"You're just naturally competitive."
No. You're not.
Competitiveness isn't personality—it's childhood survival.
When love depended on being "better than," your nervous system learned: Second place = rejection.
Now you're exhausted from the endless comparison game.
The shift:
Driven (internal) ≠ Competitive (external)
One brings peace. The other brings panic.
Which one runs your life?
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