The Raw Truths: From Privilege to Perspective in Modern America

Justin and Steven delve into life's complexities through personal stories, exploring racial dynamics, random encounters, and the influence of women on their worldviews.

• Building generational wealth creates opportunities not just for ourselves but for future generations
• The incident with Little Nas X prompts discussion about controversial marketing tactics in the music industry
• Philosophical question: which is worse—a girlfriend who damages your property or one who specifically destroys your Bible?
• Strange encounters with strangers highlight the unpredictability of human behavior and mental health issues
• Personal experiences with "light skin privilege" reveal how racial bias operates in everyday interactions
• Women have shaped their perspectives by teaching them to appreciate life beyond achievement and provision
• The unspoken truth: women often want a sense of control and validation even when they say otherwise

Join us next time as we continue exploring these topics in greater depth. Don't forget to subscribe and share your thoughts with us on social media!

Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:00):
and we are back with another episode of two for the
culture.
I'm justin amante, steven ray.
Yes, sir, we're back again.
Yeah, hopefully I don't get itright.
Yeah, recorded 30 minutes ofpodcast and the video you'll see
is on youtube.
So, yeah, somehow I did notknow that our memory card was
not in there and, uh, we had 30minutes of uh, just talking hey,

(00:22):
man, we're.
We're in abundance right now,exactly so we're gonna uh get
back and get you guys a newanother episode here, but you
know, it was a good conversation.

Speaker 2 (00:31):
Just talking about life probably wasn't meant for,
you know, a podcast, yeah,because I feel like I was being
a little bit, but I was tryingto keep it, you know I think
it's still a very, very greatinformation for people who know
nothing about steps to buildingwealth, and there are probably

(00:52):
people out there that are inthat position that they can do
what has happened with you.
It's in their kids.
Or I can oh shit, I can havethis house, I can give this to
somebody.
You know what I'm saying?
Yeah, kids.
Or you know I can oh shit, Ican have this house, I can like
give this to somebody.

Speaker 1 (01:05):
And you know, yeah, and I even think you know how
tough, like, of course, I'm nota single father you know, let
alone a single mother who hasobligations to their child and
are like confined in their ownsituation, like, yeah, yeah, how
tough that is and how much of alife you really don't have,
right, you know, yeah, yeah, soI can only imagine that is, yeah

(01:29):
, that's crazy I definitely very, very thankful of where I'm at
right now, just knowing how lifecan be for other people.

Speaker 2 (01:40):
Yeah, it's super important to just like lock in,
like I told you, like the giftsand shit that are given to each
and every one of us.
I feel like that shit is soimportant to lock in if you can.
Yeah, I feel like that shit canchange everything.

Speaker 1 (01:55):
Yeah, I think that's probably what I need to do,
because there's a lazy elementthat I do have.
There's a lot of hard work Ihave, but there's also that
laziness that I feel and I needto get over that hump and, um,
the time is now.

Speaker 2 (02:12):
Yeah, so you want to get into the bs?
Uh, yeah, yeah, yeah, let's dothat.
All right, let me, let me, letme.
You have something.
Uh, yeah, all right, go ahead,go ahead.

Speaker 1 (02:16):
Uh, little nas x, have you heard about him?
Uh, yeah, uh go ahead, uh, thathe was um locked up for
apparently, apparently beinghigh on drugs, being half naked
in these LA streets yeah, I sawhim like walking around and
saying you coming to the partytonight yeah no, I definitely

(02:37):
saw that.

Speaker 2 (02:39):
Do you know what area that was?
No, I thought that was LA rightyeah, yeah, I wonder what area
that shit was, that was youfamiliar with la, like that uh,
in a way, in a way um that'd becrazy if you just passed by.

Speaker 1 (02:54):
He's a little now, not zex in his underwear yeah, I
wouldn't stop.

Speaker 2 (03:00):
No, shout out to him.
I definitely like his musicthough you do Every time, yeah,
every time he releases.
You know the videos arestarting to get a hard watch.
That was not the right words tosay.

Speaker 1 (03:17):
Yeah, I know what you mean, yeah.
Yeah, like, but the songs areusually really good I got you, I
mean yeah, yeah, I'm not a fanjust because, just uh, the
controversy with that one thedevil joint.

Speaker 2 (03:33):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, that popped up in the back
of my head too.
Yeah, yeah, so was he dancingwith the devil.

Speaker 1 (03:39):
Uh, twerking on the devil.
He was doing a lot in that andI was like, okay, you're, you're
alienating your audience and ohgod, yeah, yeah, yeah, for a
way, no point, yeah, yeah, whatwas the ultimate message?
It just seems like it was anext, at unnecessary next added
step into promoting your recorduh-huh because, like with old

(04:02):
town road, you know it was likekyle loves this.

Speaker 2 (04:04):
I mean, it was like Kyatt loves that song.

Speaker 1 (04:06):
I mean it was a great tune.
At first it was just a funrecord and then it was like okay
, I think he somewhat upset anold country audience.
It's like this is not countryand they created somewhat of a
controversy.
And so I feel like he doubleddown um and he's a natural troll

(04:27):
anyway into um trying to make acontroversial, controversial
christian audience to be upsetat his record yeah, yeah, yeah.

Speaker 2 (04:36):
Yeah, he had like the devil shoes, right yeah,
exactly like blood, exactly yeah.

Speaker 1 (04:42):
So I think kind of genius marketing, well it
depends on how you look atthings, because you know, you
know, and the religious side islike all right, you know god
ain't going to bless you if thisis where you're at with it,
yeah yeah, so you're ultimatelygoing to downfall if you don't
have god on your side after,like, yeah, yeah, um, truly um.

(05:02):
So, seeing some of this, itcould be maybe, uh, another
thing of of him doing that, butit also can be actually him
going through it, which I feellike at some point that's going
to be essential yeah, um, youknow, I I thought about this
going to happen.

Speaker 2 (05:17):
I mean, I I definitely feel like this um,
what, what do you think?
What do you think is worse?
I don't know why I thoughtabout this.
I thought about this likeyesterday.
Let's say you're dating a girlright and she gets mad at you
right and she gets reallyfucking upset.
Maybe you smashed her mom, likesomething like that right, I

(05:38):
know, but I'm just saying itprefaces like her reaction right
.
Maybe that's not the best thingthat I thought about it just
because, like you're in, forgetit.
Either way, she's super madabout something, all right, and
her reaction.
There's two reactions.
Which one do you think in herlife is worse?

(06:00):
Which one do you think is worse, all right, which one do you
think is worse, alright?
First reaction is she has a carand she drives it like damn
near through your place, right?
So you're chilling upstairs,downstairs, whatever you hear a
boom.
And then there's a big ass holein your crib.

(06:21):
Now she's fine, but she justlike really just messed up your
whole crib.
Right now you got to get itfixed.
Blah, blah, blah.
That's, that's number one.
Number two um, she finds yourbible and she cuts it up and
maybe burns it, whatever, andthen you come back to your house

(06:43):
and then you see that that'sthe only thing, not your clothes
, nothing, but just your Bible.
Which one do you think is worse?
For her sake, not for yours,but for her sake.

Speaker 1 (06:55):
I mean for her sake.
I mean that's just a load ofquestions, because I have a ton
of questions on both sides whyare you choosing my Bible to cut
up and burn?
Like that's me cheating on youis like that's why you think
that's going to get back at meand it's like so what is your

(07:16):
thought process?

Speaker 2 (07:17):
so.

Speaker 1 (07:17):
I'm gonna be more confused at the bible than you
running into my house becauseone that would be just extremely
you're like.
Why are you hurting yourself tohurt me?

Speaker 2 (07:27):
yeah, so you think like she would be hurting
herself more?

Speaker 1 (07:30):
well, yeah, I will have more questions um about the
bible in particular because Icould just go out and buy a new
one, right then, why did youchoose a bible to try to hurt me
?
Because I did this thing sothat that one, the other one, I
can somewhat rationalize.

Speaker 2 (07:45):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (07:45):
But it's just still insanely crazy to do in general.
So I'm gonna have morequestions with the Bible.
Yeah, not to say, like whichone's better or worse.
Um, it's like that's devilishbehavior, that's like very
demonic to choose my Bible.

Speaker 2 (07:59):
Yes, right.

Speaker 1 (07:59):
Like I expect, like it'll be different.
If you broke my work laptop,that's harder to replace.
And I have to come to mysuperiors and say hey, I need a
new laptop because my girlfriendbroke it.
There's a lot to explain.
You're actually going to takesomething away from me if you

(08:20):
did that, versus me replacing myBible through Amazon, through
Amazon, yeah, yeah, yeah.
I'll get the Bible next day.
I'm like okay, yeah, yeah, yeah, just I'll get the Bible next
day.
You know, I'm like okay, nowyou're crazy for real, yeah.
Like that's like very demonicand crazy.
And, um, that's true, thatbecause I don't even have my
Bible be open like that.

Speaker 2 (08:35):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (08:35):
Like around, just for you to find you know it's not
the first thing.
I know he like he goes tochurch every sunday, so that was
the first thing I saw.
Yeah, you're not going to seeit like that.
Yeah, so for you just to like,uh, methodically, I guess that's
the word or the word to use tochoose my bible is will be very

(08:55):
creepy.

Speaker 2 (08:55):
I thought about that, um, when I was.
You know like I read a chapterlike every day.

Speaker 1 (08:59):
Basically it's really good, so I appreciate it.
Do you know what chapter you'reon now?
Not to Chapter.
The book I'm in is Exodus now,so I finished Genesis.
Okay, how are you feeling?
I feel good.
I feel good.

Speaker 2 (09:12):
That shit just feels.
It just feels really good toread that.
You know, like I said, like oneof my main reasons for doing it
is, of course, clearly to getget closer to god and all that.
But uh, the other part is, uh,I feel like it's the law of the
land, so like I feel like Icould just learn more about
being a better human being, whatto do or not to do and uh, even
situations that I haven't beenin yet, and when it comes to me,

(09:35):
I can remember like okay, likeif I get a whole lot of money,
like I need to be like josephand just like fucking put this
shit to the side and, you know,so I can eventually feed myself
and people, and you know I'msaying you're talking about when
he was the prophet.

Speaker 1 (09:50):
Uh, under the pharaoh .

Speaker 2 (09:52):
Yeah, exactly yeah so just just random, you know,
just like taking random thingsand being like, all right, this
is what this is for me in mylife, like and I've seen it, you
know, through the bible, thelaw of the land, so, um, that's
why I do it, but I, I just knowI have that, that, that um, that

(10:12):
, that cycle, or that um, what'sthe word?
Um, the stuff that you do allthe time, uh, repetition it's
some word um but I do that.
so I was just thinking one daylike what if I made a girl some
ass?
She, she like cut up my Bibleand I'm like that's, that's
crazy, like, and I was thinkingI was like, damn, you know, I
would not rather.

(10:32):
But if she did something likemy laptop, my laptop was down in
my life for real, so she brokethat shit.
I can kind of understand whyyou broke it If it's like that
crazy.
But like to go after the bibleis that's, that's wild.
And I feel like if, if somebodywere to do that, like your karma

(10:52):
is fucked, like it's in my eyesbecause then it's, I just think
of everything spiritual orwhatever and I'll probably like
pray over that and, you know,get the new amazon book and like
, hey, can you transfer thisenergy to this one?

Speaker 1 (11:04):
But yeah.

Speaker 2 (11:06):
I feel like her karma is like this shit over with.

Speaker 1 (11:10):
I don't look at it necessarily like that.
I look at it because you canalso repent and ask God for
forgiveness, because you're verylong away from it.
But when Saul became Paul, hepersecuted Christians.
So he was like literally killingactive Christians and so, and

(11:30):
then he converted and was abeliever and so now he's
actually I know I'm not tellingthe story as accurately, but
that's the overall point.
It's like, hey, you actuallycome from doing great harm.
I know I'm not telling thestory as accurately, but that's
the overall point.
It's like, hey, you actuallycan come from doing great harm
to actually doing great work.

(11:51):
It's essentially what I'm sayingand then so yeah, so that's
stuff you can come back from,but I would just wonder what was
on your mind?
Who am I choosing?
Like, why, Matthew?
Like I feel like you shouldhave made a comment about God
and how you didn't believe inhim.
If that's what you want, no uhyeah, yeah.
So I'm like okay, how did I notsee this?

Speaker 2 (12:13):
because she knew she was probably gonna get dumped I
had a friend, I had a friend.
I had a friend and his girlsaid like she didn't believe in
god and he was just mentallykind of like, but like after she
and he was just mentally kindof fucked, like after she said
that he was just like I wouldjust see him just like thinking,
like after that, like aroundthe crib.

(12:33):
That shit was too funny.
It would mess me up too.

Speaker 1 (12:37):
And did you say why she didn't believe in God?
I?

Speaker 2 (12:40):
don't know.
It's usually like the sameamount of answers.
Yeah, exactly.

Speaker 1 (12:48):
You know, everything is what it is, and yeah if God
was real, why would children,babies, die?
Yeah, ask him, nigga I don'tknow why would you do?
You know?

Speaker 2 (12:54):
But no, I thought about that and I thought that
shit would just like be supercrazy.
Did you hear about the story ofthis girl who?
I saw it on TikTok yesterday.
So this girl had a Tinder dateand I thought about our
shenanigans back in.

Speaker 1 (13:14):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, back in college.
The mobile home, yeah, themobile home joint.

Speaker 2 (13:19):
And she said she was on Tinder in college.
She said she was on Tinder andshe was chilling with this guy.
The guy was like cool, he was,uh, a great guy, black both of
them are black and, um, they hadgood conversation and they even
uh, uh, they had goodconversation on the phone that
she invited him over and evenwhen he came over they were

(13:42):
outside gardening together.
So like this is cool, you knowcool guy he definitely trying to
get some cooch.

Speaker 1 (13:48):
Hey, definitely definitely.

Speaker 2 (13:49):
But um, you know, that's, that's how you can tell.
Like you know, some dudes arelike where are we going to go
inside?
You know what I'm saying?
But like if he's wateringplants and she's like all right,
he's a cool guy to chill with.
Clearly then she said when hecame over all of a sudden he
kind of like snapped out of itand he just start like yelling
to himself like no no, no, noyou know yelling loud as hell

(14:13):
like he's talking to somebody.

Speaker 1 (14:14):
She said his uncle oh okay, who's not there?

Speaker 2 (14:17):
so it was not there, oh okay yeah, so he is talking
to himself and he's likeshouting and it's like no, I
don't want to do it.
He looks at her.
He says I'm going to kill you.
You black beat to her.
She's like you need to leave,like, no, I ain't leaving, I
brought a gun, I'm going to killyou, I'm going to kill you.
And like she, she, she, she, she, she runs out, goes to the

(14:41):
neighbor's house, calls thepolice.
He's still in there.
Clearly he's crazy and doesn'thave, I don't know, common sense
, but he's still in therescreaming at himself, knocking
shit over.
Police, come you get him and gointo his bag, lo and behold,
there is a gun there ready tooff this girl.
And of course that's the lasttime she was on Tinder, but I

(15:06):
just thought about that.

Speaker 1 (15:07):
I'm like man like people are like really crazy out
here and I just thought aboutuh us, yeah, yeah, how we
randomly went to a lady's houseand that could have been very
bad, and we prayed as as we went.
There's a point of prayer yeah,yeah, yeah because it was.
It was back of my home too, itwasn't yeah, there was no lights
.

Speaker 2 (15:24):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, and you know, I sent my location to
a man, yeah, I ain't never didthat before.
I was like, hey, bro, yeah,yeah, yeah, this is the last
place I'm at, yeah.

Speaker 1 (15:33):
And Tate said something kind of profound.
He's like, if this is made, youreflect on the moment we had of
how it was reckless and youknow, that was just.
We was young, yeah, very muchso, and nothing came of that

(15:54):
situation yeah, no kind of goodstory of what happened oh right
yeah now, if something you know,if this lady was possessed
uh-huh now, that would be onething.
Like, bro, I'm sorry for havinga rupture.

Speaker 2 (16:05):
You know what I mean.
I was down.

Speaker 1 (16:07):
Yeah, yeah, no, that's actually very scary.

Speaker 2 (16:11):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (16:11):
Yeah, yeah, definitely, for I mean, I would
be if a woman was doing that inmy house.
I would be terrified.
I can only imagine how a ladywould feel if a man was doing it
.

Speaker 2 (16:20):
Oh my God oh my god, you gotta get out.
You're like who are you talkingto?

Speaker 1 (16:27):
yeah, yeah, yeah, she said she moved and everything's
like she only, and she wantedthat in her past.
Yeah, I would be.
Yeah, yeah, I mean, that'sactually very terrifying, um,
and she was just telling this ontiktok as it's happened to her.
Did you did this story seemcredible, you know?
Because, yeah, okay she was.

Speaker 2 (16:44):
She didn't make that up, she was doing her makeup.
It was coming from clear memory.

Speaker 1 (16:47):
She was just like yeah, then he.

Speaker 2 (16:51):
I stopped the movie I was watching to hear what that
was about.

Speaker 1 (16:56):
Because you remember that one Uber story where the
Uber driver apparently tried tokidnap that girl.

Speaker 2 (17:02):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (17:02):
I was like, bro, this is a false story.
Yeah, I don't know if this is afalse story.

Speaker 2 (17:05):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.

Speaker 1 (17:06):
So I don't know if I was to hear him like this.
Don't sound real.

Speaker 2 (17:09):
Nah, it was real.

Speaker 1 (17:10):
Yeah, because when the Uber girl she was like I did
everything in my power to makesure this wouldn't happen and it
still happened, I was like,yeah, that's not true.
You know I was like, madeherself seem like she did
everything right, and then theUber driver just put his nose
over his shirt.
And like as if this ain't holesin this Like he ain't gonna

(17:30):
pass out from that.

Speaker 2 (17:31):
You know what I mean?

Speaker 1 (17:33):
Yeah, I was like that sounds like the dumbest story.
And then she just, she neverwent any further than that, she
didn't try to investigate, gethim locked up, and then she took
another Uberber home and I justtook her another phone and that
was it and like, yeah, come onnow.
This don't even sound remotelyweird.

Speaker 2 (17:49):
Yeah, did you hear?
There's a?
Um, a body found behind amcdonald's with the the head.

Speaker 1 (17:54):
Yeah, yeah my dad told me about that recently,
which is wild yeah, that's crazyyeah, yeah, I'm wondering where
how that happened.

Speaker 2 (18:03):
I'll be thinking about that too, when, when I'm
walking around, I'm like damnlike what if, well, you know
most people that I see I canlike take out, but I mean we
talking about weapons and shityou know now.
I can't really outrun a bullet.

Speaker 1 (18:17):
Yeah, yeah, you can zigzag though.
Huh, you can zigzag, you canzigzag, zig-zach, zig-zach.
Hell yeah, fucking Dougie Likewith what's his face?
What's next Friday?

Speaker 2 (18:28):
What.

Speaker 1 (18:29):
What's Mike F's character I don't remember From
Baby D.
Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah, that'stoo funny.

Speaker 2 (18:37):
Yeah, I think about that sometimes.

Speaker 1 (18:40):
But no, I was walking .
No, I don't do that.
No, I was walking.

Speaker 2 (18:42):
No, no, I was walking and there was some dude, like
some creepy dude, just walkingbehind me and no, I like.
I turned around and everything.
I looked at him and he kind oflike went the other way.
I was just like all right, thatcould have been something, if I
like was listening to music.
I usually like, yeah, I walkaround with these on.
But I wasn't listening to musicat that time.

Speaker 1 (19:09):
That was crazy.
It was one time I was in highschool and we was in East
Nashville.
My mom was going to church andshe was like hey, how are you?
He goes to where.
I thought he was being funny.
My mom was like, ooh, it waslike do you know him?
I'm kind of like no.

(19:30):
It was like oh, he's actually acreepier homeless man, I'm
assuming.

Speaker 2 (19:35):
Okay, yeah, damn.
You must have a limited amountof friends.

Speaker 1 (19:40):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, what yeah, yeah.

Speaker 2 (19:42):
What if somebody did it back then?
I was like mad.
Then what, yeah, yeah, what ifsomebody did it back then?

Speaker 1 (19:45):
I was mad.
Then I was like I want to goback and confront him.
Yeah yeah, yeah, that's how madI was.
I'm wasting my time doing that.

Speaker 2 (19:51):
How old were you?

Speaker 1 (19:53):
I was probably in high school, age 18, maybe 19.
Mm-hmm, yeah, I know I wasaround there because I was in
East nashville.
My mom was going to remedystreet, so that, uh, visiting
registry a lot so she was livingeast nashville, so I was
probably sophomore year, yeah,in high school or in college.

Speaker 2 (20:09):
So probably 20, 19.
I, I was at blockbuster onetime.
My mom got in the car and therewas a dude who pulled up and
she had her window down and thenhe was like hey, hey.
And then she looked up shedidn't even say that and he said
how much I was like she didn'teven say nothing and he said how
much I was like I didn't evenknow what that was at the time.
But then my mom just likesmiled and just like went away

(20:33):
and I was like bro, dudes arecrazy.
Like when I thought about itlater in life.

Speaker 1 (20:37):
I was like oh my.

Speaker 2 (20:38):
God, that wasn't like on the block somewhere, that
was just at a regularblockbuster.
So men are actually crazy ashell for real.

Speaker 1 (20:49):
Yeah, there's a couple instances that kind of
spin off what you said.
I remember being at a gasstation I was probably in my
late 20s at this point and thenthat guy you know a white girl
comes in the gas station.
You're like I'm trying to payfor that.
All I need is a couple minutes.
Yeah, she didn't engage but thevibe I could not see where he

(21:18):
was coming from but it lookedlike she maybe could possibly be
selling cat.

Speaker 2 (21:23):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (21:27):
If she wasn't, I could definitely see this is a
little creepy.

Speaker 2 (21:31):
Yeah, yeah, that is wild.
I wonder, that's wild.

Speaker 1 (21:37):
Yeah, and just stemming off the kind of like
the homeless dude and how mentalhealth is, like, how that guy
wasn't happy.
You be just laughing right now.

Speaker 2 (21:45):
Because he's saying rrrr, yeah, yeah, the fuck.
You be just laughing right now.
Because he's saying the fuck,that's too funny.
I wouldn't know what to do.
I would either be spooked orlaugh, or both.

Speaker 1 (21:57):
I thought it was like he was joking, it's like a
menacing face, but you thinkyou're trying to be funny.
That's kind of how I took it.
I remember driving, uberdriving, and then like I had
maybe like cut a man off, ahomeless man off, while he was
walking or something like that.
And when I was going into theirhotel like save the sidewalks,

(22:21):
and you got I made a right andhe had to stop abruptly and then
All he did was yell out likeLike abruptly, and then all he
did was yell out like like yeah.
So I just like I thought aboutit more and it's like people

(22:46):
suffering mental health issues.
And it was slick, my fault forsure because you cut him off but
it felt like he had mentalhealth issues and he couldn't
properly vocalize why.
That made him mad.
You know what I mean.
Like you, idiot, or like Ican't believe you did this.

(23:06):
You know what I mean.
So he just screamed fuckingKendrick lamar yeah, yeah, and I
remember you was completelywhat the that's too funny bro.

Speaker 2 (23:21):
I would just laugh.

Speaker 1 (23:22):
That would be the best part of my week it wasn't
that funny though like I kind offeel bad a little bit because
you cut him off no, like that hecouldn't vocally, like when
later on, I didn't feel bad atthe moment because, like you
know, it just happened and I, hejust screamed.
I didn't know what, where Icame, kind of came from.
But when I reflected a littlebit, that's like okay, he did,

(23:42):
he kidding, be like damn, whyyou do that, or it's be able to
say what, how he All he could dois scream.
Yeah, you know what I mean.
And I just felt bad, that likebecause he was homeless?
It probably wasn't.
It probably had to do with thefact that he's probably mentally
under and somebody's able tonot able to assist.
So that's kind of why I feel bad, because when we talked

(24:04):
homeless before, like you know,a lot of homeless people are
free yada yada he's probably ofthat small ill where he probably
was suffering from differentthings.
Yeah, exactly so that one Ikind of felt bad for.

Speaker 2 (24:18):
And it's probably go ahead.
I'm sorry In my head.
You know how, like when youwere younger and you know you
step on a crack, you break yourmama's back.

Speaker 1 (24:27):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (24:28):
I still, you still do that, I still think about it,
oh yeah.

Speaker 1 (24:33):
To be honest, if I see a crack, I'm not going to
step on it too, Right, Unlessthere's multiples like I'm
tearing up my mama's back.

Speaker 2 (24:38):
Yeah, I'm fucked, but I was thinking that's what he
was doing.

Speaker 1 (24:54):
He was like if I could just make it across the
street with no interruptions.

Speaker 2 (24:56):
That's what I was thinking.
That's hilarious, yeah Damn,yeah.
Well, he missed that one.

Speaker 1 (25:00):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, but yeah, yeah, speaking
of homeless, because it's justhomeless people everywhere and
just in general, right, you'rein a metropolitan city.
It's just like exchanging ofenergies, right, and like how
easily something as somebodyputting up their middle finger
can piss you off.

Speaker 2 (25:20):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (25:20):
Like this dude he was digging in his drawers.

Speaker 2 (25:23):
Oh God.

Speaker 1 (25:24):
Yeah, yeah.
Digging in his drawers, andthen he pulled up his middle
finger at me.
That made me mad.
No, digging in his drawers, andthen he pulled up his middle
finger at me.
That made me mad.

Speaker 2 (25:30):
No, he meant that shit, he meant that shit.

Speaker 1 (25:33):
Yeah, yeah, and I was like that for some reason
really pissed me off.

Speaker 2 (25:38):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (25:39):
Like how?
And I was just thinking.

Speaker 2 (25:41):
That shit was dirty and everything I mean.

Speaker 1 (25:43):
I'm driving by and he's just like dang.
Why'd he choose me?
Yeah, yeah.
And he just like dang why hechoose me.
Yeah, and then I just thoughtabout it.
I was like how easily you knowexchanging of negative energy,
how that you receive that.
That shit real, yeah, and howthat changed my mood, yeah, and
how I was like why can I justeasily have waved it off?
You know, like, how is?

(26:05):
How is I able to receive that?
Yeah, you know, through the car.
You know, like, how was I ableto receive that?
Yeah, you know, through the car.
You know, I found it just likesome of that stuff.
Maybe I'm thinking a little bitmore deeper than what I should
on that.

Speaker 2 (26:16):
I believe that, though, like what I told you
about, like words in general andhow intention about the dude,
the Japanese guy and the water,yeah, like how you speak to the
water and freeze it and stufflike that, the words it's not
even necessarily words, butintention I feel like it's

(26:38):
energy and it crosses language.
It goes farther than language,so like, yeah, you could like
look at somebody or growl atthem and you know, yeah, that
that energy can transfer, Iguess, if you allow it.

Speaker 1 (26:52):
but, um, I believe all that stuff yeah, I remember
being at a gas station one timeand it's just like people are
weird.
Um, and this guy, you know,he's rough looking, um, like
homeless, rough looking, notlike menacing, rough looking,
yeah, and he, you know he getswhatever water and chips or

(27:14):
whatever, and then at the end ofit he goes and flicks the
cashier.
I yeah, yeah, yeah, it is likeno, he just flicks on, he don't
even say nothing.
He's like cashier like you,okay, yeah yeah, yeah he's like
no, I'm good man.
Yeah, exactly like I was.

Speaker 2 (27:30):
Like I found that weird yeah, maybe he just
realized it didn't work, so he'slike I'm not gonna do it yeah,
yeah, like he randomly flickedhim up like how, like somebody
would do the cops you know, whatI mean like yeah, and then I
was like that was a weird switchof energy.
Yeah, yeah, no, he's crazy.

Speaker 1 (27:48):
Yeah, exactly.

Speaker 2 (27:50):
Damn.
No, I yeah, I haven't really.
Of course I've seen crazythings, that crazy people at gas
stations One time I saw.
One time I saw the Arabian guyat 7-Eleven who An Arabian guy
at 7-Eleven who An Arabian guyat 7-Eleven, and this dirty

(28:15):
white dude was kind ofoverweight.
He definitely was homeless,smelled, the whole place smelled
like him just from him walkingin, and he was in there, he
definitely wasn't going to getanything.
And then he just out of nowhere, just said to the 7-eleven guy
it's like you saying, nigger, Iwas like they dropped some new

(28:38):
verbiage out there.
They dropped some new, newinsults.
I like, I ain't never heardthat shit before.

Speaker 1 (28:43):
Yeah, yeah, that's a.

Speaker 2 (28:44):
That's one of them, I ain't never heard that shit
before, yeah, and then I spokeup.
I was like I don't call himthat, yeah, and then he kind of
calmed down.
But to be honest, if he startedtalking crazy to me I would
have been a little spooked.
You're right, people that areout of their mind crazy.

(29:04):
I don't know how to deal withthat, yeah yeah.
Yeah, there aren't likeconventional ways to deal with
people like that, right so thatwas very weird yeah, yeah, and
what so?

Speaker 1 (29:18):
he just like okay, yeah, yeah, they always do that.
Like did that?

Speaker 2 (29:22):
uh can't hear anything, or whatever oh, no, no
, no, uh, that's what you meant.
I uh the, the cash, the cashier.
He just was like, yeah, youknow, just like, like it happens
all the time type thing.

Speaker 1 (29:34):
That was the first time I ever heard that but, um,
how did you feel about stickingup for somebody?

Speaker 2 (29:40):
you felt good, um, yeah, like 50, 50, because that
has happened before.
It was an actual black person.
I just don't like that shit.
I don't like hearing that shit.

Speaker 1 (29:57):
Yeah, for sure.

Speaker 2 (30:00):
Yeah, but most from what I've seen is black people
don't usually respond.
Older of the older generation,they don't usually respond.
Older of the older generation,they don't usually respond.
Which is a better I think is abetter way of dealing with the
situation versus escalating,because you're you're talking to
someone who is just like out ofit.

(30:20):
You know, um, I used to try tointerject, you know, because I
know that I don't know like it'sgoing to sound like a little
deep.
But I know that you know, likein those situations, one time I

(30:42):
was in Burbank and it was thisblack security guard.
And you know, security guard,bro, like your job you ain't
making like hella bands.
You know what I'm saying you.
You, it looked like he has gooddays and bad days.
You could tell by a person'sface you know, what I'm saying
and this older white ladyhomeless.

(31:04):
She just kept calling him then-word over and allowed, like
everybody in the fucking storehere's at rouse or kroger and
she was homeless lady.
You said she's a homeless ladyso it's like, you know, like
what are you really gonna say tothis homeless lady?
You know, I'm saying, and hewas just like so poised and it

(31:25):
just hurts my feelings, bro, bro, like when somebody you can
tell that they this isn't new tothem.
You know, like he didn't getupset, he just like kind of
looked away while she's stillscreaming his shit.
And sometimes I just feel likeI want to interject because I

(31:55):
have and I'm aware that I havelike this light skin privilege
like this, this shit, that I canprobably take things farther
than someone who's darker thanme.
And knowing that sometimesmakes me want to like be the one

(32:19):
to do this, because whateverwill happen to me is not going
to be as bad, just naturally.
So, yeah, so sometimes I willbe in situations and just know
that and how the world works andlike use that shit, yeah so.
Yeah, I don't know what thequestion was, but no, no, I feel

(32:41):
that just certain, certaindegree.

Speaker 1 (32:45):
I don't necessarily feel that for that way, like how
you do uh-huh but I know thatis a thing.
Yeah, like I don't.
Like you know, my brother isdark skinned, my, uh, my father
is dark skinned, so you know I'mI feel like black amongst them,
but I do think that light skinprivilege is a real thing and I
know that very well.

(33:05):
I'm light skin and I see it whenit happens, but I don't go into
it thinking like I'm my skin.
This is, you know, will workout with my favorite yeah, I
didn't say it's gonna work.
Yeah, no, I'm just saying likethat's not like a that I'll have
at that moment.
I'll.
I'll play it out later on.
It's like it's probably becauseI was asking that I showed some
what some favor to, or I don'tlook maybe as what.

(33:29):
Somebody else may deem a darkerskin menacing more than so
myself because my close friendTevin I feel like there's times
to where he was probablydiscriminated against versus in
my situation.
Yeah, but it was.
I remember just I was in a caraccident and then you know, a

(33:51):
lady was telling her story shewas a and because she so,
ultimately what happened was acar had stopped to let her
through.
But I was driving straight, notseeing her at that stop sign
because a car was blocking myvision.
So I just see her drive out andthen so she drive out, and then

(34:14):
so I kind of T-bone her, but Ihad to right away.
She was at a stop sign, I wasjust driving on the main street
and she pulled out, not seeingme because that car was blocked,
but we get in a car accident.
The cop gets there, gets herstory, then he's like okay, bro,
what happened?
White man.
You know, like, let's talk,because it's probably not.

(34:38):
You know, whatever she's sayingis BS you know what.
I mean, he already came to thatconclusion.

Speaker 2 (34:44):
Yeah right.

Speaker 1 (34:47):
And so when I self-reflected was like, okay,
you didn't treat her as she likea citizen should have, because
it's not like she, she wasn'ttelling a lie, she just thought
that I was in the wrong.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
And then he ruled it her faultat her fault, and then she was
upset, but not like totallyupset, um, but yeah.

(35:08):
So I I see it when it happens.
And I self-reflect later likeoh, it's probably because of
this, but uh, you know, I not tosay you don't, but I feel like
a black man, so it's not.
You know, I walk as if like um,sometimes like man.
I don't want to go through thisthing with a bunch of white

(35:29):
people off in one section, soI'll just move across the street
.

Speaker 2 (35:32):
You know what I mean.

Speaker 1 (35:32):
Yeah, like if a white girl's coming in, it's me, her
word against mine.
I'll probably just walk acrossthe street and let her have the
sidewalk to herself.

Speaker 2 (35:42):
No facts.
No, I mean, I do that as well.
I just remember certain momentsin my life where it was clear
as day that you know if I'mspeaking a certain way or
whatever, like it would be adifferent story with me than my

(36:07):
homies, my friends, like peoplethat are darker than me.
Like one time in Nashville weused to go to Vandy a lot.
One of my homies he's like he'ssuper dark skinned and he was
in the car and then the policeshowed up because it was a tire
that popped and it was likeraining and we were on the side
of the road and it was weird.

(36:29):
It was like he's already darkskinned right and he had a black
hoodie on.
I had a black hoodie on.
We always wear our hoodies,like right here, and it was just
something about the way the coplooked like in the car and it
was like.
It was like when he looked atme it was cool.
But then when he saw him inthere, it was like his mood

(36:51):
changed and I'm like I felt thatshit and I'm sitting here
talking to him.
He didn't I, I, I, he has hesaid something to where I had to
follow up with him because Ididn't know where the, the, the,
the, the, the AAA or whateverwhen they were coming with the
tire.
So I got out the car and, likeI said now, his demeanor changed

(37:15):
and I like knocked on the.
Did I knock on it?
I don't even think I knocked onthe window.
I was about to knock on thewindow and because he was just
sitting there like he, just hewasn't doing shit, like nothing.

Speaker 1 (37:31):
Didn't even have a flashing lights on flashing
lights on.
Just for like people to pullover on the other side of it.

Speaker 2 (37:38):
We were on the side of the road, so I'm just saying
I'm blocking anything.

Speaker 1 (37:41):
No, I'm just saying, but still, people, they'll have
the lights on so that they canpull into the other lane.
So they're not, so they won'tbe on the same lane as you, even
though you're on the side ofthe street.
So it sounds like he didn't.

Speaker 2 (37:53):
he didn't have his lights on that I don't remember
that fully, uh, but I justremember that.
And then he started treating meweird and I knew what it was.
You know, that was onesituation.
There was another situationwhere I was drinking a trulies,
uh, which is like not that muchalcohol, I was drinking a
Trulies, which is like not thatmuch alcohol in it.
I was drinking a Trulies and Igot pulled over.

Speaker 1 (38:13):
While drinking a Trulies.
While drinking a Trulies.

Speaker 2 (38:16):
And I did like the most I could to get that shit
out of the way.
I finished it real quickbecause it was a little bit left
.
I was like one minute away frommy house.
I finished it real quick.
I like crushed little bit left.
I was like one minute away frommy house.
I finished it real quick.
I'd like crushed the can uh LABurbank okay, and I put the

(38:36):
truly's under the seat and Ipulled the seat up, so now the
the truth is crushed like underthe seat or whatever and I don't
smell like bourbon or anything.

Speaker 1 (38:46):
You know it's, it's a true.
You can't really like tell.

Speaker 2 (38:50):
The registration of the car was out.
So this is a situation of, likeyou know he can, he can do I
don't know.
It can go as far as he wants totake.

Speaker 1 (39:01):
Right.

Speaker 2 (39:02):
Basically, and he pulled me over and then, you
know, I tried to talk as properas I could and once I seen him I
thought it was over, cause I'mstill thinking like you, saying
we're black, I'm fucked and theregistration out, he find his
truties and his bitch over withand the man looked at me.

(39:25):
I looked at him and it was likethis cop that had the cop
mustache, I'm like it's over.
And he started talking to meand he was just giving me grace
the whole time and I'm like I'mtalking to him.
I can't even like believe I'mgetting grace right now because
I'm like a little, I'm not toofucked up or whatever, but it's

(39:45):
just like enough to where, if hetold me get out the car and he
saw this like it, it just wouldnot have been a good thing.
And he let me go, warning noticket, nothing.
Because clearly, like thatnight he had bigger fish to fry
or whatever.
And as soon as I was drivingoff, I knew exactly what that

(40:05):
was like.
This is.
I'm like I was thinking abouteverybody, all my friends and
shit.
I'm like would that havehappened?

Speaker 1 (40:12):
like that, you know I'm saying so I feel you, I
think it's um, it's just somepolice officers are cool and
some you know, you can neverreally tell because I kind of
judge them based off of theindividual who they are.
Sometimes I had the samesituation where my registration
was that I knew my tags are out.
He's like you know your tagsare out.
I was like this was back when Iwas college and I was like,

(40:35):
yeah, I was like I just don'tgot it, you know.
And he's like I understand moneyproblems yeah yeah, and then he
, he, let me go.
Yeah, but you got other guysthat'll pull you over.
Get all the information just tosee if they can find something
on you.

Speaker 2 (40:50):
Oh God.

Speaker 1 (40:51):
Yeah, yeah, because I have that.
It's like hey, did you knowyour license plate light?
One of them's out, you know, sohe's asking all the information
.

Speaker 2 (40:59):
That's what happened to one of my homies, yeah, yeah,
and he went to jail.

Speaker 1 (41:02):
Oh wow, Yep.

Speaker 2 (41:09):
Yeah, yeah, exactly, I was thinking about him.
I'm like damn.
But so that shit real, thatshit is definitely real.
I've seen it myself, so I don'tknow yeah yeah, and there was
another time too.
I was on vacation with my girlat the time and there was this
little black girl and she, shewas thirsty and she just wanted
some water and she couldn'treach it.
She couldn't reach the thething, the, the water thing.

(41:31):
There was a waiter, he waswhite, he kept walking past her
like over and over and over andover again, and I just kind of
like stood up and I was justlike, hey, can you help her?
And then he just had this lookon his face like oh, like
somebody checked me for that youknow type thing, and then he

(41:51):
helped the girl out.
It's just.
I just hate seeing shit likethat.
Like that, shit is not.

Speaker 1 (41:58):
I don't like that I don't like yeah, right right
yeah, I've seen that many timeswith black women yeah, what do
you mean?
Uh, just terms of Just beinglike kind of overlooked.

Speaker 2 (42:15):
Yeah, just walk right past, you know if they're
asking for something, or like ifI'm working with somebody, they
would like probably approach meversus her type thing.

Speaker 1 (42:22):
Oh yeah, I've seen that a couple times.
Okay.

Speaker 2 (42:27):
One time I worked for this company we were, we were
on the street, you know, likeyou got a Walmart or some shit,
and then sometimes outsidethey're like hey, we're raising
money for children with cancer.
Yeah, and I worked there andwe're outside of a place in, I
guess, a nice sort of area, andthey would respond to me a

(42:51):
little better than they wouldwith her okay and she was
talking more than I was okay andit was kind of like I just I
just don't like seeing that shit, because I mean it's or or
being reminded how real thisstuff is okay, yeah, I got

Speaker 1 (43:07):
you yeah so was it more than one black lady
instance, because you saidparticularly with black women uh
, I can't think of anything offthe top of my head, but um,
those two stick out.
Do you think if it was yourex-girlfriend they would have
responded that same?
They would have responded moreto you still no, she was.

(43:28):
She's super pretty and likevibrant, okay, yeah, yeah, yeah,
yeah, and lighter as well, yeahyeah, okay, but I'm just saying
was uh, I think that, um, Idon't know what this lady looks
like yeah but if they just, youknow, just move them along, you
know?
I mean, she doesn't soundattractive uh, no, not like yeah

(43:51):
, yeah, yeah, so that.
So sometimes I take that inconsideration of what people may
seem attractive is oh, and Ithink that has something to do
with a pretty privilege.
Yeah, exactly, yeah, andsometimes I'll be like I do get
graced in some situations.
You know I was like you know,thank god I got, you know, uh,

(44:13):
good looking eyes or whateveryou know what I mean?
yeah, like yeah, so I, I getthat too, and that's the whole
thing do you feel like?
You ever this time like you gotpretty boy privilege or
whatever?

Speaker 2 (44:22):
yeah, yeah, no, for sure.
Um, I can't think of anythingoff the top of my head, but I
know it's there.

Speaker 1 (44:30):
Yeah, I definitely know it's there.

Speaker 2 (44:33):
I wish I did have some way of thinking about that.
But I'm pretty sure some peoplemight treat me a little nicer
just because of that and thecharisma aspect to it.

Speaker 1 (44:49):
Do you think when you don't get play, you were like
do you not see that I'mgood-looking?

Speaker 2 (44:53):
players in like I'm.
I'm trying to get down onsomebody yeah, yeah no, no, I
mean nobody like treats me likeI'm ugly, like ew.

Speaker 1 (45:09):
Yeah, Like it's not like that yeah.

Speaker 2 (45:13):
So not necessarily in that aspect.

Speaker 1 (45:16):
I don't think so.
Yeah, nothing I remember.

Speaker 2 (45:21):
Yeah, I'm trying to find a question on this chat.
How has a woman influenced theperson you are today?
How has women influenced theperson you are today?

Speaker 1 (45:32):
How has women influenced the person you are
today, Everything that's aninteresting question.
I wonder what question youasked for Chad GBT to ask that.
But I mean, I came from asingle mother.

Speaker 2 (45:43):
I have a grandmother.

Speaker 1 (45:45):
So those are essentially people that I look
up to, I look up to my brother,but essentially it's been grown
women, so you know they give,especially my mom, for sure,
because I still I mean, I get aton of guidance from her, I
think highly intelligent.
Of course, my grandmother aswell.
You know like at a certain ageyou live so much that you're, I

(46:08):
feel like you're at a geniuslevel.
There's like a grandmaster withyou because you experience it.
So my grandmother is about tobe 77 next month and it's just,
you see so much that you cantell stories of dating back when
you were a child in the 50s.
Yeah, yeah, yeah, before civilrights and how people acted,
that you can tell stories ofdating back when you're a child

(46:29):
in the 50s yeah, yeah, yeah,before civil rights and how
people acted you?
you've talked with so manypeople, so you understand people
well you understand men and youcan understand your behaviors
and self-reflect, like that's soin my um I've been especially,
uh, lucky, particularly mygrandma in this case.

(46:50):
She's accountable for heractions too, so she can know
where she kind of failed alittle bit.
And I said to her I was likewhen she was 40 or 50, did you
think you knew everything?
And now that you're in your 70s, did you?

(47:11):
Did you know a lot of your 40s?
Like, shoot, I didn't knowanything in my 40s and then so I
was looking at that.
It's like you're 40, 50 whenyou was 40, 50.
Now that you're fucking, youstill don't know everything you
know I think, at like 40, 50,you have this wealth of
knowledge.
And for you to be like heck no,I didn't know a damn thing.
And you're at 40, 50, you havethis wealth of knowledge.
For you to be like heck, no, Ididn't know a damn thing.

(47:32):
You're at 40, 50 years old andyou feel that way.
I was like there's so muchgrowth I got to go through that.
I don't even realize.
Yet I think, okay, I got lifetogether.
I see what life is for real.
The older you get, the morefunerals you go to, you know?
And then she's like I didn'tknow anything and when I was 40,

(47:55):
50, so it's just just theinformation that they give and
their perception and perspectiveon things absolutely huge.
So they so they outside of myown experiences, kind of
sculpted how a lot of what Ithink.

Speaker 2 (48:12):
Yeah, yeah, yeah.

Speaker 1 (48:13):
And my mom.
I go to her guidance so muchshe's I'm extremely lucky about.
I was like you know.
I was like you're, my mom, so Iwouldn't call you a mentor.
But I just come to you with alot of things and you give such
great advice that I, you know, Ieven tell my girlfriend I'm
like you need to speak to my mommore.

Speaker 2 (48:32):
Yeah, yeah.

Speaker 1 (48:32):
Cause she just is very good Like she wants to do
life coaching.
I think that you know, if sheever retired from her main
career, that life coaching wouldactually benefit society Well
yeah that's dope, so I'm justextremely lucky in that case.
So yeah, so you know, on theaccountable aspect, I don't
think that she's mastered it.

(48:54):
You know.
I tell her that, like you know,I think that you know that's
something that I think you needto work on, but she would
totally disagree.
She feels like she's moreaccountable than what I think it
is.
But outside of that, I mean, Ican't complain.
She knows men really well,she's an extremely effective

(49:15):
communicator and I'm incrediblylucky in that aspect.
That's dope.

Speaker 2 (49:21):
Yeah, what about you?
Very insightful answer.
What was the question?

Speaker 1 (49:29):
How did women affect your life?

Speaker 2 (49:32):
or like shape me, yeah, hmm, hmm.
I think they shape everyone toa certain degree, for instance

(49:52):
on the hmm, how do they shape me?
There's so many different waysyou can go about this, because I
think the connection with womenhas come from, like the
connection with my mom and mydaughter the most.

(50:14):
Yeah, it's like trying tounderstand women in general,
which I don't think we'll everfigure that shit out.
But um, just for the most partI think that that that's where
my connection with women ingeneral comes from, because I
had so much fun with my momgrowing up.

(50:35):
The essence of life in general.
I feel like women have kind ofpoured into me, without even
trying, like the true essence oflife, like living life you know

(50:55):
like as a man, you know you'relike oh shit, I gotta provide, I
gotta do this, I gotta do that.
And then you could be with awoman and she's just like look
at the sunset.
You know I'm saying like lookat, like, breathe out here with
the trees and shit, like it'sjust like what life is like
really about you know, um,chilling with my daughter.

(51:17):
It's just, life is just so muchmore than just what we have to
do every day, or uh, um, youknow, men have a different story
or whatever.
But yeah, I think the essenceof life in general women have
opened up my eyes to that tosmell the flowers while they're

(51:38):
here, you know, like that's I'vealways remembered with, even
with like a couple of differentrelationships.
It's just there's a differentperspective of life that you can
, like, you know, really justtake all this shit in and really
appreciate, uh, everything.

Speaker 1 (51:56):
You know that that's usually not seen yeah, I mean
honestly, I think that we couldI that particular question.
I can break that down honestly.
I wish that was the beginningquestion yeah because that could
be a whole podcast in itself,because I can look at the get
the side of things.
But there's also a negativitystraight from that like in terms

(52:17):
of like the negative parts ofwhat, how they shaped your life
as well yeah, you know.
I mean from rejection or youknow accountability like, just
like little things, like allthat plays a part, part into how
your life is, and definitelywhen you're talking about the

(52:38):
opposite sex, on how you feel,and I think that goes for
anybody real I mean, and it mayas well, of course.
You know everybody has a partto play.
So I think that, um, but ifwe're speaking in general, I
think that would be a very Iwish let's put a pin on that one
and save that for next episode.
Yeah, because that was actuallybecause it gets me thinking a

(52:59):
lot, because I just named twopeople you know in general, but
there's actually a lot.

Speaker 2 (53:06):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (53:06):
A lot of people I can name to the scope of where I'm
at, to you know pastrelationships yeah, yeah, yeah.

Speaker 2 (53:12):
I forgot about the whole like, yeah, yeah, yeah,
yeah, yeah, I love my mom butthe difference out of being in
love is that plays a wholedifferent thing and how you
think and how you act and youknow I mean.

Speaker 1 (53:26):
So I think that that's a good one and I think we
should put a pin on it becauseI don't want to go too deep.
Uh, when you know we got, youknow, I mean.
So I think that that's a goodone and I think we should put a
pin on it.
Yeah, I don't want to go toodeep when you know we got you
know.
A couple minutes for you beforeyou get on your call oh, let's
see it's 20 holes let me see.

Speaker 2 (53:50):
Oh yeah, there's more .
The one said do you think mencould fully ever understand
women?

Speaker 1 (53:56):
I don't think so.
I mean fully understand.

Speaker 2 (53:58):
I don't even think they understand.

Speaker 1 (54:00):
I mean, but yeah, just pick one, Just go like yeah
and just ask that.

Speaker 2 (54:07):
Do you believe women face challenges men often?
Overlook which ones?
Yeah, and just ask that Do youbelieve women face challenges
men often?

Speaker 1 (54:12):
overlook which ones?
Yeah, I mean the quickest.
Women face challenges that menoverlook.

Speaker 2 (54:17):
Yeah, yeah.

Speaker 1 (54:18):
I think that easily.

Speaker 2 (54:19):
I don't think that's our thing to answer.

Speaker 1 (54:22):
Okay.

Speaker 2 (54:23):
What's a lesson about relationships you've only
learned through a woman.

Speaker 1 (54:27):
What's all these about?
Like yeah, yeah, like yeah,yeah.

Speaker 2 (54:30):
Oh no no, yeah, the.
The question was I got.
Oh, there was a whole anotherthing.
All right, hold on.
Uh, what female role model doyou admire most, and why does
your mom right now?
Um, what do you think womenwant most from men but rarely

(54:50):
say out loud?

Speaker 1 (54:52):
uh most from, but rarely say out loud.
I mean because let's go throughthe core ones loyalty, love,
respect, uh, yeah, yeah, uh,provider, I would say.
Rarely say out, I would saythey say emotional intelligence

(55:15):
too.

Speaker 2 (55:16):
So I would I'd say maybe a friend.

Speaker 1 (55:22):
I think they say that out loud.

Speaker 2 (55:23):
Yeah, what don't they say out loud I'm just trying to
say yeah, these are likequestions for women.

Speaker 1 (55:28):
Well, but also, I think, but it's like what we
perceive it as.
So it can.
It doesn't necessarily have tobe a question for a woman.
So what?
What?
You from your own situation,what they rarely say out loud,
but they actually like this,they want this thing uh, yeah,
yeah, I think, I think a senseof control yeah, that's a good

(55:50):
one.
That's a good one.
Okay, that's, I agree yeah.
I definitely agree with that one, definitely in particular in
mind they act like they don'tyeah, yeah, they want a leader,
but they actually want toactually lead more than what
they say they want yeah, yeahyeah, so that was actually a
great one.
I was going to say, like youknow, just somebody who, um, I

(56:17):
feel like I'm on the clock.
Yeah, yeah, just they.
Um, I'll add on to that alittle bit.
Somebody who is a yes man in away.

Speaker 2 (56:31):
A yes man?
Oh, I don't think so.

Speaker 1 (56:35):
I think, they don't take criticism.
Well, yeah, so they just like,if I mean long run they'll need
it, but I think that it's goodto have.
But in terms of like, if I sayif.
If I say, hey, you know, youtell them about your day and a
cliche at your job was trippingyou feel like, oh, it's not me

(56:57):
to say actually you was trippingyeah.
Yeah, yeah, so you really wantme to disagree that cliche was
tripping when she really wasn't.

Speaker 2 (57:06):
Right, right Right, stripping when she really wasn't
right right, right, right.

Speaker 1 (57:10):
Yeah, we don't with question yeah, yeah, that's what
I'm saying.
Yeah, yeah, exactly yeah, butwe know like brad she would.

Speaker 2 (57:13):
This is always you always act this way you do this
with me oh, I hate that.
What talking about somebodyelse when yo ass be doing this
to me?

Speaker 1 (57:23):
yeah, yeah, yeah, oh my god, yes so I like I already
know your nature and I know howyou did.
You actually was tripping,because you do that all the time
here, yeah so, but you justwant me to agree and I'm like
okay, yeah, yeah, yeah.
And if I push back, like youknow, you could have did this.

Speaker 2 (57:41):
Nah, you're always against me.

Speaker 1 (57:43):
Yeah, da-da-da-da-da.
I'm like okay, I'm going tomake an issue in the household
over something I don't careabout Facts.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
So that's what I'm saying.

Speaker 2 (57:54):
Okay, no, yeah, you cleaned that up.
Yeah no, that's definitely afact for sure I don't know how
many I had to learn that shitbecause, I was not great at that
at one time.
I was like, but didn't you saynever mind yeah yeah, that's too
funny.

Speaker 1 (58:09):
Yeah, yeah, I think we did it.
Yeah, this was a great episode.
Yeah, well, this is two for theculture.
We'll be back.
We'll be back.
Yes, sir.