August 26, 2025 • 21 mins
Ever noticed that feeling of giving too much and receiving too little? This is what happens when we're out of fair exchange - and it affects everything from our relationships to our bank accounts.
Fair exchange isn't just about money - it's the fundamental energetic balance between what we give and receive in all situations. When we perceive imbalance, our electromagnetic field broadcasts this perception, attracting more situations that mirror our internal state. That's why you might find yourself with partners who don't value your contribution, friends who drain your energy, or financial opportunities that consistently undervalue your worth.
The game-changing insight? Fair exchange operates from the inside out. You don't need external validation or compensation to balance the scales. By finding the value in every exchange - whether it's a lesson learned, personal growth, or a boundary you now know to set - you shift your energy field. This internal balancing act ripples outward, transforming how the world responds to you.
Your physical body is constantly signaling where you're out of balance. Those digestive issues, that unexplained stomach pain? They might be your body's way of showing you're holding onto past grievances or guilt.
Children and pets mirror our imbalances too, offering us opportunities to heal before these patterns become embedded in their own lives.
Ready to transform your experience? Start noticing how you feel after conversations and interactions. Are you depleted or energized? Did you feel heard and valued? By consciously balancing these everyday exchanges, you'll gradually rewire your field to attract more abundance, respect, and harmony. Your internal sense of fairness creates your external reality - what will you create?
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Speaker 1 (00:05):
Welcome to Unveiled the podcast.
I'm your host, angela Christian, and I help you with unveiling
your true self by peeling awaythe layers that society placed
on you.
I do this with a combination ofneuroscience, energetics and
ancient spiritual wisdom.
I went from underpaid andoverworked in corporate America
to launching a six-figurecompany that continues to grow.
(00:26):
I went from toxic relationshipsto being happy and single for
over a year as I worked andcontinue to work on becoming the
best version of myself, and somuch more.
My greatest passion is to helpwomen and mothers heal,
transform and become the highestversions of themselves.
Heal, transform and become thehighest versions of themselves.
(00:46):
As I continue to grow andexpand my intuitive knowledge
and unique wisdom, I'll beincluding you on my journey to
millions, so let's get into it.
Speaker 2 (00:58):
Hello, welcome back to Unveiled.
It might be a little loud inthe background because I have,
like the AC going, a fan going.
It is very hot.
So I have a little bit moreplanned today on this idea
around fair exchange in everydaylife.
(01:19):
So for the last two nights Ihave had this pretty severe
insomnia, which is very uncommonfor me.
The first night there were alot of weird things happening in
my room and that's a wholedifferent topic.
(01:39):
But I realized I do these futureclearings on myself in terms of
like heavy energy, dark energy.
I can clear them for 30 days inadvance and I had missed the.
I'd let the time lapse.
So that was a very easy fixthere.
(02:01):
But then last night I even tookthese nice relaxing herbs.
Was like valerian passionflower.
I felt very relaxed, but it didnot help me sleep, I sense, and
like a friend of mine said thesame thing before I even
mentioned this to her but I havebeen spending so much time
(02:22):
upgrading my intuitive tools, myenergy healings, all of that,
and spent a really intense timeon Sunday learning not just new
techniques but also likeexciting opportunities that are
coming my way, and it's justlike I almost feel like I'm
(02:43):
getting some kind of softwareupgrade at the moment and the
first night I was pretty annoyed, not gonna lie, which doesn't
help, right.
So last night I was like, okay,speaking of fair exchange and
everyday life, topic of ourpodcast.
First I just needed toneutralize it, because when you
are having insomnia or havingany type of sleep issue, getting
(03:06):
upset about it is not going tohelp you rest and sleep right,
so the least that we can do isjust lay there and relax.
There was a little bit more toit as well my mom's dog, who she
and I the dog and I have a verydeep bond and whenever she's
(03:26):
hurt she wants to sleep with me,which doesn't happen very often
.
But yesterday she hurt, likeone of her little toenails fell
off and it was bleeding and shecame over to me and I did some
healing work on her just to helpher with the pain, her just to
help her with the pain, becauseour animals, like our children
up to age seven, are literallyour helpers and they will show
(03:52):
us imbalances in us before weeven take them on.
And I was thinking about thislast night as first she came
into my room at midnight anddecided to get into my bed and I
just kind of laid with her andpet her and told her she would
be okay.
Then my son comes wanderinginto my room at 1 am, gets into
(04:14):
my bed and he's grinding histeeth which is a reflection for
me that I'm resolving at themoment and I just, instead of
getting upset, I just laid thereand I was like you know what,
how cool is it that our childrenand it's sad that a lot of
people don't know this, buthopefully that will change Our
(04:34):
children, from ages zero toseven, they are sponges, right?
They're soaking up all of ourbeliefs, all of our.
They're watching us, they learnby watching us.
So even if you're telling them,do this, but you're doing
something else, they're going tocopy what you're doing, right?
It seems very logical, but mostpeople just don't realize that.
They think, oh well, if I justtell them to do differently,
(04:57):
they will, and that's not how itworks.
But also are here to help us.
So much, from ages zero toseven, they show us where we're
out of balance.
And the thing is and this iswhat I was thinking about last
night when my son was grindinghis teeth he will be six in
October and I'm like I need toshift these reflections that
(05:18):
he's taking on for me, becauseonce they get between seven to
nine, if we haven't shifted them, they can very well carry them
on and embody them, and then itbecomes their stuff, and it
wasn't even their stuff to beginwith, right?
So animals and children,they're just so special and
(05:42):
they're here to help us, and Ihope someday every parent will
be able to see children's, youknow, when they're acting out
all of this stuff, it's not them, it's actually the parent.
So I've talked about thisbefore.
I'm not going to go too muchinto that today because it's not
what it's about, but I justwanted to share that thought
(06:05):
because for those of you withlittle ones but we do need to
shift our imbalances so theydon't take them on right.
So, now that you know that,let's start shifting.
Okay, so, speaking of fairexchange and this is one of the
reasons why I'm dealing withinsomnia at the moment my mentor
(06:26):
, alessandro, told me on Fridaythat I need to, on Friday that I
need to start dating, which Ihaven't.
Probably sounds funny to anyonewho doesn't know the background,
but I haven't dated in over twoyears, like physically gone on
dates.
I've chatted with people but nodates.
(06:49):
I just haven't felt the desireto to be honest dates.
I just haven't felt the desireto to be honest, and I know that
there's someone that will becoming into my life in the next
couple of years and I justreally wanted to wait until that
happened.
But basically my mentor was likeI asked him I'm like, can I
(07:10):
just stay single until?
And I already knew the answer,but I just sometimes it's like
when you know, you know what aparent is going to say, but you
just want them to say it.
It's kind of like thatsituation.
So I was like, can I just staysingle until he arrives?
And my mentor was like no, youneed practice.
Practice meaning communication,boundary setting, like all of
(07:35):
those things that I have notbeen good at in the past.
So it doesn't have to be anykind of major relationship or
anything but just practicinglike I've my tools that I have
now versus two years ago areit's like a completely different
person right?
So the tools I have now, if Ihad applied them to past
(07:56):
relationships, they like Iwasn't supposed to be with any
of them, obviously, but likethings could have been a little
bit different or things wouldhave been handled better.
All of that right Now that Iknow what I know, and so it
makes sense that before you meetyour soulmate or if you're in
this world, you'll know the termsoul compliment Before you meet
your soulmate or soulcompliment, there is a level of
(08:21):
integration with tools and allof that that you have to bring
to the table to get an alignmentwith that.
So one of the things I've beendoing for my clients recently is
reading their soul contractsand I can tell, like when
someone's contract has expiredwith their partner or, you know,
if there's always between twopeople, there are pieces of the
(08:45):
contract that need to befulfilled and that and some are
optional.
So I did a contract read forsomeone last week and I could
see that their contract hadexpired but there was still a
lesson that they needed to learn.
So it can get a littlecomplicated, but essentially I
know that I have a contract withsomeone at a certain time but I
(09:10):
need to be in alignment withthat, meaning my tools, my
communication, all of that needsto be in alignment for that to
happen and sustain therelationship.
So when my mentor told me, myimmediate reaction was like ugh,
and then I just was very muchlike stomping my feet, not
(09:34):
wanting to do it.
And then I mentioned it to anintuitive friend and she was
like, oh yeah, you're just notwanting to do the things that
are good for you.
And I was like, damn, that isso true.
And then enter the insomniaissues right Again, showing me
that I'm not wanting to do thethings that are good for me to
(09:55):
do, like sleep, because sleep isso important to me.
That reflection is showing upin not being able to sleep in
addition to other things.
So last night I looked at thisand I was like, okay, how can I
get this into fair exchange?
Because fair exchange isliterally the key to like living
(10:19):
the life that you want to live.
But most people like, as humans, we get used to carrying heavy
stuff for so long that we forgetwhat it's like to walk without
it.
It's like hiking with a hugebackpack full of rocks.
If you do that every day for 30days and you never take that
(10:41):
backpack off, pretty soon it'sjust going to feel normal and
you're going to forget what it'slike to hike without that
backpack full of rocks, right?
So being out of fair exchangeis like having a weight on your
back, on your nervous system, onyour energy, but we don't
notice it because it justbecomes normal.
(11:02):
So fair exchange is the balancebetween what you give and what
you receive in all situations.
When you can see the fairexchange in everything, that's
when the weight comes off ofyour back, out of your
subconscious mind, out of yourfield, out of your life.
Right, and it's not just aboutthoughts, it's much bigger than
(11:25):
that.
It affects our electromagneticfield, our creator field, which
is constantly broadcasting andattracting matter, people,
situations, circumstances.
It controls everything.
So when we're out of fairexchange and let's say we feel
like things are just unfair,right, everywhere we go it's
(11:48):
unfair, then what will?
How will that show up in a realromantic relationship?
It might show up as a partnerwho says like I do so much more
for you than you do for me.
It might show up in gettingunderpaid.
It might show up in friendshipswhere you just don't feel
valued.
You feel really drained.
The unfairness you feel insideis creating the unfairness that
(12:12):
you're seeing on the outside.
So I had a client last week whoher partner had been cheating
on her right and this partnershe had trusted, she had given
her heart to this partner, eventhough she was hesitant to open
(12:34):
up.
So there was a little pieceinside of her that felt unsafe
when she found out about herpartner's cheating right
cheating right.
Not surprisingly, in the weekfollowing, she attracted several
unfair, unsafe situations inthe outside, because our
(12:58):
internal world will create theoutside.
That's why we have to balancethese fair exchange moments as
soon as possible, so that wedon't create what we don't want
to create.
Right and fair exchange is notjust about money.
It's literally about everything.
It's about your relationships,your health, your future.
So an example of this would belike leaving a conversation, or
even if you do, like clientsessions or something, and you
(13:22):
think, oh my God, I gave way toomuch there, right?
The second you think somethinglike that there needs to be the
moment of wait.
What did I actually learn?
Well, maybe you gave too much,or maybe your prices need to be
increased, or maybe you need tobe clearer on your sales page,
maybe you need to communicatebetter with your clients or
(13:44):
friends, or whatever it might beright.
There's always some kind oflesson that we can pull to make
it a fair exchange when we holdon to the past of people who
wronged us, who owes us, howunfair this person was, and then
also obviously like the guiltthat we carry around things
(14:06):
we've done to other people.
This will manifest in digestiveissues, nausea, bloating,
constipation, excess weight inthe stomach area.
All of that is your body's wayof telling you you are beating
yourself up about the past.
You are focusing too much onthe past.
(14:26):
Let's get this clear right.
There's a little bit more andit's obviously very specific to
each person.
Like if it's my client, I canlook at and see immediately
what's going on.
But in general, if you have likeanytime I get which this was
just last week I had two dayswhere my stomach was just like
having this weird pain and Ididn't change anything in my
(14:50):
diet, there wasn't anything Ihad done.
And then I was like, oh, ofcourse I had been going through
in my mind, like I had littlememories popping up of
situations where I had carriedguilt and shame.
My higher self shows me.
I disconnect from thosesituations, I clear them.
There are a few that I did notclear and in the back of my mind
(15:10):
I was still beating myself upfor these situations.
So once I realized that, Icleared it and within minutes,
stomachache gone.
So the good news is you have allthe power you can do all of
this.
The most important thing toremember is fair.
Exchange is an inside out game.
(15:30):
You don't need to do anythingon the outside.
You don't need anybody else tochange, to apologize, to pay you
back any of that.
The moment you see the valuewhether it's lesson that you
learned, growth in some way,some kind of notification about
oh, maybe I should like setbetter boundaries, right Then
(15:54):
you balance the scales and whenyou balance the scales, the
field shifts.
And when the field shifts,people will start treating you
differently, and then thatallows money to flow in right
and the universe just startsresponding differently.
It is a law.
So if you continue holdinganger in your body, holding
(16:14):
shame in your body, it will showup in your inbox, it will show
up in your romanticrelationships.
But if you hold appreciationand seeing the balance, always
the world starts appreciatingyou.
And it's the same with money.
Money actually does not have amind of its own.
(16:35):
It listens to the instructionsyou give it through your field.
If you focus on lack, it'sgoing to shrink.
If you focus on value, it'llmultiply, right.
So something that you could trydoing this week is just notice
after every conversation.
(16:55):
Ask yourself do I feel likethat was a balanced conversation
?
Do I feel like I gave too much?
Do I feel like they weretalking over me?
Do I feel like they weretalking too much?
Do I feel like I gave too much?
Do I feel like they weretalking over me?
Do I feel like they weretalking too much?
Do I feel offended by anything?
And just take note of it,balance it as soon as possible
and just notice how things startshifting.
(17:17):
Or maybe you have friends, likeI do, where I leave the
conversation feeling so lucky tohave friends who get me to feel
rich with connection and luckyto be valued and feel extreme
love for the relationship.
Right, this practice alone willstart rewiring your field into
(17:43):
one of value.
It does take time, like peoplewant the overnight success pill
or whatever it might be, buteven with my timeline healings
that I do for people, if someonedoesn't change the repetitive
thoughts and beliefs, which doestake some intention, it can
(18:05):
mess with the timeline healing.
So when I work with people,it's a partnership right, like I
am doing this to help you alignwith what you desire, but you
also have to do the work to sealit.
So the whole idea around fairexchange, it's not about keeping
(18:25):
score.
It's about creating a life andcreating relationships and
connections and situations whereyou can feel lighter, freer and
you can see the value in it all.
Even when you might feel likethat was a shitty conversation,
(18:46):
you'll actually be able to say,well, was it like you know?
And go through some of thosequestions I shared and balance
it out.
So for me, I've definitely beenneutralizing the hesitation I've
had around dating and I've justsimply taken an action to open
my heart to the idea of it.
That doesn't mean I have to doany physical action at the
(19:09):
moment, but just by saying, okay, higher self, I get it, I I do
want to meet my soulmate, right,I want to be in alignment with
that, I am on board.
So I am opening my heart tothis idea of dating and of
practicing communication and nowI'm actually feeling like, okay
(19:30):
, great, I will actually get toput all of my tools into
practice, right.
So we'll see how my sleep istonight.
I will report back.
I know there's a little bitmore to it than just that, but I
think that will help.
So just a little short episodefor you guys today, and I always
love hearing from you, so letme know your aha moments, let me
(19:53):
know how it goes for you.
If you're able to practicebalancing out conversation
situations like telephone calls,email exchanges, it's always in
balance.
Even if you can't see it rightaway, that's just your human
self on an energetic, universallevel, it is always in balance.
(20:13):
So if you want to dive moreinto this, I am covering this in
my membership.
There are three audios alreadyon it, the fourth one coming out
this week, and then we're goingto continue diving into all
things financial mastery inSeptember Perfect time before
the holidays to get your energyfield flowing and abundant.
(20:35):
So have a wonderful week.
Bye.
Speaker 1 (20:43):
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(21:06):
notes.
Sending you all love.
Welcome to Unveiled the podcast.
I'm your host, angela Christian, and I help you with unveiling
your true self by peeling awaythe layers that society placed
on you.
I do this with a combination ofneuroscience, energetics and
ancient spiritual wisdom.
I went from underpaid andoverworked in corporate America
to launching a six-figurecompany that continues to grow.
(00:26):
I went from toxic relationshipsto being happy and single for
over a year as I worked andcontinue to work on becoming the
best version of myself, and somuch more.
My greatest passion is to helpwomen and mothers heal,
transform and become the highestversions of themselves.
Heal, transform and become thehighest versions of themselves.
(00:46):
As I continue to grow andexpand my intuitive knowledge
and unique wisdom, I'll beincluding you on my journey to
millions, so let's get into it.
Speaker 2 (00:58):
Hello, welcome back to Unveiled.
It might be a little loud inthe background because I have,
like the AC going, a fan going.
It is very hot.
So I have a little bit moreplanned today on this idea
around fair exchange in everydaylife.
(01:19):
So for the last two nights Ihave had this pretty severe
insomnia, which is very uncommonfor me.
The first night there were alot of weird things happening in
my room and that's a wholedifferent topic.
(01:39):
But I realized I do these futureclearings on myself in terms of
like heavy energy, dark energy.
I can clear them for 30 days inadvance and I had missed the.
I'd let the time lapse.
So that was a very easy fixthere.
(02:01):
But then last night I even tookthese nice relaxing herbs.
Was like valerian passionflower.
I felt very relaxed, but it didnot help me sleep, I sense, and
like a friend of mine said thesame thing before I even
mentioned this to her but I havebeen spending so much time
(02:22):
upgrading my intuitive tools, myenergy healings, all of that,
and spent a really intense timeon Sunday learning not just new
techniques but also likeexciting opportunities that are
coming my way, and it's justlike I almost feel like I'm
(02:43):
getting some kind of softwareupgrade at the moment and the
first night I was pretty annoyed, not gonna lie, which doesn't
help, right.
So last night I was like, okay,speaking of fair exchange and
everyday life, topic of ourpodcast.
First I just needed toneutralize it, because when you
are having insomnia or havingany type of sleep issue, getting
(03:06):
upset about it is not going tohelp you rest and sleep right,
so the least that we can do isjust lay there and relax.
There was a little bit more toit as well my mom's dog, who she
and I the dog and I have a verydeep bond and whenever she's
(03:26):
hurt she wants to sleep with me,which doesn't happen very often
.
But yesterday she hurt, likeone of her little toenails fell
off and it was bleeding and shecame over to me and I did some
healing work on her just to helpher with the pain, her just to
help her with the pain, becauseour animals, like our children
up to age seven, are literallyour helpers and they will show
(03:52):
us imbalances in us before weeven take them on.
And I was thinking about thislast night as first she came
into my room at midnight anddecided to get into my bed and I
just kind of laid with her andpet her and told her she would
be okay.
Then my son comes wanderinginto my room at 1 am, gets into
(04:14):
my bed and he's grinding histeeth which is a reflection for
me that I'm resolving at themoment and I just, instead of
getting upset, I just laid thereand I was like you know what,
how cool is it that our childrenand it's sad that a lot of
people don't know this, buthopefully that will change Our
(04:34):
children, from ages zero toseven, they are sponges, right?
They're soaking up all of ourbeliefs, all of our.
They're watching us, they learnby watching us.
So even if you're telling them,do this, but you're doing
something else, they're going tocopy what you're doing, right?
It seems very logical, but mostpeople just don't realize that.
They think, oh well, if I justtell them to do differently,
(04:57):
they will, and that's not how itworks.
But also are here to help us.
So much, from ages zero toseven, they show us where we're
out of balance.
And the thing is and this iswhat I was thinking about last
night when my son was grindinghis teeth he will be six in
October and I'm like I need toshift these reflections that
(05:18):
he's taking on for me, becauseonce they get between seven to
nine, if we haven't shifted them, they can very well carry them
on and embody them, and then itbecomes their stuff, and it
wasn't even their stuff to beginwith, right?
So animals and children,they're just so special and
(05:42):
they're here to help us, and Ihope someday every parent will
be able to see children's, youknow, when they're acting out
all of this stuff, it's not them, it's actually the parent.
So I've talked about thisbefore.
I'm not going to go too muchinto that today because it's not
what it's about, but I justwanted to share that thought
(06:05):
because for those of you withlittle ones but we do need to
shift our imbalances so theydon't take them on right.
So, now that you know that,let's start shifting.
Okay, so, speaking of fairexchange and this is one of the
reasons why I'm dealing withinsomnia at the moment my mentor
(06:26):
, alessandro, told me on Fridaythat I need to, on Friday that I
need to start dating, which Ihaven't.
Probably sounds funny to anyonewho doesn't know the background,
but I haven't dated in over twoyears, like physically gone on
dates.
I've chatted with people but nodates.
(06:49):
I just haven't felt the desireto to be honest dates.
I just haven't felt the desireto to be honest, and I know that
there's someone that will becoming into my life in the next
couple of years and I justreally wanted to wait until that
happened.
But basically my mentor was likeI asked him I'm like, can I
(07:10):
just stay single until?
And I already knew the answer,but I just sometimes it's like
when you know, you know what aparent is going to say, but you
just want them to say it.
It's kind of like thatsituation.
So I was like, can I just staysingle until he arrives?
And my mentor was like no, youneed practice.
Practice meaning communication,boundary setting, like all of
(07:35):
those things that I have notbeen good at in the past.
So it doesn't have to be anykind of major relationship or
anything but just practicinglike I've my tools that I have
now versus two years ago areit's like a completely different
person right?
So the tools I have now, if Ihad applied them to past
(07:56):
relationships, they like Iwasn't supposed to be with any
of them, obviously, but likethings could have been a little
bit different or things wouldhave been handled better.
All of that right Now that Iknow what I know, and so it
makes sense that before you meetyour soulmate or if you're in
this world, you'll know the termsoul compliment Before you meet
your soulmate or soulcompliment, there is a level of
(08:21):
integration with tools and allof that that you have to bring
to the table to get an alignmentwith that.
So one of the things I've beendoing for my clients recently is
reading their soul contractsand I can tell, like when
someone's contract has expiredwith their partner or, you know,
if there's always between twopeople, there are pieces of the
(08:45):
contract that need to befulfilled and that and some are
optional.
So I did a contract read forsomeone last week and I could
see that their contract hadexpired but there was still a
lesson that they needed to learn.
So it can get a littlecomplicated, but essentially I
know that I have a contract withsomeone at a certain time but I
(09:10):
need to be in alignment withthat, meaning my tools, my
communication, all of that needsto be in alignment for that to
happen and sustain therelationship.
So when my mentor told me, myimmediate reaction was like ugh,
and then I just was very muchlike stomping my feet, not
(09:34):
wanting to do it.
And then I mentioned it to anintuitive friend and she was
like, oh yeah, you're just notwanting to do the things that
are good for you.
And I was like, damn, that isso true.
And then enter the insomniaissues right Again, showing me
that I'm not wanting to do thethings that are good for me to
(09:55):
do, like sleep, because sleep isso important to me.
That reflection is showing upin not being able to sleep in
addition to other things.
So last night I looked at thisand I was like, okay, how can I
get this into fair exchange?
Because fair exchange isliterally the key to like living
(10:19):
the life that you want to live.
But most people like, as humans, we get used to carrying heavy
stuff for so long that we forgetwhat it's like to walk without
it.
It's like hiking with a hugebackpack full of rocks.
If you do that every day for 30days and you never take that
(10:41):
backpack off, pretty soon it'sjust going to feel normal and
you're going to forget what it'slike to hike without that
backpack full of rocks, right?
So being out of fair exchangeis like having a weight on your
back, on your nervous system, onyour energy, but we don't
notice it because it justbecomes normal.
(11:02):
So fair exchange is the balancebetween what you give and what
you receive in all situations.
When you can see the fairexchange in everything, that's
when the weight comes off ofyour back, out of your
subconscious mind, out of yourfield, out of your life.
Right, and it's not just aboutthoughts, it's much bigger than
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that.
It affects our electromagneticfield, our creator field, which
is constantly broadcasting andattracting matter, people,
situations, circumstances.
It controls everything.
So when we're out of fairexchange and let's say we feel
like things are just unfair,right, everywhere we go it's
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unfair, then what will?
How will that show up in a realromantic relationship?
It might show up as a partnerwho says like I do so much more
for you than you do for me.
It might show up in gettingunderpaid.
It might show up in friendshipswhere you just don't feel
valued.
You feel really drained.
The unfairness you feel insideis creating the unfairness that
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you're seeing on the outside.
So I had a client last week whoher partner had been cheating
on her right and this partnershe had trusted, she had given
her heart to this partner, eventhough she was hesitant to open
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up.
So there was a little pieceinside of her that felt unsafe
when she found out about herpartner's cheating right
cheating right.
Not surprisingly, in the weekfollowing, she attracted several
unfair, unsafe situations inthe outside, because our
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internal world will create theoutside.
That's why we have to balancethese fair exchange moments as
soon as possible, so that wedon't create what we don't want
to create.
Right and fair exchange is notjust about money.
It's literally about everything.
It's about your relationships,your health, your future.
So an example of this would belike leaving a conversation, or
even if you do, like clientsessions or something, and you
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think, oh my God, I gave way toomuch there, right?
The second you think somethinglike that there needs to be the
moment of wait.
What did I actually learn?
Well, maybe you gave too much,or maybe your prices need to be
increased, or maybe you need tobe clearer on your sales page,
maybe you need to communicatebetter with your clients or
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friends, or whatever it might beright.
There's always some kind oflesson that we can pull to make
it a fair exchange when we holdon to the past of people who
wronged us, who owes us, howunfair this person was, and then
also obviously like the guiltthat we carry around things
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we've done to other people.
This will manifest in digestiveissues, nausea, bloating,
constipation, excess weight inthe stomach area.
All of that is your body's wayof telling you you are beating
yourself up about the past.
You are focusing too much onthe past.
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Let's get this clear right.
There's a little bit more andit's obviously very specific to
each person.
Like if it's my client, I canlook at and see immediately
what's going on.
But in general, if you have likeanytime I get which this was
just last week I had two dayswhere my stomach was just like
having this weird pain and Ididn't change anything in my
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diet, there wasn't anything Ihad done.
And then I was like, oh, ofcourse I had been going through
in my mind, like I had littlememories popping up of
situations where I had carriedguilt and shame.
My higher self shows me.
I disconnect from thosesituations, I clear them.
There are a few that I did notclear and in the back of my mind
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I was still beating myself upfor these situations.
So once I realized that, Icleared it and within minutes,
stomachache gone.
So the good news is you have allthe power you can do all of
this.
The most important thing toremember is fair.
Exchange is an inside out game.
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You don't need to do anythingon the outside.
You don't need anybody else tochange, to apologize, to pay you
back any of that.
The moment you see the valuewhether it's lesson that you
learned, growth in some way,some kind of notification about
oh, maybe I should like setbetter boundaries, right Then
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you balance the scales and whenyou balance the scales, the
field shifts.
And when the field shifts,people will start treating you
differently, and then thatallows money to flow in right
and the universe just startsresponding differently.
It is a law.
So if you continue holdinganger in your body, holding
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shame in your body, it will showup in your inbox, it will show
up in your romanticrelationships.
But if you hold appreciationand seeing the balance, always
the world starts appreciatingyou.
And it's the same with money.
Money actually does not have amind of its own.
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It listens to the instructionsyou give it through your field.
If you focus on lack, it'sgoing to shrink.
If you focus on value, it'llmultiply, right.
So something that you could trydoing this week is just notice
after every conversation.
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Ask yourself do I feel likethat was a balanced conversation
?
Do I feel like I gave too much?
Do I feel like they weretalking over me?
Do I feel like they weretalking too much?
Do I feel like I gave too much?
Do I feel like they weretalking over me?
Do I feel like they weretalking too much?
Do I feel offended by anything?
And just take note of it,balance it as soon as possible
and just notice how things startshifting.
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Or maybe you have friends, likeI do, where I leave the
conversation feeling so lucky tohave friends who get me to feel
rich with connection and luckyto be valued and feel extreme
love for the relationship.
Right, this practice alone willstart rewiring your field into
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one of value.
It does take time, like peoplewant the overnight success pill
or whatever it might be, buteven with my timeline healings
that I do for people, if someonedoesn't change the repetitive
thoughts and beliefs, which doestake some intention, it can
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mess with the timeline healing.
So when I work with people,it's a partnership right, like I
am doing this to help you alignwith what you desire, but you
also have to do the work to sealit.
So the whole idea around fairexchange, it's not about keeping
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score.
It's about creating a life andcreating relationships and
connections and situations whereyou can feel lighter, freer and
you can see the value in it all.
Even when you might feel likethat was a shitty conversation,
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you'll actually be able to say,well, was it like you know?
And go through some of thosequestions I shared and balance
it out.
So for me, I've definitely beenneutralizing the hesitation I've
had around dating and I've justsimply taken an action to open
my heart to the idea of it.
That doesn't mean I have to doany physical action at the
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moment, but just by saying, okay, higher self, I get it, I I do
want to meet my soulmate, right,I want to be in alignment with
that, I am on board.
So I am opening my heart tothis idea of dating and of
practicing communication and nowI'm actually feeling like, okay
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, great, I will actually get toput all of my tools into
practice, right.
So we'll see how my sleep istonight.
I will report back.
I know there's a little bitmore to it than just that, but I
think that will help.
So just a little short episodefor you guys today, and I always
love hearing from you, so letme know your aha moments, let me
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know how it goes for you.
If you're able to practicebalancing out conversation
situations like telephone calls,email exchanges, it's always in
balance.
Even if you can't see it rightaway, that's just your human
self on an energetic, universallevel, it is always in balance.
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So if you want to dive moreinto this, I am covering this in
my membership.
There are three audios alreadyon it, the fourth one coming out
this week, and then we're goingto continue diving into all
things financial mastery inSeptember Perfect time before
the holidays to get your energyfield flowing and abundant.
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So have a wonderful week.
Bye.
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I always love hearing yourtakeaways, so please connect
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notes.
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