bobby Frost (08:19):
yeah, you just disappear, you all all the
contact you have with thisperson, you just drop it.
That's like to me that's somewild shit to do, man, and then
if a motherfucker come pop youin your ass or do some wild shit
to you, a motherfucker wouldsit back and think like you know
what I'm saying.
Jus Mystie (08:37):
First of all, let me say this I'm not getting
ghosted.
I'm not getting ghosted Causethat shit is.
That's janky as fuck.
Don't just not At least tell mewhy you don't wanna Fuck with
me no more, cause then you ain'tGonna have to ghost me, cause
I'ma be like, okay, cool, i'mastop fucking with you.
But if you don't tell me it's aproblem, or I don't know why
you don't wanna Fuck with me nomore, or that I don't want me to
(09:03):
talk to you, and then I won't.
Bobby Frost (09:04):
I don't.
The ghosting is crazy, likewhen you really Put that shit
into, like it's crazy.
You just, you, just you gotsomebody Feelings or attention
Rolling with it, they gettinginfatuated With you or whatever
they level Of emotionalattachment.
Jus Mystie (09:21):
Is to you?
And then what if you gosomebody and then you find out
they fucking killed they selfthat next week?
Right, like seriously, though Ifeel like you shouldn't do
people like that, because Ithink closure is important in
any situation, in all honesty,cause I feel like you can't
truly get over a situation, nomatter how light it was or no
matter how big it was.
You can't get over it until youlike no and you ghosting a
(09:43):
motherfucker.
That just that's just not right.
But I'm not getting ghostedagain, I'm popping the fuck up,
and if you get in trouble behindit or if you want to whoop my
ass behind it, then we justgoing to be out here fighting
because you should answer thismotherfucking phone.
Bobby Frost (09:54):
Yeah, it's just like I don't know why this
became a phenomenon now, I trulydon't.
Jus Mystie (09:59):
It is thing um like it's trendy, but I wonder why?
How do you really go somebodythough with social media?
Bobby Frost (10:07):
and shit.
Jus Mystie (10:07):
I mean you just yeah , that's it you think that I'm
gonna stand for being blocked?
No, I'm gonna go right on robpage and look up your shit,
because I know you ain't eventhinking to block rob.
You might buy you, they mightblock courtney, they might block
your immediate friends too.
So you can't see.
You know, they're not gonnaeverybody.
I don't give a fuck if I go andI'm, and it's me and another
bitch, I don't know if we aresitting there having a drink of
(10:30):
smoke and you with somebody else, guess what bitch.
Let me see your phone so I cansee this.
Bobby Frost (10:36):
It's crazy man.
You know what I'm saying Like.
Jus Mystie (10:50):
I ain't getting ghosted.
It is wild like that ghost andshit is wild like it's a
phenomenon like, and it someoneto me some of the chattiest shit
catch on fire, in my opinion.
Bobby Frost (10:54):
You know what I'm saying like you think ghosting
is chatty.
I can't say all the way chatty.
I think it's chatty when you'redoing it because it's trendy.
You know what I'm saying.
Like you, you fucking oversomebody.
Jus Mystie (11:00):
Just be fucking over that's, I don't wait a minute,
okay so you think that ghostingsomebody I don't think ghosting
somebody is fucking oversomebody.
I think that people ghostpeople because they don't want
to hurt nobody's feelings orthey don't want to go through
the communication of saying thatI don't want to fuck with you.
Bobby Frost (11:15):
That's not, that's not being chatty about it.
Like I'm saying, like it's it's, it's it's chatty, like I'm
gonna tell you something I usedto do when I was younger with
Shadi.
You know what I'm saying.
It's a good comparison.
Jus Mystie (11:23):
Hi, Woo Woo.
Bobby Frost (11:24):
Just trying to run up the score of fucking bitches.
That was Shadi.
Now I think about-.
Jus Mystie (11:27):
Wait a minute, you would ghost somebody to fuck
somebody.
Bobby Frost (11:29):
No, I'm saying that was Shadi.
Something I would say whatShadi was done was trendy when I
was growing up.
That's just the era I was don'tagree with that.
Jus Mystie (11:42):
You wasn't doing it because the person didn't like
you didn't like the person.
Bobby Frost (11:45):
You was just doing it because that was high fives.
Jus Mystie (11:47):
I think that that's why you go.
Oh no, I think that's whypeople ghost people.
I don't think it because theydon't be liking them.
Maybe they be dealing with thesituation.
Bobby Frost (11:55):
I went into it with the mindset that I was going.
It was a song called TutorNeboot.
I was going.
I went in there with theattention to Hi Sequan.
I went in there with theattention to knock something
down and get the fuck out ofhere Hi.
Rayanna, that's Chatty.
Jus Mystie (12:08):
Y'all what y'all think about.
Ghosting Y'all.
I mean, that's what we talkingabout today Ghosting how they
just don't call, don't answer,don't text, block you on
everything.
Have any of y'all.
Bobby Frost (12:20):
That's.
That's, that's to me.
If you got a valid reason, youknow what I'm saying.
Jus Mystie (12:24):
You, just somebody, whatever it is, there's no valid
reason to just stop talking tosomebody.
You should be adult.
At this big age you should beable to say you know what, rob,
this friendship ain't working,I'm gonna go my separate way,
you go yours.
Or this relationship ain'tworking, I'm gonna do me, I'm
gonna do you.
There's no reason that I shouldhave to block you on my phone,
block you on social media andlike really ghost you.
(12:46):
That's crazy and then that makepeople worry about you.
Shit, I could be worried aboutyour stupid ass, thinking you in
the ditch dead somewhere.
Nigga, we in Flint, right,don't be fucking ghosting me.
Tell me you don't want me.
No more bitch so I can cry andget over it.
Whatever the fuck the case maybe I.
Bobby Frost (13:01):
I, you know I ain't never ghosted nobody, for the
most part, like I would tell youwhat's up.
Jus Mystie (13:05):
Rex, we talking about being ghosted, when people
just stop talking to you, justdon't text you Nothing.
Bobby Frost (13:12):
Just cut off all communication.
That's crazy man.
Jus Mystie (13:15):
To me like.
Bobby Frost (13:15):
I said it's a wild thing to do.
It's a phenomenon.
I be seeing people talk aboutit.
It's crazy.
Dj Woo said.
Jus Mystie (13:25):
I ghost crazy.
Dj woo said I ghosted amotherfucker because I'm
tenderoni, because I'm tenderoni, woo.
And if you know, and if you onbs and you're not telling me,
i'ma ghost you what bs, what doyou mean?
And then why would you ghost me?
Instead of just why, can't youjust tell me, like you want some
bullshit, I'm finna.
Bobby Frost (13:37):
Get the fuck on down because I'm gonna go back
to what you just said, like thisis the truth.
You know, I'm saying the impactof it, like the emotional
effects of being a person thatgot ghosted.
Like think about that shit.
You really feeling somebody andyou could have done something
wrong, but you didn't know youdid something wrong and they
just cut all communication.
Jus Mystie (13:52):
That's what I'm saying that's why it's not fair
and that's why you're not gonnaghost me.
I am popping the fuck upbecause what?
What did I do tell me?
I'm not a person that can dealwith being ghosted and I'm not
being funny, I don't give a fuckif I catch you out with your
bitch as respectfully as I can.
I'm going to be like hey, rob,how are you bitch?
You shouldn't have ghosted me.
Now if she gonna ask who I amand all of that shit, that's on
(14:13):
you, because you should havetold me why you wasn't gonna
fuck with me, no more like I'mlistening what she says.
Bobby Frost (14:17):
That man says these men don't understand when you
be up front and tell them yougotta ghost them or they'll
manipulate the situation andmake them the victim and you the
villain.
And I'm gonna use, I'm gonna,I'm gonna uh piggyback on what
she said, with changing this isthe truth.
I feel like ghosting somebodylike that, especially if they
ain't know what the fuck theydid.
I think that's like villainorigin stories when
(14:38):
motherfuckers turn into likesuper villains and shit.
That's what I feel like.
It's like you done, fucked theperson up okay.
Jus Mystie (14:43):
So okay, we saying that now there's a destiny, just
said shout out to destiny.
Destiny says sometimes itdepends on what type of
relationship we have.
Like, if we met two or threeweeks ago, then fuck it.
Okay, destiny, I feel that, butI still think that you don't
know how emotionally attached Iwas to you in them two or three
weeks.
I know it sound crazy, but inmy mind I could have been like I
want to make her my bitch.
(15:03):
And now you didn't ghost to meand I don't even know what the
fuck I didn't do that's that'sthat's the problem I'm having
with the emotional side ofsomebody being ghosted I feel
like we, I feel like it's notright, because what if it was
something that I do witheverybody?
and now, as a woman, you didn'tghost to me because I did this
and I could keep getting ghostedbecause of that reason, and I
don't even know because ain'tnobody took their time to
communicate it to me.
That's fucked up.
(15:24):
So I feel like we need tocommunicate with people before
we just ghost them, cause I Iain't going to say I ghost the
motherfucker because I don'tblock them and all of that extra
shit, but I will stop answeringthe phone.
Bobby Frost (15:36):
But you know what?
Now I'm gonna flip the script.
I'm gonna flip the script realquick.
Jus Mystie (15:39):
Me popping up is insane, no, insane, no, you
blocking me is insane I'm gonnaflip the script real quick now.
Bobby Frost (15:44):
I'm gonna flip it.
How about the uh perspective ofthe ghoster, the person who?
Why?
You know why I will somebody,why would somebody want to go
somebody?
Jus Mystie (15:54):
I think that the only reason you would go
somebody is because you don'twant to hurt their feelings, or
you don't want to communicatewhatever the issue was, or you
don't want to communicate thatyou just wanted to fuck and I'm
gone.
Like I think that it's a lackof communication, that person
that's ghosting.
Just they don't know how tocommunicate.
Sometimes it ain't what youthought it was and those.
Okay, so, destiny, why wouldn'tyou just say that to me?
(16:17):
Like you know what I'm saying?
Okay, she said people don'tknow how to express themselves.
I get it, but as adults, youshould be able to say I thought
this day, me and my cousin justtalked about it.
I hate to switch up, but I'mgonna tell you what she said.
She said that she would get upand walk out in the middle of a
date Like you know what I'msaying, like it's not working
and I think that's fucked up.
Like why would you do that?
(16:37):
Why wouldn't you finish it?
And then, during the date, wecan talk about it, like you know
what I'm saying.
Or, or after the date, you canbe like you know, like I I
enjoyed myself, but I thoughtthis was.
You know, I'm saying this and Ifeel like community.
We lack communication, bro.
I can't.
Bobby Frost (16:51):
I'm getting frustrated even thinking about
it, because all it is iscommunication see, and you
saying it, and that's that'swhat I'm saying, that's we just
talking about it?
Ghosting is big man.
Jus Mystie (17:00):
That's fucked up like and people do fall in love,
fast as hell, faster than Inever even saw this shit in life
.
Motherfuckers will fall in love, do you hear me?
And really be loving each otheryeah, and that's what I'm
saying.
Bobby Frost (17:11):
Like now, I'm trying to look at it from both
ways.
I'm looking at it from theperson being ghosted and then a
ghoster, because it might beemotional reason why this person
ghosted.
Now I would say this I have inthe past you know I'm saying not
being funny I have in the pastand that's still ghosting.
Like I get to a point where I'mso overwhelmed or so in a mood
(17:31):
and I'll just be like fuck it.
You know I'm saying I'm notpicking up the phone for you,
I'm not talking to nobody andit's not intentionally, I'm
trying to hurt you feeling.
I'm just overwhelmed, what'sgoing on with me, and I don't
want to bring my baggage, myluggage, to you.
Jus Mystie (17:43):
Okay.
So what's wrong with you sayingthat, instead of having me at
the house losing my mind becauseRob didn't just up and stop
talking to me I don't know whatI did.
I thought we was on tosomething good.
If you having issues, and youare, it's okay to say that.
That's all I'm saying.
People don.
I'm saying people don'tcommunicate.
(18:04):
If you Listen, when my uh, whenmy per be here I just learned
that word Too.
Even though you don't got noperiod, I'm still sharing it
with you.
When my per be here, I don'twant to talk to you, I don't
Want to look at you.
I don't want you to come lay inthe bed with me.
Guess what, when my nigga calland be like what you doing, I'm
finna.
Come over there.
I say that I don't just be like.
Let you think I got an attitudeabout something else.
I'll be like I don't feel likebeing bothered today.
I might not be like nigga, I'mbleeding, leave me alone.
I'm going to be like.
(18:24):
I don't feel like beingbothered, I just want to be by
myself.
Bobby Frost (18:26):
It's funny man, Hold on.
Jus Mystie (18:27):
What's wrong with communication?
Bobby Frost (18:29):
She just said I ghost dudes who dick was trash,
Not going to lie.
I unfollow and block.
Jus Mystie (18:37):
I.
If they find a way to get incontact with me, I'm going to
tell them that's fucked up.
I'm not going to use thosewords, but I'm going to be like
you know, I.
I'm a person that sex isimportant to me.
Did see, did I start that right?
Yeah, yeah, that ain't hurtyour feelings If I'd be like sex
is very important to me and wejust didn't.
Our chemistry chemistry was off, it wasn't.
(19:06):
That ain't mean, is it?
Bobby Frost (19:07):
no, no, okay, well, I always think that's gonna be
like your dick was little asfuck, like that's what I'm
saying, the ghosting part that'swhy I'm saying it's fucked up,
like the communication part withthe ghost, and like why can't
you just sit up and tellsomebody hey, I'm easing up out
this bitch because of thisreason, like if that was a case,
if the, the dick was trash, hey, hey, what you just said, not
you have it because he mighthave thought the dick was great.
Jus Mystie (19:26):
Okay, fuck, she said .
Destiny said if she textingsomebody, she said you right,
communication is everything, butif I'm texting somebody I will
lose interest in theconversation so quick and just
stop texting back.
So should that be consideredghosting as well?
Yeah, it is considered ghosting, but you know what?
I'm happy you brought that up,because for real destiny I ain't
gonna say a lot of men, becauseI heard a lot of dudes said
(19:48):
about females too.
Some people just don't know howto hold conversation.
You know, I'm saying it'sboring because I I don't know
why it's boring, but it's boring.
I've ran across dudes that I'llbe texting too and I'll be like
he don't even know what to say.
You know what I'm saying?
He don't know what to say.
He don't know what to say next.
He don't even know how to startthis conversation.
So I stopped talking to him too.
But before I stopped talking tohim I try to initiate it,
(20:10):
though like I try to say shit,ask questions.
But if you being dry and youdon't know how to talk and hold
conversation, then yeah, I'm out.
Bobby Frost (20:16):
I ain't getting back and see that's, that's all
my whole key thing tonight.
Why not just tell somebody hey,listen, the issue I have right
now is you don't know how tohold my attention, so I'm about
to bag up my thing hold on mything with people when it comes
to ghosting and I ain't neverbeen ghosted like that, you know
.
I'm just saying I have ghostedsomebody, a couple people before
and it wasn't intentional.
(20:36):
But my thing be like this iswhy can't you just tell somebody
how you feel and stand on whatyou said?
You right that, that's it.
Like I'm looking at Porsche.
Porsche that goes and shows alack of maturity and security.
Grow the fuck up andcommunicate Seriously.
Jus Mystie (20:51):
You're right, porsche, cause, I swear to God,
they just do y'all think.
Let me ask y'all a question andwe got 20 viewers, y'all.
Do y'all think that womencommunicate more than men, or do
y'all think it's kind of like aequal thing that motherfuckers
just ain't communicating?
I think it's now.
I think this generation I thinkit's.
Bobby Frost (21:09):
It's depending on the person, who the people is,
because some guys are greatcommunicator.
Myself, I feel like I'm a greatcommunicator.
I'm gonna tell you how I feel,because if you're feeling get
hurt, just feeling get hurt, Iknow I'm not gonna deliver the
message in a fucked up way Ithink that that's the point that
people have to get to thematurity thing that you said.
Jus Mystie (21:24):
I think that's absolutely correct, but I think
that you have to get to a pointwhere you okay with hurting
somebody, feelings like it'sjust.
There's no way that you cantell somebody that they're not
for you without hurting theirfeelings unless they feel the
same way.
Now they feel the same way andthey come back and be like you
know what?
I the same thing.
You know that we wasn't reallyon the same page.
I think that's what's wrongwith the black community period.
Bobby Frost (21:46):
That's why I went back to what I said.
With the ghoster, you got totake the ghoster perspective.
If I don't like here, gopromise up.
I done seen this happen too.
Some people are they're notcombative, so they try to avoid
conflict at all costs.
So, even though they know theydon't want to fuck with this
person or they want to end thiswith the situation, instead of
them being grown about it andbeing like, hey, this is this,
(22:07):
is that they just gonna say I'mgonna fall back and hopefully
they get the message.
Jus Mystie (22:11):
Okay, but that's another part about maturity on
the other person's end, becausewhy do it have to be a
confrontation or a debate, orwhy does it have to be any
aggression at all because you'renot feeling me or I'm not
feeling you?
A motherfucker gotta acceptthat.
Everybody ain't for everybody.
No I'm with some stuff I doain't gonna be for you.
You feel me like in some stuffanother motherfucker do ain't
(22:33):
gonna be for me, like why.
Bobby Frost (22:34):
I would say this too in my own past relationships
you know I'm sayingsituationships, all that under
the sun it's sometimes I thoughtabout like I should have
probably just ghosted and wenton about my motherfucking
business, because even me beingmature and telling them about it
, I still got to take thebacklash of you getting upset,
cussing me out, fuck you andlike why are you like you said?
(22:54):
Why are you doing that?
Because I'm telling you how Ifeel.
Jus Mystie (22:57):
I made that girl feel so bad.
I would have said see, you'renot even mature enough for me.
Bobby Frost (23:00):
Man, females, don't give a fuck.
You think I ain't say that?
Jus Mystie (23:03):
Listen, you got to stop thinking.
That's the problem withmotherfuckers.
Niggas think that we don't givea fuck about nothing because we
keep snapping.
Yes, the fuck we do, just likewhen a motherfucker don't react
to us.
Bobby Frost (23:15):
Y'all think that don't piss us off.
Hell yeah, I'm sure enough tocome have a uh, you know, have a
meaningful I mean meaningfulconversation.
Have a meaningful dialogue withyou and I tell you hey, listen,
this is why I'm doing this andthis is why I want to fall back
or be done that's why shestopped explaining why she goes
down.
Jus Mystie (23:31):
Okay, jerron, let me ask you, I'm with her no,
jerron just said that he keep itsimple and be like I'm not
feeling you.
Okay, jerron, as a woman, if Iwas to be like no attitude or
nothing, if I just came back andwas like, damn well, you know
what I'm saying, can you tell mewhy?
Is it something I did?
Because I want to better myselfas a woman.
It could have been somethingthat you could have been like
bitch, you were chewing withyour mouth open.
(23:53):
I don't know Something that Icould have worked on.
I'm just saying would you beable to sit there and have a
conversation with me and saythis is why I'm not feeling you
like you know I'm saying and notbe a dick about it, would you
be able to do that, because Ijust don't think.
Bobby Frost (24:07):
Or here go another thing for a ghoster I'm gonna
take, I'm gonna play deviladvocate for the ghoster.
So maybe a person who's careabout emotion so much they don't
want to hurt somebody emotion,even though you're still gonna
hurt their, their feelings, theydon't want to hurt them I think
, if you deliver, if you deliverit correctly.
Jus Mystie (24:22):
You shouldn't hurt my feelings.
You telling me you're notfeeling me.
Okay, that ain't gonna hurt myfeelings if I be like okay, well
, you know I'm saying like why?
Nah, I mean, I can see.
If it's some shit where you belike your breath stank or some
shit you don't want to tell them, I'm gonna go back to uh, uh in
the live, uh, miss, uh, smith,matia smith, what she said?
Bobby Frost (24:39):
the guy dick was trash Nine times out of ten.
You tell a guy that you aboutto crush him.
Jus Mystie (24:44):
Why do it Delivery Again?
Why would I be like your dick,trash bro.
Bobby Frost (24:48):
So how you going to tell him that the sex is bad?
Jus Mystie (24:50):
When you call again, I'm going to be like you know.
You know what I'm saying.
Last time we was together, Ijust really wasn't feeling it.
Now, when I wasn't feeling itnow, when I say that what you
gonna say, I'm gonna ask what,what was you not feeling?
I don't really think our sexualchemistry was there, and I'm a
big person on sex.
Bobby Frost (25:07):
So what was what?
What I'm because I'm, I'm, nowI'm again.
Let's have this conversation.
Jus Mystie (25:11):
That's my answer.
Okay, so I'm actually.
So what was?
Bobby Frost (25:14):
off with the chemistry.
What was the imbalance?
Jus Mystie (25:17):
um, I just kind of felt like I usually like a
little bit larger.
Bobby Frost (25:21):
You know what I'm saying listen for any of the
fellas in here.
Right now.
If a chick tell you what mistyjust said I like larger how do
you react?
Be honest, I didn't say you waslittle.
Jus Mystie (25:34):
I said I like listen , that's why I need some fellas.
Bobby Frost (25:38):
Y'all gotta tap in on this comment man what if I
reworded?
Jus Mystie (25:42):
They said it wasn't just.
It just wasn't enough for me.
I didn't say your dick, I saidthe sex and it wasn't enough for
me.
Bobby Frost (25:47):
I'm going to ask you what wasn't enough?
The sex.
What about it?
Jus Mystie (25:51):
I didn't last long enough, I didn't have an orgasm.
I'm that's still, you stillknocking the confidence level.
I'm saying it as nice as I can.
Okay, this is what I'm saying.
I can't, I can't, worry aboutyour confidence versus my.
I'm with you, hold on, I'm withyou.
Bobby Frost (26:08):
100 with that, that's.
That's the maturity level I'mgetting at it.
Take a mature person to be ableto sit down.
Jus Mystie (26:14):
Did you just hear my why?
When he said why, I'm going tosay I don't think our sexual
chemistry was there.
Now, what's the next questionto you?
Because the sexual chemistrywas off.
He said that the dude gonna saywhy was the sexual chemistry
off?
And then I'm gonna say it.
Bobby Frost (26:30):
No, I'll say what you said at first.
No, the first one.
You changed it.
I like a little larger.
Jus Mystie (26:33):
I prefer something a little larger how.
Bobby Frost (26:35):
That's why I said ain't no, ain't no man's uh
comment on this.
But I can't.
I'm on podcast If a female tellme that she likes it larger.
You just man.
You just hit a death blow.
I'm on suicide watch now.
Jus Mystie (26:49):
Okay.
Bobby Frost (26:51):
I'm on suicide watch.
Jus Mystie (26:52):
Okay, so what?
God damn, If my pussy stained,what you gonna say?
Or if it was dry, what yougonna say when I say, when I say
why you ain't feeling me?
Bobby Frost (27:01):
I'm going to tell you see, this is me, I'm going
to do it the same way you justdid it, but I'm going to be a
little bit more blunt, but notdisrespectful.
Tell, like you know what I'msaying.
Like I said when I was downthere and shit it was, it was
one of them ways.
Well, why you?
Jus Mystie (27:13):
ain't spit on it.
Bobby Frost (27:14):
I shouldn't have to .
Jus Mystie (27:15):
Yeah.
Bobby Frost (27:25):
People you gonna tell you this is me okay if I'm
not turning this babe I wasn'twet because you didn't turn me
on.
Jus Mystie (27:27):
I was getting there before you said it.
I didn't turn.
I'm not feeling, you know, hurtby that.
I didn't turn you on that.
We not together with okay.
So see, two adults should beable to be like you know, maybe
we shouldn't fuck with a femaley'all.
Bobby Frost (27:31):
That's a little bit different to tell a female that
no, it's not.
Jus Mystie (27:34):
Yes, it is because a little dick and dry pussy.
No, it's not.
No, it's not the same thing I'mgoing to tell you why it's not
the same thing.
Bobby Frost (27:40):
Hold on, I'm going to tell you why it's not the
same thing.
I don't know why fellas ain'tcommenting on it.
They might be a little insecureabout getting this one.
I can comment on it.
You're right, this is the truth.
You can fix not being moistenough.
They have KY jelly and otherthings.
Jus Mystie (27:55):
You're right.
Bobby Frost (27:57):
You can't fix deep enough.
Jus Mystie (28:00):
You know I'm saying you can't get the feelings you
can't fix, there's no fixing.
This is the thing, what you'regonna fix it.
That's why I'm saying okay, see, this is a whole nother subject
.
That's why we need to take itback to sexual education,
because, first of all, you ain'tgot to get deep to make me come
.
You gotta know what the fuckyou doing with that little stop,
stop right there, I tell youyour dick little and I didn't.
(28:21):
You can't make me cum.
Bobby Frost (28:22):
If you tell a guy that large, and that's why you
you know what I'm saying.
Jus Mystie (28:26):
First of all, hold on, hold on.
This is what I'm saying.
Bobby Frost (28:27):
In that situation I would feel like, yeah, that's
probably just a better ghostingsituation.
You might as well do theghosting let's be clear.
Jus Mystie (28:37):
first of all, Let me just say this he knew his dick
was little before he came here.
I don't give a fuck what theseniggas say.
You know when your dick little.
You knew that before you camehere.
So me putting a stamp on it isjust another bitch.
Putting a stamp on it because Iknow you heard it before.
Bobby Frost (28:51):
That's why I'm going to agree with you.
We need to get her on the showwhat she just said.
Jus Mystie (28:55):
When you coming home so you can get on the phone but
what she just said yeah, I'mwrong with that.
Bobby Frost (29:03):
You might as well just ghost me.
If that was the case, justghost me, Don't.
You ain't got to crush me, butyou knew your dick was little.
And guess what?
Jus Mystie (29:10):
He might not know you think I'm gonna let you get
up out of here and you got mypussy on your dick and you know,
if you spread it they come askme.
That's the response they get.
His dick was little, so he'snever getting no more she said
june 28th.
Bobby Frost (29:25):
We got to get her on because I'm june 28th natia,
I rocks with you in thatsituation.
That's why I was going to it.
That's where I was taking acertain situation.
I think your ghosting is theright way.
That situation right there,yeah, just ghost me.
If my shit ain't adding up, itain't reaching.
Jus Mystie (29:40):
So when should Ghost me?
Okay, so if sex Is an okayreason, well, basically We've
come up with Sex is an okayreason To ghost somebody.
Bobby Frost (29:48):
She just said the same thing.
Just ghost him.
Yeah, just Ghost me.
Man, y'all bitches weak.
Jus Mystie (29:53):
I'm telling that I don't want to have that
conversation.
No, just for that.
Bobby Frost (29:57):
You tell a nigga that nigga on suicide watch.
Jus Mystie (30:00):
When I come, tell a nigga, that man, that nigga on
suicide watch, when I come, whenI come in on live and I got a
black eye, just know that Ididn't tell somebody that's why
I said if a female, I tell afemale, she not, she not moist.
Bobby Frost (30:06):
And the first day female gonna say that's what
she's gonna say, her comeback isyou didn't make me wet, okay, I
can't say you can't come, tellme my dick little.
I could say, well, you didn'tmake it large enough I had no
more grow, though, so I don'tgot no more inches.
I gave you all of my time.
You didn't go find you a littlebitch, I don't know, I don't
know, so I get it.
Jus Mystie (30:22):
Sex may be a good reason to ghost somebody.
I'm getting that Okay.
Sex may be a good reason, butnot when it's something that
they did, like something thatthey could fix.
You know what I'm saying?
I think that you should givesomebody time.
Bobby Frost (30:36):
I'm listening to one person that said First
priority should be pleasing youand making sure you have an
orgasm, no matter size.
I feel like that's how I am too, but again, if the females used
to be knocked down and youcan't knock on the door and now
I'm going to say you can't knockon the door.
You doing this, you doinglittle taps.
You can't come through thatbitch like the ATL.
Jus Mystie (30:52):
Yes, you can Listen.
What can you do?
My niggas is totally opposite.
I I'm tiny because I don't fuckwith no tiny dicks, but that
does not mean that if you candeal with a horse and deal with
a pencil, all of the same youcan come, no matter what.
Bobby Frost (31:09):
Man, listen, I'm going to say this and this is
funny, man, I'll say this Like Iremember.
It's a little video goingaround that was viral a long
time ago.
That's all the reason.
I'm a ghost too.
That's like a female tanninist,right here.
That's like a female tannius,right here.
You just you the right size,you just fit the right size,
that's like.
So what you're saying, I'm, I'm, I'm okay, I'm average.
That's what you said.
That's still.
That's a backhanded compliment,okay.
Jus Mystie (31:37):
First, of all, let me see, let me let me say this I
said it give a fuck if thatmotherfucker 12 inches.
That don't mean you know how tofuck.
So I don't give a fuck if it'sfour inches, that don't mean you
can't fuck.
So when it comes to the size ofyour dick, it's just what y'all
can and can't do.
Y'all have to figure it out.
If that motherfucker littlecause, granted, if it's big
enough, I can just matter what,because I'm filled up with that
(31:59):
motherfucker.
Y'all with the little dicks dohave to work a little bit harder
.
Sorry, but it can't happen sofigure it out.
Bobby Frost (32:04):
Figure out how to work your tool I'm with you, so
in that case, that's somethingyou should ghost.
I got another question for any,any other situation that you
think you should just gosomebody for, like something
else that you think having aconversation is gonna be.
I went my cuz.
Jus Mystie (32:16):
She said if they can't handle the truth, they
pussy.
Period.
There's a lot of pussy people.
Yeah, I just.
I just wanted to say pussy withthat much aggression behind it.
Bobby Frost (32:25):
Now it's what can you like if I told a female she
was corny, it never mattered.
Jus Mystie (32:29):
Carmel, goddess, you right, it never mattered.
The niggas think it mattersbecause this is me again.
Bobby Frost (32:33):
I don't have this situation never ghosted, but it
was hard for me to tell a femaleyou're corny, like outside of
outside of sex.
What's corny you?
You corny Like I don't likeyour music, taste your shit
bland when we chilling.
I can't hold a conversationwith you.
You're corny.
Jus Mystie (32:48):
Okay, so how long?
Okay, how long should you givea motherfucker Like is it after
the first date, where you justbe like this ain't gonna work,
Listen, I can't tell you off afirst date that you're corny.
Bobby Frost (32:57):
Now people can do that, that you you an amazing
person.
But after I'd been Chillingwith you for a month or two and
I'm just watching like Dog Ghostin his weakest, she corny.
I'd have had a corny chickBefore that.
Her sex was great, but she wasjust corny Like outside the sex.
He wondering why we get donewith sex.
I'm like, yeah, I'm about to.
I got something to go do everytime.
Jus Mystie (33:14):
So what do you want to do?
Bobby Frost (33:17):
Fuck there, corny, I don't I'm gonna start losing
set answers in the sex because,damn nigga, all I can do is
corny like weird.
Jus Mystie (33:25):
No, he's saying corny that he said her music
choice, chatty, he can't hold aconversation with her.
That type shit.
I got tears it's just corny,y'all.
I'm over here laughing at rob.
She said, oh god, I'm dealingwith somebody and they so corny,
and I don't know how to tellhim, so I'm just ignoring him.
Janae, I hooked you up withsomebody.
Chatty.
The african was chatty as helland corny as fuck.
I know he was that's all.
Bobby Frost (33:47):
I've been in that situation before man and it was
hard to tell him, like you,corny listen.
Jus Mystie (33:53):
Yeah, cory, you can shout out to cory jackson,
that's my, uh, that's my husbandbrother-in-law.
No, I mean my husband brother.
Bobby Frost (33:58):
She said my brother-in-law not a nerd, no,
it's just like you're.
You know.
It's a word that we use a lotin the culture now a vibe.
You're not a, you're theopposite of vibe.
I don't even know what the wordis for opposite vibe except for
corn.
Jus Mystie (34:11):
You're not a vibe.
Bobby Frost (34:12):
Yeah, like I did not catch a vibe, yeah like shit
, man, and I'd have had a femalelike that a couple of them
before like this.
I'll have one that the sex wasgood, the other other one that
nigga said if you can't cook, heghosting you.
Jus Mystie (34:22):
Damn, you gonna ghost me.
After we got to the point, Idone cooked for you, yeah there
you go Well at least if youghost me after that.
I know That'll dawn on me Likedamn.
I gave that nigga a plate lastweek.
He ain't talked to me since.
Maybe that shit was nasty.
Bobby Frost (34:33):
I guess I get it football player because I asked
them if they was down low andthey what.
The way they responded wasalarming.
It wasn't masculine response,responses at all.
Jus Mystie (34:47):
Both responses was very telling, see yeah, you got
to do that, though down therewhere you at sister, well, you
got to do that period becauseshit oh, dog said he pulled the
boomerang.
Bobby Frost (34:57):
He said he ghosted her because her toes was fucked
up.
I remember he put eddie pulledthe sheets back up.
Oh my God, corey, that shit wasfunny as hell.
But no, like certain things Ican say, like ghosting, to be
honest, certain shit I can seewhy you are ghosting.
And the other thing, I mean youjust being immature, the corny
situation.
I told her in the best way Icould tell her.
Jus Mystie (35:18):
Tell me what you said.
Bobby Frost (35:19):
I told her.
I said yeah, we just not.
You know compatible.
We not kicking and we vibe.
You know what I'm saying?
We just not.
There's no excitement.
That's how I told her.
Jus Mystie (35:27):
Okay, well, let me get y'all my two cents on how
you tell somebody some fuck shitthat you don't want to tell
them.
I'm going to be honest withy'all.
I joke a lot, right?
So I told y'all that about it.
And then when it comes up andit's a conversation, now we can
really talk about it like I mean, I might be like bro, what was
that last night?
I didn't even come.
(35:47):
That's crazy.
And then he don't think I'mjoking or he gonna be like man,
yes, and then I'll be like no, Ididn't for real, though, like
so you get it.
You know, this is what we gotto do.
That's how I present shit thatI don't want to talk about.
Bobby Frost (35:59):
Yeah, joke no, I, I joke time.
I joke time too, but I tellpeople who know me if you see me
repeating the same jokes, I'mjust changing that bitch up with
the same joke.
It's the truth in there.
I'm trying to let you down easy.
Jus Mystie (36:10):
She said I guess I just.
She said I guess I'm just too100.
I would rather a nigga be realwith me because I'm going to be
real with him.
If I don don't want to fuckwith you.
I don't want to fuck with you,I'm with you.
Dimitri, tell me what's goodyou know what, and I?
Bobby Frost (36:23):
I see everybody saying that and I'm with that.
But this is something I alsoencountered during my trials of
living.
You know, I'm saying my walkthrough life.
People would say that shit,they want the real.
And when you kick the real tothem, even if you deliver good
hell, no, that's why so, cory?
Jus Mystie (36:38):
you just asked me why not just keep, not just
shoot it straight to him?
It that me doing it as a joke?
That's for me because I am aperson that don't really like
hurting people's feelings forreal, for real, like I ain't a
mean ass person, no matter whatpeople think they say.
I'm unapproachable.
I don't want to just shit onnobody like that.
So I rather like joke with you,ha ha ha, and then we can get
off into it, because I don'twant you to think I'm mad about
(37:01):
it or I don't want you to think,like you know, I'm saying I
don't know, I just joke about itso that you can, so that you
can take it better.
Bobby Frost (37:09):
I don't know that's just say your brother, I said I
love you, that's just.
I appreciate everybody tuning inon a live, because this is my
favorite part of the show whenwe go live and we get the
feedback from the fans.
That's my favorite part of theshow.
I love that.
But yeah, that's like I said.
I think I'm glad we had a gooddialogue about this and you know
(37:29):
what.
What do you do when it comes toghosting, like you know what
I'm saying, because I I thinkand it got to the point where
people think that is the way tohandle all situations.
If it's not going the way youwant to go in a relationship,
some shit shouldn't be said.
Jus Mystie (37:41):
That's too hard of a conversation well, I'm gonna
tell y'all this before I get upout of here don't ghost me,
because I'm popping the fuck upat your mama house.
Bobby Frost (37:47):
She said she's a ghost buster I don't give ghost
buster.
Jus Mystie (37:50):
You hear me who?
Hey, where you at, you ain'tanswered your phone for me.
I just called my nigga.
Didn't call me for seven days,baby.
I called him and said, made himsay it again you a ghost buster
?
Ghost buster ain't no ghost ofmisty.
Bobby Frost (38:03):
No, sir, no hey ain't no ghost of misty, she's
not gonna go.
Hey, babe, what they call theproton packs, he coming, ghost
buster ain't no, ghost, you gotcompany, guess what?
Jus Mystie (38:12):
oh, my bad, call me I'm coming back.
Bobby Frost (38:15):
I ain't bad at you, it's, it's, it's it's.
That's why I said it's up withme.
That's why I said thisconversation.
I was geeked about it when Iseen it because I'm like man.
It's the truth, man.
Like it's hard to not ghostsomebody, but some situations
you can ghost, other ones youdon't.
That's why at first I wasagainst ghosting all the way,
but then when you break it downit's kind of like some shit
needs to be done.
I can respect that.
(38:35):
You know what I'm sayingbecause I have to respect that.
Jus Mystie (38:38):
Just don't ghost me.
Bobby Frost (38:39):
Yeah, you got to tell me my pussy stank or
whatever the fuck.
Jus Mystie (38:41):
The problem is.
Bobby Frost (38:42):
You got to tell me, because some of them shit is
too hard to have.
Jus Mystie (38:44):
Okay, well, what is it?
And if you tell me my pussystank, I'm going to be like why
you ain't tell me when you wasdown there I would have went to
the shower.
Bobby Frost (38:57):
I never told a female I ain't gonna lie to you,
that was it.
That was it, that was it Once.
I figured out that, yeah, thatshit was uh-huh.
You know what?
Let me go ease the fuck up outof here, boy.
That's it.
You know what?
Jus Mystie (39:11):
I'm saying I can't.
Bobby Frost (39:12):
I'm not going to be in this motherfucker with my
nose like this.
Jus Mystie (39:14):
What's crazy is we smell it before y'all.
Bobby Frost (39:17):
So I assume that, because that's what my grandmama
told me.
So I don't know why bitches actlike we definitely do.
Jus Mystie (39:21):
I'm like you didn't know that Sit down on air was
boofing when we got in the car.
Bobby Frost (39:25):
What'd they say?
The sit down win when you sitdown win.
Jus Mystie (39:27):
The sit down air was boofing.
When we got in the car wesmelled it.
Bobby Frost (39:30):
Like it's certain things woman especially, and
your shit really nasty, thatlike you can get you popping up
and everything ain't togetherdying while talking, when that
shit really nasty, while I'muncomfortable being there, I'll
tell you oh yeah, okay now I'mgonna hurt your feelings.
Jus Mystie (39:48):
We're gonna wrap it up with the nasty houses,
because that's a whole differentlevel yeah, I'm, I'm, I'm gonna
hurt, I'm here to hurt yourfeelings.
Bobby Frost (39:54):
I want, because you hurt my feelings, you right,
put me in this situation.
Jus Mystie (39:57):
Nigga, I don't want to come sit over here in the
trap with you fuck you right,yeah, so, um, you know we have
to end up.
Bobby Frost (40:02):
Hey, again, call to action.
Hey, drop them.
Comments on youtube uh, applemusic, spotify, iheart radio
facebook, space jam everywhereagain, pump us up.
We need it, I want it hey wegot another live event coming
too yeah, pump it up, pump it up.
You're running numbers, man.
(40:22):
I'm trying to get the algorithmto pop.
Run them up.
I got to do better, but I needy'all.
We're going to do bettertogether Togetherness.
Oh shit, what you beenlistening to, Rob?
Oh man, Really, I've beeneverywhere, man, Really like not
being funny.
What I've been listening to isProject About to Drop.
You know Hit-Boy the producer,His dad just got out of prison a
(40:44):
little while ago.
Big hit.
I've been listening to thisshit man.
He got a project coming outwith his son, Hit-Boy and
Alchemist and I've been off thatshit.
That gang move in.
Black and white is cold.
I fucks with it.
I fucks with it heavy.
Jus Mystie (40:59):
What you been off.
Um, I have actually beenlistening to a lot of the flint
artists around here.
I got a little project going on.
Um, I'm really finna.
Jump off into this managementshit here first, for real and
the music thing just because, ohyeah, that was just some light
work I ain't really been talkingtoo much about.
But yeah, I've been really likedealing with some producers
(41:20):
just giving my input on music,so I really ain't been listening
to nothing.
Bobby Frost (41:23):
Industry- yeah, that's, that's it.
So yeah, again, call to action.
You can catch me, bobby frost,media, on all social media.
I'm pumping it up at thehalfway mark.
Y'all know I'm saying y'all cansee it, but I'm really about to
go on an overgrind with it,like y'all gonna see me so much
on y'all timelines and shit likethat.
I know y'all gonna be tired ofme.
I can tell you fuck with it.
I don't.
It's up to you.
And where can they catch you?
(41:44):
At Just Misty.
Jus Mystie (41:45):
Y'all can catch me on all social media platforms,
at Just Misty, and that'sJ-U-S-M-Y-S-T-I-E, or y'all can
put in the official real name.
Learn it, it's going to be onbillboards soon.
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