March 4, 2025 • 30 mins
A discussion on recognizing the unseen drains on your energy (and how to spot them).
• Signs that indicate you may be leaking energy
• The impact of emotional imbalance on energy levels
• Strategies to close energetic cords with others
• Understanding the importance of soul balance
• Emotional mastery as a tool for controlling energy
• Announcement of an upcoming mini masterclass (waitlist here).
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Speaker 1 (00:05):
Welcome to Unveiled the podcast.
I'm your host, angela Christian, and I help you with unveiling
your true self by peeling awaythe layers that society placed
on you.
I do this with a combination ofneuroscience, energetics and
ancient spiritual wisdom.
I went from underpaid andoverworked in corporate America
to launching a six-figurecompany that continues to grow.
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I went from toxic relationshipsto being happy and single for
over a year as I worked andcontinue to work on becoming the
best version of myself, and somuch more.
My greatest passion is to helpwomen and mothers heal,
transform and become the highestversions of themselves.
Heal, transform and become thehighest versions of themselves.
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As I continue to grow andexpand my intuitive knowledge
and unique wisdom, I'll beincluding you on my journey to
millions, so let's get into it.
Speaker 2 (00:58):
Hello, welcome back to Unveiled.
I'm so happy to be back.
My kids and I got hit withinfluenza A and I almost made it
out without getting it, butthen I had an emotional
situation that got the better ofme and that opened me up to be
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an energetic match to getting it.
However, there's many reasonswhy I'm actually glad I got it,
which is a whole different topic.
But today we are going to talkabout three signs that you're
leaking energy and how to sealthe leaks for good.
So, in case you're new here, Ilike to just cut through the
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noise and get straight to whatactually works when it comes to
healing things at the root,because what our society has
been using for healing tools arevery outdated.
They weren't necessarilycreated to make shifts quickly
and permanently, right?
So if you think about therapy,for example, which I went to for
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over a decade trying to clearsevere domestic abuse, and I
would feel worse every time, Iwould go because it just opens
up a wound and then you knowyou're talking about it, you're
talking about it, then thesessions over, you leave and
that wound is still open.
Right, because therapiststraditional therapists aren't
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trained to actually close thewound and just like pull out the
root.
Pull out the root, close thewound right.
So that just was not efficient.
And if you know me at all, youknow I'm all about efficiency.
Like I am a single mom of three, I don't have time to waste.
Like I am a single mom of three, I don't have time to waste.
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So I will find the mostefficient way to do anything,
and what I found was what I'mgoing to share with you guys
today being the most efficientway.
And I had a client come to mewho literally had 10 days, 10
days and she had to go face herex in court on live television.
She came to me I didn't knowher, she was referred by someone
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else and I was like, oh my gosh, okay, here we go.
Like I'm gonna find out if Ican really do this in 10 days,
and I did, and she is like on adifferent trajectory Now.
She even told me like she feelsbetter in all areas of life,
which is what this work does.
I very much talk about healingtrauma with our exes and all of
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that, but what I don't share,just because I don't want to
confuse people and make it morecomplicated, is that when you
clear these unconscious tabsrunning in the background.
It actually frees up energy inall areas of life, right?
And that's what I noticed whenI started healing with these
modalities.
And it was just of life, right,and that's what I noticed when
I started healing with thesemodalities, and it was just such
a life changer and that's whyI'm so passionate about it.
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So sign number one is that youkeep thinking about someone.
It can be an ex, it can be anold friend that you cut ties
with, and it's and I'm going togive a personal example here and
it's usually someone like youdon't even want anything to do
with them, but they just keeppopping into your head.
Right, and I kind of talkedabout this last episode when I
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was talking about how peoplecored into us and all of that.
But what happens and I had thisrecently I found myself
thinking about an ex who wasvery toxic and I wasn't thinking
like, oh, I want to be withthem.
I was thinking more of, likethe situations that bothered me
were popping up.
And then I was like, why am Ithinking about about him?
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Okay, let me sit and dive inand I realized he had corded
back into me.
I had already done theenergetic cord cutting with him.
But the one that I teach is verypowerful and the other person
will often feel a shift, eventhough they don't know what it
is.
But it might spark like oh, andthen they'll think about you
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because all of a sudden theyrealize unconsciously that that
cord is no longer in place,because energetic cords do not
expire.
So even if you had arelationship with someone 15
years ago and it was traumatic,or even if it wasn't traumatic,
there is very likely a cord.
And why that is an energy leakis because when we're in
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relationships with people, weexchange energy right, and so
they get pieces of our soul, weget pieces of their soul.
We cannot fully heal unless wehave all of our soul pieces back
.
So that's why it's so importantto do these energetic cord
cutting exercises, and Iactually did my own.
I listened to my own audio,which is kind of funny last
night and did the energetic cordcutting with him and I'm good.
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So that is a very it's a verycommon way that we're leaking
energy.
This can just be happening inthe background.
I'm just very aware of mythoughts and like what I'm
focusing on, because there is anenergetic, universal, spiritual
law called the law of focus.
I'm very aware of what I'mfocusing on and if it's not
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helpful, then I know it's a leaksomewhere, so I cleared that.
I also did some other things toclear with him, which was
neutralizing the situation thatI was thinking about, which is
the very last interaction I hadwith him.
It was very troubling and mychild was there.
So I kept thinking about thatand I noticed that I was feeling
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guilty, and guilt does notserve us.
As you know, if you've listenedto any of my podcasts or if
you're in my programs, guiltdoes not serve us.
So what I did was I neutralizedthe situation and I looked at
all the positives, all thenegatives, right, and sometimes
it can be really hard, but I'vedone this for a while now, so
it's become pretty easy.
It's like okay, well, thepositive was that finally got me
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to cut contact with him when Iknew he was an energy vampire.
I knew he was messing with darkforces, and yet I kept going
back to him because I didn'tunderstand that it was because
there was a cord there, right.
And so there's always positivesand negatives to all situations
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.
You can find them.
I promise I have found them inreally difficult situations.
So I neutralized it and then Icut the energetic cord.
So, because that specific memorywas popping up, that was my
higher self, my unconscious,showing me hey, you still have a
little bit of work to do herelike healing work.
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My unconscious was stillthinking it was an active threat
to me and my child, so thatthat tab was staying open and it
was running in the background.
And so while that's happening,your nervous system won't turn
off because it thinks that it'sgoing to happen, it just
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happened or it's about to happen.
And then when you add in theenergy field being tangled with
theirs, it just keeps you inthis really negative loop.
And we weren't taught thisstuff.
Right, I had to learn this andluckily I've had so many
experiences, so manyrelationships that you know I've
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practiced this with, and itcompletely clears the issues.
So until you're fully clear ofthat connection, they will keep
popping up in your minduninvited.
And then if you find, likemaybe a month down the road,
something reminds me of thatsituation, right, it's going to
get less and less triggering.
And then I'll just know okay, Ineed to cut the cord again.
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Usually you only have to cutthat.
Cut the cord with this specificprocess because it's very
advanced.
Usually only have to do thatthree times and then they won't.
They'll just like leave youalone.
But here's the thing that I dida post yesterday Healing isn't
just about moving on.
You literally have to resetyour system and this is with
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your unconscious mind.
This is your nervous system.
This is energetically right.
If you don't do that, it's justlike my example on social media
was.
If you broke your leg, how wouldyou feel going to a doctor and
they said, well, let's just talkabout it and maybe it'll heal.
You know, let's just talk aboutit until it heals.
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You would be like what?
No, yet that's what we do withtherapists, right?
Or if your doctor told you okay, just from now on, really set
boundaries, do not go nearstairs.
Like, set boundaries withstairs and avoid them.
Like again, you would not findthat helpful.
Or if they said like, let'sjust really think positively,
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let's do some affirmations andhope that your bones realign.
Like none of that would behelpful, right, yeah, that's how
we treat trauma, that's how wetreat all of this in traditional
settings, and it's out with theold like that is the outdated
way to treat all of this.
So number two, the second sign,if you have an second sign that
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you have an energy leak is ifyou feel like you're dealing
with one crisis after another.
So let's say, your child wakesup sick, you're behind on work
and then your ex sends you atext that, like, makes your
heart start to race.
Then, just as you think like,okay, things are calming down,
then your car breaks down or anunexpected bill pops up.
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Like if you think to yourself,I cannot catch a break, if you
think that, then you have anenergy leak.
Now this leak can be severaldifferent things and if you're
in my programs, I might havetalked about on my podcast, but
there's something calledreflections, which is when your
soul is out of balance In aspecific area of life.
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There are eight areas of life.
When your soul is out ofbalance, you will start to see
reflections in, typically, thearea that you care about most.
So for a lot of people rightnow, that's financial right.
So if you're seeing a lot offinancial issues popping up,
that's because in one of theother seven areas of life you
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are out of balance, which justmeans you're not making it a
priority, and I, in mymembership.
I think it was last month Iwent over how to balance all
eight areas of life I think itwas the month before which can
be done.
So when you're balanced in alleight areas of life, the
reflections won't be as severe.
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They'll never go away, becausereflections are actually here to
help us and I've startedlooking at them as like helpful,
little obstacles.
Right, because the and thesooner that you catch it, this
is really key.
So, for example, if you aredrinking coffee and your
favorite like shirt or dress andyou spill a drop of coffee,
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that's probably like a levelthree reflection.
The level one reflection mighthave been spilling a drop of
water on your shirt.
Okay.
So when we pay attention tothese reflections earlier and
say, okay, where am I out ofbalance, where am I being
emotional, all of that right,and start to catch it at the
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earlier stages, we won't get hitwith these level 10 reflections
.
Right, and you can shift them,even if, for example, I got a
notice last week that I owed$8,000 to my oldest daughter's
college tuition, which the weekbefore I had only owed $1,300.
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So I was like, okay, this isdefinitely a reflection.
I took the time, I shifted alot.
I checked yesterday magicallyback down to $1,300.
Okay, so this really works.
You just have to understand howit works and then be very aware
of what's happening and noticinganything that kind of triggers
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you stopping and just being like, okay, where am I out of
balance?
Like, I explained how to dothis in my programs.
I'm not going to get into it onthe podcast, but so if you're
being hit with all of thesereflections, just know that
there's definitely an energyleak or there's an emotional
issue that you're not addressing, because, as physical beings
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right now right, if you'relistening to this you're likely
a physical being we haveemotions and they can be a
blessing, but they can also be acurse, until you understand how
to master them, which is why Ihave a whole program called
Unbothered, which is aboutemotional mastery, because
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emotions one feelings from otherpeople unless you're aware and
you know how to raise yourfrequency of emotion before you
go into a public setting, forexample or this is what I'm
addressing in my membership thismonth is how to have
relationships with people andnot allow them to set you off
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and trigger your emotions.
And all of that Because this,again, is something we don't
talk about.
And so, one, if you're a highfrequency being, you're going to
be more likely to catch otherpeople's feelings if you're
unaware of how to protectyourself energetically.
But two, because you're ahigher frequency being, you can
also control the emotions in theroom if you have emotional
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mastery.
But the thing is most peopledon't.
And what's sad is like.
If you think back in childhoodI can recall this, like my mom
crying.
She was upset.
I would go over to her momwhat's wrong, Are you sad?
And her not wanting to puteverything on me, she would say
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no, no, honey, I'm fine.
So what do you think thatteaches us?
That confuses the hell out ofkids, right?
Like, wait what she's crying?
Doesn't that mean she's sad?
And then we're surprised thatwe don't know how to label our
emotions, right?
So even when you think thatyou're not emotional about
something, you likely are.
And here's the thing when youare like 15% or higher emotional
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, your intuition is going to bemessed up.
So you're not even going to beable to rely on your intuition
because you're going to be tooemotional.
And this is where, like beingtrained in intuition and not
just intuition, but I am trainedin scientifically precise
intuition.
This is literally what I do formy clients is I can tell where
they're out of balance in whatarea of life and how to shift it
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.
Like that is what I do for myclients and for myself, right?
So If you're dealing withcrisis after crisis, then this
means you're dealing with a lotof reflections, because you are
emotional about things you don'teven know, because you're out
of balance because maybe youhave some of these unconscious
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tabs running in the backgroundthat need to be closed which is
what I do as well and yourenergy field could be super wide
open without you knowing, andthat makes you more susceptible
to low frequency issues what Ialso call dark forces, dark
energy, right, because just likethere's light in this world,
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there is dark, and when we'reemotional, that makes us
vulnerable to dark forces.
That is a huge thing, and that'swhen, once I learned that I was
like oh, I am getting myemotions under control because I
have noticed and it's not justnegative emotions, it's also if
you're like, way on the high end.
So it's really about havingemotional balance, because what
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happens is, if they see a littlewindow where you're angry or
fearful and you don't shift it,they can get in and start
messing with your mind.
They can make you feel like God, what's the point of even
living, like I know now, becauseI'll catch myself like thinking
what's the point or something,and then I'm like, oh, I got a
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dark force.
I have to go clear that, which,again, I teach that in my
programs.
Huge thing that I check forevery single day and I clear
myself, I clear my kids.
So we need to be resetting ournervous system, we need to be
clearing these unconscious tabsrunning in the background and we
need to become emotionallybalanced and then you will stop
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feeling like life is one chaoticmoment after another.
So sign number three is you'rewaking up feeling exhausted, no
matter how much sleep you get.
Maybe you sleep for a fulleight hours, but you're still
waking up feeling exhausted.
Maybe you start your day likeyou feel like you're already
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running on empty right, like noamount of sleep ever replenishes
you.
This can be several reasons.
One you can have unconscioustabs running in the background
while you sleep.
If you're in fight or flight,you are not going to be in your
heal and reset program of thebody, right?
So the parasympathetic systemisn't going to be functioning.
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So you're not going to feelrested.
Your nervous system will belike working overtime all night
long.
Another reason is we can havelovely energetic attacks on us
during the night.
So one thing for me when thiswas happening, when I realized
this was a huge issue for me, iswhen I was getting eight hours
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of sleep and I'm someone wholoves to get up at like 5am,
have my coffee, start doingthings when I was feeling tired
after a full night's sleep, Iknew there was something
happening and I was given thisvery advanced sleep protection
and it has changed my life, mychild's life.
So every night I put the sleepprotection on myself, I put it
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on him.
Last night I actually fellasleep before I put it on him
and he woke up with a nightmare.
So it 100% works.
And so what was happening?
And I've talked about this inother episodes but if you're
above a certain frequency, yoursoul actually leaves your body
and goes up to the astral realmat night and while there you can
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get energetic attacks.
Now, typically, only ascendedmasters would be the ones whose
soul should be leaving at nightand going up to the astral.
If you're not an ascendedmaster and you're going up there
, then you're not going to feelrested and there are solutions
to keep your soul in your bodyat night.
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Again, I go into all of this inmy Light it Up program.
Might sound very wild to peoplewho aren't familiar with you
know the dark energy world.
One other thing I'll add hereis that when you become
emotionally balanced, if you'rea parent, this will have a
really positive effect on yourchild.
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So my son if you've listened toearlier podcast episodes, he was
having a lot of ADHD symptoms,having issues at schools.
He got kicked out of a coupleof schools.
He's only five, almost five anda half, and I had a session
with my mentor and asked him tolook into his soul contract, my
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soul contract, all of that andhe found, using the same
intuition that I have, that heneeds 37 minutes of my time
uninterrupted every day, justlike sitting with him and saying
okay, what do you want to dofor 37 minutes?
Giving him my full attention,not going on my phone, just
literally letting him dowhatever he wants to do.
Typically he wants to just playRoblox during the 37 minutes
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and it has been night and dayLike I was very against giving
him any medication when he wasdiagnosed with ADHD and ODD.
Just like a year ago he wasdiagnosed with both of those and
, like his behavior was so outof control, I took him to the
doctor's office.
He was hitting me, biting me,punching me.
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It was insane.
And this was at the Amen Clinic, which is like anti-medication
as well, and even she was likemaybe he needs to be on
medication.
But I was just like, nope, Iknow this is part of my sole
path to learn how to help himwithout medication medication,
because I do not want to put myson on Ritalin or Adderall, and
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so she gave me some naturalsupplements to try, which did
help, but I had to give it tohim twice a day and there were
like L-theanine, 5-htp andsaffron those were the biggest
ones and then, at night,magnesium.
So, and once I started becomingemotionally balanced, once I
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started dealing with myreflections, the second that
they popped up and I'm notperfect, obviously I got sick,
so I did not deal with that andI made the mistake of my
daughter was about like fourdays into her sickness and I was
like, oh, I'm not going to getit, I'm good.
And then I got it and I waslike, well, I only usually get
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sick for two days, which is true.
It's going on like two weeks,and you can probably tell I'm
still congested, so I let my egokind of get in the way there,
but sometimes, yes, I will missa reflection, and then this
sickness was obviously a veryhigh reflection that I had
missed right.
So once though, I startedregulating my emotions, once I
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started giving him that 37minutes, and it will be
different for every child.
So if you're in my program, mymembership program, you can ask
me on a monthly check-in callhow many minutes a day do I need
to spend with my childuninterrupted?
Like, obviously, I spend a lotmore than 37 minutes with them,
but this is like 37 minutes ofwhatever they want to do.
So it'll be different for otherkids, but typically it's less
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than an hour.
So he doesn't even need hissupplements anymore.
He has been getting stars, twostars, every day at school.
He, like his teacher, isshocked, like I, literally you
guys had to meet with theteacher, with the principal,
with the school counselor, allof that to get him on a plan.
This was right, as I startedaddressing my reflections, and
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so he was getting a little bitbetter, but and I should say,
like, when they're seven oryounger, it's a reflection of us
.
That's really important thingto add in there.
So I know that he's justreflecting my behavior and I
should say, like when they'reseven or younger, it's a
reflection of us.
That's really important thingto add in there.
So I know that he's justreflecting my behavior and I'll
see it.
If I have a day where I getemotional, he will act out a
little bit, but it's nothinglike it was before.
I don't even have to give himhis natural supplements anymore
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and his teacher is like whathappened, like it's totally
different child, and his teacheris like what happened, like
it's totally different child.
So this is why, like our systemis so outdated, they just want
to give our kids medication andnot deal with them.
I was not okay with that, so Idid it the harder way, which is
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addressing my own reflections,mastering my emotions, really
looking at from an energeticperspective what needs to change
here.
Right, so everything is withinour control.
The fact that people don'tunderstand that and believe it,
it's a dark force issue.
We are all living in our ownTruman Show and we can control
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ourself and we can actuallycontrol the way other people
behave, and so this is what I dodifferently with the clients
that come to me is when theycome to me and they're like my
ex is doing this XYZ, blah, blah, blah, they're coming to me,
whether they know it or not,because they're they're
realizing the outdated ways thatother people have been helping
them just aren't working right.
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The therapy, the tapping, theaffirmations, the journaling,
all of that like that doesn'tget to the root and pull it out.
That's also not even addressingthe energetics, which is a huge
piece.
We are 50% physical, 50%energetic.
We have to address both.
So if today's episode hit homefor you, we have to address both
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.
So if today's episode hit homefor you, definitely let me know.
And if you can relate to any ofthose, it's definitely time to
like clear those leaks andreclaim your power.
I'm actually working onreleasing a mini masterclass
called the X Detox MiniMasterclass.
It's going to be $47.
I'm going to explain more aboutfrom the relationship
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perspective and then I will beincluding the cord cutting and
the advanced cord cutting inthere.
So if that interests you, jointhe wait list.
I'll link it in the show notesand I'll email you once it's
available.
Again, it's only $47.
I don't think I have anythingelse for $47.
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So that would be a really goodintroductory program if you
haven't purchased something fromme.
And just a side note, I haven'tannounced this anywhere because
it was very much a personaldecision.
But my membership has nowchanged.
You cannot just come in for amonth, you need to commit to a
year, and I will explain why Idid this.
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So initially, my membership,the only option was an annual
membership and what I saw waspeople come, came in, they're
still in and this is like theirsecond year.
Right, they've seen huge,they've really committed to
their healing.
And so when I switched to amonthly subscription, what I saw
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was there were two types ofpeople coming in.
One were very similar to theother ones, where they were
committed to long-term healing,working with me long-term.
But then there were peoplecoming in who were just coming
in to try to cram all theinformation.
Right now I do offer one-on-oneintuitive reads every month for
each person, so they're private, so you do get that as like.
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Basically, it's basically freeright now, based on the cost of
the program.
I won't be able to offer thatforever, obviously, as my
membership grows.
But what I noticed is peoplewere coming in and it was almost
like frantic energy, like letme consume this really fast, let
me get my read and then I'mgoing to and then I have to go,
and so I didn't like that vibe,like it was nothing against the
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people, but it was just that'snot what my membership is for.
It is really more for like acoaching experience.
So what I did was I justchanged it to be an annual
membership.
You can still use after pay topay monthly.
So if you're going to thecheckout page, I think you have
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to enter your email address andname and then go to the payment
section.
You can still click after payfor like monthly payments.
But I am no longer financingpayment plans because I did have
an issue recently where someonedidn't pay and then I just
don't want to have to deal withthat, to be honest.
So I only want people coming inwho have high integrity, who
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are committed to their healingand who it's a fair energy
exchange, because I'm giving alot more than I'm even charging
in my membership, and so I wantpeople to come in who are
committed to working with melong term.
So, anyway, just a littlechange in the membership.
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I did have a couple people askoh, can I not join monthly
anymore?
No, you can pay monthly toafter pay, but you cannot pay me
monthly anymore, and so for anyof you you know with online
businesses or thinking about it,this is a really important
thing to note, as well as toalways feel like you're in a
fair, energetic exchange withpeople, because the second you
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start feeling resentment in yourprograms, you're going to repel
people.
It's not going to feel the waythat you want it right.
So the second I made thischange, I felt relief because I
know now people will come in whoare committed, right, and who
are my ideal client, and sothat's why I wanted to offer
this $47 mini masterclass was sothat people could experience
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what I do in my programs.
It's kind of like a littletaster of my work, right?
So long story short, join thewaitlist if you're wanting to
get access to that masterclass,and I look forward to helping
you take your energy back inwhatever space I see you in.
Speaker 1 (29:42):
So, sending you all so much love space I see you in,
so sending you all so much love.
Thank you for listening toUnveiled.
I always love hearing yourtakeaways, so please connect
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Welcome to Unveiled the podcast.
I'm your host, angela Christian, and I help you with unveiling
your true self by peeling awaythe layers that society placed
on you.
I do this with a combination ofneuroscience, energetics and
ancient spiritual wisdom.
I went from underpaid andoverworked in corporate America
to launching a six-figurecompany that continues to grow.
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I went from toxic relationshipsto being happy and single for
over a year as I worked andcontinue to work on becoming the
best version of myself, and somuch more.
My greatest passion is to helpwomen and mothers heal,
transform and become the highestversions of themselves.
Heal, transform and become thehighest versions of themselves.
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As I continue to grow andexpand my intuitive knowledge
and unique wisdom, I'll beincluding you on my journey to
millions, so let's get into it.
Speaker 2 (00:58):
Hello, welcome back to Unveiled.
I'm so happy to be back.
My kids and I got hit withinfluenza A and I almost made it
out without getting it, butthen I had an emotional
situation that got the better ofme and that opened me up to be
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an energetic match to getting it.
However, there's many reasonswhy I'm actually glad I got it,
which is a whole different topic.
But today we are going to talkabout three signs that you're
leaking energy and how to sealthe leaks for good.
So, in case you're new here, Ilike to just cut through the
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noise and get straight to whatactually works when it comes to
healing things at the root,because what our society has
been using for healing tools arevery outdated.
They weren't necessarilycreated to make shifts quickly
and permanently, right?
So if you think about therapy,for example, which I went to for
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over a decade trying to clearsevere domestic abuse, and I
would feel worse every time, Iwould go because it just opens
up a wound and then you knowyou're talking about it, you're
talking about it, then thesessions over, you leave and
that wound is still open.
Right, because therapiststraditional therapists aren't
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trained to actually close thewound and just like pull out the
root.
Pull out the root, close thewound right.
So that just was not efficient.
And if you know me at all, youknow I'm all about efficiency.
Like I am a single mom of three, I don't have time to waste.
Like I am a single mom of three, I don't have time to waste.
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So I will find the mostefficient way to do anything,
and what I found was what I'mgoing to share with you guys
today being the most efficientway.
And I had a client come to mewho literally had 10 days, 10
days and she had to go face herex in court on live television.
She came to me I didn't knowher, she was referred by someone
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else and I was like, oh my gosh, okay, here we go.
Like I'm gonna find out if Ican really do this in 10 days,
and I did, and she is like on adifferent trajectory Now.
She even told me like she feelsbetter in all areas of life,
which is what this work does.
I very much talk about healingtrauma with our exes and all of
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that, but what I don't share,just because I don't want to
confuse people and make it morecomplicated, is that when you
clear these unconscious tabsrunning in the background.
It actually frees up energy inall areas of life, right?
And that's what I noticed whenI started healing with these
modalities.
And it was just of life, right,and that's what I noticed when
I started healing with thesemodalities, and it was just such
a life changer and that's whyI'm so passionate about it.
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So sign number one is that youkeep thinking about someone.
It can be an ex, it can be anold friend that you cut ties
with, and it's and I'm going togive a personal example here and
it's usually someone like youdon't even want anything to do
with them, but they just keeppopping into your head.
Right, and I kind of talkedabout this last episode when I
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was talking about how peoplecored into us and all of that.
But what happens and I had thisrecently I found myself
thinking about an ex who wasvery toxic and I wasn't thinking
like, oh, I want to be withthem.
I was thinking more of, likethe situations that bothered me
were popping up.
And then I was like, why am Ithinking about about him?
(04:37):
Okay, let me sit and dive inand I realized he had corded
back into me.
I had already done theenergetic cord cutting with him.
But the one that I teach is verypowerful and the other person
will often feel a shift, eventhough they don't know what it
is.
But it might spark like oh, andthen they'll think about you
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because all of a sudden theyrealize unconsciously that that
cord is no longer in place,because energetic cords do not
expire.
So even if you had arelationship with someone 15
years ago and it was traumatic,or even if it wasn't traumatic,
there is very likely a cord.
And why that is an energy leakis because when we're in
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relationships with people, weexchange energy right, and so
they get pieces of our soul, weget pieces of their soul.
We cannot fully heal unless wehave all of our soul pieces back
.
So that's why it's so importantto do these energetic cord
cutting exercises, and Iactually did my own.
I listened to my own audio,which is kind of funny last
night and did the energetic cordcutting with him and I'm good.
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So that is a very it's a verycommon way that we're leaking
energy.
This can just be happening inthe background.
I'm just very aware of mythoughts and like what I'm
focusing on, because there is anenergetic, universal, spiritual
law called the law of focus.
I'm very aware of what I'mfocusing on and if it's not
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helpful, then I know it's a leaksomewhere, so I cleared that.
I also did some other things toclear with him, which was
neutralizing the situation thatI was thinking about, which is
the very last interaction I hadwith him.
It was very troubling and mychild was there.
So I kept thinking about thatand I noticed that I was feeling
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guilty, and guilt does notserve us.
As you know, if you've listenedto any of my podcasts or if
you're in my programs, guiltdoes not serve us.
So what I did was I neutralizedthe situation and I looked at
all the positives, all thenegatives, right, and sometimes
it can be really hard, but I'vedone this for a while now, so
it's become pretty easy.
It's like okay, well, thepositive was that finally got me
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to cut contact with him when Iknew he was an energy vampire.
I knew he was messing with darkforces, and yet I kept going
back to him because I didn'tunderstand that it was because
there was a cord there, right.
And so there's always positivesand negatives to all situations
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.
You can find them.
I promise I have found them inreally difficult situations.
So I neutralized it and then Icut the energetic cord.
So, because that specific memorywas popping up, that was my
higher self, my unconscious,showing me hey, you still have a
little bit of work to do herelike healing work.
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My unconscious was stillthinking it was an active threat
to me and my child, so thatthat tab was staying open and it
was running in the background.
And so while that's happening,your nervous system won't turn
off because it thinks that it'sgoing to happen, it just
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happened or it's about to happen.
And then when you add in theenergy field being tangled with
theirs, it just keeps you inthis really negative loop.
And we weren't taught thisstuff.
Right, I had to learn this andluckily I've had so many
experiences, so manyrelationships that you know I've
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practiced this with, and itcompletely clears the issues.
So until you're fully clear ofthat connection, they will keep
popping up in your minduninvited.
And then if you find, likemaybe a month down the road,
something reminds me of thatsituation, right, it's going to
get less and less triggering.
And then I'll just know okay, Ineed to cut the cord again.
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Usually you only have to cutthat.
Cut the cord with this specificprocess because it's very
advanced.
Usually only have to do thatthree times and then they won't.
They'll just like leave youalone.
But here's the thing that I dida post yesterday Healing isn't
just about moving on.
You literally have to resetyour system and this is with
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your unconscious mind.
This is your nervous system.
This is energetically right.
If you don't do that, it's justlike my example on social media
was.
If you broke your leg, how wouldyou feel going to a doctor and
they said, well, let's just talkabout it and maybe it'll heal.
You know, let's just talk aboutit until it heals.
(09:20):
You would be like what?
No, yet that's what we do withtherapists, right?
Or if your doctor told you okay, just from now on, really set
boundaries, do not go nearstairs.
Like, set boundaries withstairs and avoid them.
Like again, you would not findthat helpful.
Or if they said like, let'sjust really think positively,
(09:42):
let's do some affirmations andhope that your bones realign.
Like none of that would behelpful, right, yeah, that's how
we treat trauma, that's how wetreat all of this in traditional
settings, and it's out with theold like that is the outdated
way to treat all of this.
So number two, the second sign,if you have an second sign that
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you have an energy leak is ifyou feel like you're dealing
with one crisis after another.
So let's say, your child wakesup sick, you're behind on work
and then your ex sends you atext that, like, makes your
heart start to race.
Then, just as you think like,okay, things are calming down,
then your car breaks down or anunexpected bill pops up.
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Like if you think to yourself,I cannot catch a break, if you
think that, then you have anenergy leak.
Now this leak can be severaldifferent things and if you're
in my programs, I might havetalked about on my podcast, but
there's something calledreflections, which is when your
soul is out of balance In aspecific area of life.
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There are eight areas of life.
When your soul is out ofbalance, you will start to see
reflections in, typically, thearea that you care about most.
So for a lot of people rightnow, that's financial right.
So if you're seeing a lot offinancial issues popping up,
that's because in one of theother seven areas of life you
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are out of balance, which justmeans you're not making it a
priority, and I, in mymembership.
I think it was last month Iwent over how to balance all
eight areas of life I think itwas the month before which can
be done.
So when you're balanced in alleight areas of life, the
reflections won't be as severe.
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They'll never go away, becausereflections are actually here to
help us and I've startedlooking at them as like helpful,
little obstacles.
Right, because the and thesooner that you catch it, this
is really key.
So, for example, if you aredrinking coffee and your
favorite like shirt or dress andyou spill a drop of coffee,
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that's probably like a levelthree reflection.
The level one reflection mighthave been spilling a drop of
water on your shirt.
Okay.
So when we pay attention tothese reflections earlier and
say, okay, where am I out ofbalance, where am I being
emotional, all of that right,and start to catch it at the
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earlier stages, we won't get hitwith these level 10 reflections
.
Right, and you can shift them,even if, for example, I got a
notice last week that I owed$8,000 to my oldest daughter's
college tuition, which the weekbefore I had only owed $1,300.
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So I was like, okay, this isdefinitely a reflection.
I took the time, I shifted alot.
I checked yesterday magicallyback down to $1,300.
Okay, so this really works.
You just have to understand howit works and then be very aware
of what's happening and noticinganything that kind of triggers
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you stopping and just being like, okay, where am I out of
balance?
Like, I explained how to dothis in my programs.
I'm not going to get into it onthe podcast, but so if you're
being hit with all of thesereflections, just know that
there's definitely an energyleak or there's an emotional
issue that you're not addressing, because, as physical beings
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right now right, if you'relistening to this you're likely
a physical being we haveemotions and they can be a
blessing, but they can also be acurse, until you understand how
to master them, which is why Ihave a whole program called
Unbothered, which is aboutemotional mastery, because
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emotions one feelings from otherpeople unless you're aware and
you know how to raise yourfrequency of emotion before you
go into a public setting, forexample or this is what I'm
addressing in my membership thismonth is how to have
relationships with people andnot allow them to set you off
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and trigger your emotions.
And all of that Because this,again, is something we don't
talk about.
And so, one, if you're a highfrequency being, you're going to
be more likely to catch otherpeople's feelings if you're
unaware of how to protectyourself energetically.
But two, because you're ahigher frequency being, you can
also control the emotions in theroom if you have emotional
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mastery.
But the thing is most peopledon't.
And what's sad is like.
If you think back in childhoodI can recall this, like my mom
crying.
She was upset.
I would go over to her momwhat's wrong, Are you sad?
And her not wanting to puteverything on me, she would say
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no, no, honey, I'm fine.
So what do you think thatteaches us?
That confuses the hell out ofkids, right?
Like, wait what she's crying?
Doesn't that mean she's sad?
And then we're surprised thatwe don't know how to label our
emotions, right?
So even when you think thatyou're not emotional about
something, you likely are.
And here's the thing when youare like 15% or higher emotional
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, your intuition is going to bemessed up.
So you're not even going to beable to rely on your intuition
because you're going to be tooemotional.
And this is where, like beingtrained in intuition and not
just intuition, but I am trainedin scientifically precise
intuition.
This is literally what I do formy clients is I can tell where
they're out of balance in whatarea of life and how to shift it
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.
Like that is what I do for myclients and for myself, right?
So If you're dealing withcrisis after crisis, then this
means you're dealing with a lotof reflections, because you are
emotional about things you don'teven know, because you're out
of balance because maybe youhave some of these unconscious
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tabs running in the backgroundthat need to be closed which is
what I do as well and yourenergy field could be super wide
open without you knowing, andthat makes you more susceptible
to low frequency issues what Ialso call dark forces, dark
energy, right, because just likethere's light in this world,
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there is dark, and when we'reemotional, that makes us
vulnerable to dark forces.
That is a huge thing, and that'swhen, once I learned that I was
like oh, I am getting myemotions under control because I
have noticed and it's not justnegative emotions, it's also if
you're like, way on the high end.
So it's really about havingemotional balance, because what
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happens is, if they see a littlewindow where you're angry or
fearful and you don't shift it,they can get in and start
messing with your mind.
They can make you feel like God, what's the point of even
living, like I know now, becauseI'll catch myself like thinking
what's the point or something,and then I'm like, oh, I got a
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dark force.
I have to go clear that, which,again, I teach that in my
programs.
Huge thing that I check forevery single day and I clear
myself, I clear my kids.
So we need to be resetting ournervous system, we need to be
clearing these unconscious tabsrunning in the background and we
need to become emotionallybalanced and then you will stop
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feeling like life is one chaoticmoment after another.
So sign number three is you'rewaking up feeling exhausted, no
matter how much sleep you get.
Maybe you sleep for a fulleight hours, but you're still
waking up feeling exhausted.
Maybe you start your day likeyou feel like you're already
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running on empty right, like noamount of sleep ever replenishes
you.
This can be several reasons.
One you can have unconscioustabs running in the background
while you sleep.
If you're in fight or flight,you are not going to be in your
heal and reset program of thebody, right?
So the parasympathetic systemisn't going to be functioning.
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So you're not going to feelrested.
Your nervous system will belike working overtime all night
long.
Another reason is we can havelovely energetic attacks on us
during the night.
So one thing for me when thiswas happening, when I realized
this was a huge issue for me, iswhen I was getting eight hours
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of sleep and I'm someone wholoves to get up at like 5am,
have my coffee, start doingthings when I was feeling tired
after a full night's sleep, Iknew there was something
happening and I was given thisvery advanced sleep protection
and it has changed my life, mychild's life.
So every night I put the sleepprotection on myself, I put it
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on him.
Last night I actually fellasleep before I put it on him
and he woke up with a nightmare.
So it 100% works.
And so what was happening?
And I've talked about this inother episodes but if you're
above a certain frequency, yoursoul actually leaves your body
and goes up to the astral realmat night and while there you can
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get energetic attacks.
Now, typically, only ascendedmasters would be the ones whose
soul should be leaving at nightand going up to the astral.
If you're not an ascendedmaster and you're going up there
, then you're not going to feelrested and there are solutions
to keep your soul in your bodyat night.
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Again, I go into all of this inmy Light it Up program.
Might sound very wild to peoplewho aren't familiar with you
know the dark energy world.
One other thing I'll add hereis that when you become
emotionally balanced, if you'rea parent, this will have a
really positive effect on yourchild.
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So my son if you've listened toearlier podcast episodes, he was
having a lot of ADHD symptoms,having issues at schools.
He got kicked out of a coupleof schools.
He's only five, almost five anda half, and I had a session
with my mentor and asked him tolook into his soul contract, my
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soul contract, all of that andhe found, using the same
intuition that I have, that heneeds 37 minutes of my time
uninterrupted every day, justlike sitting with him and saying
okay, what do you want to dofor 37 minutes?
Giving him my full attention,not going on my phone, just
literally letting him dowhatever he wants to do.
Typically he wants to just playRoblox during the 37 minutes
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and it has been night and dayLike I was very against giving
him any medication when he wasdiagnosed with ADHD and ODD.
Just like a year ago he wasdiagnosed with both of those and
, like his behavior was so outof control, I took him to the
doctor's office.
He was hitting me, biting me,punching me.
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It was insane.
And this was at the Amen Clinic, which is like anti-medication
as well, and even she was likemaybe he needs to be on
medication.
But I was just like, nope, Iknow this is part of my sole
path to learn how to help himwithout medication medication,
because I do not want to put myson on Ritalin or Adderall, and
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so she gave me some naturalsupplements to try, which did
help, but I had to give it tohim twice a day and there were
like L-theanine, 5-htp andsaffron those were the biggest
ones and then, at night,magnesium.
So, and once I started becomingemotionally balanced, once I
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started dealing with myreflections, the second that
they popped up and I'm notperfect, obviously I got sick,
so I did not deal with that andI made the mistake of my
daughter was about like fourdays into her sickness and I was
like, oh, I'm not going to getit, I'm good.
And then I got it and I waslike, well, I only usually get
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sick for two days, which is true.
It's going on like two weeks,and you can probably tell I'm
still congested, so I let my egokind of get in the way there,
but sometimes, yes, I will missa reflection, and then this
sickness was obviously a veryhigh reflection that I had
missed right.
So once though, I startedregulating my emotions, once I
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started giving him that 37minutes, and it will be
different for every child.
So if you're in my program, mymembership program, you can ask
me on a monthly check-in callhow many minutes a day do I need
to spend with my childuninterrupted?
Like, obviously, I spend a lotmore than 37 minutes with them,
but this is like 37 minutes ofwhatever they want to do.
So it'll be different for otherkids, but typically it's less
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than an hour.
So he doesn't even need hissupplements anymore.
He has been getting stars, twostars, every day at school.
He, like his teacher, isshocked, like I, literally you
guys had to meet with theteacher, with the principal,
with the school counselor, allof that to get him on a plan.
This was right, as I startedaddressing my reflections, and
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so he was getting a little bitbetter, but and I should say,
like, when they're seven oryounger, it's a reflection of us
.
That's really important thingto add in there.
So I know that he's justreflecting my behavior and I
should say, like when they'reseven or younger, it's a
reflection of us.
That's really important thingto add in there.
So I know that he's justreflecting my behavior and I'll
see it.
If I have a day where I getemotional, he will act out a
little bit, but it's nothinglike it was before.
I don't even have to give himhis natural supplements anymore
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and his teacher is like whathappened, like it's totally
different child, and his teacheris like what happened, like
it's totally different child.
So this is why, like our systemis so outdated, they just want
to give our kids medication andnot deal with them.
I was not okay with that, so Idid it the harder way, which is
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addressing my own reflections,mastering my emotions, really
looking at from an energeticperspective what needs to change
here.
Right, so everything is withinour control.
The fact that people don'tunderstand that and believe it,
it's a dark force issue.
We are all living in our ownTruman Show and we can control
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ourself and we can actuallycontrol the way other people
behave, and so this is what I dodifferently with the clients
that come to me is when theycome to me and they're like my
ex is doing this XYZ, blah, blah, blah, they're coming to me,
whether they know it or not,because they're they're
realizing the outdated ways thatother people have been helping
them just aren't working right.
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The therapy, the tapping, theaffirmations, the journaling,
all of that like that doesn'tget to the root and pull it out.
That's also not even addressingthe energetics, which is a huge
piece.
We are 50% physical, 50%energetic.
We have to address both.
So if today's episode hit homefor you, we have to address both
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.
So if today's episode hit homefor you, definitely let me know.
And if you can relate to any ofthose, it's definitely time to
like clear those leaks andreclaim your power.
I'm actually working onreleasing a mini masterclass
called the X Detox MiniMasterclass.
It's going to be $47.
I'm going to explain more aboutfrom the relationship
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perspective and then I will beincluding the cord cutting and
the advanced cord cutting inthere.
So if that interests you, jointhe wait list.
I'll link it in the show notesand I'll email you once it's
available.
Again, it's only $47.
I don't think I have anythingelse for $47.
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So that would be a really goodintroductory program if you
haven't purchased something fromme.
And just a side note, I haven'tannounced this anywhere because
it was very much a personaldecision.
But my membership has nowchanged.
You cannot just come in for amonth, you need to commit to a
year, and I will explain why Idid this.
(26:31):
So initially, my membership,the only option was an annual
membership and what I saw waspeople come, came in, they're
still in and this is like theirsecond year.
Right, they've seen huge,they've really committed to
their healing.
And so when I switched to amonthly subscription, what I saw
(26:51):
was there were two types ofpeople coming in.
One were very similar to theother ones, where they were
committed to long-term healing,working with me long-term.
But then there were peoplecoming in who were just coming
in to try to cram all theinformation.
Right now I do offer one-on-oneintuitive reads every month for
each person, so they're private, so you do get that as like.
(27:14):
Basically, it's basically freeright now, based on the cost of
the program.
I won't be able to offer thatforever, obviously, as my
membership grows.
But what I noticed is peoplewere coming in and it was almost
like frantic energy, like letme consume this really fast, let
me get my read and then I'mgoing to and then I have to go,
and so I didn't like that vibe,like it was nothing against the
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people, but it was just that'snot what my membership is for.
It is really more for like acoaching experience.
So what I did was I justchanged it to be an annual
membership.
You can still use after pay topay monthly.
So if you're going to thecheckout page, I think you have
(27:55):
to enter your email address andname and then go to the payment
section.
You can still click after payfor like monthly payments.
But I am no longer financingpayment plans because I did have
an issue recently where someonedidn't pay and then I just
don't want to have to deal withthat, to be honest.
So I only want people coming inwho have high integrity, who
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are committed to their healingand who it's a fair energy
exchange, because I'm giving alot more than I'm even charging
in my membership, and so I wantpeople to come in who are
committed to working with melong term.
So, anyway, just a littlechange in the membership.
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I did have a couple people askoh, can I not join monthly
anymore?
No, you can pay monthly toafter pay, but you cannot pay me
monthly anymore, and so for anyof you you know with online
businesses or thinking about it,this is a really important
thing to note, as well as toalways feel like you're in a
fair, energetic exchange withpeople, because the second you
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start feeling resentment in yourprograms, you're going to repel
people.
It's not going to feel the waythat you want it right.
So the second I made thischange, I felt relief because I
know now people will come in whoare committed, right, and who
are my ideal client, and sothat's why I wanted to offer
this $47 mini masterclass was sothat people could experience
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what I do in my programs.
It's kind of like a littletaster of my work, right?
So long story short, join thewaitlist if you're wanting to
get access to that masterclass,and I look forward to helping
you take your energy back inwhatever space I see you in.
Speaker 1 (29:42):
So, sending you all so much love space I see you in,
so sending you all so much love.
Thank you for listening toUnveiled.
I always love hearing yourtakeaways, so please connect
with me on Instagram at AngelaMarie Christian, and feel free
to tag me when you share it withyour friends.
Every single review matters andit helps me reach more people
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who want to improve this world.
If you leave a review, let meknow and I'll send you a little
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Any resources mentioned in theshow will be linked in the show
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Sending you all love.
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Crime Junkie
Does hearing about a true crime case always leave you scouring the internet for the truth behind the story? Dive into your next mystery with Crime Junkie. Every Monday, join your host Ashley Flowers as she unravels all the details of infamous and underreported true crime cases with her best friend Brit Prawat. From cold cases to missing persons and heroes in our community who seek justice, Crime Junkie is your destination for theories and stories you won’t hear anywhere else. Whether you're a seasoned true crime enthusiast or new to the genre, you'll find yourself on the edge of your seat awaiting a new episode every Monday. If you can never get enough true crime... Congratulations, you’ve found your people. Follow to join a community of Crime Junkies! Crime Junkie is presented by audiochuck Media Company.