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August 21, 2024 • 58 mins

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Can modern relationships survive without breaking traditional gender roles? Join us as Bobby Foss, Misty, and Courtney Lynn navigate the intricate dynamics of contemporary love and commitment in this lively episode. Misty shares her excitement about becoming an empty nester and her cautious steps into the dating scene, while Courtney reveals how she's been filling her downtime by binge-watching shows and expertly maneuvering through life on crutches, much to the amusement of her friends and family.

Our conversation takes a deeper turn as we confront the frustrations many women face after years of performing "wifely" duties without a proposal. We challenge the conventional wisdom around who should pop the question and dissect the practicality of traditional roles in today's economic landscape. With humor and candidness, we debunk outdated expectations and highlight the modern reality where both partners often need to work to maintain a household. Financial responsibility, budgeting, and the importance of mutual recognition and effort in relationships are also on the table.

To cap it off, we address the complexities of moving in before marriage, the evolving gender roles in relationships, and the often taboo subject of sexual preferences and boundaries. We explore societal pressures, personal anecdotes, and the crucial need for clear communication about future plans. Tune in for an episode that's equal parts enlightening and entertaining as we navigate the expectations, standards, and financial realities of love in the 21st century.

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Bobby Frost (00:00):
Yo, yo yo, it's your boy, bobby Foss, and Bobby
Foss Media presents Triperacy.
I am with the beautiful ladies,just Misty.

Jus Mystie (00:06):
Hey, y'all hey.

Bobby Frost (00:08):
And Courtney Lynn.

Courtney Lynn (00:10):
Hello.
Oh God God.
I swear to God, bro, I did thatshit on purpose.
It's always Courtney.

Bobby Frost (00:17):
Courtney, it's always Courtney man.

Courtney Lynn (00:19):
Always hey y'all.

Bobby Frost (00:20):
So what y'all been on, we gonna get into it man, I
miss my homies.

Courtney Lynn (00:25):
Your enthusiasm, I'm um.

Jus Mystie (00:27):
No, my little cousin said Vibe check in this group
chat Is a one out of ten.
I said yeah, I hate to be theold bitch In the group, but what
the fuck is a vibe check?
She was like the morale of thegroup.
I said, bitches, 8am we all havework Like, if you don't get the
fuck out of here.
But no, I've been chilling,working per usual, getting ready

(00:49):
for this freshman year for myson and preparing to live the
life of a bachelorette.

Bobby Frost (00:57):
Ooh, I got to give you a clap on that one, ooh.

Jus Mystie (00:59):
I have never Empty nester.

Courtney Lynn (01:02):
Listen okay.

Jus Mystie (01:03):
Technically.
And it's so crazy because I wason the phone with one of my
other kids and he went throughthe timeline because I'm like
nigga, I am here by myself andhe was like that's crazy,
because first it was Dynasty,and then it was Dynasty and
Mooch, and then it was Mooch andme and then it was just Mooch.
He went down the timeline and Isaid damn, I have never lived
by myself, ever, so this iscrazy.

Bobby Frost (01:23):
Now you can walk around just ass.
and I'm doing the ball, dancingdance okay, I am excited so
we'll see.
I hope you just don't getlonely and get them cats and
shit going in there.
I ain't gonna get lonely becauseI got a little boo thing right
now.
Oh, a little.
Yeah, we're gonna see how thatwork out.

(01:44):
I don't even want to tell y'allabout him yet, because every
time I tell y'all about him itgo bad.
So I'm just going to let y'allknow that I'm dating somebody.
Oh my God, exclusively.
I got my six boyfriends on thebench and I did not say that I
stopped coaching the teamBecause I don't know where this
is going to go, but I do gotthem on the bench and they not
getting no playing time.
Damn.
Well, it happens.
So what you been on to Courtney.

Courtney Lynn (02:05):
I literally been sleeping my life away.
Mm-hmm, that's it All right.
Sometimes you got to rest up.

Jus Mystie (02:13):
I always got to chime in on her shit.
That's it for real.
I really ain't been talking toCourtney y'all for real.
Like I saw her today and damnnear wanted to hug her, like hey
, um, you've been going outagain.
We said this last time, butevery time I look at your
fucking snap, you're somewhereand you ain't told no shit about
it.

Bobby Frost (02:31):
I'm going to tell you how it happened Me staring
at the walls day in and day out,like literally.
I got every app you can thinkabout and I'll start watching
the show and just put it on.
Give me some of your passwords.

Jus Mystie (02:40):
Why Can you got Disney Plus?
I need that one.

Bobby Frost (02:43):
I don't watch nothing because I need Paramount
.

Courtney Lynn (02:46):
No, I need Disney Plus.

Jus Mystie (02:46):
I ain't got Paramount.

Bobby Frost (02:48):
Paramount and Peacock is the only two I don't
need my mama got.

Jus Mystie (02:49):
Paramount.
I need Disney Plus for real soI can watch Deadpool before me
and my little yeah, go on a dateto see the new one.

Courtney Lynn (03:00):
I don't think I seen All the last season yeah.

Bobby Frost (03:03):
Coco Jones.
I didn't like it.
I got a crush on her Like amotherfucker.

Jus Mystie (03:06):
I wasn't feeling that series.
I ain't gonna lie, I tried it,but I wasn't feeling it.
Just like I don't think I'mgonna be feeling this new Martin
one that they coming out with.

Courtney Lynn (03:12):
I know.

Jus Mystie (03:13):
The prequel.

Courtney Lynn (03:14):
I think I'm gonna like that Simpsons that's a new
one.

Jus Mystie (03:21):
Like just like, just more episodes movie it's a
movie oh, okay, okay, I fuckwith the simpsons lord they
finna tell us about the end ofthe world.
We got to watch this.
We got to watch the simpsons.

Bobby Frost (03:31):
But like you know, I get tired of sitting around
all the time and just staring.
So I literally got out to go tothe store to grab me something
to drink and I said you knowwhat fuck that I'm about to?
Because I'm like it'sny Ithought it was corny, I'm like
what the fuck?
I look like going on crushes toa bar.
But I said you know what, tiredof looking around this bitch, I
ain't had a lineup in over amonth.
I'm like, yeah, I don't give afuck, I'm going to go in there.

(03:55):
I went in that motherfucker andit was because I went on seats
at the bar.
You think you can put a seat,because they take all the seats
away from the bar.
Oh, okay, like, yeah, I got youand I came in that bitch and,
surprisingly, not man.
I was getting mad love in thatmotherfucker being on crutches.

Courtney Lynn (04:10):
Yeah, that's like bringing a kid somewhere or a
dog somewhere.
That's getting all thatattention.

Bobby Frost (04:15):
Yeah, I'm like damn , I'm like cool, got up.
I said, boy, I don't want tofall on them.

Courtney Lynn (04:21):
Your arms going to be heavy as hell on them,
crutches oh.

Jus Mystie (04:24):
God, you was leaning all on the crutches.
Them bitches snapped from thebottom, but I made it through,
so it was cool man.
So that's all I've been on, sohow much longer you got right?
I was just going to say howmuch longer you got on them
crutches.
I don't.

Bobby Frost (04:38):
I won't walk like my.
The earliest I'd be walking onmy own and that's everything go
great and I'm healing like superfast, we'll be in Christmas.
Well, that's why I said 24 wasdone.
I'm like well, that's why I gotup.
So we're going to get into thetopic man.
So it's a great topic becauseit relates and we always talk

(05:02):
about relationships and themarriage thing that I hear
females say why do you wait Togive a man your all?

Courtney Lynn (05:12):
It's really not even us, it's y'all saying that
to us.
To where y'all program thatnarrative in our fucking head.

Jus Mystie (05:18):
Like.
What would they be saying?
Why buy the cow when you getthe milk for free?

Bobby Frost (05:22):
Yeah, Y'all say that shit, y'all say that shit,
y'all, the ones who be.

Courtney Lynn (05:26):
Y'all got us scared.
It's just like everything elsebecause we think we're supposed
to do that shit.

Jus Mystie (05:31):
But now y'all and y'all, fuck y'all, open y'all,
because we do it and we do itfor so long, and after I've been
doing this wifely shit for fiveyears and this nigga ain't
asked me to marry him trying tofigure out what the fuck going
on.
And then, when we bring it upin conversation, he say, well,
if it ain't broke, don't fix it.

Courtney Lynn (05:47):
I think that y'all don't realize how much
y'all.

Jus Mystie (05:50):
Even though, even though we independent right
these new eras, these bitches isindependent, we do everything
by ourself it is still naturalfor us to be submissive.

Courtney Lynn (06:05):
I don't give a fuck what lead.
So when y'all put out a stigmaout there, then it's just all we
, we.
It's natural for men and womento be together any fucking way.
The world can't go wrong wrongwith just men.
The world can't go wrong withjust fucking women.

Jus Mystie (06:13):
We need each other yeah, and and I need for you to
recognize that I've been doingwifely shit and bitch it's time
to say will you yeah, marry me.

Courtney Lynn (06:21):
I can't marry myself, and that's just one
thing.
And and I ain't gonna ask you,Chrissy fucked that up for us
man.

Bobby Frost (06:30):
Ever since she asked.

Jus Mystie (06:31):
Jim Jones that and still ain't got married.
What I didn't even fucking knowthat I thought he at least took
the bitch to the courthouseafter that.
No, Listen.

Courtney Lynn (06:38):
Jim Jones, you a rough motherfucker.
15 more years and they stillain't married.
He tried to, but she declinedit and basically was like
basically oh you gonna marry meafter.
I didn't ask you to marry mebecause she's not even feeling
that shit no more.
It was like a couple years agohe tried to, but it was on some
we might as well get marriedtype shit, not no yeah so it's
like I'm you living here and I'mliving there, like we ain't

(06:59):
gotta do shit if we my thingalways been with.

Bobby Frost (07:02):
That is like when I hear females say I understand
it.
I don't think it's right.
I'm like it's dumb as hell tome.
But I understand the train ofthought.
I'm not going to give youeverything.

Courtney Lynn (07:14):
I thought you were talking about women
proposing to men.
I don't think nothing wrongwith that.

Jus Mystie (07:19):
Bitch.

Bobby Frost (07:21):
She almost called you a bitch.
That's my line.

Courtney Lynn (07:23):
She ain't never called you a bitch.
You can call a robber a bitch,I don't.

Jus Mystie (07:24):
She almost called you a bitch, that's my line.
She ain't never called you abitch, she just.
You can call Rob a bitch, Idon't.

Bobby Frost (07:27):
I don't think there's, no, there's.
I don't think nothing wrongwith that.
I mean like, because I'll goback to this If we gonna be
traditional, be traditional witheverything.
No pick and choose, we gonna betraditional.

Jus Mystie (07:36):
Okay, but that's good For a man, it's tradition
for a.
That's what I'm saying.
That's traditional.

Bobby Frost (07:41):
So if you're, going to be traditional with therapy,
traditional everywhere else.
Don't pick where you want to be.
Traditional Meaning EverythingLike if we're going to go that
way, let's go back to what itused to be you and that
motherfucking barefoot, pregnantand put on our babies, and you
sit your ass home and shut up.

Courtney Lynn (07:53):
Okay, no, no, no, no.
And he tailored.
You got a tailored shit to yourrelationship.
I don't give a fuck what ifyou're not a billionaire or rich
.
Ain't no man?
Can't no man take care of awoman and let her sit at home

(08:13):
barefoot and fucking pregnant?
In this day and age, everythingis high as fuck.
Both of you bitches gotta work.

Bobby Frost (08:15):
No, I think you can do it, even if you this is what
I'm saying.

Courtney Lynn (08:19):
This is what I'm saying you gotta be making an
hour for her to for you to takecare of the kids and her I'll
break this down real quick.

Bobby Frost (08:26):
I done this before plenty of times.
My house, I'm talking about2024.
Shit is high you look, itreally goes to where you stand
at, so I'm just gonna use wherewe're at in flint and
surrounding areas.
It's not super duper highcompared to, like, prime example
, million.
If you had a million dollars ingenesee county your bank
account you're living decent,real good.
Okay, we ain.
You had a million dollars inGenesee County, your bank
account.

Courtney Lynn (08:45):
you're living decent, real good.
Okay, we ain't got a milliondollars in the bank account.

Bobby Frost (08:46):
No, I'm just saying if you had a million dollars
living in San Francisco orCalifornia or New York, that
million is going to look like$100,000 here.
So I'm saying that to say this.
I have brought this down.
I said you have to look atstuff real quick and I'll run
around.
Let run around.

(09:07):
Let's say your mortgage is 13001200.
Let's say your consumer poweris in the winter I'm gonna go
with the winter 400.
That's 1600.
Let's say your water bill isflint.
Water bill is highest help.
In other places they only haveto pay this three times, so I'm
gonna use the flint one.
That's the highest one.
Everywhere else they put thatshit every three months, which
is crazy if you own your homeyeah, so we got 1600.
Let's say your water bill permonth is $150.
So now we at $1,750.

Jus Mystie (09:28):
What who?
Water bill $150 a month inFlint.
Get the fuck out of here.
My water bill $2,496 right now.

Bobby Frost (09:35):
No, I'm saying it depends on what you're doing
with it.
You know what I'm saying, Iknow.
That's why I said 1800 phonebills, depending on how many
kids?
We're gonna say just y'all twophone bill gonna be about 150
ish because you're gonna bepaying for the newest iphone per
month.
So now we at 1950 round it offto 2000.

(09:57):
Grocery shopping, if you'regonna grocery shop, just though
it's two of y'all I like to cookand eat, so yeah, I'm to be
honest about that, because thatshit done went up, let's say,
$600.
So now we got $2,600.
You got your personal hygiene.
For both of y'all that's about$100 a month.
Car note.

Courtney Lynn (10:15):
On both cars.

Bobby Frost (10:16):
We got $2,700.
Say car note, we're going tosay $600 for both car notes,
insurance $1,200 plus $2,700.
You have $4,100.
Insurance should be about $300.

Courtney Lynn (10:27):
That's a piece.

Bobby Frost (10:29):
No, not a piece.
It depends on where you at withthat, Because mine is Well give
me your insurance.

Courtney Lynn (10:32):
people Write fucking out of here.
No, this is different.

Bobby Frost (10:33):
I do it with mine.
I pay mine every six months.
Oh okay, and break it down.
So now we're at $4,500.
You done took care ofeverything you need to take care
of.
Now you got your extra shit youcan do.
That's $4,500.
So, net pay, you're going tohave to be bringing home about
$1,100 a month.

(10:54):
I mean a week.
You can do that $1,100 a week.

Jus Mystie (10:58):
Yeah, you think we can survive off that, because we
can't.

Bobby Frost (11:01):
I just said 45.
I just covered everything youneed to cover for $4,500.
I just did it.

Jus Mystie (11:05):
And what about leisure?

Bobby Frost (11:06):
Now, that's what I'm getting to now.

Jus Mystie (11:08):
This is where shit changes at Lineups is $50.

Bobby Frost (11:13):
Yeah, that's what I'm saying.
That's where shit changes atNow.
If you bring the leisure now,this is where shit goes left at
how much are you going to?
What's your leisure?
Because everybody different.
You know what I'm saying.
I I had this happen before.
Why I keep getting raises but Idon't know where my money going
.
I tell you where your moneygoing.
Every time you get a fuckingraise you start getting extra

(11:34):
shit.
You living above your means.
So now that's why I said so.
Like say, you got a job again,you got a job making about 25 an
hour.
You're gonna be close toclocking, close to clocking a
thousand.
You might have to get a secondjob.
Once you get that second job,you'll be clocking about 1300 a
week.

Jus Mystie (11:51):
You can cover and this is only with the man
working with the man so herecome the problem.

Bobby Frost (11:55):
Hold, let me finish this problem now.

Jus Mystie (11:56):
If you get that second job, guess what you don't
have time for the woman okay,this is what I think
realistically, though, I thinkthat was something you just said
was the main reason it happened.
All the time People liveoutside of their means because a
lot of shit that you see andagain, this is only what we see
and what people post.
But I've also seenmotherfuckers on TikTok where
not saying it's only him workingor her, but they got regular

(12:17):
income.
You know what I'm saying?
They ain't rich.
Them motherfuckers travel allthe time.
They travel all the time.
They got two, three kids, butthey budget like a motherfucker
you know what I'm saying I don'tthink that I'm not, and I'm
about to say I think blackpeople just getting hip to this
budget and shit for real.
For real and because it getsdone.

Courtney Lynn (12:32):
I wasn't taught in my household like my mama
will spend money on what shewant and pay bills last, like
figure out how to pay bills last, and that's because she had
money.
She worked in the shop all herlife, so it was just like she
did shit backwards and she hadmy stepdad so she could blow a
check and he was going to coverit, but then, when they broke up
, it's like now you don't knowhow to manage motherfucking

(12:54):
money.

Bobby Frost (12:55):
Because women are different.
I just said this me and mydaughter shout out to my have a
job as long as her bills paid.
Let's see, got $1,000 over leftfor the month and the bills
paid.
She's not putting that $1,000.
She about to go see Boob Raw.
I'm about to go get a purse.
I'm about to go get eyelashes,me and my girl about to have a
girl night.
We about to get that $1,000gone I.

Courtney Lynn (13:20):
But like I was just joking when I said I was,
I'd be at home sleep, no, I'd beat home because as soon as I
walk out that fucking door I'mspending money.
So if I really don't have to beoutside.
I'm.
I'm disciplining myself, causeI used to be like, oh, it's a
nice day, I need to be outside,but I'm not.
I'm outside doing what?
Right, if I gotta go to adoctor's appointment or go visit

(13:42):
somebody, I will.
But if I'm just outside now,I'm in unnecessary stores.
Now I'm in Target, I'm in TJMaxx, I'm in Burlington, I'm
spending money like.
I got it and I'm not evenworking right now.

Bobby Frost (13:52):
So I stay my ass in the house.
That's why I go back totraditionally.
If you're going to be, I'mgoing to be the breadwinner,
bring on a nigga.
If you, oh well, well, I'm atwork and shit.
I'm about to be at my friend'shouse, I'm about to be at this
bar and be at this and shit likethat.
Hell, no, because now youadding yo, you become a bill.

(14:13):
You just yourself, you becominga fucking bill.
You hired in the mortgagedepartment.
That's why I said you have totailor shit like I get
traditional.

Courtney Lynn (14:22):
That was traditional back then.
We got to figure out what'straditional and the new age, new
age shit.
Just like that man.
I don't know who that white manwas in Congress or whatever
when they made the working shitin 1942, this is 2024.
Like that shit.
That law need to be tailoredagain Like that's some shit

(14:44):
going on from 1942.

Bobby Frost (14:46):
That's why I said I don't have a problem with a
woman proposing in today's timebecause you're doing what's
better for you.
If you feel like this niggaain't ready and I'm going to
propose and see what he go with,I'm not going to look at you.

Courtney Lynn (14:56):
I don't think that's right, because a man's
supposed to find his rib.
We're not supposed to find ours, that's all traditional it is,
but it still should be like thattradition.

Jus Mystie (15:07):
No, the bible is tradition it's religion.
It's a religion and traditionthese things that been taught?

Courtney Lynn (15:12):
okay, okay, wait, so you don't think you need to
find your rib, your wife.
For me, I'm a man who finds agood woman finds a good wife,
like it's not the other wayaround.

Bobby Frost (15:21):
I'm not arguing with y'all, I'm saying that's
this what I'm saying.
That's one part of the bibleyou use and that's one part of
tradition you're still tellingit, because if you ain't gonna
follow the whole bible, how yougonna pick and choose?

Jus Mystie (15:32):
no, the question at hand is basically what we
originally started with wasbuying the milk, buying the cow,
when you already got the milk.
My question to you as a man ishow long is it gonna take me to
show you that I'm a wife beforeyou?
Because, even though you'resaying that you gonna be, you
are the man that'll be like,okay, damn, she doing everything
right, blah, blah, I'm gonnaask her to marry me.

(15:53):
Do you know?
Niggas will let you doeverything right for years and
years, and years so you got thewrong.

Bobby Frost (15:58):
You're dealing with the wrong nigga.
That's all back on you.
You.
You got it's up to you what yougonna give out and what you not
gonna give out.
I just think it's dumb.
If I'm fucking with you andshit like this, I ain't gonna be
sucking his dick this way and Iain't gonna let him put it in
my ass.
I'm just using the sex part, soI don't know what all I'm

(16:18):
getting from you sex.
So I'm hoping I marry you andyou get freakier.
This is my thing on that.

Courtney Lynn (16:23):
We don't have a problem with doing that.
Y'all ridicule women who dothat and be like you do that
with everybody you think I'mfinna this bitch be sucking on
everybody, or whatever like that.
It's y'all's stigma that y'allhave on us that's making us be
like that, like when I come inand shit Because if I'm with you
, I'm thinking we're going to betogether.
So, yes, I'm pulling out allthe tricks because I'm a freaky

(16:45):
motherfucker, whether I like itor I mean I like it, but I'm a
cook because I cook.

Bobby Frost (16:49):
I was just about to laugh at that what about that,
she being freaky like she can'thold it.

Courtney Lynn (16:53):
She don't like being freaky, but I'm saying
though it's like I do all thatshit but y'all talk Like this
bitch, do this and that whywould I wife her?

Jus Mystie (17:09):
and shit like that, like she ain't saving shit for
her husband.
And then they say and then inreturn it makes women to tie
that together.
It make us be like I'm notfinna, like teach this nigga for
the next bitch.

Courtney Lynn (17:17):
You know what I'm saying, because now you think
I'm too nasty to be your bitch.

Jus Mystie (17:19):
I'm showing you how you supposed to get treated, but
then you turn around and go andleave me for the next bitch and
ask the bitch to marry you anddidn't ask me.
That's.

Courtney Lynn (17:27):
And I didn't tie, I didn't do every damn thing.

Jus Mystie (17:29):
That's why Charles Gonna always pay for what the
fuck he did To.

Bobby Frost (17:32):
Helen, this is the problem coming with that.
That's the type of theindividual man that you're
dealing with, because A moremature man gonna understand yeah
, she had to be able she givingme this sloppy, toppy Hawk 2E
3000.
She had to learn it fromsomebody, but I ain't worried
about who the fuck she did thatwith.
I'm happy that she's doing itto me and only me.

(17:55):
That's why I'm fucking with her.

Jus Mystie (17:57):
That's me the problem.
They don't think we doing it toonly them.

Bobby Frost (17:59):
Yeah, now of course , a nigga go off a dribble,
because you're going to know,like how the fuck did she learn
that?

Jus Mystie (18:04):
Like I know she didn't, you ain't came straight
in the first time you did thisshit.
I'm only 37.
Do you think you the first dickI sucked?
That's what.

Bobby Frost (18:09):
I'm saying A mature man going to understand that.
So I'm glad you came in herewith some experience.
You know what I'm saying.

Jus Mystie (18:25):
Like shit.
I don't to teach me that.
Like when I came in here Iwasn't sucking dick Like Ply
said bitch, he taught her all ofthat shit.
Now she hate lanes.
You hear me, but I might bewith another nigga, that ain't
you.

Bobby Frost (18:31):
But this is the thing.
Right here I'm going to saythis and again I'm breaking bro
code, but this is the truth.
Niggas say anything fromBarbershop Talk.
Don't no nigga want to have toteach a female everything to do.
That's bullshit, you're goingto say to make her feel you're
going to say to make her feelgood, like, ooh, he love me, or
he dig me so much.

Jus Mystie (18:52):
Say that one more time for the ladies that didn't
hear it in the back.

Bobby Frost (18:53):
Don't no nigga want to have to teach a female what
to do sexually.
Freaky the game I'm gonna makeyou feel good that girl, I'm
teaching you this.

Jus Mystie (19:03):
Do you see how we say y'all contradicting, though,
because if we come equipped andsucking, your dick from the
back.

Bobby Frost (19:08):
Listen what I'm about to tell you.

Courtney Lynn (19:09):
I'm gonna be, I'm gonna be honest with you think
I want to teach a grown-ass manhow to eat my pussy or fuck me
or do anything?
so this is what you're gonnahave to, because what the last
bitch like you probably thoughtI like and I don't like that
shit.
So now I gotta teach you what Ilike over here.
And as well as that, youprobably don't like me putting
two hands on your dick when Isuck your dick.
You probably want me to justuse my fucking mouth, but I
don't know that if you don'ttell me to lose my motherfucking

(19:30):
different with y'all and I'mgonna say this and I'm going
biological, but it is differenty'all sexual organ is completely
different than ours.
It's the truth.

Bobby Frost (19:41):
So if you can suck a good dick, listen ain't, you
ain't gonna.
If you suck dick and fiveniggas told you great fire ahead
, that six nigga ain't gonnacome in that bitch.
You know what, courtney, Idon't like the way you lick it.
He gonna be like this bitch ison boy.
He gonna be telling man, thismotherfucker, headhunter boy,
like give you prime example.
I don't know if y'all ever heardthis story, but the truth I

(20:01):
know.
Y'all probably read the bookConfection of Video Fixing with
Kareem Stephens.
She said it Method man fuckedwith her regardless.
He didn't help her when she gotput out this, this and that he
and his marriage so did Shep,and you know why.
Again, she knew what the fuckshe.
Now they might have not wifedher, but they wouldn't let her

(20:22):
go nowhere because she was thatfire in bed.
When you got a fire, when youget with a chick, that's fire.
I'm being honest here.
That's the hardest thing you'redoing.
Fuck getting out yourrelationship and going into
another relationship.
When you got a chick you'vebeen fucking with and she really
knew what the fuck she's doingin bed, that's the hardest thing
to get rid of.

Jus Mystie (20:45):
The rest of that shit you can get rid of.
That's because y'all think withy'all dicks, and that's the
problem.
That's why they say we ain'tsupposed to fuck y'all until we
get married.
That was never going to work,See.
Yeah, we need to rewrite theBible.
Hold on record this.
I want you to put this on snap.

Bobby Frost (20:52):
This line right here is going to get you.
This is true.
This is what women dictate.
Y'all dictate sex.
We dictate marriage.

Courtney Lynn (21:01):
Of course we can't marry ourselves.
Well, duh.

Bobby Frost (21:03):
No, I'm saying, I'm going deeper.
We can't marry ourselves.
This is the thing.
Y'all dictate sex.
Because this is how it goes weentering y'all.
So you're going to tell a niggawhen he can fuck how he can
fuck?
Is he using the rubber?
He's not using the rubber.
Y' so we dictate marriage.
That's marriage.
No, it ain't always At the endgoal.

(21:26):
Most females not every female,not every female, but the end
goal for every female is to bemarried.
A nigga end goal, ain't that?
A nigga.
End goal is to knock thestuffings out your ass.

Jus Mystie (21:37):
Okay, that's what we want to know.
When did that change, because?

Bobby Frost (21:40):
that was supposed to.

Jus Mystie (21:41):
Yes, it was.

Bobby Frost (21:42):
Unless, I'm going to break it down.

Jus Mystie (21:43):
Oh, you's a motherfucking lie, Because back
in the day they married thembitches.

Bobby Frost (21:46):
You know why you married.
Again, I'm going back to whatit was.
Marriage literally was back inthe day was more of a business
arrangement.

Jus Mystie (21:56):
It is still now.

Bobby Frost (21:57):
That's what I'm telling you.
It was never.
A nigga felt like he wanted amarriage because that's what he
wanted to do, like he wanted amarriage because that's what he
wanted to do.
He felt like, oh, I'm going tobe a good Christian or whatever
your religion is, and I want tohave.
No, it was an arrangement.
I'm fucking with you because,let's say this right here, your
daddy might be the top.
He got the top supermarket inthe city.

(22:17):
Let's say I got a nice farm.
Well, I marry your daughter.
We all tied in, you getting mymeat, you selling at your
supermarket, we benefiting.
You can go farther than that,back when you was putting a
house together, another housetogether, a kingdom with this
kingdom.
Y'all watch the.

Courtney Lynn (22:34):
I know y'all just watch the new- Bridgerton, not
Bridgerton, but that's on theretoo.
Bridgerton, not Bridgerton, butthat's on.
There too, bridgerton, it's on.

Bobby Frost (22:39):
Bridgerton If you watch Game of Thrones,
bridgerton, but I was going wayless than that Coming to America
.
The second one.

Jus Mystie (22:44):
Oh, okay, yeah, you heard what?

Bobby Frost (22:45):
he said To keep our nations from beefing you post a
marriage.

Jus Mystie (22:49):
Well, even on the first one, he even had to do
that.
Yeah, they made him do to him,though but listen, think about
it.

Bobby Frost (22:57):
How the fuck do you think back in the day they had
arranged marriage?

Jus Mystie (23:01):
I mean, I get it.
That's what I'm saying is okay.
So nobody has ever married forlove.
Oh my god, it do happen.

Bobby Frost (23:07):
I'm not saying it don't happen to do, but I'm
going back to the real basis ofit.
Is y'all dictate sex mendictate marriage.

Jus Mystie (23:15):
Okay, okay, pause for two seconds.
So if y'all know that, andthat's what it is, why in the
fuck Do y'all ask what webringing to the table?
Because, Because, y'all alreadygot it In.

Courtney Lynn (23:24):
Y'all fucking mind that all we bringing Is sex
to the table.

Bobby Frost (23:27):
So what the fuck?

Courtney Lynn (23:27):
I'ma tell you why , why keep asking what do we
bring to the table?
I'ma break that down to youagain.

Bobby Frost (23:34):
Because times has changed now and that's you can
look for your traditional mateand you might find that it might
take your ass a week.
It might take your ass 20 years, who knows.
But, like what Courtney justsaid, you have to tell her to
what the fuck you got going on.
Now, if you come into a niggathat well you know I need a
little bit.
I don't want to just deal witha female that I'm being a
breadwinner and we keeping ittraditional.
Now he looking like what youbring into the table finance you

(24:05):
might get with nigga.
Like me, I never asked a femalefinancially what you got going
on, but I am gonna ask you,besides me getting a nut, what's
separating you from the nextbitch?

Jus Mystie (24:09):
and when I was saying brand, to say well, hey,
can you man you like?
I said?

Bobby Frost (24:10):
I said, yeah, I said this in the episode before
you might be on erica bardu shityou might get me to like y'all
use the word manifest.
I ain't never believed in thatshit, but you might be so good
with what you're doing?

Jus Mystie (24:20):
Do we got you a little?
Do you believe a little bitmore?
See what I mean.

Bobby Frost (24:22):
And that's why I brought it up Y'all done, had me
think about it, you get what?
I'm saying Y'all done had methink about it, so there might
be a female that can do that.
You might be able to know howto farm from the land, grow from
the land.

Jus Mystie (24:40):
And you don't, and you putting that on me.

Bobby Frost (24:43):
That's the shit you bring Into the table.
So go back to the guy.
But if you going traditionally,yeah Y'all sex Cause how you,
how do a woman post Come intothe marriage Traditionally and
we going by Bible?

Courtney Lynn (24:53):
Aversion.
I'm supposed to, so you'redictating sex, you, sex, you.

Bobby Frost (24:56):
coming in a virgin, I'm giving myself, my body to
you, my virginity.
Right so that's telling youfrom the Bible.

Courtney Lynn (25:02):
To bear fucking children, to bear children,
children, yeah.

Jus Mystie (25:06):
First of all, sex is .
I'm not going to say it's notsupposed to be pleasurable, it's
not supposed to be.

Bobby Frost (25:09):
It's supposed to be for reproduction, yeah, so okay
, if that's the case, then whyare we fucking if you can't take
pieces and bits out the bibleor quran?
Wherever you got, you got totake the whole thing, because
now you you're telling your shit.
If you're gonna do it one way,do it the whole way, because
that sex not supposed to bepleasurable, it supposed to be
to reproduce, just like okay.

Jus Mystie (25:28):
So the way they do it on handmaid's tale, that is
crazy.
You know, like it's literallyone position, missionary, ain't
no?
And the wife is in there, right, because I guess the wife can't
bear kids.
The wife has to be in thereholding the hands of the
handmaid.
And I'm talking about thisstraight missionary, about 15,
20 pumps, and then it's done,that's it, ain't no, like none.

(25:49):
No hugging up, no foreplay, noshit.
And that handmaid is there toostrictly.
Had a baby after she getpregnant.
Had a baby.
I think she would stay aroundy'all gotta watch this shit, but
I think she would stay aroundthe nurse for a little minute,
but then she go to another houseCause she finna have another
baby For somebody else.

Bobby Frost (26:03):
Yeah, and if you go back Until like again you watch
the Game of Thrones or shit,all that type of shit.
It show you shit like the realreason why A woman even be
bearing kids Is really to comeout.
If you get a daughter, thattheir family where y'all can
have a connection, or you'rereally looking for air I think
that's why women fought so hardfor rights and shit they did
because you know what treat uslike a piece of meat.

Jus Mystie (26:24):
No, this is why this bitch go around this is why I
say what I say.

Bobby Frost (26:28):
If you go the way that a woman was positioned in
the bible, that's why I say theystarted twisting it.
But if you really go how awoman positioned the bible,
that's what you really are ahelpmate.
You ain't got the same rights Igot.
You ain't got the same rights Igot.
You ain't got the same shit Igot.
That's why, if you look at theBible, how many female and I'm
getting off topic, but I'm goingto bring it back around how
many females you see in theBible?
They own books.
Think about it.

(26:49):
How many?
You can Google it.
Google how many females gottheir own book in the Bible.
I think it's one or two.
Off the top, I think it's oneor two.
I don't read the Bible.
It's one or two.
So that's why I said, whenpeople bring little certain
stuff out of the Bible like youever bring out the Bible, I mean
.

Courtney Lynn (27:06):
I guess the Bible worked back then.
They need to tailor thatmotherfucker now.

Bobby Frost (27:10):
Again, this is what I'm saying because the world is
different.

Courtney Lynn (27:16):
If you go back to the way you got to work back,
then this is a whole new day.

Bobby Frost (27:22):
That's why I said women got to the point like this
Cause.

Courtney Lynn (27:25):
I hate when people do say traditional and
it's like, okay, our, ourtraditional is way different
from back then.
We're not living in that timeanymore.
No, we not cave men and women,no more.

Bobby Frost (27:44):
We need to come pick this bible up and rewrite
this bitch a little bit, becausewe are in a different time.
That's why I said what I said.
So now women got to the pointwhere you know what I'm tired of
?
This shit.
I'm being, you know, looked atas an object.
I'm getting passed off to thisfamily.
This, this man not he get to gofuck that, and then so, when a
woman opened that up, that's thepandora box.
So now it gets to this point.
Now, now you get you fastforward a hundred years,
thousands of years, decades.
However you want to go, whatperiod you want to take, start
from Now.

(28:05):
You get to the point where nextaction is what do you bring to
the table?
Cause, back then, what wouldyou bring to the table?
I knew already what you'recoming to the table this week
this, your family.
Now it's coming to.
Now you got rights.
It's like what?

Jus Mystie (28:18):
you bringing so because we asked for rights.
That's what made it godifferent.

Bobby Frost (28:22):
Yes, Wow, but that's with anything, because
here come my thing right now.
Like I just said back again,you see, you've been sending
LBGTQ, whatever community.
You've been fighting for rightsfor a while now, right.
So it's going to get to a pointwhere it's not.
It's already shocking to see agay person doing this, this and

(28:43):
that, so now it's gonna get to apoint where like, yeah, like
them, right, y'all was fightingfor.
Now shit, they got to you onthe level playing field.
So not like I'm gonna give youthe prize that with the olympic
situation when they were sayinga woman, she supposed to be a
man but they can't find out shewasn't transgender, she just had
a lot of uh to test her owngetting up in there, it's gonna
get to a point where now that'sgonna be the side effect you're
gonna have niggas that was bornniggas.

(29:04):
Now they're female, they doingfemale shit and the female can't
complain I do not think.

Jus Mystie (29:09):
I think if you were, whatever you were born is no,
I'm with you just like it's backin the day.

Bobby Frost (29:15):
Certain men, still man to this day, feel like no, a
woman shouldn't have all therights.
You should be in this bitchbearing kids.

Courtney Lynn (29:20):
Shut the fuck up, cook and clean and it'd be
mostly them niggas who can't doshit for you who says that I
have really never met a man whoreally argued that shit down,
that was able to let a bitch bebarefoot and fucking pregnant.
It's always the motherfuckerwho can't do a fucking thing,
because can I stay at home forreal?

Jus Mystie (29:38):
or is you gonna to tell me I should get down there
With kids?
It's not me and you that you'retaking care of.

Courtney Lynn (29:42):
It's me, you kids , and now it's my kids, your
kids.
No, it's always a nigga whocan't do shit that want to live
by that fucking logic.

Bobby Frost (29:53):
He telling it only for him.
That's why I say A person onlygoing to tell her this shit to
they advantage yeah.
It's not going to be both ways.
So that's why I say with the, Iget the marriage thing.
Why am I coming to this bitchand give you the suck fucking
this?
I'm cooking every day, I'mcleaning every day and you might
end up fucking another bitchand leave and I just gave you
all that for what?

(30:14):
That's what we mean yeah.
On the flip side, for me, I'mlooking like I'm not sitting in
this bitch playing amotherfucking lotto or I'm at
the slots hoping that once weget married I'm going to get the
jackpot.

Jus Mystie (30:25):
I need to know.
Now, I get that too.
I get that too, right.
But so the point was but then,after we marry, what do I have
to give you if I've given youeverything?

Bobby Frost (30:35):
There you go, that's everything.
I don't want to lose you, youdone.
Show me, that's me.
I'm not saying for every nigga.
For me, you done show meeverything I wanted to see and
some shit I didn't even know.
I know.
Nah, I don't want to livewithout that.
So I want to tie you down witha marriage.
I am, I want to lock this inforever.
That's the marriage.
But for me, a woman and I donetalked to females in the.

(30:55):
It was automatic.
They didn't know.
I'm like, yeah, you through, weget to hypotetically talking
yeah, I ain't doing all thatfuck, no, nigga, I'm just
shacking up with oh, so I mean,and that's crazy, cause you
could've probably missed yourmotherfucking.
I probably did, cause I'mtelling you I feel the same way.

Jus Mystie (31:10):
I will do enough.

Courtney Lynn (31:11):
You know what I'm saying, but I don't wanna be
taken advantage of and I know,just like you said, it's up to
us whether we should leave ornot.
But it's like I guess I don'teven really have an answer for
that, because now I will say I'mnot doing years with no nigga,
like I'm not going to put anultimatum on you, I'm not even
going to throw one out there,but I'm not doing more than

(31:32):
three years with a motherfucker.

Bobby Frost (31:33):
You know what you just said Courtney, that's what
a lot of females should do.
That's real.
Coming into that motherfucking.
When y'all start gettingserious, you see that we.
So we talk about the white redflags.
We talking about now the whiteflags or the green flag.
We looking at the green flag,there's a lot of green flags
going on with this guy.
Hey, okay, so I got a plan infive years.
This is where I see us okay,because say three.

Courtney Lynn (31:55):
No, whatever it is, that's you but I will say
that I will say that what arey'all doing to make us even want
to do all of that for you?

Jus Mystie (32:04):
That be the problem too, though.
A motherfucker want to knowwhat we bring into the table.
And show me that you ready tobe a wife, nigga.
Show me you ready to be myhusband.
Again, because I'm over heredoing everything and everything,
but yet you're still asking forthat.

Courtney Lynn (32:18):
Nigga, he's making you want to do that.
So he is doing what he'ssupposed to be to show you that
he is a husband.
I hope you're not doing allthat to a nigga who is
half-stepping with you.
But what if they're thinkingthe same thing we?

Jus Mystie (32:30):
thinking I'm not finna, show this bitch.
That's what I'm about to get to.

Bobby Frost (32:33):
I was going to that next.
That was my next point.
That would sound crazy.
So so let's say again you witha nigga and a nigga feel like,
well, I ain't taking care of allthe bills in the house until we
get married, but y'all beenliving together for a year.
You're going to be like nigga,what I got a roommate Because
that's the first thing a femalesay what I got a roommate.

Courtney Lynn (32:53):
I feel like if we're living together, then
that's stupid.
You're going to pay the fuckingbills.
Because if we splitting bills,you might as well stay in your
house and I'm going to stay inmine.
So if you're living in my house, still asking half on rent or
whatever the fuck like that, itwould have never made it to a

(33:15):
signed deed like we have.
We would have never made it.
And listen, that's why I say itgo.
You still stay in separatehomes.
And then when we get married, Iguess when we get married we'll
figure out if this nigga payall the bills or not.
But if you come to me talkingabout we splitting bills and we
get in the house together,that's, it will never go.

Bobby Frost (33:22):
I'm with you because that's again the same
way you flip it.
That's like me dealing with afemale and you.
You know how mad I'll be.

Jus Mystie (33:28):
I found out, so you had all this in your bag this
whole fucking time, the twoyears we was living together,
and then you got married youmean to tell me you a real ass
nigga, and you a man that I canfollow and you ain't do that
shit these whole two years.
That's the point I'm making.

Bobby Frost (33:40):
Again.
It goes always gonna come backto what you gonna roll with and
what you not and tell youbecause if a nigga come and tell
you I ain't giving you all ofme, what, if what?
What do it mean for a man notto give you all, all of him and
y'all living together?
So y'all answer that questionwhat could a nigga not give all
of you and y'all living?

Jus Mystie (33:58):
together.
But that's also why I do feel,like I just recently told my
little yeah, like I don't thinkthat I want to move in with
nobody until we're getting tomarriage, because at the end of
the day, I feel like I alreadyknow what you was about to say.
If we don't live together, thenI have certain standards and
you have certain standards, andlong as you meet knows, then I
think we should go to okay.
Well, we everything vibing andhe I see what's on your table.

Courtney Lynn (34:20):
What's on your table.

Jus Mystie (34:21):
You see what's on my table now let's get married and
move in together quit moving inwith each other because that's
the shacking part.
Yeah, yeah, and I get it thatmotherfuckers be like well, you
don't really know how amotherfucker live until you move
with him, you do.
You will if you take your timeand date, bro.

Courtney Lynn (34:36):
Yes, I don't know , be friends first.

Jus Mystie (34:38):
I don't know, listen how can I not know how you live
if I'm standing out of yourhouse, you standing out of my
house?

Bobby Frost (34:42):
The only reason why I we talked about this before
in podcast episodes.
This is the truth.
It's a pro and con everything,and this motherfucker is a real
deal pro and con.
This bitch a 50-50.
It'll kill you.
It'll love you.
Comfortability Once I getcomfortable enough, I'm

(35:03):
self-consciously going to slipup on certain shit.

Courtney Lynn (35:05):
You get what I'm saying.
You will, too, if you're inyour own house too, and I'm
staying out of your house for aweek or two.

Bobby Frost (35:09):
So that's what I'm saying.
So when do I get comfortable?
I might not never get supercomfortable with you if you only
coming to spend night here andnight there.

Courtney Lynn (35:17):
I'm not, finna, figure that out when you.
I just feel like people our agerush into moving with each
other.
People did, they got marriedand they moved with each other.
Now they see that they can'tstand a motherfucker eating or
whatever.
The fuck the case may be, orwhatever.
When people move in with eachother, I think the focal point

(35:44):
get lost because we didn't, wedid the ultimate, we didn't move
in with each other.
So what's the rush on marriage?

Jus Mystie (35:51):
What's the rush on marriage?
What's the rush on everything?
Because in together is theultimate.
I mean, yes, marriage is theawesome, but I think that right
there is, like she said, we rush, that's every everybody once we
move in with each other.

Courtney Lynn (36:01):
And even if you do move in and you pay all the
bills and I do what I'm supposedto do, what's the point of
getting fucking married?

Jus Mystie (36:08):
they move in.
And they move in because it'ssubconsciously saying I'm gonna
know everything rob doing.

Bobby Frost (36:13):
He gotta come home at night, no pardon your clap,
because when I used to tellfemale this, they used to look
at me crazy.
When I said this, I said why doyou want to get married if
we're already in a house?
Yeah, what, why do we need?
I said, outside of the you know, heard me say before, outside
of the state of Michigan,recognizing my relationship With
a marriage certificate, yeah,right, why did I get married?

(36:34):
I'm giving you all of me now,yeah.

Jus Mystie (36:36):
Nothing's gonna change If I get married.
That's why I'm not moving inWith no nigga Ever again.
I lived with my baby daddy andI was the last motherfucker I
lived with Anybody else thatlived.
They didn't live with me, thatshit.

Bobby Frost (36:46):
I'm not moving in with no nigga until we're
married and I'm going to tellyou one of the main reasons why
you end up moving in and thatkids Because once you get
pregnant, ain't nobody going tobe pregnant in a relationship.

Courtney Lynn (36:57):
But it's a little different for me because
Courtney ain't having no kids.

Bobby Frost (37:00):
No, that's what I'm saying.

Courtney Lynn (37:08):
I'm in a different time, not rushing the
relationship and I'm notrelation the move in.

Bobby Frost (37:12):
Like even that that right there, that's done to me.
When a female said you ain'tgonna give me All of you, but
you cool having my kid, mmhmm,that's wild work right there.

Jus Mystie (37:20):
Let me tell you First, of all, the only thing I
say About a kid is we ain'tgotta be.
This has got to be a choicebetween me and you, because what
you don't know is I will dropthis motherfucker off to you.
I am a great mother, but if youact like we did not decide to
have this baby together Becausesee this coming from a single
mom Okay, so bitter Whatever thefuck y'all want to call it I
will drop this motherfucker offTo you and whoever the fuck you

(37:40):
with.

Courtney Lynn (37:40):
No, I already said you got to sign a
promissory would come have.

Jus Mystie (37:51):
I'm leaving with the two cause, I'm not.

Courtney Lynn (37:53):
I'm not and I'm being single mama three, but
that's the funny part I justsaid.

Bobby Frost (37:57):
That's the part that's crazy to me.
Like I said, I hear girls saythat well, not girl, let me say
that cause I don't want todisrespect females.
Women say I'm not not givingyou all of me to be married, but
you will give you have a kidwith me it's crazy think about
that, that train of thoughtyou're not gonna give me all of
you, but you cool with having afucking kid with me.
Which one more important?

(38:17):
the kid motherfucker like sothat's crazy the women, like
women be, and that's why I saymen do not have the same level
of society societal pressure aswomen and that's why I say women
math, girl math.
It don't add up because it'd beso much of that traditional or
societal pressure coming in thatmake them think like crazy.

Courtney Lynn (38:39):
Because even if we do be together a long time,
like I, get people we can we canalways say like they, we hate
what is it like we go somewhereand I don't care what people say
, but it is, oh, you almost 40,is y'all gonna get married?
Is when is this?
When is y'all gonna tie theknot?
Y'all been together for a whilenow.

(38:59):
Y'all did this like that's thepressure too and it's like I
don't give a fuck what nobodysay.
But in all actuality, we do sitback and think and be like when
the fuck is we gonna getmarried?
like our biological clock isticking.
Who's marrying 40 year olds?
They always go younger, likewhen the fuck is it gonna happen
?
Listen, that's why I'm notspending five years on a nigga

(39:19):
Two, two and a half at the mostbecause they say y'all know
right when y'all be with a bitch.

Bobby Frost (39:23):
Might not be today but two, I know if this the
bitch or not.
So why the fuck am I waitingthree months?
That's a lot too.
That's like some hallmark shityou don't know.
One of my friends was as soonas a man meet a woman, they know
that's gonna be their wife.

Jus Mystie (39:37):
Man, that's a goddamn lie.
Well, they say it in the movies.

Bobby Frost (39:41):
They be saying it in the movies?
Yeah, that's that.

Courtney Lynn (39:44):
But listen, I done heard.
How the fuck do you?

Bobby Frost (39:47):
think I know you're going to be my wife.
What made me know when I firstmet you I mean not the first, I
mean the first month, two, threemonths, a year the only thing I
could say you must have gotsome fire ass pussy in your head
, because what else is going tolock me in in four months to
know that I'm going to marry you?
Right, Logical.

Jus Mystie (40:06):
We talking logical now.
I know motherfuckers that got.
We know somebody from Flintthat got married that fast and
they doing just fine.

Bobby Frost (40:11):
I'm not saying it won't happen.

Courtney Lynn (40:12):
I'm saying Because if y'all both got the
same goals, the same whateverit's like, I just feel like you
got to find somebody who wantyou just as bad as you do.

Bobby Frost (40:21):
And my only the way you could lock me in like that,
you didn't show me.
Or six months you didn't gaveme.
All of you, all of you didn'tgave to me Not yet I'm not
seeing everything I can get fromyou.
I'm like hell, yeah, I don'twant this going on.
Where let's get married Now, Iwouldn't know Cause, like I said
, if I'm sitting around I'mgonna give you problems.
I just no-transcript.

(40:59):
That's what I was saying.
This is my thing.
When I debate with anybody,they think if I disagree with
your, your opinion, I, I don'tunderstand it.
I get it, but my thing again.
Once again, I really don't haveto have a three, I gotta wait.
You know that threesomes don'tusually be for the woman, unless
the woman is into women.
So again.
So I'm sitting around justpaying bills, I'm doing this,
I'm doing that and I gotta waitto get a threesome till I get

(41:21):
married.
Why the fuck I not?
It makes sense, more sense,logically, if you gave me this
shit, I'm like damn, she don'tknow, let's just be fine, and
she bring another bitch in there.
I ain't letting her go, nowhereelse.

Courtney Lynn (41:29):
I ain't about to let another nigga get that With
that attitude.
Now I probably did that for youbecause I know you wanted it.
Now you, in your mind, justlike you said, I don't want this
she doing this, I'm not doingit again, I'm not doing that

(41:54):
shit again.
Like this is gonna be some shitthat we gonna be having fun
with, because I don't like girls.
You don't know how uneasy thatwas for me to have this
threesome just to make you happy.
It was your birthday, whatever.
So when you, you thought youwas wifing me because it's the
type of time I'm gonna be on, no, this, that was just a time
that ain't gonna be a time thatyou're gonna keep having and I'm
with you.

Bobby Frost (42:04):
That's the thing I say.
Like you have to find a matureperson, because a mature person
understand like, hey, you knowwhat?
She did this just out the lovefor me.
If she, if she'll make herselfuncomfortable to do it for me,
let me lock in with her you makeyourself uncomfortable for me
and have a threesome with a boyyeah, see, some niggas might do.
I wouldn't, but you know,that's my thing that's so we.

Jus Mystie (42:22):
That's a whole nother rabbit hole, but that's
so unfair.
I think that's crazy nobody'sasking you to suck dick.
Nobody's asking you to let himsmack his balls on you, but why
can't I enjoy two men?

Courtney Lynn (42:32):
at one time, because, if I have, you know
what, I'm gonna say this rightnow and I'll stick a note in and
we can talk about it at anotherdate.

Bobby Frost (42:39):
Stick a note.
I talked to one female aboutthis and I was the dopest
conversation.
I ain't gonna say dope is oneof the dopest conversations I
had because she kept it real andwe discussed it.
I never say her name to nobody,but we discussed it and she
said, yeah, that'd be a lot offemales Fantasy, but they ain't
gonna come on and say they wannahave To diss at the same time.

Courtney Lynn (42:54):
I've been saying On previous episodes If I have,
if I have the threesome, it'sgonna be with men.

Jus Mystie (43:00):
The average female.
I do get what she's saying.
We'll be like no, I don't givea fuck.
No, that's not right, niggacause what.
Dick everywhere oh my god, I'min heaven.

Bobby Frost (43:18):
Again, I told you I'm fair to the floor.
I always thought about that.
This is me logic.
I'm like, damn if I'm and myniggas and a lot of my males are
Want two bitches in the room orthree bitches in the room and
we're freaks.
If the female freak and she'sgetting pleased by a dick, why
will she not want to have morethan one dick?

Courtney Lynn (43:36):
Yeah, logically, it's not like a great fucking
time.

Bobby Frost (43:38):
Logically, you know what I'm saying, but I know the
reason why a woman can't comeout and say it because societal
norms yeah.

Courtney Lynn (43:44):
You a hoe.
You a rat bitch you a runner,you having a train Like yeah.

Jus Mystie (43:48):
That is the one thing that I would have to say.
I like about myself most, andit's not a facade, it's not fake
, it's just that I just trulydon't give a fuck and whatever I
want to do, I'm going to do it.
And I've actually had one of mymale friends tell me like I
think that's the dopest shit twodicks at a time, and if I can
get three bitch, let's get it,cause I want to experience it.

(44:09):
To me that is what you call me.
Listen to me Cause would I stillbe a hoe if it was Chris Brown,
Gotti and another celebrity, orwould y'all be like oh, you get
what I'm saying and that's dope.

Bobby Frost (44:19):
Cause bitch.

Jus Mystie (44:20):
I'm sure if Chris Brown would say he wouldn't
every hole they want.

Bobby Frost (44:23):
I was going to say this because this is for another
episode, but I'm just going totouch on it.
No, I'm going to keep it.
I'm going to keep it.

Jus Mystie (44:35):
Keep it in your pocket, because I ain't fucking
with you.
Moral of the story today, y'all, is don't give them niggas the
whole cow and the milk.
Fuck that.

Bobby Frost (44:41):
Make them work for it and make them ask you know
baby.

Jus Mystie (44:49):
And if he do that, he ain't the right nigga.
You just said that.

Bobby Frost (44:51):
He gotta be the right nigga, Because I know you,
I look up in that bitch, I'mwaiting to see this freak and
I'm like, well, you know it'sbeen a year and I know she gotta
have better head than this.

Jus Mystie (45:00):
And she gotta be tired.

Bobby Frost (45:08):
I might bust that bitch.
She only get up on her kneesfor 10 seconds and all the teams
and bells pop up on her ass.
She can't ride no better thanthis.
Watch this.
Let me call this bitch up.
Hey baby, you know what I'msaying.

Courtney Lynn (45:20):
I just think if people would keep it real and
quit trying to go off whateversociety or whatever shit and
just do them in their fuckingrelationship.

Jus Mystie (45:30):
It would be a better , don't worry because if I let
me tell you something, if it, ifme and my little, yeah, go and
jump into a relationship, Idon't give a fuck about what.
Nobody think what we doing,where we going, how we doing it,
because nobody's in therelationship listen and we can
wrap it up what you did in yourlast relationship I don't give a
, I fuck.

Courtney Lynn (45:48):
I just know what I can do.

Bobby Frost (45:50):
We can wrap it up with that.
This is the truth For anypeople or couples that can say
fuck how society see you,they're going to be happy.

Jus Mystie (45:58):
Yeah, because, just like how I told you, we black
women get so just somethingblack women get so uptight about
like they nigga being gay type,shit man, white women be like
we be having a blast and thatmight, that might be they cup of
tea again.
That ain't shit I wanna be with, or if they ain't, gay.

Courtney Lynn (46:15):
They feel like they just freaky, yeah, like
even if they don't do shit withother men, they do it with they.

Bobby Frost (46:20):
Girls and white people are okay with that yeah,
we be like oh my god, that'sthere you go, and they be so
peaceful, they be happy La la laaround this bitch.

Jus Mystie (46:32):
Fuck what everybody say and do you with your mate.

Bobby Frost (46:34):
Yeah, they don't care what nobody else say.
If you can really feel likethat and live like that, you're
going to have a great time.
But that's if you can.

Courtney Lynn (46:42):
I feel like.

Bobby Frost (46:43):
If you can, everybody can.
Some people say they feel likethat and they fronting for the
world.
People say they feel like thatand they fronting for the world.
But if you really do not feellike that, I know how freaky I
am.

Courtney Lynn (46:51):
I know how freaky I am.
I think I could, but it's notin me to stick shit up my nigga
ass.
Yeah, I don't want to.
That's not.
That's not my nigga, that'sfucking with my mental.

Jus Mystie (47:01):
I don't want to be able to do anything with my
nigga except penetrate him.

Courtney Lynn (47:05):
Yeah, yeah, that's fucking with my mental
right there.

Jus Mystie (47:08):
That's fucking with me, for you to be letting me
fuck you Now.
I don't know.
I'm uneasy.

Courtney Lynn (47:12):
It don't got nothing to do with society or
nothing.
It's solely me.
I'm a freaky bitch, but whenyou ask me to stick something up
, that ass that's where I drawthe line.

Jus Mystie (47:22):
Hey now.

Courtney Lynn (47:23):
No, that's where I'm finna.
Beat your ass now, because whatthe fuck?

Bobby Frost (47:26):
do you mean?
It's funny y'all say that, but,like I said, one of my favorite
podcasts.
Man, that's one of them.
They made me really like.

Courtney Lynn (47:33):
What Peggy.

Bobby Frost (47:34):
Yeah, no, that's not the podcast.
Oh God, horrible decision, andwhen I?
You know what I'm saying.
Start listening to them.
You know she talk about pegging.
How many you know, guys?

Jus Mystie (47:48):
why do we got a special name?

Bobby Frost (47:52):
because it's what's been going on it's fucking in
the ass.
I don't want to know why theygive everything when two girls.
Well, they pussy against eachother.

Jus Mystie (48:01):
Well that's because y'all look like a scissor, yeah
you are getting paid if she gotsomething no If she got
something, no if she havesomething.

Courtney Lynn (48:08):
Yeah, that's pegging, yeah, that's pegging
you.
They not.

Jus Mystie (48:11):
I just it's getting fucked in the ass.

Courtney Lynn (48:13):
And you know what it's kind of.
Look at my freaky ass.
I've been seeing videos onFacebook.
I don't know if Twitter comingon Facebook.
You know the little links.
Know it's gonna be somethinggood.
But the woman who was suckingher nigga was jacking her nigga

(48:34):
off and eating his ass, orrubbing his ass or whatever like
that.
I.
I, I want to see a nigga gocrazy you gotta lick ass for
that friend, if I have aboyfriend.
Don't tell me about it, becauseI ain't gonna drink, not a nail
shot.

Jus Mystie (48:45):
If I had a nigga brush your teeth friend, I ain't
no, I ain't no if I had a nigga, that was my nigga.

Courtney Lynn (48:50):
I know I would have already.

Jus Mystie (48:52):
I just ain't got no nigga, I'm not now.

Courtney Lynn (48:54):
That's one shit I'm not giving away.
And you ain't my nigga, youain't finna say I ain't your ass
girl.

Jus Mystie (49:02):
Courtney Trippin wrap this shit up, she talking
about eating ass when she get aboyfriend.
What you been listening to, Rob.

Courtney Lynn (49:09):
No, for real.
That's one thing you shouldbitch you.
I guess I ain't getting marriedbecause I ain't eating your ass
into your mind.

Bobby Frost (49:14):
Man.
That's why I said I'm going towrap it up.
Man, Shout out to Mandy B.
Y'all didn't get to see herwhen we were down there to the
Atlanta podcast, but I hadbumped her down there, but Mandy
B is the one Sure and she in apegging.
That's when her.

Courtney Lynn (49:32):
Yeah, I listened to her.
I listened to the dude Fordthat was on Black Ink Crew.
He was one of the dudes whocame out and said he's a
straight man and him and hisgirl, or whoever he was with,
she introduced him Into thepegging.

Jus Mystie (49:43):
Well, because, before we wrap it up again,
that's because we know that'swhere your G-spot at, and once a
motherfucker come out of therethat one time, then that's just
what the fuck you want.

Bobby Frost (49:51):
I done, heard it.
I ain't never really did toomuch research because I know I'm
not going to do it, I justnever.

Courtney Lynn (49:56):
I'm not sticking to that.
Never say never.
I'm not sticking to that.

Bobby Frost (49:59):
There's a lot of things I can say never.

Jus Mystie (50:05):
That's another.
If you do one of those nevers,is you going to tell anybody
anyway?

Bobby Frost (50:08):
Yeah, no, you're not I would, but you're not
putting no peg up my ass.
I'm going to say this is gross,but we can wrap it up.
I remember when I was young,like 11 years old, 10 years old
got constipated.
My grandmother had to put thewhat's it called Potastory
Suppository and when I tell you,I was like 10, 11, 10.

(50:30):
I felt so fucked up when shedid it.
I was happy with the release,granny, but once I released, I
was like never again and shetold me stop eating all that
cheese, stop eating all thatbread too.

Courtney Lynn (50:39):
Well, tell me when you get 40, when you have
to go get your prostate checked.

Bobby Frost (50:45):
I'm like man.

Courtney Lynn (50:46):
Hope he have his ring on Listen y'all know.

Bobby Frost (50:49):
Y'all know, because it's gonna be like, damn, I
ain't talk to Robin In a minuteCause I'm gonna have to Get back
right.
Your booty gonna be like oh no.

Jus Mystie (50:54):
I don't know if that felt good.
They put that Lubert on there.

Courtney Lynn (50:57):
They got a check in problem.
I don't know if that felt good.
I'm kinda stressed Like Afinger's in my ass like how
fucking.
Bernie Mac was on Soul man.
Can I get a girl doctor?
He was like singing and shit onSoul man when he had to get
depressed.

Jus Mystie (51:13):
Make sure you call us and let us know listen.

Bobby Frost (51:14):
I'd rather be like.
I know they ain't gonna do it.
Date me man, put me to sleepand then let me wake up when
that shit done man that way, Idon't even know you're so touchy
with your boobies.
I am.
I've been on man, my dog, larryJune.
I think this is the bestproject.
Doing it for me.
Anybody out there Want to fuckwith you know Some shit that you
can Vibe to I'm talking about?
You can put that album on andget you something to sip Fancy

(51:36):
for y'all females that love tobe Passenger seat princesses.
Man, tell your man To put that.
Do it for me, larry June, on,and you can.
You're going to have a good asstime.

Jus Mystie (51:45):
I'm going to listen to it because you keep saying
Larry Jordan, I haven't listened.
I did try to listen to Sir.
Like Candace Courtney said, mybest friend was just here.
That's why I keep callingCourtney Candace, okay.

Bobby Frost (51:54):
Yeah, I seen her man.
That's my dog man Shout out.
That's my dog man.

Jus Mystie (51:57):
Listen yeah.

Courtney Lynn (52:04):
So I tried to listen to Sir.

Jus Mystie (52:06):
I remember that day but I don't remember now.
But when I played it I was likeI don't know this and I keep
hearing people say, sir, but I'mobviously not listening To the
right songs Because I haven'tChecked it out, checked him out.
But I'm going to check outLarry Jones.

Bobby Frost (52:17):
Definitely check that shit out.
Man Doing it for me to shitwhat you been vibing to,
courtney.

Courtney Lynn (52:22):
I have a playlist .
It's not a certain album thatI've just been listening to
Jeezy.

Bobby Frost (52:28):
She's back to Courtney Kruger.

Jus Mystie (52:31):
Yeah, okay, she's back on that trap.
Shit y'all Damn she backtrapping.

Bobby Frost (52:35):
I can tell because you know she's doing her little
thing.

Jus Mystie (52:38):
What's crazy is when the bitch get in a relationship
is when she started listeningto Trap.

Bobby Frost (52:41):
Me.
You know why?
Because she's back comfortable,she's back, she's happy, she's
back to herself.

Jus Mystie (52:46):
That's crazy.

Bobby Frost (52:46):
She back to herself .

Jus Mystie (52:47):
You supposed to be listening to R&B when you was on
Cloud 9.

Bobby Frost (52:50):
She back to herself .
That's why she smiling.

Jus Mystie (52:52):
Okay, listen when I listen to Jeezy Jeezy
immediately makes me want to gograb a brick of dope and break
that bitch down.
I'm telling you so I can't evenlike for real Jeezy on the
regular, I will be a fuckingdrug dealer, bro.

(53:13):
I swear to God.

Bobby Frost (53:14):
There you go, she back there herself.

Jus Mystie (53:16):
Y'all might as well call me motherfucking Griselda.
I can't listen to him every day.

Courtney Lynn (53:20):
Not the old Jeezy .
Yeah, I listen to the old Jeezyand.

Jus Mystie (53:22):
Rick.

Courtney Lynn (53:22):
Ross.

Bobby Frost (53:24):
It's from Rick Ross to Jeezy yeah, that Jeezy from
like oh, what I want to say likeoh foe to like Jeezy.
I don't even know if that makeyou feel bad, but I'm just
letting you know.

Jus Mystie (53:33):
You turn my hustle all the fucking way up.
Yeah, so that, jeezy, that iswhat.
It is what you been on, misty.
Oh, I've been listening to R&Bmusic she's now she, because
he's comfortable now.
No, I can't shake Lucky Dayy'all.
He is the man, okay.
Yeah, I bet it, because youfeeling everything he's saying,
because you got your little roomto move Because you like

(53:54):
somebody Y'all.
First of all.
I'm not going to let y'all dothat during this relationship,
because I've been listening toR&B the last couple times.

Bobby Frost (54:00):
It's all right.
You ain't gotta act like youdon't want nobody to play with
your booty.

Courtney Lynn (54:19):
That shit happened.
You're gonna hear me listeningto some shit like motherfucking.
Um, listen to prince, you'regonna be.
I was about to say princess,some shit.
That's my favorite artist.
I'm about to be depressed in abitch.

Jus Mystie (54:22):
No, I've been listening to rb and michael
jackson.
I don't know why I've beenlistening to michael jackson so
much are you really in love no,michael jackson is my favorite
artist of all time.
You've been listening to humannature.
I've been listening to him nolet me tell you, I don't know
why he came in my playlist.
That's what started it and Iwas just thinking like and it
was actually pretty young thingfirst and I was like, well, I
listened to that, I might aswell listen to billy jean.

(54:43):
After billy jean went off, Iwas like, well, I might as well
listen to dirty diana.

Bobby Frost (54:47):
And I just wrote she's been in a crib by herself,
butt-ass, naked moonwalk.

Courtney Lynn (54:53):
I ain't been by myself so many really cute, but
it's like I know like a handfulof michael jackson songs that
has never been like an artist ofmine that's why she really not
my real best friend no, that'syour artist, that don't gotta be
mine.

Jus Mystie (55:06):
No, yeah, I fuck with mike, though Listen when
his birthday come and they doall his videos All day.
Bitch, I be tapped in.
Yeah, I be watching.

Bobby Frost (55:13):
That's my nigga, mike man.

Jus Mystie (55:14):
I watch that movie once.

Bobby Frost (55:15):
And that's all I need.
It's crazy.
I'm gonna end it for real Causeit's crazy.
You just said, it just poppedon my mind.
Last week I was YouTube theacapella version of Smooth
Criminal.
You see how he be riding thatbitch with this.

Jus Mystie (55:32):
No, he the man.

Bobby Frost (55:33):
But you know what you?

Jus Mystie (55:34):
know who else.
A musical genius and theysleeping on him low key, that
motherfucking Justin Bieber.
And the reason I say that isbecause they was showing him
real orchestra and he tellingthem when to chime in.
You know what I'm saying.
Like he feeling it, he ridethem, motherfucking, beats he
hard.
I just think I don't know whatthe fuck wrong with justin
bieber.
Mentally pity that, pity, but,but, but but he, oh p diddy

(55:58):
fucked that up because he's amusical genius for sure, he was
too young man, most r kelly theysold him.

Courtney Lynn (56:02):
Yeah, they can't too young they can't fuck with
chris brown, though.
Fuck that I just hate that theyturn this.
I just can't stand.
I love.

Jus Mystie (56:09):
I have a love hate for rihanna, like but you know
he talked about that shit withrihanna and and then I'm bad,
just supposed to be wrapping itup, but he talked about that
shit and I really feel like hefelt bad, you know.
So he said that that wasn't him.
He said he beat the bitch up,he like, but shit, like she was
fighting me.
It was a fight, you know whatI'm saying y'all ain't finna,
just make it seem Like I wasbeating her ass.

Courtney Lynn (56:27):
And when she got out the car the neighbor called
the police or whatever, likethat.
She threw the keys out thewindow and all that different
kind of shit and didn't reallythrow the keys.

Jus Mystie (56:33):
You was sitting on him, he was taunting this nigga,
so I hate that.
Everybody Made it seem like hejust Ike Turner'd her.
God damn.

Bobby Frost (56:43):
Listen a lot of times when it don't be there all
the time.

Jus Mystie (56:45):
No, no, no, no, tina wasn't doing that.
No, tina, no, I don't let youdo that.
I'm not going to.
I'm going to keep it real.
You better find your ass.

Bobby Frost (56:51):
The shit came out, she was getting off in his ass
too, and then he turned therhyme to get off in his ass,
yeah after you done, broke myass.
You done broke my ass.
So much of domestic violence oneither end, but a lot of
females don't come out and say,yeah, I done smacked this nigga
upside his head two or threetimes and then egg demon, and

(57:14):
this day he snapped no, we willsay that like I hit him first.

Jus Mystie (57:17):
But, tina, we saw, everybody saw what love got to
do with it.
Don't play with me, rob.
That wasn't all a hokey thing,but you know, if you think it's
Get up yeah that's it.

Courtney Lynn (57:26):
Get out of the back.

Bobby Frost (57:28):
So where can they catch you at Misty?
There she go with her candy.

Jus Mystie (57:33):
Courtney just gave me a good one.

Bobby Frost (57:34):
I'm saying, you stopped me, since you heard that
bag open up like look at thatkid.

Jus Mystie (57:38):
Okay, listen, y'all can catch me on Everyday Misty
Summers, or Just Misty,j-u-s-m-y-s and September 21st I
got invited to the EbonyExperience at Northgate Bar and
Grill.
Y'all come on in, you know I'mgonna be in that motherfucker
hopping, yeah I might get to seewalking with that one foot.

Bobby Frost (57:54):
You know what I'm saying, like my man from the Dip
Mat video make sure y'all comesupport and where can they catch
you?
At Courtney Lynn everywhere.

Courtney Lynn (58:03):
Courtney Dixon on Facebook.
Courtney Milano IG.
Courtney Dixon, cnn.
On TikTok.

Bobby Frost (58:09):
And y'all can catch me Bobby Frost Media on all
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