Abuse among teens can look different than our typical understanding of domestic violence. In this episode, Maddie Hahn, the manager of JBWS’ Dating Abuse Prevention Program, answers many questions about dating abuse for both teenagers and their parents or guardians.
This episode covers:
- Location sharing, the expectation of constant communication, how we can model healthy relationships for teenagers, how bullies mimic dynamics of power and control we see in abuse, the importance of maintaining our relationship armor, and more.
Maddie explains how parents or guardians can casually promote healthy relationships by encouraging discussions about media and pop culture. When these discussions do arise, Maddie offers suggestions on dos and donts for navigating the conversation.
Content:
(0:00) Introduction
(2:10) Can Abuse Happen In Teen Relationships?
(7:48) Location Sharing
(12:52) Constant Texting
(16:50) Maintaining Relationship Armor
(20:11) Warning Signs of Abuse
(24:27) Dos and Donts for Talking to Teens about Relationships
(31:27) Modeling Healthy Relationships
(32:53) Bullies Use Power and Control
(35:09) The Harm in Downplaying Teen Relationships
(38:01) How Breaking Up Could Be Dangerous
(40:18) Closing Remarks
(43:22) About JBWS & Services
Resources:
Are you in an unhealthy relationship and living or working in Morris County, New Jersey? JBWS can help call our 24-Hour Helpline at 1.877.782.2873 or visit jbws.org/services.
Do you recognize controlling or abusive behaviors in yourself? JBWS can also help. Please call 973.539.7801 or visit jbws.org/jcnv
If you don't live or work in Morris County, NJ please visit https://www.thehotline.org/ or call 800.799.SAFE (7233)
Unsilenced: Real Conversations About Abuse is produced by JBWS, a domestic violence agency serving Morris County, New Jersey. If you're interested in learning more about JBWS, please visit jbws.org
Intro and outro music donated by Billy Morris
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