Unbreakable Mind & Body

In this vulnerable episode, I share a recent brand photoshoot experience that had me battling waves of insecurity despite years of camera experience. Despite taking over 1,000 photos, my inner perfectionist—formed through years as a dancer and bodybuilder—kept finding flaws. The mantra that pulled me through? "I am enough and what I'm doing is important."

This triggered memories of perhaps my greatest person...

"Well, what about me?" These four simple words transformed my understanding of boundaries and self-care. What initially shocked me—his casual request for coffee when supplies were low—ultimately gave me permission to prioritize my own needs without guilt.

The beauty of this lesson was its unexpectedness. While our relationship didn't last, his natural ability to advocate for himself showed me what healthy bo...

In 2007, I crashed a borrowed car on my way to a job interview.

What started as a simple car swap to avoid a traffic ticket quickly spiraled into disaster when I hydroplaned over construction runoff and slammed into a concrete divider. The wrecked car was just the beginning—my boyfriend's reaction revealed more about our relationship than months of dating had. 

Despite the chaos, I formulated a plan: get the damaged ca...

What's the rush? When it comes to fitness, slowing down might be exactly what you need to achieve better results. 

We live in a world that glorifies busyness, constantly pushing us to do more, faster. But in this episode, I challenge that notion by exploring how intentional, deliberate action creates far more powerful outcomes than hurried, mindless movement. 

The centerpiece of this conversation is my five-m...

The most transformative moments in life often begin with taking a risk, stepping into uncertainty, and embracing the possibility of both success and failure. Today's episode dives deep into the physical and emotional "scars" these risks leave behind—and why they're worth celebrating rather than hiding.

Looking down at the stretch marks on my inner thighs one morning, I found myself reflecting on my jour...

Have you ever stayed in a relationship you knew wasn't right, simply because leaving felt more terrifying than staying? That's exactly the journey I'm unpacking in this raw, honest conversation about self-forgiveness and the courage to walk away.

Drawing from my personal experience with a relationship that spanned from 2006 to 2009, I share how I ignored my intuition early on, convincing myself that this per...

Ready for some hard truth about transformation? In this powerful episode, I dive deep into why most people remain stuck in the "anticipation phase" rather than taking decisive action toward their goals. Drawing from my experience as a retired professional bodybuilder and nearly 30 years in the fitness industry, I challenge the popular notion of "balance".

The uncomfortable reality is that champions don&...

Shame and self-judgment can be the invisible chains that hold us back from living our most authentic lives. Have you ever stopped to wonder who's really behind that critical voice in your head? 

This powerful episode explores the relationship between shame, judgment, and authentic self-expression. Drawing inspiration from Brené Brown's groundbreaking work on vulnerability, we examine how shame fundamentally repre...

Have you ever wondered what people will remember about you when you're gone? Today's episode emerged from an unexpected emotional moment during a client training session that brought me to tears.

When my client arrived with news that both her parents were hospitalized on opposite coasts, our conversation naturally turned toward mortality. I shared that while death itself doesn't frighten me, I often contempl...

Ever gone to the gym, completed your workout, and walked away feeling like you didn't really do anything? You're not alone. This frustrating experience stems from a critical missing element in most fitness routines: intensity.

Drawing from nearly three decades as a fitness professional, I unpack why so many workouts fall flat despite consistent gym attendance. The truth is that showing up isn't enough – what...

What happens when you finally stand up for yourself after a lifetime of putting someone else first? The moment I set my first boundary with my father changed everything between us – and within myself.

After supporting my father through 13 years of incarceration from age 12 to 25, I found myself trapped in a cycle of manipulation and guilt.  Until one day, when he made a passive-aggressive comment about my gym time being mo...

What happens when a woman who grew up immersed in diet culture deliberately chooses to take up more space? In this vulnerable exploration of my journey to gain muscle, I share the unexpected challenges of intentionally becoming bigger in a world that constantly tells women to shrink themselves.

Growing up in the 80s and 90s, I was surrounded by impossible beauty standards—from beach workout videos with glistening bodies to...

Ready to discover why some people achieve remarkable transformations while others struggle? Drawing from 28 years of experience as a fitness professional, I'm pulling back the curtain on what truly separates success from frustration when working with a coach or trainer.

For high-achievers especially—the entrepreneurs, leaders, and go-getters—these insights might challenge your approach to personal growth. The truth is...

Have you ever stopped to consider which parts of your life are authentic versus performative? We tackle this thought-provoking question in our latest episode, inviting you to examine your social media habits and daily activities through a refreshingly honest lens.
 

"Would I still be doing this if no one was watching?" It's not about judgment but rather a genuine curiosity about our motivations in today's con...

Ever feel like you're drowning in responsibilities while maintaining a perfect game face for the world? You're not alone. In this deeply practical episode, I pull back the curtain on my own experience with overwhelm and share the exact five-step framework I use to regain clarity and calm.

Grab a pen and paper for this one - you'll want to capture these actionable strategies that go beyond surface-level advic...

Discipline – a word often associated with restriction and limitation – actually unlocks profound emotional freedom when properly understood and applied. Drawing from personal experiences in bodybuilding, professional transitions, and even while traveling, I explore how initial discipline transforms into liberating habits that enhance rather than constrain our lives.

This transformation from discipline to habit creates the ...

Have you ever wondered where the line between tough love and abuse truly lies? That blurry boundary shaped my childhood in profound ways, leaving scars that took decades to understand.

Growing up in the 1980s with my father after my parents split, I experienced what was then considered "character building" but would today be recognized as neglect and emotional abuse. I'll never forget the day my thumb got ca...

Disconnecting to truly connect might be exactly what you need. 

The fitness retreat I attend twice yearly in Tennessee offers more than just training techniques and education—it provides a sanctuary where barriers fall away and authentic connections form. With limited WiFi, rustic cabins, and a community of health-focused individuals, it is the perfect environment for profound personal growth.

For high achievers c...

Growth doesn't happen at the same pace for everyone. This fundamental truth has shaped my understanding of relationships and inspired this deeply personal exploration of what I call "network inventory" – the essential practice of evaluating who belongs in your life as you evolve.

Drawing from my own painful lessons in friendships, romantic relationships, and family connections, I share four crucial questions...