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January 21, 2023 28 mins

In this episode, Bruce and Kaila are joined by their 16 year old daughter, Zoe, to talk about how people use their words, including cursing and putting others down, but how God wants us to use words to build up others, share our testimony, and give life to those around us. 

[01:27] Intro to Topic
[03:24] Meet Zoe & talk about cursing
[07:55] Accountability 
[15:14] "Shut your mouth"
[21:00] Good vs Bad consequences
[22:43] Zoe's Testimony
[26:55] Closing Prayer


Scripture References:

  • “People can tame all kinds of animals, birds, reptiles, and fish, but no one can tame the tongue. It is restless and evil, full of deadly poison. Sometimes it praises our Lord and Father, and sometimes it curses those who have been made in the image of God. And so blessing and cursing come pouring out of the same mouth. Surely, my brothers and sisters, this is not right!” (‭‭James‬ ‭3‬:‭7-‭10‬)
  • “Guard your heart above all else, for it determines the course of your life.” (‭‭Proverbs‬ ‭4‬:‭23‬)
  • “A good person produces good things from the treasury of a good heart, and an evil person produces evil things from the treasury of an evil heart. What you say flows from what is in your heart.” (‭‭Luke‬ ‭6‬:‭45‬)
  • “The tongue can bring death or life; those who love to talk will reap the consequences.” (‭‭Proverbs‬ ‭18‬:‭21‬)

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