Deborah Lukovich holds a Ph.D. in Depth Psychology which focuses on understanding the nature of the unconscious. She is a coach, author, blogger, and podcaster where she offers insights and teachings to help people explore the deeper meaning of life through stories, conversation, and education.
Deborah is back to discuss her latest framework for understanding relationships from a depth psychology perspective using the 3 P’s: Purpose, Projection, and Permanence. “These three words capture every aspect of relationship between all human beings, but they just play out more dramatically in those of a romantic nature.” Looking at relationship dynamics and interactions through the lens of purpose, projection, and permanence provide a deep way of understanding what is really going on and together they can work towards a deeper connection, growth, and fulfillment.
In this episode, Deb and Shane discuss the hidden purpose and deeper meaning of relationships, how projection largely determines the way we relate to each other, and how clinging to the idea of permanence can be destructive.
“We often don’t discover the deeper purpose of a relationship until after one has ended. Or, if we’re lucky, we get a little glimpse when we have the humility to explore a conflict or dissatisfaction rather than avoid it. It can feel mind-blowing to discover this ulterior motive that has been hiding from the ego, which thinks it knows exactly why we do what we do.”
Get a copy of Deborah’s latest book: Your Soul is Talking. Are You Listening? 5 Steps to Uncovering Your Hidden Purpose
https://www.amazon.com/Your-Soul-Talking-Are-Listening/dp/B09KNGDGGX/
Listen to Deborah Podcast: Dose of Depth
https://doseofdepth.buzzsprout.com/
More of Deborah:
🙏🏽 Website https://www.deborahlukovich.com/
🙏🏽 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dlukovich/
🙏🏽 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/dlukovich
🙏🏽 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/deborah-lukovich-phd-5322953/
🙏🏽 Twitter: https://twitter.com/DebLukovich
More of Shane:
🙏🏽 Underground Antics Website: https://undergroundantics.com
🙏🏽 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/shane-pokroy/
🙏🏽 Instagram: https://instagram.com/shanepokroy/
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