Turned On With Sue And John
Sue McGarvie is best known as "Sex With Sue!" A sex therapist, relationship expert, coach, author and speaker. Her Sunday night call-in radio show took Canada by storm in 1993. John is a freelance radio host heard across North America, and a champion for mental health, knowing all too well how fears about revealing our sexual kinks, desires and orientations can affect us. He has normalized conversations about sex on his show for years! Together, these longtime friends now bring you an outrageously fun, weekly, immersive, grown up sex education course that is unique in the world of podcast. This is Turned On With Sue & John. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Episodes
This week we're going straight at the biggest lie we've all been told: that sex after 40 is a slow fade to nothing. It's not. It's a total rewrite — and most people never bother to read the new rules.
What's On This Week's Show
The Biggest Lie About Sex After 40: That your libido is supposed to disappear, that ED means it's over, that menopause ends great sex. None of it's true. We break down where the panic actual...
Sue is back from Swingathon UK with a first hand account of this growing swinger festival, plus details of Naughty N'Awlins which was also a HUGE success!
And, we dive into what is NEW in the world of swinging, or ENM or any of the newer "lables" being attached to the lifestyle.
Sue's Sassy Sex Secret this week helps you with squirting! Some tricks to encourage more fluid.
We also answer the question, "Does non-monogamy driv...
Sue McGarvie has been talking sex on the radio, in seminars, and in print since the early 90s! And now on this podcast - Turned On With Sue And John - the sex education you WISH someone would have pulled you aside and given you decades ago.
This week... Pleasure! And why receiving is harder than giving.
We'll talk about getting out of your head and getting into sex while GIVING, we'll talk about the science of pleasure an...
What is the best kind of sex?
This week on Turned On With Sue and John we’ll help you answer that, including a list of the 10 best kinds, according to therapists around the world.
Plus, we’ll discuss some types of sex that you may not believe are good, although, they actually are!
Sue’s Sassy Sex Secret this weekdays with Spectatoring is the act of overthinking sex while having sex.
And listener questions this...
1... 2... 3... How many sex partners have you had?
Don't answer that. Because, the reality is, it doesn't matter. Your sexual history isn't a report card, or a scoreboard.
Today Sex With Sue's, Sue McGarvie and John discuss "The Body Count."
Sue's Sassy Sex Secret this week: The "Pulse and Pause" Edging Hack
For swingers, a conversation with Bob from Naughty N'awlins plus... Hollywood Gets the Lifestyle Wrong. Again.
And...
There is so much bad sex advice out there. And, sadly, a lot of people hear it, try it and things end up worse than they were.
Sex With Sue's, Sue McGarvie has been a leading expert on this since the early 90s and on today's episode of Turned On With Sue And John, she addresses a lot of the bad advice, and sets the record straight on what DOES work!
Including new sex ideas to hear things up and the wet and wild upgrade using fruits! ...
Have you ever just been in the presence of someone, even just in passing, and get an undeniable, overwhelming feeling of desire for them? Instantly?
Today's conversation is all about lust.
Merrium-Webster defines it as:
- usually intense or unbridled sexual desire : lasciviousness
- an intense longing : craving
- to have an intense desire or need : crave specifically : to have a sexual urge
We'll also reveal what sex workers have ...
The flowing hair, the six pack abs, the tall dark and handsome figure who looks like he belongs on the cover of a romance novel... He is not what women really want.
We'll even take a huge dick and fat wallet out of the equation.
Today, Sex With Sue's Sue McGarvie reveals the things that women REALLY want from a man. We'll dive into "Looksmaxing" and even "dickmaxing" on this episode.
Also today, the exit strategy for swinger...
Today’s oral presentation is all about… Oral! We’ll introduce you to Jasmine, who partnered with Sue last weekend for an entire workshop devoted to oral sex! As a working professional, she’ll let you in on all kinds of tips (pardon the pun) and tricks! Sue also discusses some of the biggest oral sex myths on this episode as well as her “sassy sex secret” of the week; the frozen grape ...
Perhaps you see more of it because of the algorithm... Especially if you're in the lifestyle already and tend to search a lot of content on ethical non monogamy. But, swinging does seem to be much more common online and in the public discourse than ever.
Has it become TOO mainstream? We dive into that today.
Also this week, listeners ask if their love of seeing sweaty women at the gym is unusual, loads of questions abou...
What makes you feel desired? A touch? A text? Holding hands? Today we talk about how to open up to your partner about what YOU need from them in order to feel desired... And sexy!
On this episode we offer up some examples of questions you can ask them, or even ask yourself in order to start getting more of what you need in order to feel connected.
Sue will also give you 10 Desire Builders; things you can put into practice t...
Ballmaxing. It was the subject of an article published a few days ago that caught our attention and it's something Sue gets a lot of questions about.
For a variety of reasons, people love to experiment with their privates! From injecting saline into the balls, to inserting sounding instruments into the urethra, to weights, to rings, to pills and countless other things that many find make things feel oh-so-much-better.
We'll e...
It's a hot topic on Reddit right now... How awkward and weird humans are about our sexual desires, kinks, and behaviors around sex.
On this episode we get into WHY we're so weird.
From how we eroticize, literally, everything from spread sheets to bed sheets, to aliens. We discuss what it is that attracts so many of us to people who many would refer to as "the crazy ones" and our weird sex quirks.
For our swinger friends, a conve...
Today, in a nutshell, we're going to address why most sex feels... Fine... But not amazing.
You're going to get amazing tips on how to slow things down, how to connect better, and by the end of this episode you'll have incredible tools to put to use to better understand why your body responds the way it does before, during and after sex, and Sue will even set you up with 14 things you can do to up your pleasure all over.
We answe...
It's National Superhero Day today and your Superhero Of Sex - Sue McGarvie is here to talk about the sex that feels like a drug. The kind that can turn into a problem.
Sue and John discuss what people mean when they say "sex addict" plus compulsive masturbation and the "addictive partner phenomenon." What is is about that person who you can't stop thinking about? Also how early porn use can predict your mental health and, ...
Bigger, Better… or Just Louder? What actually creates enlarged parts - and what is complete BS!
This episode of Turned On With Sue And John is all about size! Including - Can you actually change your body, or just how it performs?
The difference between growing and enhancing - including breast size (we'll speak with Demora Avarice - whose chest is so big, there isn't a bra size big enough - and dick size - why erection q...
Your sex drive.
It can be a crazy ride. From highs to lows and often, you can be completely distracted.
Let's get you back in your lane!
In this conversation, Sex With Sue's, Sue McGarvie gives you 5 Ways to Turn Up the Heat (Without Trying Harder) AND you'll also hear TEN things you can do if your libido has gone MIA.
In our So You're A Swinger segment this week - a question who feels that what they see represented ...
Orgasms. What do you do when you just can't get there? It happens!
Today's conversation with Sex With Sue's, Sue McGarvie, and John, is all about the BIG O.
And Sue will even share with you her 10 Fixes for Orgasm Roadblocks! We'll also discuss the refractory period and how to come back faster and without any weird supplements.
A new segment this week... Sue's Sassy Sex Secret: Do the "3-3-3" if your orgasm is elusiv...
Welcome to another sex ed lesson that nobody gave you in high school. Sex ed for grown ups with Sex With Sue's, Sue McGarvie and co-host John.
Today we talk sperm. And testosterone. And why your body is, frankly, weird.
Plus we introduce you to an incredible new app called Moanr™ with its creators, Kevin & Tracy Daly!
Moanr™ is the first privacy-first relationship app designed for your total well being. From secure STI ...
Men... We are about to change your life on today's podcast. You're welcome!
Sex With Sue's, Sue McGarvie and John share the best tips you'll find anywhere on what you need to do in order to generate the response from her that you've been hoping for.
It comes down to being engaged, invested and interesting. If she's interested, she'll give you all kinds of signs. And we reveal what to watch and listen for!
Plus... We respond to...
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