Unfiltered : Single Christians Tips on Life

Do you know the signs of an unfaithful Christian girlfriend?  As a Christian single, understanding the foundation of a faithful and loving relationship is crucial. However, in a world where values and commitments can be complex, it’s essential to be aware of the signs that may indicate a partner’s infidelity. This article seeks to explore those signs, not from a place of judgment or paranoia, but from a standpoint of wisdom and dis...

Need long-distance Christian single dating tips for a long-distance relationship?  These long-distance relationships have always been with us. However, in recent years, global online dating services and increased ease of travel helped make long-distance relationships much more prevalent. In fact, according to dating experts on the topic, there are an estimated 1 to 2 million couples presently in long-distance dating relationships. ...

If you’ve been out there in the dating world, especially as a Christian single, you know things can get a little tricky. You’re trying to stay pure, uphold biblical values, and—let’s face it—figure out whether that charming person sitting across from you at church is already someone else’s “one flesh” (Genesis 2:24). So, how do you tell if someone is married? Here are the top 10 ways, with a little humor and solid biblical advice, ...

Dealing with regret as a Christian single can be a deeply transformative experience, providing both spiritual growth and personal enlightenment. This article explores effective strategies rooted in Christian beliefs to navigate and overcome feelings of regret, turning them into stepping stones for a more fulfilling and purpose-driven life. Understanding Regret from a Christian Perspective Regret can be defined as a feeling of sadne...

Why is honesty in a relationship so important? In the journey of finding and nurturing a meaningful relationship, honesty stands as a foundational pillar, especially for Christian singles who are seeking a partnership grounded in faith and trust. Honesty is not just a moral choice but a spiritual commitment that reflects the teachings of Christ and the principles of Christian living. This article explores why honesty is crucial in ...

Learning how to forgive someone who hurt you emotionally is difficult. Have you ever felt the need to forgive your boyfriend or girlfriend? Learning how to forgive in a Christian dating relationship is essential because as Christian singles, God calls us to practice forgiveness if we ourselves wish to be forgiven. forgive the homo. In the world of Christian dating, emotional injuries can sometimes be as impactful as physical ones. ...

Are you a Single Christian wondering how to stop worrying about money?  We don’t need an economic meltdown on Wall Street to start worrying about money and finances. In fact, according to our extensive surveys, singles worry just as much about money and careers as they do relationship and dating issues. Did you know that?  So how do we counsel singles (single-never married, single parents, divorcees) who worry over money? The actua...

Do you have difficulty embracing singleness as a Christian single guy or woman Many singles I know are depressed and discouraged because they can’t seem to find contentment in their present state of singleness. Their pursuit of the perfect Christian dating relationship leading toward marriage is so all-consuming that they lose the joy of living day to day as a single person. Let’s be clear here. Accepting singleness has nothing to ...

As Christian singles, it’s sometimes easy to suffer discouragement or fear over new sets of circumstances or future uncertainties. Undoing depression that often accompanies discouragement is a difficult thing to do. Because we’re human, discouragement, depression, and stress can crop up at any time, for a variety of reasons. Why Singles Suffer Discouragement and Depression The following are some top reasons singles give for having ...

What does the Bible say about waiting on God? More specifically, how to wait on the Lord for that special Christian date, or husband or wife? One of the most difficult things for Christian singles interested in dating and marriage is waiting on the Lord for that special soulmate. This is especially true as we see our single friends meet their dream date, get married, and move on. Loneliness and anxiety start to creep in as we wonde...

Thinking about dating a friend? Should I confess to my crush?  A Christian single guy wrote us asking if it’s a good idea if best friends date one another.  So what do you think? Should friends date each other? I know the cynical among us may agree with that line from When Harry Met Sally, “a man and a woman can’t really be just friends.” But that’s the topic of another article. Let’s get back to the issue of whether […]

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Many singles write us asking for Christian dating principles or Christian dating rules to guide their dating lives. Well, listen. I don’t claim to be a Christian dating expert, but I do know that the Scriptures have some wonderful stuff from which we can cobble some general Christian dating principles. The pursuit of love is universal, yet for Christian singles, this journey is not merely about finding a compatible partner. It’s ab...

Do you have an issue with making peace with your past? Many Christian singles can’t get over the past. Several years back, I went on a Christian singles retreat, where the topic at hand was making peace with my past. Christian single after Christian single shared their sad stories of how a bad past experience, a soured relationship, or a sexual sin had held them back from living victoriously in the present. Although many Christian ...

Commitment phobia is the fear of commitment. When we speak of commitment phobia among singles, we are referring to folks who avoid committing to long-term relationships such as marriage. People who suffer from commitment phobia come in all varieties. Commitment phobes (no, I didn’t make this term up!) can be both male and female, Christian and non-Christian, teens, single parents or seniors. Commitment phobia among singles can occu...

How does one get over unrequited love as a Christian Single? In my personal experience, unrequited love is like death, only worse. Unrequited love occurs when the person you absolutely are “head over heels” in love with does not reciprocate the same desire and feelings. Can you think of anything more emotionally and spiritually painful than unrequited love, or being ghosted by the one you love? At least in death, a Christian single...

Sometimes learning how to let go of a toxic Christian dating relationship can be harder than finding a girlfriend or boyfriend. Even when we know letting go of a particular relationship is in our best interest, like in the case of an abusive dating relationship, or dating a married person, or dating an unbeliever, it is not always an easy decision. Many times a Christian single may struggle over feeling guilty or think that the rig...