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July 24, 2023 41 mins

Episode Summary: After a three-month hiatus, Nathan is back with another episode of the Unplugged Freedom Podcast. In this episode, he addresses a common question that many women have: "Where are all the good guys?" Nathan shares his perspective on this issue and highlights that often, it's not about the lack of good guys but rather how they are treated in relationships.

He questions why men would invest time, energy, and emotion into relationships when they're often treated poorly or left feeling used. He explores how this treatment can lead to negative behaviors and attitudes among men, including manipulation.

Key Points:

  1. Many women express frustration about not finding good guys and often encounter men that they perceive as disrespectful or not up to their standards.
  2. NathaKey Points:
    1. Many women express frustration about not finding good guys and often encounter men that they perceive as disrespectful or not up to their standards.
    2. Nathan emphasizes that his perspective is from a man's point of view and acknowledges that he may not be aware of the challenges women face in dating.
    3. He suggests that some women unknowingly contribute to the problem by not treating men fairly in relationships. This treatment can lead to men becoming disheartened and jaded, which may affect their behavior in future relationships.
    4. Nathan discusses the potential harm caused by ghosting or abruptly ending relationships without explanation. This behavior can leave men feeling confused, hurt, and less likely to invest time and emotional energy into future relationships.
    5. He concludes by urging listeners to reflect on their own behavior in relationships and consider how it might impact others.
    6. Nathan observes that many men feel disheartened by negative experiences in relationships, which can result in them being less invested in future interactions.
    7. He discusses the damaging effects of ghosting and how it can leave men feeling undervalued after investing time and effort into a relationship.
    8. Nathan challenges the notion that all men are the same and urges listeners to consider how their actions can shape others' behaviors.
    9. He questions why men would continue to be respectful and invest in relationships when they often experience poor treatment.
    10. Nathan shares his personal experiences and observations, highlighting the struggles men face in the dating scene and the emotional toll it can take.
    11. He concludes by encouraging self-awareness and empathy in relationships, urging listeners not to hurt others intentionally.

Quote of the Episode: "Why would a guy be such a way when he is genuinely interested, he is genuinely developing feelings, and then all of a sudden he gets the rug pulled out on him and then treated like an absolute piece of trash." - Nathan

"If you hurt somebody intentionally who doesn't deserve it, you are an absolute piece of garbage of a human being. I want you to know that." - Nathan

"Why would somebody invest the time and energy and the emotional energy into something when they could just very well be treated like a piece of shit?" - Nathan

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