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December 9, 2025 43 mins

Tom and Chane Hart join the podcast! Tom is an RUF campus minister at Furman University and he and Chane are parents of four, veterans of multiple cross-country moves and thoughtful leaders about Christian community. They joined us to talk about identity in Christ, orphan mentalities vs. beloved-child confidence, tiers of relationships, and why authentic community is simultaneously hard, glorious, and only a foretaste of what’s coming.

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Key Quotes

  • “A community that forgets mission becomes a ministry machine that crushes people. A community that forgets fellowship becomes a sweet club that slowly dies.” – Tom Hart
  • “Anytime we get really ruffled and upset it reveals our idols.” – Chane Hart
  • “When you are not claiming ‘I am the beloved,’ you cannot walk freely in this world.” – Henri Nouwen (read by Tom)
  • “I am not an orphan. Stop acting like an orphan.” – Chane’s lesson from trauma
  • “Community is hard. It’s worth pursuing. And the best is yet to come.” – Tom Hart

Find them on Instagram:

@whatthehartlikes

@furmanruf

Recommended Resources Mentioned

  • C.S. Lewis – Reflections on the Psalms
  • Henri Nouwen – Life of the Beloved & various works
  • The Bible Project / Kurt Thompson / Dan Allender / Adam Young (story work & being known)


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