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March 21, 2025 43 mins

In the second episode of the True You Podcast, Bill and Marty address the distinctions between the 'true self' and the 'parts' within us as outlined in the Internal Family Systems (IFS) model. They uncover how self-energy can guide us through various life challenges and discuss the importance of recognizing and tending to our parts for better self-led lives. The conversation flows through practical applications, the role of consciousness, and how parts work together under self-leadership.


Chapters:

00:00 Introduction to the True You Podcast
00:38 Understanding the True You and IFS
02:21 Personal Beliefs and IFS Distinctions
03:37 Illustrations and Visual Learning in IFS
06:08 The Seat of Consciousness
12:30 Practical Applications of IFS
14:25 Self-Led vs. Burden-Led Parts
23:14 Maintaining Capacity and Self-Leadership
25:04 Acknowledging and Addressing Concerns
26:20 Practical Applications of IFS
26:32 Analogy to Governmental Systems
28:14 The Role of Self-Energy in Healing
30:45 Overcoming Overwhelm with Self-Energy
31:54 The Loving Parent in IFS
32:40 The Role of the Practitioner in IFS
34:29 Exploring Critical Parts in Therapy
36:59 The Power of Self-Energized Curiosity
39:04 The Mystery of Self and Parts
42:51 Invitation to Engage with the Conversation

Show notes:

• Self-Therapy Workbook: An Exercise Book For The IFS Process by Bonnie Weiss - https://www.amazon.com/dp/0984392742• Contact Marty - mkettelhut@msn.com
• Contact Bill - bill@billtierneycoaching.com
• True You Podcast Facebook Page - https://www.facebook.com/trueyoupodcast
• Would you like to be a guest on our podcast? Complete this form to apply: https://forms.gle/Fre2eEmiNoDPYKmp9
• Internal Family Systems - https://ifs-institute.com/
• Bill Tierney Coaching - https://www.billtierneycoaching.com/
• ‘Listening is the Key', Dr. Kettelhut’s website - https://www.listeningisthekey.com/
• Marty’s new book, ‘Leadership as Relation’ - https://amzn.to/3KKkCZO
• Marty’s earlier book, ‘Listen… Till You Disappear’ - https://amzn.to/3XmoiZd
• Parts Work Practice - Free IFS Practice Group Sessions - https://www.partsworkpractice.com

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