August 4, 2025 • 56 mins
Justin and Steve explore freedom, hustle culture, and the surprising countries most attracted to American women in a wide-ranging conversation that questions whether we're all trapped in modern slavery.
• Italy tops the list of countries most attracted to American women, followed by Japan, Brazil, France, and Nigeria
• Discussion of a tragic Idaho incident where a rejected firefighter applicant killed two firefighters
• Exploration of "hustle culture" after a restaurant owner passed away in her sleep from overwork
• Comparison between modern work stress and natural living patterns of indigenous peoples
• Provocative view that homeless people might experience more freedom than those bound by societal obligations
• Vulnerable conversation about losing personal identity in romantic relationships
• Revelation that "breakfast is the most important meal of the day" originated as a marketing campaign by cereal companies
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
and we are back with another episode of two for the
culture.
I'm justin davante, I'm steveray.
Yes, sir, we're back.
How you feeling?
Feeling good, man feeling goodum what happened?
I think it's just same old,same old.
We just now.
We're on the schedule now, sooh, yeah, yeah unless something
significant changing um, thenit's not this weekend again um
(00:24):
yeah, I went to germantown pub.
Speaker 2 (00:28):
This time I didn't know that was the black place,
because in germantown it seemslike I don't know it's
gentrified.
Speaker 1 (00:34):
That's what it is okay well, yeah I didn't.
Speaker 2 (00:38):
I walked in.
I was like the waitress firstof all, the waitresses, the wait
the bartenders.
Being black is automatic, likeoh, this is a black place, yeah,
yeah, so that was cool, yeah,yeah, and seeing like a black
style yeah, I mean, that wastotally different yeah, and you
know it's.
Speaker 1 (00:57):
It's kind of like who you know type of thing.
It's like black people knowblack people, white people know
white people.
So it's just kind of how itgoes yeah, that.
Speaker 2 (01:05):
Yeah, that was dope.
Speaker 1 (01:06):
That was dope.
Yeah, well, that's cool.
Same old, same old, working allthe time yeah yeah, it's a much
different, you know, unlessthere's something tragic
happening.
Well, I do have family reunionin a couple weeks, so maybe
we'll pull back with.
You know something new.
Speaker 2 (01:20):
But, yeah, working relationship, taking care of
people, the family reunion, isit like a big?
Speaker 1 (01:27):
one.
Yeah, it's big, yeah, yeah,yeah, one of those summer joints
.
Yeah, yeah, yeah, it's a prettybig event.
You know, my family's ancestryis from New Orleans.
Oh, yeah, yeah, so it'll bedown there, mm-hmm.
But I did want to get straightinto a game.
Speaker 2 (01:46):
I think you'll find it.
Speaker 1 (01:47):
So this one is can you see?
My okay so this one is the topfive countries attracted to
American women.
Speaker 2 (02:02):
Okay, you know, all your shit is countries.
I keep telling you mygeographical sense is not up
there, but we can go.
Speaker 1 (02:13):
Well, yeah, yeah yeah , and keep in mind this is an
easier one.
America.
Speaker 2 (02:18):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, you want to come to America,
exactly.
Speaker 1 (02:22):
So, yeah, so these are guessable.
At least you know it's not onecountry on this list is like oh,
I was never going to think ofthat.
Speaker 2 (02:29):
Okay, okay, I can see that.
Speaker 1 (02:31):
All right, so, but these are.
You know the particular order,but you can name three, strikes,
you're out and yeah, top five,top, top five uh uh uh.
Speaker 3 (02:49):
Countries that are attracted to american women yes
um all right, france.
Speaker 1 (02:57):
France is number four .
France is number four okay, sokeep on going on that thing.
When you think of france, whatother country you think of?
When you think of France, whatother country do you think of?
Great Britain?
No, that's strike one, think ofanother.
Now, france and this othercountry are like you can confuse
them.
Both People think Exactly.
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Yeah, that's number one, okay,okay.
Speaker 2 (03:21):
Really.
Speaker 1 (03:21):
Yep, Yep.
So now you got one and four.
Now no more Europe is on thisone.
So there's the biggest countryin south america I I'm really
kind of giving you hints mexicothat's north america oh, hold on
(03:43):
um.
They know you got bbls.
What does bbl stand for brazil?
Yeah, there you go okay, I wasthe.
I was kind of thinking brazil,all right and I'm gonna give you
the reasons why these are,these are and I'm gonna stem a
question off of that all rightso now we got one country in
africa and one company, onecountry in, uh, asia.
All right, so this one.
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I'm gonna give you the reasonwhy, uh, cultural fact.
Well, I'll give you theamerican women represent a
different type of feminine, amore assertive independence,
which intrigues these men.
I guess I should have reallygave you those guesses.
And, and this is the country inAsia, we went to war Exactly.
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So that's number three.
Okay, now this is kind of funnya little bit.
The reason why this is numberfive American women are often
viewed as successful, ambitiousand strong.
Many of these men admire thosetraits and also seek US
connection for education, familyopportunity.
So they're pretty much usingAmerican women right, and this
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is in Africa blank scammer.
Speaker 2 (05:03):
Nigeria exactly.
Oh my god, oh my god, that'sfucked up.
Hammer Speaker 1 19 exactly.
Oh my.
Speaker 1 (05:07):
God Speaker 2 Exactly , oh, my God Speaker.
1 All right, yeah, yeah sothat's fucked up.
Speaker 2 (05:10):
Yeah, and I definitely knew what it was.
I've heard that many, manytimes.
Speaker 1 (05:14):
Exactly, I mean.
But yeah, so even you know,chat DBT was like bruh, they'd
be using these hoes out here.
Oh my.
God, yeah, so they be usingthese hoes out here?
Oh my God, yeah.
So Italy.
Italian men are often intriguedby American women's confidence,
openness and independence.
Uh-huh, brazil.
American women are often seenas exotic and adventurous.
Okay, and we talked about Japan, france.
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There's long been mutualattraction between America and
the French.
French men often see America'swomen as stylish, open-minded
and intellectually curious.
Yep, so yeah.
But the Japan one makes sense.
It's more assertive andindependent, which intrigues
some Japanese men.
Speaker 2 (05:59):
Which I guess they like that.
I said French because I saw alot of photos of French women
who don't shave their armpits soI thought maybe like they
wanted somebody who does okay,yeah, so yeah understood, it
worked yeah yeah, does that list.
Speaker 1 (06:19):
Do you feel like there should have been others on
that list?
Speaker 2 (06:22):
I don't know.
I don't know because you knowI'm in america, so if anything,
I kind of, I guess, like them,look at women in different
countries, it's just likeforeign.
You could just see the beautyin a foreign woman.
So I, I wouldn't.
I wouldn't even know what typefor real that they liked.
(06:43):
You know there's many differenttypes of women here so I didn't
know which type they were goingfor.
Maybe y'all in Miami.
Speaker 1 (06:56):
And the Nigerian one made the most sense because
they're seeking citizenship.
Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah.
And then Mexican, they're soclose to the border.
Oh, I could see that one hasbeen a top one.
That's why I'm kind of like notreally I'm a little surprised
not seeing that uh-huh.
Speaker 2 (07:14):
Uh, because just by nature or canadian, but I guess
it was kind of like outrulingthat the neighboring countries a
little bit yeah, damn, okayhmm,damn okay, you know, this is
though, this though yeah, sinceyou're doing it now, I'll do
mine okay, thank you all right,so it's literally on my laptop
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so don't look at it.
All right, so the top fivegrossing black movies in the 90s
uh top five grossing blackmovies.
Speaker 1 (07:53):
You got three strikes okay um, I would say um
minister society yes, okay,that's number three all right,
I'll say Friday no, okay, that'sactually a little shocking,
because that was.
Speaker 2 (08:09):
Was that in the 90s?
I would think it is.
Speaker 1 (08:13):
Okay, probably in the 99, man.
Speaker 2 (08:21):
I would say.
What's the one with Tupac andJanet Jackson?
Poetic Justice, yes, no, wow,this top five, though, so this
is like mass mass appeal right,huh.
Speaker 1 (08:34):
And what can I get a hint on?
What constitutes like a blackmovie, like yeah?
Speaker 2 (08:39):
see that that was my thing, but just mainly like a
classic black film okay, yeah,so if I so like probably.
Justice was a great choice yeah, okay, so, yeah, yeah.
Speaker 1 (08:49):
So I need to stay along on that theme.
Yes, like it's like one of them.
Speaker 2 (08:54):
One of them is kind of like out of it.
Speaker 1 (08:55):
Okay, because as long as I was like brad, like it has
a bunch of black cats right butit's like like men in black or
some shit.
Speaker 2 (09:02):
Exactly, I know what you're saying.
Yeah, yeah, yeah, one of themis a little bit outside of it,
but yeah, okay, okay, okay.
Speaker 1 (09:09):
So I'm going to need a little bit, because I mean I
can name some stuff Do they haveOne of them is Generational
actors like Will Smith.
Yes.
Speaker 2 (09:19):
One of them.
Speaker 1 (09:20):
Oh, what's the movie with Eddie Murphy when he's like
an African prince?
Speaker 2 (09:26):
Oh, that was a good one, but no, I don't think
that's on there, wow.
Speaker 1 (09:30):
Is there any Eddie Murphy movies on there?
It's not like what's the jointwhere he's big and he turns
skinny when he drinks a potion.
Speaker 2 (09:42):
Yeah, that's wrong too.
I don't know if this list Imean this is what says.
Highest grossing black moviesin the 1990s was yep, following
closely.
So the first one is boys in thehood okay the second one is
malcolm x.
That's what I was like.
Speaker 1 (09:58):
It's a little bit out okay, you said generational
actors oh, okay, I got so yeahit's that one Minister of
Society.
Speaker 2 (10:05):
What's Love Got to Do With it?
Speaker 1 (10:06):
That is a damn lie.
No, no, no, what's Love oh?
Yeah, I'm tripping.
Speaker 2 (10:10):
In 93?
I'm tripping, yeah, I'mtripping, and Boomerang.
Speaker 1 (10:14):
Boomerang, yeah, that .
Speaker 2 (10:21):
Po, you know what's love got to do no, that's the
Tina Turner joint, okay yeah, Ican see because that still comes
on now.
Boomerang was funny, but whenwas Poetic Justice?
Poetic Justice hats?
Yeah, cause Tupac was onlypopping for like a couple years,
and it was in the 90s.
Speaker 1 (10:42):
I was like a juice.
You know I'm thinking brownsugar like loving basketball,
not brown sugar.
Loving basketball always comesto my head.
But yeah, yeah, yeah, I knew Iwas one cuz menaces.
Know those boys in the hood,that's critically acclaimed.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
So that was the one I wasreally thinking about.
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (10:59):
I thought she was gonna get that one, oh well.
Okay.
Oh yeah, Did you hear aboutsomething that happened today?
What is that?
I'll watch out with the thing.
But you like touched it, ohokay, so what happened today was
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did you hear about the Idahosniper?
Speaker 1 (11:22):
No, I didn't hear about that.
Speaker 2 (11:24):
Bruh.
So there was a guy and I forgothis age.
He had to be like kind of young, this man.
He lit a fire, like on somemountain or something, and the
firefighters came to put it out.
And while the firefighters wereI think it was a number of them
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there and he literally sethimself up like posted up and
sniped the firefighters oh wowyeah while they were trying to
do it, and then he killed two ofthem and injured one of them.
And then the guy's granddadsaid that he applied to be a
firefighter and he didn't get inbecause he wasn't tall enough
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so how tall you think it wasprobably okay, yeah.
I guess he got mad and then theyfound him with the gun and he
was dead, so I guess he shothimself yeah, someone's around
him for that, kill him.
Speaker 1 (12:25):
You know why he killed himself.
And two is why did you killsome, some firemen?
Speaker 2 (12:30):
because you didn't get in I don't know, but I mean,
how else does it add up for?
Speaker 1 (12:35):
you, I mean, I mean, I'm not saying like a conspiracy
is deeper than that, but I'mjust saying like you really
really one.
He didn't get in because hisheight he got.
He didn't get in because he wasthrown off.
Speaker 2 (12:49):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, because yeah, even bad
vibes, yeah, absolutely like.
Speaker 1 (12:56):
Yeah, you're not worthy to put on.
Yeah, if you're willing to killsomebody over that, then you're
thrown off.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
So the height was probably anexcuse to get rid of his ass.
Speaker 2 (13:07):
I just see him in his interview.
Speaker 1 (13:08):
Let him burn pass on this guy.
Yeah, no, I didn't hear aboutthat.
When did this happen today?
Today, oh wow, and they alreadygot explanation of a reason why
I mean, I guess he did yeah,yeah yeah, so I guess I talked
to his granddaddy or something,I don't know yeah.
And why.
How is Ava going to trace itback to him?
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You know what?
Speaker 2 (13:30):
I mean why?
Speaker 1 (13:31):
He didn't.
It doesn't seem like he had tokill himself.
Speaker 2 (13:35):
Right, I mean you sniping people?
I mean I don't know, I wouldassume that they might find him.
Speaker 1 (13:41):
I guess I'm just saying that's very difficult to
trace back to you.
Speaker 2 (13:46):
Yeah, when you say sniper, that's like a long-ass
distance.
Speaker 1 (13:50):
Yeah, and then you get sniped.
Then he's running in the woods.
Speaker 2 (13:58):
And then how do you really trace that back to him?
I feel like there's some ways.
Speaker 1 (14:02):
I mean yeah there is some ways, but if you're really
50-50 chance.
I mean he's thrown off someways.
But if you're really 50-50chance, I mean he's throwed off,
so I'm sure he probably usedhis own bullets so you could
trace that back to himeventually, yeah, but I'm just
saying he's just.
I mean this is a throwed-offindividual.
Speaker 2 (14:16):
Right.
Speaker 1 (14:16):
Yeah, yeah, because I'm just saying he could have
probably got away with that.
Speaker 2 (14:20):
It sounds like it.
Speaker 1 (14:21):
Yeah.
Yeah, it sounds like.
Speaker 2 (14:22):
Maybe he wasn't as far as it sounds like in my head
, yeah.
Speaker 1 (14:28):
I mean, he's sniping them and they don't know where
it's coming from.
And these ain't police officers.
It's not like they got guns.
They got to go back to wherethey came from to report.
Speaker 2 (14:35):
I would assume as soon as guy number one dies.
It's like click the button, Iguess.
Speaker 1 (14:42):
Yeah, I'm just saying I'm sure there's a button.
Speaker 2 (14:44):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, A button.
I would assume there's a buttonin the fire truck to call the
police.
Speaker 1 (14:49):
Maybe yeah, but I'm just saying once you snipe, you
go down and you figure outwhat's happening.
The other dude just sniped.
Speaker 2 (14:58):
The other dude just sniped and he ran off.
I mean, I don't high intensesituation, yeah, yeah, so he
could have kept it.
Speaker 1 (15:06):
Maybe he could have got away with it.
Yeah, but he didn't even try.
Speaker 2 (15:10):
Yeah, yeah, but I mean, he's like damn, that was
fucked up.
You know what?
Yeah, yeah, yeah, like that wasfucked up.
Let me just end it.
Yeah, you say that after youdrop one.
Yeah, you don't.
Oh, it was probably the thirdone that he just like.
All right, he's running awaytrying to.
Speaker 1 (15:28):
Anyway, but yeah, that's just hella, throw it off
behavior.
Obviously, I don't even need tostate that point.
Yeah.
Yeah.
So on top of recent news, therewas a lady who was on their own
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restaurant here, but she workedso hard and long she finally
took a couple days off and thenshe went to sleep and never woke
up.
Speaker 2 (15:55):
I saw that yeah, wow yeah that's just kind of crazy.
Speaker 1 (16:01):
It's fucked up though right, I mean totally, it just
got.
It just kept put me down awhole rabbit hole of just
thinking what if we was back inthe day, like back in the day
like the 1600s?
Not even slavery, but as anIndian, how much work are they
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putting in?
Speaker 2 (16:23):
Wow, what's the difference between the mean?
Speaker 1 (16:26):
I'm just like look at natural.
It just got me thinking.
Just like a natural way ofliving yeah of how you hunt,
kill and then you know you playor whatever they do yeah and and
how much hours are they puttingin?
Because I feel like today's dayis like legitimately slave
culture.
We we have everything we need,but we work so hard yeah, we put
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in so many amount of hours, westress out so much that it had
to feel a lot.
Speaker 2 (16:56):
Especially in my mind .
Speaker 1 (16:57):
Easier than then, I mean like it seemed easier than
then, Like you hunt your foodand then you come home.
Of course we don't have toworry about starvation like back
in the day does yeah and Ithink that's really the where we
kind of have the advantage,because sometimes you don't know
when your meals will come.
Yeah, but now I was like dang,we're just slaving away and
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we're killing ourselves.
Speaker 2 (17:23):
I wouldn't compare it to slavery.
I think they did way more.
But, like the, the, the peopleof the land, yeah, I don't think
it even amounts close to theamount of work, just because,
like you have to clock in at acertain time and, like her, she
was running a business.
Right, that's totally different.
(17:45):
Right, that's like day in, dayout, yeah, if I'm hunting, I go
and kill this bear or whatever,I bring it back home, we
chilling for days, maybe evenyou know, you don't, you don't
get it every single day.
So it's like time goes by and Idon't think niggas was like
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running from one one land to theother, probably walking or
whatever, and every single daycooking and the heat and the
steam and the, I don't know.
That's when you like try tothink about it.
I, I see what you're saying.
It's like, uh, yeah, and Ithink I read in there that like
she died of quote, like the, thehustle culture, exactly, yeah,
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yeah, that is wild.
That is why and I do.
I I see that a lot with peoplewho, um, not see that situation
a lot of people, but I hear alot from people.
Something I never really agreewith was like this, this sleep,
I mean this, this theory of like, no sleep, like I don't get
(18:50):
that like I've.
Anytime I've been in pain,anytime I've had anything going
on with my body that just needsto be improved, or like a muscle
, whatever the fuck.
Soreness from working out sleepis the only thing that could
get me right every single time.
So it's gotta destroy you likeliterally from the inside.
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And I read somewhere that, um,when you don't sleep like that,
your brain eats itself.
So after a, you're not evenlike, you're not even like quick
to you know.
Make decisions.
Speaker 1 (19:31):
Make decisions yeah.
Speaker 2 (19:33):
Just react on your feet and stuff like that, like
your cognitive ability, isdeclining.
Yeah, I heard that if you sleepfor five hours, that's
equivalent to like going out andhaving a drunk night.
So like you wake up, the same,the same groggyness, the same
all that shit, I don't knowabout that.
Speaker 1 (19:52):
I do both.
I do the five hours on a weeklybasis, just cuz when I, when I
get off for uber and Saturday, Ihave church on Sunday.
Hmm, I can definitely say it,yeah.
Yeah, it's definitely not theequivalent.
So I'm having a drunk night out,yeah yeah but maybe if it's
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constant, like over a period oftime, because then I try to make
up for it the following sundayuh-huh yeah, yeah, so, um, yeah,
I don't, yeah, I, I disagree,at least from that one day now,
maybe, if it's like over amonth's period, like where you
only get five hours of sleep,right, yeah, I can understand, I
can understand that maybe alittle bit more, but no, I mean,
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sleep is very important andwho's this?
And I wonder, it's like so isshe?
Because I don't know and I'masking you like as if you know,
but how many hours is she?
Because I don't know and I'masking you like as if you know.
Speaker 2 (20:49):
But how many hours is she putting in?
I don't know Specifically thosepeople who run the restaurants
not work there, but like who runthem, hoes they be there all
fucking day Like really cooking.
Like to me that's like workingout from point a to point b
throughout the day and if you'renot overseeing the restaurant
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and you're like actually in it,you gotta be overworking
yourself, like after a certainamount of time and then to even
like to to, to, to, to, to haveto pick up a business off of the
ground, like bro, you gotta begoing ham and in a business like
that like versus like ane-commerce or even a clothing
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store or I don't know whateverelse.
That shit sounds like I'mworking out all day, so that's
just very tragic because of howmuch success that she was.
Uh, that know, to the pointthat she's gotten to which a lot
90% of people haven't in termsof their career, or that they're
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following their dreams andwanting to do certain things.
Speaker 1 (22:00):
So that's, very very sad.
Speaker 2 (22:02):
Do you know how old she was?
I don't.
She seemed kind of young.
Speaker 1 (22:06):
Yeah, but I just had a cousin that passed away in the
sleep out of nowhere what, yeah, I know, and he was like in his
40s, like out of nowhere, youknow.
He was healthy and just went tosleep and didn't wake up.
Bruh, that's scary.
As hell, yeah, yeah, yeah.
I mean, that's scary as hell Imean that's kind of the best way
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to go.
Oh my god, yeah, yeah, that'seven more effective.
Yeah, yeah, yeah, because it'slike.
It's like how, how do you like?
You know what I mean?
How do you?
That's?
What I'm like is is thatbecause people are in pain and
just not saying anything?
yeah right yeah, because like ifshe's, she's so tired and she
just doesn't wake up, it's likeyour body.
How does it shut down like that?
You know what I mean?
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I just don't understand thatconcept.
It just doesn't make any senseI do.
Speaker 2 (23:03):
I wish, I wish we were more advanced.
We probably are.
We just don't have access to it.
But like actually seeing what'sgoing on in the inside, versus
like after something's wrongwith you, then you treat it.
Yeah, I want that thing where,like it's got um, it goes to
your arteries like some, someblue dye or some shit, it goes
(23:29):
all the way through yourarteries and then there's like
an x-ray or some shit and youcan see if your arteries are
clogged anywhere.
Speaker 1 (23:35):
Yeah, but I mean, I feel like that should be
manifesting itself in a lot ofareas, Like if my arteries are
clogged my hand should be numb.
You know what I mean.
You know what I'm saying.
It don't be like that.
That's what I'm saying.
I feel like it should.
Yeah for sure, because, yeah,we would never know.
Yeah, because people be like youknow I got a headache and
(23:57):
constantly my head hurts, youknow, and people say those
things as if it's normal, Likeyour head's supposed to be
hurting all the damn time.
So that's why we told me.
I was like brad you need to getchecked out because there's
something you're doing wrong,whether you're eating the wrong
thing or whatever.
Are you taking pills you need?
that needs to be kind of figuredout if your stomach's hurting
all the damn time yeah thatain't a good sign right like and
(24:20):
I'm a big dude my head don't ifmy head be hurting constantly.
I'm looking into it you knowwhat I mean?
Yeah, my head don't be hurtinglike that now.
Yeah, yeah, I remember I wasgetting like these head tremors
like my head was shaking likethis yeah, yeah.
And then I'm like what is goingon, like I'm looking, why is
(24:41):
that funny?
Speaker 2 (24:44):
I don't know.
Speaker 1 (24:44):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, I'm sorry no, I'm not tripping, I'm
just wondering, why that funny?
But yeah, yeah, I'm like yeah,I'm just like shaking, like,
like head trimming and then soso.
So I'm looking up online justsearching things, because I'm
the type of person I'm gonnaread information.
It's not always going to be theyou know.
(25:07):
I'm going to just oh, I foundthe one thing and I'm going to
follow this advice.
That happens sometimes, but ithas to make sense in my head.
Yeah, like okay, I should dothat, like this.
The thing what it was sayingwas you, um, because of all um,
the Bluetooth, audio and stufflike that.
(25:29):
This is just what I'm reading.
When I talk about head tremors,you need to actually do
grounding techniques.
Take your shoes off and walk inthe grass.
I saw you do that Okay, yeah,yeah, yeah.
Speaker 2 (25:39):
Oh, wow, yeah, yeah, yeah, it does do something.
Speaker 1 (25:42):
Yeah, and so what I noticed and what made sense to
me is that with my headphones Iput on on, and then also when
I'm going to work, I had theBluetooth headset set up the
whole time.
So I'm constantly getting that,whatever radiation or wave thing
, and I was like, okay, I didn'teven look up Bluetooth stuff.
(26:02):
It was just saying that.
And I was like that's the issue, because I just started this
job and I've been on thatbluetooth headset so eight hour,
eight, nine hours out the dayon top of the, on top of my
headphones.
You can't have a plug orsomething that.
That's what I started doing.
I started plucking it up, yeah,yeah, and so I haven't had
those head trimmers, damn yeah,brad, we be fucked up, don't
(26:26):
even know it.
Yeah, yeah.
So I was like okay, I was likethey you know it wasn't the
information that I just, youknow, put in the uh, I just say,
head tremors and then I startreading it.
And then I went to a YouTubepage.
He necessarily didn't talkabout this.
(26:53):
See what the comments and seewhat people say about that.
You know the video.
And then he's like shoot thisperson's.
Like my husband was having hairtremors.
He started doing grounding andwalking in the grass and then,
you know, because of whatever,and I was like dang, I have been
using a lot of bluetooth, thatactually makes sense.
And then when I did thegrounding stuff, it felt much
better wow so it's just likelittle things, little techniques
that we don't even think about.
Yeah, and what we actually needand that's what really talked
about the indian and natural wayof life of just things of like.
(27:15):
Are we actually working toomuch?
And also the thing about whenI'm talking about slave.
So there's the slave concept ofactually getting whipped, but
you also have the indenturedservitude.
Are you more familiar aboutindentured servitude?
Explain it.
Well so it's pretty.
So the first really time Ireally heard about it was like
(27:36):
in the Bible, when, um, I'mgoing to say the names, but
they're going to be completelywrong.
When um, abraham worked for I'msaying the names wrong, but
worked to get set pursuits thereas a wife hit, the father was
like if you work for me for acertain amount of years, you can
(27:58):
have my daughter mm-hmm.
So he worked for him and tomarry this woman, when that's
that's a whole, another separateconversation.
Like picture working for a manfor five years just to marry
somebody.
You know what I mean.
Yeah, that's love.
Is it Absolutely you gonna?
Who you gonna?
(28:18):
Did he know her?
I mean I don't know.
Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
Speaker 2 (28:23):
He's not adding up to like he really knew the girl.
Speaker 1 (28:27):
I mean I don't know, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, adding
up to like he really knew thegirl.
I mean, but I'm just saying butthat's love, that's dedication,
that's one, that's drive,that's commitment.
I'll give you that, that's Imean you, you work for the
things you want, correct?
Yeah, I mean yeah, yeah.
So if you see, if you say eyesto somebody picture, I mean I,
I've seen you do it.
So yeah, yeah, back in the daywhen that person you really
wanted to pursue how much?
(28:48):
You wanted for her what you didto pursue her.
Yeah, over five years, thoughyou know what I mean.
Yeah, yeah right right so.
So, regardless of whatever yousay, it wasn't like if that
didn't work out, you ain'tdivorcing nobody.
I slaved for you, yeah, forfive years, yeah, yeah.
(29:09):
So that's a different type oflove, but besides that, that was
um we can put a pin on, yeah,pin on that whole thing, but
yeah.
So the indifferent servitude isyou work for a certain amount
of time to pay somebody off okayyeah, and and so with we're in
such a debt society, that'sabsolutely that's, that's
(29:31):
essentially what we're.
We're working to pay offsomething that they loaned us to
, right?
So?
So that was back in the day,that was slavery.
Yeah, you had, you had umwilling slavery and you have
like actually oppressed slavery.
So, and it's always interestingto me and you know, something I
(29:53):
may get killed for is how Idon't.
Now that I get older, I don'treally feel bad for homeless
people as much as I used to Allright, hardly ever Because I
feel like they're freer than usyou, I was, I was, I thought you
were going a certain way, butthen you went yeah, yeah,
(30:15):
completely.
Speaker 2 (30:16):
Uh, what do you mean?
Yeah, they're, they'redefinitely free, for sure.
Speaker 1 (30:21):
Yeah, they don't have bills, they don't have an
obligation, right, they dothings on their own accord, like
heroin, exactly.
Yeah, they do it because theylove that shit, like I mean,
yeah, yeah yeah they.
They collect money by whatevermeans and they do what they love
and have no obligation toanybody but themselves and move
(30:46):
freely.
Yeah, that is way freer than us.
We have responsibilities, wehave said things that we owe to
people that we make sure thatother people have, and we have a
.
We have our own self-governanceof what we supposed to be.
Yeah, there, it's gonna soundbad, but their failed society
(31:08):
they don't have I mean yeah,yeah, but so they don't have a
feeling of needing to do betterfor others yeah, well maybe
that's there.
Speaker 2 (31:20):
They just don't act on it.
I mean, for the most part, yeah.
Yeah, I'm sure they were like Ineed to get myself together.
Speaker 1 (31:24):
I mean, for the most part I'm sure they'd be like I
need to get myself together.
I'm sure there's a level tothat.
But they don't give a damn, ohno, I'm not in their mind, but
that's definitely the feeling Iget.
Speaker 2 (31:38):
Yeah, cause they be mad about you not giving them
money.
Speaker 1 (31:42):
You know what I mean.
Like, how you mad at me, likedang, like I owe you this.
You know what I mean.
Yeah, like how you mad at me,like, yeah, like dang, like I
owe you this.
You know what I mean like you,my homie you ever think they
like if they're outside?
Speaker 2 (31:53):
of walmart or some.
You know like what.
If they go in to um to pee orsomething like in the bathroom
and they look in the mirror andthey're like I really got to get
my together, I really got toget my shit together, do you
think that's ever a?
Speaker 1 (32:07):
thing it's got to be for some of them.
Speaker 2 (32:09):
Oh yeah, yeah yeah, some of them may.
Yeah, yeah, yeah, but you'retalking about the ones who live
and die and shit.
Speaker 1 (32:15):
Yeah, but that goes.
Yeah, I'm enjoying theconversation, but that's just
going off of just like freefreedom.
Yeah.
And when you're in debt society, we don't have that freedom.
There's people that we owe,that we have to work for to pay
them off.
You know, there's people thatwe have responsibly to to make
sure they're taken care of, andthat's just a form of indenture
(32:38):
servitude.
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (32:39):
No, that's, that's that's the way of Life on earth
for real.
Speaker 1 (32:46):
And so I'm getting somewhere with this.
So it brings me on about thelady.
Rest in peace of she's worked.
We're all in a rat race workingfor something I'm sure in her
mind.
I don't want to speak for her.
Rest in peace.
But there's an idea of if I'm abusiness owner, I'm, I'm free,
(33:08):
I make these choices but how areyou free?
I feel like you're more butbecause you, you, you're
responsible.
Nobody's telling you what to do.
You have the ownership.
Yeah, so that's the, that's thefreedom part of it.
Speaker 2 (33:25):
I don't think this.
I feel like it's much worse.
I mean it's more stressful yougot to pay the bill for the
building you got to pay theworkers?
Speaker 1 (33:37):
Yeah, exactly, but that's what I'm saying.
I'm just saying when peoplepursue ownership, why do you
think they do that?
What do you think the reasonswhy?
Speaker 2 (33:47):
Oh yeah, so it's more control of the situation,
Exactly yeah.
Speaker 1 (33:52):
I control.
Yeah, exactly, so there's afreedom level to that.
Yeah and so.
But to your point, which Iagree, is that now you're more
in debt to your like you saidthe building, the worker.
You're still on top of yourregular obligations of your
(34:14):
family.
So it's like, you see, the 1%,literally the top 1%, it should
be like slash, luckiest menalive mm-hmm you know, because
you you're at that point ofwhere you're free mm-hmm and you
(34:35):
also have and I'm sure thatstressed the hell out but you
also have the income capacity todo whatever you want.
Speaker 2 (34:43):
Yeah no, for sure that's.
That's, I think, what everyonestrives for.
That's why I don't like um, Idon't know.
I I will continue to geartoward more information on
things that can scale, versuslike set things in terms of like
jobs and stuff.
(35:03):
I mean, I love my job.
Uh, I appreciate them forgiving me a paycheck every month
, thank you.
But um, yeah, just like thingsthat scale you know what I'm
saying like you, you can't, youcan't really scale that much in
the job, because what you workhere, you work here for a year,
you get a raise, you just bumpup just a little bit for real.
(35:23):
But entrepreneurs and all thatlike they'll take it, of course,
like I'm in the social mediaspace.
So I've seen this over and overand over and over again.
Right, somebody starts off as50 cents this month, next month
100.
Three years from now they'remaking 100,000 a month.
Yeah.
And doing like you're saying,just like, depending on who they
(35:46):
are A lot of freedom, a lot, alot, a lot a lot of freedom.
And then it's a total, totaldifferent lifestyle of having to
, like, really bust your assevery single day.
And I mean you have to bustyour ass to get to a certain
point.
But it ain't the same thing aslike working overtime at this
warehouse cause you gotta payoff a car note or you know.
Speaker 1 (36:11):
So yeah, for sure.
Yeah, yeah, yeah and you knowit, it, it just cause, I mean
when it's scary to think thatyou work so hard that you never
wake up again.
Oh my God.
Yeah, yeah.
Speaker 2 (36:24):
And and I think we're oversimplifying the- situation,
because I'm sure there had tobe health wise wrong.
Speaker 1 (36:34):
Yeah, yeah, yeah yeah I mean god can call us home for
any time, any reason, you knowI mean so that.
so that's the real thing.
But you know, I just look atthat and how shocking that is
and it's like what are we doingto ourselves?
Yeah, yeah, and I'm alwaysgoing to be a person that's
self-reflecting, like,ultimately, what do I want?
(36:55):
What do I want for myself, myfamily, what are my goals and
how, you know, what is thehealthiest way to get there?
Uh-huh, yeah, and that's kindof where I'm at now.
I'm stuck in some of mydecisions you know like yeah
because you know, like for my,you have two cars, one's because
(37:16):
you know for well, they're bothfor uber, but the idea was to
have was when I got in a caraccident for the expedition, how
much I was spending on rent,rental costs.
I was like I could have leasedanother vehicle and that could
have been my insurance policy,and I could have had that.
Now, since I have a real job, Ido uber less.
(37:36):
So now I'm stuck in thatdecision.
That decision I made, you know,which seemed like a good
decision at the time, but not somuch now that I have an
obligation 40 hours a week tosomething else.
Yeah, so you know it.
Always, things like that, youknow, just has me questioning
the world, because I'm alwaysgoing about the rabbit hole of
(38:00):
how we should actually be doingthings and sometimes the simple
answer is the best yeah, likegetting your sleep.
Yeah, stop stressing overthings being little debt is
possible.
All those sound easy.
Yeah, until life hits you.
Until you know.
Yeah, until your daughter needssomething no right, and you
(38:21):
can't tell.
It's harder to say no, yeah,yeah.
So you're gonna work harder forthat.
My grandmother needs something,my girlfriend needs something
yeah, you want to elevate ingeneral.
Yeah, yeah, you always want tosee them happy, yeah, and so
it's always an add-on to things,to where it's like dang, yeah,
I'm gonna be literally workingfor it.
(38:41):
Yeah, my dad, you know it.
Yeah, he always going to eatsomething.
So it's like the part of youwants to say no, but a part of
you feels like you can't really.
Speaker 2 (38:55):
Yeah, everybody's like yeah, that's a tough thing.
I really wonder how.
I don't know if it was everdifferent, though I don't think
it ever was because like peoplewas working hard as hell way
back then I would assume.
I would assume by like thestories that I've read, like in
(39:19):
the bible and all that stuff,people like saying working hard,
it's that means something, it'snot just kind of like just
there.
So Saying working hard, thatmeans something, it's not just
kind of like just there.
I wonder if there was moreself-care, though.
Speaker 1 (39:34):
Picture your baby mother saying I know, this ain't
real.
I'm just giving you just ascenario, Saying hey, I need
rent money or we're going to beout on the street.
Oh shit, I need $500, butthat's be out on the street, oh
shit, and I need, I need 500,but all that's all you got.
You know what I mean.
Speaker 2 (39:52):
Yeah, I'm gonna have to.
Speaker 1 (39:54):
Give that, give that up.
Yeah, so you're puttingyourself In a detriment In order
to take care, you know, of thepeople.
Yeah, and that's you know, andthat's life.
Yeah, and definitely that's youknow and that's life.
Yeah, and definitely doublethat for a man.
Oh, yeah, yeah, for sure.
So it's just like it's always aconstant of just life happening
(40:15):
and it's just not always on asituation that you put yourself
in, it's your potentialsituation that you put, uh, that
your loved ones put themselvesin, that you have to help them,
dig them out.
Right, and that's just part oflove, and that's why I was like,
when we talk about freedom andhomelessness, nobody's going to
call on them.
You know what I mean?
That's just the reality of it.
Speaker 2 (40:35):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (40:36):
So and I was like they're free.
That's why I'm less likely Now.
I give dollars and I give itaway cause it's not going to
mean that much to me.
But I look at it like, bruh,you free to me.
You know what I mean.
Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
And like I don't want to sayyou live in a good life cause I
don't want to be in your shoes,but I I'm less sympathetic, as I
(40:56):
used to be.
Uh you're living the life thatyou real it's a choice at some
point.
Yeah, part of part of my crazyass want to be like I wish we
all just live off the land anddidn't worry about this debt,
stuff, stuff.
Like I wish I wish that's whatit's people care like less than
I do, like I, and this is aproblem that ultimately lie in
(41:20):
and why it's it's hard for me toprove this point and why I can
be as like, like when I askedthe question, like you think I'm
hard on my girlfriend and I andI was like I do agree that I
can be, I'm tougher than most.
One because I'm honest, and twois like I work hard as F, yeah,
(41:40):
yeah.
So, yeah, the less care I gotto be more sympathetic of your
feelings because your ass arestrong In my situation.
Now, if I'm a millionaire, yourass may not be as strong as
they are in this moment, but forwhat I got they are.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Like I have less time, yeah,yeah, yeah.
(42:00):
Yeah, I'm working harder thanever.
Speaker 2 (42:03):
To deal with.
Speaker 1 (42:04):
There's more people that need things.
I have more expenses, right,yeah, yeah, so when your ass are
lengthy, then I'm doing thatInstead of saying no, I'm doing
what you want.
But I'm also putting myselfmore debt.
I'm stressing myself out more.
(42:24):
I'm working harder than ever.
So, yeah, my attitude I'm goingto be more strict in how my
what is and my what's aren'tstrong.
Yeah, and that's the.
So we had this conversation.
Am I talking too much?
Speaker 2 (42:46):
I don't know where you're about to go.
So, maybe like summarizing acouple.
Speaker 1 (42:51):
Yeah, I got you, I got you.
Do we have other things to talkabout?
Speaker 2 (42:54):
I'm just kidding.
Oh, I got another question.
Speaker 1 (42:56):
Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah.
Speaker 2 (42:57):
Damn how the fuck we get.
I don't know how we got to 40something yeah yeah, yeah, Right
, right, right right.
Speaker 1 (43:02):
Yeah, You're right, right, right right.
Yeah, and just a long storyshort of it is that, hey, I
don't ask truly for much Right,but my overall asks are somewhat
vague to where it can beencompassing in a lot of ways,
like be respectful, that ask issmall, but that's very
(43:27):
encompassing, Right, right,right, righting, right, yeah.
Speaker 2 (43:29):
So I'll just end it on that note.
Yeah, that could be.
Yeah, that can go like manydifferent ways as well, though.
So but no, that makes sense.
I mean, I did read somewhere,um, that the people who have the
people who I think it's thepeople who've, like, tried
(43:52):
harder than others, have lesssympathy for people in general.
Yeah, I read that somewhere andI definitely got that, because
it was like some years ago whereI would see something happen or
, like you said, like a homelessperson or whatever.
I'm like damn.
(44:12):
And then now I'm like nigga,you chose that a little bit of
it.
Now things can happen to peopleand it can be a really messed
up situation, but for the mostpart, like nigga, I seen you
last four Saturdays on the sameblock this show hustle I ain't
got it you, you, you do this somuch and so often that you don't
(44:39):
remember me.
Speaker 1 (44:40):
Like that's funny that you said that.
Uh, because, like I was pulledup at a gas station, homie's
like bruh, I just honestly, Ijust got a jail.
You know I need this thing, da,da, da.
I know it's bs.
You know I'm gonna just throwyou it, just offer the strength.
You know, I mean just offerlove.
One black man to another.
(45:00):
I pulled up the true fit bro.
Put up the same car card.
Hey bro, I just got a.
I was like you asked me thatlast month.
I remember you.
No, I swear on God, I ain'tnever did that.
It drives off.
What the fuck.
(45:20):
You don't know me.
Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
Damn.
What the fuck.
Speaker 2 (45:27):
I'm with you on with you on that like after a while I
was like all right come on nowum, all right, I have one
question.
Um, damn damn, they actuallykind of tied a little bit into
what you were saying.
But have you ever put arelationship first and felt like
a romantic saying?
But have you ever put arelationship first and felt like
(45:47):
a romantic relationship?
Have you ever put a romanticrelationship first and felt like
a background character in yourown life, like almost like you
had identity loss, identity loss.
Speaker 1 (46:01):
Yeah, I want you to answer it first and then I'll
answer it.
Speaker 2 (46:04):
I've done it before to where it was one point I was
just putting the wholerelationship in front of me and
what I saw of myself, maybe evenlike before my own purpose at
one point, and I felt like I wascompletely losing who I was in
(46:24):
general, to where it kind oflike psychologically was like
messing with me.
I felt like I was losing myself.
Speaker 1 (46:31):
Yeah, I'm going to say I put others first, but I'll
take an L on this slightly.
I'm going to let you know, yeahyeah, yeah.
Yeah, my words.
I'm the type of person that'sgoing to kick and scream and
still do it Uh-huh, like, notlegitimately, but it's like hey,
(46:55):
man, hey, we got to easy, yougot to be easy on me.
You know what I mean.
My words may be a little light,like my grandmother, like I'd
be like hey, you know I gotta dothis and that you're.
(47:15):
You know the ask is a littlestrong, but I'm gonna fit it in.
Uh, I'll be doing thatsometimes, you know, and um so
you was like that, forever, likeum, I mean for forever, I'm 32.
So, yeah, yeah, yeah.
So I mean not no, I guess,because you just do what you're
told when you're younger.
But but now and and now I havemore.
Since February, when I startedthe job, I have less time than
ever.
Like two years ago, two, threeyears ago, I would say, were my
(47:38):
best times, to where and I knowI know I was gonna pay for it
eventually like when I got theexposition, I was like there's
gonna be maintenance issues onthis one and so my expenses are
gonna be more.
But now, like the money ispaying for itself, I should
probably put down a little bitmore, but I'm having a lot of
fun going out.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
So I I could have been way more.
(47:59):
That's why I'm out.
I could always point it back tome.
Yeah, yeah.
So I put myself, you know, and,and then I was saying like you
know, I probably should pay moreon these student loans, but you
know, since it's it's it'spandemic, they're not asking for
it, right?
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
So so I was like it's probablygonna come back and haunt me,
but I'm enjoying my life, yeahyeah, yeah, yeah yeah, so, so,
(48:23):
yeah, yeah.
So I I'm trying to equate itback to there how I, how I did
it but yeah, yeah so, oh, I knowwhere I was getting at, so I
had more freedom to do anything.
So my complaints to mygrandmother wouldn't be be crazy
, because I had talking aboutlike regular people I'm saying
like a romantic relationship?
Speaker 2 (48:43):
yeah, romantic relationship.
Have you like put this girllike on a pedestal, basically,
and eventually you realize likeyou were starting to lose
yourself or lose like the, the,what you thought of yourself and
all that type of shit.
Would you put her up in front?
(49:05):
Does that make sense?
Speaker 1 (49:07):
uh, I, I feel like I could have gotten there yeah
yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
So at one point I'm sure Icould have gotten gotten that
bad, but luckily she didn't dothe right things.
So it also just like exactly,yeah, yeah, cuz that I'll say
(49:30):
it's openly, because I was trulyvery insecure with myself
uh-huh then it was to a point towhere, you know, she was off,
was always breaking up andgetting back together, so we
wasn't even together at the time.
I was like, hey, do what youwant, as long as you come home
(49:50):
it was like that.
That's how that's likeultimately very pathetic, very
much so yeah.
Speaker 2 (50:01):
I just felt like all, so that's so you're going
through something.
Yeah, that was just like.
So I put felt like all theworld's most men have gone
through something.
That was just like I put herabove all this type of stuff.
Speaker 1 (50:11):
So I was like I know I can't say this thing because
that is very simpy.
That's the ultimate simp.
Yeah.
So I would never speak that.
Yeah, but that's how I felt.
Uh-huh In that moment.
Yeah, so that's when you talkabout losing yourself, like
these are not behavior qualitiesthat I would ever believe in,
right, yeah, but my love forthis person is feeling to that
(50:34):
point yeah, yeah, no, yeah, yeah.
Speaker 2 (50:38):
So in that, point.
Speaker 1 (50:38):
Yes, that has happened, so I have lost who I,
who I actually was in order tobe with or appease that person.
Speaker 2 (50:46):
Yeah, I feel like everybody kind of has some some
sort of story like that in theirlife mm-hmm they're dating life
anyway.
Mm-hmm, I don't think I reallyhave anything else oh well, I'll
say this, but a random fact,because we're talking about like
back, then you know, like how,uh, health-wise how things could
(51:09):
have been different.
Um, the way people work, theway people where I'm coming in
is the way people eat and thingslike that.
Did you know in the early 1900sum scientists put like money in
uh uh uh, some doctors.
No, no, no no, no, no, no, no,no, no, no.
(51:30):
The uh, uh people behind likemarketing, Mm-hmm.
Cause you remember TV startrolling out and shit like that,
and you know like newspapers wasa big thing, Mm-hmm.
So advertisements start to golike all the way up, mm-hmm.
So, um, did you know, likecompanies behind uh food brands
(51:52):
or whatever.
Maybe like cereal they putmoney in.
Uh, I guess scientists.
Scientists slash doctorspockets to say that breakfast is
the most important meal of theday.
Speaker 1 (52:06):
Oh yeah, they did that behind a lot of different
foods.
Speaker 2 (52:09):
But yeah, yeah, so they did that shit with cereal
to market the cereal, and thennow that's like a big thing for
Americans, and that goes withorange juice as well, because
they had, you know, they wereselling oranges and shit just
like any time ever, but theywere overproducing, selling
oranges and shit just like anyany time ever.
But they were over producing theoranges and they didn't know
(52:30):
what to do with the rest of themand it was like, well, shit,
we're just gonna like mix itwith some shit and it's orange
juice.
And then they did the samething with that.
So like that's why, like now,it's like a norm to have an
orange juice with like somethingin the morning but yeah it's
all like it's all made up yeah,absolutely like.
Speaker 1 (52:50):
Even cheese is like a byproduct that they didn't know
what to do with I canunderstand that was a great.
Speaker 2 (52:56):
Yeah, yeah, that boy.
Oh my god, coming coming backhere to nashville, bruh, this is
so much easier to gain weighthere.
Like bruh, what the fuck Likein.
La like anywhere I went I couldfind maybe salmon with
something.
Here it's not like that.
(53:17):
This shit is just straight hotchicken burgers.
Yeah, bruh, this shit don'teven taste, right?
Speaker 1 (53:26):
without cheese on it.
Yeah, yeah, yes, bruh.
No, that's 100% real, 100 real.
Yeah, they did that with a lotof things.
Yeah, yeah, yeah that's whythat's why we?
Speaker 2 (53:35):
uh, I just really wonder how.
I just really wonder what we'resupposed to be doing.
I feel like it's so simple,girl.
That's why, uh, I'm gonna giveme a juicer and.
I'm going to try to to.
I'm going to start implementingnot drinking as much, just
straight purified water, but I'mmixing it with, like watermelon
(53:57):
and cucumber and differentjuices, to where I'm not
drinking purified water anymore,like I'm drinking only coconut
water watermelon water.
Speaker 1 (54:07):
Okay, so like structured water is what they're
calling it.
Is that what you?
Speaker 2 (54:11):
just got electrolytes in it.
It's just.
It's kind of like just eatingfruits all the time yes, I've
been drinking okra water.
Speaker 1 (54:19):
Okra, yeah, yeah, so I let this soak, but it's like
very, it's slimy, it's not likeit doesn't bother me, but it's
like very it's slimy yeah no,yeah, it's not.
It's not like it doesn't botherme, but it's not like.
Yeah, it's not the best in theworld to like consume.
In terms of like it's becauseit's texture.
It's like you can dip your handup and goo's coming out, but
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you don't like beans.
Um, no, beans is like chewingthe organ beans are, yeah, but
this is my preference.
But yeah, yeah, yeah, sorry,you act like beans and slime is
the same thing.
No, no, it's just like.
I don't like how beans look.
They look like yeah, yeah, yeah, poor man's pebbles you know
(55:02):
what I mean?
Speaker 3 (55:02):
like it's just yeah, I don't like how they look, I
talk about kidney beans.
Speaker 1 (55:06):
Eating it straight up don't smell good, they look bad
, it looks like mush and theyand you throw it in with
everything else and it and ittastes it doesn't you don't like
it with rice either.
Speaker 2 (55:18):
Some type of no, not at all.
Speaker 1 (55:19):
I don't like refried beans oh for real.
That looks like baby poop.
Speaker 2 (55:24):
That's a good analogy yeah, yeah, yeah, that's a good
one.
Speaker 1 (55:29):
Yeah, I can tolerate barbecue beans, but I don't eat
two scoops before it gets toomuch, before it sets in, before
it's like all right, I'm chewingthis.
It's not good.
It tastes well because it'ssweet barbecue.
Speaker 2 (55:42):
Right.
Speaker 1 (55:43):
And it masks the taste of the beans.
Yeah, yeah, q.
Speaker 2 (55:48):
And it masks the taste of the beans, yeah, yeah
so it's like I can put this onanything but beans.
You're just masking what theyare, yeah, yeah, you can't put
that up like on a burger yeah,exactly, exactly yeah well, that
was, that was my fact yeah,well, I think we did it, we did
good.
Speaker 1 (56:03):
Yeah, I appreciate it Good conversation.
Yeah yeah, this was we couldreally be talking All day for
real.
I just wanted to say.
Speaker 2 (56:10):
Oh right, yeah, and just Do I have something else?
Speaker 1 (56:13):
No, no, I'm just saying that's a possibility for
us, cause we could just chat.
Speaker 2 (56:16):
Oh okay, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, that's
true, absolutely, but I think wedid it.
Speaker 1 (56:21):
Yeah, we did good.
and we are back with another episode of two for the
culture.
I'm justin davante, I'm steveray.
Yes, sir, we're back.
How you feeling?
Feeling good, man feeling goodum what happened?
I think it's just same old,same old.
We just now.
We're on the schedule now, sooh, yeah, yeah unless something
significant changing um, thenit's not this weekend again um
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yeah, I went to germantown pub.
Speaker 2 (00:28):
This time I didn't know that was the black place,
because in germantown it seemslike I don't know it's
gentrified.
Speaker 1 (00:34):
That's what it is okay well, yeah I didn't.
Speaker 2 (00:38):
I walked in.
I was like the waitress firstof all, the waitresses, the wait
the bartenders.
Being black is automatic, likeoh, this is a black place, yeah,
yeah, so that was cool, yeah,yeah, and seeing like a black
style yeah, I mean, that wastotally different yeah, and you
know it's.
Speaker 1 (00:57):
It's kind of like who you know type of thing.
It's like black people knowblack people, white people know
white people.
So it's just kind of how itgoes yeah, that.
Speaker 2 (01:05):
Yeah, that was dope.
Speaker 1 (01:06):
That was dope.
Yeah, well, that's cool.
Same old, same old, working allthe time yeah yeah, it's a much
different, you know, unlessthere's something tragic
happening.
Well, I do have family reunionin a couple weeks, so maybe
we'll pull back with.
You know something new.
Speaker 2 (01:20):
But, yeah, working relationship, taking care of
people, the family reunion, isit like a big?
Speaker 1 (01:27):
one.
Yeah, it's big, yeah, yeah,yeah, one of those summer joints
.
Yeah, yeah, yeah, it's a prettybig event.
You know, my family's ancestryis from New Orleans.
Oh, yeah, yeah, so it'll bedown there, mm-hmm.
But I did want to get straightinto a game.
Speaker 2 (01:46):
I think you'll find it.
Speaker 1 (01:47):
So this one is can you see?
My okay so this one is the topfive countries attracted to
American women.
Speaker 2 (02:02):
Okay, you know, all your shit is countries.
I keep telling you mygeographical sense is not up
there, but we can go.
Speaker 1 (02:13):
Well, yeah, yeah yeah , and keep in mind this is an
easier one.
America.
Speaker 2 (02:18):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, you want to come to America,
exactly.
Speaker 1 (02:22):
So, yeah, so these are guessable.
At least you know it's not onecountry on this list is like oh,
I was never going to think ofthat.
Speaker 2 (02:29):
Okay, okay, I can see that.
Speaker 1 (02:31):
All right, so, but these are.
You know the particular order,but you can name three, strikes,
you're out and yeah, top five,top, top five uh uh uh.
Speaker 3 (02:49):
Countries that are attracted to american women yes
um all right, france.
Speaker 1 (02:57):
France is number four .
France is number four okay, sokeep on going on that thing.
When you think of france, whatother country you think of?
When you think of France, whatother country do you think of?
Great Britain?
No, that's strike one, think ofanother.
Now, france and this othercountry are like you can confuse
them.
Both People think Exactly.
(03:18):
Yeah, that's number one, okay,okay.
Speaker 2 (03:21):
Really.
Speaker 1 (03:21):
Yep, Yep.
So now you got one and four.
Now no more Europe is on thisone.
So there's the biggest countryin south america I I'm really
kind of giving you hints mexicothat's north america oh, hold on
(03:43):
um.
They know you got bbls.
What does bbl stand for brazil?
Yeah, there you go okay, I wasthe.
I was kind of thinking brazil,all right and I'm gonna give you
the reasons why these are,these are and I'm gonna stem a
question off of that all rightso now we got one country in
africa and one company, onecountry in, uh, asia.
All right, so this one.
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I'm gonna give you the reasonwhy, uh, cultural fact.
Well, I'll give you theamerican women represent a
different type of feminine, amore assertive independence,
which intrigues these men.
I guess I should have reallygave you those guesses.
And, and this is the country inAsia, we went to war Exactly.
(04:32):
So that's number three.
Okay, now this is kind of funnya little bit.
The reason why this is numberfive American women are often
viewed as successful, ambitiousand strong.
Many of these men admire thosetraits and also seek US
connection for education, familyopportunity.
So they're pretty much usingAmerican women right, and this
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is in Africa blank scammer.
Speaker 2 (05:03):
Nigeria exactly.
Oh my god, oh my god, that'sfucked up.
Hammer Speaker 1 19 exactly.
Oh my.
Speaker 1 (05:07):
God Speaker 2 Exactly , oh, my God Speaker.
1 All right, yeah, yeah sothat's fucked up.
Speaker 2 (05:10):
Yeah, and I definitely knew what it was.
I've heard that many, manytimes.
Speaker 1 (05:14):
Exactly, I mean.
But yeah, so even you know,chat DBT was like bruh, they'd
be using these hoes out here.
Oh my.
God, yeah, so they be usingthese hoes out here?
Oh my God, yeah.
So Italy.
Italian men are often intriguedby American women's confidence,
openness and independence.
Uh-huh, brazil.
American women are often seenas exotic and adventurous.
Okay, and we talked about Japan, france.
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There's long been mutualattraction between America and
the French.
French men often see America'swomen as stylish, open-minded
and intellectually curious.
Yep, so yeah.
But the Japan one makes sense.
It's more assertive andindependent, which intrigues
some Japanese men.
Speaker 2 (05:59):
Which I guess they like that.
I said French because I saw alot of photos of French women
who don't shave their armpits soI thought maybe like they
wanted somebody who does okay,yeah, so yeah understood, it
worked yeah yeah, does that list.
Speaker 1 (06:19):
Do you feel like there should have been others on
that list?
Speaker 2 (06:22):
I don't know.
I don't know because you knowI'm in america, so if anything,
I kind of, I guess, like them,look at women in different
countries, it's just likeforeign.
You could just see the beautyin a foreign woman.
So I, I wouldn't.
I wouldn't even know what typefor real that they liked.
(06:43):
You know there's many differenttypes of women here so I didn't
know which type they were goingfor.
Maybe y'all in Miami.
Speaker 1 (06:56):
And the Nigerian one made the most sense because
they're seeking citizenship.
Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah.
And then Mexican, they're soclose to the border.
Oh, I could see that one hasbeen a top one.
That's why I'm kind of like notreally I'm a little surprised
not seeing that uh-huh.
Speaker 2 (07:14):
Uh, because just by nature or canadian, but I guess
it was kind of like outrulingthat the neighboring countries a
little bit yeah, damn, okayhmm,damn okay, you know, this is
though, this though yeah, sinceyou're doing it now, I'll do
mine okay, thank you all right,so it's literally on my laptop
(07:39):
so don't look at it.
All right, so the top fivegrossing black movies in the 90s
uh top five grossing blackmovies.
Speaker 1 (07:53):
You got three strikes okay um, I would say um
minister society yes, okay,that's number three all right,
I'll say Friday no, okay, that'sactually a little shocking,
because that was.
Speaker 2 (08:09):
Was that in the 90s?
I would think it is.
Speaker 1 (08:13):
Okay, probably in the 99, man.
Speaker 2 (08:21):
I would say.
What's the one with Tupac andJanet Jackson?
Poetic Justice, yes, no, wow,this top five, though, so this
is like mass mass appeal right,huh.
Speaker 1 (08:34):
And what can I get a hint on?
What constitutes like a blackmovie, like yeah?
Speaker 2 (08:39):
see that that was my thing, but just mainly like a
classic black film okay, yeah,so if I so like probably.
Justice was a great choice yeah, okay, so, yeah, yeah.
Speaker 1 (08:49):
So I need to stay along on that theme.
Yes, like it's like one of them.
Speaker 2 (08:54):
One of them is kind of like out of it.
Speaker 1 (08:55):
Okay, because as long as I was like brad, like it has
a bunch of black cats right butit's like like men in black or
some shit.
Speaker 2 (09:02):
Exactly, I know what you're saying.
Yeah, yeah, yeah, one of themis a little bit outside of it,
but yeah, okay, okay, okay.
Speaker 1 (09:09):
So I'm going to need a little bit, because I mean I
can name some stuff Do they haveOne of them is Generational
actors like Will Smith.
Yes.
Speaker 2 (09:19):
One of them.
Speaker 1 (09:20):
Oh, what's the movie with Eddie Murphy when he's like
an African prince?
Speaker 2 (09:26):
Oh, that was a good one, but no, I don't think
that's on there, wow.
Speaker 1 (09:30):
Is there any Eddie Murphy movies on there?
It's not like what's the jointwhere he's big and he turns
skinny when he drinks a potion.
Speaker 2 (09:42):
Yeah, that's wrong too.
I don't know if this list Imean this is what says.
Highest grossing black moviesin the 1990s was yep, following
closely.
So the first one is boys in thehood okay the second one is
malcolm x.
That's what I was like.
Speaker 1 (09:58):
It's a little bit out okay, you said generational
actors oh, okay, I got so yeahit's that one Minister of
Society.
Speaker 2 (10:05):
What's Love Got to Do With it?
Speaker 1 (10:06):
That is a damn lie.
No, no, no, what's Love oh?
Yeah, I'm tripping.
Speaker 2 (10:10):
In 93?
I'm tripping, yeah, I'mtripping, and Boomerang.
Speaker 1 (10:14):
Boomerang, yeah, that .
Speaker 2 (10:21):
Po, you know what's love got to do no, that's the
Tina Turner joint, okay yeah, Ican see because that still comes
on now.
Boomerang was funny, but whenwas Poetic Justice?
Poetic Justice hats?
Yeah, cause Tupac was onlypopping for like a couple years,
and it was in the 90s.
Speaker 1 (10:42):
I was like a juice.
You know I'm thinking brownsugar like loving basketball,
not brown sugar.
Loving basketball always comesto my head.
But yeah, yeah, yeah, I knew Iwas one cuz menaces.
Know those boys in the hood,that's critically acclaimed.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
So that was the one I wasreally thinking about.
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (10:59):
I thought she was gonna get that one, oh well.
Okay.
Oh yeah, Did you hear aboutsomething that happened today?
What is that?
I'll watch out with the thing.
But you like touched it, ohokay, so what happened today was
(11:21):
did you hear about the Idahosniper?
Speaker 1 (11:22):
No, I didn't hear about that.
Speaker 2 (11:24):
Bruh.
So there was a guy and I forgothis age.
He had to be like kind of young, this man.
He lit a fire, like on somemountain or something, and the
firefighters came to put it out.
And while the firefighters wereI think it was a number of them
(11:47):
there and he literally sethimself up like posted up and
sniped the firefighters oh wowyeah while they were trying to
do it, and then he killed two ofthem and injured one of them.
And then the guy's granddadsaid that he applied to be a
firefighter and he didn't get inbecause he wasn't tall enough
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so how tall you think it wasprobably okay, yeah.
I guess he got mad and then theyfound him with the gun and he
was dead, so I guess he shothimself yeah, someone's around
him for that, kill him.
Speaker 1 (12:25):
You know why he killed himself.
And two is why did you killsome, some firemen?
Speaker 2 (12:30):
because you didn't get in I don't know, but I mean,
how else does it add up for?
Speaker 1 (12:35):
you, I mean, I mean, I'm not saying like a conspiracy
is deeper than that, but I'mjust saying like you really
really one.
He didn't get in because hisheight he got.
He didn't get in because he wasthrown off.
Speaker 2 (12:49):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, because yeah, even bad
vibes, yeah, absolutely like.
Speaker 1 (12:56):
Yeah, you're not worthy to put on.
Yeah, if you're willing to killsomebody over that, then you're
thrown off.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
So the height was probably anexcuse to get rid of his ass.
Speaker 2 (13:07):
I just see him in his interview.
Speaker 1 (13:08):
Let him burn pass on this guy.
Yeah, no, I didn't hear aboutthat.
When did this happen today?
Today, oh wow, and they alreadygot explanation of a reason why
I mean, I guess he did yeah,yeah yeah, so I guess I talked
to his granddaddy or something,I don't know yeah.
And why.
How is Ava going to trace itback to him?
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You know what?
Speaker 2 (13:30):
I mean why?
Speaker 1 (13:31):
He didn't.
It doesn't seem like he had tokill himself.
Speaker 2 (13:35):
Right, I mean you sniping people?
I mean I don't know, I wouldassume that they might find him.
Speaker 1 (13:41):
I guess I'm just saying that's very difficult to
trace back to you.
Speaker 2 (13:46):
Yeah, when you say sniper, that's like a long-ass
distance.
Speaker 1 (13:50):
Yeah, and then you get sniped.
Then he's running in the woods.
Speaker 2 (13:58):
And then how do you really trace that back to him?
I feel like there's some ways.
Speaker 1 (14:02):
I mean yeah there is some ways, but if you're really
50-50 chance.
I mean he's thrown off someways.
But if you're really 50-50chance, I mean he's throwed off,
so I'm sure he probably usedhis own bullets so you could
trace that back to himeventually, yeah, but I'm just
saying he's just.
I mean this is a throwed-offindividual.
Speaker 2 (14:16):
Right.
Speaker 1 (14:16):
Yeah, yeah, because I'm just saying he could have
probably got away with that.
Speaker 2 (14:20):
It sounds like it.
Speaker 1 (14:21):
Yeah.
Yeah, it sounds like.
Speaker 2 (14:22):
Maybe he wasn't as far as it sounds like in my head
, yeah.
Speaker 1 (14:28):
I mean, he's sniping them and they don't know where
it's coming from.
And these ain't police officers.
It's not like they got guns.
They got to go back to wherethey came from to report.
Speaker 2 (14:35):
I would assume as soon as guy number one dies.
It's like click the button, Iguess.
Speaker 1 (14:42):
Yeah, I'm just saying I'm sure there's a button.
Speaker 2 (14:44):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, A button.
I would assume there's a buttonin the fire truck to call the
police.
Speaker 1 (14:49):
Maybe yeah, but I'm just saying once you snipe, you
go down and you figure outwhat's happening.
The other dude just sniped.
Speaker 2 (14:58):
The other dude just sniped and he ran off.
I mean, I don't high intensesituation, yeah, yeah, so he
could have kept it.
Speaker 1 (15:06):
Maybe he could have got away with it.
Yeah, but he didn't even try.
Speaker 2 (15:10):
Yeah, yeah, but I mean, he's like damn, that was
fucked up.
You know what?
Yeah, yeah, yeah, like that wasfucked up.
Let me just end it.
Yeah, you say that after youdrop one.
Yeah, you don't.
Oh, it was probably the thirdone that he just like.
All right, he's running awaytrying to.
Speaker 1 (15:28):
Anyway, but yeah, that's just hella, throw it off
behavior.
Obviously, I don't even need tostate that point.
Yeah.
Yeah.
So on top of recent news, therewas a lady who was on their own
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restaurant here, but she workedso hard and long she finally
took a couple days off and thenshe went to sleep and never woke
up.
Speaker 2 (15:55):
I saw that yeah, wow yeah that's just kind of crazy.
Speaker 1 (16:01):
It's fucked up though right, I mean totally, it just
got.
It just kept put me down awhole rabbit hole of just
thinking what if we was back inthe day, like back in the day
like the 1600s?
Not even slavery, but as anIndian, how much work are they
(16:22):
putting in?
Speaker 2 (16:23):
Wow, what's the difference between the mean?
Speaker 1 (16:26):
I'm just like look at natural.
It just got me thinking.
Just like a natural way ofliving yeah of how you hunt,
kill and then you know you playor whatever they do yeah and and
how much hours are they puttingin?
Because I feel like today's dayis like legitimately slave
culture.
We we have everything we need,but we work so hard yeah, we put
(16:49):
in so many amount of hours, westress out so much that it had
to feel a lot.
Speaker 2 (16:56):
Especially in my mind .
Speaker 1 (16:57):
Easier than then, I mean like it seemed easier than
then, Like you hunt your foodand then you come home.
Of course we don't have toworry about starvation like back
in the day does yeah and Ithink that's really the where we
kind of have the advantage,because sometimes you don't know
when your meals will come.
Yeah, but now I was like dang,we're just slaving away and
(17:22):
we're killing ourselves.
Speaker 2 (17:23):
I wouldn't compare it to slavery.
I think they did way more.
But, like the, the, the peopleof the land, yeah, I don't think
it even amounts close to theamount of work, just because,
like you have to clock in at acertain time and, like her, she
was running a business.
Right, that's totally different.
(17:45):
Right, that's like day in, dayout, yeah, if I'm hunting, I go
and kill this bear or whatever,I bring it back home, we
chilling for days, maybe evenyou know, you don't, you don't
get it every single day.
So it's like time goes by and Idon't think niggas was like
(18:05):
running from one one land to theother, probably walking or
whatever, and every single daycooking and the heat and the
steam and the, I don't know.
That's when you like try tothink about it.
I, I see what you're saying.
It's like, uh, yeah, and Ithink I read in there that like
she died of quote, like the, thehustle culture, exactly, yeah,
(18:29):
yeah, that is wild.
That is why and I do.
I I see that a lot with peoplewho, um, not see that situation
a lot of people, but I hear alot from people.
Something I never really agreewith was like this, this sleep,
I mean this, this theory of like, no sleep, like I don't get
(18:50):
that like I've.
Anytime I've been in pain,anytime I've had anything going
on with my body that just needsto be improved, or like a muscle
, whatever the fuck.
Soreness from working out sleepis the only thing that could
get me right every single time.
So it's gotta destroy you likeliterally from the inside.
(19:14):
And I read somewhere that, um,when you don't sleep like that,
your brain eats itself.
So after a, you're not evenlike, you're not even like quick
to you know.
Make decisions.
Speaker 1 (19:31):
Make decisions yeah.
Speaker 2 (19:33):
Just react on your feet and stuff like that, like
your cognitive ability, isdeclining.
Yeah, I heard that if you sleepfor five hours, that's
equivalent to like going out andhaving a drunk night.
So like you wake up, the same,the same groggyness, the same
all that shit, I don't knowabout that.
Speaker 1 (19:52):
I do both.
I do the five hours on a weeklybasis, just cuz when I, when I
get off for uber and Saturday, Ihave church on Sunday.
Hmm, I can definitely say it,yeah.
Yeah, it's definitely not theequivalent.
So I'm having a drunk night out,yeah yeah but maybe if it's
(20:13):
constant, like over a period oftime, because then I try to make
up for it the following sundayuh-huh yeah, yeah, so, um, yeah,
I don't, yeah, I, I disagree,at least from that one day now,
maybe, if it's like over amonth's period, like where you
only get five hours of sleep,right, yeah, I can understand, I
can understand that maybe alittle bit more, but no, I mean,
(20:34):
sleep is very important andwho's this?
And I wonder, it's like so isshe?
Because I don't know and I'masking you like as if you know,
but how many hours is she?
Because I don't know and I'masking you like as if you know.
Speaker 2 (20:49):
But how many hours is she putting in?
I don't know Specifically thosepeople who run the restaurants
not work there, but like who runthem, hoes they be there all
fucking day Like really cooking.
Like to me that's like workingout from point a to point b
throughout the day and if you'renot overseeing the restaurant
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and you're like actually in it,you gotta be overworking
yourself, like after a certainamount of time and then to even
like to to, to, to, to, to haveto pick up a business off of the
ground, like bro, you gotta begoing ham and in a business like
that like versus like ane-commerce or even a clothing
(21:34):
store or I don't know whateverelse.
That shit sounds like I'mworking out all day, so that's
just very tragic because of howmuch success that she was.
Uh, that know, to the pointthat she's gotten to which a lot
90% of people haven't in termsof their career, or that they're
(21:57):
following their dreams andwanting to do certain things.
Speaker 1 (22:00):
So that's, very very sad.
Speaker 2 (22:02):
Do you know how old she was?
I don't.
She seemed kind of young.
Speaker 1 (22:06):
Yeah, but I just had a cousin that passed away in the
sleep out of nowhere what, yeah, I know, and he was like in his
40s, like out of nowhere, youknow.
He was healthy and just went tosleep and didn't wake up.
Bruh, that's scary.
As hell, yeah, yeah, yeah.
I mean, that's scary as hell Imean that's kind of the best way
(22:39):
to go.
Oh my god, yeah, yeah, that'seven more effective.
Yeah, yeah, yeah, because it'slike.
It's like how, how do you like?
You know what I mean?
How do you?
That's?
What I'm like is is thatbecause people are in pain and
just not saying anything?
yeah right yeah, because like ifshe's, she's so tired and she
just doesn't wake up, it's likeyour body.
How does it shut down like that?
You know what I mean?
(22:59):
I just don't understand thatconcept.
It just doesn't make any senseI do.
Speaker 2 (23:03):
I wish, I wish we were more advanced.
We probably are.
We just don't have access to it.
But like actually seeing what'sgoing on in the inside, versus
like after something's wrongwith you, then you treat it.
Yeah, I want that thing where,like it's got um, it goes to
your arteries like some, someblue dye or some shit, it goes
(23:29):
all the way through yourarteries and then there's like
an x-ray or some shit and youcan see if your arteries are
clogged anywhere.
Speaker 1 (23:35):
Yeah, but I mean, I feel like that should be
manifesting itself in a lot ofareas, Like if my arteries are
clogged my hand should be numb.
You know what I mean.
You know what I'm saying.
It don't be like that.
That's what I'm saying.
I feel like it should.
Yeah for sure, because, yeah,we would never know.
Yeah, because people be like youknow I got a headache and
(23:57):
constantly my head hurts, youknow, and people say those
things as if it's normal, Likeyour head's supposed to be
hurting all the damn time.
So that's why we told me.
I was like brad you need to getchecked out because there's
something you're doing wrong,whether you're eating the wrong
thing or whatever.
Are you taking pills you need?
that needs to be kind of figuredout if your stomach's hurting
all the damn time yeah thatain't a good sign right like and
(24:20):
I'm a big dude my head don't ifmy head be hurting constantly.
I'm looking into it you knowwhat I mean?
Yeah, my head don't be hurtinglike that now.
Yeah, yeah, I remember I wasgetting like these head tremors
like my head was shaking likethis yeah, yeah.
And then I'm like what is goingon, like I'm looking, why is
(24:41):
that funny?
Speaker 2 (24:44):
I don't know.
Speaker 1 (24:44):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, I'm sorry no, I'm not tripping, I'm
just wondering, why that funny?
But yeah, yeah, I'm like yeah,I'm just like shaking, like,
like head trimming and then soso.
So I'm looking up online justsearching things, because I'm
the type of person I'm gonnaread information.
It's not always going to be theyou know.
(25:07):
I'm going to just oh, I foundthe one thing and I'm going to
follow this advice.
That happens sometimes, but ithas to make sense in my head.
Yeah, like okay, I should dothat, like this.
The thing what it was sayingwas you, um, because of all um,
the Bluetooth, audio and stufflike that.
(25:29):
This is just what I'm reading.
When I talk about head tremors,you need to actually do
grounding techniques.
Take your shoes off and walk inthe grass.
I saw you do that Okay, yeah,yeah, yeah.
Speaker 2 (25:39):
Oh, wow, yeah, yeah, yeah, it does do something.
Speaker 1 (25:42):
Yeah, and so what I noticed and what made sense to
me is that with my headphones Iput on on, and then also when
I'm going to work, I had theBluetooth headset set up the
whole time.
So I'm constantly getting that,whatever radiation or wave thing
, and I was like, okay, I didn'teven look up Bluetooth stuff.
(26:02):
It was just saying that.
And I was like that's the issue, because I just started this
job and I've been on thatbluetooth headset so eight hour,
eight, nine hours out the dayon top of the, on top of my
headphones.
You can't have a plug orsomething that.
That's what I started doing.
I started plucking it up, yeah,yeah, and so I haven't had
those head trimmers, damn yeah,brad, we be fucked up, don't
(26:26):
even know it.
Yeah, yeah.
So I was like okay, I was likethey you know it wasn't the
information that I just, youknow, put in the uh, I just say,
head tremors and then I startreading it.
And then I went to a YouTubepage.
He necessarily didn't talkabout this.
(26:53):
See what the comments and seewhat people say about that.
You know the video.
And then he's like shoot thisperson's.
Like my husband was having hairtremors.
He started doing grounding andwalking in the grass and then,
you know, because of whatever,and I was like dang, I have been
using a lot of bluetooth, thatactually makes sense.
And then when I did thegrounding stuff, it felt much
better wow so it's just likelittle things, little techniques
that we don't even think about.
Yeah, and what we actually needand that's what really talked
about the indian and natural wayof life of just things of like.
(27:15):
Are we actually working toomuch?
And also the thing about whenI'm talking about slave.
So there's the slave concept ofactually getting whipped, but
you also have the indenturedservitude.
Are you more familiar aboutindentured servitude?
Explain it.
Well so it's pretty.
So the first really time Ireally heard about it was like
(27:36):
in the Bible, when, um, I'mgoing to say the names, but
they're going to be completelywrong.
When um, abraham worked for I'msaying the names wrong, but
worked to get set pursuits thereas a wife hit, the father was
like if you work for me for acertain amount of years, you can
(27:58):
have my daughter mm-hmm.
So he worked for him and tomarry this woman, when that's
that's a whole, another separateconversation.
Like picture working for a manfor five years just to marry
somebody.
You know what I mean.
Yeah, that's love.
Is it Absolutely you gonna?
Who you gonna?
(28:18):
Did he know her?
I mean I don't know.
Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
Speaker 2 (28:23):
He's not adding up to like he really knew the girl.
Speaker 1 (28:27):
I mean I don't know, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, adding
up to like he really knew thegirl.
I mean, but I'm just saying butthat's love, that's dedication,
that's one, that's drive,that's commitment.
I'll give you that, that's Imean you, you work for the
things you want, correct?
Yeah, I mean yeah, yeah.
So if you see, if you say eyesto somebody picture, I mean I,
I've seen you do it.
So yeah, yeah, back in the daywhen that person you really
wanted to pursue how much?
(28:48):
You wanted for her what you didto pursue her.
Yeah, over five years, thoughyou know what I mean.
Yeah, yeah right right so.
So, regardless of whatever yousay, it wasn't like if that
didn't work out, you ain'tdivorcing nobody.
I slaved for you, yeah, forfive years, yeah, yeah.
(29:09):
So that's a different type oflove, but besides that, that was
um we can put a pin on, yeah,pin on that whole thing, but
yeah.
So the indifferent servitude isyou work for a certain amount
of time to pay somebody off okayyeah, and and so with we're in
such a debt society, that'sabsolutely that's, that's
(29:31):
essentially what we're.
We're working to pay offsomething that they loaned us to
, right?
So?
So that was back in the day,that was slavery.
Yeah, you had, you had umwilling slavery and you have
like actually oppressed slavery.
So, and it's always interestingto me and you know, something I
(29:53):
may get killed for is how Idon't.
Now that I get older, I don'treally feel bad for homeless
people as much as I used to Allright, hardly ever Because I
feel like they're freer than usyou, I was, I was, I thought you
were going a certain way, butthen you went yeah, yeah,
(30:15):
completely.
Speaker 2 (30:16):
Uh, what do you mean?
Yeah, they're, they'redefinitely free, for sure.
Speaker 1 (30:21):
Yeah, they don't have bills, they don't have an
obligation, right, they dothings on their own accord, like
heroin, exactly.
Yeah, they do it because theylove that shit, like I mean,
yeah, yeah yeah they.
They collect money by whatevermeans and they do what they love
and have no obligation toanybody but themselves and move
(30:46):
freely.
Yeah, that is way freer than us.
We have responsibilities, wehave said things that we owe to
people that we make sure thatother people have, and we have a
.
We have our own self-governanceof what we supposed to be.
Yeah, there, it's gonna soundbad, but their failed society
(31:08):
they don't have I mean yeah,yeah, but so they don't have a
feeling of needing to do betterfor others yeah, well maybe
that's there.
Speaker 2 (31:20):
They just don't act on it.
I mean, for the most part, yeah.
Yeah, I'm sure they were like Ineed to get myself together.
Speaker 1 (31:24):
I mean, for the most part I'm sure they'd be like I
need to get myself together.
I'm sure there's a level tothat.
But they don't give a damn, ohno, I'm not in their mind, but
that's definitely the feeling Iget.
Speaker 2 (31:38):
Yeah, cause they be mad about you not giving them
money.
Speaker 1 (31:42):
You know what I mean.
Like, how you mad at me, likedang, like I owe you this.
You know what I mean.
Yeah, like how you mad at me,like, yeah, like dang, like I
owe you this.
You know what I mean like you,my homie you ever think they
like if they're outside?
Speaker 2 (31:53):
of walmart or some.
You know like what.
If they go in to um to pee orsomething like in the bathroom
and they look in the mirror andthey're like I really got to get
my together, I really got toget my shit together, do you
think that's ever a?
Speaker 1 (32:07):
thing it's got to be for some of them.
Speaker 2 (32:09):
Oh yeah, yeah yeah, some of them may.
Yeah, yeah, yeah, but you'retalking about the ones who live
and die and shit.
Speaker 1 (32:15):
Yeah, but that goes.
Yeah, I'm enjoying theconversation, but that's just
going off of just like freefreedom.
Yeah.
And when you're in debt society, we don't have that freedom.
There's people that we owe,that we have to work for to pay
them off.
You know, there's people thatwe have responsibly to to make
sure they're taken care of, andthat's just a form of indenture
(32:38):
servitude.
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (32:39):
No, that's, that's that's the way of Life on earth
for real.
Speaker 1 (32:46):
And so I'm getting somewhere with this.
So it brings me on about thelady.
Rest in peace of she's worked.
We're all in a rat race workingfor something I'm sure in her
mind.
I don't want to speak for her.
Rest in peace.
But there's an idea of if I'm abusiness owner, I'm, I'm free,
(33:08):
I make these choices but how areyou free?
I feel like you're more butbecause you, you, you're
responsible.
Nobody's telling you what to do.
You have the ownership.
Yeah, so that's the, that's thefreedom part of it.
Speaker 2 (33:25):
I don't think this.
I feel like it's much worse.
I mean it's more stressful yougot to pay the bill for the
building you got to pay theworkers?
Speaker 1 (33:37):
Yeah, exactly, but that's what I'm saying.
I'm just saying when peoplepursue ownership, why do you
think they do that?
What do you think the reasonswhy?
Speaker 2 (33:47):
Oh yeah, so it's more control of the situation,
Exactly yeah.
Speaker 1 (33:52):
I control.
Yeah, exactly, so there's afreedom level to that.
Yeah and so.
But to your point, which Iagree, is that now you're more
in debt to your like you saidthe building, the worker.
You're still on top of yourregular obligations of your
(34:14):
family.
So it's like, you see, the 1%,literally the top 1%, it should
be like slash, luckiest menalive mm-hmm you know, because
you you're at that point ofwhere you're free mm-hmm and you
(34:35):
also have and I'm sure thatstressed the hell out but you
also have the income capacity todo whatever you want.
Speaker 2 (34:43):
Yeah no, for sure that's.
That's, I think, what everyonestrives for.
That's why I don't like um, Idon't know.
I I will continue to geartoward more information on
things that can scale, versuslike set things in terms of like
jobs and stuff.
(35:03):
I mean, I love my job.
Uh, I appreciate them forgiving me a paycheck every month
, thank you.
But um, yeah, just like thingsthat scale you know what I'm
saying like you, you can't, youcan't really scale that much in
the job, because what you workhere, you work here for a year,
you get a raise, you just bumpup just a little bit for real.
(35:23):
But entrepreneurs and all thatlike they'll take it, of course,
like I'm in the social mediaspace.
So I've seen this over and overand over and over again.
Right, somebody starts off as50 cents this month, next month
100.
Three years from now they'remaking 100,000 a month.
Yeah.
And doing like you're saying,just like, depending on who they
(35:46):
are A lot of freedom, a lot, alot, a lot a lot of freedom.
And then it's a total, totaldifferent lifestyle of having to
, like, really bust your assevery single day.
And I mean you have to bustyour ass to get to a certain
point.
But it ain't the same thing aslike working overtime at this
warehouse cause you gotta payoff a car note or you know.
Speaker 1 (36:11):
So yeah, for sure.
Yeah, yeah, yeah and you knowit, it, it just cause, I mean
when it's scary to think thatyou work so hard that you never
wake up again.
Oh my God.
Yeah, yeah.
Speaker 2 (36:24):
And and I think we're oversimplifying the- situation,
because I'm sure there had tobe health wise wrong.
Speaker 1 (36:34):
Yeah, yeah, yeah yeah I mean god can call us home for
any time, any reason, you knowI mean so that.
so that's the real thing.
But you know, I just look atthat and how shocking that is
and it's like what are we doingto ourselves?
Yeah, yeah, and I'm alwaysgoing to be a person that's
self-reflecting, like,ultimately, what do I want?
(36:55):
What do I want for myself, myfamily, what are my goals and
how, you know, what is thehealthiest way to get there?
Uh-huh, yeah, and that's kindof where I'm at now.
I'm stuck in some of mydecisions you know like yeah
because you know, like for my,you have two cars, one's because
(37:16):
you know for well, they're bothfor uber, but the idea was to
have was when I got in a caraccident for the expedition, how
much I was spending on rent,rental costs.
I was like I could have leasedanother vehicle and that could
have been my insurance policy,and I could have had that.
Now, since I have a real job, Ido uber less.
(37:36):
So now I'm stuck in thatdecision.
That decision I made, you know,which seemed like a good
decision at the time, but not somuch now that I have an
obligation 40 hours a week tosomething else.
Yeah, so you know it.
Always, things like that, youknow, just has me questioning
the world, because I'm alwaysgoing about the rabbit hole of
(38:00):
how we should actually be doingthings and sometimes the simple
answer is the best yeah, likegetting your sleep.
Yeah, stop stressing overthings being little debt is
possible.
All those sound easy.
Yeah, until life hits you.
Until you know.
Yeah, until your daughter needssomething no right, and you
(38:21):
can't tell.
It's harder to say no, yeah,yeah.
So you're gonna work harder forthat.
My grandmother needs something,my girlfriend needs something
yeah, you want to elevate ingeneral.
Yeah, yeah, you always want tosee them happy, yeah, and so
it's always an add-on to things,to where it's like dang, yeah,
I'm gonna be literally workingfor it.
(38:41):
Yeah, my dad, you know it.
Yeah, he always going to eatsomething.
So it's like the part of youwants to say no, but a part of
you feels like you can't really.
Speaker 2 (38:55):
Yeah, everybody's like yeah, that's a tough thing.
I really wonder how.
I don't know if it was everdifferent, though I don't think
it ever was because like peoplewas working hard as hell way
back then I would assume.
I would assume by like thestories that I've read, like in
(39:19):
the bible and all that stuff,people like saying working hard,
it's that means something, it'snot just kind of like just
there.
So Saying working hard, thatmeans something, it's not just
kind of like just there.
I wonder if there was moreself-care, though.
Speaker 1 (39:34):
Picture your baby mother saying I know, this ain't
real.
I'm just giving you just ascenario, Saying hey, I need
rent money or we're going to beout on the street.
Oh shit, I need $500, butthat's be out on the street, oh
shit, and I need, I need 500,but all that's all you got.
You know what I mean.
Speaker 2 (39:52):
Yeah, I'm gonna have to.
Speaker 1 (39:54):
Give that, give that up.
Yeah, so you're puttingyourself In a detriment In order
to take care, you know, of thepeople.
Yeah, and that's you know, andthat's life.
Yeah, and definitely that's youknow and that's life.
Yeah, and definitely doublethat for a man.
Oh, yeah, yeah, for sure.
So it's just like it's always aconstant of just life happening
(40:15):
and it's just not always on asituation that you put yourself
in, it's your potentialsituation that you put, uh, that
your loved ones put themselvesin, that you have to help them,
dig them out.
Right, and that's just part oflove, and that's why I was like,
when we talk about freedom andhomelessness, nobody's going to
call on them.
You know what I mean?
That's just the reality of it.
Speaker 2 (40:35):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (40:36):
So and I was like they're free.
That's why I'm less likely Now.
I give dollars and I give itaway cause it's not going to
mean that much to me.
But I look at it like, bruh,you free to me.
You know what I mean.
Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
And like I don't want to sayyou live in a good life cause I
don't want to be in your shoes,but I I'm less sympathetic, as I
(40:56):
used to be.
Uh you're living the life thatyou real it's a choice at some
point.
Yeah, part of part of my crazyass want to be like I wish we
all just live off the land anddidn't worry about this debt,
stuff, stuff.
Like I wish I wish that's whatit's people care like less than
I do, like I, and this is aproblem that ultimately lie in
(41:20):
and why it's it's hard for me toprove this point and why I can
be as like, like when I askedthe question, like you think I'm
hard on my girlfriend and I andI was like I do agree that I
can be, I'm tougher than most.
One because I'm honest, and twois like I work hard as F, yeah,
(41:40):
yeah.
So, yeah, the less care I gotto be more sympathetic of your
feelings because your ass arestrong In my situation.
Now, if I'm a millionaire, yourass may not be as strong as
they are in this moment, but forwhat I got they are.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Like I have less time, yeah,yeah, yeah.
(42:00):
Yeah, I'm working harder thanever.
Speaker 2 (42:03):
To deal with.
Speaker 1 (42:04):
There's more people that need things.
I have more expenses, right,yeah, yeah, so when your ass are
lengthy, then I'm doing thatInstead of saying no, I'm doing
what you want.
But I'm also putting myselfmore debt.
I'm stressing myself out more.
(42:24):
I'm working harder than ever.
So, yeah, my attitude I'm goingto be more strict in how my
what is and my what's aren'tstrong.
Yeah, and that's the.
So we had this conversation.
Am I talking too much?
Speaker 2 (42:46):
I don't know where you're about to go.
So, maybe like summarizing acouple.
Speaker 1 (42:51):
Yeah, I got you, I got you.
Do we have other things to talkabout?
Speaker 2 (42:54):
I'm just kidding.
Oh, I got another question.
Speaker 1 (42:56):
Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah.
Speaker 2 (42:57):
Damn how the fuck we get.
I don't know how we got to 40something yeah yeah, yeah, Right
, right, right right.
Speaker 1 (43:02):
Yeah, You're right, right, right right.
Yeah, and just a long storyshort of it is that, hey, I
don't ask truly for much Right,but my overall asks are somewhat
vague to where it can beencompassing in a lot of ways,
like be respectful, that ask issmall, but that's very
(43:27):
encompassing, Right, right,right, righting, right, yeah.
Speaker 2 (43:29):
So I'll just end it on that note.
Yeah, that could be.
Yeah, that can go like manydifferent ways as well, though.
So but no, that makes sense.
I mean, I did read somewhere,um, that the people who have the
people who I think it's thepeople who've, like, tried
(43:52):
harder than others, have lesssympathy for people in general.
Yeah, I read that somewhere andI definitely got that, because
it was like some years ago whereI would see something happen or
, like you said, like a homelessperson or whatever.
I'm like damn.
(44:12):
And then now I'm like nigga,you chose that a little bit of
it.
Now things can happen to peopleand it can be a really messed
up situation, but for the mostpart, like nigga, I seen you
last four Saturdays on the sameblock this show hustle I ain't
got it you, you, you do this somuch and so often that you don't
(44:39):
remember me.
Speaker 1 (44:40):
Like that's funny that you said that.
Uh, because, like I was pulledup at a gas station, homie's
like bruh, I just honestly, Ijust got a jail.
You know I need this thing, da,da, da.
I know it's bs.
You know I'm gonna just throwyou it, just offer the strength.
You know, I mean just offerlove.
One black man to another.
(45:00):
I pulled up the true fit bro.
Put up the same car card.
Hey bro, I just got a.
I was like you asked me thatlast month.
I remember you.
No, I swear on God, I ain'tnever did that.
It drives off.
What the fuck.
(45:20):
You don't know me.
Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
Damn.
What the fuck.
Speaker 2 (45:27):
I'm with you on with you on that like after a while I
was like all right come on nowum, all right, I have one
question.
Um, damn damn, they actuallykind of tied a little bit into
what you were saying.
But have you ever put arelationship first and felt like
a romantic saying?
But have you ever put arelationship first and felt like
(45:47):
a romantic relationship?
Have you ever put a romanticrelationship first and felt like
a background character in yourown life, like almost like you
had identity loss, identity loss.
Speaker 1 (46:01):
Yeah, I want you to answer it first and then I'll
answer it.
Speaker 2 (46:04):
I've done it before to where it was one point I was
just putting the wholerelationship in front of me and
what I saw of myself, maybe evenlike before my own purpose at
one point, and I felt like I wascompletely losing who I was in
(46:24):
general, to where it kind oflike psychologically was like
messing with me.
I felt like I was losing myself.
Speaker 1 (46:31):
Yeah, I'm going to say I put others first, but I'll
take an L on this slightly.
I'm going to let you know, yeahyeah, yeah.
Yeah, my words.
I'm the type of person that'sgoing to kick and scream and
still do it Uh-huh, like, notlegitimately, but it's like hey,
(46:55):
man, hey, we got to easy, yougot to be easy on me.
You know what I mean.
My words may be a little light,like my grandmother, like I'd
be like hey, you know I gotta dothis and that you're.
(47:15):
You know the ask is a littlestrong, but I'm gonna fit it in.
Uh, I'll be doing thatsometimes, you know, and um so
you was like that, forever, likeum, I mean for forever, I'm 32.
So, yeah, yeah, yeah.
So I mean not no, I guess,because you just do what you're
told when you're younger.
But but now and and now I havemore.
Since February, when I startedthe job, I have less time than
ever.
Like two years ago, two, threeyears ago, I would say, were my
(47:38):
best times, to where and I knowI know I was gonna pay for it
eventually like when I got theexposition, I was like there's
gonna be maintenance issues onthis one and so my expenses are
gonna be more.
But now, like the money ispaying for itself, I should
probably put down a little bitmore, but I'm having a lot of
fun going out.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
So I I could have been way more.
(47:59):
That's why I'm out.
I could always point it back tome.
Yeah, yeah.
So I put myself, you know, and,and then I was saying like you
know, I probably should pay moreon these student loans, but you
know, since it's it's it'spandemic, they're not asking for
it, right?
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
So so I was like it's probablygonna come back and haunt me,
but I'm enjoying my life, yeahyeah, yeah, yeah yeah, so, so,
(48:23):
yeah, yeah.
So I I'm trying to equate itback to there how I, how I did
it but yeah, yeah so, oh, I knowwhere I was getting at, so I
had more freedom to do anything.
So my complaints to mygrandmother wouldn't be be crazy
, because I had talking aboutlike regular people I'm saying
like a romantic relationship?
Speaker 2 (48:43):
yeah, romantic relationship.
Have you like put this girllike on a pedestal, basically,
and eventually you realize likeyou were starting to lose
yourself or lose like the, the,what you thought of yourself and
all that type of shit.
Would you put her up in front?
(49:05):
Does that make sense?
Speaker 1 (49:07):
uh, I, I feel like I could have gotten there yeah
yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
So at one point I'm sure Icould have gotten gotten that
bad, but luckily she didn't dothe right things.
So it also just like exactly,yeah, yeah, cuz that I'll say
(49:30):
it's openly, because I was trulyvery insecure with myself
uh-huh then it was to a point towhere, you know, she was off,
was always breaking up andgetting back together, so we
wasn't even together at the time.
I was like, hey, do what youwant, as long as you come home
(49:50):
it was like that.
That's how that's likeultimately very pathetic, very
much so yeah.
Speaker 2 (50:01):
I just felt like all, so that's so you're going
through something.
Yeah, that was just like.
So I put felt like all theworld's most men have gone
through something.
That was just like I put herabove all this type of stuff.
Speaker 1 (50:11):
So I was like I know I can't say this thing because
that is very simpy.
That's the ultimate simp.
Yeah.
So I would never speak that.
Yeah, but that's how I felt.
Uh-huh In that moment.
Yeah, so that's when you talkabout losing yourself, like
these are not behavior qualitiesthat I would ever believe in,
right, yeah, but my love forthis person is feeling to that
(50:34):
point yeah, yeah, no, yeah, yeah.
Speaker 2 (50:38):
So in that, point.
Speaker 1 (50:38):
Yes, that has happened, so I have lost who I,
who I actually was in order tobe with or appease that person.
Speaker 2 (50:46):
Yeah, I feel like everybody kind of has some some
sort of story like that in theirlife mm-hmm they're dating life
anyway.
Mm-hmm, I don't think I reallyhave anything else oh well, I'll
say this, but a random fact,because we're talking about like
back, then you know, like how,uh, health-wise how things could
(51:09):
have been different.
Um, the way people work, theway people where I'm coming in
is the way people eat and thingslike that.
Did you know in the early 1900sum scientists put like money in
uh uh uh, some doctors.
No, no, no no, no, no, no, no,no, no, no.
(51:30):
The uh, uh people behind likemarketing, Mm-hmm.
Cause you remember TV startrolling out and shit like that,
and you know like newspapers wasa big thing, Mm-hmm.
So advertisements start to golike all the way up, mm-hmm.
So, um, did you know, likecompanies behind uh food brands
(51:52):
or whatever.
Maybe like cereal they putmoney in.
Uh, I guess scientists.
Scientists slash doctorspockets to say that breakfast is
the most important meal of theday.
Speaker 1 (52:06):
Oh yeah, they did that behind a lot of different
foods.
Speaker 2 (52:09):
But yeah, yeah, so they did that shit with cereal
to market the cereal, and thennow that's like a big thing for
Americans, and that goes withorange juice as well, because
they had, you know, they wereselling oranges and shit just
like any time ever, but theywere overproducing, selling
oranges and shit just like anyany time ever.
But they were over producing theoranges and they didn't know
(52:30):
what to do with the rest of themand it was like, well, shit,
we're just gonna like mix itwith some shit and it's orange
juice.
And then they did the samething with that.
So like that's why, like now,it's like a norm to have an
orange juice with like somethingin the morning but yeah it's
all like it's all made up yeah,absolutely like.
Speaker 1 (52:50):
Even cheese is like a byproduct that they didn't know
what to do with I canunderstand that was a great.
Speaker 2 (52:56):
Yeah, yeah, that boy.
Oh my god, coming coming backhere to nashville, bruh, this is
so much easier to gain weighthere.
Like bruh, what the fuck Likein.
La like anywhere I went I couldfind maybe salmon with
something.
Here it's not like that.
(53:17):
This shit is just straight hotchicken burgers.
Yeah, bruh, this shit don'teven taste, right?
Speaker 1 (53:26):
without cheese on it.
Yeah, yeah, yes, bruh.
No, that's 100% real, 100 real.
Yeah, they did that with a lotof things.
Yeah, yeah, yeah that's whythat's why we?
Speaker 2 (53:35):
uh, I just really wonder how.
I just really wonder what we'resupposed to be doing.
I feel like it's so simple,girl.
That's why, uh, I'm gonna giveme a juicer and.
I'm going to try to to.
I'm going to start implementingnot drinking as much, just
straight purified water, but I'mmixing it with, like watermelon
(53:57):
and cucumber and differentjuices, to where I'm not
drinking purified water anymore,like I'm drinking only coconut
water watermelon water.
Speaker 1 (54:07):
Okay, so like structured water is what they're
calling it.
Is that what you?
Speaker 2 (54:11):
just got electrolytes in it.
It's just.
It's kind of like just eatingfruits all the time yes, I've
been drinking okra water.
Speaker 1 (54:19):
Okra, yeah, yeah, so I let this soak, but it's like
very, it's slimy, it's not likeit doesn't bother me, but it's
like very it's slimy yeah no,yeah, it's not.
It's not like it doesn't botherme, but it's not like.
Yeah, it's not the best in theworld to like consume.
In terms of like it's becauseit's texture.
It's like you can dip your handup and goo's coming out, but
(54:40):
you don't like beans.
Um, no, beans is like chewingthe organ beans are, yeah, but
this is my preference.
But yeah, yeah, yeah, sorry,you act like beans and slime is
the same thing.
No, no, it's just like.
I don't like how beans look.
They look like yeah, yeah, yeah, poor man's pebbles you know
(55:02):
what I mean?
Speaker 3 (55:02):
like it's just yeah, I don't like how they look, I
talk about kidney beans.
Speaker 1 (55:06):
Eating it straight up don't smell good, they look bad
, it looks like mush and theyand you throw it in with
everything else and it and ittastes it doesn't you don't like
it with rice either.
Speaker 2 (55:18):
Some type of no, not at all.
Speaker 1 (55:19):
I don't like refried beans oh for real.
That looks like baby poop.
Speaker 2 (55:24):
That's a good analogy yeah, yeah, yeah, that's a good
one.
Speaker 1 (55:29):
Yeah, I can tolerate barbecue beans, but I don't eat
two scoops before it gets toomuch, before it sets in, before
it's like all right, I'm chewingthis.
It's not good.
It tastes well because it'ssweet barbecue.
Speaker 2 (55:42):
Right.
Speaker 1 (55:43):
And it masks the taste of the beans.
Yeah, yeah, q.
Speaker 2 (55:48):
And it masks the taste of the beans, yeah, yeah
so it's like I can put this onanything but beans.
You're just masking what theyare, yeah, yeah, you can't put
that up like on a burger yeah,exactly, exactly yeah well, that
was, that was my fact yeah,well, I think we did it, we did
good.
Speaker 1 (56:03):
Yeah, I appreciate it Good conversation.
Yeah yeah, this was we couldreally be talking All day for
real.
I just wanted to say.
Speaker 2 (56:10):
Oh right, yeah, and just Do I have something else?
Speaker 1 (56:13):
No, no, I'm just saying that's a possibility for
us, cause we could just chat.
Speaker 2 (56:16):
Oh okay, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, that's
true, absolutely, but I think wedid it.
Speaker 1 (56:21):
Yeah, we did good.
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