The Power of Independence: Embracing Singlehood and Personal Growth

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Have you ever wondered why some seemingly trivial social interactions, like women asking for $40, reveal so much about our societal norms and perceptions of value? Join Bobby Frost and Jus Misty as they kick off this episode with a light-hearted yet thought-provoking discussion on reading Shakespeare in school and its influence on our views of authenticity. Jus Misty brings a unique twist as she hilariously dissects the phony behaviors people exhibit daily. This amusing yet candid conversation sets the stage for a deeper dive into the curious dynamics of social requests and what they say about our relationships and societal expectations.

Pack your bags for the next part of our journey where we explore the enriching world of solo travel and singlehood. Bobby and Misty swap stories of their adventures in places like Jamaica, where the allure of luxurious resorts meets the charm of authentic local life. From savoring fresh seafood to navigating the intricacies of cultural immersion, the duo shares tips on planning stress-free travels that foster genuine experiences. They also tackle the fear of being single, highlighting how solo adventures can be a powerful avenue for self-discovery and personal growth, emphasizing the rewarding aspects of independence.

The final leg of our conversation centers on the profound impact of embracing singlehood for self-reflection and meaningful relationships. We challenge societal pressures to couple up and discuss the importance of understanding oneself before diving into new romantic ventures. With personal anecdotes and honest reflections, Bobby and Misty underscore the value of learning from past relationships to become better partners in the future. This episode is a blend of laughter, wisdom, and heartfelt advice, encouraging listeners to view singlehood as a pivotal time for personal development and ultimately, creating healthier, more fulfilling relationships ahead.

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Episode Transcript

Bobby Frost (00:00):
Yo yo yo, it's your boy, bobby Frost, and Bobby
Frost Media presents Tri-Parency.
I'm with the beautiful ladyJust Misty.

Jus Mystie (00:07):
Yo, yo yo.

Bobby Frost (00:09):
And we back back at it Midsummer.
What do I call my uh uhShakespeare?
Those are mids, midsummernights.

Jus Mystie (00:20):
Nigga, you ain't never in your motherfucking life
listening to Shakespeare.
That's a damn lie If you reallyget on my nerves.
Getting in here Trying to besomething.
This ain't the internet, bro.

Bobby Frost (00:32):
I'm genuine.
That's one thing about me forsure.
I definitely read that.
Shout out to Miss Bailey, she'sstill teaching.

Jus Mystie (00:41):
Oh, nigga, you had to read it in school.
Yeah, nigga, I didn't say.
I picked it up off, gp.
I know I like the way you didthat.
I like the way you made it seemlike you a nigga that picked it
up off GP, but you neglected tosay that you read it at school,
though, so you tried to make itseem like you was one of them.
Intellectual ass niggas.

Bobby Frost (00:57):
What that gotta make intellectual cause.
I read it in school
Cause who the fuck reads.
No, that's why you didn't sayyou read it in school.
You left that part out.
A lot of my best books I read was in school.

Jus Mystie (01:07):
Man, fuck off Rob.
You know what you just did,Ladies.
This nigga's not intellectual.
He read Shakespeare because thefuck he had to.

Bobby Frost (01:12):
I had to.
Yeah, I ain't just picked it upoff the GP.
No, I have went back andchecked it out, though.
That's the truth.

Jus Mystie (01:22):
It's niggas like you that make bitches like me
single, because y'all are sofucking phony.

Bobby Frost (01:26):
That's not phony I had to come break down when I
read it.

Jus Mystie (01:29):
Hey, you know I read this, but I read no, this is a
rapping source.
You tried to make it seem that.
This is a rapping source.
I read this motherfucker backin 11th grade what?
Yes, you should have said thatI asked like hey, oh my god,
they got jitters on sale today.
Is you gonna give?
me some money.
Where is jitters on sale at thecut?

(01:50):
Shout out to the cut on northon north door highway.
Give me um some money so youcan repay me back for them
jitters that she still listen,this is amazing, y'all.

Bobby Frost (02:00):
This shit is over a year past I don't give a fuck.

Jus Mystie (02:03):
Jitters cost a lot of money bro.

Bobby Frost (02:05):
I ain't knocking it , I feel.

Jus Mystie (02:06):
Tuesday I'm going to tell you what the fucking
special is and you're buy oneget one.

Bobby Frost (02:12):
I think somebody got her when they dropped that
motherfucker.
They got high as hell.

Jus Mystie (02:17):
They buy one, get one.
So let me just tell you howmuch you can give me.
Can you give me?
Can I get $40?
Can you give me, can I get 40dollars?
40 dollars is like the minimum,like that you're supposed to
ask for anyway.
40 bucks, even your, like Idon't give a fuck if it's your
brother, because you're notsupposed to accept under 40,
because what the fuck can I do?
I can't do nothing with 40dollars, but since they're on

(02:39):
sale, I can and my shit went.

Bobby Frost (02:42):
You know, I'm saying went to the left when you
said that because the 40dollars.

Jus Mystie (02:45):
We all know what the 40 dollars and I always thought
that was a funny thing.

Bobby Frost (02:49):
I'm not talking about.
It just made me think about itbecause it was always funny,
like I always said like damn,what made it 40 bucks?

Jus Mystie (02:54):
I always said to myself, like what you know it
used to be.
I always said it too.
I don't know what made that 40dollars.

Bobby Frost (02:59):
I don't know who came up with that at the at the
round table $40.

Jus Mystie (03:04):
Right.

Bobby Frost (03:04):
Yeah, like the minimum is going to be 40.
That's the hotspot.
What.

Jus Mystie (03:09):
Cause, I think it was.
I think it started out as ajoke Like she a fuck for 40.
And then from that it juststarted out like bitch, you got
to at least get 40 now, damn.

Bobby Frost (03:18):
Like 40.
I don't know where they got 40from either yeah, I always said
that 40, you know, that's justcrazy if he's trying to distract
me from looking up these g, nolook him up.

(03:39):
I'm just laughing.
When you said the 40, I'm likewhere?
Because?
You said play with him.
You said 40 is the minimum toask a nigga.
That's why I went to that.
I thought about, I said damndid so did a woman.
Did a woman come up with the 40for sex like was that the thing
?
like no or was it a man?

Jus Mystie (03:54):
or maybe he, maybe she took 40 and he ran with it
as a fucking joke like thisbitch fucked me for 40, I don't
know.
But whoever did it bitch youdead wrong and you and you.
The game up for everybody,because I that shit was the
dumbest shit that's why I asked40.

Bobby Frost (04:07):
You know I'm saying 40 bucks like who the fuck does
that?

Jus Mystie (04:11):
you ain't so 40 40 dog, that's two, two, two, two,
20s man and we were you know youcan't even get me to smoke with
you for 40 if you don't get thefuck out my driveway boy that's
why I said the 40 was just whyyou ain't even in the driveway,
because you don't even know theaddress.
You fucking idiot.
40, oh god damn it.
And I can't even be mad at theme and that offer, because

(04:32):
obviously a bitch took it, thatone that's what I'm saying like.

Bobby Frost (04:34):
That's like you see now, like they went from a
quarter, four quarters for, youknow, four bags of chips.
Now is it went.
I'm here.
At one time it was three chipsFor a dollar.
Now it's two chips.

Jus Mystie (04:44):
Now you just dropped Our pussy, comparing it down to
chips Ain't that a bitch?
That's the real problem.
You motherfuckers Don't valueour pussy enough.
That's crazy.
For a motherfucker To evenoffer Forty dollars For some
pussy, some shit you can't Nevergive back Ain't that a bitch?

Bobby Frost (04:59):
I'm about to walk out.
Okay, again just so that wasn'tMissing screwed I was not over
here Trying to fuck Rob, for Ijust want $40.
Damn, you know.
So the $40 is like the bareminimum for pussy.

Jus Mystie (05:13):
No, who made that?

Bobby Frost (05:17):
I'm so sorry.

Jus Mystie (05:17):
I don't want to say yes, I don't want to say yes,
I'm not going to say yes to that.
I'm just going to look at youLike I'm going to look at you,
like you, right, but I'm notgoing to say yes to that.
I'm just going to look at youlike I'm going to look at you
like you're right, but I'm notgoing to say yes to that,
because no, $40 is absolutelynot the fucking minimum for me.

Bobby Frost (05:30):
I'm trying to think what can you get for $40?

Jus Mystie (05:32):
I mean, depending on the type of tank you got, you
can get like a type of tank yougot.
Depending on your car, you canget like a half to three, four
you can call me because Causeyou saw me and was like, oh, let
me just drop this 40 in yourtank and then you come back out
and be like Call me.
Okay, i'ma call you, but youcan't, 40 can get you A decent
meal 40 can get you my fuckingphone number.

Bobby Frost (05:51):
It can get you A decent meal.

Jus Mystie (05:53):
It can't give me no meal at Sagano's.
That's like $2 too short andthat's sad it's over.
I don't want to talk about itno more because I'm getting
upset.
Give me the $40 for the fuckingweed.

Bobby Frost (06:07):
Don't get mad about the 40, because we got it as
educational it's not, I justwant to get the weed.

Jus Mystie (06:12):
I'm getting so stressed out.
Do y'all hear my voice startingto crack?
Just give me the fucking moneyfor the Jeters.

Bobby Frost (06:18):
You know what I'm about?
To go holler at some of myplayer partners, man, and see
where this originated from,because it's really bothering me
now.

Jus Mystie (06:26):
The $40 is no good, throw it out.
Change the rule.

Bobby Frost (06:30):
I want to know the $40.

Jus Mystie (06:32):
I want them to change the rule.
I want to know.
You know, I'm about to get offof it.

Bobby Frost (06:41):
I'm just thinking.
You know, I got an imaginationLike how the fuck your granny
used to give you the money youfold it in the handshake type
shit.

Jus Mystie (06:47):
Can you listen to what I'm trying to tell you?
Listen to what I'm trying totell you.

Bobby Frost (06:51):
Or is it like can I cash app you 40?
Zealot.

Jus Mystie (06:57):
You make me sick man .
I'm serious man.

Bobby Frost (07:01):
I'm trying to figure that one out.
That's a new one.
So, besides that, what you beenon, man.

Jus Mystie (07:06):
The Jeter's is buy one, get one.
I need fucking $40 so I can geta two gram Jeter and I'm going
to get another one for free, andthen I'm going to get a $9 fire
stick.

Bobby Frost (07:16):
What they ain't change.
Weed so much.

Jus Mystie (07:19):
Right.
So I does not talk about it,just give me the $40.
Does not talk about it, justgive me the $40.

Bobby Frost (07:24):
What is it?
Why the fuck will you keep?

Jus Mystie (07:25):
making me ask you for $40?
That's damn near you making mesound like I'm begging.

Bobby Frost (07:28):
We gonna you know I'm gonna give it to you, but
it's gonna be off the show Justcause.
No, the problem is you don'twanna say you gonna give it to I
know you're a lawyer, so you'regonna try to use that in your
defense exactly.

Jus Mystie (07:48):
No, I'm cracking the fuck up, courtney.
I'm so mad you're not here,friend.
This is it this was it.

Bobby Frost (07:54):
She's trying to use it.
I know she want to be a lawyerman, no, if I didn't know that I
knew she this part of herdefense.
It's the evidence andeverything's how she's gonna try
to run with evidence.

Jus Mystie (08:04):
If you did not throw them out, why did you feel that
you should have given me the$40 when I asked for the $40
specifically to replace the onesthat you threw away?

Bobby Frost (08:14):
Had.

Jus Mystie (08:14):
I just said, Rob, can you give me $40 for some
Jeters?
Then that's different.

Bobby Frost (08:18):
That's why I said let me move around it and talk
about it after the show, becauseshe's going to make it seem
like I lost her jitters and Ididn't.
And this is what you have to do, man, fellas.
You have to pay attention, man,because they will walk you into
a corner and you won't evenknow you getting guided there.
Oh, what the fuck ever Rob.
You gotta watch fellas.

Jus Mystie (08:38):
Okay, I said I wasn't gonna even continue with
this.
I did admit to Courtney that Imay have very it's a slight,
slight, slight chance that I mayhave thrown them away myself,
but it is a very, very slightchance.

(08:58):
It's like 99% you did it andit's that 1% chance that I may
have done it.

Bobby Frost (09:04):
Listen as long as there's a chance, that's you
back in court.
It had to be a what areasonable doubt.

Jus Mystie (09:10):
So I give you just one percent.
I may have it's there.

Bobby Frost (09:15):
So what you've been on this I have been on nothing.

Jus Mystie (09:19):
I had a rough week a little while back.
Everything is, um, just nowcalming down a little bit,
getting back together.
I have not taken the realestate test yet.
Um, I probably got it scheduled, probably towards the end of
July.
I will take it before the endof July is up, before 30 days
for me taking the class, but Ijust want to study as much as I
can.
Um, so I ain't really been onshit studying and I'm still on

(09:42):
my journey.
Y'all know I didn't say nothingto y'all about it last episode,
but I very much am still on mylittle spiritual journey.
I haven't still been readingthe Bible as much as I want to,
or as much as I was, but that'sbecause it's been hectic this
last month, like this beginningof this summer.
Let's just say that's all I cansay.
I feel like the blowing smokeemoji because it's been a lot,

(10:09):
but I'm pulling it together andthat's that on that, if y'all
need a crib holler at your girl.

Bobby Frost (10:11):
So what I've been on, really really, really been
on.
Right now I gotta get thisfucking pad.
I'm waiting for this passportto come back where we going you
can roll out.
My dogs wanted me to go tojamaica with them, uh for the uh
one of their birthdays, and I'mlike One of them dogs, my dog.

Jus Mystie (10:28):
Who is he?
No, don't tell me, can I go?

Bobby Frost (10:31):
Yeah, I wanted to see why they wouldn't want you
to go.
So I'm like, yeah, jamaica.
I'm like, yeah, that's cool, wecan get out there.
I told them already like.

Jus Mystie (10:53):
I'm not telling y'all to come with me, that's
just me.
I'm going to where I'm tryingto see, uh, uh, what was his
name?
Lennox from bailey.
I'm trying to go see my dogslike that.
Oh no, fuck that you know.

Bobby Frost (10:57):
Seriously, though, they tell you not to one draw
too far.

Jus Mystie (10:58):
Yeah, that's anywhere you go and it's crazy
because when we went you it'sdefinitely gonna be a good time
it was five of us, but it'scrazy how it's just like over
here like you literally can beriding and it'd be nice as fuck
these be the motherfuckers thatgot money and then you hit a
corner and then they shit withshacks and houses, with
motherfucking torps on tarps onthem and shit, and it's like
damn, how did that switch upthat fast like, but it's the

(11:21):
shit, I liked it no, that's whyI said what I said.

Bobby Frost (11:24):
You know I'm saying I'm not gonna be trying to go
right, but I'm I got.
No, I'm not staying on theresort if I go to jamaica, I
want to experience the realculture.
That's not spending the culturewhen I'm around a bunch of
other tourists.
I want to go where I can.
Really, if I go to a dance hall, I want to go to a real dance
hall.
You know what I'm saying.

Jus Mystie (11:38):
Yeah, we got, we we didn't stay, we stayed in a
villa and then we were Like wewent out, we didn't stay on a
resort, we went out and did ourown thing.
Um, I think I told you before,like it was dope, like they
really be at the foot, theyreally Catching Fresh crab,
fresh fish.

Bobby Frost (11:52):
Yeah, I wanna see some of that shit.

Jus Mystie (11:54):
Like it was the shit and he was really Our chef was
going to buy it From the man atthe ocean Like Right at fuck a
stove.
He at the ocean front like hereyou go off crap.
It was really nice.
That's just me.

Bobby Frost (12:05):
Enjoy yourself I got a snapchat friend and I say
snapchat because I don't reallydon't know her real life, but I
follow her on snapchat and Ithink she was just like in
greece or some shit like thatand, um, that's my shit.
If I go somewhere, I don't wantto stay on a resort, I want to
go around because I, to me, I'mnot getting the culture, like I
said.
I just said this before on thepodcast a couple times.

(12:25):
When I go in any state inamerica, I go to the hood.
Am I going exactly all the wayon blocks in front of
motherfuckers, traps and shitlike that?
No, unless I know somebody.
No, but I'm going.
I'm going different than thehood, like I know I'm cool every
time I want to get the culturelike.
I want to go to new orleans yes,I'm not about to be going in,
no motherfucking projects, youknow what I'm saying.

(12:46):
But I want to get.
I want to go into new orleans.
I'm gonna stop at a cornerstore or something like that.
The guys won't.
You know that's just me.
I mean, I want to get the coach, the real coach, a little bit
of it at least.
You know what I'm saying.
So that's me.
So that's what's up.
I got to get ready for mybirthday Maturing.
I've been saying that a lot.

(13:07):
Y'all going to be saying that.
You know that's going to be oneof my things.
I'm going to be putting on mypages Maturing, and then give an
example of what you mean bymaturing.
But maturing like now.
Start planning for yourbirthday.
Mine too.
Yeah, when I was younger I'd dothat shit right when my
birthday my sister, 12th ofOctober, as soon as October hit,
I'm about to figure somethingout.

(13:28):
Fuck that.
Start planning ahead.
I don't want to keep doing shiton whims, no more.
I'm planning ahead.
I'm getting this, this, thisand that, because when I go I
want to be able to go and have agood time.
Worry about shit.
Everything is already paid forand done.
You know what I'm saying.
I even got most of my fits.
I'm gonna roll with.
Let some shit, some shoes comeout that I gotta coordinate and
I'm with that.

Jus Mystie (13:48):
That's how I'm looking at um, I'm gonna tell
you, this year I turn.
Well, next year my birthday isin january, y'all, so it's
always at the beginning of theyear.
Um, I turned 38 and I think I'mgonna take a solo trip.
I don't know where yet, but forme it's not even really about
you know, a girl's trip, havingfun.
I love girl's trips, but I justwant to do some shit by myself.

(14:09):
I want to do something I ain'tnever done, and taking a solo
trip is one of them.
So that's what I'm gonna do.
I'm gonna go sit on me a beachsomewhere and just kick it in
hell.
See what?

Bobby Frost (14:20):
There you go.
Don't bring no sand to thebeach, it's already there.
Go check it out.
So, um, wanting to get into thetopic today, man, you know I
had talked about it with acouple of people and I think

(14:40):
this is a bit.
We talk about relationships, alot and different aspects of
relationship in that realmSingle, I feel like a lot of
people are afraid of beingsingle, like I think people
should be a more emphasis to meon being single than it is in
being in a relationship.

Jus Mystie (14:54):
I do too.
Why people be so scared to besingle?
Or why is being single lookedat as a negative thing instead
of, um, a good thing?
I think that being single allowa motherfucker to learn who
they are.
I think it allow you to learnwhat you want.
You know what I'm saying.
I have been single for quite awhile and I feel like at first

(15:17):
it was like I was never bored.
I ain't gonna say that I had alot of motherfucking fun, but,
um, at first it was so much likefun, fun, fun.
This is fun, I can do this, Ican do that, I can do that.
But now it's more so like I'mnot settling for that, that that
, even though I probably want tobe in a relationship or
something.
But it just gave me a lot oftime to figure out what I wanted
.
You know what I'm saying.
I think being single was dopeas fuck, and until you ready to

(15:39):
actually give yourself 100 tosomebody, you should be single
anyway.
Yeah, I'm with it.
Maybe that's why.

Bobby Frost (15:48):
When we go live.

Jus Mystie (15:49):
I'm going to ask who said we was going live?
Are you going live from yourphone?

Bobby Frost (15:53):
I can't.
We got to go live because Iwant to ask.

Jus Mystie (15:56):
Because he be killing me y'all.
You think you're going to justkeep using me for my fame?
You need to get active, my boy.

Bobby Frost (16:03):
That's why it's called.
That's why it's called a team.
It's called a team work.
Make the dream work.
No, no, no, here we go.
David ruffman, ain't nobodycoming here to see you.

Jus Mystie (16:13):
All this, get you get you a motherfucking facebook
and get your shit popping,because what this is?

Bobby Frost (16:20):
this is the craziest shit you know I don't
want to.

Jus Mystie (16:22):
You ain't gonna keep using me.
See, see it's using.
Yeah, that's exactly, it's notteamwork Make the dream work.
That's exactly what it is.
Y'all see what I got to put upwith Using a motherfucker.
That is insane.

Bobby Frost (16:31):
David Ruffin S there you go.

Jus Mystie (16:37):
That's David Ruffin-esque.
I already told you that's myAin't nobody coming to see you,
otis.

Bobby Frost (16:42):
I want to ask People like what's?
It'll be my thing.
That's why I said, when we geta little bit bigger, I'm
definitely going to have A setup when it's going to be
Anonymous spot, where people cancome in Anonymous Because I
know when people can see whocoming.

Jus Mystie (16:55):
No, he not.
That's a lie, that's a damn.
No, he ain't ran that past.
Nobody that you don't come onTriparancy.

Bobby Frost (17:01):
if you want to be anonymous, I didn't say come on,
I said they can drop it and wecan say about it.
You don't speak on.

Jus Mystie (17:04):
Triparancy if you want to be anonymous.

Bobby Frost (17:06):
Because people don't want to tell the truth.

Jus Mystie (17:07):
Well, then go on another podcast.

Bobby Frost (17:09):
Because I want to see right now with this question
about I would like the truth.

Jus Mystie (17:14):
Hey y'all, hey Listen, negative thing or why is
it um frowned upon like?
Why is it so much good emphasison?

Bobby Frost (17:29):
being in a relationship versus being single
.
I want to know what's thelongest people that have been
single?
Because I know when you saythat and you somebody can see
you saying it then somebody goback.
You don't misty, I can't speakon you, that that's misty, misty
.
Everybody ain't moving.
Everybody don't have balls bigas Misty's.

Jus Mystie (17:46):
I just wanted you to know that you wasn't doing that
.
You not talking on our shit.
If you think you anonymous, bro, only way you anonymous is, if
you wanted, by the motherfuckinggovernment, and we don't want
you to get caught On behalf ofus cause snitches, get stitches.
Other than that, you showingyour motherfucking face and you
gonna tell us how long you beensingle.

Bobby Frost (18:02):
Cause I wanna know, want to know how long people
been single man, because it'slike it's frowned upon, like
even I say this plenty of timestoo, so I can't say I'm out, you
know out with it.
I haven't said this to a femalea lot.
If I'm gonna talk to a femaleand she look nice, she, as this
first thing pop up like why areyou single?

Jus Mystie (18:22):
like how the fuck nobody's trying to talk to you,
why are you so cool talking tome, but you see how that's the,
that's you being negative.

Bobby Frost (18:29):
I just said that though why are you single?

Jus Mystie (18:31):
because the fuck I want to be.

Bobby Frost (18:32):
That's why I just said it.
I can't say I'm not part ofthat either.

Jus Mystie (18:35):
I I am too.
No, I think that niggas try touse that lame ass line as a why
you single to make it seem likeyou shouldn't be.

Bobby Frost (18:41):
When that's lame, don't say that no, niggas don't
be using.
If I'm lying, no, it's notniggas, be serious, because this
is I'm saying again I can't bethe only nigga that shot a shot
at you.
So why?

Jus Mystie (18:51):
because obviously, because I want to be.
So that is a dumb question.
If you look at me and you knowthat I am, I'm, I'm that, and
you just, I can't figure out whyyou single after you didn't say
you single and yeah, you haveto know that it's my choice,
obviously no.
What do you want me to open upand say when you say that, oh,

(19:11):
because every time I get into arelationship I get suicidal, or
oh, I get crazy.
Then I go stab a motherfucker.
I'm single.

Bobby Frost (19:17):
Cause my boyfriend won't get stabbed.
No, motherfucker, no,motherfucker, no, it's because
that's crazy no, I know it's notgonna get done, but that's what
you be wanting, because this isthe truth I didn't have this
happen.

Jus Mystie (19:26):
What if that's not the truth?
What is the what if the truthis just because I am?

Bobby Frost (19:30):
that's, that's that's it.
That's the gamble because I amthat's the gamble, because a lot
of times I could say this, andI know the fellas gonna agree
with me when you see a chickjust single to be single and
they hit you with that, I'm justsingle because I'm single, shit
.
Yeah, that shit be like.
Yeah, that's a line you hit mewith, just like you feel it's a
line because it's the reason whyyou're single and you figure

(19:52):
this shit out once you startfucking with her.
Once it gets to that situation,you put yeah, she had this crazy
shit in her and it's just notpopping up.
This is the reason why and theone thing I say about females.
That kill me, man, because Italk back and forth with a lot
of the fans and stuff like that.
I interact and talk to them ondifferent social medias and
stuff like that.
They all say the same thingY'all play with feelings, y'all

(20:16):
bring it out.
You justifying you doing somewild shit?
No, you can't justify doing nowild shit.
You got a right to yourfeelings, but that'll make your
feelings right.
You can't do no wild shit andthen be like justifying it like,
yeah, like it's his fault.

Jus Mystie (20:29):
No, nigga, you could have reacted a whole different
way, you always have some shithappen exactly because ain't.
No, I don't understand why he'sa part of the negative, the
negative, uh, the negativestigma on being seen I just said
that.

Bobby Frost (20:44):
That's why I said I wanted to talk about it.

Jus Mystie (20:46):
Y'all make females act crazy.
Keep it real.
Who said that Y'all do?

Bobby Frost (20:50):
Oh no, we don't.
I can't make you do anything.

Jus Mystie (20:53):
Yes, you can, because if you just come in here
and tell me that we're notgoing to be together, I'm just
fucking the shit out of you likethis, because this is what I do
love you.
It's not because I want to bewith you because I got a bitch
at home, or maybe I just want tobe single, but this is what I
want to do.
If I decide, okay, let's do it,then no, I can't act crazy.
But if you don't say that andthen you come in and you treat

(21:13):
me like we go together, then I'mgoing, in return, act like we
go together yeah, I don't needyou doing that sexy red shit
with me oh baby, I don't needthat man.
Listen you better.
He ain't answering the question, y'all so.

Bobby Frost (21:25):
But I will flip the side.
Like I said Originally talkingabout, I think people need to be
single more.
So I ain't looking at the ThingI'm gonna put up on my Facebook
, the lie.
But yeah, ask them, ask some ofthe viewers, ask them what how
long have they been single?

Jus Mystie (21:42):
How long y'all been single Toya?
You know, once you start actinglike we go together, we go
together.
How long y'all been single?
Anybody that's on here tappingin let me know how long have you
guys been single?

Bobby Frost (21:56):
Yeah, that's a question.
That's a good question.
That's a big thing I think onPeople should focus more on
being single than being inrelationships.

Jus Mystie (22:04):
That shouldn't be a thing.
I think that if you focus onyourself while you're being
single, then it makes yourrelationship way better.

Bobby Frost (22:11):
I believe that.
I definitely do.
I think people should be singlemore than they should be in a
relationship.

Jus Mystie (22:18):
That's just me.
More so than not.

Bobby Frost (22:20):
Yeah, because give yourself a chance to figure shit
out in life.
You know what I'm saying?
We don't give that, we just hopstraight in relationships.

Jus Mystie (22:30):
I just went off live .
Wasn't nobody on live?
Where everybody at this morning?
You know what I'm saying.

Bobby Frost (22:36):
So, yeah, that's how I feel about it, like, yeah,
and, like I said, I'm part ofthat stigma that I make it where
you know why?

Jus Mystie (22:45):
what if we see a man that's been single and he
single and after conversating hemay have an all right income?
No kids, handsome.
What are we supposed to think?
That you're gay?

Bobby Frost (22:58):
I never heard a female say that before.

Jus Mystie (23:00):
I don't think that.
I think that there's nothingwrong and I don't think there's
nothing wrong with not wantingto be in a relationship.
I just think that people putway too much emphasis on being
in one.
Ain't nothing wrong with notwanting to be one.
Ain't nothing wrong with onetoday.
Rob, tim, dick and harry.
Ain't nothing wrong with onetoday.
Uh, just rob and and terry,ain't nothing.
Just I feel like be single andenjoy your life and do what the

(23:23):
fuck you want to do.
I don't think that anybodyshould be pressured and be in a
relationship because I mean, Iguess they right, but no, I know
they ain't all of that.
Everybody I know that's in arelationship don't seem fucking
happy and it's bad because theynever took enough time to be
single.
No, motherfuckers, break up andjump right back in a
relationship.

Bobby Frost (23:42):
And sometimes I can work and the other times they
don't.
You know what I'm saying.
That's, that's a big thing Ifeel about it.
You know what I'm saying?
Yeah, you gotta take time tounderstand yourself and if
you're in a relationship rightafter you just got done, then
yeah, you're not gonna have timeto heal, learn yourself, things

(24:05):
of that nature.
And I don't like the stigma.
I'm gonna be honest.
I don't like the stigma behindit.
That's that's me being honest,truthful.
I don't like the stigma thatbeing single because I think
that's the the problem withrelationships you, you don't get
a chance to understand yourself.
I even look at myself like,damn, how long have I been
single?
The longest periods I've been?

(24:26):
I ain't ever been single.
No, three years, four years,two years.

Jus Mystie (24:30):
Have you ever been, even for real single anyway?

Bobby Frost (24:32):
Yeah, I'd have been single before.

Jus Mystie (24:36):
I feel like, from how long, how long you been
married, going on 10.

Bobby Frost (24:40):
Oh, how old are you 36.

Jus Mystie (24:42):
Oh, that's good though.

Bobby Frost (24:46):
You got.
You got married young, in yourtwenties, but that's why I go
back to saying that like howmuch better I would have been if
I would have been single longer.

Jus Mystie (24:57):
You know what I'm saying you think you would have
been a better man to your wife,or you just saying just a better
person in a relationship, allthe way around?

Bobby Frost (25:04):
I believe that's me .
That's a hill I'd die on, Ibelieve, all the way around.
I would have been way better ifI would have just been single,
because that's my question Likepeople, don't be single for no
time.

Jus Mystie (25:14):
That's true.

Bobby Frost (25:15):
Like motherfuckers be having bad girls already.

Jus Mystie (25:19):
Yeah, but yeah, I think yeah, you're absolutely
correct.
I just saw somebody that wasjust in a relationship.
It's so crazy.
I can't even say who she isbecause she's super close to me,
but I just saw her in arelationship y'all.
And I'm talking about happykids, big crib, they doing a

(25:39):
damn thing.
I bullshit you not.
I just found out they broke uplike um a week ago and he
literally just posted the bitchyesterday.

Bobby Frost (25:44):
Yeah he'd be having bagels already, like what the
fuck like uh future say man,it's a cold world.

Jus Mystie (25:51):
But I think that you have to have that backup
because you don't know how to bea good man or a good woman.
I feel like you already knowthat you finna put yourself in a
situation because you haven'ttaken time to learn yourself and
I feel like that started allthe way from like young, like
these kids be—I was a kid likethat in an old, serious ass
relationship at 15, 16 years oldand shit.
You know what I'm saying.

(26:11):
That shit happened and then youdon't realize that you finna be
out of school.
So, boom, 18, come quick andyou still in love with this same
motherfucker.
So you blink and you just spentyour whole motherfucking teens,
your whole beginning of yourtwenties, with this same
motherfucker.
Like you don't even know whothe fuck you are, you don't even

(26:33):
know what make you come, youdon't even know what the fuck I
mean.
You haven't learned yourself.
You ain't learned yourself, youain't learned nothing and you
think that this man or thiswoman is every fucking thing and
they not.

Bobby Frost (26:38):
I feel like being single is so fucking important,
bro and that's why I want totalk about it, get the stigma
out, because it's a stigmabehind it.
That's the truth.
It's a stigma that people feellike if you're single, then you
know that's something bad.
But it's nothing bad about.
That was why.
Why am I, you know, beingdownplayed because I'm single?

(26:58):
That doesn't make sense, likeit doesn't, but that's how
society got it set up and to meit's.
It's crazy.
That's crazy work.
You know, I'm saying to sit upand I'm single and I'm getting
looked at like I'm fucked upbecause I'm single.

Jus Mystie (27:13):
Yeah, I'm getting looked at fucked up because I'm
single.

Bobby Frost (27:16):
And you shouldn't.
You know what I'm saying.
You shouldn't, that shouldn'tbe even part of it.
You know what I'm saying?
Like what, yeah, you single,okay, cool, I'm working on
myself.
You know what I'm saying?
Like, yeah, enough people don'tbe single man.
That's just that's how I feelabout it.
Enough people are not singleand you hop in these
relationships.
You're not hilt all the way.

(27:36):
You don't know yourself.
Like once you start dating, Idon't care what age it is.
You know what I'm saying when Isaid I'm serious, like you can
start dating at high schoollevel, whatever, usually, from
then on, you be in arelationship, like really think
about that you know.

Jus Mystie (27:51):
But yeah, for sure, everybody like literally that's
I.
I didn't know if that was aflint thing or or what, but yes,
they get into relationships andthen they be younger than a
motherfucker yeah, you're in arelationship for the rest of
your goddamn life and that'scrazy like you never get a break
.

Bobby Frost (28:06):
You never get a break from not being in a
relationship.

Jus Mystie (28:09):
So you never learn.

Bobby Frost (28:10):
Yeah, it's crazy, like, but that's how it go.
And I said, man, we got to fixthat stigma.
Man, there's nothing wrong withbeing single.
You should focus more on beingsingle to be in a relationship.
Really learn yourself.
Learn your triggers, learn thethings that you don't like, the
things you do like.
Figure it out before you'regoing to make a commitment with
somebody and then fuck theirshit up because you wasn't ready

(28:31):
.
And fuck your own shit up.
You know what I'm saying?

Jus Mystie (28:33):
No for sure I teach my son.
My son is 14 years old and Ireally definitely I have a
14-year-old, Whether they comefor me or not.
Right now I got a 14-year-old,a 19-year-old house.

(28:56):
Right now the 26 year old is ina relationship with a baby on
the way.
The 19 year old just got out ofhis relationship and my son is
14 and he is just doing whateverwe want to do.
It's just crazy to see him fromso different uh, many different
ages.
You know what I'm saying.
I think them good age gaps.
I got going there, but I tellthem all the same thing man,
Like these relationships y'allin right now with the lady
sitting on the plane, they arenot real.
Like, come on, Y'all are soyoung, Y'all don't even know
what type of woman you want tolike.

(29:18):
You know what I'm saying.
Make you feel like the man yousupposed to be, because you
don't even know the man yousupposed to be yet, because
you're a kid For real.
You know what I'm saying?
You ain't experienced nothingLike at 19,.
I want to be out.
I traveling these kids now,especially with everything they
got.
I don't want to be tied down tono motherfucking girl at 19.
I want to be having fun Fuckingbitches, going to school,

(29:38):
learning what I supposed tolearn in college or whatever the
fuck the case is.
I don't want to be tied down toone female, I just don't.
If I could do my shit overagain, I would not have been in
that toxic ass early ass in loveass relationship at 16.

Bobby Frost (29:54):
I'm with you, like that's what I said for me, just
me myself.
If I would have sat back justthinking about myself, if I
would have sat back and wouldhave waited before I hopped in a
relationship and just got toknow me, really figure out what
to do, even like a lot of peoplecall it what the quote whole
phase, like whatever I wouldhave got to learn myself Even
every relationship I would havebeen in.
I didn't take enough for me, Ididn't take enough time to be

(30:17):
single.
That's why I said, like yourviewers, I'm going to ask them
what's the longest you've beensingle?
I ain't never heard them, upuntil too many, let me say never
heard.
But I heard, said never heard.
But I heard a lot of people sayI was single, I've been single
two years, I've been single ayear, like if somebody's been
single a year, two years, threeyears, they get a bad stimulus,
like there's something wrongwith them, like they fucked up,
they crazy, something wrong withthem, you know.

(30:38):
I said like no, you get to knowyourself, you get in a lot of
people I do feel like be needingto be in relationships too,
like they feel like they need tobe.

Jus Mystie (30:47):
I feel like, those people that feel like that is
people that's only been in arelationship because that's all
you know because yeah, becauseyou, that's what you're
comfortable with.
It's hard being single.
In reality, you know what I'msaying like because the fuck,
just thinking about the lovepart of it, that means you're a
single guy for being, you gotkids.
That mean you're a singleparent.
So that mean you taking care ofall the bills, you taking care
of kids, you, you cooking, youcleaning, you working and you

(31:10):
trying to date man.
Listen.

Bobby Frost (31:13):
And again, that's why I say what I say, like I
don't think, like I know somepeople be.
I'm going to talk to females.
They once they got arelationship they used to being
held every night.

Jus Mystie (31:24):
Yeah.

Bobby Frost (31:25):
So something like that.
It make them go jump in anotherrelationship because that's
what you used to, that's yourcomfort zone.

Jus Mystie (31:30):
But just like being single is a comfort zone too,
though I'm not used to beingheld every night, I don't want
you to sleep over here everynight, like it's just.
I mean, I feel like being in arelationship and not be.
They both got their cons andpros that you can get used to,
depending on how long youhaven't done either one of them.
Like I said me, getting arelationship is something that I
really really think hard about.

(31:51):
Because am I?
Yes, you want to be loved andyou want a partner and you want
to do life with somebody, butthat mean I gotta change a lot
of shit.
I do right, and you know whatI'm saying.
I gotta be willing to do that.
So, yeah, you know what I'msaying.
I told we I say this all thetime I gotta have somebody that
understand that I'm a promoter,that understand that I'm gonna
be in a picture With a thousandniggas that night Just because

(32:13):
that's what the fuck was goingon at the party.
You know what I'm saying?
I don't know.
I'm a podcast host.
I talk shit.
I say I'm gonna suck dick allthe time On here.
That don't mean I'm suckingsomebody's dick Other than yours
.
Is you gonna be tripping everynight.
I don't know if I'm ready forthat, and that's why I said what
I said man, seriously, peopledon't like.

Bobby Frost (32:33):
I done heard mad women say I'm dating with a
purpose.
Right, I hate that shit.
But I done heard mad women sayI'm dating with a purpose.
So okay, we got that.
Why are you not being singlewith a purpose?

Jus Mystie (32:46):
Yeah, being single, you got to.

Bobby Frost (32:48):
Being single with a purpose.

Jus Mystie (32:49):
I had a purpose being single, you gotta.
I mean being single.
I have a purpose.
I had a purpose being single.
After I got my feelings hurtand dragged through the
motherfucking mud like that, Isaid I gotta figure this shit
out, is it me?
If it's me, okay, let me tweakthis now.
Let me be the woman that I want.
Let me be who, what I'm tryingto attract.
So me being single this wholetime was definitely a choice.
I've had a couple motherfuckerswant to be in a relationship
with me, but I don't think thatyou can be in a relationship

(33:10):
with me.
I don't think I can be in onewith you.
So I'm not going to waste ourtime.

Bobby Frost (33:13):
And that's that's big that you said that.
Because, again, the thing aboutrelationships to me is like I
always say this if you'regetting in a relationship, not
for like gain, what I mean bygain is something you're gaining
out of it outside is being withthis person.
It could be clout, money,political status or position,
anything, but I'm talking aboutyou really with the person,

(33:34):
because you like the person.
Then I'm assuming once you sayI'm with somebody, you with them
, with the intention to be withthem forever.
So I'm 36.
If I get with somebody at 36, Iwant to be I'm 80.
What if they live to?

Jus Mystie (33:46):
85?
And them motherfuckers don't berealizing how fast time goes
when you think about it.
When you do think about themlittle relationships you was in
I mean not even little, or evenif they was serious ones, like
you said I know when youliterally say 10 years out of
your mouth and knowing that youwere married for 10, you was
with her longer than that that'sa long fucking time, bro.
School, that's what it be.

(34:08):
Because you be in school, right, and you start going with this
person in seventh grade.
You know I'm saying y'all begoing together on and off
seventh, eighth grade and thenninth grade come, and then now
it's for real.
Right, now we go.
Now, now we go to get we inhigh school now.
Now that's seventh, eighth,ninth.
That's already three fuckingyears.
You feel me and guess what?
We're gonna break up again.
We're gonna 10th, 11th, nigga,that is five years of your life

(34:30):
that you've been with this oneperson and you're a kid still.

Bobby Frost (34:34):
You know, and that's why I say, be single Like
, even as an adult, like I canlook at my homeboys, me, other
people.
It's like you was in arelationship.
The relationship didn't work,so to me that's dramatic.
If you've been in a long-termrelationship and that didn't
work, to me that's dramatic.
So, with that being said, yougo right back in another
relationship.

Jus Mystie (34:55):
Yes.

Bobby Frost (34:56):
How is that healthy ?
Now I ain't saying it can't be.
I'm not saying it can't be, butjust on average.
How is that healthy?
It's not.
It's not a healthy thing.
So you putting yourself in apredicament where you know you
not healing, you notunderstanding, you didn't even
get a chance.
Forget the healing.
I'm going to go further thanthat Forget the healing.

(35:17):
You didn't give yourself enoughtime to learn from the mistakes
that you made in thatrelationship.
You know what I'm saying.
That's the one thing I hatesaying that, but that's the
truth.
I hate saying that, but that'sthe truth.

Jus Mystie (35:29):
I hate saying that, but that's the truth when you in
, when you in a relationship,huh, it's dead today yeah, it
could be for any reason.

Bobby Frost (35:35):
Usually that's how I try to uh always do it before
time.

Jus Mystie (35:39):
Yeah, okay, but um go ahead like you don't.

Bobby Frost (35:43):
You're not learning and I hate to say that, but
that's the truth.
Like I heard some people saypeople come in your life.
Females usually say Come inyour life a season, and I agree
with that To a certain extent.
So If I didn't got a chance Tomake this mistake In this
relationship, I'd have learnedfor it.
So I should be better For thenext relationship, but I should
be able To understand themistakes I made.

Jus Mystie (35:59):
Let me give it some chance by myself and understand
I made back another mistakelisten, my little cousin just
told me it was so crazy becausehe was in a relationship on some
same shit, like with the sameperson all through high school
toxic, untoxic.
We love each other, blah, blah,blah.
He did all of that, you feel me, but then he ended up fucking
with somebody else and having ababy, and he was just talking to

(36:20):
me like I don't want her tofeel, like like it's her,
because it's not her.
You know, I'm saying he like Ijust don't want to be in a
relationship.
He like this is my firstapartment by myself.
He like I want to do this bymyself, like I just need me time
, and I feel like that was somereal shit, because you need to
develop as a man so that you canbe better for the next
relationship.
You feel me Right Now.

(36:41):
On another breath, I knowsomebody that's going through
this and he's trying to be abetter person, for his new girl
Right and his new girl right andhis old girl be throwing it in
his face and he'd be fucking himup because he'd be like man.
I like I'm trying to be abetter person, though, and she
making it seem like I'm fuckedup for trying to be a better
person and I'm like it's notthat she you fucked up for
trying to, because you're beinga better person, because you're
learning from your mistakes isthat that person still care

(37:03):
about you and she see you beinga better person, and that shit
hurt that's why why I go back towhat I said I done been in that
situation several times.

Bobby Frost (37:12):
You should learn from every mistake or some
relationships.
I'm gonna be honest, this ishow I look at.
Any relationship that didn'tlast was a mistake, so you
should learn from your mistakes.
And that is gotta be a fuckedup feeling.
When you look up and you'vebeen with somebody, it could be
two years, six months, threeyears, five years.
You look up and you've beenwith somebody, it could be two
years, six months, three years,five years.
However, and you see them goget with somebody else and the

(37:33):
shit that you was on their assabout they're doing it now the
right way ain't?

Jus Mystie (37:37):
that some shit.
You like you'd be ready to killthem up, yeah, but that's when
on some real shit.
That's why I feel like I'm sohappy that I'm mature now,
though, because that's reallywhen you have to really look and
be like I.
I mean, you got to just say itlike that's what's up.
He learned like this is what hewas supposed or this is what
she was supposed to be doing.
You know what I'm saying.
Maybe I wasn't the person thatwas supposed to be doing it for

(37:57):
you, but I'm sure that thatperson taught you something too.

Bobby Frost (38:00):
I done cracked jokes with some of my exes
before and cracked jokes likethis and it'd be serious
cracking a joke because I reallydon't care, but it's a joke
like when I had to teach you howto suck dick now you can.
You ready made to go sucksomebody else dick.
Or you didn't know how to ridenow you ready made to go ride.
You didn't know how to cook.
That was the illest shit of alltime that you didn't know how
to cook.
Yeah, I had to go through allthem stages of you fucking up

(38:23):
meals and me sitting up in thisbitch acting like like right,
and then you't go, bitch, youhad to make me a meal.
Yeah, now you done got goodenough to where now you can cook
, right.
But I had to go through youfucking shit up Me waving the
towel over the motherfuckingfire detector, smoke detector
and shit.
I had to go do that because Ihad to go through the growing
pain.
So I made you prepare to go tothe pros.

Jus Mystie (38:47):
But why do we think of it not saying?
You just said it negatively,but I didn't hear females even
said like so you think I'm gonnamold this nigga for the next
bitch?
You shouldn't think of it likethat, because while you molding
him or her, I'm sure you'relearning something too.
You get what I'm saying like.
You just can't you shouldn't bemad at that.
You know what I'm saying.
But it's.
It's natural that a lot ofpeople it don't go like that.

(39:09):
They don't be like, oh, that'swhat, so she know how to cook
now, ain't that some shit niggabe mad, like that bitch had me
over there eating that burnt asschicken.
Ain't that a bitch?
No nigga, I was 14 when I wascooking chicken for you.
I'm 36 now.
You know what I'm saying, likethat's why that's the growth.

Bobby Frost (39:24):
that's why I said any mistake you make, you should
learn from it, and a lot ofrelationships to me, any
relationship that didn't workwas a mistake, but you should be
able to learn from it, though.
You know what I'm saying and Ithink when you don't give
yourself enough time to besingle, most of the time you
haven't had a chance to learn.
You didn't.
You didn't because you hoppedstraight into it.

(39:44):
Give yourself a little graceperiod and you know again.
Like if I think, if I go backto it right now me being honest
with myself, I should have atleast got me like two years to
like a I'd say about a one tothree year period where I was
just single.
Really get to understand who amI, where I'm fucking up at,

(40:06):
what I really like, what Ireally don't this dislike, what
a deal breaker, what's not adeal breaker.

Jus Mystie (40:13):
I should have waited before I hopped into
relationships like that, but Ididn't yeah, well, see a bitch,
I didn't wait and I don't give amotherfucker, they be like
bitch.
You got six girls, but, yes, Igot six boyfriends because I
don't know who the fuck I.
They got to be right the nextperson I be with, because I
don't want to jump.
I don't want to be in arelationship in a relationship
in a relationship.
I am 37.
My next relationship needs tobe the last one.

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Okay, so that's how it's gonnabe, and you know what I ain't
gonna say the last one, but itneeds to.
It needs to resort to somethingfor me, to something different
marriage, uh, or something forreal, like that's, that's the
truth, that should be, that's it.

Bobby Frost (40:49):
Once you get to that point, man, like you
commend to somebody that'sneither here or there.
But you know, I ain't going ona rap.
That's why I tell you, like,the difference between marriage
and relationship to me.
I always say that I said in theother episodes I don't see a
real difference outside.
You know, because if you'reserious about it, once you get
in a relationship with me, youcommitted to me, it's supposed

(41:11):
to be forever.
I shouldn't be in a relationshiplooking like, yeah, I'm going
to see how this is and I'm goingto bounce no, if that's the
case, then stay single till youknow this, the one you know
ain't nothing wrong with thatand I think it's stigma,
especially on females.
There's a bigger stigma onfemales than there is males
because you go back to that.
That's another topic.

(41:31):
But you go back to that hoe.
If she out there talking tomultiple guys, and when I say
talking, not in a relationship,just dealing with different guys
at different times in her life,oh, she's a hoe because she's
racking up bodies.
Okay, listen, no, no, she's nothoe, that's different.

Jus Mystie (41:49):
I think we definitely need to get two more,
we need to have two guests onhere when we talk about this.
But I think that is an awesome,awesome, awesome, uh topic,
because I think that too, likehow am I gonna learn, how you
gonna learn how to fuck me ifwe've been fucking each other?
They've been going all right,you know I'm saying or how am I
gonna learn?
Your dick is not his dick, likeI feel like they need to stop
using that.
And I'm not saying Any andeverybody Is supposed to have

(42:10):
you and y'all.
I totally understand you ain'tsupposed to have sex Until you
get married.
And I'm not just saying it'sokay to be sinning, but god damn
it, we already do it and that'sjust that on that.
So my thing is you take that upwith the Lord, I'm going to
take mine up with the Lord, butuntil then, what makes me cum.
Because if I'm fucking you andyou don't make me cum, what I'm
supposed to do you would neverknow.

(42:31):
And then it's like what if youyeah, you have to have sex.

Bobby Frost (42:36):
I go back to cooking, the only way you're
going to get better at cooking,because you're just not going to
cook everything in the firsttime you cook it.
That shit going to be wow, youhave to go through fucking up.
Oh, I have to just blend withthis season, do this.
Oh, if I use this much greaseto do this much because you're
doing multiple times, if I am 37and just got the chicken right.

Jus Mystie (42:55):
Okay, I had to figure out that you got to cook
it in a certain pot.
I had to give me a cast iron, alittle deep fry, because I
ain't got no deep fryer.
That's what I want for mybirthday, rob.
Um, a deep fryer, but anyway.
Yeah.
Yeah, I had to figure out howto get the chicken right.
Every time I made the secondbatch it was burnt.
I was like what the fuck?
Now I'm making fucking chickenup.
You have to figure that shitout.
You gotta figure life out.

Bobby Frost (43:15):
I go back to what I always say.
You know, it's knowledge andwisdom.
The difference betweenknowledge and wisdom.
Wisdom is knowledge withexperience.
I can't be great in bed likehow you gonna.
Just, there might be somepeople that automatically just
came in out the game.
You know I call them.
They're like LeBron James.
They came out of high school.
They was just.
They was already ready.

(43:35):
Yeah, it's probably, but mostpeople not like that.
You have to get your reps in.
Most people going to get thegreatness, not like LeBron James
got the greatness You're goingto get.
So again, like I always I'vetalked to females about this and
it's funny, but it's the true.
Ain't no female looking for nomotherfucking virgin, especially
if they in their mid twenties?
Why would you want to fuck amotherfucker at 30?

(43:57):
They ain't never fucked before.

Jus Mystie (43:59):
Why do two virgins want to lose their virginity
together?
That's some love shit.

Bobby Frost (44:02):
Yeah, like you don't know how good the sex is,
you don't know what good sex isbecause you don't know what bad
sex is.
You have no reference point.

Jus Mystie (44:10):
you don't, you don't , that's the word right, that
you have no reference point andyou don't realize.
That's especially like how.
That's how that's what happened, though they be young, like we
just said they be then did it toeach other in the eighth grade
and then fucked all through highschool.
Don't even know that it's somedick out there that's gonna blow
your fucking mind.
You hear me, or some head thatshe finna swallow your shell,
because all you done, had allthis time is me but I ain't

(44:32):
gonna go biblical, but that'sthe reason why I say like in the
bible.

Bobby Frost (44:35):
This is true if the the, the tree of knowledge, the
fruit of knowledge.
However you want to go, if Ionly have sex with you and only
have sex with you, I don't knowwhat's good or bad sex.
I just I'm just.
All I know is your sex is good,because that's all I know.
Now, if you fuck around andstart fucking multiple people,
that's when that shit come in.
You know what you didn't makeme come like.

(44:57):
I'm pretty sure there's a lotof females out there, cause it's
different between males andfemales.

Jus Mystie (45:01):
We know when we come cause something about to shoot
out, right there's a lot ofgirls that have been coming,
like you know, but not havingorgasms.

Bobby Frost (45:14):
Yeah, you don't know what an orgasm is when you
get that first one, you be likewhat the fuck?

Jus Mystie (45:19):
What was that?
Yeah?

Bobby Frost (45:20):
that's what I'm saying.
You don't know.

Jus Mystie (45:22):
I have been.
When I first had mine, I feltso confused I didn't know what
the fuck I was like, what thefuck I should have.
Just I've been doing this.
This is really how my mind wasracing.
I was like this is what justhappened, like, so I've been
wasting all of this time becausenothing ever felt like this one
.
I have really been wasting mytime.
I should have lost my virginitytoday at 23.

Bobby Frost (45:45):
But again, you didn't waste your time, you was
learning.

Jus Mystie (45:48):
Yeah, but I didn't have an orgasm Again.
How would you figure out?

Bobby Frost (45:52):
to get that orgasm Unless you ran into that person.
And who's to say you wouldn'thave ran into that person If you
didn't run into these otherpeople?

Jus Mystie (45:59):
I love him too, still to this day.

Bobby Frost (46:01):
I bet he do.
If he gave you your firstorgasm, how would you not?
What's the Betty White song?
My first time, I'm going totell y'all.

Jus Mystie (46:08):
What's the Betty White song?
My first time.
How'd she go?
I'm going to tell y'all aboutmy very, very first time.

Bobby Frost (46:16):
That's why I said I know I'm a better man now and
I'm better in a relationship nowthan way before, because I done
been in enough trial and errorsand I'm going to get better as
age go, because I'm going tolearn more and more stuff.
I'm never going to stop tryingto learn, but you know, before I
shit nigga.
Then you know again, like Isaid in a previous episode, when

(46:38):
I was 21, 22, did I feel grown?
Yeah, I felt grown, but did Ifeel like a grown man down?
No, motherfucking household,the correct way, because I
didn't know enough to do it.
Right, I didn't understand.
If I get into an argument, letthat shit go.
We got to see each othertomorrow, right, 21, 22, we get
an argument.
We playing a motherfuckingsilent game.

(47:00):
We're going to see who's goingto break first.
Right, I'll walk past your assfor two weeks, or won't call you
, won't text you.

Jus Mystie (47:12):
That don't help.
I think that being single forthis long period of time has
made me an awesome, awesomewoman.
Um, I have learned a lot.
I have been through a lotsexually, mentally, uh, fucking
the household, morally just.
I feel like I don't learn somuch and I feel like I can
actually say now, even though Iam still becoming the woman I'm

(47:33):
going to become, I really canconfidently say that when I get
into a relationship he going tobe pretty fucking happy.

Bobby Frost (47:39):
There you go and like just was just saying that,
and if you've been single youdidn't get yourself to be single
You're not scared to be alone.
Because you used to be you tobe alone, because you used to be
, you used to being by yourself.
You can appreciate that.
But if you ain't never reallyhad that shit, you don't even
know how to be alone.

Jus Mystie (47:55):
Yes, I think about that yeah, I think that learning
to be in your own company issomething very important.
You hear a lot of celebritiessay like I just literally heard
will smith saying it about badboys.
I'm going to see that tonightbecause I haven't yet, but I
just heard they was on aninterview and he was just saying
like literally chasing yourdreams, even though that's not
being in a relationship, y'all.
But chasing your dreams is oneof the loneliest, scariest times

(48:19):
ever because it's so muchsolitude like you have to
literally learn how to becomfortable with your own
company, like being by yourselfgives it, give you time to learn
, time to grow like.

Bobby Frost (48:31):
Just solitude is so important man that's why I go
back to it like if you don'tknow, you don't know.

Jus Mystie (48:36):
So get it sexy okay so that's just that lives in my
head.

Bobby Frost (48:42):
Y'all rent free all the time, yeah she only thing I
can say about baby girl she itright now, she it yeah, she, she
it right now she it, yeah, sheis she it Speaking of that.
I was just going to say whatyou've been listening to.
You know what I really it'snothing what I've been doing
right now on Apple Music.

(49:02):
Right now it's a feature onApple Music called your
Favorites.
So the songs that you markedthat you double tapped on as
your favorite.
So I'll just go to thatplaylist.
So I got so many songs and Ijust go through different stuff
and it'd be crazy because, likeI said, you'll fuck around, I'll
be listening to deaf around thecorner and then, um, so rick
james will pop on, I'll look upand fleetwood mac will pop on so

(49:27):
yeah, you just that's crazy,because I got a shirt that say
Fleetwood Mac.
So yeah, that's what I've beenon Like ain't been no specific
thing.
I'm about to get back in thegym heavy, so I'm about to get
back on my gym playlists.

Jus Mystie (49:40):
OK, yeah, I think that for right now, my main
focus is like literally just thereal estate test.
So I ain't really finna getback into the gym.
I'm not going to lie.
I'm going to focus very, veryhard on this test, and this test
only, and after I pass it, thenwe go to the next goal.

(50:00):
I'm actually at a comfortableweight, though, for myself right
now.

Bobby Frost (50:04):
That's real, that's real.
So, yeah, I'm going to get backon that because, like I said, I
was scared of my knee.
So I really haven't been doinganything because I was so scared
of my knee, but now doctorcleared me, I'm clear.

Jus Mystie (50:15):
it's time to go ahead and put this motherfucker
back to he got clear last time,y'all, so we'll see this
motherfucker, old as hell, hisbones is just brimmed I seen a
meme and I put that shit on myum instagram story.

Bobby Frost (50:25):
It was funny one of the funnies when I say it was
simple, but it's funny.
You start off with a left andright knee, but as you get older
that's this wish to you got agood knee in a bad knee yes, I
got a good knee in a bad knee.

Jus Mystie (50:37):
That's crazy damn that's crazy.

Bobby Frost (50:40):
That's crazy as hell.
So where can they catch you atmisty?

Jus Mystie (50:43):
I was just about to steal that line from him.
Y'all, y'all can catch me onall social media platforms as
misty summers.
Y'all check out my tiktok.
I'll be on that motherfuckerhaving the most fun in the world
.
She do y'all.
She'd be wild.
I don't know what the fuck I'llbe having so much fun and my
snap y'all.
I just be liking to bring y'allinto my world so y'all can see
what the fuck I'll be havinggoing on and I can see what the
fuck y'all be having going on.

(51:04):
So tap the fuck in to tryParency and follow me.
Just Misty J-U-S-M-Y-S-T-I-E orMisty Summers M-Y-S-T-I-E.

Bobby Frost (51:15):
I suggest y'all go fuck with her TikTok, Because
TikTok Just Misty is differentthan all others.
Tiktok Just Misty is funny asfuck dog.

Jus Mystie (51:23):
I'm telling y'all she goofy as fuck on there man.
A movie is coming up for mereal soon, bro.
I don't know what is coming up,though Trust me.

Bobby Frost (51:32):
Goofy as hell, but y'all can catch me on Bobby
Frost Media on all social media,and RobertDot87 on IG For my
gamers out there.
Y'all know that CollegeFootball 25 about to drop, so,
yeah, y'all can catch your boy,robertdot810.
I'm busting fucking heads allsummer.
That end man, 22k drop.
I'm back on Twitch, I'm backabout to be streaming and I'm

(51:54):
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