Ep 33: Swinger Communication: Flirty, Thirsty & Respectful

Zack, Josie, Brad, and Brittany bare their feelings and share their experiences in this episode all about the fine art of letting your partner know you’d like a taste—without sinking your teeth in too deep. They tackle the tricky balance of sharing just how interested you are in a potential play partner, while keeping things sweet, sexy, and respectful for your life partner.

Is it better to spill your level of thirst up front, or does that just stir up trouble? Should you play it cool or let your excitement show? And how does that honesty land differently for him versus her? The Two Plus Two Crew unwraps how they navigate these sticky moments—where sharing can build trust or accidentally bruise an ego.

They get vulnerable as they discuss: Do you even know how much you’re into someone if you’ve only sized them up from across the bar? Does your partner’s vibe turn your heat up—or cool you down? And what happens when someone’s just a little too eager to pounce?

Pour a drink, sharpen those fangs, and join your favorite vampires as they reveal how they keep communication flowing, the jealousy at bay, and the spark alive—without ever crossing the line from flirty to fatal.

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(00:00:00) Fuckable or not

(00:02:42) It’s just a code word

(00:04:35) Brad considers Brittany’s potential interest first

(00:06:16) What is an appropriate level of interest to communicate to your partner?

(00:09:01) Being too excited can turn your partner off

(00:12:29) Does your partner’s interest influence your personal choice? 

(00:15:25) Does your partner’s interest in someone turn you on or off?

(00:18:37) Why don’t we have more transparency?

(00:21:58) Creating comparisons and feeling insecure

(00:24:29) Expressing a high level of interest can be a positive

(00:27:57) Never say, ‘hell yes’

(00:30:26) A new strategy!

(00:32:39) We continue to evolve

(00:38:14) Does sharing your level of interest matter?

(00:40:45) ‘Rating’ scales can be useful

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(00:45:44) This conversation has been illuminating

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