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May 15, 2025 17 mins

🌟 When Life Gets Hard — Shift Your Energy, Change Everything 🌟
True Freedom with Coach Tom | Metaphysical Artist & Alignment Guide

Things feel a little crazy lately? You're not alone. In this raw, real, and deeply resonant talk, Coach Tom opens up about navigating a sales drought, dancing with the old fear of "not enough," and reconnecting with the energetic truth of who we really are.

✨ Inside this episode:

  • Why fear and scarcity are just old subconscious programs
  • The power of identifying your core ogre belief (like “I’m not good enough”)
  • How to shift from survival to Creator Consciousness
  • What to do when your external world isn’t matching your internal desires
  • Simple breath and vibration tools to reset your frequency
  • And why energy alignment is the most practical skill you can master

💡 Reminder: Your feelings are messengers. Your thoughts are choices. Your energy is your truth.

Coach Tom weaves neuroscience, metaphysics, and personal storytelling to help you reclaim your attention, rewire your mind matrix, and embody your highest frequency self.

🎧 Affirmations + Practices:
 👉 “I am unconditionally good enough.”
 👉 “I am having.”
 👉 “I am the creator of my energetic essence.”

🔔 Subscribe if this message resonates.
💬 Comment below: What’s one money belief or old story you’re ready to let go of?
🙌 Share this with someone who needs a reminder that they are powerful, loved, and enough.

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Coach Tom (00:00):
I don't know about you, but things have been a bit
teensy.
Wey crazy lately.
Crazy in some good ways, andcrazy in some contrast.
Doesn't feel so great ways.
By the way, I'm Tom, you'll callme Coach Tom.
I am a metaphysical artist,sharing, creating, caring and

(00:23):
light sharing, helping myselfand others just align with our
true selves, our true energy.
So we can actually make theimpact and live a purposeful,
fulfilling life that's healthy,wealthy, abundant, and full of
love, and the love we have forone another automatically.
Plus the squeezy feel good,huggy love we have with another

(00:47):
person, and some parts of lifeare going extremely well and
some parts of life.
Hmm, not so much.
I have a sales job.
Thank goodness I.
It has been paying the bills andpaying off debt for months, but
lately there's been a droughtand I could blame the drought on

(01:07):
not getting as many leads.
I can blame the drought on theeconomy, the PO political
climate, a lot of things.
Or I can say, what could I dodifferently to close more sales?
Now, mind you, I'm selling for acompany.
And a friend and a whole notherbusiness to my own.

(01:30):
However, this is an establishedbusiness that's doing pretty
well right now.
We're just in, I think it's bestto call it in a slow season, and
it impacts me directly since Iwork strictly on commission.
So then the fear of money notcoming in sets in what?

(01:53):
Wait a second.
I felt that fear before.
It didn't destroy me.
I still had everything I needed.
In fact, I've always hadeverything I needed.
I have everything I need rightnow, and odds are I'm always
gonna have everything I need.
I bet the same is exactly truefor you.

(02:14):
I just got off of a call earliertoday with a really awesome
woman who is making a big careerchange from corporate to running
her own.
Her own coaching business, andshe's following her purpose, her
passion, and it's what she'swanted to do for years.

(02:34):
What she created in her mindthat she's gonna start doing,
but now she feels paralyzedbecause what if it doesn't work?
What if she doesn't make enoughmoney to support her family?
What if no one wants hercoaching and stuff?
What if, what if, what if?

(02:55):
When I hear her story, it's veryeasy to be objective and see
what's really going on.
But the more I listen to herstory and helped her, the more I
realize that's my story.
The fear of not having, the fearof not being good enough, the

(03:16):
fear of not being loved.
So the slow season we're goingthrough now with my sales job
has poked the ogre, the fear ofnot having enough ogre.
But now that I'm aware that thatogre is there, I can dance with

(03:38):
it instead of letting it controlmy thoughts, my emotions, my
reactions, and I can actually gothrough this.
In a much more sane and alignedway than I did before.
But if you're human, you have acore ogre and it probably says
something to the sounds of, I'mnot good enough.

(04:01):
That's kinda how it works.
We are spiritual, energeticbeings.
We a human body and we have acore ogre.
Our purpose on this planet is tomake peace with that core ogre.
I'm not good enough to, well,here's the thing.
The quicker we make peace withit, the less impact it has on

(04:24):
our lives.
And because the Ogre is really asubconscious, unconscious
program, it's actually hardwiredinto our cells, into our neural
pathways.
So the more that ogre pops outwithout us knowing it's there,
recognizing it, and the more wereact to it.

(04:44):
The more hardwired it gets.
It's like a mind matrix of theway we see the world because
that core ogre sprouts outlittle gremlins.
Look, I'm not good enough.
Ogre sprouts out.
I'm not handsome enough.
I'm too old.
I messed up too many times.
My teeth are messed up and Ikind of are.

(05:05):
I don't have great teeth, atleast compared to a lot of
people.
I see.
So those are all thoughts.
All of us have our own mindmatrix, like there's a universal
matrix, I'm sure, but we allinherit that matrix into our own
conscious and subconscious andunconscious minds.

(05:27):
So no one sees the world thesame as me.
No one sees the world the sameas you.
We can change our mind Matrix iswhat Bob Proctor calls Changing
your paradigm, change yourparadigm, change your life.
That's the meaning we attach tothings in Viktor Frankl's book,

(05:48):
man's Search for Meaning.
No matter your circumstances andthe pain you're going through,
oh, that guy went through somepain.
No one can dictate the way youthink about it.
No one gets to choose ourthoughts but us.

(06:09):
Here's the thing.
With a woman I was talking totoday and my own experience, we
keep thinking the same thoughtsagain and again, and they're
usually derivatives of our coreogre.
These thoughts aren't necessary,but we become addicted to the
same thinking, the same thoughtsof, I'm not good enough, I'll

(06:29):
never get it done in time.
They don't like me.
What do I need to do to bebetter?
How can I be better?
How can I be good enough?
How can I prove that I'm goodenough?
How will I make someone love me?
How will I close this sale?
How will I close this deal?
How will I have enough?
It's all these fear, scarcitythoughts.
Here's what I've learned.

(06:50):
Unpleasant feelings aremessengers because underneath
every unpleasant feeling was athought or a belief system.
Here's the good news.
The moment I, the moment you orI feel an unpleasant feeling,
huh?
That feels unpleasant.

(07:11):
Don't, don't try to hold itdown.
Let it flow through with yourbreath.
Breathe it out, and then if youcan identify the thought, the
belief, it caused the unpleasantfeeling, you're winning because.

(07:31):
The messenger's telling you thatunpleasant feeling has a un
untrue belief underneath it.
Untrue, not real, but it's partof our mind matrix.
So we see Rx on Facebook,Instagram, and they're with
somebody and they're having agood time.

(07:52):
Life's so great right awaytriggers a thought and a
feeling.
Now the thought is I wasn't goodenough for her, but she's happy
now.
I feel less than, and thenthat's an unpleasant feeling.
Here's how you reverse engineerit.
Unpleasant feeling is amessenger.
The thought was, I wasn't goodenough for her.

(08:15):
She's happier without me.
The opposite is actually thetruth.
I am good enoughunconditionally.
That feels a lot better.
I am unconditionally goodenough.
So it's a matter of catching theunpleasant feelings, identifying

(08:39):
the thought that caused them,and realizing by the law of
polarity that the opposite istrue.
Unpleasant feelings arerevealing our untrue beliefs.
I call me oggers.
I'll be honest.
I have this ogre that I dancewith now and it says, you're not

(09:01):
good enough.
But now I say, ogre, I know youwere there to protect me at one
time.
Don't need you to anymore.
The truth is, I amunconditionally good enough.
So are you, but we have adifferent message from our mind
matrix.

(09:23):
So this drought I'm goingthrough in my sales job doesn't
mean I'm not good enough.
There may be some improvements Ineed to make in my sales calls.
There may be some things to dodifferently, some things to
learn and grow from, but thatjust makes me better, good
growing better.
So if you are going through atough time in your finances,

(09:44):
with your health and arelationship where you feel
lonely, you feel broke, you feeldepressed.
Change your paradigm and changeyour life.
Change your mind matrix andchange your life.
The truth that will set you freeis the truth that's always been

(10:06):
there, the truth that connectsus, and that truth is God's
source light.
That truth is the energeticessence that makes it possible
to move my fingers.
And here's some easy cheatcodes.
To just align with your trueself.
Number one, your breath,literally three breaths.

(10:34):
Ah, the sound helps.
Ah, you'll feel your shouldersdrop.
It regulates your essentialnervous system, gets you outta
fight or flight.
And calms you, and it createsspace for grace, the grace to
align with your true self.

(10:56):
Another one is the vibrations.
Everything is energy.
Energy vibrates.
I'm not gonna go into that wholespiel now, but if you've ever
seen the law of attraction, it'sreally the law of energy
vibration.
Every single thing that you seeor don't see is energy.
God's energy source, lightspirit is energy.

(11:18):
Your essence is energy.
But beyond our physical energy,there is the energy of feeling,
thinking, believing, tending,and when we are aware of that
energy, we can shift our livesand vibrations and sounds, our

(11:40):
energy.
So, so hum.
So hum.
Powerful, powerful vibration.
You don't even have to say itand feel it, but I like to, but
my friend Shannon taught methis.
Breathe in.
So, but you don't have to sayit.
You can say it in your mindsound system.

(12:01):
So, um, um.
I like to feel my heart too.
Um, so when I'm breathing in,I'm sounding outta my mind.

(12:28):
So, so, and then I'm gonna also,I'm gonna put one hand on my
heart, one hand on my Suplexes.
Um, you can use your hands.
Your hands.
Project energy.
I know that's crazy.
Just this hand posture, I thinkthey call'em RAs or Mundra,

(12:54):
whatever they call'em.
The way you position your handsmatter.
This is for abundanceprosperity, for having, so I
like to hold my hands like this.
Having, having.
I am having, having so at thismoment, my energetic essence is

(13:32):
vibrating at a higher frequencythan it was 10 minutes ago.
I do this many times throughoutthe day.
Your breath and your vibration.
Can change the frequency of yourenergetic essence and trust and
believe our energetic essence iseverything.
It's our consciousness.
It's how we are creators.

(13:55):
Like when God source light madethe universe and the earth, he
made creations.
The mountains, the trees, earth,wind, fire, dirt, water, eade
creatures, dogs.
Is the daycare right now.
I'll pick'em up soon.
Elephants, cats, snakes, all thecreatures.

(14:17):
They're alive, but they're notthe third creators.
That's us.
We have some animalcharacteristics and instincts,
but we have the power to createwith our consciousness.
That's the energetic essence I'mtalking about.
When we align with our trueself, with our consciousness, we

(14:37):
become creators.
And the first thing we create isour own energetic state.
You can feel my energy rightnow, even though it's a video.
You can definitely feelsomeone's energy if you walk
into the room or they walk intothe room and you feel a shift.
You know what I'm talking about?
We are always projecting anenergetic essence.

(14:59):
It's a vibration.
It exists on a frequency, andpeople feel it.
That's why you can tell whensomeone's lying to you.
You can tell when someone'strying to get advantage of you.
You can tell when someone says,I'm fine, but they're really
not.
We don't have to fix everybody,but we are responsible for our

(15:21):
own energy.
I'm responsible for my ownenergy, so when sales aren't
going well, or I talk to someoneand they remind me of myself, or
anything that triggers anunpleasant feeling.
Feel the feeling, but yourfeelings aren't necessarily your

(15:42):
energy state.
We can shift our energy at anytime.
Shift your paradigm, your MyMatrix.
You'll view the worlddifferently.
You'll attach different meaningto things and be aware of your
energetic state is energy.
The energy we don't see is themost important energy.

(16:06):
This used to be metaphysical,ancient teaching, spiritual woo
woo stuff, not anymore.
Now it's quantum science and itis proven entanglement.
The observer effect, and thelist goes on and on.
So for me, remember that you'rean energetic essence having a

(16:31):
human avatar, body experience.
With a gift of free will and thefree will allows us to direct
our attention, our awareness,our imagination to be creators.
So create your energy state.
Create something that helpsothers create the truth that you

(16:53):
have always been and the lifeexperience you've always wanted
possible.
I'm not there yet, but every dayI get closer.
And even my worst days today arebetter than my best days 10
years ago.
Until the next video go forth,shine your light, which is your

(17:14):
energetic essence.
Thank you for watching thisvideo.
I love you and I'm supposed tosay, please subscribe I and
share.
'cause right now I don't havevery many subscribers and I want
this message to get out to asmany people as possible.
Kind of sounds like I'm a puppydog begging you.
Not the look I'm going for.

(17:35):
Thank you.
I love you.
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