Guilt and Shame Suck out Success

Episode Transcript

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I've been thinking about you alot, and if you found this
video, you are on your way ofexpanding your consciousness,
showing up in the world with alife experience that you always
knew was possible, that somehowhas escaped you.
And I've been thinking about youbecause I'm in that same place.

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I've been in that same place,and I love having these
conversations.
With other conscious creators.
By the way, I'm Tom Miller and Ihave a mission for True Freedom
where we break the generationalthinking programs that keep us

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stuck financially in ourrelationships, in our life, in
our health, and we tend to lookfor more evidence of those and
they perpetuate and get worseand worse.
We ask ourselves, why doeseveryone else have such a good
life and why is my life sotough?
Or maybe you had a great body,great marriage, lots of money in

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the bank.
You find yourself asking, isthere more than this?
I mean, there's gotta be more.
This feels, it feels uneasy, itfeels unfulfilling like disease.
And sooner or later we get sick,get depressed.
Or life just falls apart.

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I love these conversationsbecause there's more and more of
us out there, and I recentlylast week, and this is why
you're on my mind so much.
Last week I was in a room fullof, I don't know, I mean maybe a
thousand, but lots and lots ofpeople who are on the same
journey.

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It was my first ever personaldevelopment.
Retreat.
Well, I did go to the HeartMathretreat, which was awesome, but
not as awesome as this.
And something I wanna clarify,you're a creator.
Like when God, the universe, thesource, the infinite

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intelligence made everythingmade creations, the mountains,
the trees, the rocks, the groundhe made.
Creatures, the animals and mydog rocket.
And he made creators and humanbeings were the creators in the

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same way.
God source intelligence createdwe can create.
And we've created our lifeexperience up till now and being
in a room, an auditorium full ofother people that realize that
they're creators and they'reraising their consciousness so
they can create and.
Earn money doing it and live thelife experience that they want.

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It was amazing.
So make the mistake about it.
If you're watching this, you arein the process of creating
something.
You've known you have somethingto create and you just haven't
put it out there yet.
At the very least, you'recreating your thoughts right now
and the feelings, the emotionsyou're feeling now, you're like

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an artist.
Your life experiences, yourcanvas.
Alright, so spending that timearound other people with this
expanded consciousness wasamazing.
I literally have neverexperienced anything like it,
but there was another part of itthat felt uncomfortable the
whole time.

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It felt uneasy.
And that's because envy, guilt,shame.
When I used to go to retreatsand three day events for the
gym, for sales, for stuff likethat, I always felt like I had
some status, like I had achievedsomething, I had money, I had

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success.
But here I felt less than likebehind, as if everything I've
tried so far has not worked.
I'm starting over from scratchonce again.
Now, so many things happenduring that week.

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Well, it was four days, but feltlike a week.
One was meeting my roommate fromArkansas.
Josh, if you're watching this,shout out to you.
I'll get into that in anotherepisode.
That was a whole experience initself and the.
Event I was at is called thePowerful Living Experience with
David Bear.

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If you haven't checked out DavidBear, check him out.
And of course, he tells us howto run a conscious, powerful
living experience type ofbusiness and he tells us how to
market and sell that, and thenhe does it during the whole
process.
I knew I did not have the moneyto invest, nor do I have the
attention as I'm committed to myfriend Laura, selling for her

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for another 11 months.
Helping her get what she wantsso I can get what I want and
learning so much through thesesales conversations.
But back to my main point, thefeeling that kept coming forth
was feeling less than feelinglike I should be further along,
feeling like I needed to somehowportray myself in a way that was

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more impressive, but I didn't, Ijust felt the feelings.
I wanted to be attractive,magnetic.
I wanted people to enjoy beingaround me, and I would love to
meet an energetic spiritualpartner at an event like that

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because we're already on thesame page.
We already see the universe asan energetic system that we can
flow with or not with.
With a, with a knowing, and thisis the knowing I wish for you,
the knowing that we have thepotential to positively impact

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others, not to just do our job,not to just do our daily
routine, but when we tap intothat higher source of energy and
intelligence that we all have,we all have it.
We have the potential to make apositive impact on others and
help them tap into their highersource of energy, inspiration,

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intelligence, peace.
I call it a power flow state.
Power flow, where it'sauthentically powerful because
you're choosing love and trustand light instead of fear, doubt
and worry, but it's flowing.
You don't have to force it.
I'm making this video.
It's flowing.
I didn't script it.

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I didn't know I was gonna makeit.
It just came to mind when I waswriting this word treatment.
I'm gonna share the wordtreatment with you now because
it may help you, but before Ishare it with you, here's some
truths I wanna remind you of,because if this message

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resonates with you and you foundit, I'm not here to teach you
anything you don't know.
I'm here to remind you of whatyou've always known, what's
always been there, and what justgot covered up.
Layered over with programs,pain, suffering, loss,
self-doubt, worry.
So remember, you have access tothe same infinite intelligence

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as Oprah, Tony Robbins, ElonMusk.
Bill Gates, think of who youadmire the most in the world.
You have access to the sameenergy, the same intelligence as
they do.
We've been blocking it and thenwe feel guilty about blocking

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it.
'cause if you're in your fiftieslike me, you're like, I should
be further along by now.
That kept coming up for me.
If he's doing it, why I shouldbe able to do it.
Why am I not doing it?
It must be because of mychildhood programs, my trauma,
my loss, the divorce, all theaddictions, all the things, all
the excuses and alibis, and Iget mad at myself for having

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these, and then I feel guiltyfor having them.
And then I wonder why the heckaren't they gone yet?
I know better knowing is thefirst step.
Understanding then believingthat the most important step is
embodying.
Embodying and that's all amatter of awareness.

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So here's what I did great.
I was aware that I was feelingless than I was aware, that I
was feeling envy.
I was aware that I was feelinglike I should be further along,
should, should, should.
The dangerous, the dangerouspastime shitting on myself.
It's messy too.

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Get it shitting on myself.
Could is a much better word.
Word.
I could do this, I could takesteps towards it.
Now.
I could expand my consciousnessand my awareness and have an
impact now.
So I love reading from othermeta physicians, other leaders,

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other people who have gone onthis journey and their sharing
their experience.
And Maryanne Williams has abook, the Law of Divine
Compensation.
In fact, I have it here.
Another teacher.
I mean, I can, I can rattle offa bunch of books about

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attracting prosperity andsuccess into our lives by
becoming that energy frequency,but I won't.
Here's what I did.
She had a prayer, and the oldmetaphysic meta physicians, the
old mystics like NevilleGoddard, they would call these
prayer treatments.
Words direct our mind.

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'cause where we place ourattention, what matters to us
becomes matter in our lives.
I mean, it literally shows up asour life experience.
So this happened today.
I created this word treatment,this word flow I'm gonna share
with you in just a bit.

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But during the event, I foundmyself toggling from, thank you.
I love you to feeling what'swrong with me?
How long is it gonna take me toget out of this slump?
When am I gonna be successfulagain?
When will I be joyful again?
And the answer was, I couldchoose to be joy joyful in a

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power flow state and successfulright then and there.
It starts with identifying withthat energy system.
It starts with believing thatthat is already there and
already possible.
Just a matter of aligning,remove, removing the resistance
so the energy of our aspirationcan flow.

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It's already there.
So here is the prayer treatmentI created, and I'll share it.
In a visual as well.
Dear God, source, I feel like Ihave failed.
I feel like all my efforts havecome up short.
I feel shame at the way my lifehas turned out.

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I feel like I should be furtheralong by now, but I haven't
given up.
I know I'm true with you still.
I do not know where to go or howto do it, what to do.
So I choose to open my heart andsurrender my suffering to God's
source.
To power flow, I choose powerflow truth instead of false

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fears and guilt heal my mind andchange my life.
Pave a way for me out ofdarkness into the light.
I'm aware of my heirs and I usethem as lessons.
My awareness is expanding toinclude more of you.
Source, help me do what I can'tdo for myself.

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Thank you, God.
Source.
I love you.
It is done.
All right.
Just reading that out loud,writing it, saying it in words,
and feeling the energy of it,expands my consciousness, opens
up the energy pathways, which isopening up my heart and allows

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me to experience this moment ina completely different way.
Whenever we expand ourconsciousness and our awareness.
We can do the same job, read thesame book, hear the same song,
and we're gonna have a differentexperience.
Different opportunities becomeapparent to us.

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They become part of our new lifeexperience.
And then we intuitively knowwhere we wanna go, how we wanna
do it, what we wanna do.
It's no longer forcing it.
Just doing, doing, doing.
And, wishing.
Wishing.
Wishing, and hoping.
Hoping, hoping.
Instead, it's power flowing.

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Authentic power is aligning withlove source, God's source.
Infinite intelligence, love andlight.
And the old routine of hustle,grind.
Do, do, do.
Until you get somewhere.
It will work, but it will alwaysstop working.

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Every single one of us, me, you,her, him, them, they, every one
of us have access to the samenever ending flow of
intelligence, love, light,inspiration, ideas, and
intuition that will align withour highest aspiration.

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And I use the word aspiration.
It's your true desire.
Your purpose, your spiritualvision, an aspiration is what
you truly desire.
It's always been in your DNAblueprint, your God, GPS.
You truly desire it, but youdesire it without attachment.

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You feel the state of havingpower flow.
Having that means feeling as ifit already exists and it's
already your life experience.
Feeling that way, visualizingthat, and aligning your energy
systems.
So the intelligence, theinformation, the ideas, the

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inspiration that you need willcome.
The people will come, theprosperity will come.
This is your instruction manualfor prosperity, on purpose, for
purpose, abundance, wealth.

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For health freedom andprosperity for love.
Love for brothers, love andrelationship with a significant
other.
Love with family and friends.
But unless we align with thatenergy, we won't align.
We won't open up the channels inour own body, heart, brain,

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mind, and overall energy system.
If we resist.
Our guilt, our shame, ourjudgment, our analyzing, oh,
judgment, judgment, judgment.
I can go on for hours on that.
I like to keep these videosshort.
So download, uh, copy thisprayer treatment, this word

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treatment, this word flow, anduse it and choose.
Choose to align with the energysystem that's true to you and
choose to expand.
Everything's a decision.
Only we can choose where ourattention goes.
No one else can choose it forus.

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No one else can feel the rain onour skin.
But when we decide to align ourattention with our aspiration
and we remove the resistance,even though it's very familiar,
very common and almostcomfortable.

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It's not true.
It's not you and it's nothelping the the flow.
So prosperity, whether it'shealth, money, relationship is a
simple formula of aspirationminus resistance.
And I hope the prayer treatmentworkflow I came up with helps

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you.
I give Maryann Williamson allthe credit for inspiring it.
In fact, one of the lines arehers, which is pave a way for me
out, out of darkness into light.
As you know, I'm a big fan ofthe light, which is source,
which is God, which is love,which is light, which is the one
truth that's always true.

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So thank you.
Thank you for your attention.
Thank you for choosing to expandyour consciousness.
There's more and more of us outthere.
My greatest hope is that thismessage helps you expand a bit
more and you'll share yourtruth, and that will help

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someone else expand even more.
We're all connected.
Everything's in it, everything'senergy, and there's a universal
loving energy that connects usall.
And when we use this connectionas a source of power flow,
having it doesn't, it helps us.

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It doesn't only help us, ithelps everyone.
You have everything you needflowing through you right now.
So do I.
So choose.
Be power, flow, choose having,choose love, choose light.

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And thank you very much forchoosing to watch this video.
My biggest mission is to alignwith other.
Conscious creators that arecreating their life experience
intentionally and that are awarethat they're more than their
bodies, their bank account,their life experience, and that
we have the power to change theworld around us by changing, I

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say changing, but rememberingwho we really are and returning
to that true self.
Thank you.
I love you.