July 8, 2025 • 62 mins
Your toxic relationships, stubborn cravings, and intrusive thoughts might not even be your own.
This is a unique podcast episode because it's an excerpt from a podcast where I was the one being interviewed (by fellow intuitive / healer Manouk Vink).
I share my journey into the world of intuitive healing – a path that began when my young daughter started seeing "shadow people" in her bedroom.
I also talk about my childhood encounters with dark energies, from being physically pulled from my bed by unseen forces to witnessing Ouija boards moving independently. These experiences ultimately led her to develop powerful modalities for helping others disconnect from energetic attachments that keep them stuck in cycles of pain and limitation.
The conversation demystifies how energetic cords and hooks work in our relationships, explaining how we unconsciously exchange emotions, thoughts, and even soul pieces with others.
I also reveal that even seemingly innocent actions like complaining about an ex on social media create energetic rituals with real consequences. When we remain connected to past relationships, we're literally carrying fragments of other people within our energy fields – making it impossible to fully heal and move forward.
I also share my perspective on difficult relationships as soul contracts. I explain that those who hurt us most in this lifetime may have been souls who deeply loved us in past lives, volunteering to play challenging roles that catalyze our growth. This reframing transforms our understanding of pain and trauma, revealing the perfect design behind our most difficult experiences.
For mothers especially, I offer game-changing wisdom on prioritizing self-care without guilt. My "37 minutes" technique for giving undivided attention while maintaining strong personal boundaries demonstrates how self-prioritization ultimately creates happier, healthier families.
This conversation isn't just theoretical – it's filled with practical techniques for distinguishing between your thoughts and external influences, cutting energetic cords, and reclaiming your authentic power. If you've ever felt inexplicably drawn to unhealthy relationships or situations, this episode illuminates the invisible forces that might be at play and offers a pathway to true energetic sovereignty.
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Speaker 1 (00:05):
Welcome to Unveiled the podcast.
I'm your host, angela Christian, and I help you with unveiling
your true self by peeling awaythe layers that society placed
on you.
I do this with a combination ofneuroscience, energetics and
ancient spiritual wisdom.
I went from underpaid andoverworked in corporate America
to launching a six-figurecompany that continues to grow.
(00:26):
I went from toxic relationshipsto being happy and single for
over a year as I worked andcontinue to work on becoming the
best version of myself, and somuch more.
My greatest passion is to helpwomen and mothers heal,
transform and become the highestversions of themselves.
Heal, transform and become thehighest versions of themselves.
(00:46):
As I continue to grow andexpand my intuitive knowledge
and unique wisdom, I'll beincluding you on my journey to
millions, so let's get into it.
Speaker 2 (00:58):
Hello and welcome back to Unveiled.
Today I'm excited to share adifferent type of podcast
episode for you.
So this is actually a recordingof a podcast from last week
that I was on, where my friendand fellow intuitive, manuk,
interviewed me.
So she interviewed me aboutlike my first dark energy, dark
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force moments as a child, somethings I haven't shared before,
and then also about the work Ido in relationships, and then
she also had her, some of hermembers on live and they asked
me questions as well.
So it was a really fun episodeand I wanted to share it here
with you as well.
So I will just leave it at that, because it's a long one, so
(01:46):
enjoy.
Speaker 3 (01:47):
Bye.
Yay, we have a full house today, super, super exciting.
So this is also going to beuploaded on the podcast.
So for everybody listening onthe podcast, welcome to the you
Can Call Me Goddess podcast.
Today we have a very specialpodcast slash Q&A.
I'm going to be interviewingAngela.
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Angela is a fellow intuitive.
Some of you may already knowher I think a lot of you already
know her a little bit and I'mgoing to be interviewing her and
asking her a little bit abouthow she got into this world, the
intuitive energy healer world.
A little bit of her backstory,if I'm right.
Angela is very much specializedin disconnecting and decoding
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people from darker, heavierenergies that include correct me
if I'm wrong hard relationships, hard situations, circumstances
.
Sometimes we keep like aremnants of those situations and
we can't fully disconnect fromthat.
I know for a fact that Isometimes had that too where I
had like a tough friendship thatdidn't go as I wanted it to go
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and that person kept sticking inmy mind because I hadn't fully
decoded from that person.
And once you do like, itliterally changes.
And I literally had a thoughtabout her today and I was like,
oh, that's so.
I didn't even think about herin such a long time because I
had disconnected from thisfriend.
So, having said that, I'd liketo welcome Angela on this Q&A
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and I'm going to start just byasking for her to introduce
herself a little bit and tell alittle bit about her story and
how she got into all of this.
Speaker 2 (03:28):
Yeah.
So I'm so excited to be hereand I got into this whole world
about in 2016.
My oldest daughter was seeingwhat she called shadow people in
her bedroom at night and I hadno idea like what she was
talking about.
It kind of creeped me out.
And then she started seeingangels and all these different
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entities and that kind of justled me on this whole path
because I was like I need toknow what's going on.
And so shortly after thatexperience with her, I started.
I studied all different types ofspiritual programs.
I studied mysticism, shamanism.
I went to a different intuitiveslash energy healing school
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where they actually had achild's program as well, and so
she was in the children'sprogram, I was in the adult
program, but no one that I wentto actually talked about like
dark energy, like how to protectyourself from that.
So as she and I were increasingour frequency, our
consciousness, we were alsogetting energetically attacked
and we had no idea what wasgoing on.
(04:34):
So I am so grateful I foundthis world of owl and GLH and
all of that which I hadoriginally started with Ali, as
a lot of us have.
So I took Ali's first threelevels of intuition.
Then I found Al over a year agoand I've just been with him
ever since.
Speaker 3 (04:55):
Yeah, so just to clarify for the people that
don't know much about this world, me and Angela are in the same
intuitive school, I guessspiritual school, energy healer
schools and we all know peoplethrough that school and that's
how we got into this line ofwork and I feel like the same as
Angela.
Well, for me at least, I wasalways searching for something.
(05:18):
I've always felt very spiritualand wanted answers to certain
things.
So this is just like intuitionis literally the greatest thing
in energy healing.
I've always been very muchinterested in it, but I never
thought that we would be able tobe trained to do things like
that.
So that's very cool.
But, angela, what I'd reallylike to hear a little more about
because it's a bit of a touchysubject, right, talking about
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shadow people and things likethat and heavier energies, I
know I'm sometimes a littlehesitant still to talk about it
with certain people, while otherpeople are still open to it.
What did you like?
How did you know you were beingattacked?
Did you yourself have anyexperiences with heavier
energies before your daughterstarted saying this stuff?
(06:06):
Like, was there anything elsethat already got you to start,
like, thinking about this kindof things?
Like, did you experience thingslike that, did you think like,
maybe there's like and also like, what did you think?
Like?
Did you think about ghosts?
Did you think about like justpeople sending you dark energy?
Like, how did you look at it?
Speaker 2 (06:25):
Yeah, I mean, as a child I was really into scary
movies, like I would.
I was seven and watching all ofthe horror films and like I
just always had a fascinationwith it, which I'm sure my
parents thought was odd.
But and then I remember playingwith a Ouija board as a child
and had some weird things happen.
(06:47):
Yeah, yeah, it's not a goodidea.
No, not a good idea.
No, and I had a lot of weirdthings, like growing up I would
wake up and like I wouldbasically like look at my sister
and I'd be like she's not mysister, she's my sister.
I would be in this weird worldand my parents were like what is
happening?
Then I would do seances andlike you know, I didn't know
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what I was doing, but I wasdefinitely playing around with
energy I should not have.
And then in college there waslike a group of us and we were
all playing with a Ouija board,drinking, and it was just me and
another girl like on the actualboard, and we were like we are
not moving this thing, it'smoving by itself.
And then when we asked it yeah,yeah, I've had that too we
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asked it like what do you want?
The little token like flew offthe board at me and I was like,
okay, I'm done.
Like everybody was done.
We were just like what was that?
It was terrifying.
Done.
Like everybody was done.
We were just like what was thatit?
Speaker 3 (07:47):
was terrifying.
That is crazy.
That is crazy.
So, and when you were younger,did you have anything?
So for example, me, I know whenI was younger I couldn't quite
put my finger on it, but Iremember at like age seven,
eight, I started really likebecoming very aware of death and
things like that and I startedreally asking a lot of questions
about life and death and whatwould happen, and I would have
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panic attacks in certain areasbecause I could probably feel a
presence or something there.
So I think we spoke about this,that's the rice field discussion
that I spoke to you about.
So I think I had a memory orsomething happened there.
I used to live abroad, in thePhilippines, and as a field trip
we went to rice fields and Iwill never forget that because
when that happened, I just fullon, full blown, had a complete
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panic attack there and I waspanicking, asking about death
and things like that.
I could never quite put myfinger on it, and I know that I
had friends that, for example,have seen auras when they were
kids or, like your daughterwould see shadow figures, and
even my partner would see stuffwhen he was younger.
I never had that, but I couldfeel energies in places.
(08:53):
I could never quite put myfinger on it.
So do you have any memories ofthat?
When you were younger, likethings like that other than the
Ouija board and other than beinginterested in, because I was
also interested in scary things,but I would never want to mess
with it, like it freaked me outtoo much.
I already had certain intuitivehits as a child that you know.
For example, I didn't likemirrors in the dark.
(09:15):
I didn't like like I wanted to.
I was very affected by thestory of the ring, so I put like
a blanket over my TV screen.
Yeah, yeah, did you haveanything like that?
Did you see anything?
Speaker 2 (09:31):
Yeah, I actually had some pretty crazy things happen
as a child.
I one time got completelypulled out of my bed by
something and hit the ground alot of dark stuff.
And then one night I didn'twant to go to the bathroom
because there were like little Icalled them little elves on the
floor.
I don't know what.
They're, probably aliens orsomething, I don't know all
kinds of weird stuff like thatlike my dolls.
(09:53):
I was convinced my dolls werealive and like I had that too.
Yeah, so a lot of creepy stufflike that.
Not so much I don't think Ireally dealt with ghosts so much
More just like creepy things,like dark.
And then I also my friend and Icreated this entity named Vane
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when we were a kid, and we wouldtalk to it and we would ask
like can we have a sleepovertonight?
We help us have a sleepover,and like obviously we're
probably talking to some darkentity, and we didn't know what
we were doing, though.
Speaker 3 (10:25):
So that's crazy, yeah , you don't know.
Like I also think back of likechildhood stories where I had a
friend who, like this, was alsoin the Philippines.
I remember she, she would tellme like I don't know, like I
would love to dive in and kindof figure out, like so maybe we
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can do that one day, figure outwhat was going on there.
She told me that like, see, Ihave this, like I think I had a
beauty spot on my hand and shewould tell me that by clicking
that beauty spot I could speakto my cats and she would speak
to her cats.
But she would tell me thingslike that she, like the night
before had gone through a portaland had slept with anacondas
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and things like that.
Yeah, and she would tell melike, and she, even when we were
playing on the playground, shewould say like okay, now we're
entering like a new and Icouldn't see it.
Maybe we were, I don't know,like I don't know, but I was
like like kind of going alongwith it, like part of me like
believed it, part of me didn't.
So it's so funny how, like whenyou're younger right you're
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you're a lot more like open tothese things and these energies
and less influenced and blocked.
Yeah, but I've, I have a lot ofcrazy stories like that.
Even my cousin that walked downAmsterdam and he was a little
kid and he was like and he saidto his mom hey, mom, wasn't
there a button story before?
Like way back, and they lookedand there was a button store
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like years and years ago, likelike something like that.
So it's really, really, reallycrazy.
So I know.
So my audience is not that likeI, my friends and my family
already know a little bit aboutwhat I do, but my audience is
still getting to know like thedarker energy side of things and
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I think I touched upon how,when we're talking about darker
energies, it could even be likereally subliminal things that
are reprogramming our minds andbelief systems and stuff like
that.
So if you were to speak tosomeone that doesn't know much
about heavier, darker energies,first of all, how would you
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explain it to someone who's like, okay, what are they talking
about?
And, second of all, how doesthat work?
Because I know you have acouple of programs.
You coach people how to be ableto clear themselves of heavier,
darker energies and you alsohelp people disconnect from
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toxic relationships andsituations.
I know you have the what is itthe DBE, dbe, what is it the
clean BDE?
Baby, daddy, energy, right thatone.
And then you have the partygirl detox, I believe, and I
just would love to know.
And also then your your uh,negative energy clearing.
(13:29):
What's it called?
What's it called thereclamation?
Yeah, so reclamation, but alsohow to clear, like heavier
energies right, oh right Lightit up.
Yeah, light it up.
So those are the programs thatyou have.
So when you get someone who islike unsure about this world or
hasn't heard much about this,how do you go about explaining
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it to them?
Because I know, for example, Ispoke to my neighbor.
She is religious and believesin source God, however you'd
like to name it.
But when I kind of touched uponthere being potentially heavier
energies, a lot of peoplebelieve it doesn't exist if you
don't pay any attention to it orif you don't do anything with
it.
And then, obviously, how do yougo about it?
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When people are like thisgirl's crazy, like what is she
talking about?
How do you go about that?
And especially if you get likenew people coming into your
programs or booking like soulreclamations with you, like how
do you explain, how do you goabout that?
Speaker 2 (14:28):
Yeah.
So I always kind of assess whoI'm talking to first.
If I even want to bring it up,I can just kind of tell like
where they're at on aconsciousness scale if they're
going to understand or acceptwhat I'm going to say either now
or later.
So that's the first thing I do,and if typically people come to
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me, they've already heard mekind of talking about it on my
podcast.
So I don't really get too manypeople who are like I've never
heard of this before.
But what I, what I would say isyou know, just like there's
light in the world, there's dark.
You know, just like there'slight in the world, there's dark
.
And I compare the dark energiesof the world like mosquitoes.
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They're just like annoyinglittle things that want to suck
your light and they havedisconnected from the light so
they need to get light fromsomething which is us, you know.
So that's kind of like what Iwould say on a very basic level.
I don't know that I've hadanyone tell me like that.
They don't believe again, Ithink, because I'm only speaking
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usually to people who havealready listened to me talk on
my podcast or like in a programof mine.
I don't share a ton of it onInstagram, for example.
Speaker 3 (15:41):
So yes, but it is a bit difficult, right To touch
upon things like that.
But then when you think aboutit, if you go to like the basic
way of explaining it so, forexample, in your clean BDE
program, there are some peoplethat, without knowing it, you
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know, when you're like reallyupset with someone and without
you knowing it, you're likesaying things like oh, I wish
they just blank, like somethingnegative.
Right, I'm going to do thatright now, but I wish I just did
this.
And even if it's just like asubconscious thought, our words
have power, right, so they holdenergy.
So, without you knowing it, the, the, you're actually like
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putting that energy on thatperson.
So how does that work?
So, walk like explain a littlebit with the clean BDE energy.
Like what do you, what do youdo, for example, in those
situation?
Or the party girl detox, likewhat was the thought process
behind those, those programs andhow could that help people like
step into their power more?
Speaker 2 (16:47):
Yeah, so clean BDE I created because I have three
children from three differentfathers.
I've experienced a lot of likeabuse in the past, which now I
know was all just part of mysoul plan, my reflections, all
of that.
So I created it for other momsto heal from that desire to put
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all the blame on the father,create this toxic relationship
which doesn't benefit them,doesn't benefit the children, to
really just become neutral.
So that was my whole plan withClean BDE is become so neutral
about him so that you can be thebest parent, so your energy
isn't getting drained.
So it starts with a lot ofnervous system regulation.
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Then it goes to unconsciousreprogramming, so like healing
childhood beliefs, all of thatthrough rapid resolution therapy
, which is like a form ofconversational hypnosis.
Yeah, then, after I get themregulated and like, uh, a lot of
the unconscious reprogramming,then I introduced the energy
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component.
So by this time they trust me,they're feeling better.
So I wouldn't just jump in with,like, with the dark force stuff
.
I usually build a relationshipfirst so they understand, like
I'm not just crazy or something.
But then I do explain, like byposting about your ex on
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Facebook, for example oh, my exis doing this xyz, you're
actually creating a ritual.
It's actually like when you'rejust saying it to someone else
and you're complaining.
It's kind of like anunconscious ritual.
But once you put it intowriting and other people can see
it, that is a conscious ritualand there's repercussions for
you and you're sending negativeenergy to them, right?
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So it's like even at that levelthat would be.
You know what we're talkingabout, with like the darker,
heavier energies.
A lot of times, women will cometo me from groups where they
were encouraged to just labelhim as a narcissist it's all his
fault and like that does feelempowering, maybe for a short
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amount of time.
I call it like a sugar rushfeeling of like empowerment.
And then you're like, well, Idon't feel any better, you know,
and it's because you're justlike directing so much negative
energy towards him and you'renot just embodying your own
power.
So like that was the wholeprocess behind clean BDE and
yeah, I had like amazing resultswith the women in there and it
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was just beautiful, developedfriendships with people in there
, and just it was the program Iwanted when I was going through
this stuff.
Speaker 3 (19:24):
Yeah, that's what we all design right at the end of
the day, because it's it's whatwe wish we had and we knew we
know how to walk through all ofthat now.
And so now, as by design, weget to help people with the
things that we struggled with somuch.
But like I love how you saidthat as well, cause I was going
to ask about that as well Likewith this, because we're very
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quick to kind of like releaseemotions almost onto someone
else, right, and kind of thinklike that's going to fix the
problem somehow or give us thatsatisfaction.
I know that as well when I hadan argument with my partner like
all you want to do is justscream and get that emotion out,
but it's not.
It's.
I mean, there's there's abenefit to getting the emotion
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out, but not when you'redirecting it, maybe to someone
else and you're not feelingempowered in yourself.
So how, how would you explainto someone with, like, putting
that negativity out there, howthat could actually negatively
impact the person themselves?
You know, when you're saying,like he's just a narcissist,
he's this, he's that, he's thatlike, how would that negatively
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impact yourself instead of theperson that you're directing it
towards?
Speaker 2 (20:36):
Yeah, so when you are so, there's several things.
One, it's just like law offocus.
You're really focused on theydid this to me like whatever it
is, you're going to start justcalling in more of those people.
You're not going to get to theroot of the issue, the root of
the reflection, so you're goingto just keep seeing it, and this
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is what happened to me.
I would be in a really toxicrelationship.
I would leave, I wouldn't healwhat actually happened, and then
the next relationship would beeven worse.
So it's just going to keepescalating and you are actually
also sending what's called likecan think of it like an
energetic arrow.
When you're feeling angrytowards someone, when you're
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like feeling jealous or whateverit is, you are sending an
energetic arrow into theirenergy and that does affect
their energy.
So we don't want to bedirecting dark energy at other
people, right?
So that's like part of it aswell.
Speaker 3 (21:33):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (21:34):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (21:34):
So.
So, with the law of focus,that's like basically the like I
think a lot of people like alsowhen I mentioned it, like
compared to the law ofattraction, a little bit like
when you focus on something, themore you focus on it, the
bigger it becomes.
So if you're constantlyfocusing on how someone is
terrible and bad and not doingwhat you want them to do, then
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what's going to happen?
You're going to get more ofthat.
When you can start seeing thegood in the bad, then you start
getting more of the good insteadof the bad, right?
So what is it that?
There was one more thing thatyou said that I really liked as
well.
Yeah, so, if you can, if youkeep exactly the reflection area
of that we touched upon that alittle bit in some of my
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podcasts as well, mainly withthe body and a little bit now in
your body's magic.
I'm also diving into, like howthe rest of the universe is
doing the same thing, where, ifyou don't work through what the
person is triggering you with,because there's a trigger
happening and the reason you'retriggered right is because there
is an imbalance, so, and if youdon't work through that trigger
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fully, then what the universeis going to send you more
triggers because it wants you tofix that.
So, basically, if you keep doingthat, sending that negative
energy that way, and you don'tactually work through the root
cause, you're going to get moreof that negative energy, and
that's what you don't want.
Right, when you, when you arealready, when you've been
through difficult relationshipsalready, you want to up level
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and get to a better relationshipand get to a better life and
the only way to do that is tostop spreading the negativity,
basically, and disconnectingfrom that negative energy.
So can you explain a little bitwith, like people, how would
you say that, like, we all knowthat the energy vampires, right,
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know that the energy vampiresright, the friends, the people,
family, that we know that like,literally like hook and latch
into you and as soon as you tryto get away from them, they come
back.
Like, how does that work?
Because I know that's a littlebit of what you do with the soul
reclamation, right, you makesure that people are completely
disconnected from one another.
Speaker 2 (23:44):
Yeah, yeah.
So in the soul reclamationsessions I clear all the
energetic arrows from the person, from my client, so that
they're free and clear of all ofthat.
I also clear them of hooks thatare in them.
So a lot of times, like evenparents will hook into you, like
I know I hook my kids and Ihave to clear it because it's
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like you just want to controlthem, you just want you know,
but I did have an ex who hadhooks in me and I didn't realize
it at the time and I kept goingback to him and I was like, why
do I keep going back to him?
Like he wasn't healthy for me.
I would like get rashes everytime I was around him.
It was just like, but there wasa hook now.
Now I know that I didn't knowthat at the time.
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There's also negative emotionalcords and so those are like the
cords, that they're like a bigumbilical cord basically.
And you create these cords withyour parents, oftentimes with
romantic relationships,especially highly emotional,
even friendships, children,clients, emotional, even
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friendships, children, clients,yeah, clients, and we don't want
these cords with anyone.
So you actually give thempieces of your soul and then you
take pieces of their soul.
So in my soul reclamation I'mbasically disconnecting them but
also retrieving the soul piecesback, sending them to them and
then taking my clients soulpieces back, because you cannot
fully heal on a physical leveluntil you have all of your soul
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pieces back.
So it's a really key thing,especially if you're trying to
heal, you have some kind of youknow issue you're working on
physically.
You really need all of yoursoul pieces back to actually get
a full healing.
So my clients have had likeamazing results from
disconnecting and they usuallyfeel like quite a bit of energy
because you're literally gettingpieces of your soul back.
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You start to feel more likeyourself, you start to make more
higher self-aligned choices allof that.
Speaker 3 (25:38):
Yeah, I love that and I actually.
There's one question that cameup for me with someone I was
working with, which was a reallygood question, if you think
about it, and I'm going to letyou explain that one.
When someone cords in, right,we think sometimes, when we are
empathetic beings which mostpeople that I think we work with
(25:59):
because they would be attractedto us anyways we're all like
very empathetic and we want tohelp and we need to change lives
, right.
So I got this question recentlybut isn't it good, when you're
being empathetic and you'rehelping someone, to tap in and
cord into that person's energy?
We've been told, and I used tothink that too, it was good to
connect to that energy, to feelthe feelings of the other person
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.
So why is that actually a badthing?
Yeah, yeah.
Speaker 2 (26:27):
so that is one of the first things I do in a client
session is I put up a gold walland I set the intent that I will
not court into them, because weneed to be completely neutral
for many reasons.
But if we're tapping into theiremotions, their thoughts, we're
not good.
First of all, we're not goingto be able to give them a proper
reading because we're going tobe influenced by their emotions
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and thoughts.
I like that.
And then, yeah, you can form acord and then, if you keep that
cord, you're not doing eachother any bit of service.
So I always put up that goldwall.
I check throughout the sessionthat it's up, because we can
still feel for them and be like,oh, I'm sorry, that sounds
really tough, without gettingemotional.
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Like I get emotional.
I stay very neutral, alsobecause I see the perfection in
everything, but not everybody,you know, is at that place.
Speaker 3 (27:21):
No, no, no, no, yeah, I know for sure, 100%.
Yeah, I think that's such avaluable one because I like what
you said there that youcouldn't even get a clear read,
because I didn't even think ofit like that, because when I was
explaining it I was just likeyou just don't want to be giving
away any of your energy tosomeone else, even if you think
that it's good.
And when you clear the cord youactually only clear the
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negative energy, right, youdon't take away any of the
positivities.
And it's difficult to thinkthat because I know that also
with my mom I have the samething.
It's not coming from a negativeplace that you're courting, in
that you're both courting intoeach other, or that she's
hooking into you.
It's more from like a place ofyou know wanting to keep you
close or protection, or you knowit's always like that can come
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from a good place, but thatdoesn't mean you want that
energy in you basically.
So that's the crazy thing.
And I actually had someone Ithink that was a client I sent
your way.
He was saying that he had hismom, was like hooking into him a
lot and like out of a place oflove, but of like, but I want to
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keep you close.
You know I don't want you to goto do your own thing and,
without them knowing it, they'reactually like doing something
that is negatively impacting theperson.
So, yeah, yeah, so it's reallygood to be able to clear
yourself of that energy.
So how would you say for peoplewho want to be like so my
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audience right, I work to giveyou the ultimate glow up, uh, to
step into your goddess energyand not only physically
transform, but as a result ofphysically transforming and vice
versa, transformingenergetically and really
stepping into your power?
How could clearing theseenergies and disconnecting from
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negativity other than theobvious, like how would that
help you truly step into yourpower and be the woman that
you're meant to be in this life?
Speaker 2 (29:22):
Yeah, great question.
So by disconnecting from all ofthese energies which we also I
don't think I shared this whenwe have a cord with someone, we
are actually sharing emotions,we're sharing thoughts.
So all of their emotions andthoughts and I've corded into.
Actually, by being curiousabout someone, I've corded into
them, into a dark person which Iwouldn't have consciously
(29:43):
corded into but because I wascurious about them.
Then you start sharing emotions, thoughts that can quickly get
you off your soul pull.
So for me, everything comesback to am I in alignment with
my soul pull?
Because that's what I'm here todo?
And if you're courted into abunch of people, that's going to
really confuse you both from,like, a thought and an emotional
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standpoint.
It could take you off path, itcould make you more influenced
by darker energies, all of that.
Speaker 3 (30:12):
So I basically just like when I'm working with
someone, I feel like I'm justdoing an energetic cleanse, like
an energetic detox of otherpeople's energy, so they can
just be fully in their ownenergy and see their path ahead
without the negative influence,without being how to say like,
yeah, negative influence I waslike their judgment being
(30:33):
clouded or other because we'retaking on other people's
thoughts and, especially ifwe're courted in someone else,
they could potentially hold usback from doing what we should
be doing, which is essentiallyyour soul path.
Is what you're meant to be doinghere in this life, is the power
you're meant to be steppinginto, which we all are, and I
think that that's a veryimportant thing to say that,
without us knowing it, theseheavier energies could be
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holding us back from tappinginto our full power and our full
potential.
Right, and we can blame it onother external factors, when, in
fact, we have complete and fullcontrol of making sure that
that stuff doesn't influence usanymore, and so that's really
cool.
It's also puts a lot of like,it can put a lot of pressure on
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yourself that you have the fullpower.
But when you look at it fromthe other perspective, of being
like, hey, I literally have thepower to shift everything and
change everything, which justchanges your life in so many
more ways than just one, and Iwanted to ask you, angela, what
have you experienced aftergetting into this work and being
(31:40):
able to disconnect from theseenergies and help others do that
.
How has that impacted your lifeand changed your life?
Speaker 2 (31:50):
Oh my gosh, so much.
There's so many things I couldsay, I mean.
But I just have clear thoughtsand I can tell when I if I'm on
social media and there's tons ofcontagions on there.
So if I start thinking aboutsomething, I can immediately
tell when I'm starting to go offtrack and then just like
disconnect myself.
So just having that feeling andrepetition of like staying on
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path with my true self, my truepath, is really empowering.
Just you know, I decided totake a break from dating two
years ago and just focus onmyself and my kids and my
business.
I've never done that before.
I wouldn't have been able tomake that decision without a
clear, you know head.
So there's just been so manyamazing things, yeah.
Speaker 3 (32:35):
I really I that's that's really really cool and
yeah, I think it's veryimportant that people are aware
of this stuff, at least that youknow.
Sometimes it's a lot of thetime, it's not even your own
thoughts, it's not even your ownbeliefs that you're carrying
around, and yet it's influencingyour decisions.
So, being able to differentiatebetween what is yours and what
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isn't yours and being able toclear that energy makes such a
big difference, even when itcomes to, for example, what I
coach on as well, and your bodytransforming like limiting
belief systems that have beenbrought down to you and they
keep getting reinforced.
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If you keep connecting to thatperson right, that's giving you
those limiting belief systems.
So, for example, your parents,a lot of the time, are giving
you limited belief systems andyou're making them your own.
And when you can differentiatebetween what's yours and what's
not, that really changes so manythings.
And that is like the crazything is we're talking about
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like ghosts and darker energies,aliens, demons, things like
that.
To some people it soundsabsolutely insane, but when you
kind of like, it soundsabsolutely insane.
But when you kind of like likenarrow it down to just someone
sending you negative energy andthings like that.
It becomes a little morepalatable, and then you can
start seeing, like how it can bein so many other areas, right
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and yeah, and then it becomes alittle bit more like oh, maybe
that is possible, because youcan't see everything, you can't
see all energy, unless you'refully clairvoyant, which I'm on
a mission to become.
I know that you see thingsright, angela.
Yeah, yeah, that's cool, oralso a little bit scary.
Speaker 2 (34:26):
Yeah, I don't see things as clearly as my oldest
daughter.
She sees Really as if they'rejust standing there, as your
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oldest daughter does.
Like shut it off.
Yeah, sometimes she'll see it,but she used to when she was
really into studying and likegrowing her intuition and all of
that.
She would just say like, oh,mom, there's a ghost here and
she would like explain exactlywhat the woman was wearing.
She would say like oh, shedoesn't see us.
She's in like a differentdimension.
She would just like explain thewhole thing to me.
So what did you?
Speaker 3 (35:10):
do.
What did you do?
Speaker 2 (35:12):
I was just like in awe because I couldn't see her,
you know, and yeah, so it waspretty wild.
Speaker 3 (35:19):
well, I had my first.
I think well, maybe I've had itbefore, but I had, because I
was on a trip my firstexperience opening my eyes.
I was I was fully awake.
I know that I was fully awakeand I saw someone at the foot
end of my bed, so that was fun,yay.
I don't like this, like I'mdoing all my tricks to get rid
of it.
(35:40):
I'm like I don't even know whatit is right now Because I'm
half asleep.
Speaker 2 (35:43):
Yeah, but yeah, I know I'm like, why do they
always come at night, likethat's what bothers me why does
it have to be scary?
Speaker 3 (35:51):
yeah, and I even think about like back when my,
when my grandfather passed away,I was 10 years old.
The thing is, I've alwaysbelieved in this stuff and I
remember and I'm pretty sure Icould probably go back now and
intuitively maybe read what wasgoing on there but I went to his
office and I remember like thelights really like flickering
and there was wind andeverything, and I was like, oh
(36:12):
my God, I think he's here.
You know what I mean Like, andit's very possible that he was.
Oh yeah, yeah, for sure.
Speaker 2 (36:18):
Yeah, I actually.
I forgot actually until youjust said that I had a similar
thing with when my grandmotherpassed away.
We and I was sitting one nightout in the dining room crying.
I was missing her, I was 12.
And then all of a sudden Ismelled her perfume and this
curtain just like flew up and Iwas the only one out there.
But I was like I just knew itwas like her.
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It was very like within days ofher, like passing or something.
Speaker 3 (36:44):
Yeah, that's crazy.
That's crazy.
Yeah, I've always beenintrigued by all of this and I
just love diving into all ofthis information.
So is there anything else?
Angela, before I ask everybodyif they have any questions that
they want to ask you, is thereanything else you want to share
about your story and what you do?
Speaker 2 (37:05):
right now I'm.
I have focused a lot in thepast on just helping moms.
I have broadened that out toyou know, like you sent a mail
my way, so it is broader now.
Speaker 3 (37:19):
I sent a mail your way.
Here you go.
Oh my God.
Speaker 2 (37:26):
I love how you said that.
Yeah, al told me he's like youneed to open up your base, like
so that sounded so funny.
But yeah, so I help mothers,women, anybody who's having
issues with.
I do a lot of work aroundpeople who find themselves in
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relationship patterns they don'twant to be in anymore
themselves in relationshippatterns they don't want to be
in anymore.
I do a lot of the soulreclamation sessions for people
on anything from like parents,exes, even situations I've done
it on like near deathexperiences.
I do have longer reads to whereI incorporate the timeline
healings of like the past andthe future, which I do on myself
(38:08):
.
Often those are really fun.
So I've been doing a lot ofthose sessions.
But yeah, I mean I basically doanything, but obviously I have
like a specialty aroundrelationships.
Speaker 3 (38:21):
Yeah, and that's the interesting thing, because I do
a lot of the same things thatAngela does in certain areas,
but mine is focused on specificareas and hers are focused on
and we all design it in our ownway with our own tools.
So it's very cool to see howwe're all targeting different
issues and things that we'veobviously experienced.
(38:42):
Like I've experienced thesethings and you've experienced.
I haven't experienced whatyou've experienced.
So, yeah, so like I I also Idon't have kids yet I haven't,
thankfully, had abusiverelationships or difficult.
I've had difficultrelationships, but not in that
way.
So it's that will give you likea different way of approaching
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these things and connecting withpeople and obviously also all
of the other courses andexpertise that you have in those
areas.
So that's that's really cool,and also it's really good for
people to understand that youhave in those areas.
So that's really cool.
And also it's really good forpeople to understand that you
can also disconnect.
That's why the Party Girl DetoxI really like that, because we
think, okay, that's somethingthat's happened in the past, but
maybe you've still got someenergies from that past that you
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can't let go of, like evenpeople that struggle, like if
you're trying to achievesomething in your life.
If that is a dream body, dreamlife, more success and you've
struggled with addiction, forexample, in the past and I have
some people in my circle thathave that struggle that could be
due to darker energies that arestill latching onto you, and if
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you can get rid of thoseenergies, that will make it a
lot easier for you to step intoyour power.
So that's really cool and Ireally like what you're doing
there.
So, if it's all right with you,angela, let's see if anybody has
any questions.
Feel free to turn on yourcamera if you want, you can do
it in the chat, whatever you'recomfortable with, and if
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anybody's ready or has anyquestions, you can start now.
Let's see if anybody comes up.
No one so far.
Oh, there's one.
I love the party.
This is Leanne.
I love the name.
Party Girl Detox.
How do you begin todifferentiate between thoughts
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and energy that are yours andthose that are not?
Speaker 2 (40:40):
Yeah, thank you.
I love that name too.
It just like came to me in afunny way.
But how to begin todifferentiate between thoughts
and energy.
So there are a lot of energetictechniques that I can do for my
clients and some of my clients.
I'll actually teach them how todo there's very simple ones
with the thought and energy, tomake sure that they're your
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thoughts and they're your energy.
So the in the party girl detox,I actually do a cord cutting
from someone like like, let'ssay, you had a traumatic
experience or just an experienceyou regretted, like you went
home with someone you wish youwouldn't have, or like something
like that.
I do that.
But then I also do a pasttimeline healing on that.
Speaker 3 (41:23):
I love that as well, yeah, so it's like I didn't even
think of that.
I love that yeah.
Speaker 2 (41:29):
I like I attack it from all angles and so when you
start getting your energy piecesback, you start to notice it's
hard to explain like how to, howI noticed, but like you just
feel more aligned and there'scertain questions that you can
ask intuitively, like if they'reyour thoughts, or you could
(41:49):
simply just say, like thesethoughts are mine, you know, and
like you might get a yes or ano, but it just is almost like,
as you get your energy piecesback, you just start to notice,
like what are your thoughts,what are not?
If that makes sense, Let meknow if I didn't answer that.
Speaker 3 (42:04):
I do remember a technique to do it quickly.
It's where you tap on the heartthree times right and you say
these thoughts are my own.
These thoughts are my own.
These thoughts are my own, andif they disappear?
Speaker 2 (42:17):
they are not yours yeah.
Yeah, yeah, that's one of the.
I think we learned that inlevel.
Speaker 3 (42:21):
Level one, I'm pretty sure.
Yeah, yeah, that's a great one.
If you can't let go of a way,of a way overdue, toxic
relationship, is it alwaysbecause of cords and hooks and
dark energies?
I like that.
That's a good question, kit.
Speaker 2 (42:40):
Yes, good question, dark energy but it's not like a
dark energy being, it's just,yes, there's cords and hooks
that need to be disconnected.
That is a big sign for me is ifsomeone still thinks about a
relationship from 15 years ago,even if it wasn't, like they
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don't want to be with thatperson, but it's still very much
on their mind, they keep havinglike flashes of memories.
That's a big sign that there'sjust a cord there and that you
need to have that disconnected.
Speaker 3 (43:11):
So yeah, and that can be misconstrued as we're meant
to be, or something like thatright.
Yes, yes, I just thought ofthat.
I was like I know when youthink I've had that very much
like this toxic connection tosomeone where I was like I think
this is my soulmate when infact it was just like being
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hooked into someone or accordedinto someone and then
misconstruing that, or themdoing that to you even, which
makes you feel like you're meantto be together energetically.
That's not the case.
Speaker 2 (43:44):
Yeah, and then you'll notice, like if you get the
cord cut and the hooks taken out, and then you're like I also in
a final step where I make it sothat they can't cord back into
you and you won't cord back intothem, so, yeah, the difference,
you'll be like oh, like I don'teven want to think about that
Exactly.
Speaker 3 (44:03):
But we know that feeling right when you're like
why was I so into this person?
Like for what reason?
But when you're in the thick ofit, like you don't, you don't
know, or you're just so hip,like almost like hypnotized
right by by the situation.
Yeah, sorry, anyone else haveany questions, guys, about this?
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About anything else?
Oh, no more questions, maybethey're coming in.
Is there anything you want toadd anymore, angela?
Anything that you think wouldbe helpful for people to know
about any of this?
Like, what is your favoritepart of this, the work that you
do?
Speaker 2 (44:47):
My favorite part is definitely like the energy work,
whether it's helping someoneclear dark energy.
So a lot of times, darkenergies can make you think dark
thoughts, they can make youcrave certain things like.
And then when you find outthat's not actually you, it's
not like you don't have an issue.
It's this dark entity.
(45:08):
And when it's gone you're like,oh my gosh, I feel so clear now
.
So those are my favorite things.
And then all the you knowunhooking the timeline, healings
, all of that.
Speaker 3 (45:18):
So Okay, we're getting some, some questions in,
as you're you're saying, but Iwant to just touch upon that as
well.
Yeah, it's really cool becauseeven if you're like trying to
get into fitness and things likethat right, like that's why it
also intrigues me very much Likeif you're craving sweets all
the time and that's not evenyour own energy that's craving
it, but yes, there's obviously areflective part of why that's
(45:40):
happening.
But then that darker entity ordarker energy will make that
worse.
So when you remove that darkerenergy, it will make it easier
for you to disconnect from thatcraving or things like that.
Yeah, okay, so we got anotherone from Kit.
Could it also has something todo with soul contracts?
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Are the hooks and the cordspart of that?
Speaker 2 (46:06):
Yeah, good question.
So we have something calledlike soul connection cords.
Those are somewhere else.
We keep those, we do not touchthose.
We clear up.
We should never have any hooksor cords the emotional cords
with anyone soul contracts, thatwould be something different.
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So if you feel like you'rebeing called to someone from the
past and you're not sure ifit's a soul contract, I would
definitely recommend likeclearing the cords and hooks
from that person and then youknow, we can always look in
intuitively and see is it a soulcontract, is it something else?
But there are soul contracts.
Maybe you mean this.
Like I had a soul contract tobe with my ex who was abusive
that was very much part of mysoul contract.
To have a son with him, toexperience these things and then
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to move on, to finally stand upfor myself, which is like the
law of opposing forces.
You finally stand up foryourself.
Then you kind of like shut downthat old pattern.
So there are soul contractslike that where it's very much
part of who you were supposed tobe with at that time.
Speaker 3 (47:12):
So I love what you're saying there, cause that just
made something come up for me aswell, which I think is very
important for people tounderstand, and it's something
that I some people can grasp andothers can't.
These difficult situations, thethings that you've been through
, angela, are not easy.
They're difficult.
Most people wish they didn'thave to go through all of that.
Right, but when you startlooking at it from how this has
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allowed you to grow and become astronger person, like it's a
hard question to ask, but even Ihad this with my partner,
because he had a very difficultchildhood, and a friend of mine
also.
And if you can look at it andsee how it's actually perfect
that all of that stuff hashappened to you.
And in fact, if you want to goand take it to past life
situations, the people that areyour worst enemies in this life
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could have actually been likethe greatest love of your life
or the people that you lovedmost in a previous life.
And I can let you explain,angela, like why would that be?
Speaker 2 (48:14):
Yeah, because only someone who loves you so much
would actually sign up to hurtyou, to have to live with
themselves for treating you acertain way.
So you know one of my exes.
He has to live forever knowinghe physically hurt me several
times and like he would only dothat.
I know we were in past, I knowsome of our past lives so like I
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can see, I can just see it on asoul level, how much he loves
me.
But I would never like.
That doesn't mean I want to gobe friends with him in this life
.
It's just we're neutral, we'retotally fine, like if I see him
I give him a hug, I've totallyneutralized it amazing that you
can do that after all of that bythe way.
Speaker 3 (48:58):
Yeah, and that's very empowering, I think.
And also, but why would someonethat?
Speaker 2 (49:00):
loves you so much in a past life, want to do that to
you yeah, because they know youneed that lesson.
So before you come into thislife, you sit and you say, okay,
I need to learn this.
Will you play this role for me?
Basically?
And only someone that loves youis going to sacrifice
themselves Like he's going tohave to.
He doesn't have to suffer, buthe signed up to suffer with that
, knowing he did those things.
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And only someone that reallyloves you would sign up for that
.
Speaker 3 (49:24):
Which is very hard for some people to grasp and
understand.
Okay, so we have a questionfrom Cassie.
Uh, so, as a clean BDE alum, oh, I completely, yes, yeah, see,
completely shifted myrelationship with my ex to one
that is very positive I knowthis cause Cassie's in my
membership and it's incredibleUh to one that is very positive
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for co-parenting, which is ahuge miracle.
Thanks, angela.
Lately we are having an issuewith a big disagreement over how
he chose to bring his newgirlfriend into my kids' lives.
Oh fun, how can I get to thefeeling, to feeling good with
other, with our sorry coparenting, when I disagree with
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his approach and how it'saffecting our kids?
Speaker 2 (50:18):
Hmm, okay, good question.
So I would start withneutralizing, which I know is
always hard to do, especiallywhen there's kids involved, and
I've been there before where myex would bring all these girls
around my child.
So you could start looking atlike, let's say, there's like
(50:40):
five negative reasons why heshould not be bringing her
around your kids.
If it were me, I would sit downand I would come up with you
know kids.
If it were me, I would sit downand I would come up with you
know like seven reasons why it'sa positive thing.
And that can take some likecreativity, because it's not a
super easy thing to do.
I would also look at, let mejust see, I would also look at
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how this will, how this couldactually help your relationship.
So if you guys were, if youwere able to see it as perfect
to neutralize it, maybe this isjust a reflection that you could
help clear once you becomeneutral to it.
So it might be like you know, ahigh level reflection for you
(51:26):
to neutralize and then you'llhave growth from it, your kids
will have growth from it, yourguys' relationship will have
growth from it.
So I would say like the firstthing to do is just to see it as
perfect, even though I knowthat's hard, I know it's really
hard to do and list out, like,even if you can just list out
like three reasons why it's apositive thing for you or him.
(51:48):
Like maybe it'll make himhappier, maybe that means he'll
make more money, maybe thatmeans he'll give you more money,
maybe you know, and it just ittakes some creativity but that's
what I would do.
To get back to a neutral.
You don't have to feel goodabout the situation that he's
bringing, like the girl around,but you could try to.
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I mean, you might, you might belike oh yeah, that's going to
make him happier.
He's going to maybe let youhave the kids more.
He's going to go on trips,you're going to get the kids
more.
Like just trying to think ofpositive ways to neutralize it.
Speaker 3 (52:21):
Yeah.
I hope that helps, yeah, andsometimes the thing is with
these things like it's likesometimes annoying advice, you
know it's going to get you know.
It's like sometimes annoyingadvice, you know it's gonna get,
you know it's gonna get youwhere.
Because I know that feelinglike, oh, yeah, I know I need to
do that, but I don't feel likedoing that right now, you know.
And then you're like, Okay,cool, I get it, I need to do
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that, I love that.
So one question actually,because you know I work with
people, with women, who want toachieve their dream bodies and
also achieve their dream life.
Like, from the perspective of aparent, what would you tell
women with kids?
Like to start prioritizingthemselves and stepping into
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their power themselves.
And stepping into their power,Like what has been a major game
changer for you to be able togrow your business and and and
do what you want to do and takecare of your body, take care of
yourself.
Um, how, like, how have youbeen able to do that and be the
(53:27):
best mom or, as a result, be thebest mom that you can be?
Speaker 2 (53:34):
Yeah, great question.
Oh, I like one of the firstthings I say when I wake up is
like I come first and I just saythat all day and I already
connect it to by putting myselffirst.
My kids will benefit.
So I get up, I do my own thingIf they bother me.
Oh, mommy's doing her stuffright now, so I'll be with you
in a minute and I just stickwith the boundaries.
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I also my son knows he's five,but I give him 37 minutes every
day of undivided attention.
So he'll ask me mom, when canwe do 37 minutes?
And I'll just say, oh, that'sso cute, yeah.
And then I always say, like youknow, mommy's going to the gym
and it's like kids learn bywatching us, not by what we tell
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them to do.
And I've managed to maintain areally great relationship with
my 20 year old, who canliterally call me and tell me
anything, and I do not judge her.
Sometimes I'm tempted to saysomething motherly, but I, I
asked myself, I just kind ofpause before I say anything like
negative to my children when Ican't.
Obviously I'm not perfect, butshe called out sick the other
(54:39):
day because she'd been up latewith her boyfriend and the
mother in me wanted to say likewell, you shouldn't call out
sick, you know.
But I just said, okay, well, Ihope you feel better.
And then she ended up her work,told her that if she ever calls
out sick, she can't come backfor like two days because it's a
food service place.
So now.
I'm never calling out sick againbecause she likes having the
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money.
So she like learned her ownlesson.
So it's it's just finding thatbalance between we don't have to
like tell them what to do allthe time.
It's better for us to putourselves first and then they
can watch what we're doing.
I have a very set kind of likeschedule.
They know, in the mornings I doenergy work, I do client calls.
They do test my boundariessometimes, but then I know it's
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a reflection for me.
Speaker 3 (55:24):
So yeah, but what I think is so cool, angela as well
, like you're just so, soconfident in that, like you've
literally like almost trainedthem to know, like this is now
mommy time and then I have the37 minutes for you.
Do you ever feel like also Ijust want to add on for the
people who are eitherre-watching this or listening to
this you would never be able toguess that Angela has a
(55:47):
20-year-old daughter?
Like it's actually insane.
So I mean, yes, I feel like itshould, it should be said and
what else I would say with thatis because I know that, I know
that I can.
I have my dogs.
I mean, I even feel it with mydogs.
I can only imagine you feelingit with your kids, and I know
that for a fact with my membersand clients that I work with
(56:09):
that a lot of the time they feellike they don't have time
because of their kids.
How have you shifted that?
How do you feel like you're notneglecting them and you're
actually being there for themmore?
And then I have one more lastquestion from Jade so that we
won't keep you too long.
I just wanted to ask that onequestion so that we won't keep
(56:30):
you too long.
Speaker 2 (56:31):
I just wanted to ask that one question.
Yeah, so I like in the mornings, after my energy work or when
they first wake up, I'll likedevote some cuddle time to them.
So we usually like all cuddleand tickle and like say good
morning, and I'm always reallyhappy.
When they wake up I'm like, ohmy gosh, good morning, like I'm
super excited to see them andthat kind of like I feel like
shows them how important theyare to me.
(56:51):
And then I'll be like okay,mommy has to go do her stuff.
And.
And then they know like once Iget my stuff done in the morning
, then in the afternoon, evening, they have my attention, you
know, and usually they're inschool, so it's not as difficult
.
But during the summer they'reall here at home with me.
So yeah, but did you ever?
Speaker 3 (57:11):
do you ever feel like they feel neglected when you're
putting yourself first?
Speaker 2 (57:16):
Sometimes they might say my son reflects me.
So if he says like Mommy, whydo you, why do you not like me,
why do you not want to spendtime with me?
I just say you know, you know Ilove you and I can't wait to
spend time with you during 37minutes in, you know an hour or
something.
And I know also it's areflection for me that I'm, you
know, being hard on myself.
Speaker 3 (57:37):
So yeah, yeah, okay, we have two more questions.
Yeah, so Jade is asking Angelaregarding putting self first and
balancing motherhood, businessand all other areas of life self
first and balancing motherhood,business and all other areas of
life how would you implementthis with a baby?
Speaker 2 (57:58):
Yeah, so I would say, you know, obviously, because
babies aren't going tounderstand like, oh, we're going
to do 37 minutes later.
Speaker 3 (58:02):
Maybe on a subconscious level.
Speaker 2 (58:06):
So I would say, like trying to figure out a schedule
around, like if it were me, Iwould like try to figure a
schedule around nap time, reallymaximize the time that they're
sleeping.
But then also you could evenlike, if they're needing you,
you could even say, like mommyneeds five seconds, like even
just doing it for five seconds,we'll put that in your creator
(58:26):
field, that you come first, yeah, and then opportunities could
come in to where that fiveseconds grows and then you'll
have more time.
So I would say, even if you canonly do it for five seconds,
like take five seconds, take adrink of water, mommy needs some
water, mommy needs this, andthen I'll be right with you.
That's how I would do it.
Speaker 3 (58:46):
So yeah, here again, also because babies need your
attention every moment of theday.
I've been doing the me first Idrink some tea and then pick,
pick you up, etc.
But yeah, so yeah, how wouldyou say?
How would you say that applies,because, I mean, I can't speak
because I haven't had a baby yet.
(59:07):
But I do wonder, like, how muchof the time does the baby need
your attention at every moment,and how much of the time is it
you're feeling like they needyour attention every moment?
Speaker 2 (59:20):
Yeah, yeah, that's a good thing to to intuit, like
how much could your baby like?
I don't know how old your babyis, but you know mine sometimes
I would put in the little playpen and just kind of let them
play, or I'd put them in theirwalker, like trying to intuit a
few things that they could do.
That would give you a littlebit of time.
(59:41):
I would try to just like, yeah,just get creative with that, if
that makes sense, Because, yeah, you definitely still need like
your time too, but I know it's,I know it's more challenging
with a baby, for sure.
Speaker 3 (59:54):
Yeah, yeah, I can only imagine.
I think what Kit had asked wasa 37 minutes.
I think it's answered, kit.
Is that clear for you?
I think the 37 minutes is theundivided attention, so so that
they okay.
Awesome, so that's clear, okay,guys.
Is there any more last minutequestions?
(01:00:15):
Because I know angela has toget to another call as well.
If not, then we're going tofinish it off.
Do you have any last remarks?
You want to add angela?
I'm going to add all her linksin the show notes on the podcast
because I'm going to beuploading this.
I'm just wondering if I might.
(01:00:35):
I'm going to see if I'm goingto upload the entire thing with
the entire Q&A.
I might be doing that and thenI'll be adding in all of your
links so that people can findyou to work with you.
And this is going to be theexception, because normally the
Q&A for people that are not inthe membership will not be
available after one week.
But I think this might be theexception because it's going to
(01:00:55):
be a podcast and I don't know ifAngela might be also sharing it
on her podcast as well, so youcan find it there with all the
links.
So with that, thank you, angela.
So much for joining us.
Is there anything last thingthat you want to add before we
close off?
Thank you, so much.
Speaker 2 (01:01:12):
This was really fun and I loved the live component
of it too, and yeah, thank youso much.
Speaker 3 (01:01:18):
I think it adds really a lot of like, good
questions that people, thatpeople may have that I might not
come up with or and it's justgreat because it helps people in
the moment understandeverything that you're doing.
And you can find Angela also onsocial media on Instagram and
reach out to her there.
So thank you so much everyone.
Speaker 1 (01:01:44):
Thank you for listening to Unveiled.
I always love hearing yourtakeaways, so please connect
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If you leave a review, let meknow and I'll send you a little
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Any resources mentioned in theshow will be linked in the show
(01:02:07):
notes.
Sending you all love.
Welcome to Unveiled the podcast.
I'm your host, angela Christian, and I help you with unveiling
your true self by peeling awaythe layers that society placed
on you.
I do this with a combination ofneuroscience, energetics and
ancient spiritual wisdom.
I went from underpaid andoverworked in corporate America
to launching a six-figurecompany that continues to grow.
(00:26):
I went from toxic relationshipsto being happy and single for
over a year as I worked andcontinue to work on becoming the
best version of myself, and somuch more.
My greatest passion is to helpwomen and mothers heal,
transform and become the highestversions of themselves.
Heal, transform and become thehighest versions of themselves.
(00:46):
As I continue to grow andexpand my intuitive knowledge
and unique wisdom, I'll beincluding you on my journey to
millions, so let's get into it.
Speaker 2 (00:58):
Hello and welcome back to Unveiled.
Today I'm excited to share adifferent type of podcast
episode for you.
So this is actually a recordingof a podcast from last week
that I was on, where my friendand fellow intuitive, manuk,
interviewed me.
So she interviewed me aboutlike my first dark energy, dark
(01:22):
force moments as a child, somethings I haven't shared before,
and then also about the work Ido in relationships, and then
she also had her, some of hermembers on live and they asked
me questions as well.
So it was a really fun episodeand I wanted to share it here
with you as well.
So I will just leave it at that, because it's a long one, so
(01:46):
enjoy.
Speaker 3 (01:47):
Bye.
Yay, we have a full house today, super, super exciting.
So this is also going to beuploaded on the podcast.
So for everybody listening onthe podcast, welcome to the you
Can Call Me Goddess podcast.
Today we have a very specialpodcast slash Q&A.
I'm going to be interviewingAngela.
(02:09):
Angela is a fellow intuitive.
Some of you may already knowher I think a lot of you already
know her a little bit and I'mgoing to be interviewing her and
asking her a little bit abouthow she got into this world, the
intuitive energy healer world.
A little bit of her backstory,if I'm right.
Angela is very much specializedin disconnecting and decoding
(02:31):
people from darker, heavierenergies that include correct me
if I'm wrong hard relationships, hard situations, circumstances
.
Sometimes we keep like aremnants of those situations and
we can't fully disconnect fromthat.
I know for a fact that Isometimes had that too where I
had like a tough friendship thatdidn't go as I wanted it to go
(02:55):
and that person kept sticking inmy mind because I hadn't fully
decoded from that person.
And once you do like, itliterally changes.
And I literally had a thoughtabout her today and I was like,
oh, that's so.
I didn't even think about herin such a long time because I
had disconnected from thisfriend.
So, having said that, I'd liketo welcome Angela on this Q&A
(03:18):
and I'm going to start just byasking for her to introduce
herself a little bit and tell alittle bit about her story and
how she got into all of this.
Speaker 2 (03:28):
Yeah.
So I'm so excited to be hereand I got into this whole world
about in 2016.
My oldest daughter was seeingwhat she called shadow people in
her bedroom at night and I hadno idea like what she was
talking about.
It kind of creeped me out.
And then she started seeingangels and all these different
(03:51):
entities and that kind of justled me on this whole path
because I was like I need toknow what's going on.
And so shortly after thatexperience with her, I started.
I studied all different types ofspiritual programs.
I studied mysticism, shamanism.
I went to a different intuitiveslash energy healing school
(04:14):
where they actually had achild's program as well, and so
she was in the children'sprogram, I was in the adult
program, but no one that I wentto actually talked about like
dark energy, like how to protectyourself from that.
So as she and I were increasingour frequency, our
consciousness, we were alsogetting energetically attacked
and we had no idea what wasgoing on.
(04:34):
So I am so grateful I foundthis world of owl and GLH and
all of that which I hadoriginally started with Ali, as
a lot of us have.
So I took Ali's first threelevels of intuition.
Then I found Al over a year agoand I've just been with him
ever since.
Speaker 3 (04:55):
Yeah, so just to clarify for the people that
don't know much about this world, me and Angela are in the same
intuitive school, I guessspiritual school, energy healer
schools and we all know peoplethrough that school and that's
how we got into this line ofwork and I feel like the same as
Angela.
Well, for me at least, I wasalways searching for something.
(05:18):
I've always felt very spiritualand wanted answers to certain
things.
So this is just like intuitionis literally the greatest thing
in energy healing.
I've always been very muchinterested in it, but I never
thought that we would be able tobe trained to do things like
that.
So that's very cool.
But, angela, what I'd reallylike to hear a little more about
because it's a bit of a touchysubject, right, talking about
(05:43):
shadow people and things likethat and heavier energies, I
know I'm sometimes a littlehesitant still to talk about it
with certain people, while otherpeople are still open to it.
What did you like?
How did you know you were beingattacked?
Did you yourself have anyexperiences with heavier
energies before your daughterstarted saying this stuff?
(06:06):
Like, was there anything elsethat already got you to start,
like, thinking about this kindof things?
Like, did you experience thingslike that, did you think like,
maybe there's like and also like, what did you think?
Like?
Did you think about ghosts?
Did you think about like justpeople sending you dark energy?
Like, how did you look at it?
Speaker 2 (06:25):
Yeah, I mean, as a child I was really into scary
movies, like I would.
I was seven and watching all ofthe horror films and like I
just always had a fascinationwith it, which I'm sure my
parents thought was odd.
But and then I remember playingwith a Ouija board as a child
and had some weird things happen.
(06:47):
Yeah, yeah, it's not a goodidea.
No, not a good idea.
No, and I had a lot of weirdthings, like growing up I would
wake up and like I wouldbasically like look at my sister
and I'd be like she's not mysister, she's my sister.
I would be in this weird worldand my parents were like what is
happening?
Then I would do seances andlike you know, I didn't know
(07:09):
what I was doing, but I wasdefinitely playing around with
energy I should not have.
And then in college there waslike a group of us and we were
all playing with a Ouija board,drinking, and it was just me and
another girl like on the actualboard, and we were like we are
not moving this thing, it'smoving by itself.
And then when we asked it yeah,yeah, I've had that too we
(07:33):
asked it like what do you want?
The little token like flew offthe board at me and I was like,
okay, I'm done.
Like everybody was done.
We were just like what was that?
It was terrifying.
Done.
Like everybody was done.
We were just like what was thatit?
Speaker 3 (07:47):
was terrifying.
That is crazy.
That is crazy.
So, and when you were younger,did you have anything?
So for example, me, I know whenI was younger I couldn't quite
put my finger on it, but Iremember at like age seven,
eight, I started really likebecoming very aware of death and
things like that and I startedreally asking a lot of questions
about life and death and whatwould happen, and I would have
(08:09):
panic attacks in certain areasbecause I could probably feel a
presence or something there.
So I think we spoke about this,that's the rice field discussion
that I spoke to you about.
So I think I had a memory orsomething happened there.
I used to live abroad, in thePhilippines, and as a field trip
we went to rice fields and Iwill never forget that because
when that happened, I just fullon, full blown, had a complete
(08:32):
panic attack there and I waspanicking, asking about death
and things like that.
I could never quite put myfinger on it, and I know that I
had friends that, for example,have seen auras when they were
kids or, like your daughterwould see shadow figures, and
even my partner would see stuffwhen he was younger.
I never had that, but I couldfeel energies in places.
(08:53):
I could never quite put myfinger on it.
So do you have any memories ofthat?
When you were younger, likethings like that other than the
Ouija board and other than beinginterested in, because I was
also interested in scary things,but I would never want to mess
with it, like it freaked me outtoo much.
I already had certain intuitivehits as a child that you know.
For example, I didn't likemirrors in the dark.
(09:15):
I didn't like like I wanted to.
I was very affected by thestory of the ring, so I put like
a blanket over my TV screen.
Yeah, yeah, did you haveanything like that?
Did you see anything?
Speaker 2 (09:31):
Yeah, I actually had some pretty crazy things happen
as a child.
I one time got completelypulled out of my bed by
something and hit the ground alot of dark stuff.
And then one night I didn'twant to go to the bathroom
because there were like little Icalled them little elves on the
floor.
I don't know what.
They're, probably aliens orsomething, I don't know all
kinds of weird stuff like thatlike my dolls.
(09:53):
I was convinced my dolls werealive and like I had that too.
Yeah, so a lot of creepy stufflike that.
Not so much I don't think Ireally dealt with ghosts so much
More just like creepy things,like dark.
And then I also my friend and Icreated this entity named Vane
(10:14):
when we were a kid, and we wouldtalk to it and we would ask
like can we have a sleepovertonight?
We help us have a sleepover,and like obviously we're
probably talking to some darkentity, and we didn't know what
we were doing, though.
Speaker 3 (10:25):
So that's crazy, yeah , you don't know.
Like I also think back of likechildhood stories where I had a
friend who, like this, was alsoin the Philippines.
I remember she, she would tellme like I don't know, like I
would love to dive in and kindof figure out, like so maybe we
(10:46):
can do that one day, figure outwhat was going on there.
She told me that like, see, Ihave this, like I think I had a
beauty spot on my hand and shewould tell me that by clicking
that beauty spot I could speakto my cats and she would speak
to her cats.
But she would tell me thingslike that she, like the night
before had gone through a portaland had slept with anacondas
(11:10):
and things like that.
Yeah, and she would tell melike, and she, even when we were
playing on the playground, shewould say like okay, now we're
entering like a new and Icouldn't see it.
Maybe we were, I don't know,like I don't know, but I was
like like kind of going alongwith it, like part of me like
believed it, part of me didn't.
So it's so funny how, like whenyou're younger right you're
(11:32):
you're a lot more like open tothese things and these energies
and less influenced and blocked.
Yeah, but I've, I have a lot ofcrazy stories like that.
Even my cousin that walked downAmsterdam and he was a little
kid and he was like and he saidto his mom hey, mom, wasn't
there a button story before?
Like way back, and they lookedand there was a button store
(11:53):
like years and years ago, likelike something like that.
So it's really, really, reallycrazy.
So I know.
So my audience is not that likeI, my friends and my family
already know a little bit aboutwhat I do, but my audience is
still getting to know like thedarker energy side of things and
(12:23):
I think I touched upon how,when we're talking about darker
energies, it could even be likereally subliminal things that
are reprogramming our minds andbelief systems and stuff like
that.
So if you were to speak tosomeone that doesn't know much
about heavier, darker energies,first of all, how would you
(12:45):
explain it to someone who's like, okay, what are they talking
about?
And, second of all, how doesthat work?
Because I know you have acouple of programs.
You coach people how to be ableto clear themselves of heavier,
darker energies and you alsohelp people disconnect from
(13:05):
toxic relationships andsituations.
I know you have the what is itthe DBE, dbe, what is it the
clean BDE?
Baby, daddy, energy, right thatone.
And then you have the partygirl detox, I believe, and I
just would love to know.
And also then your your uh,negative energy clearing.
(13:29):
What's it called?
What's it called thereclamation?
Yeah, so reclamation, but alsohow to clear, like heavier
energies right, oh right Lightit up.
Yeah, light it up.
So those are the programs thatyou have.
So when you get someone who islike unsure about this world or
hasn't heard much about this,how do you go about explaining
(13:51):
it to them?
Because I know, for example, Ispoke to my neighbor.
She is religious and believesin source God, however you'd
like to name it.
But when I kind of touched uponthere being potentially heavier
energies, a lot of peoplebelieve it doesn't exist if you
don't pay any attention to it orif you don't do anything with
it.
And then, obviously, how do yougo about it?
(14:12):
When people are like thisgirl's crazy, like what is she
talking about?
How do you go about that?
And especially if you get likenew people coming into your
programs or booking like soulreclamations with you, like how
do you explain, how do you goabout that?
Speaker 2 (14:28):
Yeah.
So I always kind of assess whoI'm talking to first.
If I even want to bring it up,I can just kind of tell like
where they're at on aconsciousness scale if they're
going to understand or acceptwhat I'm going to say either now
or later.
So that's the first thing I do,and if typically people come to
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me, they've already heard mekind of talking about it on my
podcast.
So I don't really get too manypeople who are like I've never
heard of this before.
But what I, what I would say isyou know, just like there's
light in the world, there's dark.
You know, just like there'slight in the world, there's dark
.
And I compare the dark energiesof the world like mosquitoes.
(15:09):
They're just like annoyinglittle things that want to suck
your light and they havedisconnected from the light so
they need to get light fromsomething which is us, you know.
So that's kind of like what Iwould say on a very basic level.
I don't know that I've hadanyone tell me like that.
They don't believe again, Ithink, because I'm only speaking
(15:31):
usually to people who havealready listened to me talk on
my podcast or like in a programof mine.
I don't share a ton of it onInstagram, for example.
Speaker 3 (15:41):
So yes, but it is a bit difficult, right To touch
upon things like that.
But then when you think aboutit, if you go to like the basic
way of explaining it so, forexample, in your clean BDE
program, there are some peoplethat, without knowing it, you
(16:02):
know, when you're like reallyupset with someone and without
you knowing it, you're likesaying things like oh, I wish
they just blank, like somethingnegative.
Right, I'm going to do thatright now, but I wish I just did
this.
And even if it's just like asubconscious thought, our words
have power, right, so they holdenergy.
So, without you knowing it, the, the, you're actually like
(16:25):
putting that energy on thatperson.
So how does that work?
So, walk like explain a littlebit with the clean BDE energy.
Like what do you, what do youdo, for example, in those
situation?
Or the party girl detox, likewhat was the thought process
behind those, those programs andhow could that help people like
step into their power more?
Speaker 2 (16:47):
Yeah, so clean BDE I created because I have three
children from three differentfathers.
I've experienced a lot of likeabuse in the past, which now I
know was all just part of mysoul plan, my reflections, all
of that.
So I created it for other momsto heal from that desire to put
(17:08):
all the blame on the father,create this toxic relationship
which doesn't benefit them,doesn't benefit the children, to
really just become neutral.
So that was my whole plan withClean BDE is become so neutral
about him so that you can be thebest parent, so your energy
isn't getting drained.
So it starts with a lot ofnervous system regulation.
(17:29):
Then it goes to unconsciousreprogramming, so like healing
childhood beliefs, all of thatthrough rapid resolution therapy
, which is like a form ofconversational hypnosis.
Yeah, then, after I get themregulated and like, uh, a lot of
the unconscious reprogramming,then I introduced the energy
(17:51):
component.
So by this time they trust me,they're feeling better.
So I wouldn't just jump in with,like, with the dark force stuff
.
I usually build a relationshipfirst so they understand, like
I'm not just crazy or something.
But then I do explain, like byposting about your ex on
(18:11):
Facebook, for example oh, my exis doing this xyz, you're
actually creating a ritual.
It's actually like when you'rejust saying it to someone else
and you're complaining.
It's kind of like anunconscious ritual.
But once you put it intowriting and other people can see
it, that is a conscious ritualand there's repercussions for
you and you're sending negativeenergy to them, right?
(18:34):
So it's like even at that levelthat would be.
You know what we're talkingabout, with like the darker,
heavier energies.
A lot of times, women will cometo me from groups where they
were encouraged to just labelhim as a narcissist it's all his
fault and like that does feelempowering, maybe for a short
(18:54):
amount of time.
I call it like a sugar rushfeeling of like empowerment.
And then you're like, well, Idon't feel any better, you know,
and it's because you're justlike directing so much negative
energy towards him and you'renot just embodying your own
power.
So like that was the wholeprocess behind clean BDE and
yeah, I had like amazing resultswith the women in there and it
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was just beautiful, developedfriendships with people in there
, and just it was the program Iwanted when I was going through
this stuff.
Speaker 3 (19:24):
Yeah, that's what we all design right at the end of
the day, because it's it's whatwe wish we had and we knew we
know how to walk through all ofthat now.
And so now, as by design, weget to help people with the
things that we struggled with somuch.
But like I love how you saidthat as well, cause I was going
to ask about that as well Likewith this, because we're very
(19:47):
quick to kind of like releaseemotions almost onto someone
else, right, and kind of thinklike that's going to fix the
problem somehow or give us thatsatisfaction.
I know that as well when I hadan argument with my partner like
all you want to do is justscream and get that emotion out,
but it's not.
It's.
I mean, there's there's abenefit to getting the emotion
(20:08):
out, but not when you'redirecting it, maybe to someone
else and you're not feelingempowered in yourself.
So how, how would you explainto someone with, like, putting
that negativity out there, howthat could actually negatively
impact the person themselves?
You know, when you're saying,like he's just a narcissist,
he's this, he's that, he's thatlike, how would that negatively
(20:30):
impact yourself instead of theperson that you're directing it
towards?
Speaker 2 (20:36):
Yeah, so when you are so, there's several things.
One, it's just like law offocus.
You're really focused on theydid this to me like whatever it
is, you're going to start justcalling in more of those people.
You're not going to get to theroot of the issue, the root of
the reflection, so you're goingto just keep seeing it, and this
(20:57):
is what happened to me.
I would be in a really toxicrelationship.
I would leave, I wouldn't healwhat actually happened, and then
the next relationship would beeven worse.
So it's just going to keepescalating and you are actually
also sending what's called likecan think of it like an
energetic arrow.
When you're feeling angrytowards someone, when you're
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like feeling jealous or whateverit is, you are sending an
energetic arrow into theirenergy and that does affect
their energy.
So we don't want to bedirecting dark energy at other
people, right?
So that's like part of it aswell.
Speaker 3 (21:33):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (21:34):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (21:34):
So.
So, with the law of focus,that's like basically the like I
think a lot of people like alsowhen I mentioned it, like
compared to the law ofattraction, a little bit like
when you focus on something, themore you focus on it, the
bigger it becomes.
So if you're constantlyfocusing on how someone is
terrible and bad and not doingwhat you want them to do, then
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what's going to happen?
You're going to get more ofthat.
When you can start seeing thegood in the bad, then you start
getting more of the good insteadof the bad, right?
So what is it that?
There was one more thing thatyou said that I really liked as
well.
Yeah, so, if you can, if youkeep exactly the reflection area
of that we touched upon that alittle bit in some of my
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podcasts as well, mainly withthe body and a little bit now in
your body's magic.
I'm also diving into, like howthe rest of the universe is
doing the same thing, where, ifyou don't work through what the
person is triggering you with,because there's a trigger
happening and the reason you'retriggered right is because there
is an imbalance, so, and if youdon't work through that trigger
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fully, then what the universeis going to send you more
triggers because it wants you tofix that.
So, basically, if you keep doingthat, sending that negative
energy that way, and you don'tactually work through the root
cause, you're going to get moreof that negative energy, and
that's what you don't want.
Right, when you, when you arealready, when you've been
through difficult relationshipsalready, you want to up level
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and get to a better relationshipand get to a better life and
the only way to do that is tostop spreading the negativity,
basically, and disconnectingfrom that negative energy.
So can you explain a little bitwith, like people, how would
you say that, like, we all knowthat the energy vampires, right,
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know that the energy vampiresright, the friends, the people,
family, that we know that like,literally like hook and latch
into you and as soon as you tryto get away from them, they come
back.
Like, how does that work?
Because I know that's a littlebit of what you do with the soul
reclamation, right, you makesure that people are completely
disconnected from one another.
Speaker 2 (23:44):
Yeah, yeah.
So in the soul reclamationsessions I clear all the
energetic arrows from the person, from my client, so that
they're free and clear of all ofthat.
I also clear them of hooks thatare in them.
So a lot of times, like evenparents will hook into you, like
I know I hook my kids and Ihave to clear it because it's
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like you just want to controlthem, you just want you know,
but I did have an ex who hadhooks in me and I didn't realize
it at the time and I kept goingback to him and I was like, why
do I keep going back to him?
Like he wasn't healthy for me.
I would like get rashes everytime I was around him.
It was just like, but there wasa hook now.
Now I know that I didn't knowthat at the time.
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There's also negative emotionalcords and so those are like the
cords, that they're like a bigumbilical cord basically.
And you create these cords withyour parents, oftentimes with
romantic relationships,especially highly emotional,
even friendships, children,clients, emotional, even
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friendships, children, clients,yeah, clients, and we don't want
these cords with anyone.
So you actually give thempieces of your soul and then you
take pieces of their soul.
So in my soul reclamation I'mbasically disconnecting them but
also retrieving the soul piecesback, sending them to them and
then taking my clients soulpieces back, because you cannot
fully heal on a physical leveluntil you have all of your soul
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pieces back.
So it's a really key thing,especially if you're trying to
heal, you have some kind of youknow issue you're working on
physically.
You really need all of yoursoul pieces back to actually get
a full healing.
So my clients have had likeamazing results from
disconnecting and they usuallyfeel like quite a bit of energy
because you're literally gettingpieces of your soul back.
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You start to feel more likeyourself, you start to make more
higher self-aligned choices allof that.
Speaker 3 (25:38):
Yeah, I love that and I actually.
There's one question that cameup for me with someone I was
working with, which was a reallygood question, if you think
about it, and I'm going to letyou explain that one.
When someone cords in, right,we think sometimes, when we are
empathetic beings which mostpeople that I think we work with
(25:59):
because they would be attractedto us anyways we're all like
very empathetic and we want tohelp and we need to change lives
, right.
So I got this question recentlybut isn't it good, when you're
being empathetic and you'rehelping someone, to tap in and
cord into that person's energy?
We've been told, and I used tothink that too, it was good to
connect to that energy, to feelthe feelings of the other person
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.
So why is that actually a badthing?
Yeah, yeah.
Speaker 2 (26:27):
so that is one of the first things I do in a client
session is I put up a gold walland I set the intent that I will
not court into them, because weneed to be completely neutral
for many reasons.
But if we're tapping into theiremotions, their thoughts, we're
not good.
First of all, we're not goingto be able to give them a proper
reading because we're going tobe influenced by their emotions
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and thoughts.
I like that.
And then, yeah, you can form acord and then, if you keep that
cord, you're not doing eachother any bit of service.
So I always put up that goldwall.
I check throughout the sessionthat it's up, because we can
still feel for them and be like,oh, I'm sorry, that sounds
really tough, without gettingemotional.
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Like I get emotional.
I stay very neutral, alsobecause I see the perfection in
everything, but not everybody,you know, is at that place.
Speaker 3 (27:21):
No, no, no, no, yeah, I know for sure, 100%.
Yeah, I think that's such avaluable one because I like what
you said there that youcouldn't even get a clear read,
because I didn't even think ofit like that, because when I was
explaining it I was just likeyou just don't want to be giving
away any of your energy tosomeone else, even if you think
that it's good.
And when you clear the cord youactually only clear the
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negative energy, right, youdon't take away any of the
positivities.
And it's difficult to thinkthat because I know that also
with my mom I have the samething.
It's not coming from a negativeplace that you're courting, in
that you're both courting intoeach other, or that she's
hooking into you.
It's more from like a place ofyou know wanting to keep you
close or protection, or you knowit's always like that can come
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from a good place, but thatdoesn't mean you want that
energy in you basically.
So that's the crazy thing.
And I actually had someone Ithink that was a client I sent
your way.
He was saying that he had hismom, was like hooking into him a
lot and like out of a place oflove, but of like, but I want to
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keep you close.
You know I don't want you to goto do your own thing and,
without them knowing it, they'reactually like doing something
that is negatively impacting theperson.
So, yeah, yeah, so it's reallygood to be able to clear
yourself of that energy.
So how would you say for peoplewho want to be like so my
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audience right, I work to giveyou the ultimate glow up, uh, to
step into your goddess energyand not only physically
transform, but as a result ofphysically transforming and vice
versa, transformingenergetically and really
stepping into your power?
How could clearing theseenergies and disconnecting from
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negativity other than theobvious, like how would that
help you truly step into yourpower and be the woman that
you're meant to be in this life?
Speaker 2 (29:22):
Yeah, great question.
So by disconnecting from all ofthese energies which we also I
don't think I shared this whenwe have a cord with someone, we
are actually sharing emotions,we're sharing thoughts.
So all of their emotions andthoughts and I've corded into.
Actually, by being curiousabout someone, I've corded into
them, into a dark person which Iwouldn't have consciously
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corded into but because I wascurious about them.
Then you start sharing emotions, thoughts that can quickly get
you off your soul pull.
So for me, everything comesback to am I in alignment with
my soul pull?
Because that's what I'm here todo?
And if you're courted into abunch of people, that's going to
really confuse you both from,like, a thought and an emotional
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standpoint.
It could take you off path, itcould make you more influenced
by darker energies, all of that.
Speaker 3 (30:12):
So I basically just like when I'm working with
someone, I feel like I'm justdoing an energetic cleanse, like
an energetic detox of otherpeople's energy, so they can
just be fully in their ownenergy and see their path ahead
without the negative influence,without being how to say like,
yeah, negative influence I waslike their judgment being
(30:33):
clouded or other because we'retaking on other people's
thoughts and, especially ifwe're courted in someone else,
they could potentially hold usback from doing what we should
be doing, which is essentiallyyour soul path.
Is what you're meant to be doinghere in this life, is the power
you're meant to be steppinginto, which we all are, and I
think that that's a veryimportant thing to say that,
without us knowing it, theseheavier energies could be
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holding us back from tappinginto our full power and our full
potential.
Right, and we can blame it onother external factors, when, in
fact, we have complete and fullcontrol of making sure that
that stuff doesn't influence usanymore, and so that's really
cool.
It's also puts a lot of like,it can put a lot of pressure on
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yourself that you have the fullpower.
But when you look at it fromthe other perspective, of being
like, hey, I literally have thepower to shift everything and
change everything, which justchanges your life in so many
more ways than just one, and Iwanted to ask you, angela, what
have you experienced aftergetting into this work and being
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able to disconnect from theseenergies and help others do that
.
How has that impacted your lifeand changed your life?
Speaker 2 (31:50):
Oh my gosh, so much.
There's so many things I couldsay, I mean.
But I just have clear thoughtsand I can tell when I if I'm on
social media and there's tons ofcontagions on there.
So if I start thinking aboutsomething, I can immediately
tell when I'm starting to go offtrack and then just like
disconnect myself.
So just having that feeling andrepetition of like staying on
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path with my true self, my truepath, is really empowering.
Just you know, I decided totake a break from dating two
years ago and just focus onmyself and my kids and my
business.
I've never done that before.
I wouldn't have been able tomake that decision without a
clear, you know head.
So there's just been so manyamazing things, yeah.
Speaker 3 (32:35):
I really I that's that's really really cool and
yeah, I think it's veryimportant that people are aware
of this stuff, at least that youknow.
Sometimes it's a lot of thetime, it's not even your own
thoughts, it's not even your ownbeliefs that you're carrying
around, and yet it's influencingyour decisions.
So, being able to differentiatebetween what is yours and what
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isn't yours and being able toclear that energy makes such a
big difference, even when itcomes to, for example, what I
coach on as well, and your bodytransforming like limiting
belief systems that have beenbrought down to you and they
keep getting reinforced.
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If you keep connecting to thatperson right, that's giving you
those limiting belief systems.
So, for example, your parents,a lot of the time, are giving
you limited belief systems andyou're making them your own.
And when you can differentiatebetween what's yours and what's
not, that really changes so manythings.
And that is like the crazything is we're talking about
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like ghosts and darker energies,aliens, demons, things like
that.
To some people it soundsabsolutely insane, but when you
kind of like, it soundsabsolutely insane.
But when you kind of like likenarrow it down to just someone
sending you negative energy andthings like that.
It becomes a little morepalatable, and then you can
start seeing, like how it can bein so many other areas, right
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and yeah, and then it becomes alittle bit more like oh, maybe
that is possible, because youcan't see everything, you can't
see all energy, unless you'refully clairvoyant, which I'm on
a mission to become.
I know that you see thingsright, angela.
Yeah, yeah, that's cool, oralso a little bit scary.
Speaker 2 (34:26):
Yeah, I don't see things as clearly as my oldest
daughter.
She sees Really as if they'rejust standing there, as your
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oldest daughter does.
Like shut it off.
Yeah, sometimes she'll see it,but she used to when she was
really into studying and likegrowing her intuition and all of
that.
She would just say like, oh,mom, there's a ghost here and
she would like explain exactlywhat the woman was wearing.
She would say like oh, shedoesn't see us.
She's in like a differentdimension.
She would just like explain thewhole thing to me.
So what did you?
Speaker 3 (35:10):
do.
What did you do?
Speaker 2 (35:12):
I was just like in awe because I couldn't see her,
you know, and yeah, so it waspretty wild.
Speaker 3 (35:19):
well, I had my first.
I think well, maybe I've had itbefore, but I had, because I
was on a trip my firstexperience opening my eyes.
I was I was fully awake.
I know that I was fully awakeand I saw someone at the foot
end of my bed, so that was fun,yay.
I don't like this, like I'mdoing all my tricks to get rid
of it.
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I'm like I don't even know whatit is right now Because I'm
half asleep.
Speaker 2 (35:43):
Yeah, but yeah, I know I'm like, why do they
always come at night, likethat's what bothers me why does
it have to be scary?
Speaker 3 (35:51):
yeah, and I even think about like back when my,
when my grandfather passed away,I was 10 years old.
The thing is, I've alwaysbelieved in this stuff and I
remember and I'm pretty sure Icould probably go back now and
intuitively maybe read what wasgoing on there but I went to his
office and I remember like thelights really like flickering
and there was wind andeverything, and I was like, oh
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my God, I think he's here.
You know what I mean Like, andit's very possible that he was.
Oh yeah, yeah, for sure.
Speaker 2 (36:18):
Yeah, I actually.
I forgot actually until youjust said that I had a similar
thing with when my grandmotherpassed away.
We and I was sitting one nightout in the dining room crying.
I was missing her, I was 12.
And then all of a sudden Ismelled her perfume and this
curtain just like flew up and Iwas the only one out there.
But I was like I just knew itwas like her.
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It was very like within days ofher, like passing or something.
Speaker 3 (36:44):
Yeah, that's crazy.
That's crazy.
Yeah, I've always beenintrigued by all of this and I
just love diving into all ofthis information.
So is there anything else?
Angela, before I ask everybodyif they have any questions that
they want to ask you, is thereanything else you want to share
about your story and what you do?
Speaker 2 (37:05):
right now I'm.
I have focused a lot in thepast on just helping moms.
I have broadened that out toyou know, like you sent a mail
my way, so it is broader now.
Speaker 3 (37:19):
I sent a mail your way.
Here you go.
Oh my God.
Speaker 2 (37:26):
I love how you said that.
Yeah, al told me he's like youneed to open up your base, like
so that sounded so funny.
But yeah, so I help mothers,women, anybody who's having
issues with.
I do a lot of work aroundpeople who find themselves in
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relationship patterns they don'twant to be in anymore
themselves in relationshippatterns they don't want to be
in anymore.
I do a lot of the soulreclamation sessions for people
on anything from like parents,exes, even situations I've done
it on like near deathexperiences.
I do have longer reads to whereI incorporate the timeline
healings of like the past andthe future, which I do on myself
(38:08):
.
Often those are really fun.
So I've been doing a lot ofthose sessions.
But yeah, I mean I basically doanything, but obviously I have
like a specialty aroundrelationships.
Speaker 3 (38:21):
Yeah, and that's the interesting thing, because I do
a lot of the same things thatAngela does in certain areas,
but mine is focused on specificareas and hers are focused on
and we all design it in our ownway with our own tools.
So it's very cool to see howwe're all targeting different
issues and things that we'veobviously experienced.
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Like I've experienced thesethings and you've experienced.
I haven't experienced whatyou've experienced.
So, yeah, so like I I also Idon't have kids yet I haven't,
thankfully, had abusiverelationships or difficult.
I've had difficultrelationships, but not in that
way.
So it's that will give you likea different way of approaching
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these things and connecting withpeople and obviously also all
of the other courses andexpertise that you have in those
areas.
So that's that's really cool,and also it's really good for
people to understand that youhave in those areas.
So that's really cool.
And also it's really good forpeople to understand that you
can also disconnect.
That's why the Party Girl DetoxI really like that, because we
think, okay, that's somethingthat's happened in the past, but
maybe you've still got someenergies from that past that you
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can't let go of, like evenpeople that struggle, like if
you're trying to achievesomething in your life.
If that is a dream body, dreamlife, more success and you've
struggled with addiction, forexample, in the past and I have
some people in my circle thathave that struggle that could be
due to darker energies that arestill latching onto you, and if
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you can get rid of thoseenergies, that will make it a
lot easier for you to step intoyour power.
So that's really cool and Ireally like what you're doing
there.
So, if it's all right with you,angela, let's see if anybody has
any questions.
Feel free to turn on yourcamera if you want, you can do
it in the chat, whatever you'recomfortable with, and if
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anybody's ready or has anyquestions, you can start now.
Let's see if anybody comes up.
No one so far.
Oh, there's one.
I love the party.
This is Leanne.
I love the name.
Party Girl Detox.
How do you begin todifferentiate between thoughts
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and energy that are yours andthose that are not?
Speaker 2 (40:40):
Yeah, thank you.
I love that name too.
It just like came to me in afunny way.
But how to begin todifferentiate between thoughts
and energy.
So there are a lot of energetictechniques that I can do for my
clients and some of my clients.
I'll actually teach them how todo there's very simple ones
with the thought and energy, tomake sure that they're your
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thoughts and they're your energy.
So the in the party girl detox,I actually do a cord cutting
from someone like like, let'ssay, you had a traumatic
experience or just an experienceyou regretted, like you went
home with someone you wish youwouldn't have, or like something
like that.
I do that.
But then I also do a pasttimeline healing on that.
Speaker 3 (41:23):
I love that as well, yeah, so it's like I didn't even
think of that.
I love that yeah.
Speaker 2 (41:29):
I like I attack it from all angles and so when you
start getting your energy piecesback, you start to notice it's
hard to explain like how to, howI noticed, but like you just
feel more aligned and there'scertain questions that you can
ask intuitively, like if they'reyour thoughts, or you could
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simply just say, like thesethoughts are mine, you know, and
like you might get a yes or ano, but it just is almost like,
as you get your energy piecesback, you just start to notice,
like what are your thoughts,what are not?
If that makes sense, Let meknow if I didn't answer that.
Speaker 3 (42:04):
I do remember a technique to do it quickly.
It's where you tap on the heartthree times right and you say
these thoughts are my own.
These thoughts are my own.
These thoughts are my own, andif they disappear?
Speaker 2 (42:17):
they are not yours yeah.
Yeah, yeah, that's one of the.
I think we learned that inlevel.
Speaker 3 (42:21):
Level one, I'm pretty sure.
Yeah, yeah, that's a great one.
If you can't let go of a way,of a way overdue, toxic
relationship, is it alwaysbecause of cords and hooks and
dark energies?
I like that.
That's a good question, kit.
Speaker 2 (42:40):
Yes, good question, dark energy but it's not like a
dark energy being, it's just,yes, there's cords and hooks
that need to be disconnected.
That is a big sign for me is ifsomeone still thinks about a
relationship from 15 years ago,even if it wasn't, like they
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don't want to be with thatperson, but it's still very much
on their mind, they keep havinglike flashes of memories.
That's a big sign that there'sjust a cord there and that you
need to have that disconnected.
Speaker 3 (43:11):
So yeah, and that can be misconstrued as we're meant
to be, or something like thatright.
Yes, yes, I just thought ofthat.
I was like I know when youthink I've had that very much
like this toxic connection tosomeone where I was like I think
this is my soulmate when infact it was just like being
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hooked into someone or accordedinto someone and then
misconstruing that, or themdoing that to you even, which
makes you feel like you're meantto be together energetically.
That's not the case.
Speaker 2 (43:44):
Yeah, and then you'll notice, like if you get the
cord cut and the hooks taken out, and then you're like I also in
a final step where I make it sothat they can't cord back into
you and you won't cord back intothem, so, yeah, the difference,
you'll be like oh, like I don'teven want to think about that
Exactly.
Speaker 3 (44:03):
But we know that feeling right when you're like
why was I so into this person?
Like for what reason?
But when you're in the thick ofit, like you don't, you don't
know, or you're just so hip,like almost like hypnotized
right by by the situation.
Yeah, sorry, anyone else haveany questions, guys, about this?
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About anything else?
Oh, no more questions, maybethey're coming in.
Is there anything you want toadd anymore, angela?
Anything that you think wouldbe helpful for people to know
about any of this?
Like, what is your favoritepart of this, the work that you
do?
Speaker 2 (44:47):
My favorite part is definitely like the energy work,
whether it's helping someoneclear dark energy.
So a lot of times, darkenergies can make you think dark
thoughts, they can make youcrave certain things like.
And then when you find outthat's not actually you, it's
not like you don't have an issue.
It's this dark entity.
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And when it's gone you're like,oh my gosh, I feel so clear now
.
So those are my favorite things.
And then all the you knowunhooking the timeline, healings
, all of that.
Speaker 3 (45:18):
So Okay, we're getting some, some questions in,
as you're you're saying, but Iwant to just touch upon that as
well.
Yeah, it's really cool becauseeven if you're like trying to
get into fitness and things likethat right, like that's why it
also intrigues me very much Likeif you're craving sweets all
the time and that's not evenyour own energy that's craving
it, but yes, there's obviously areflective part of why that's
(45:40):
happening.
But then that darker entity ordarker energy will make that
worse.
So when you remove that darkerenergy, it will make it easier
for you to disconnect from thatcraving or things like that.
Yeah, okay, so we got anotherone from Kit.
Could it also has something todo with soul contracts?
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Are the hooks and the cordspart of that?
Speaker 2 (46:06):
Yeah, good question.
So we have something calledlike soul connection cords.
Those are somewhere else.
We keep those, we do not touchthose.
We clear up.
We should never have any hooksor cords the emotional cords
with anyone soul contracts, thatwould be something different.
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So if you feel like you'rebeing called to someone from the
past and you're not sure ifit's a soul contract, I would
definitely recommend likeclearing the cords and hooks
from that person and then youknow, we can always look in
intuitively and see is it a soulcontract, is it something else?
But there are soul contracts.
Maybe you mean this.
Like I had a soul contract tobe with my ex who was abusive
that was very much part of mysoul contract.
To have a son with him, toexperience these things and then
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to move on, to finally stand upfor myself, which is like the
law of opposing forces.
You finally stand up foryourself.
Then you kind of like shut downthat old pattern.
So there are soul contractslike that where it's very much
part of who you were supposed tobe with at that time.
Speaker 3 (47:12):
So I love what you're saying there, cause that just
made something come up for me aswell, which I think is very
important for people tounderstand, and it's something
that I some people can grasp andothers can't.
These difficult situations, thethings that you've been through
, angela, are not easy.
They're difficult.
Most people wish they didn'thave to go through all of that.
Right, but when you startlooking at it from how this has
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allowed you to grow and become astronger person, like it's a
hard question to ask, but even Ihad this with my partner,
because he had a very difficultchildhood, and a friend of mine
also.
And if you can look at it andsee how it's actually perfect
that all of that stuff hashappened to you.
And in fact, if you want to goand take it to past life
situations, the people that areyour worst enemies in this life
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could have actually been likethe greatest love of your life
or the people that you lovedmost in a previous life.
And I can let you explain,angela, like why would that be?
Speaker 2 (48:14):
Yeah, because only someone who loves you so much
would actually sign up to hurtyou, to have to live with
themselves for treating you acertain way.
So you know one of my exes.
He has to live forever knowinghe physically hurt me several
times and like he would only dothat.
I know we were in past, I knowsome of our past lives so like I
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can see, I can just see it on asoul level, how much he loves
me.
But I would never like.
That doesn't mean I want to gobe friends with him in this life
.
It's just we're neutral, we'retotally fine, like if I see him
I give him a hug, I've totallyneutralized it amazing that you
can do that after all of that bythe way.
Speaker 3 (48:58):
Yeah, and that's very empowering, I think.
And also, but why would someonethat?
Speaker 2 (49:00):
loves you so much in a past life, want to do that to
you yeah, because they know youneed that lesson.
So before you come into thislife, you sit and you say, okay,
I need to learn this.
Will you play this role for me?
Basically?
And only someone that loves youis going to sacrifice
themselves Like he's going tohave to.
He doesn't have to suffer, buthe signed up to suffer with that
, knowing he did those things.
(49:21):
And only someone that reallyloves you would sign up for that
.
Speaker 3 (49:24):
Which is very hard for some people to grasp and
understand.
Okay, so we have a questionfrom Cassie.
Uh, so, as a clean BDE alum, oh, I completely, yes, yeah, see,
completely shifted myrelationship with my ex to one
that is very positive I knowthis cause Cassie's in my
membership and it's incredibleUh to one that is very positive
(49:49):
for co-parenting, which is ahuge miracle.
Thanks, angela.
Lately we are having an issuewith a big disagreement over how
he chose to bring his newgirlfriend into my kids' lives.
Oh fun, how can I get to thefeeling, to feeling good with
other, with our sorry coparenting, when I disagree with
(50:13):
his approach and how it'saffecting our kids?
Speaker 2 (50:18):
Hmm, okay, good question.
So I would start withneutralizing, which I know is
always hard to do, especiallywhen there's kids involved, and
I've been there before where myex would bring all these girls
around my child.
So you could start looking atlike, let's say, there's like
(50:40):
five negative reasons why heshould not be bringing her
around your kids.
If it were me, I would sit downand I would come up with you
know kids.
If it were me, I would sit downand I would come up with you
know like seven reasons why it'sa positive thing.
And that can take some likecreativity, because it's not a
super easy thing to do.
I would also look at, let mejust see, I would also look at
(51:04):
how this will, how this couldactually help your relationship.
So if you guys were, if youwere able to see it as perfect
to neutralize it, maybe this isjust a reflection that you could
help clear once you becomeneutral to it.
So it might be like you know, ahigh level reflection for you
(51:26):
to neutralize and then you'llhave growth from it, your kids
will have growth from it, yourguys' relationship will have
growth from it.
So I would say like the firstthing to do is just to see it as
perfect, even though I knowthat's hard, I know it's really
hard to do and list out, like,even if you can just list out
like three reasons why it's apositive thing for you or him.
(51:48):
Like maybe it'll make himhappier, maybe that means he'll
make more money, maybe thatmeans he'll give you more money,
maybe you know, and it just ittakes some creativity but that's
what I would do.
To get back to a neutral.
You don't have to feel goodabout the situation that he's
bringing, like the girl around,but you could try to.
(52:09):
I mean, you might, you might belike oh yeah, that's going to
make him happier.
He's going to maybe let youhave the kids more.
He's going to go on trips,you're going to get the kids
more.
Like just trying to think ofpositive ways to neutralize it.
Speaker 3 (52:21):
Yeah.
I hope that helps, yeah, andsometimes the thing is with
these things like it's likesometimes annoying advice, you
know it's going to get you know.
It's like sometimes annoyingadvice, you know it's gonna get,
you know it's gonna get youwhere.
Because I know that feelinglike, oh, yeah, I know I need to
do that, but I don't feel likedoing that right now, you know.
And then you're like, Okay,cool, I get it, I need to do
(52:42):
that, I love that.
So one question actually,because you know I work with
people, with women, who want toachieve their dream bodies and
also achieve their dream life.
Like, from the perspective of aparent, what would you tell
women with kids?
Like to start prioritizingthemselves and stepping into
(53:07):
their power themselves.
And stepping into their power,Like what has been a major game
changer for you to be able togrow your business and and and
do what you want to do and takecare of your body, take care of
yourself.
Um, how, like, how have youbeen able to do that and be the
(53:27):
best mom or, as a result, be thebest mom that you can be?
Speaker 2 (53:34):
Yeah, great question.
Oh, I like one of the firstthings I say when I wake up is
like I come first and I just saythat all day and I already
connect it to by putting myselffirst.
My kids will benefit.
So I get up, I do my own thingIf they bother me.
Oh, mommy's doing her stuffright now, so I'll be with you
in a minute and I just stickwith the boundaries.
(53:55):
I also my son knows he's five,but I give him 37 minutes every
day of undivided attention.
So he'll ask me mom, when canwe do 37 minutes?
And I'll just say, oh, that'sso cute, yeah.
And then I always say, like youknow, mommy's going to the gym
and it's like kids learn bywatching us, not by what we tell
(54:17):
them to do.
And I've managed to maintain areally great relationship with
my 20 year old, who canliterally call me and tell me
anything, and I do not judge her.
Sometimes I'm tempted to saysomething motherly, but I, I
asked myself, I just kind ofpause before I say anything like
negative to my children when Ican't.
Obviously I'm not perfect, butshe called out sick the other
(54:39):
day because she'd been up latewith her boyfriend and the
mother in me wanted to say likewell, you shouldn't call out
sick, you know.
But I just said, okay, well, Ihope you feel better.
And then she ended up her work,told her that if she ever calls
out sick, she can't come backfor like two days because it's a
food service place.
So now.
I'm never calling out sick againbecause she likes having the
(55:00):
money.
So she like learned her ownlesson.
So it's it's just finding thatbalance between we don't have to
like tell them what to do allthe time.
It's better for us to putourselves first and then they
can watch what we're doing.
I have a very set kind of likeschedule.
They know, in the mornings I doenergy work, I do client calls.
They do test my boundariessometimes, but then I know it's
(55:23):
a reflection for me.
Speaker 3 (55:24):
So yeah, but what I think is so cool, angela as well
, like you're just so, soconfident in that, like you've
literally like almost trainedthem to know, like this is now
mommy time and then I have the37 minutes for you.
Do you ever feel like also Ijust want to add on for the
people who are eitherre-watching this or listening to
this you would never be able toguess that Angela has a
(55:47):
20-year-old daughter?
Like it's actually insane.
So I mean, yes, I feel like itshould, it should be said and
what else I would say with thatis because I know that, I know
that I can.
I have my dogs.
I mean, I even feel it with mydogs.
I can only imagine you feelingit with your kids, and I know
that for a fact with my membersand clients that I work with
(56:09):
that a lot of the time they feellike they don't have time
because of their kids.
How have you shifted that?
How do you feel like you're notneglecting them and you're
actually being there for themmore?
And then I have one more lastquestion from Jade so that we
won't keep you too long.
I just wanted to ask that onequestion so that we won't keep
(56:30):
you too long.
Speaker 2 (56:31):
I just wanted to ask that one question.
Yeah, so I like in the mornings, after my energy work or when
they first wake up, I'll likedevote some cuddle time to them.
So we usually like all cuddleand tickle and like say good
morning, and I'm always reallyhappy.
When they wake up I'm like, ohmy gosh, good morning, like I'm
super excited to see them andthat kind of like I feel like
shows them how important theyare to me.
(56:51):
And then I'll be like okay,mommy has to go do her stuff.
And.
And then they know like once Iget my stuff done in the morning
, then in the afternoon, evening, they have my attention, you
know, and usually they're inschool, so it's not as difficult
.
But during the summer they'reall here at home with me.
So yeah, but did you ever?
Speaker 3 (57:11):
do you ever feel like they feel neglected when you're
putting yourself first?
Speaker 2 (57:16):
Sometimes they might say my son reflects me.
So if he says like Mommy, whydo you, why do you not like me,
why do you not want to spendtime with me?
I just say you know, you know Ilove you and I can't wait to
spend time with you during 37minutes in, you know an hour or
something.
And I know also it's areflection for me that I'm, you
know, being hard on myself.
Speaker 3 (57:37):
So yeah, yeah, okay, we have two more questions.
Yeah, so Jade is asking Angelaregarding putting self first and
balancing motherhood, businessand all other areas of life self
first and balancing motherhood,business and all other areas of
life how would you implementthis with a baby?
Speaker 2 (57:58):
Yeah, so I would say, you know, obviously, because
babies aren't going tounderstand like, oh, we're going
to do 37 minutes later.
Speaker 3 (58:02):
Maybe on a subconscious level.
Speaker 2 (58:06):
So I would say, like trying to figure out a schedule
around, like if it were me, Iwould like try to figure a
schedule around nap time, reallymaximize the time that they're
sleeping.
But then also you could evenlike, if they're needing you,
you could even say, like mommyneeds five seconds, like even
just doing it for five seconds,we'll put that in your creator
(58:26):
field, that you come first, yeah, and then opportunities could
come in to where that fiveseconds grows and then you'll
have more time.
So I would say, even if you canonly do it for five seconds,
like take five seconds, take adrink of water, mommy needs some
water, mommy needs this, andthen I'll be right with you.
That's how I would do it.
Speaker 3 (58:46):
So yeah, here again, also because babies need your
attention every moment of theday.
I've been doing the me first Idrink some tea and then pick,
pick you up, etc.
But yeah, so yeah, how wouldyou say?
How would you say that applies,because, I mean, I can't speak
because I haven't had a baby yet.
(59:07):
But I do wonder, like, how muchof the time does the baby need
your attention at every moment,and how much of the time is it
you're feeling like they needyour attention every moment?
Speaker 2 (59:20):
Yeah, yeah, that's a good thing to to intuit, like
how much could your baby like?
I don't know how old your babyis, but you know mine sometimes
I would put in the little playpen and just kind of let them
play, or I'd put them in theirwalker, like trying to intuit a
few things that they could do.
That would give you a littlebit of time.
(59:41):
I would try to just like, yeah,just get creative with that, if
that makes sense, Because, yeah, you definitely still need like
your time too, but I know it's,I know it's more challenging
with a baby, for sure.
Speaker 3 (59:54):
Yeah, yeah, I can only imagine.
I think what Kit had asked wasa 37 minutes.
I think it's answered, kit.
Is that clear for you?
I think the 37 minutes is theundivided attention, so so that
they okay.
Awesome, so that's clear, okay,guys.
Is there any more last minutequestions?
(01:00:15):
Because I know angela has toget to another call as well.
If not, then we're going tofinish it off.
Do you have any last remarks?
You want to add angela?
I'm going to add all her linksin the show notes on the podcast
because I'm going to beuploading this.
I'm just wondering if I might.
(01:00:35):
I'm going to see if I'm goingto upload the entire thing with
the entire Q&A.
I might be doing that and thenI'll be adding in all of your
links so that people can findyou to work with you.
And this is going to be theexception, because normally the
Q&A for people that are not inthe membership will not be
available after one week.
But I think this might be theexception because it's going to
(01:00:55):
be a podcast and I don't know ifAngela might be also sharing it
on her podcast as well, so youcan find it there with all the
links.
So with that, thank you, angela.
So much for joining us.
Is there anything last thingthat you want to add before we
close off?
Thank you, so much.
Speaker 2 (01:01:12):
This was really fun and I loved the live component
of it too, and yeah, thank youso much.
Speaker 3 (01:01:18):
I think it adds really a lot of like, good
questions that people, thatpeople may have that I might not
come up with or and it's justgreat because it helps people in
the moment understandeverything that you're doing.
And you can find Angela also onsocial media on Instagram and
reach out to her there.
So thank you so much everyone.
Speaker 1 (01:01:44):
Thank you for listening to Unveiled.
I always love hearing yourtakeaways, so please connect
with me on Instagram that Angela, marie, christian and feel free
to tag me when you share itwith your friends.
Every single review matters andit helps me reach more people
who want to improve this world.
If you leave a review, let meknow and I'll send you a little
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Any resources mentioned in theshow will be linked in the show
(01:02:07):
notes.
Sending you all love.
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