May 8, 2024 • 47 mins
Have you ever felt like you're strategizing every move in a chess match when texting someone new? Bobby Frost and Just Misty are here to dissect the early dating dynamics where each action is pivotal. We're dishing out insights on how to steer through the murky waters of label-less relationships and the importance of setting expectations before plunging into romance. From mastering the art of affectionate balance to the critical point of declaring exclusivity, we're navigating you through this intricate maze where independence is your strongest asset until the commitment is confirmed.
Relationships can often seem like a balancing act over a pit of privacy concerns, particularly with today's tech quandaries such as phone snooping and surprise visits. In our frank discussion, we tackle these challenging issues directly. Our open dialogue delves into the boundaries that build or break trust, and we openly share personal anecdotes that illuminate the fine line between attentiveness and intrusion. Additionally, we delve into the intricacies of emotional openness, especially in men, and discuss how transparency can strengthen or weaken the ties of affection.
To conclude, we wrap things up Kendrick Lamar vs Drake beef. Also setting the stage for our forthcoming live events. Our conversations aren't just profound—they also move to life's beat, amplifying the excitement for the tunes soon to dominate your summer playlists. Whether you're deeply involved in the dating game, contemplating emotional expression, or just here for the tunes, Bobby Frost and Just Misty are here to deliver the unfiltered, the genuine, and the impactful—all in one thrilling episode.
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
yo yo yo, it's your boy, bobby frost, and bobby
frost media presentstransparency.
I'm with the beautiful lady,just misty, hey, y'all, hey, she
ain't got no motherfuckingenthusiasm because we ain't
recording on saturday mymotherfucking period is day one.
Speaker 2 (00:15):
I'm cramping, I got a migraine and rob finna, get on
my motherfucking nerves so youknow I'm gonna do that.
Speaker 1 (00:21):
So, whatever, I'm gonna do that for sure, yeah,
for sure, yeah, man, how y'allbeen doing, how y'all been doing
, man we talking, how was Cincode Mayo for you?
Oh my God.
Speaker 2 (00:29):
It was a fun time.
I'm not going to lie, I'm lying.
I sat in the bed all day withmy own tequila at home, not all
day.
I went to a baby shower and Iwent home and got into bed.
Speaker 1 (00:51):
That's what's up Now.
I told y'all I've been kind ofclose to AA like alcohol,
anonymous.
I won't drink by myself, but Idrink when I go out.
Speaker 2 (01:00):
Well, that is the last step when you start
drinking by yourself, and I justdid that Nigga been going
through a lot of stuff.
Speaker 1 (01:06):
I end up sitting at the crib Like, if you go to the
crib right now, it's on Bush.
I got about five-fifths inthere.
They have field three, four,field, but it's like five-fifths
of Hennessy and D'Ussé.
I don't drink them.
Nah, should I call myself thisweak boy Like an alcoholic by
myself, me and my dog drinking.
He knew something was wrongwith me because he came and laid
(01:27):
his head.
You know how your dog can do.
They can tell.
Speaker 2 (01:29):
Your real dog.
Speaker 1 (01:30):
Yeah, he came and laid his head on me, like one
day I was in there.
He just came and laid his headon me Like man, what's going on?
Man, let it out.
And I just be going through alot, lot of stuff.
Man, I got some little issueswith my family my grandmother
back in the hospital, my popsbeen in and out the hospital,
yeah, just a lot of differentthings going on.
It's just like a whirlwind.
(01:50):
But you know I'm making itthrough it.
But yeah, and I said you knowwhat, I'm tired of going out
every weekend, spending about$400 altogether, going out two
or three days out the week I'mcoming out about 400.
I did the math.
I said, yeah, you too farspending money on that type of
shit every week.
So fuck that.
So, yeah, I ain't going out asingle mile.
To the very end.
I got out at the last minutewhen I say last minute with the
(02:13):
JWs.
That motherfucker was jumping.
It was like a team partybecause I didn't know nobody in
that bitch.
That bitch was super packed andI think they all went to
Northgate.
I heard Northgate was charginglike $75 a game.
Speaker 2 (02:23):
Northgate yeah, I heard that too.
Northgate is a shout out to thenew bar.
Well, it ain't new, new, old.
Y'all know how we doRefurbished or whatever you want
to call it.
It's nice in there.
I like it.
I would have preferred it to be30 and up, because I again, I
don't know the people that's onthe club scene right now.
Y'all can call me auntie,whatever the fuck y'all want to
(02:44):
call me, but I don't know thepeople that's on the club scene.
So either my age has stoppedgoing to the club, my generation
or they have migrated toanother club that I have not
found.
But I don't like going to theclubs anyway, really myself.
So I'm assuming that they're athome, because I'm still in the
same shit.
I'm only gonna be there if I'mpaid to be there y'all, because
I got other shit going on in mylife too.
(03:04):
Shit sound like we in awhirlwind.
It's just on the fucking rollercoaster.
Everybody.
Courtney still ain't here y'all.
Fuck her.
She, she, better in her lifegetting her education she should
be getting ready to come up outthere, unless she's gonna be
coming up out of there shealmost done so that's gonna.
Speaker 1 (03:20):
That's a clap for sure.
It'll be done, done.
So you know.
With that being said, I got outthere.
I was with my partner.
I'm like, man, $75 again,norgate.
I said that's a negative.
I'm already going through a lotof shit.
Took my ass home.
Yeah, I'm straight, I got thefuck out of there.
Speaker 2 (03:37):
You know I have been doing a lot of self-reflecting
for real and just being at thecrib man, I don't know like I.
Just I ain't been feeling outlike that.
Yeah, I've been feeling my bedand I've been watching this show
called the resident.
Oh my god, it's like I heardabout that the resident is like
some series.
I'm so ready to be donerecording this motherfucking
(03:57):
podcast so I can go give mesomething to eat and get in the
bed it is so fucking good.
You gotta tap in, rob, because Ican't even talk to you about it
Until you tap in.
Speaker 1 (04:05):
I'm gonna do that.
I heard about it and I'm pissedoff Cause.
Speaker 2 (04:07):
Kourtney tapped in, but she on season six and I'm
like on season three, so I can'teven fucking talk to her.
Speaker 1 (04:11):
Yeah, cause she gonna spoil it for you.
Speaker 2 (04:14):
She get on my fucking nerves.
Speaker 1 (04:15):
I heard about it.
I gotta check it in, it'sdefinitely good white doctors,
don't get it twisted.
Speaker 2 (04:25):
I fucks with the whitey people.
But when you watch shows andyou know how people be putting
subliminals and shit in likethat and you know, you just know
how shit be.
I be excited when I see shitlike that, just like I was
excited that Michonne was ableto go with Rick on the Walking
Dead, because what Not the blackgirl win the whitey main
character and have a baby by himand survive.
Speaker 1 (04:48):
Yeah, I done told a lot of people about that show
for the years.
Walking Dead is good.
It's come from a comic book.
The comic book is better, butWalking Dead is still a 9 out of
10 for me.
Speaker 2 (04:58):
I'm starting to see that a lot of the shows is like
I'm going to give it a 10 out of10.
I ain't going to lie, but Inoticed that a lot of the shows
that I've been tapped into comefrom like a book or a comic book
, because Riverdale is good asfuck.
Speaker 1 (05:11):
And I didn't know that Archie and all of them was
a comic book Riverdale is goodas fuck.
And Archie.
This is the crazy thing aboutArchie.
You know I'm a comic bookhitter.
Archie first issues was like1940, 1950.
Speaker 2 (05:22):
Like 1940, 1950.
Oh, that's wild.
Speaker 1 (05:24):
Yeah, it's so good, the redhead and then you know he
got it's good, Veronica Betty,Veronica Betty, in there Y'all.
Speaker 2 (05:28):
Betty got the little white girl ponytail ding ding.
Yes, it is really good.
Speaker 1 (05:32):
So yeah, that's how I've been.
Speaker 2 (05:33):
I mean, you know, I love TV anyway.
Speaker 1 (05:34):
so no, that's it.
I done been through this.
I'm pretty sure you beenthrough this Misty.
Everybody been through this.
Like when can you start Showingyour feelings that you tripping
about Something with somebodybut y'all not official or y'all
done?
Try to make it seem like Y'allnot gonna be official, y'all
(05:54):
just gonna be friends or friendswith benefits?
When can you start tripping?
Speaker 2 (05:59):
I trip day one Cause I love you as soon as we
exchange numbers so no, Iseriously don't, let me stop
playing.
Seriously, I don't, I don'treally know, because I feel like
I'm one of them people thatalways say that, like you can't
say shit to me because we don'tgo together, you feel me, but I
guess, all in the same breath,just because I the person that's
doing it feel like you can'tfeel no type of way because
(06:19):
we're not together, don't meanyou actually don't feel a type
of way you get what I'm sayingso.
I guess, when you saying whenshould you be able to like
verbalize it to a motherfuckerlike rob?
I feel some type of way aboutwhat you're doing.
Speaker 1 (06:32):
I'm gonna even go deeper than that.
We're going to start with that,but I'm gonna go down a rabbit
hole song, because this is.
I like this topic.
I ain't been excited for atopic in a while.
I like this topic like, yeah,when can you verbalize?
When can you be like, okay, youknow, y'all not saying y'all
exclusive, right.
So if you're not exclusive, I'mnot your dude, you're not my
girl.
Speaker 2 (06:51):
Maybe that's the point when we say we're
exclusive, because I do thinkthat people confuse the.
Because two people decide to beexclusive and date exclusively,
that doesn't mean that wejumped into a relationship and
date exclusively that doesn'tmean that we jumped into a
relationship.
That means that you decided tostop dating other girls and I
decided to stop dating otherboys, and we're going to see if
we can move forward into arelationship.
Speaker 1 (07:14):
But you know, I'm with you on that one.
But it's hard to even I can'tsay that's a woman thing.
You know that's our dynamic atour show.
You know male versus female,but not, you know, hating type
shit woman versus man.
But, um, yeah, it's like.
That's what a person cause somepeople feel like once you say I
ain't out here looking fornobody else and I ain't either
we together.
But what you just said issomething I like too.
(07:34):
I think people don't do enoughof that.
Hey, let's just, you know, ifyou want to do that, it's mutual
, even not mutual.
I might be like like, hey, Idon't want to see nobody else,
and you'd be like, yeah, I'msorry, playing field, I don't
want to see nobody else becauseI really want to be focused on
you and pay attention to you andthat's what I'm doing.
But that doesn't meannecessarily like we got to be
together.
We want to see if it's enoughto get together that's what I
(07:57):
agree on and but and during thattime.
Can you verbalize then?
When y'all exclusive even likefuck exclusive, when you're just
talking to somebody I feel likewhen is it?
Speaker 2 (08:09):
that's the question when, when you, when you're
exclusive because I feel likebefore we're exclusive you have
every right to feel any type ofway you want to feel, but you're
gonna have to tell your friendsabout it.
I mean, you could probably tellme about it, but I don't feel
like I did anything wrong.
It depends.
Okay, first of all, let's throwsome samples out there, because
I don't know what you mean.
(08:30):
Like what, what is somethingyou could feel some type of way
about?
Speaker 1 (08:33):
because it could be you could feel something about a
way like it's a lot of things,but I'm just gonna go down the
list of things.
You could feel something, a wayabout you know somebody.
Hey, we're gonna say like thisyou might feel some way about
you caught and you didn't getback when you cook enough okay.
Speaker 2 (08:50):
So if I'm not with you, then if I'm not with you, I
feel like you can.
First of all, everybody gotpatterns.
You feel me like I got a niggathat I know damn well.
When I text him at 5 o'clock,he's not going to text me back
until about 9, 45, 10 o'clock,because I just know that he's
not a texter.
(09:10):
You get what I'm saying, right,but if I'm fucking with
somebody and I know that everytime I text this nigga he texts
me back two, three minutes afterthat then okay, boom, you
didn't bullshit it.
I might say something and notact like I'm mad.
I might just say something,just so you could acknowledge
that you did this and you moveda little differently.
But I feel like you're supposedto do stuff like that because
(09:31):
you won't ever make it to therelationship part if you don't
know what you're doing wrong anddoing right during the kick it
phase.
Speaker 1 (09:37):
You get what I'm saying.
No, I'm with you 100%.
That's why I said it's adelicate thing.
A lot of things go with that,like you don't want to jump the
gun scene like a bug, then pridecome into it too.
You know pride will pop up.
Do you want to do this with thepride?
It's like a lot coming there.
So that's why I said likethat's a good topic.
Like when can you trip?
Speaker 2 (09:53):
I feel like let me get.
Am I supposed to be like cut up?
Hell, no, not.
If I not, if we ain't exclusive, I ain't cutting up, I'm just
going.
I'm going to say hey, hey, rob,keep it moving.
I hope you don't get cussed outCause I'm going to say hi, or
(10:14):
should I not say hi?
Speaker 1 (10:15):
That's what I'm.
You know what I'm saying andthat's the delicate part about
it.
Situations I don't know of,like where you've lost out on a
female because you didn'texpress your feelings and she
didn't believe you was likewhere y'all was at with it.
You get what I'm saying.
Like that, that happened.
Speaker 2 (10:32):
I've seen that happen I've seen that happen before
too, so I guess women do.
I know that women do certainthings.
Speaker 1 (10:40):
That I didn't hear it yeah, it was doing it um,
that's why I was quiet and Ididn't hear it?
Speaker 2 (10:45):
Yeah, it was doing it .
That's why I was quiet and Ididn't hear it do it.
But I think women do certainthings, that we expect certain
responses from a man and whenyou don't get them, it's like,
okay, well, I should move aroundbecause he don't fuck with me
like that, right.
So I guess the question shouldbe what is the right amount of
feeling should you give to notoverdo it?
(11:07):
Yeah, that's the question.
Speaker 1 (11:09):
But to let a motherfucker.
Speaker 2 (11:10):
Know you like him.
Speaker 1 (11:11):
That's why I say it's a delicate situation, because
you don't want to sit up and youknow be like oh shit.
But, like I said, you can,especially with females.
Y'all give niggas tests all thetime.
Niggas don't even know they'regetting a test it's a pop quiz
Right.
Don't even know when they'regetting a test, it's a pop quiz
right.
And you don't even know you'regetting a pop quiz right.
And you end up in a situationlike that, like damn, I didn't
know.
That's why she was doing itlike again, but why?
Speaker 2 (11:29):
wouldn't, but okay, so if you don't know, you're in
a test and you get a test,whatever your natural thing to
do is that's what your naturalthing was going to be to do so,
not necessarily because herecome my thing.
Speaker 1 (11:40):
I might be thinking you're doing this shit to make
me mad.
You get what I'm saying Likehere.
Prime example, Say you in arelationship and let's say you
in a relationship and say likey'all not exclusive, still can
date and all that type of thingsthat's been on the flow.
You might be trying to date ortalk to somebody because you
feel like I'm doing something onthe side just to get jealous of
me.
You ain't really too muchserious, it's just really to use
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him to get mad at me?
Speaker 2 (12:06):
That could be the situation, nah.
Speaker 1 (12:07):
I'm not Like I ain't gonna say nothing.
We do that.
Yeah, I'm not Cause that's nota test now.
You just doing it just to getunder my skin.
Speaker 2 (12:11):
Yeah, but y'all do it too.
Speaker 1 (12:12):
Yeah, I'm not saying, I'm just saying that's how it
go.
You know what I'm saying.
So I'm not saying who.
Speaker 2 (12:19):
Which one.
But I and you see that I didn'tdrifted off and I'm talking to
somebody else because we're notexclusive yet.
I feel like that's when you'resupposed to be, like you know
what.
Not bring him up, or the factthat I'm talking to nobody else.
You ain't even got to go thatroute.
You could actually just be likeyou know what I'm saying.
I think I'm ready to.
You know what I'm saying?
Get exclusive with you, blah,blah, blah, blah, and tell me so
that way I can decide whether Iwant to get exclusive with you
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as well and then stop talking tohim.
But until we are exclusive, Iam single.
Speaker 1 (12:50):
So my next question we can go a little bit further
down with that too, so likeyou're supposed to be down here.
At what point At what point doyou think is acceptable, like,
let's say, do a drive by or apop up or go through a phone?
Speaker 2 (13:04):
Oh, I'm not ever going through nobody phone,
never.
Um, I'm not even gonna answerit, I'm not even gonna lie.
I hate when I see that shit onthe movies and a motherfucker
answer their husband I don'tcare, husband, I do till death,
do us part.
I'm not going through nobodyphone.
Um, I'm not gonna answer anumber I don't know.
I don't care if it's myhusband's, that's not my
business.
(13:24):
I just do not go through phones.
But, um, what was the otherquestion?
Speaker 1 (13:29):
Like like when you start talking to stage you know
talking not exclusive, not arelationship.
When is it cool to show thattype of feeling for somebody?
Speaker 2 (13:38):
Cause that.
To me that's the fuck.
You said a drive-by yeah um,the earliest I've ever did a
drive-by was like probably likea month in I'll do a drive-by,
but it's the act is whetheryou're gonna act.
What you gotta know ismotherfuckers stalk all the time
.
I swear to god, I got amotherfucker that will text me
and be like.
I see you sitting in yourliving room today, the light on
(14:01):
god damn I swear to god I'm notbullshitting, I'm not saying you
don't.
But he do not hide the fact thathe's stalking though.
But that's tough, it's what youdo with it.
Like you, I won't even knowyou're stalking, you ain't even
gonna know I'm stalking.
You think these niggas know Iride by they house?
They don't.
It's when you get the you ride.
I can act on whatever I want toact on, because I tell my I
(14:30):
listen.
Speaker 1 (14:31):
So she said at this big age, let's stop going
through phones.
Speaker 2 (14:35):
Yeah, no.
She said at this big age.
Oh, you saying never, armani,you going to go through the
phone, I'm not going through nophone.
Hold on, I got to see Marie,okay, rayanna, that this big ass
, let's stop going throughphones.
Yes, okay, and Armani, you saidno, armani, you going to go
through the phone.
(14:55):
Big Red, I ain't going throughthe phone.
First of all, I'm not goingthrough the phone because I
don't want to get my ownfeelings hurting.
You ain't even my nigga yet.
Speaker 1 (15:04):
I got a question about that too.
That's what we talking abouty'all.
Speaker 2 (15:06):
If y'all just tapped in, y'all can just answer me
back.
The question is when are yousupposed to start letting the
motherfucker?
You give a fuck, no, you give afuck Tripping wise though.
When can you even trip how farinto it?
When is you supposed to let amotherfucker know that you ain't
feeling the fact that you sawhim at the movies with another
bitch?
If y time, y'all, y'all nottogether, y'all are dating and
(15:33):
y'all are dating like y'all, noty'all.
Speaker 1 (15:34):
You can date somebody else if you want to.
Speaker 2 (15:35):
Yeah, that's what I'm saying, like we saying like
when is you supposed to be ableto trip?
Speaker 1 (15:38):
like when, like if I'm talking like me and you
talking, you know I'm saying no,I ain't going through no phone.
But like some people think thatthey're going through the phone
thing I heard it from bothsides I ain't never went through
a phone a day in my life let metell you what a motherfucker
did to me.
Speaker 2 (15:49):
No bullshit, this is a new nigga.
I swear to god wait a minute.
Speaker 1 (15:52):
She said the first time y'all have nasty right okay
?
Speaker 2 (15:55):
okay, no, that's a good.
That's a good point, rayana,because that's what I be niggas
be thinking, you can't trip withyou over here, fucking me wrong
, spitting in my mouth and shit.
Yeah, we on tip with that forsure.
Because, no, this is what I wasgoing to tell y'all.
All jokes aside, I was fuckingwith this nigga.
We was probably like 30 days inright and he had him pick me up
.
We, finna go get some fuckingKrispy Kreme or wherever the
fuck I told him to take me.
So I'm like, I pick up his phonebecause he had them bitches
(16:17):
laying down all the time Like heain't tripping, you feel me?
So I'mall, I text thatmotherfucking number to my
homegirl so fast.
So I'm like, bitch, save itCause.
I just didn't know if he wasbullshitting.
But I wasn't, finna, go throughthe phone.
At that moment I mean, I justgot the number, I just text my
(16:38):
homegirl just in case I neededit.
So, boom the like.
Two days later, we sittingthere.
I go through the messages so Ican see the number right.
So I'm like, let me see yourphone so I can see who you've
been talking to.
He hands me the phone.
I'm thinking that he probablydidn't even give me the right
code, because why would you giveit to me Y'all?
I put that bitch in and itopened up.
I said, oh, I don't want to gothrough this.
Speaker 1 (17:04):
Nah, you done, gave the get hurt.
Speaker 2 (17:06):
Man, you're going to get hurt.
Speaker 1 (17:07):
But, like I said, when is that you know what I'm
saying?
When do you feel what I'msaying?
When?
Speaker 2 (17:11):
is that acceptable?
I think going through fines isnever acceptable, but popping up
at your house is acceptable.
Speaker 1 (17:16):
I don't think none of it is acceptable.
But this is my thing, not evenjust doing that.
When do you let somebody knowyou're not cool with that?
Y' you just said that, but yousee that you're fucking with
somebody.
When do you say like, no, Idon't want you seeing that
person, or no, I don't want you,I want you not doing that.
When is that acceptable?
That's my question.
When is that acceptable?
Because pride, this is what I'mgoing to say Hold on, I'm going
(17:38):
to say this from a niggastandpoint, at least for me.
Pride coming there too.
Like do I, you know, do headover heels over?
Do I want to tell her like thatdo I want to be seen like I'm
controlled.
I'm not a controlling person,so for me it's very hard to say
that because I'm not controllingokay.
Speaker 2 (17:52):
So I think it's different, because I think it
just depends on who you is,because y'all, none of it, don't
pop up at my house or touch myphone.
I feel you for real and rayanasaid after 30 days.
I'm gonna be honest with y'all.
This is what I'm gonna tell you.
I can't answer the questionseriously because that's just a
part of me.
Like if a bitch go through hernigga phone and I've been
texting her, I swear to god shegonna.
(18:13):
If she show our text messages,it's gonna look like I'm thirsty
.
It's gonna look like I'm on hisdick.
It's gonna look like he hang upon me.
It's gonna look like I'mtexting myself because I really
be fucking with niggas.
Like I will wake up in themorning at five o'clock in the
morning and text him a fuckingbe like I love you and I miss
you so bad.
Where is you at?
knowing goddamn well I don'tfeel like that and I roll right
back over and go to sleep.
So if his bitch ever sees, shegonna lose her mind.
(18:34):
So it's like I don't know.
Speaker 1 (18:36):
I'm not going through no phones because I don't want
to see like I'd have been inthat situation before and I'm
prideful, like I'm not gonnatell you if we, if you ain't
made it known to me that weabout to go to exclusive route,
I'm not gonna tell you if I,even if I see you with somebody
and hurting it, got back to mesomebody, I'm not gonna tell you
like, yeah, I ain't like youwith such and such.
I like you over there with olddude, I ain't like you.
(18:56):
You know, I'm not gonna tellyou, I'm just gonna bite the
fucking bullet.
It might be killing me, but I'mgonna bite the bullet.
I'm gonna be like, yeah, I, youknow, I'm gonna play like that,
like that's what you want to do, what you do, not saying it
don't hurt, but I ain't going totrip out on you.
That's one thing I'll never do.
But then I can see from theother side of the game.
Y'all be testing.
Speaker 2 (19:13):
So I want to see if you going to trip.
I think it's a male-femalething.
I think males don't show thatthey care enough and females
show that they care too much.
I can agree with that.
Rihanna just said that if andraw sex, etc.
Y'all know what the fuck thatmeans.
You got to start movingdifferent and get rid of shit
gradually.
I agree, okay, but rayanna, butwhen do is y'all supposed to
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have a conversation?
At this point, though, likeafter we've been fucking wrong,
we consistently dating do wehave a conversation?
And you know what I'm saying?
I got one for ray I thinkcommunication is good you got a
question for me.
Speaker 1 (19:45):
I got one for ray.
She can hear you, so I know shecan also say I got a question
for her.
So is it because I'll say thisone?
This is what I always say.
I don't give a fuck.
What's your table I mean yourlines is your parameters to the
relationship.
What's your titles?
When shit get real is when youstart spending the night and I
ain't talking about no roomspending night.
Oh, not, you've been listeningto your big sister yeah, that's
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when I think, when you startspending night with somebody,
shit get real.
So at that point, is that apoint that you feel like you
gotta let stuff start?
Speaker 2 (20:14):
no, even though y'all said she said a conversation
has to be had.
Yeah, because let me tell youwhy conversation gotta be had.
Because a nigga will tell youquick, like we ain't established
that we ain't go.
I don't want nomisunderstandings, my boy, is we
going exclusive or not?
Because I can keep my up, Ihave no problem with it.
But if you want me to cut themoff, you have to cut your line
up off too, because that'sanother thing too, like you know
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.
Speaker 1 (20:35):
In that situation it's like, damn, am I scared to
come out and say that shit,because what if they're not
gonna reciprocate the energy I'mlooking for?
I?
Speaker 2 (20:42):
think that that's why people end up in fucked up
relationships and situations.
Man, you can't be scared totell a motherfucker you don't
want to fuck with them, or itain't that Like we don't go
together?
A motherfucker just asked melast night like is you putting
me out?
I am.
Why would you make me put youout?
When I just said oh, I'm tired.
Speaker 1 (20:57):
That was a sign.
Speaker 2 (20:57):
That was your sign to get the fuck.
Speaker 1 (21:04):
But like that situation right there.
When do I do?
Speaker 2 (21:06):
I say, like say whatever you want to say, but
you're going to get the fuck upout of here.
Speaker 1 (21:09):
I'm saying, like if I'm feeling you and I want to
stay there with you, like do Icome out and tell you my real
emotions?
Speaker 2 (21:14):
Yes, yes yes, you do.
You could be like like, okay,at that moment what it is is
people be too serious too,though At that moment, he damn,
you feel me Like every time thatyou always made me leave, like
I don't really be feeling that,and then I probably would have
been like, well, last night Iwould have been like, well,
that's fucked up, we're going tohave to talk about it another
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time Cause I was tired, so we'regoing to talk about another
time.
But I would have took intoconsideration his feelings.
But I mean this about that'swhy we got the order.
Speaker 1 (21:47):
That's why I asked that, that's why I said this was
a great topic, because that'sreally how I think that's the
foundation to a lot ofrelationships, I think that it
starts from where we've beensaying these people not just men
, people confuse dating, fuckingand the talking stage.
Speaker 2 (22:04):
They confuse all of that.
It's not one thing.
Speaker 1 (22:07):
I think I'm going to say with all of it, like it's
not one thing.
I think I'm gonna say with allof it I think when the feelings
get in and you know the feelingsin that's when shit gets tight.
I know some of the things thatwould get you to them feelings,
but it's, it's like I said, likeI think what rayana said going
raw, having sex first of all,you talking about spending night
.
Speaker 2 (22:22):
No, that's what?
Fuck you up.
I don't know why everybodythink it's just so like uh what
they call it lackadaisical tofuck raw because it's not it's
not.
Speaker 1 (22:31):
That's why I'm saying you got.
Even if you're not thinkingabout trusting somebody, you
have to trust a motherfucker togo raw with him.
Speaker 2 (22:36):
That's trust I'm playing with my life I'm playing
with my life okay, I don't knowwhat the fuck just happened
y'all, but yeah, no, I feel likethey definitely wrap it up.
They do, but that's not whaty'all should do.
And my thing is, like I said, Ithink my shit froze on y'all,
but I don't know why people areso lackadaisical with fucking
raw because, baby, that's whatget it, so that's what does it
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okay I think the spending nightis more you know, into the
feelings than than raw a lot ofpeople not going to submit to
those type of entanglementsbecause of false pride.
Most will let it slip out oftheir hands before they make it
official.
Speaker 1 (23:10):
Hey give me some OG Cam.
That's what I'm saying like.
That's what happens a lot oftimes you'll let some yeah,
you'll let some slide pastbecause of your pride, like you
don't want to, you don't want toseem like, but like, hold on,
like on.
Speaker 2 (23:25):
Martin, you remember on, martin, when Gina was
getting ready to walk out andthat nigga was like yeah, why we
gotta get to that.
Like old Martin you rememberold Martin, when Gina was
getting ready to walk out andthat nigga was like wait a
minute, yeah, why we got to getto that point.
Though.
Speaker 1 (23:31):
Like I said this, I cracked the jokes about it.
It didn't happen to me before.
Man, you say tender?
Yeah, I'm tender with the threepiece with the honey mustard.
Put the biscuit on the side.
Speaker 2 (23:39):
We like that.
I'm chicken tender, we likethat.
Speaker 1 (23:44):
But you don for sure that that energy gonna get
reciprocated and you say youtender.
That's when you start gettinglike damn, you know I'm saying
start making you feel a wholedifferent way, because I didn't
open up how I feel and noinjuries, what you know.
Energy want to reciprocate,like, for instance this happened
I had this topic before withthe fellas.
Have you ever had a female sayI love you, while y'all kicking
(24:05):
it and you didn't love her?
So what do you do?
Do you be like?
No, do you be like?
Speaker 2 (24:10):
Oh, I say I love you to everybody.
I don't give a.
Let me tell you.
That's why I be trying to tellpeople.
This is why this conversationis not healthy for me, because
I'm trying to tell you if youlook at all my hoes number I
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no-transcript.
Speaker 1 (24:36):
Awkward if he don't say it back to you, but this is
what you really feel about.
How do you feel then?
Speaker 2 (24:40):
you can't, you can't ask.
I'm a verbal person becausewhen I be dead ass serious and
I'll be like that's how you oh,I take my shit back.
You got me that's what I'msaying?
Speaker 1 (24:49):
I'm a joke, so why would you take it?
Speaker 2 (24:51):
no, no, I'm joking person, but in the back of my
mind I'm thinking like thisnigga don't fuck with me like I
fuck with him.
And I let you know that I justdidn't say it all seriously.
I said damn rob, you ain'tgonna say you love me back,
ain't that a bitch?
I meant it.
Speaker 1 (25:02):
I really love you so, even if you're saying it like
that, my question becomes wheny'all separate, and you got that
on your mind how do you dealwith that?
Speaker 2 (25:09):
I'm going to keep my other lineup Because obviously
Rob don't love me yet, so I'mkeeping my lineup.
I'm not going to lie to you.
I am a faithful person.
I can be faithful, but, baby,I'm not cutting shit off Until I
know for goddamn sure that thisis what we on.
I ain't letting, I ain'tletting shit slide.
Speaker 1 (25:25):
That's my point.
That's why I said and what Iman?
Speaker 2 (25:27):
well, oh, gee, man, I'm gonna, I'm screenshotting I
listened to misty and courtneyand sent her ass a smiley face
thank you.
Speaker 1 (25:33):
I got a screen, and what?
Speaker 2 (25:34):
reaction did you get?
Speaker 1 (25:38):
I got a screenshot.
Speaker 2 (25:38):
I let a lot of good women go, not knowing how to man
up and man down.
Oh my god, cam, when you comingon the fucking show he posted
been on, because that's what itis these niggas don't know how
to man up.
That's why they're gonna fuckaround and lose the love they
life yeah because they don'tknow how to be men and they
don't know how to just say fuckit.
Let me just show my feelings.
We do women.
Speaker 1 (25:57):
Go all in, but y'all y'all are more in touch with
your emotions most of y'allanyway, it's tough and see og
this is the thing.
Og can say that because guesswhat og, he is og, so he didn't
been through enough to get tothat point, maturity level wise,
like yeah, I know this.
When a nigga in his 20s, andsometimes even in 30s, like,
well, you know, I'm afraid, whendo you jump off the ledge?
(26:18):
Because when you let somebodyknow how you really feel fuck
that talking.
And when you read, like I said,and I ain't like that, I heard
you was with, you know, not evenon, I investigated, came back
to me.
I don't like that you would alldo and guess what, I'm jumping
off the ledge.
Speaker 2 (26:31):
So.
So what's up?
So what we're gonna do then.
Speaker 1 (26:33):
So now, that's see that what's up, no, what you
gonna say.
Speaker 2 (26:36):
What's up, well, what we're gonna do now.
Speaker 1 (26:37):
That's the reciprocation.
Now you're gonna tell you likeI want to go this level with you
, okay but what if you don't saythat?
Now I'm crushing because youlike.
Why?
Speaker 2 (26:44):
are you scared to be crushed?
It's okay.
Speaker 1 (26:46):
Y'all.
This the thing.
This why you asked about whenwe had the conversation about
cheating.
Women can get cheated on.
Y'all can figure out and goback and be like I get my leg
back.
Whatever y'all do, y'all becool with it.
Once a nigga get cheated on, itbe the end of the world because
you done crushed that nigga egocrushed by telling me you love
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me or you gonna love me, and getyour like that.
That's not fair.
What the fuck?
It ain't wrong letting a personknow you care.
When you care, we are grown,and that's what I'm saying.
That's the thing, that's whatwe saying.
Speaker 2 (27:15):
We saying, hey sister , and shout out the, shout out
the od, I love you.
Um, that is why that's what wetalking about.
Says when is you supposed tolet a motherfucker know you care
, like, when is it too soon tobe?
Like, I feel, feel some type ofway?
Or when is it who the fucklight skin Nigga this light?
Speaker 1 (27:32):
That's the truth, though, what was just said.
I don't know if OG's still inthere, but I want to tap in like
that, because that's the real.
Like when do you let somebodyknow?
Because if you jump for a mantoo, when you jump off a ledge
and you get crushed, it'sdifferent, like y'all just get
crushed and I'm not saying it'sfair or nothing, but y'all get
crushed.
Y'all bounce back from that,motherfucker.
Like you said, I'm going backto my lineup.
I'm cool.
Speaker 2 (27:50):
A nigga get crushed?
No, we don't.
We be at home crying snobbugsand tears, but y'all get through
it.
Speaker 1 (27:54):
No, right, you will too, we know.
Speaker 2 (28:13):
We not going to bounce through it.
When y'all get crushed, y'allgonna straight tell your
homegirls y'all gonna have anight together, y'all gonna eat
ice cream, okay, no, you justanswered your own question.
That's why we get through it,because we don't bottle it in.
We call our girls immediatelybitch, grab a bottle right here
now.
This nigga didn't hurt myfeelings.
You gonna go home and try toact tough like you know what I'm
saying.
That's the truth, because youdon't want to.
Speaker 1 (28:27):
you sound stupid as a dude.
Calling a girl tender, it don'tsound right.
Yes, it do.
No, you can't call a girltender.
You can't call a girl soft.
Speaker 2 (28:34):
You can't say a girl dick whip, that's not something
you can say to a girl oh, you'sa liar Bitches, can't be dick
whipped.
Speaker 1 (28:39):
I'm not saying, they can't.
Speaker 2 (28:49):
I'm in agreement, but y'all can be soft too.
Speaker 1 (28:51):
That's what I'm telling you.
That's not natural.
So even like I told, you.
Speaker 2 (28:55):
Why do y'all try to fight y'all feelings is the
crazy part?
Speaker 1 (28:57):
Because you're not taught to deal with your
feelings as a man went on a tripwith a nigga and I didn't want
her to go on a trip.
If I bring this to my homeboysand like I tell her about the
trip and she's like, well, youknow, it is what it is, I'm
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going on it on a trip with himand I'm gonna tell my homeboys
that shit.
Oh, you suck at stroking yourtender, your tender dick.
Speaker 2 (29:24):
Now you even feeling worse well, first of all, let me
just put this disclaimer outthere I'm never gonna ask a
nigga can I go on a trip withanother nigga?
I don't give a fuck if weexclusively dating.
That wasn't smart.
That was just an example.
Speaker 1 (29:37):
It ain't got to be that.
It could be like I said.
I heard you was out at themovies with him.
So, what If I say like I don'tlike you going to the movies
with him.
That hurt my feelings and youdon't reciprocate what you just
said, if you don't come out andbe like so what you mean, what
we gonna go from here.
What if you come out and belike Okay and what?
Speaker 2 (29:53):
Okay, no, when you say I hurt your feelings, as I
was at the movies, my responseis gonna be I didn't know that
that would hurt your feelings,because we're not exclusively
dating.
Speaker 1 (30:01):
Every female, not gonna say that you might have
some females.
Speaker 2 (30:03):
You think it's gonna be a female?
That's gonna hoe you.
Speaker 1 (30:09):
I'm not the feelings.
Love is a gamble anyways.
Speaker 2 (30:11):
Having feelings when somebody's a gamble, that's what
make it so great if you hit onit so you can go to mgm and
gamble, but you don't want togamble on me because they're
gonna point money.
Speaker 1 (30:18):
Come and go, feelings them motherfuckers a little,
hit a little bit harder.
I could lose two thousanddollars and be like, fuck, I get
it back let me tell you gettingyour heart broke, you gotta put
that bitch back together Icannot.
Speaker 2 (30:27):
Let me tell you, if I lose two thousand dollars, I'm
gonna be crying for a coupledays.
Been not got, been not go to nomovie if we locked in but we
not together.
Okay, grams, that's what wesaying.
See here, you see how he justseparated them words someone
locked in and together, that's,that's the that's what I'm
saying.
Speaker 1 (30:41):
That's the confusion.
That's what I'm saying.
When, do you know?
I'm like because I might feelno, no, no.
Speaker 2 (30:44):
Fuck the confusion.
What do locked in mean versuswhat was the other word?
You said?
Not together, together, how inthe fuck is we locked in?
So locked in just mean we'reexclusively dating, right, that
means you don't date anybody andI don't date anybody because
we're dating each other.
Is that what that mean, grams?
Because I need someclarification on what locked in
mean I gotta.
Speaker 1 (31:03):
So I'm looking at what og said.
Og said my first heartbreakturned me into a man on fire,
but I ran into a few that knewhow to crack the code and open
me up.
But they were someone someoneelse's woman or wife.
I'm definitely going to theapproach of situation and signs
and vibes, but I'm throughenough to know it's going to be
some fireworks relationship orhell itself, meaning mental
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torture and headaches.
I get what he's saying.
That's the thing, that's thegamble of love.
If I sit back and open up toyou and it don't come the way I
think it's supposed to comebecause this is my like.
I said we could be talking andI open up to you, you might be
like.
I never read you like that.
I didn't read the room okay,that's communication, bro.
Speaker 2 (31:42):
What is wrong with me missing the fact that you?
Speaker 1 (31:44):
because you didn't outright say my feelings got
hurt.
Speaker 2 (31:47):
That's what I'm telling you that shouldn't hurt
your feelings, because I said Ididn't pick that up from you.
Speaker 1 (31:52):
I didn't think you wanted to be exclusive with me
Listen, if I knew that you wasunsure or you didn't want to be
exclusive with me, I would havenever opened up.
Speaker 2 (31:59):
If you were acting like you wanted to be exclusive
with me, then I would be beingexclusive with you, whether you
knew it or not.
That's the question, If you'rebeing a good nigga then I have
no reason to even fuck withanother nigga.
Speaker 1 (32:16):
See, I'm going to say what Bro just said, what Quill
just said Locked in simply meanswe have an understanding,
doesn't necessarily meanexclusive, you know.
Speaker 2 (32:24):
So here comes my question.
I agree with Mo Bugs better.
Speaker 1 (32:34):
That is because here come my question with that one.
This is what I'm saying thefeelings you have in your heart
and your mind don't mean thatthat person you talking to feel
that way, how would?
Speaker 2 (32:39):
okay, okay, you don't know till you communicate it
right, but okay.
So what is so wrong?
Speaker 1 (32:44):
with bro, so I know y'all females different what?
Speaker 2 (32:47):
what is so wrong?
You write same difference,grand.
But what is so wrong with yousaying you know what misty I'm
ready to, with you saying youknow what Misty, I'm ready to be
exclusive with you?
You know what you did the otherday?
That was kind of threw me off.
That's what made me evenrealize that I want to be
exclusive with you.
Okay, let's say, fuck yesterday, because I did that yesterday,
I didn't know you wanted to beexclusive.
Now, moving forward, if I dosomething, then your feelings
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should feel some type of way,but it shouldn't feel.
I didn't know nothing about youwanting to be exclusive unless
you said something I just toldyou.
Speaker 1 (33:16):
Now you can ask the fellas, Fellas.
Y'all hear me.
This is what I'm telling you.
That's the vulnerability thatyou do as a man once you open up
your feelings.
See y'all feelings get crushedand y'all into them.
Speaker 2 (33:29):
It's too stressful and I don't got time to be
knowing whether you love me.
I love you.
Speaker 1 (33:33):
Damn.
I'm not going to argue that.
That's what it is when a manopen up his feelings to somebody
without knowing that that's thefeeling they got for them.
You vulnerable as fuck, that'sthe vulnerable.
You can't get no morevulnerable.
Speaker 2 (33:45):
No Relationships is different now.
They is grounds, but I thinkit's different because lack of
communication for real, for real, and I think that people don't
even get to know nobody.
They don't go through thedating phase.
Like you said, motherfuckersjump in and be like we locked in
.
The fuck is that is.
Is we together or we we not?
Fuck all the slang, fuck allthe all of that.
Is we together or if we not?
If we're not together, thatmeans I'm single and I can
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really do what I want to do.
If we're locked in, that meansI'm single and I can do what I
want to do respectfully, so thatyou don't find out.
When we're exclusive and we'retogether and you my nigga and
I'm your bitch, then that's itand that's all.
I'm your bitch and I ain'tdoing shit now.
I never let nobody play in yourface, but all of them stages
before that's the question howdo?
you do what I want.
How do you?
Speaker 1 (34:27):
get to the next stages.
Speaker 2 (34:28):
Communication without that's, and I'm with you, can't
worry about your feelings andthere you go, I'm with you 100
it's like jumping out on faith.
Yeah, if I fuck with her, Ifuck with her.
Speaker 1 (34:37):
You, I mean, and this my thing, like it's so many
different reasons why I do mightnot want to jump off the ledge,
but it's about your feelings.
That's what it come down toasia.
Speaker 2 (34:46):
I'm coming over to that side.
Find me a girlfriend, becausethese niggas over here is lame
yeah, I feel like that's that's.
Speaker 1 (34:51):
That's that's how I go.
You know what I'm saying andthat's the thing like man.
For me, I like even you knowwhat I'm saying before I got in
my marriage.
You know what I'm saying beforewe really, because we, we, we
dated.
You know what I'm saying.
Something happened story.
(35:15):
Never forget the story end upgoing to um.
I want to say what's that?
Speaker 2 (35:17):
shit where you used to have takers.
Was that the name of it?
Yes, a little darker takersused to slap.
Speaker 1 (35:19):
So listen, I didn't even used to go out like that.
That wasn't my not everybodyknow me, that ain't my thing.
I let all the homies go, I'mgonna sit back and chill.
I remember going to get myoutfit and everything.
I went there.
You know what I'm saying.
She said come out.
I went, I'm like all right,cool, she cool.
She stopped by, swung by,talked to me a couple of times,
got some drinks for her friendsand shit like that.
But once, um, she left, shelike yeah, I'm gonna call you,
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step out your phone when.
Speaker 2 (35:40):
I didn't get that call that night.
Oh, Grahams, you hold on.
Speaker 1 (35:56):
I'm going to tear your ass up shit.
Speaker 2 (35:57):
He was like I gotta go get her, no, and when I gotta
go get her, I was hurt.
It was like, yeah, fuck hergrams just said we gotta do too
much in a relationship.
Women really don't do shit,grams.
We don't do nothing.
Y'all don't do nothing but paybills.
Half of y'all can't makebitches have orgasms, so we be
really faking oh, shut the fuckup.
I'm talking to grams.
Damn, most of the times we befaking because y'all don't even
got no good dick.
Let's be 100.
Good dick is not a dime, adozen baby.
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It is not a lot of fish in thesea.
Secondly, all y'all do is paybills, and now y'all new niggas
want us to go 50-50.
So y'all not even paying thebills, nigga, we cook, we
support y'all mentally.
We take care of the goddamnkids.
We do every fucking thing.
Damn you fuck with bitches thatonly cook clean and fuck you,
(36:39):
nigga.
You got a whole lot of shitgoing on.
You a fucking rapper.
She ain't supporting you.
She ain't making sure, outsideof you getting your dick sucked,
that your mental ain't together.
You fucking with the wrong typeof bitches.
That's what it sounds like.
Speaker 1 (36:49):
So for this whole conversation I got to say I was
excited for this topic.
My question comes in for theviewers.
Anybody want to tap in BecauseI want to get it.
So there's not really a settime when you should jump off
the edge, when you should gothrough a phone.
And I'm not saying it's anygood time to go through a phone,
I'm saying showing your emotion.
Speaker 2 (37:05):
I want you to stop saying that.
Speaker 1 (37:18):
No I'm saying, but that's still a sign of showing
that I care.
Going through a phone poppingup telling somebody, I don't
like you talking to somebodystalking the page, commenting on
a post, any of that shit.
Anywhere where you know yourfeelings, you let your feelings
be known.
We when do you be able to letyour feelings be known if you're
doing the right way or thewrong way?
Now you know you might go upthere, snuff a nigga because you
see him out with somebody.
Speaker 2 (37:33):
Be like fuck it, I want to snuff this nigga I mean,
I guess you just don't know,until you come out and say it
that's I'm just gonna say, uh,before I get off this live, no
one can make sure anotherperson's mental is together.
You definitely can supportsomebody mentally.
It is definitely up to you tomake sure you have healthy
mental health but you candefinitely support somebody
(37:55):
mentally.
If your nigga look like hehaving a fucked up day, damn,
you're not going to do nothingto talk to him.
You ain't going to help.
Like, yeah, you can supportsomebody mentally.
What era are you in, mobux?
What type of bitches youfucking with?
Speaker 1 (38:08):
And I'm with you, with that OG.
I'm with you.
That's why I asked how weplanned this from the beginning
and between even that OG I'mgoing to say it again and I know
you even had this happen to youor on the other end of it, or
it's know somebody.
Even when you say this is howthings going to be, you don't
know when that feeling kick in.
I don't know when the feelingkick in.
I know this.
I said when it happened to meseveral times and it happened to
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me several times and happeningbefore it was certain incidents
when I knew like it could havebeen an argument.
It could have been a post Iseen, it could have been some
pics.
I could have heard.
She was in the club withsomebody, was in their face.
I'm like damn, like I just saidwith wifey, when I really
figured out that I wanted topursue her is after she did that
shit that night.
It took me a minute to get back, but I was.
I couldn't get it off my mind.
I'm like damn, she hold me ifit.
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It's just a chick.
Speaker 2 (38:52):
I fuck, when I got nothing for her.
You say you know?
No, she just wanted you tochase her a little bit.
It wasn't a hold.
Speaker 1 (38:57):
To me it still was hold Because, like I said, if
it's a chick I'm just fuckingwith and just trying to fuck
with, all right, cool, youdidn't pick up the phone.
I'm only going to wait about 20minutes to 30 minutes to maybe
an hour, any bitch that wascalling.
No, you can't.
No, I'm spending them.
That's the thing.
When I spend somebody for youand you spend me, oh, I'm dumb,
(39:18):
hurt.
Speaker 2 (39:19):
I don't give a fuck if it's a test, chase what I'm
stupid hurt.
But when you do that to afemale, we supposed to be like,
oh, you spend me what you doingto mine.
Speaker 1 (39:29):
No, I'm not going to sit up.
Speaker 2 (39:30):
I agree.
Jerron what's name?
Just said that.
Cam said that's why he askedfrom the beginning what it's
gonna be, and that's what I doagree with as well.
When you in the first couple,at this big age that I am, when
we're in the first couple daysof conversating, we need to know
what's going on.
Are you trying to fuck?
Are you trying to get in arelationship?
Are we just cool?
Are we friends?
Speaker 1 (39:50):
Put that shit on the floor I gotta get bro that,
that's true I ain't got too muchmore room for.
No, I'm with, I'm with thatwhat bro just said, that hey,
that's the one I would pin ifthis is my life.
Good women are a law alonebefore it's official.
That's true.
That's something I know forsure.
When a female feeling, you shegonna cut everybody off any
motherfucking way I just saidthat.
Speaker 2 (40:08):
I said, if you doing what you're supposed to do, I'm
gonna be exclusive to you anyway, whether you know it or not
yeah just because this is what Ifeel like y'all fuck up at.
Two is me.
And just because I don't say toyou like I'm only fucking with
you, I want to be.
That don't mean I'm out herefucking with nobody.
If you're doing what you'resupposed to do, I'm not gonna be
doing nothing.
You feel me, I'm gonna bechilling.
Speaker 1 (40:25):
So it is what it is that's what I'm gonna say before
we get out of that.
That's that's what I'm going tosay for all the fellas, because
all females do it anytime.
But for all the fellas, if youfeeling her, I'll give a fuck
what the situation is.
If you feeling her, go aheadand let her know.
Don't wait, fuck it.
If your homeboy's going toclimb you, you're going to be
tender, three-piece tender, withthe honey mustard on the side.
(40:46):
Go ahead.
Speaker 2 (40:49):
And, ladies, if you love that man, tell him day one,
Because I tell him day one, andthat's why y'all ain't got your
boyfriends no more, becausethey love me, because I love
them and I don't give a fuck.
Speaker 1 (40:58):
I ain't going to lie to you.
That's one thing I don't knowhow to do for females, but I
know when a female tell you loveyou, is she lying or not?
It make you feel good.
Speaker 2 (41:08):
You be on cloud nine.
Speaker 1 (41:09):
Listen, I Boy.
How do we describe her Littlemama, red bone chocolate thing,
my bitch, whatever my throat,goat, whatever the fuck you call
her.
My juice box, whatever you callher.
You're going to say that petname and you're going to be like
nigga she love me, nigga Boy,fuck you.
That's how it go.
Nigga, she love me, nigga, Ilove all y'all.
Speaker 2 (41:27):
How about that?
Now let me stop, because nevergonna get no fucking boyfriend
now, if they listen to thispodcast because you giving out
too much game, you giving aplaybook.
Just start calling me hitch,that's it.
I'm never gonna.
Speaker 1 (41:38):
I'm hitch, that's it now you got somebody gonna
listen to what we're talkingabout right now.
One of them motherfuckers onthe sideline ain't gonna be put
the pressure on you tonight.
They're gonna pop up at yourcrib unannounced.
This how I feel.
What's the?
You know I'm gonna tell you theline too.
Oh man, shit, I gotta ask you,misty, I know you watch love
john.
It's the part when he's sittingat the bar and he let him know.
(41:59):
Like nigga, I'm love struck.
But what did he say?
this no, I, I don't know, notthe urgent like a motherfucker
part right, not that that was inthe rain yeah, that was it when
he was like no, that's what hesaid to her yeah, when he said,
like it's the part, like thatthe bar, or something, he said,
so you know, I know what you'retalking about.
What?
Speaker 2 (42:17):
do with the glasses they was playing.
I know just somebody.
I just can't remember the line.
Now I'm finna, go home watchlove jones, because now I gotta
know yeah, that's, that's it,man.
Speaker 1 (42:23):
You know I want to call my partner man, but I know
his ass, probably at work,because I know you know the line
I'm talking about.
But that's that's it.
That's the line like once youin love or you got them feelings
.
Not even love, you just gotthem deep feelings.
Ain't shit you can do about it.
At that point you can play hardas you want to, you're through,
you're cooked, it ain't nothingyou can do about it.
When it get there, it's there.
Speaker 2 (42:42):
Well, I mean I don't know what to tell y'all Love is
love, lust is lust, tripping istripping.
Speaker 1 (42:58):
Quick question what's the part of this?
Speaker 2 (43:00):
uh no, this ain't I had to move in love jones when
he at the bar, what's the linewhen he let dog know, like he in
love, he like he ain't nothinghe can do about it.
Um, she put that.
Speaker 1 (43:07):
Um, oh, we don't what movie I know what you're
talking about, bro.
Speaker 2 (43:11):
I'm so mad because I know the movie line and you know
I don't never forget movielines they can hear you bro she
put that Jones on you.
Speaker 1 (43:18):
Duh, duh she put that Jones on you well that's it the
.
Jones is the Jones once you getthere good looking, bro man,
because we on the podcast rightnow we live.
Yeah, once you get hit withthat area, when it's ain't
nothing you can do, you can'teven hide your feelings.
Speaker 2 (43:34):
No more, you done let some shit slip out you wouldn't
even want to let slip out.
I'm going to watch Love Jones.
Speaker 1 (43:37):
Lord, that's it.
I done been there before.
You let some shit slip out thatyou didn't even want to let
slip out.
You done jumped off thatmotherfucker without any safety
net.
You like, fuck, good looking.
You want to get out of here, nodoubt.
Last thing you said when thatJones come down, it's a
motherfucker.
That's what he said.
When that Jones come down, it'sa motherfucker, that's it.
I knew bro remember it becausethat's one of his favorite
(43:59):
movies.
When that Jones come down, it'sa motherfucker.
That's the truth.
I'm going home to watch it forreal.
Speaker 2 (44:08):
All right, brody, stop playing.
Well, before I get about here,I just want to tell the ladies
and the fellas, for real, forreal, find y'all person, stop
playing with y'all feelings.
I'll be on here talking shit alot of times.
I ain't found my person.
You feel me.
But if y'all done, found y'allperson, don't be scared to tell
them that, that they your person.
Tell them how you feel, and ifthey don't feel the same, guess
what?
Fuck them.
You can't make a motherfuckerlove you, but if you love a
(44:28):
motherfucker, tell them what itis and move around.
If they don't love you, yourlove deserved to be loved.
Everybody deserved to be loved,and that's that I knew, I knew,
bro, I knew that line.
Speaker 1 (44:37):
That's the line when that love jones come down, when
that jones come down, it's amotherfucker.
That's the truth.
When it hit, that it hit.
So you know that's what it is.
So you know what.
You've been vibing to mistybefore we get up out of here um,
I have been vibing to thisfucking song called uh.
Speaker 2 (44:55):
I'm about to tell it to you because, baby, I had just
discovered it and it might be,oh, but I have this shit on
repeat.
Do you hear me?
It's called.
That's you by?
What's his name?
Lucky day, it's dope I gottacheck.
Speaker 1 (45:07):
You gotta send that to me, yes, you gotta listen to
it.
Speaker 2 (45:09):
Oh my god, oh god, yeah, you gotta listen to it.
Speaker 1 (45:12):
It's the shit send it to me.
I'm gonna tell you what I'vebeen vibing to.
I had to these motherfuckersbeen dropping these diss tracks
back to back.
Speaker 2 (45:18):
Oh yeah, they've been tripping.
Oh, I liked it.
Speaker 1 (45:19):
The euphoria, nobody liked it, but I liked it no, I
ain't gonna know motherfuckerswho don't like listening lyrics,
then, like I tell it's twosides we're gonna get out of
here.
It's literally two sides ofthis.
When you're a motherfucker,that's wanna hear some shit, you
can bop to and ride to.
Or you wanna hear some lyrics.
If you wanna bop some shit, yougonna say Drake was winning in
Kendrick's shit week.
(45:40):
If you wanna hear some lyrics,man on that Euphoria.
Speaker 2 (45:43):
Kendrick went hard on several different beats, all of
them he winning.
Speaker 1 (45:46):
He went crazy the ones like that?
The family, was it not likethat?
I'm getting mixed up, but it'sthe one.
I know the beat.
It started off with that TeddyPendergrass and that
motherfucking Euphoria man.
He got on Drake's ass.
I said God damn, I'm not sayingDrake wasn't firing back, but
he got on his ass dog.
I said woo, no homo.
(46:07):
I said man, fuck Nate.
So that's what I've been.
That's like when you combineall these tracks together you
got like a little nice little EP.
It's like about seven or eightof them motherfuckers.
You can ride off a minutelistening to that shit, no for
sure.
So that's what I've been vibingto.
So we're going to get out ofhere.
Man, where can they catch youat, miss?
Speaker 2 (46:24):
Just Misty on all social media y'all.
If you search it, I'm it'sMisty Summers, m-y-s-t-i-e on
all social media platforms.
Speaker 1 (46:35):
You can catch me, bobby Frost, on all social
medias and IG.
You can catch me on robber.87and Bobby Frost Media Turning up
.
So, summertime coming in, let'sget it.
We about to do another liveevent too.
I'm putting that together now,so we're going to get y'all some
word on that no-transcript.
yo yo yo, it's your boy, bobby frost, and bobby
frost media presentstransparency.
I'm with the beautiful lady,just misty, hey, y'all, hey, she
ain't got no motherfuckingenthusiasm because we ain't
recording on saturday mymotherfucking period is day one.
Speaker 2 (00:15):
I'm cramping, I got a migraine and rob finna, get on
my motherfucking nerves so youknow I'm gonna do that.
Speaker 1 (00:21):
So, whatever, I'm gonna do that for sure, yeah,
for sure, yeah, man, how y'allbeen doing, how y'all been doing
, man we talking, how was Cincode Mayo for you?
Oh my God.
Speaker 2 (00:29):
It was a fun time.
I'm not going to lie, I'm lying.
I sat in the bed all day withmy own tequila at home, not all
day.
I went to a baby shower and Iwent home and got into bed.
Speaker 1 (00:51):
That's what's up Now.
I told y'all I've been kind ofclose to AA like alcohol,
anonymous.
I won't drink by myself, but Idrink when I go out.
Speaker 2 (01:00):
Well, that is the last step when you start
drinking by yourself, and I justdid that Nigga been going
through a lot of stuff.
Speaker 1 (01:06):
I end up sitting at the crib Like, if you go to the
crib right now, it's on Bush.
I got about five-fifths inthere.
They have field three, four,field, but it's like five-fifths
of Hennessy and D'Ussé.
I don't drink them.
Nah, should I call myself thisweak boy Like an alcoholic by
myself, me and my dog drinking.
He knew something was wrongwith me because he came and laid
(01:27):
his head.
You know how your dog can do.
They can tell.
Speaker 2 (01:29):
Your real dog.
Speaker 1 (01:30):
Yeah, he came and laid his head on me, like one
day I was in there.
He just came and laid his headon me Like man, what's going on?
Man, let it out.
And I just be going through alot, lot of stuff.
Man, I got some little issueswith my family my grandmother
back in the hospital, my popsbeen in and out the hospital,
yeah, just a lot of differentthings going on.
It's just like a whirlwind.
(01:50):
But you know I'm making itthrough it.
But yeah, and I said you knowwhat, I'm tired of going out
every weekend, spending about$400 altogether, going out two
or three days out the week I'mcoming out about 400.
I did the math.
I said, yeah, you too farspending money on that type of
shit every week.
So fuck that.
So, yeah, I ain't going out asingle mile.
To the very end.
I got out at the last minutewhen I say last minute with the
(02:13):
JWs.
That motherfucker was jumping.
It was like a team partybecause I didn't know nobody in
that bitch.
That bitch was super packed andI think they all went to
Northgate.
I heard Northgate was charginglike $75 a game.
Speaker 2 (02:23):
Northgate yeah, I heard that too.
Northgate is a shout out to thenew bar.
Well, it ain't new, new, old.
Y'all know how we doRefurbished or whatever you want
to call it.
It's nice in there.
I like it.
I would have preferred it to be30 and up, because I again, I
don't know the people that's onthe club scene right now.
Y'all can call me auntie,whatever the fuck y'all want to
(02:44):
call me, but I don't know thepeople that's on the club scene.
So either my age has stoppedgoing to the club, my generation
or they have migrated toanother club that I have not
found.
But I don't like going to theclubs anyway, really myself.
So I'm assuming that they're athome, because I'm still in the
same shit.
I'm only gonna be there if I'mpaid to be there y'all, because
I got other shit going on in mylife too.
(03:04):
Shit sound like we in awhirlwind.
It's just on the fucking rollercoaster.
Everybody.
Courtney still ain't here y'all.
Fuck her.
She, she, better in her lifegetting her education she should
be getting ready to come up outthere, unless she's gonna be
coming up out of there shealmost done so that's gonna.
Speaker 1 (03:20):
That's a clap for sure.
It'll be done, done.
So you know.
With that being said, I got outthere.
I was with my partner.
I'm like, man, $75 again,norgate.
I said that's a negative.
I'm already going through a lotof shit.
Took my ass home.
Yeah, I'm straight, I got thefuck out of there.
Speaker 2 (03:37):
You know I have been doing a lot of self-reflecting
for real and just being at thecrib man, I don't know like I.
Just I ain't been feeling outlike that.
Yeah, I've been feeling my bedand I've been watching this show
called the resident.
Oh my god, it's like I heardabout that the resident is like
some series.
I'm so ready to be donerecording this motherfucking
(03:57):
podcast so I can go give mesomething to eat and get in the
bed it is so fucking good.
You gotta tap in, rob, because Ican't even talk to you about it
Until you tap in.
Speaker 1 (04:05):
I'm gonna do that.
I heard about it and I'm pissedoff Cause.
Speaker 2 (04:07):
Kourtney tapped in, but she on season six and I'm
like on season three, so I can'teven fucking talk to her.
Speaker 1 (04:11):
Yeah, cause she gonna spoil it for you.
Speaker 2 (04:14):
She get on my fucking nerves.
Speaker 1 (04:15):
I heard about it.
I gotta check it in, it'sdefinitely good white doctors,
don't get it twisted.
Speaker 2 (04:25):
I fucks with the whitey people.
But when you watch shows andyou know how people be putting
subliminals and shit in likethat and you know, you just know
how shit be.
I be excited when I see shitlike that, just like I was
excited that Michonne was ableto go with Rick on the Walking
Dead, because what Not the blackgirl win the whitey main
character and have a baby by himand survive.
Speaker 1 (04:48):
Yeah, I done told a lot of people about that show
for the years.
Walking Dead is good.
It's come from a comic book.
The comic book is better, butWalking Dead is still a 9 out of
10 for me.
Speaker 2 (04:58):
I'm starting to see that a lot of the shows is like
I'm going to give it a 10 out of10.
I ain't going to lie, but Inoticed that a lot of the shows
that I've been tapped into comefrom like a book or a comic book
, because Riverdale is good asfuck.
Speaker 1 (05:11):
And I didn't know that Archie and all of them was
a comic book Riverdale is goodas fuck.
And Archie.
This is the crazy thing aboutArchie.
You know I'm a comic bookhitter.
Archie first issues was like1940, 1950.
Speaker 2 (05:22):
Like 1940, 1950.
Oh, that's wild.
Speaker 1 (05:24):
Yeah, it's so good, the redhead and then you know he
got it's good, Veronica Betty,Veronica Betty, in there Y'all.
Speaker 2 (05:28):
Betty got the little white girl ponytail ding ding.
Yes, it is really good.
Speaker 1 (05:32):
So yeah, that's how I've been.
Speaker 2 (05:33):
I mean, you know, I love TV anyway.
Speaker 1 (05:34):
so no, that's it.
I done been through this.
I'm pretty sure you beenthrough this Misty.
Everybody been through this.
Like when can you start Showingyour feelings that you tripping
about Something with somebodybut y'all not official or y'all
done?
Try to make it seem like Y'allnot gonna be official, y'all
(05:54):
just gonna be friends or friendswith benefits?
When can you start tripping?
Speaker 2 (05:59):
I trip day one Cause I love you as soon as we
exchange numbers so no, Iseriously don't, let me stop
playing.
Seriously, I don't, I don'treally know, because I feel like
I'm one of them people thatalways say that, like you can't
say shit to me because we don'tgo together, you feel me, but I
guess, all in the same breath,just because I the person that's
doing it feel like you can'tfeel no type of way because
(06:19):
we're not together, don't meanyou actually don't feel a type
of way you get what I'm sayingso.
I guess, when you saying whenshould you be able to like
verbalize it to a motherfuckerlike rob?
I feel some type of way aboutwhat you're doing.
Speaker 1 (06:32):
I'm gonna even go deeper than that.
We're going to start with that,but I'm gonna go down a rabbit
hole song, because this is.
I like this topic.
I ain't been excited for atopic in a while.
I like this topic like, yeah,when can you verbalize?
When can you be like, okay, youknow, y'all not saying y'all
exclusive, right.
So if you're not exclusive, I'mnot your dude, you're not my
girl.
Speaker 2 (06:51):
Maybe that's the point when we say we're
exclusive, because I do thinkthat people confuse the.
Because two people decide to beexclusive and date exclusively,
that doesn't mean that wejumped into a relationship and
date exclusively that doesn'tmean that we jumped into a
relationship.
That means that you decided tostop dating other girls and I
decided to stop dating otherboys, and we're going to see if
we can move forward into arelationship.
Speaker 1 (07:14):
But you know, I'm with you on that one.
But it's hard to even I can'tsay that's a woman thing.
You know that's our dynamic atour show.
You know male versus female,but not, you know, hating type
shit woman versus man.
But, um, yeah, it's like.
That's what a person cause somepeople feel like once you say I
ain't out here looking fornobody else and I ain't either
we together.
But what you just said issomething I like too.
(07:34):
I think people don't do enoughof that.
Hey, let's just, you know, ifyou want to do that, it's mutual
, even not mutual.
I might be like like, hey, Idon't want to see nobody else,
and you'd be like, yeah, I'msorry, playing field, I don't
want to see nobody else becauseI really want to be focused on
you and pay attention to you andthat's what I'm doing.
But that doesn't meannecessarily like we got to be
together.
We want to see if it's enoughto get together that's what I
(07:57):
agree on and but and during thattime.
Can you verbalize then?
When y'all exclusive even likefuck exclusive, when you're just
talking to somebody I feel likewhen is it?
Speaker 2 (08:09):
that's the question when, when you, when you're
exclusive because I feel likebefore we're exclusive you have
every right to feel any type ofway you want to feel, but you're
gonna have to tell your friendsabout it.
I mean, you could probably tellme about it, but I don't feel
like I did anything wrong.
It depends.
Okay, first of all, let's throwsome samples out there, because
I don't know what you mean.
(08:30):
Like what, what is somethingyou could feel some type of way
about?
Speaker 1 (08:33):
because it could be you could feel something about a
way like it's a lot of things,but I'm just gonna go down the
list of things.
You could feel something, a wayabout you know somebody.
Hey, we're gonna say like thisyou might feel some way about
you caught and you didn't getback when you cook enough okay.
Speaker 2 (08:50):
So if I'm not with you, then if I'm not with you, I
feel like you can.
First of all, everybody gotpatterns.
You feel me like I got a niggathat I know damn well.
When I text him at 5 o'clock,he's not going to text me back
until about 9, 45, 10 o'clock,because I just know that he's
not a texter.
(09:10):
You get what I'm saying, right,but if I'm fucking with
somebody and I know that everytime I text this nigga he texts
me back two, three minutes afterthat then okay, boom, you
didn't bullshit it.
I might say something and notact like I'm mad.
I might just say something,just so you could acknowledge
that you did this and you moveda little differently.
But I feel like you're supposedto do stuff like that because
(09:31):
you won't ever make it to therelationship part if you don't
know what you're doing wrong anddoing right during the kick it
phase.
Speaker 1 (09:37):
You get what I'm saying.
No, I'm with you 100%.
That's why I said it's adelicate thing.
A lot of things go with that,like you don't want to jump the
gun scene like a bug, then pridecome into it too.
You know pride will pop up.
Do you want to do this with thepride?
It's like a lot coming there.
So that's why I said likethat's a good topic.
Like when can you trip?
Speaker 2 (09:53):
I feel like let me get.
Am I supposed to be like cut up?
Hell, no, not.
If I not, if we ain't exclusive, I ain't cutting up, I'm just
going.
I'm going to say hey, hey, rob,keep it moving.
I hope you don't get cussed outCause I'm going to say hi, or
(10:14):
should I not say hi?
Speaker 1 (10:15):
That's what I'm.
You know what I'm saying andthat's the delicate part about
it.
Situations I don't know of,like where you've lost out on a
female because you didn'texpress your feelings and she
didn't believe you was likewhere y'all was at with it.
You get what I'm saying.
Like that, that happened.
Speaker 2 (10:32):
I've seen that happen I've seen that happen before
too, so I guess women do.
I know that women do certainthings.
Speaker 1 (10:40):
That I didn't hear it yeah, it was doing it um,
that's why I was quiet and Ididn't hear it?
Speaker 2 (10:45):
Yeah, it was doing it .
That's why I was quiet and Ididn't hear it do it.
But I think women do certainthings, that we expect certain
responses from a man and whenyou don't get them, it's like,
okay, well, I should move aroundbecause he don't fuck with me
like that, right.
So I guess the question shouldbe what is the right amount of
feeling should you give to notoverdo it?
(11:07):
Yeah, that's the question.
Speaker 1 (11:09):
But to let a motherfucker.
Speaker 2 (11:10):
Know you like him.
Speaker 1 (11:11):
That's why I say it's a delicate situation, because
you don't want to sit up and youknow be like oh shit.
But, like I said, you can,especially with females.
Y'all give niggas tests all thetime.
Niggas don't even know they'regetting a test it's a pop quiz
Right.
Don't even know when they'regetting a test, it's a pop quiz
right.
And you don't even know you'regetting a pop quiz right.
And you end up in a situationlike that, like damn, I didn't
know.
That's why she was doing itlike again, but why?
Speaker 2 (11:29):
wouldn't, but okay, so if you don't know, you're in
a test and you get a test,whatever your natural thing to
do is that's what your naturalthing was going to be to do so,
not necessarily because herecome my thing.
Speaker 1 (11:40):
I might be thinking you're doing this shit to make
me mad.
You get what I'm saying Likehere.
Prime example, Say you in arelationship and let's say you
in a relationship and say likey'all not exclusive, still can
date and all that type of thingsthat's been on the flow.
You might be trying to date ortalk to somebody because you
feel like I'm doing something onthe side just to get jealous of
me.
You ain't really too muchserious, it's just really to use
(12:06):
him to get mad at me?
Speaker 2 (12:06):
That could be the situation, nah.
Speaker 1 (12:07):
I'm not Like I ain't gonna say nothing.
We do that.
Yeah, I'm not Cause that's nota test now.
You just doing it just to getunder my skin.
Speaker 2 (12:11):
Yeah, but y'all do it too.
Speaker 1 (12:12):
Yeah, I'm not saying, I'm just saying that's how it
go.
You know what I'm saying.
So I'm not saying who.
Speaker 2 (12:19):
Which one.
But I and you see that I didn'tdrifted off and I'm talking to
somebody else because we're notexclusive yet.
I feel like that's when you'resupposed to be, like you know
what.
Not bring him up, or the factthat I'm talking to nobody else.
You ain't even got to go thatroute.
You could actually just be likeyou know what I'm saying.
I think I'm ready to.
You know what I'm saying?
Get exclusive with you, blah,blah, blah, blah, and tell me so
that way I can decide whether Iwant to get exclusive with you
(12:42):
as well and then stop talking tohim.
But until we are exclusive, Iam single.
Speaker 1 (12:50):
So my next question we can go a little bit further
down with that too, so likeyou're supposed to be down here.
At what point At what point doyou think is acceptable, like,
let's say, do a drive by or apop up or go through a phone?
Speaker 2 (13:04):
Oh, I'm not ever going through nobody phone,
never.
Um, I'm not even gonna answerit, I'm not even gonna lie.
I hate when I see that shit onthe movies and a motherfucker
answer their husband I don'tcare, husband, I do till death,
do us part.
I'm not going through nobodyphone.
Um, I'm not gonna answer anumber I don't know.
I don't care if it's myhusband's, that's not my
business.
(13:24):
I just do not go through phones.
But, um, what was the otherquestion?
Speaker 1 (13:29):
Like like when you start talking to stage you know
talking not exclusive, not arelationship.
When is it cool to show thattype of feeling for somebody?
Speaker 2 (13:38):
Cause that.
To me that's the fuck.
You said a drive-by yeah um,the earliest I've ever did a
drive-by was like probably likea month in I'll do a drive-by,
but it's the act is whetheryou're gonna act.
What you gotta know ismotherfuckers stalk all the time
.
I swear to god, I got amotherfucker that will text me
and be like.
I see you sitting in yourliving room today, the light on
(14:01):
god damn I swear to god I'm notbullshitting, I'm not saying you
don't.
But he do not hide the fact thathe's stalking though.
But that's tough, it's what youdo with it.
Like you, I won't even knowyou're stalking, you ain't even
gonna know I'm stalking.
You think these niggas know Iride by they house?
They don't.
It's when you get the you ride.
I can act on whatever I want toact on, because I tell my I
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listen.
Speaker 1 (14:31):
So she said at this big age, let's stop going
through phones.
Speaker 2 (14:35):
Yeah, no.
She said at this big age.
Oh, you saying never, armani,you going to go through the
phone, I'm not going through nophone.
Hold on, I got to see Marie,okay, rayanna, that this big ass
, let's stop going throughphones.
Yes, okay, and Armani, you saidno, armani, you going to go
through the phone.
(14:55):
Big Red, I ain't going throughthe phone.
First of all, I'm not goingthrough the phone because I
don't want to get my ownfeelings hurting.
You ain't even my nigga yet.
Speaker 1 (15:04):
I got a question about that too.
That's what we talking abouty'all.
Speaker 2 (15:06):
If y'all just tapped in, y'all can just answer me
back.
The question is when are yousupposed to start letting the
motherfucker?
You give a fuck, no, you give afuck Tripping wise though.
When can you even trip how farinto it?
When is you supposed to let amotherfucker know that you ain't
feeling the fact that you sawhim at the movies with another
bitch?
If y time, y'all, y'all nottogether, y'all are dating and
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y'all are dating like y'all, noty'all.
Speaker 1 (15:34):
You can date somebody else if you want to.
Speaker 2 (15:35):
Yeah, that's what I'm saying, like we saying like
when is you supposed to be ableto trip?
Speaker 1 (15:38):
like when, like if I'm talking like me and you
talking, you know I'm saying no,I ain't going through no phone.
But like some people think thatthey're going through the phone
thing I heard it from bothsides I ain't never went through
a phone a day in my life let metell you what a motherfucker
did to me.
Speaker 2 (15:49):
No bullshit, this is a new nigga.
I swear to god wait a minute.
Speaker 1 (15:52):
She said the first time y'all have nasty right okay
?
Speaker 2 (15:55):
okay, no, that's a good.
That's a good point, rayana,because that's what I be niggas
be thinking, you can't trip withyou over here, fucking me wrong
, spitting in my mouth and shit.
Yeah, we on tip with that forsure.
Because, no, this is what I wasgoing to tell y'all.
All jokes aside, I was fuckingwith this nigga.
We was probably like 30 days inright and he had him pick me up
.
We, finna go get some fuckingKrispy Kreme or wherever the
fuck I told him to take me.
So I'm like, I pick up his phonebecause he had them bitches
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laying down all the time Like heain't tripping, you feel me?
So I'mall, I text thatmotherfucking number to my
homegirl so fast.
So I'm like, bitch, save itCause.
I just didn't know if he wasbullshitting.
But I wasn't, finna, go throughthe phone.
At that moment I mean, I justgot the number, I just text my
(16:38):
homegirl just in case I neededit.
So, boom the like.
Two days later, we sittingthere.
I go through the messages so Ican see the number right.
So I'm like, let me see yourphone so I can see who you've
been talking to.
He hands me the phone.
I'm thinking that he probablydidn't even give me the right
code, because why would you giveit to me Y'all?
I put that bitch in and itopened up.
I said, oh, I don't want to gothrough this.
Speaker 1 (17:04):
Nah, you done, gave the get hurt.
Speaker 2 (17:06):
Man, you're going to get hurt.
Speaker 1 (17:07):
But, like I said, when is that you know what I'm
saying?
When do you feel what I'msaying?
When?
Speaker 2 (17:11):
is that acceptable?
I think going through fines isnever acceptable, but popping up
at your house is acceptable.
Speaker 1 (17:16):
I don't think none of it is acceptable.
But this is my thing, not evenjust doing that.
When do you let somebody knowyou're not cool with that?
Y' you just said that, but yousee that you're fucking with
somebody.
When do you say like, no, Idon't want you seeing that
person, or no, I don't want you,I want you not doing that.
When is that acceptable?
That's my question.
When is that acceptable?
Because pride, this is what I'mgoing to say Hold on, I'm going
(17:38):
to say this from a niggastandpoint, at least for me.
Pride coming there too.
Like do I, you know, do headover heels over?
Do I want to tell her like thatdo I want to be seen like I'm
controlled.
I'm not a controlling person,so for me it's very hard to say
that because I'm not controllingokay.
Speaker 2 (17:52):
So I think it's different, because I think it
just depends on who you is,because y'all, none of it, don't
pop up at my house or touch myphone.
I feel you for real and rayanasaid after 30 days.
I'm gonna be honest with y'all.
This is what I'm gonna tell you.
I can't answer the questionseriously because that's just a
part of me.
Like if a bitch go through hernigga phone and I've been
texting her, I swear to god shegonna.
(18:13):
If she show our text messages,it's gonna look like I'm thirsty
.
It's gonna look like I'm on hisdick.
It's gonna look like he hang upon me.
It's gonna look like I'mtexting myself because I really
be fucking with niggas.
Like I will wake up in themorning at five o'clock in the
morning and text him a fuckingbe like I love you and I miss
you so bad.
Where is you at?
knowing goddamn well I don'tfeel like that and I roll right
back over and go to sleep.
So if his bitch ever sees, shegonna lose her mind.
(18:34):
So it's like I don't know.
Speaker 1 (18:36):
I'm not going through no phones because I don't want
to see like I'd have been inthat situation before and I'm
prideful, like I'm not gonnatell you if we, if you ain't
made it known to me that weabout to go to exclusive route,
I'm not gonna tell you if I,even if I see you with somebody
and hurting it, got back to mesomebody, I'm not gonna tell you
like, yeah, I ain't like youwith such and such.
I like you over there with olddude, I ain't like you.
(18:56):
You know, I'm not gonna tellyou, I'm just gonna bite the
fucking bullet.
It might be killing me, but I'mgonna bite the bullet.
I'm gonna be like, yeah, I, youknow, I'm gonna play like that,
like that's what you want to do, what you do, not saying it
don't hurt, but I ain't going totrip out on you.
That's one thing I'll never do.
But then I can see from theother side of the game.
Y'all be testing.
Speaker 2 (19:13):
So I want to see if you going to trip.
I think it's a male-femalething.
I think males don't show thatthey care enough and females
show that they care too much.
I can agree with that.
Rihanna just said that if andraw sex, etc.
Y'all know what the fuck thatmeans.
You got to start movingdifferent and get rid of shit
gradually.
I agree, okay, but rayanna, butwhen do is y'all supposed to
(19:36):
have a conversation?
At this point, though, likeafter we've been fucking wrong,
we consistently dating do wehave a conversation?
And you know what I'm saying?
I got one for ray I thinkcommunication is good you got a
question for me.
Speaker 1 (19:45):
I got one for ray.
She can hear you, so I know shecan also say I got a question
for her.
So is it because I'll say thisone?
This is what I always say.
I don't give a fuck.
What's your table I mean yourlines is your parameters to the
relationship.
What's your titles?
When shit get real is when youstart spending the night and I
ain't talking about no roomspending night.
Oh, not, you've been listeningto your big sister yeah, that's
(20:05):
when I think, when you startspending night with somebody,
shit get real.
So at that point, is that apoint that you feel like you
gotta let stuff start?
Speaker 2 (20:14):
no, even though y'all said she said a conversation
has to be had.
Yeah, because let me tell youwhy conversation gotta be had.
Because a nigga will tell youquick, like we ain't established
that we ain't go.
I don't want nomisunderstandings, my boy, is we
going exclusive or not?
Because I can keep my up, Ihave no problem with it.
But if you want me to cut themoff, you have to cut your line
up off too, because that'sanother thing too, like you know
(20:34):
.
Speaker 1 (20:35):
In that situation it's like, damn, am I scared to
come out and say that shit,because what if they're not
gonna reciprocate the energy I'mlooking for?
I?
Speaker 2 (20:42):
think that that's why people end up in fucked up
relationships and situations.
Man, you can't be scared totell a motherfucker you don't
want to fuck with them, or itain't that Like we don't go
together?
A motherfucker just asked melast night like is you putting
me out?
I am.
Why would you make me put youout?
When I just said oh, I'm tired.
Speaker 1 (20:57):
That was a sign.
Speaker 2 (20:57):
That was your sign to get the fuck.
Speaker 1 (21:04):
But like that situation right there.
When do I do?
Speaker 2 (21:06):
I say, like say whatever you want to say, but
you're going to get the fuck upout of here.
Speaker 1 (21:09):
I'm saying, like if I'm feeling you and I want to
stay there with you, like do Icome out and tell you my real
emotions?
Speaker 2 (21:14):
Yes, yes yes, you do.
You could be like like, okay,at that moment what it is is
people be too serious too,though At that moment, he damn,
you feel me Like every time thatyou always made me leave, like
I don't really be feeling that,and then I probably would have
been like, well, last night Iwould have been like, well,
that's fucked up, we're going tohave to talk about it another
(21:35):
time Cause I was tired, so we'regoing to talk about another
time.
But I would have took intoconsideration his feelings.
But I mean this about that'swhy we got the order.
Speaker 1 (21:47):
That's why I asked that, that's why I said this was
a great topic, because that'sreally how I think that's the
foundation to a lot ofrelationships, I think that it
starts from where we've beensaying these people not just men
, people confuse dating, fuckingand the talking stage.
Speaker 2 (22:04):
They confuse all of that.
It's not one thing.
Speaker 1 (22:07):
I think I'm going to say with all of it, like it's
not one thing.
I think I'm gonna say with allof it I think when the feelings
get in and you know the feelingsin that's when shit gets tight.
I know some of the things thatwould get you to them feelings,
but it's, it's like I said, likeI think what rayana said going
raw, having sex first of all,you talking about spending night
.
Speaker 2 (22:22):
No, that's what?
Fuck you up.
I don't know why everybodythink it's just so like uh what
they call it lackadaisical tofuck raw because it's not it's
not.
Speaker 1 (22:31):
That's why I'm saying you got.
Even if you're not thinkingabout trusting somebody, you
have to trust a motherfucker togo raw with him.
Speaker 2 (22:36):
That's trust I'm playing with my life I'm playing
with my life okay, I don't knowwhat the fuck just happened
y'all, but yeah, no, I feel likethey definitely wrap it up.
They do, but that's not whaty'all should do.
And my thing is, like I said, Ithink my shit froze on y'all,
but I don't know why people areso lackadaisical with fucking
raw because, baby, that's whatget it, so that's what does it
(22:56):
okay I think the spending nightis more you know, into the
feelings than than raw a lot ofpeople not going to submit to
those type of entanglementsbecause of false pride.
Most will let it slip out oftheir hands before they make it
official.
Speaker 1 (23:10):
Hey give me some OG Cam.
That's what I'm saying like.
That's what happens a lot oftimes you'll let some yeah,
you'll let some slide pastbecause of your pride, like you
don't want to, you don't want toseem like, but like, hold on,
like on.
Speaker 2 (23:25):
Martin, you remember on, martin, when Gina was
getting ready to walk out andthat nigga was like yeah, why we
gotta get to that.
Like old Martin you rememberold Martin, when Gina was
getting ready to walk out andthat nigga was like wait a
minute, yeah, why we got to getto that point.
Though.
Speaker 1 (23:31):
Like I said this, I cracked the jokes about it.
It didn't happen to me before.
Man, you say tender?
Yeah, I'm tender with the threepiece with the honey mustard.
Put the biscuit on the side.
Speaker 2 (23:39):
We like that.
I'm chicken tender, we likethat.
Speaker 1 (23:44):
But you don for sure that that energy gonna get
reciprocated and you say youtender.
That's when you start gettinglike damn, you know I'm saying
start making you feel a wholedifferent way, because I didn't
open up how I feel and noinjuries, what you know.
Energy want to reciprocate,like, for instance this happened
I had this topic before withthe fellas.
Have you ever had a female sayI love you, while y'all kicking
(24:05):
it and you didn't love her?
So what do you do?
Do you be like?
No, do you be like?
Speaker 2 (24:10):
Oh, I say I love you to everybody.
I don't give a.
Let me tell you.
That's why I be trying to tellpeople.
This is why this conversationis not healthy for me, because
I'm trying to tell you if youlook at all my hoes number I
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no-transcript.
Speaker 1 (24:36):
Awkward if he don't say it back to you, but this is
what you really feel about.
How do you feel then?
Speaker 2 (24:40):
you can't, you can't ask.
I'm a verbal person becausewhen I be dead ass serious and
I'll be like that's how you oh,I take my shit back.
You got me that's what I'msaying?
Speaker 1 (24:49):
I'm a joke, so why would you take it?
Speaker 2 (24:51):
no, no, I'm joking person, but in the back of my
mind I'm thinking like thisnigga don't fuck with me like I
fuck with him.
And I let you know that I justdidn't say it all seriously.
I said damn rob, you ain'tgonna say you love me back,
ain't that a bitch?
I meant it.
Speaker 1 (25:02):
I really love you so, even if you're saying it like
that, my question becomes wheny'all separate, and you got that
on your mind how do you dealwith that?
Speaker 2 (25:09):
I'm going to keep my other lineup Because obviously
Rob don't love me yet, so I'mkeeping my lineup.
I'm not going to lie to you.
I am a faithful person.
I can be faithful, but, baby,I'm not cutting shit off Until I
know for goddamn sure that thisis what we on.
I ain't letting, I ain'tletting shit slide.
Speaker 1 (25:25):
That's my point.
That's why I said and what Iman?
Speaker 2 (25:27):
well, oh, gee, man, I'm gonna, I'm screenshotting I
listened to misty and courtneyand sent her ass a smiley face
thank you.
Speaker 1 (25:33):
I got a screen, and what?
Speaker 2 (25:34):
reaction did you get?
Speaker 1 (25:38):
I got a screenshot.
Speaker 2 (25:38):
I let a lot of good women go, not knowing how to man
up and man down.
Oh my god, cam, when you comingon the fucking show he posted
been on, because that's what itis these niggas don't know how
to man up.
That's why they're gonna fuckaround and lose the love they
life yeah because they don'tknow how to be men and they
don't know how to just say fuckit.
Let me just show my feelings.
We do women.
Speaker 1 (25:57):
Go all in, but y'all y'all are more in touch with
your emotions most of y'allanyway, it's tough and see og
this is the thing.
Og can say that because guesswhat og, he is og, so he didn't
been through enough to get tothat point, maturity level wise,
like yeah, I know this.
When a nigga in his 20s, andsometimes even in 30s, like,
well, you know, I'm afraid, whendo you jump off the ledge?
(26:18):
Because when you let somebodyknow how you really feel fuck
that talking.
And when you read, like I said,and I ain't like that, I heard
you was with, you know, not evenon, I investigated, came back
to me.
I don't like that you would alldo and guess what, I'm jumping
off the ledge.
Speaker 2 (26:31):
So.
So what's up?
So what we're gonna do then.
Speaker 1 (26:33):
So now, that's see that what's up, no, what you
gonna say.
Speaker 2 (26:36):
What's up, well, what we're gonna do now.
Speaker 1 (26:37):
That's the reciprocation.
Now you're gonna tell you likeI want to go this level with you
, okay but what if you don't saythat?
Now I'm crushing because youlike.
Why?
Speaker 2 (26:44):
are you scared to be crushed?
It's okay.
Speaker 1 (26:46):
Y'all.
This the thing.
This why you asked about whenwe had the conversation about
cheating.
Women can get cheated on.
Y'all can figure out and goback and be like I get my leg
back.
Whatever y'all do, y'all becool with it.
Once a nigga get cheated on, itbe the end of the world because
you done crushed that nigga egocrushed by telling me you love
(27:09):
me or you gonna love me, and getyour like that.
That's not fair.
What the fuck?
It ain't wrong letting a personknow you care.
When you care, we are grown,and that's what I'm saying.
That's the thing, that's whatwe saying.
Speaker 2 (27:15):
We saying, hey sister , and shout out the, shout out
the od, I love you.
Um, that is why that's what wetalking about.
Says when is you supposed tolet a motherfucker know you care
, like, when is it too soon tobe?
Like, I feel, feel some type ofway?
Or when is it who the fucklight skin Nigga this light?
Speaker 1 (27:32):
That's the truth, though, what was just said.
I don't know if OG's still inthere, but I want to tap in like
that, because that's the real.
Like when do you let somebodyknow?
Because if you jump for a mantoo, when you jump off a ledge
and you get crushed, it'sdifferent, like y'all just get
crushed and I'm not saying it'sfair or nothing, but y'all get
crushed.
Y'all bounce back from that,motherfucker.
Like you said, I'm going backto my lineup.
I'm cool.
Speaker 2 (27:50):
A nigga get crushed?
No, we don't.
We be at home crying snobbugsand tears, but y'all get through
it.
Speaker 1 (27:54):
No, right, you will too, we know.
Speaker 2 (28:13):
We not going to bounce through it.
When y'all get crushed, y'allgonna straight tell your
homegirls y'all gonna have anight together, y'all gonna eat
ice cream, okay, no, you justanswered your own question.
That's why we get through it,because we don't bottle it in.
We call our girls immediatelybitch, grab a bottle right here
now.
This nigga didn't hurt myfeelings.
You gonna go home and try toact tough like you know what I'm
saying.
That's the truth, because youdon't want to.
Speaker 1 (28:27):
you sound stupid as a dude.
Calling a girl tender, it don'tsound right.
Yes, it do.
No, you can't call a girltender.
You can't call a girl soft.
Speaker 2 (28:34):
You can't say a girl dick whip, that's not something
you can say to a girl oh, you'sa liar Bitches, can't be dick
whipped.
Speaker 1 (28:39):
I'm not saying, they can't.
Speaker 2 (28:49):
I'm in agreement, but y'all can be soft too.
Speaker 1 (28:51):
That's what I'm telling you.
That's not natural.
So even like I told, you.
Speaker 2 (28:55):
Why do y'all try to fight y'all feelings is the
crazy part?
Speaker 1 (28:57):
Because you're not taught to deal with your
feelings as a man went on a tripwith a nigga and I didn't want
her to go on a trip.
If I bring this to my homeboysand like I tell her about the
trip and she's like, well, youknow, it is what it is, I'm
(29:18):
going on it on a trip with himand I'm gonna tell my homeboys
that shit.
Oh, you suck at stroking yourtender, your tender dick.
Speaker 2 (29:24):
Now you even feeling worse well, first of all, let me
just put this disclaimer outthere I'm never gonna ask a
nigga can I go on a trip withanother nigga?
I don't give a fuck if weexclusively dating.
That wasn't smart.
That was just an example.
Speaker 1 (29:37):
It ain't got to be that.
It could be like I said.
I heard you was out at themovies with him.
So, what If I say like I don'tlike you going to the movies
with him.
That hurt my feelings and youdon't reciprocate what you just
said, if you don't come out andbe like so what you mean, what
we gonna go from here.
What if you come out and belike Okay and what?
Speaker 2 (29:53):
Okay, no, when you say I hurt your feelings, as I
was at the movies, my responseis gonna be I didn't know that
that would hurt your feelings,because we're not exclusively
dating.
Speaker 1 (30:01):
Every female, not gonna say that you might have
some females.
Speaker 2 (30:03):
You think it's gonna be a female?
That's gonna hoe you.
Speaker 1 (30:09):
I'm not the feelings.
Love is a gamble anyways.
Speaker 2 (30:11):
Having feelings when somebody's a gamble, that's what
make it so great if you hit onit so you can go to mgm and
gamble, but you don't want togamble on me because they're
gonna point money.
Speaker 1 (30:18):
Come and go, feelings them motherfuckers a little,
hit a little bit harder.
I could lose two thousanddollars and be like, fuck, I get
it back let me tell you gettingyour heart broke, you gotta put
that bitch back together Icannot.
Speaker 2 (30:27):
Let me tell you, if I lose two thousand dollars, I'm
gonna be crying for a coupledays.
Been not got, been not go to nomovie if we locked in but we
not together.
Okay, grams, that's what wesaying.
See here, you see how he justseparated them words someone
locked in and together, that's,that's the that's what I'm
saying.
Speaker 1 (30:41):
That's the confusion.
That's what I'm saying.
When, do you know?
I'm like because I might feelno, no, no.
Speaker 2 (30:44):
Fuck the confusion.
What do locked in mean versuswhat was the other word?
You said?
Not together, together, how inthe fuck is we locked in?
So locked in just mean we'reexclusively dating, right, that
means you don't date anybody andI don't date anybody because
we're dating each other.
Is that what that mean, grams?
Because I need someclarification on what locked in
mean I gotta.
Speaker 1 (31:03):
So I'm looking at what og said.
Og said my first heartbreakturned me into a man on fire,
but I ran into a few that knewhow to crack the code and open
me up.
But they were someone someoneelse's woman or wife.
I'm definitely going to theapproach of situation and signs
and vibes, but I'm throughenough to know it's going to be
some fireworks relationship orhell itself, meaning mental
(31:24):
torture and headaches.
I get what he's saying.
That's the thing, that's thegamble of love.
If I sit back and open up toyou and it don't come the way I
think it's supposed to comebecause this is my like.
I said we could be talking andI open up to you, you might be
like.
I never read you like that.
I didn't read the room okay,that's communication, bro.
Speaker 2 (31:42):
What is wrong with me missing the fact that you?
Speaker 1 (31:44):
because you didn't outright say my feelings got
hurt.
Speaker 2 (31:47):
That's what I'm telling you that shouldn't hurt
your feelings, because I said Ididn't pick that up from you.
Speaker 1 (31:52):
I didn't think you wanted to be exclusive with me
Listen, if I knew that you wasunsure or you didn't want to be
exclusive with me, I would havenever opened up.
Speaker 2 (31:59):
If you were acting like you wanted to be exclusive
with me, then I would be beingexclusive with you, whether you
knew it or not.
That's the question, If you'rebeing a good nigga then I have
no reason to even fuck withanother nigga.
Speaker 1 (32:16):
See, I'm going to say what Bro just said, what Quill
just said Locked in simply meanswe have an understanding,
doesn't necessarily meanexclusive, you know.
Speaker 2 (32:24):
So here comes my question.
I agree with Mo Bugs better.
Speaker 1 (32:34):
That is because here come my question with that one.
This is what I'm saying thefeelings you have in your heart
and your mind don't mean thatthat person you talking to feel
that way, how would?
Speaker 2 (32:39):
okay, okay, you don't know till you communicate it
right, but okay.
So what is so wrong?
Speaker 1 (32:44):
with bro, so I know y'all females different what?
Speaker 2 (32:47):
what is so wrong?
You write same difference,grand.
But what is so wrong with yousaying you know what misty I'm
ready to, with you saying youknow what Misty, I'm ready to be
exclusive with you?
You know what you did the otherday?
That was kind of threw me off.
That's what made me evenrealize that I want to be
exclusive with you.
Okay, let's say, fuck yesterday, because I did that yesterday,
I didn't know you wanted to beexclusive.
Now, moving forward, if I dosomething, then your feelings
(33:11):
should feel some type of way,but it shouldn't feel.
I didn't know nothing about youwanting to be exclusive unless
you said something I just toldyou.
Speaker 1 (33:16):
Now you can ask the fellas, Fellas.
Y'all hear me.
This is what I'm telling you.
That's the vulnerability thatyou do as a man once you open up
your feelings.
See y'all feelings get crushedand y'all into them.
Speaker 2 (33:29):
It's too stressful and I don't got time to be
knowing whether you love me.
I love you.
Speaker 1 (33:33):
Damn.
I'm not going to argue that.
That's what it is when a manopen up his feelings to somebody
without knowing that that's thefeeling they got for them.
You vulnerable as fuck, that'sthe vulnerable.
You can't get no morevulnerable.
Speaker 2 (33:45):
No Relationships is different now.
They is grounds, but I thinkit's different because lack of
communication for real, for real, and I think that people don't
even get to know nobody.
They don't go through thedating phase.
Like you said, motherfuckersjump in and be like we locked in
.
The fuck is that is.
Is we together or we we not?
Fuck all the slang, fuck allthe all of that.
Is we together or if we not?
If we're not together, thatmeans I'm single and I can
(34:07):
really do what I want to do.
If we're locked in, that meansI'm single and I can do what I
want to do respectfully, so thatyou don't find out.
When we're exclusive and we'retogether and you my nigga and
I'm your bitch, then that's itand that's all.
I'm your bitch and I ain'tdoing shit now.
I never let nobody play in yourface, but all of them stages
before that's the question howdo?
you do what I want.
How do you?
Speaker 1 (34:27):
get to the next stages.
Speaker 2 (34:28):
Communication without that's, and I'm with you, can't
worry about your feelings andthere you go, I'm with you 100
it's like jumping out on faith.
Yeah, if I fuck with her, Ifuck with her.
Speaker 1 (34:37):
You, I mean, and this my thing, like it's so many
different reasons why I do mightnot want to jump off the ledge,
but it's about your feelings.
That's what it come down toasia.
Speaker 2 (34:46):
I'm coming over to that side.
Find me a girlfriend, becausethese niggas over here is lame
yeah, I feel like that's that's.
Speaker 1 (34:51):
That's that's how I go.
You know what I'm saying andthat's the thing like man.
For me, I like even you knowwhat I'm saying before I got in
my marriage.
You know what I'm saying beforewe really, because we, we, we
dated.
You know what I'm saying.
Something happened story.
(35:15):
Never forget the story end upgoing to um.
I want to say what's that?
Speaker 2 (35:17):
shit where you used to have takers.
Was that the name of it?
Yes, a little darker takersused to slap.
Speaker 1 (35:19):
So listen, I didn't even used to go out like that.
That wasn't my not everybodyknow me, that ain't my thing.
I let all the homies go, I'mgonna sit back and chill.
I remember going to get myoutfit and everything.
I went there.
You know what I'm saying.
She said come out.
I went, I'm like all right,cool, she cool.
She stopped by, swung by,talked to me a couple of times,
got some drinks for her friendsand shit like that.
But once, um, she left, shelike yeah, I'm gonna call you,
(35:39):
step out your phone when.
Speaker 2 (35:40):
I didn't get that call that night.
Oh, Grahams, you hold on.
Speaker 1 (35:56):
I'm going to tear your ass up shit.
Speaker 2 (35:57):
He was like I gotta go get her, no, and when I gotta
go get her, I was hurt.
It was like, yeah, fuck hergrams just said we gotta do too
much in a relationship.
Women really don't do shit,grams.
We don't do nothing.
Y'all don't do nothing but paybills.
Half of y'all can't makebitches have orgasms, so we be
really faking oh, shut the fuckup.
I'm talking to grams.
Damn, most of the times we befaking because y'all don't even
got no good dick.
Let's be 100.
Good dick is not a dime, adozen baby.
(36:17):
It is not a lot of fish in thesea.
Secondly, all y'all do is paybills, and now y'all new niggas
want us to go 50-50.
So y'all not even paying thebills, nigga, we cook, we
support y'all mentally.
We take care of the goddamnkids.
We do every fucking thing.
Damn you fuck with bitches thatonly cook clean and fuck you,
(36:39):
nigga.
You got a whole lot of shitgoing on.
You a fucking rapper.
She ain't supporting you.
She ain't making sure, outsideof you getting your dick sucked,
that your mental ain't together.
You fucking with the wrong typeof bitches.
That's what it sounds like.
Speaker 1 (36:49):
So for this whole conversation I got to say I was
excited for this topic.
My question comes in for theviewers.
Anybody want to tap in BecauseI want to get it.
So there's not really a settime when you should jump off
the edge, when you should gothrough a phone.
And I'm not saying it's anygood time to go through a phone,
I'm saying showing your emotion.
Speaker 2 (37:05):
I want you to stop saying that.
Speaker 1 (37:18):
No I'm saying, but that's still a sign of showing
that I care.
Going through a phone poppingup telling somebody, I don't
like you talking to somebodystalking the page, commenting on
a post, any of that shit.
Anywhere where you know yourfeelings, you let your feelings
be known.
We when do you be able to letyour feelings be known if you're
doing the right way or thewrong way?
Now you know you might go upthere, snuff a nigga because you
see him out with somebody.
Speaker 2 (37:33):
Be like fuck it, I want to snuff this nigga I mean,
I guess you just don't know,until you come out and say it
that's I'm just gonna say, uh,before I get off this live, no
one can make sure anotherperson's mental is together.
You definitely can supportsomebody mentally.
It is definitely up to you tomake sure you have healthy
mental health but you candefinitely support somebody
(37:55):
mentally.
If your nigga look like hehaving a fucked up day, damn,
you're not going to do nothingto talk to him.
You ain't going to help.
Like, yeah, you can supportsomebody mentally.
What era are you in, mobux?
What type of bitches youfucking with?
Speaker 1 (38:08):
And I'm with you, with that OG.
I'm with you.
That's why I asked how weplanned this from the beginning
and between even that OG I'mgoing to say it again and I know
you even had this happen to youor on the other end of it, or
it's know somebody.
Even when you say this is howthings going to be, you don't
know when that feeling kick in.
I don't know when the feelingkick in.
I know this.
I said when it happened to meseveral times and it happened to
(38:29):
me several times and happeningbefore it was certain incidents
when I knew like it could havebeen an argument.
It could have been a post Iseen, it could have been some
pics.
I could have heard.
She was in the club withsomebody, was in their face.
I'm like damn, like I just saidwith wifey, when I really
figured out that I wanted topursue her is after she did that
shit that night.
It took me a minute to get back, but I was.
I couldn't get it off my mind.
I'm like damn, she hold me ifit.
(38:52):
It's just a chick.
Speaker 2 (38:52):
I fuck, when I got nothing for her.
You say you know?
No, she just wanted you tochase her a little bit.
It wasn't a hold.
Speaker 1 (38:57):
To me it still was hold Because, like I said, if
it's a chick I'm just fuckingwith and just trying to fuck
with, all right, cool, youdidn't pick up the phone.
I'm only going to wait about 20minutes to 30 minutes to maybe
an hour, any bitch that wascalling.
No, you can't.
No, I'm spending them.
That's the thing.
When I spend somebody for youand you spend me, oh, I'm dumb,
(39:18):
hurt.
Speaker 2 (39:19):
I don't give a fuck if it's a test, chase what I'm
stupid hurt.
But when you do that to afemale, we supposed to be like,
oh, you spend me what you doingto mine.
Speaker 1 (39:29):
No, I'm not going to sit up.
Speaker 2 (39:30):
I agree.
Jerron what's name?
Just said that.
Cam said that's why he askedfrom the beginning what it's
gonna be, and that's what I doagree with as well.
When you in the first couple,at this big age that I am, when
we're in the first couple daysof conversating, we need to know
what's going on.
Are you trying to fuck?
Are you trying to get in arelationship?
Are we just cool?
Are we friends?
Speaker 1 (39:50):
Put that shit on the floor I gotta get bro that,
that's true I ain't got too muchmore room for.
No, I'm with, I'm with thatwhat bro just said, that hey,
that's the one I would pin ifthis is my life.
Good women are a law alonebefore it's official.
That's true.
That's something I know forsure.
When a female feeling, you shegonna cut everybody off any
motherfucking way I just saidthat.
Speaker 2 (40:08):
I said, if you doing what you're supposed to do, I'm
gonna be exclusive to you anyway, whether you know it or not
yeah just because this is what Ifeel like y'all fuck up at.
Two is me.
And just because I don't say toyou like I'm only fucking with
you, I want to be.
That don't mean I'm out herefucking with nobody.
If you're doing what you'resupposed to do, I'm not gonna be
doing nothing.
You feel me, I'm gonna bechilling.
Speaker 1 (40:25):
So it is what it is that's what I'm gonna say before
we get out of that.
That's that's what I'm going tosay for all the fellas, because
all females do it anytime.
But for all the fellas, if youfeeling her, I'll give a fuck
what the situation is.
If you feeling her, go aheadand let her know.
Don't wait, fuck it.
If your homeboy's going toclimb you, you're going to be
tender, three-piece tender, withthe honey mustard on the side.
(40:46):
Go ahead.
Speaker 2 (40:49):
And, ladies, if you love that man, tell him day one,
Because I tell him day one, andthat's why y'all ain't got your
boyfriends no more, becausethey love me, because I love
them and I don't give a fuck.
Speaker 1 (40:58):
I ain't going to lie to you.
That's one thing I don't knowhow to do for females, but I
know when a female tell you loveyou, is she lying or not?
It make you feel good.
Speaker 2 (41:08):
You be on cloud nine.
Speaker 1 (41:09):
Listen, I Boy.
How do we describe her Littlemama, red bone chocolate thing,
my bitch, whatever my throat,goat, whatever the fuck you call
her.
My juice box, whatever you callher.
You're going to say that petname and you're going to be like
nigga she love me, nigga Boy,fuck you.
That's how it go.
Nigga, she love me, nigga, Ilove all y'all.
Speaker 2 (41:27):
How about that?
Now let me stop, because nevergonna get no fucking boyfriend
now, if they listen to thispodcast because you giving out
too much game, you giving aplaybook.
Just start calling me hitch,that's it.
I'm never gonna.
Speaker 1 (41:38):
I'm hitch, that's it now you got somebody gonna
listen to what we're talkingabout right now.
One of them motherfuckers onthe sideline ain't gonna be put
the pressure on you tonight.
They're gonna pop up at yourcrib unannounced.
This how I feel.
What's the?
You know I'm gonna tell you theline too.
Oh man, shit, I gotta ask you,misty, I know you watch love
john.
It's the part when he's sittingat the bar and he let him know.
(41:59):
Like nigga, I'm love struck.
But what did he say?
this no, I, I don't know, notthe urgent like a motherfucker
part right, not that that was inthe rain yeah, that was it when
he was like no, that's what hesaid to her yeah, when he said,
like it's the part, like thatthe bar, or something, he said,
so you know, I know what you'retalking about.
What?
Speaker 2 (42:17):
do with the glasses they was playing.
I know just somebody.
I just can't remember the line.
Now I'm finna, go home watchlove jones, because now I gotta
know yeah, that's, that's it,man.
Speaker 1 (42:23):
You know I want to call my partner man, but I know
his ass, probably at work,because I know you know the line
I'm talking about.
But that's that's it.
That's the line like once youin love or you got them feelings
.
Not even love, you just gotthem deep feelings.
Ain't shit you can do about it.
At that point you can play hardas you want to, you're through,
you're cooked, it ain't nothingyou can do about it.
When it get there, it's there.
Speaker 2 (42:42):
Well, I mean I don't know what to tell y'all Love is
love, lust is lust, tripping istripping.
Speaker 1 (42:58):
Quick question what's the part of this?
Speaker 2 (43:00):
uh no, this ain't I had to move in love jones when
he at the bar, what's the linewhen he let dog know, like he in
love, he like he ain't nothinghe can do about it.
Um, she put that.
Speaker 1 (43:07):
Um, oh, we don't what movie I know what you're
talking about, bro.
Speaker 2 (43:11):
I'm so mad because I know the movie line and you know
I don't never forget movielines they can hear you bro she
put that Jones on you.
Speaker 1 (43:18):
Duh, duh she put that Jones on you well that's it the
.
Jones is the Jones once you getthere good looking, bro man,
because we on the podcast rightnow we live.
Yeah, once you get hit withthat area, when it's ain't
nothing you can do, you can'teven hide your feelings.
Speaker 2 (43:34):
No more, you done let some shit slip out you wouldn't
even want to let slip out.
I'm going to watch Love Jones.
Speaker 1 (43:37):
Lord, that's it.
I done been there before.
You let some shit slip out thatyou didn't even want to let
slip out.
You done jumped off thatmotherfucker without any safety
net.
You like, fuck, good looking.
You want to get out of here, nodoubt.
Last thing you said when thatJones come down, it's a
motherfucker.
That's what he said.
When that Jones come down, it'sa motherfucker, that's it.
I knew bro remember it becausethat's one of his favorite
(43:59):
movies.
When that Jones come down, it'sa motherfucker.
That's the truth.
I'm going home to watch it forreal.
Speaker 2 (44:08):
All right, brody, stop playing.
Well, before I get about here,I just want to tell the ladies
and the fellas, for real, forreal, find y'all person, stop
playing with y'all feelings.
I'll be on here talking shit alot of times.
I ain't found my person.
You feel me.
But if y'all done, found y'allperson, don't be scared to tell
them that, that they your person.
Tell them how you feel, and ifthey don't feel the same, guess
what?
Fuck them.
You can't make a motherfuckerlove you, but if you love a
(44:28):
motherfucker, tell them what itis and move around.
If they don't love you, yourlove deserved to be loved.
Everybody deserved to be loved,and that's that I knew, I knew,
bro, I knew that line.
Speaker 1 (44:37):
That's the line when that love jones come down, when
that jones come down, it's amotherfucker.
That's the truth.
When it hit, that it hit.
So you know that's what it is.
So you know what.
You've been vibing to mistybefore we get up out of here um,
I have been vibing to thisfucking song called uh.
Speaker 2 (44:55):
I'm about to tell it to you because, baby, I had just
discovered it and it might be,oh, but I have this shit on
repeat.
Do you hear me?
It's called.
That's you by?
What's his name?
Lucky day, it's dope I gottacheck.
Speaker 1 (45:07):
You gotta send that to me, yes, you gotta listen to
it.
Speaker 2 (45:09):
Oh my god, oh god, yeah, you gotta listen to it.
Speaker 1 (45:12):
It's the shit send it to me.
I'm gonna tell you what I'vebeen vibing to.
I had to these motherfuckersbeen dropping these diss tracks
back to back.
Speaker 2 (45:18):
Oh yeah, they've been tripping.
Oh, I liked it.
Speaker 1 (45:19):
The euphoria, nobody liked it, but I liked it no, I
ain't gonna know motherfuckerswho don't like listening lyrics,
then, like I tell it's twosides we're gonna get out of
here.
It's literally two sides ofthis.
When you're a motherfucker,that's wanna hear some shit, you
can bop to and ride to.
Or you wanna hear some lyrics.
If you wanna bop some shit, yougonna say Drake was winning in
Kendrick's shit week.
(45:40):
If you wanna hear some lyrics,man on that Euphoria.
Speaker 2 (45:43):
Kendrick went hard on several different beats, all of
them he winning.
Speaker 1 (45:46):
He went crazy the ones like that?
The family, was it not likethat?
I'm getting mixed up, but it'sthe one.
I know the beat.
It started off with that TeddyPendergrass and that
motherfucking Euphoria man.
He got on Drake's ass.
I said God damn, I'm not sayingDrake wasn't firing back, but
he got on his ass dog.
I said woo, no homo.
(46:07):
I said man, fuck Nate.
So that's what I've been.
That's like when you combineall these tracks together you
got like a little nice little EP.
It's like about seven or eightof them motherfuckers.
You can ride off a minutelistening to that shit, no for
sure.
So that's what I've been vibingto.
So we're going to get out ofhere.
Man, where can they catch youat, miss?
Speaker 2 (46:24):
Just Misty on all social media y'all.
If you search it, I'm it'sMisty Summers, m-y-s-t-i-e on
all social media platforms.
Speaker 1 (46:35):
You can catch me, bobby Frost, on all social
medias and IG.
You can catch me on robber.87and Bobby Frost Media Turning up
.
So, summertime coming in, let'sget it.
We about to do another liveevent too.
I'm putting that together now,so we're going to get y'all some
word on that no-transcript.
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