Ever feel like the same family patterns follow you from one holiday to the next? We dig into why that happens and how to transform it—turning gatherings into a living classroom for communication, boundaries, and high-conscious leadership. Through raw stories and real-time reflections, I share how a personal “running away” pattern showed up everywhere—from dating avoidance to my kid’s behavior—and the steps I'm using to stop fleeing and start leading.
We break down the idea that family is your fastest leadership school. You’ll hear how to shift out of fight-or-flight during tough conversations, anticipate friction before it erupts, and respond with language that’s clear and kind. I explain the “inside-out voice,” where criticism from a parent often mirrors your own self-talk, and how neutralizing inner judgments changes the dynamic in the room. You’ll also get simple energetic practice ideas to raise the vibe of a holiday dinner, create calm without control, and keep dark emotional contagion from derailing the day.
We also touch on the membership focus for December and January—high-conscious leadership—plus upcoming resources including a deeper contagion clearing and a group healing to align your unique leadership skill set. Press play, try one tool at your next gathering, and then come tell me what shifted.
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Episode Transcript
Welcome to Unveiled, the podcast.
I'm your host, Angela Kristen,and I help you with unveiling
your true self by peeling awaythe layers that society placed
on you.
I do this with a combination ofneuroscience, energetics, and
ancient spiritual wisdom.
I went from underpaid andoverworked in corporate America
to launching a six-figurecompany that continues to grow.
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I went from toxic relationshipsto being happy and single for
over a year as I work andcontinue to work on becoming the
best version of myself and somuch more.
My greatest passion is to helpwomen and mothers feel,
transform, and become thehighest versions of themselves.
As I continue to grow and expandmy intuitive knowledge and
unique wisdom, I'll be includingyou on my journey to millions.
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So let's get into it.
Hello and welcome back toUnveiled.
I am so excited to be here withyou guys today.
This will be my last podcastepisode, probably for the year.
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I definitely won't be doing onenext week on the 23rd.
I might do one on the 30th.
We'll see.
But with having all the kidshome for the holiday and all of
that, I don't really see ithappening.
So unless I can sneak away.
But I will have my Sunday sourcestill.
I did skip this last Sunday, the14th, because it was my
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daughter's birthday.
I had a huge birthday party forher.
And the day before that, I hadattended a birthday party for my
previous stepdaughter.
I am friends with her mother,and her daughter is half
siblings with my son.
So modern family for you there.
But we had that party, and thenI had to get ready for my
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daughter's party.
It was just a lot.
So usually I will squeeze it ineven if I'm sick.
As you know, I don't think I'vemissed a single Sunday since I
started.
No, I think that was the firstone, maybe.
So I was going to try to forcemyself and I was like, you know,
I'm not going to do that tomyself or to my listeners
because I like to be able to sitand channel and not feel rushed.
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So just wanted to share it alittle bit there.
But what I did pull, I thought Idid sit and like actually
channel what Source wanted me totalk about.
So what I thought I would do, Iwas going to save it for next
Sunday, but I got the I got thehit this morning to just go
ahead and talk about it today onthe podcast because it does tie
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in actually really beautifullywith the holidays and all of
that.
What Source wanted me to talkabout on Sunday is the value of
family, not just like from ageneric standpoint, but like how
much our family actually helpsus on our soul path, helps
shapes us, all of that, which isperfect right before you know
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the holidays and all of that.
So I've been dealing with aninteresting reflection that kind
of ties into all of this.
And I'm just gonna kind of gowith it, see where we get.
But the reflection I've beendealing with is around running
away from things.
And what I've realized is myfamily has been a huge piece in
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helping me stop running.
And I'll give you a goodexample.
So my son, who is reflecting mestill, he's six years old.
He will reflect me probablyuntil he's about seven or so.
And he's been having issues atschool where he's running from
the teacher.
Now, I can't really tell theteacher, oh, he's just
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reflecting me because I don'tknow, maybe she'd be open to it.
But most teachers would, youknow, it would require a little
bit of conversation around that.
And actually, I had a friendlook in and she's the one who
picked, who actually connectedit for me.
I was telling her about theissue with my son running away
at school, and then she told me,she's like, Oh, it's because
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you're running away from dating,social area of life, which was
gold.
And then I sat with it and I waslike, Oh, okay, it's even
deeper, actually.
It goes back, like, yes, it thatis what's happening, and I'll
explain.
But then my dog ran off onSunday, right before the
birthday party.
My daughter was in tears, wewere screaming for him, and at
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that point I was like, okay,this running away stuff needs to
stop.
So I sat down and I was like,How am I running from my dating
life right now?
Well, I don't date, basically,so not doing too great of a job
there.
So I did go on, as some of youknow, the dating apps for a
little bit.
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And I just, I don't know, it'sjust not really for me, I guess.
I used to go on there, but Itried and it just was not
feeling great.
I actually need to sit with myhigher self and just ask, like,
is that what you want me to do?
Like, I'm trying to put myselfout there, but then again, I
really don't do much socially.
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I did host my first uh women'snetworking group at a local
restaurant, and that was reallyfun.
And I was like, oh, okay, maybethis is going to lead me to
meeting someone.
There was a guy at the gym who Ithought was attractive, and I
think this is actually what setit all off because after
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Thanksgiving, I came back to thegym, hadn't seen him in like a
couple of weeks, and he kind ofmade a beeline over to me and
said good morning, but I wasjust kind of flustered.
I also realized I had walkedinto the gym with my Ug boots on
and I didn't want to go takethem off.
So at that same time, he saidgood morning, and I just was
kind of caught off guard andsaid, Oh, good morning, and then
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just kind of got awkward and Iran off.
So I think that's honestly whatstarted a lot of these running
away reflections.
But then as I sat and startedlooking deeper, I realized I've
always kind of run away fromthings in different aspects, but
definitely romanticrelationships.
I'm very much someone who in thepast, if I feel like the
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relationship isn't going well orthey're annoying me or whatever,
I will just be like, eh, I don'treally want to do this anymore
and run away, right?
I've also done that with familymembers, which brings me to the
topic of today, which is if Iget into an argument with a
family member, we don't seesomething the same way.
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My immediate reaction, innerreaction, inner response is like
to just drop the relationship.
And I've and I've realized overthe last, I don't know, three or
four days that I've been dealingwith this, maybe a week, that
for some reason that is my fightor flight response, right?
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Is to run from confrontation, torun from annoyance, to run from
anything like that.
But in doing so, it actuallyprevented me from upgrading my
communication and leadershipskills, right?
So if you've been listening fora little while, I've been
dialing in my communicationskills so much and recently did
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have a disagreement with afamily member.
I handled it so different than Iwould have in the past.
I wasn't, even though I couldfeel that little piece of me
inside going, oh, well, youdon't need them anyway.
I was like, I am not going to dothat again.
So I tapped into mycommunication skills, my
leadership skills, took on theresponsibility of knowing I'm
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the higher conscious person inthis dynamic.
So I need to be the one leadingthe higher conscious actions,
right?
So I am happy to take on thatresponsibility if it means
raising the frequency for familymembers or friends or whoever or
partner.
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So what I've been doing to flipthis reflection, just one of the
tools, I'm doing several things,but one of the things is I'm
just kind of noticing throughoutthe day my inclination to run,
right?
Like yesterday someone followedmy my new networking group
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Instagram.
And it's someone who, and itwasn't an actual person, it was
more a business, but it was onethat like could be a conflict of
interest for someone in myfamily.
And I know I'm being vague, butjust trying to just trying to
not say any names.
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So my immediate response waslike, ooh, I'm gonna block them.
And then I immediately caughtmyself and I was like, ooh,
wait, there's there's therunning away, right?
So what could I do instead?
I can just let them follow us,not that big of a deal.
If they try to cause any kind ofdrama, all of that, that would
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be a reflection, first of all.
But what would the highestconscious version of me do?
I would just let them follow meif they want to follow me,
right?
I'm not gonna block them.
So just kind of noticingthroughout the day, like earlier
I was at, I was out and aboutand saw someone and someone I
like, but I just didn't feellike having a conversation.
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So I pretended I didn't see themand just kept walking.
I do things like that a lot.
Sometimes it is to like kind ofjust if I'm in my own world, I
just don't feel like having aconversation, but just noticing
the little ways that I do tendto run away from things, right?
And I'm certainly have beenrunning away from dating, even
though I am, I do feel ready,but there's been this back and
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forth in my mind, which I dothink is causing some of the
issues with my son.
Is some days he's amazing atschool, other days he's running
from the teacher, hiding all ofthese things.
And I that very much reflects myfeelings around dating.
Some days I'm like all for it.
Okay, I'm here, excited to go tothe gym, say hi to the guy.
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I mean, who knows, you know, oropen, you know, to someone
coming in.
And then other days I'm like, Ijust don't have time or like
space for someone right now.
So you can kind of see how thatwould reflect in him.
Now there's other tools I'mobviously doing, but it is
interesting to just kind ofobserve.
And I know my higher self issetting this up for me because
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I'm being called to step intothis leadership role, this high
conscious leadership role, whichif you didn't know in my
membership this month inDecember and January, we're
covering high consciousleadership.
I'm actually so excited aboutit.
And so I channeled what makes upa high conscious leader, right?
And that was a really fun thingto teach.
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And so something exciting I'mgoing to do in the membership,
which I haven't even told themembers yet, is I'm going to do
a healing to align everyone inthe membership with the high
conscious skill sets thatthey're meant to have in this
life.
So that is really exciting.
If you're a member, look out forthat.
If you're not a member, you canjump in, you can listen.
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There's two audios right now onhigh conscious leadership.
You can listen to those.
There are more coming, and thenthere will be the healing to
align you with your the skillset that you need for your high
conscious leadership role.
Not everybody's is the same,right?
There are some people who aregoing to need to lead hundreds
of thousands of people ormillions, where there's other
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people who might, it might be asmaller amount.
It might be leading a family,right?
So there's all different levels.
And being a high consciousleader includes influencing
people, right?
It's not about popularity orgetting as many followers as
possible, all of that.
It's about influence that alignswith the source perspective and
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the greater good of the world.
So, how does this fit in withfamily?
Well, if you're a high conscioussoul, which if you're here, you
likely are, then even just beingin your company, you can
influence and raise thefrequency of those around you.
So if you're at a holidaydinner, a holiday event, there
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are energy techniques you can doto literally raise the vibration
of the room.
There are energy techniques youcan do to kind of push out the
dark forces that might beattached to your family members
so that you aren't influenced,right?
There's a lot that we can dobecause if you don't know how to
do these things, then there isthe risk of getting into
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arguments, of you know, havingthese political discussions that
rarely turn out well.
So being a high conscious leaderis very much about being
prepared, knowing what couldhappen, and then having a plan
on how you'll deal with that.
There are also fun littletechniques you can do to make
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people treat you the way youwant to be treated, right?
There are so many differentthings that we can actually
control.
So the days of thinking that youcan't control those around you
are over.
You just need to learn how,right?
And in a high conscious way,this isn't like dark magic or
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manipulating people or anythinglike that.
It's about actually raising thefrequency of those around us.
So without my family, withoutall of the challenges I've had,
I wouldn't be able to comparepoor communication skills with
high conscious communicationskills, right?
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I wouldn't be able to comparesomeone who runs from
confrontation to someone who cancontrol the room and raise the
frequency, right?
So family is actually such anamazing way to build key skill
sets that will help in your soulpoll, in your career, and
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relationships, all of that.
And my mentor, Alessandro, toldme, he said, until you figure
out how to communicate with yourfamily and not just communicate,
but actually be able toanticipate any kind of friction
and then shift it before ithappens or know what you're
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walking into.
He's like, your soulmate won'tcome in.
So he knew how to dangle thecarrot there for me.
So I was like, okay, I am divingin to increase my communication
skill set, right?
And in doing so, I have seensuch a big difference in my
family dynamic and just the waypeople communicate.
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And not just that, but we oftenhave someone in our family who
is our inside out voice.
If you're married, it might beyour partner for me, it's my
mom.
So if she starts criticizing me,I know it's actually not her.
And I can test how rooted she isto what she's saying.
It's usually very low becauseit's my inside out voice, right?
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And and so now when she does saysomething, right, or criticizes
something, I don't even have anemotional response to it
anymore.
Where I used to fly off thehandle and it would piss me off
so much.
And now it's just kind of likeit doesn't faze me.
So it's just really cool to seewhen you have these energetic
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tools and this high consciousinformation, and you're working
on your skill sets and doing allof this, it benefits all areas
of life because increasing mycommunication and my leadership,
all of that, you can see howthat would help my soul pool
with my clients, with my kids,with my family, with a partner,
friends, right?
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So before, I'll give you alittle tip.
Before you walk into your familydinner or gathering, just take a
few seconds to figure out anykind of critical thoughts you're
having about yourself,neutralize those.
If you don't know how, I have aton of ways in my membership,
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and then just kind of watch howthings can be different.
Now, sometimes it takes a littletime because oftentimes these
critical thoughts are in oursubconscious.
So if it is a subconsciousthought, it might take a little
bit more time, like with me.
It did take some time before Istopped seeing the criticism at
the level it was before.
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And now when I do hear any bitof criticism, I'm like, oh,
inside out voice, yep, I knowexactly what it's about.
I shift it and it's gone.
I don't even react to thecriticism because I know it's
just a holograph.
It's just showing me what'sactually happening in my own
mind.
So I just wanted to share someof what Source showed me on
Sunday that I wasn't able toshare.
If you don't get my Sundaysource, I'll link it in the show
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notes.
It's a free weekly channeling.
I do an audio version and then Ido a written version as well.
So when you sign up, you willget both.
And Source just wanted to sharethat like our families don't
need to be a source of so muchanger and frustration.
It's actually the best way forus to grow.
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Also, something you can do islisten to the contagion clearing
I did a few episodes back beforeyou go meet with your family.
That will help as well.
In my membership, I actuallyhave a longer and more in-depth
contagion clearing.
So you can listen to that one ifyou're in my membership.
I would love to know anythingthat you take away from this
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today.
And just notice like, who inyour family do you usually have
issues with?
Who do you, you know, getcriticized by just starting to
gather information just like ascientist.
That's what I like doing.
Anytime something feels a littleemotional, I'm like, okay,
putting on the scientist hat,and I'm going to just gather
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information.
So I hope that helps you duringyour holidays.
And before I forget, I do have afew more spots left for my Dark
Force and Kids program.
Our first live call is January16th, I believe.
I also decided to open up oneextra mentorship spot for
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January.
So if you've been interested inthe mentorship joining that,
definitely grab your spot.
I'll put the link below.
The way that my members havebeen using it is so beautiful.
A lot of them are studyingintuition, dark forces, all of
that, reflections.
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And they get telegram access tome Monday through Wednesday.
So if they're working on aspecific intuition technique or
they're dealing with areflection, they'll use the
telegram check-ins to get myhelp with that, whether it's
calibrations or helping them godeeper or figuring out a
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reflection, checking for darkforces.
There's so many different ways.
And it has been such an amazinglearning experience for me.
And I have just treasured somuch and excited to keep moving
forward.
But I did want to open upanother spot.
So that is waiting for you.
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Sending you guys so much loveand happy holidays, all of that.
And I'm excited to see howyou're doing in the new year.
Sending you love.
Bye.
Thank you for listening toUnveiled.
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