Does Abuse Get Worse During the Holidays? With Robin Hughes, DVS

The holidays can be an isolating, scary time for people experiencing abuse. Time off from work, the increase in substance use, financial strain, and the pressure to make happy holiday memories create a perfect storm for abuse.

Robin Hughes, manager of JBWS' Crisis Response Team, joins this episode of Unsilenced to explore why abuse may escalate during the holidays and how to support a loved one that may be experiencing abuse.

Content:

(0:00) Introduction

(1:39) Escalation of Abuse & Decrease In Calls For Help

(7:32) Stressors That Contribute To Abuse

(11:06) Alcohol Does Not Cause Abuse

(15:00) Why "Getting It Right" Won't Stop The Abuse

(18:13) Advice For People Experiencing Abuse

(22:13) Safety Planning

(24:50) The Isolation of Abuse During Holidays

(29:18) About JBWS & Resources

Resources:

Are you in an unhealthy relationship and living or working in Morris County, New Jersey? JBWS can help call our 24-Hour Helpline at 1.877.782.2873 or visit ⁠⁠⁠⁠jbws.org/services⁠⁠. ⁠⁠

Do you recognize controlling or abusive behaviors in yourself? JBWS can also help. Please call 973.539.7801 or visit ⁠⁠⁠⁠jbws.org/jcnv⁠⁠⁠⁠

If you don't live or work in Morris County, NJ please visit https://www.thehotline.org/ or call 800.799.SAFE (7233)

Unsilenced: Real Conversations About Abuse is produced by JBWS, a domestic violence agency serving Morris County, New Jersey. If you're interested in learning more about JBWS, please visit⁠⁠⁠⁠ jbws.org ⁠⁠

Intro and outro music donated by Billy Morris