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November 8, 2025 30 mins

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Summary
In this episode of  Two Queens and a Joker: My Narcissist's Ex and Me, Brenda and Sara discuss the complexities of narcissistic abuse recovery, focusing on the challenges faced by parents dealing with narcissistic ex-partners. They discuss the impact of narcissism on parenting, the struggles with child support and financial issues, the inadequacies of the court system in addressing emotional abuse, and the importance of finding strength and resilience in the face of adversity. The conversation highlights the emotional toll of these experiences and the need for support and understanding in the recovery process.

Takeaways

- Narcissistic behavior often leads to significant challenges in parenting.
- There are positive examples of fathers who prioritize their children's well-being.
- Financial struggles are common for those recovering from narcissistic relationships.
- The court system often fails to recognize emotional abuse as a significant issue.
- Emotional abuse can be more damaging than physical abuse.
- Women often bear the brunt of financial and emotional burdens in these situations.
- It's essential to advocate for oneself and one's children in legal matters.
- Finding support from friends and community is crucial during recovery.
- Recognizing signs of narcissistic behavior is a sign of strength.
- Listening to one's intuition is vital in navigating difficult relationships.

Chapters
00:00 Introduction to Narcissistic Abuse Recovery
00:10 Navigating Custody Battles with Narcissists
02:00 The Financial Burden of Divorce
08:43 Struggles of Single Parenting and Financial Stress
10:03 Unexpected Support in Difficult Times
11:49 The Struggles of Co-Parenting with a Narcissist
15:17 The Emotional Toll of Divorce
18:23 Financial Abuse and Its Consequences
21:41 The Impact of Stress on Mental Health
26:03 Finding Strength in Adversity
27:51 Fighting for Our Children's Future
29:12 Recognizing Strength and Independence
30:14 Listening to Your Gut

Narcissistic abuse leaves deep imprints on trust, relationships, and identity. Survivors often feel isolated, anxious, and hypervigilant. But healing is possible. By rebuilding self-trust, noticing patterns, and taking small, steady steps toward connection, survivors can slowly allow safe people back into their lives.

The scars remain, but they don’t define the future. Survivors are not broken, they are rebuilding.

We specialize in helping survivors untangle the patterns of narcissistic abuse and recover their sense of self. Learn more at www.narctrauma.com.

Follow for support and resources:
Facebook: Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Center
TikTok: @narctrau

Two Queens and a Joker, My Narcissist Ex and Me 
is sponsored by the Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Center, where we provide therapy, classes, and support groups for people healing from narcissistic abuse. Contact us at www.narctrauma.com. 

Narcissistic abuse leaves deep imprints on trust, relationships, and identity. Survivors often feel isolated, anxious, and hypervigilant. But healing is possible. By rebuilding self-trust, noticing patterns, and taking small, steady steps toward connection, survivors can slowly allow safe people back into their lives.

The scars remain, but they don’t define the future. Survivors are not broken, they are rebuilding.

We specialize in helping survivors untangle the patterns of narcissistic abuse and recover their sense of self. Learn more at www.narctrauma.com.

Follow for support and resources:
Facebook: Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Center
TikTok: @narctraumarecovery
Instagram (Podcast): @2queensandajoker
Instagram (Recovery): @narcrecoverycenter


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