February 18, 2025 • 30 mins
Understanding the impact of energetic bonds is crucial for personal healing and empowerment.
This episode explores four types of energetic ties—hooks, umbilical cords, vampire cords, and arrows—that can hinder our emotional progress and offers insights on how to clear them.
• Discussing the importance of recognizing and releasing energetic hooks
• Exploring umbilical cords and their influence on emotions
• Identifying energetic vampires and their draining effects
• Understanding energetic arrows and how they manifest
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Speaker 1 (00:05):
Welcome to Unveiled, the podcast.
I'm your host, angela Christian, and I help you with unveiling
your true self by peeling awaythe layers that society placed
on you.
I do this with a combination ofneuroscience, energetics and
ancient spiritual wisdom.
I went from underpaid andoverworked in corporate America
to launching a six-figurecompany that continues to grow.
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I went from toxic relationshipsto being happy and single for
over a year as I worked andcontinue to work on becoming the
best version of myself, and somuch more.
My greatest passion is to helpwomen and mothers heal,
transform and become the highestversions of themselves.
As I continue to grow andexpand my intuitive knowledge
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and unique wisdom, I'll beincluding you on my journey to
millions, so let's get into it.
Hello and welcome back toUnveiled.
Today I have a short podcastepisode for you on the four
energetic issues you might havewith an ex, or really with
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anybody in your life.
As you'll hear, this will helpyou identify if you're having
any kind of unhealthy energeticties with anybody in your past.
These energetic bonds canexplain why you might feel stuck
, drained, unable to fully moveforward in your life.
I felt such a release when Ilearned how to clear all four of
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these.
So definitely listen.
It's also important to notethat until you clear these four
different types of bondsenergetic bonds they can
actually prevent you fromhealing fully.
So if you were someone like mewho for a very long time was
always looking externally forhealings from people before I
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knew how to heal myself, it'snot going to work entirely
because these bonds are going tohave you exchanging negative
energy and emotions with otherpeople.
So until you clear these, youwon't even reap the benefits of
an actual healing, even if it'sa really good healing.
So the first one we're going totalk about are energetic hooks.
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So an energetic hook is almostlike a boomerang.
So you like, throw it out andthat comes back to you, right?
So this can show up in yourlife like an ex you keep
returning to, or a toxicfriendship that you keep finding
yourself back in, or a negative, toxic parent which side note,
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I will explain at the end how todeal with toxic people as well.
A little quick, briefdiscussion.
So an energetic hook can justfeel like no matter how many
times you try to distanceyourself from someone, you keep
getting pulled back to them andthey're almost like a little
chain.
Right, they cast a chain outand that hooks into you and it
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can actually hook into differentparts of your body.
So, as I've explained, we havean energetic body which is much
larger than our physical body.
So all disease and issuesactually start in your energetic
body, in the in the way ofreflections, which I'm going to
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dive into in my membershipbecause I've had so many people
asking me about reflections.
So reflections are actually away for your higher self or your
guides, whomever, to get yourattention and say, hey, like,
look into this, right.
So if you keep ignoring all ofthat, let's say you're really
angry about something someonedid to you, right, which is a
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whole different topic.
I could do an entire episode onthat.
I actually talk about that inmy programs.
But let's say somebody, youfeel like somebody did something
to you and you're pissed off.
I'm actually thinking about afamily member right now who
tells me that she's not angryabout this person.
But the second someone bringsup the person's name.
She, like you, can just seethat she has all this anger and
I've explained to her anger andresentment in the body for a
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long time turns into cancer.
So that is why you'll seepeople have cancer in different
areas.
A lot of women who have beencheated on develop issues in
their reproductive areas.
I know a woman who got a tumorin her neck.
She had a very, very hard timeseeing anybody else's side of an
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issue and any neck issues arealways related to not seeing
both sides of a story becausethere's equal positives and
negatives to literallyeverything.
That's a very high frequencyway to think.
It's not how we've been taughtto think, it's not the normie
way of thinking, but that islike source truth.
That is the way Jesus thinks,buddha.
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All of them right, so they cansee equal parts positive and
negative to everything.
So, getting back to this, myfamily member who's very angry I
tried to explain this to her.
But the way that we feelsomeone is being to us, there's
two reasons and I've talkedabout this before, but just as a
refresher.
Else, if you're a older soul,higher frequency soul, then it's
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something you're doing toyourself.
So I will have an episode,probably the next episode.
I'll dive into this a little bitdeeper, like how to kind of
translate these issues, and I'mgoing to drop an audio in
unbonded as a bonus, actually tohelp people with this, because
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I see so many mothers and womenthat come to me and they're just
very angry with their ex and Ican see the bigger picture for
them and I don't, and I want toclear that anger for them
because I don't want to see themhaving health issues and all of
that right.
It's just not worth it when allrelationships are either a sole
contract thing which means youguys agreed to these things
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before you incarnated here orit's a creator field thing.
So, as I've shared, I'll alwaysthrow myself under the bus here
as someone who was beatingherself up from a very young age
.
I would.
I would attract men, even menwho had never had a history of
abuse, who would be verballyabusive, physically abusive,
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emotionally abusive.
You know, I never felt like Iwas good enough, so then they
would reflect that to me as well.
Now I can look back and Iappreciate them actually for
doing those things, because theyeither agreed to that on a soul
level, a soul contract level,or they were just simply
stepping in to play a role in mymovie, because we're all in our
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own Truman show where I neededto cast someone in my show to be
abusive to me so that I'dfinally wake up and say enough.
So these people are actuallyhelping us, even though it
doesn't feel like that from ahuman 3D lower frequency level.
So, okay, getting back here gota little sidetracked, okay.
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So an energetic hook whensomeone has a hook in you, it's
harder to fully walk away.
That's why, you know, I've hadrelationships in the past where
I kept going back to someone andI couldn't really explain why
they weren't like the best.
It's just like I just keptgoing back to them.
Then I found out all of thisstuff and I was like, okay, this
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makes sense.
So they might feel your energyand they're like, oh my God, I
love her energy, which can betwo things actually, and I'll
get into the other one and theymight just hook into you, right,
and it's usually not aconscious thing, although there
are conscious rituals wherepeople do this to people to
actually make them sick.
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I'll explain that in a second.
But so that's energetic hooks.
In unbonded.
I actually share how to findthese and clear them, both in
unbonded and my lighted upprogram actually, because this
is a dark force topic as well.
So the second energetic bond issomething called an umbilical
cord.
So umbilical cords are naturalenergetic connections, like to
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people usually that we love,like our parents, our partners,
our friends, even mentors, butthey are never something we
should actually have, and I'llexplain why.
They do create a deep emotionaltie, but what that does is it
makes your emotions influencedby theirs.
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So if you've ever seen themovie which is one of my
favorite Practical Magic withNicole Kidman and Sandra Bullock
, at one point they cut theirhands and put them together and
rub their blood together Like myblood is your blood, right?
It's kind of a similar conceptwith what I would call negative
umbilical cords, in that, youknow, with the family member I
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mentioned earlier who was veryangry.
Until I cleared my umbilicalcord with her, I would take on
her anger and I could feel it asmy own and that is not healthy,
right.
So I noticed a huge shift andI've feel it as my own and that
is not healthy, right.
So I noticed a huge shift andI've actually had to cut the
cord with her several times,because if they're an important
person in your life, it's easyto let your uh protection,
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energetic protection down whichI do give in unbonded and light
it up, and my membershipactually, because it's very
important.
So I want all my people to beprotected.
The second, that you kind offeel bad for somebody.
All of your protection drops.
So there is a way to feel likesympathy for someone but setting
the intention like I am notgoing to drop my protection
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right now.
You know so anyone you've beenintimate with you have an
umbilical cord.
With any like toxicrelationship, whether it's
friendship or partnership oreven a work situation, you have
a cord with likely.
So if it's hard for you to likeseparate your feelings from how
they're feeling, it's definitelya negative umbilical cord and
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this is different than a soulconnection bond.
So this isn't what I'm talkingabout.
We do have, like soulconnection bonds those we aren't
cutting.
Those are different, adifferent topic.
But what I'm talking about isthe negative energetic cord that
we have with people and I sharea very detailed process, much
different than anywhere you'velikely heard.
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I even used to do a differentenergetic cord cutting.
This one is much more advancedand you will feel a shift
immediately.
You'll feel this like sense ofrelief, but also a flood of
positive energy, because whatalso happens is you're mixing
your soul pieces with their soulpieces.
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They're getting some of yoursoul, you're getting some of
their soul.
We don't want that.
We need to be 100% whole andthat's why, as I mentioned in
the beginning, if we're gettinghealings from like shamans and
healers, if you don't have allof your soul pieces, you're not
going to fully heal from thosehealings.
If they are a high frequencyhealing right, some healers do
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tap into a dark energy.
So you do want to be carefulwith who you're getting healings
from.
Some do it intentionally.
There's a very big name healerwho taps into dark forces
intentionally.
I share his name in my programsbut I'm not going to share it
publicly.
And then there are healers whothink they're doing a good job
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and connecting to the light andthey're actually being tricked
and they're connecting to darkforces.
So you have to be reallycareful with who you're going to
get healings from and makingsure that you have all of your
soul pieces.
Otherwise it's just wastingmoney, basically.
So those are negative umbilicalcords.
The next one is what I wouldcall energetic, energetic
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vampire cords, or you can thinkof them as like siphoning cords.
So an energetic vampire, whichI've talked about briefly, is
when someone like drains yourenergy and a lot of times they
don't even know and it's funnybecause I saw this meme on
Instagram I need to find it andit was like a guy saying oh, I
love your energy, and then heproceeds to like drain it all.
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And that's exactly what hashappened to me, specifically
around one relationship that Ihad with a singer.
And I don't think he was doingit consciously at first, but I
do think in the end he knew whathe was doing after he signed
with a big record label.
So you'll find a lot of this inthe music industry.
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Like, I can't even get intothat today.
I get into it in my light it upprogram, but anyway.
So I would go see him.
He lived in a different statethan me and I would be so
excited to go see him and thenby day two I would always get a
stye in my eye, I'd break out ina rash, it was like my whole
body was rejecting him.
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I would have all these weirdsymptoms and then I'd come home
feeling exhausted, drained, soweak it would take me like a
week to get back to normal.
So that is a very clear signthat they're an energetic
vampire.
And again, they don't alwaysknow what they're doing, but
they're siphoning your energy,they're pulling your life force
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into their energetic body.
They're feeding off of you justlike a vampire, right, and
these cords can be connected.
A lot of the times they'll showup connected in the neck, the
heart, the throat, the shoulderarea, the lower back.
So this is one you really wantto be careful of, like if you
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have your protection up that Iteach in my programs and
especially if you're aware ofthis person you know, maybe it's
someone at work, or maybe it'sa partner you're trying to leave
, or family member, if you putyour protection on and then set
the intent that you will notdrop your protection, they won't
be able to connect or cord intoyou as long as your protection
is up.
So that's why it is so key.
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Like you know, I try to explainthis stuff sometimes to my
parents.
My mom kind of gets it like.
She's starting to understand itmore.
She's always asking me to likeclear her of dark energy and I
told her I need to teach you.
I can't like I'll clear youonce and then I'm going to teach
you, because she has a lot ofdark energy around her.
But my stepdad, he's just likethinks this is all crazy and I'm
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like, okay, well, you watch,you listen to the radio.
You can't see the radio waves,right, but they're there, like
if you think about how advancedthat is, that we can turn the
radio on and listen to music,right?
Or even on our phones, likeWi-Fi on our phones.
Like you can't see that, yet weall walk around believing it,
right?
So this stuff is 100% as realas anything physical and it's
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even more important to clearyour energy body before it makes
its way to your physical body.
Okay, so the last one are calledenergetic arrows, and arrows
are like very concentratedbursts of like negative energy
being shot your way just like anarrow, right.
This can happen if someone isreally angry or upset with you,
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even if they're not aware thatthey're doing it.
You might feel pain or tensionin a specific part of your body,
like your heart, your head,your neck.
I had this happen the other day, but it wasn't from a person,
it was more a group of darkforces.
I got an arrow in my neck and Icould not turn my neck.
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After I cleared it, put myprotection back up, I was fine.
But these can come from bothunintentional people who are
just really angry with you tointentional to try to weaken
your energy centers or certainparts of your body.
These are all very realenergetic issues and these bonds
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can actually have a reallyprofound impact on your life,
like I said, making it difficultto heal physically or
emotionally, making it difficultto move on, and it can prevent
you from feeling fully empoweredin your own energy.
So the key here to trulyfreeing yourself is knowing how
to clear them, knowing how tonotice, like oh, I just got like
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hit with that or that persondefinitely like drained my
energy.
So if this interests you andyou want to learn more, I'll
just link the three differentareas I mentioned in the show
notes.
But I will say, as promised,what I see from a lot of my
clients, and recently I'vestarted working with women in a
different way, which is they'repreparing to go to court and
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they were needing something alittle different than Clean BDE,
because Clean BDE is mysignature program.
You do get a couple likecheck-ins with me, but they are
needing something morepersonalized.
So I created this program.
It's my only coaching programcalled the X Det detox and what
it is for one woman.
She was about to go on judgeJudy actually and have to face
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her abusive ex and she came tome with only like 10 days.
And so I was like, oh my gosh,like cause I didn't know her.
She was a referral from someoneelse and I'm like, okay, I'm
going to give her everythingI've got.
And so she wasn't a mother, soI didn't want to send her to
clean BDE because that wouldn'tbe as helpful for someone who's
not a mom.
So I created this whole programfor her, which was basically a
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personalized program.
So I started with an intuitiveread to see where she's at.
I told her what I saw, theissues that are currently
blocking her.
Then I intuitively curated itwas supposed to just be 10
audios that would help her clear, but I ended up giving her like
15 or maybe more.
Then, halfway through, I did acheck-in with her.
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I did another read, I scannedher field to see like what power
statements would really helpher in the courtroom, gave her
those and then just kind of likechecked in with her and it I
was like, wow, this like is areally cool offering I would
have never even thought tocreate if she hadn't come to me.
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And then she referred someoneelse to me.
So then I got to do it againand I'm like, okay, I'm going to
make this a coaching program ofits own, so I will link that
one too.
I haven't really talked aboutit publicly too much because
it's brand new and it'ssomething I was really trying to
like dial in before I talkedabout.
But she was able to go on livetelevision in front of her
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abusive ex and, like stand herground, be confident, so much so
that he like called her afterand was asking her to go get
lunch or dinner or something.
And she was like yeah, and Itold her I'm like yeah, he
definitely felt your energyshift, because that's the whole
thing is.
You might've seen on Instagramme talking about how, like just
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constantly labeling our exes,constantly saying like it's
their fault, that does nothingfor us.
It actually hurts our energeticfield.
It shuts down our creator field, because the second you say
they did it, it's their fault,your unconscious, your creator
field, says, okay, well then wecan't do anything about it,
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right?
Whereas if you take time andresponsibility, it does take
radical responsibility to stopand ask.
Like, for example, one of mynewer clients, she felt like her
ex was stepping over the line,being outrageously disrespectful
.
So what I do first is I ask myclients how do you feel like
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they're being to you, becausethe words they're saying are
actually how they feel aboutthemselves.
So there's something calledconfession through projection
and that looks like.
You know, I had an ex who thisis where it very much clicked
for me because he was telling methat I was a loser, that I was
not good enough, all of thesethings that weren't, that I was
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not good enough, all of thesethings that weren't that I knew
weren't true.
And by this time I had doneenough of you know, learning all
of these energetic laws tounderstand what was happening
and I didn't take it on.
But what I realized is he wasactually telling me exactly how
he felt about himself because hehad lost multiple jobs, he had,
you know, several addictionissues, he had all these things
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happening, and so he was tellingme literally how he felt about
himself and I was able to justlike protect myself from those
projections.
Right, he was literallyconfessing how he felt about
himself.
So the words people say to youdon't mean anything about you,
okay, unless they can be clues.
So if someone says like you'renot prioritizing me, that means
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they're not prior toprioritizing themselves in a
certain area of life, and thereare eight areas I've talked
about before.
I dive into them deeply in mymembership.
And so when we feel likesomeone for example my client
was crossing a boundary, wasbeing overly disrespectful,
right, I immediately tell myclient like, okay, let me look
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into this and I look in and Isee intuitively where my client
is actually doing that toherself, and I've been on the
other side of that so I alsoknow it can be a blind spot for
us, even when we know all ofthese higher frequency ways of
thinking and healing.
I had a read with my teacher,alessandro, and I was sharing
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with him about an ex who youknow had been heavy drinker,
doing drugs, losing jobs, all ofthis that I felt was really I
don't even think I said thewords irresponsible, but it
definitely could come across asme believing he was being
irresponsible, right.
And so when Alessandro did areading for me, he said you are
feeling like you're beingirresponsible in the area of
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money, which you've had sinceage 16, you inherited from your
mom and you've been beatingyourself up since then about
money.
And so when I have that in mycreator field irresponsibility
what do you think I'm going toattract someone who I feel is
being irresponsible to me, totheir commitments, to you know,
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life in general, and it actuallythey were doing me a favor.
It's like, oh, hello, okay, howdo you think I'm being?
I'm being irresponsible.
I'm doing this for you.
I'm reflecting this back so thatyou can see where you're
beating yourself up, and theseare complex concepts and laws,
energetic laws to wrap your mindaround.
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So give yourself patience, likeyou're never not going to have
reflections, but you canactually start looking at them
like a game, just like I said,and piecing it together.
And thank God, I have friendsinside the intuitive world where
we're, all you know, learningall of this together and we can
ask each other hey, what do youthink?
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This is a reflection of right,and so could I have looked in
and seen that for myself?
Yes, but it's always nice tohave it from the outside.
Also, unless you are trainedand practiced in emotional
mastery, as I am now, you canemotionally manipulate your
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answers that you're getting,even if you are a trained
intuitive.
If your emotions are higherthan like 17%, you are likely
manipulating the intuitiveanswers you are getting right.
So there's a lot to it andthat's why, when it comes to my
own stuff.
Yes, I decode 95% of it myself.
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But then for the things thatfeel really tough, I do go and
get help.
And in case you haven't heardme say this before, when I'm
recognizing that the otherperson for example my ex, the
irresponsible ex when I'mrecognizing what happened, that
doesn't mean I just excuse allof his behavior and think he's
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an angel, right?
No, what I'm doing isunderstanding that I had that in
my creator field.
My energy was a match forsomeone to behave like that,
right?
So when I shift my own energyand look in and understand the
reflections, shift them.
Then I won't be a match forthat type of behavior anymore,
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right.
And if I had even stayed withhim, I could have shifted myself
.
He would have acted differently, unless it was just a sole
contract thing where he was inmy life, which he was.
He was in my life to help mewith something and our contract
ended.
He was actually a two out offour and this is something I
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could talk about in a differentepisode.
I would do talk about it.
And unbonded, where there'sdifferent levels of soulmates
and then there's a soulcompliment which is like,
basically, you in the oppositeenergy.
I'm not going to go into thattoday.
But basically the best soulmateyou can have is a four out of
four which is mental, emotional,spiritual and physical like a
match.
He was a two out of four for me, so we weren't meant to stay
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together forever, however,forever.
However, if I had shifted mybehavior, we probably would have
just broken up sooner.
Like, if I had changed mybehavior at the time, shifted my
own energy, healed thatreflection, we would have
probably just broken up becausewe would have no longer been an
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energetic match.
So this is what I do with myclients is I help them shift
their own reflection so they'rejust no longer a match for the
kind of behavior that they don'twant in their life.
It's not about we don't have togo through this whole
forgiveness process.
Like, if you want to great, doit.
I've definitely done it and Iteach it inside clean BDE.
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Is it necessary?
No, the energetic cord cutting,necessary understanding,
whether it was a sole contractor a creator field issue, which
is a reflection, right, somekind of imbalance.
Those things are important andthey're so key to helping you
move up to higher frequencyrelationships, right?
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So the next relationship I getinto I'm going to be a match for
a lot different energy than Iever was before, and I was so
happy to hear from Alessandrathat I do have a four out of
four soulmate out there Notcurrently in California, I guess
, but excited to meet him forsure when the time is right.
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So I'm really trying to sharethis higher frequency way of
looking at other people in a waythat is warm and still
sympathetic, right, and Ihaven't done the best job just
because now that I'm on theother side of it and I can see
exactly what's happening Like ifsomeone's saying like he's not
making enough time for me, hedid this, he did that, he did
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this it has nothing to do withhim.
It has everything to do withher not prioritizing herself,
not whatever she's wanting fromhim.
She's actually lacking ingiving herself.
So people just come into ourlives to play a specific role,
whether it's soul contract orwhether it is to reflect our
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creator field and show us right.
And if you just spend your timefocusing on what the other
person is doing, you are givingthem all the control in many
different ways.
It's so simple to take yourcontrol back by just saying I
created this and so I know.
That's hard to do or it can be.
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I like doing it.
Now.
I find it like a game.
I'm like, okay, I created this,like what created it?
And I find it and I solve itand it shifts and I do that for
my clients, so it is 100%possible.
And then it shifts the waypeople treat you as well.
However, we were taught allthese low frequency ways to
behave, to interact inrelationships, because the dark
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forces of the world knew thatwould keep us from reaching our
high frequency potentials.
So this is something you'llhave to accept and then start to
do if you want to reach thathigh frequency potential.
Because the high frequencypotential.
There is no room up there forblaming other people all the
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time, and I even tried toexplain this to my family member
who's really angry with acertain person.
I explained to her where she'sdoing that to herself and it
actually helped diffuse some ofthe anger.
So this is something I also dofor like one on one intuitive
reads.
So I will share that in theshow notes as well.
But this is all just to empoweryou.
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It's not to you know.
I just feel like this world hasbecome such a victimhood
mentality where a lot of peopleare whining and complaining and
I believe me, I was there, sonot judging but it's like now
that I'm on the other side, I'mlike, oh God, I did that for so
long, I did it for so long.
So I do have sympathy.
But then I'm like, oh my gosh,it's so much better over here.
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So I'm trying to communicatethis in a softer way, but reach
out.
If you have anything that youwould want me to cover on a
podcast episode, I would reallylove to hear from you.
I love hearing from mylisteners and I'm happy to dive
into any kind of topic.
I am going to start talkingabout some conscious parenting
topics.
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So, yeah, I would love to hearfrom you.
I hope you have an amazing week.
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Welcome to Unveiled, the podcast.
I'm your host, angela Christian, and I help you with unveiling
your true self by peeling awaythe layers that society placed
on you.
I do this with a combination ofneuroscience, energetics and
ancient spiritual wisdom.
I went from underpaid andoverworked in corporate America
to launching a six-figurecompany that continues to grow.
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I went from toxic relationshipsto being happy and single for
over a year as I worked andcontinue to work on becoming the
best version of myself, and somuch more.
My greatest passion is to helpwomen and mothers heal,
transform and become the highestversions of themselves.
As I continue to grow andexpand my intuitive knowledge
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and unique wisdom, I'll beincluding you on my journey to
millions, so let's get into it.
Hello and welcome back toUnveiled.
Today I have a short podcastepisode for you on the four
energetic issues you might havewith an ex, or really with
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anybody in your life.
As you'll hear, this will helpyou identify if you're having
any kind of unhealthy energeticties with anybody in your past.
These energetic bonds canexplain why you might feel stuck
, drained, unable to fully moveforward in your life.
I felt such a release when Ilearned how to clear all four of
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these.
So definitely listen.
It's also important to notethat until you clear these four
different types of bondsenergetic bonds they can
actually prevent you fromhealing fully.
So if you were someone like mewho for a very long time was
always looking externally forhealings from people before I
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knew how to heal myself, it'snot going to work entirely
because these bonds are going tohave you exchanging negative
energy and emotions with otherpeople.
So until you clear these, youwon't even reap the benefits of
an actual healing, even if it'sa really good healing.
So the first one we're going totalk about are energetic hooks.
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So an energetic hook is almostlike a boomerang.
So you like, throw it out andthat comes back to you, right?
So this can show up in yourlife like an ex you keep
returning to, or a toxicfriendship that you keep finding
yourself back in, or a negative, toxic parent which side note,
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I will explain at the end how todeal with toxic people as well.
A little quick, briefdiscussion.
So an energetic hook can justfeel like no matter how many
times you try to distanceyourself from someone, you keep
getting pulled back to them andthey're almost like a little
chain.
Right, they cast a chain outand that hooks into you and it
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can actually hook into differentparts of your body.
So, as I've explained, we havean energetic body which is much
larger than our physical body.
So all disease and issuesactually start in your energetic
body, in the in the way ofreflections, which I'm going to
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dive into in my membershipbecause I've had so many people
asking me about reflections.
So reflections are actually away for your higher self or your
guides, whomever, to get yourattention and say, hey, like,
look into this, right.
So if you keep ignoring all ofthat, let's say you're really
angry about something someonedid to you, right, which is a
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whole different topic.
I could do an entire episode onthat.
I actually talk about that inmy programs.
But let's say somebody, youfeel like somebody did something
to you and you're pissed off.
I'm actually thinking about afamily member right now who
tells me that she's not angryabout this person.
But the second someone bringsup the person's name.
She, like you, can just seethat she has all this anger and
I've explained to her anger andresentment in the body for a
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long time turns into cancer.
So that is why you'll seepeople have cancer in different
areas.
A lot of women who have beencheated on develop issues in
their reproductive areas.
I know a woman who got a tumorin her neck.
She had a very, very hard timeseeing anybody else's side of an
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issue and any neck issues arealways related to not seeing
both sides of a story becausethere's equal positives and
negatives to literallyeverything.
That's a very high frequencyway to think.
It's not how we've been taughtto think, it's not the normie
way of thinking, but that islike source truth.
That is the way Jesus thinks,buddha.
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All of them right, so they cansee equal parts positive and
negative to everything.
So, getting back to this, myfamily member who's very angry I
tried to explain this to her.
But the way that we feelsomeone is being to us, there's
two reasons and I've talkedabout this before, but just as a
refresher.
Else, if you're a older soul,higher frequency soul, then it's
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something you're doing toyourself.
So I will have an episode,probably the next episode.
I'll dive into this a little bitdeeper, like how to kind of
translate these issues, and I'mgoing to drop an audio in
unbonded as a bonus, actually tohelp people with this, because
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I see so many mothers and womenthat come to me and they're just
very angry with their ex and Ican see the bigger picture for
them and I don't, and I want toclear that anger for them
because I don't want to see themhaving health issues and all of
that right.
It's just not worth it when allrelationships are either a sole
contract thing which means youguys agreed to these things
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before you incarnated here orit's a creator field thing.
So, as I've shared, I'll alwaysthrow myself under the bus here
as someone who was beatingherself up from a very young age
.
I would.
I would attract men, even menwho had never had a history of
abuse, who would be verballyabusive, physically abusive,
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emotionally abusive.
You know, I never felt like Iwas good enough, so then they
would reflect that to me as well.
Now I can look back and Iappreciate them actually for
doing those things, because theyeither agreed to that on a soul
level, a soul contract level,or they were just simply
stepping in to play a role in mymovie, because we're all in our
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own Truman show where I neededto cast someone in my show to be
abusive to me so that I'dfinally wake up and say enough.
So these people are actuallyhelping us, even though it
doesn't feel like that from ahuman 3D lower frequency level.
So, okay, getting back here gota little sidetracked, okay.
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So an energetic hook whensomeone has a hook in you, it's
harder to fully walk away.
That's why, you know, I've hadrelationships in the past where
I kept going back to someone andI couldn't really explain why
they weren't like the best.
It's just like I just keptgoing back to them.
Then I found out all of thisstuff and I was like, okay, this
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makes sense.
So they might feel your energyand they're like, oh my God, I
love her energy, which can betwo things actually, and I'll
get into the other one and theymight just hook into you, right,
and it's usually not aconscious thing, although there
are conscious rituals wherepeople do this to people to
actually make them sick.
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I'll explain that in a second.
But so that's energetic hooks.
In unbonded.
I actually share how to findthese and clear them, both in
unbonded and my lighted upprogram actually, because this
is a dark force topic as well.
So the second energetic bond issomething called an umbilical
cord.
So umbilical cords are naturalenergetic connections, like to
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people usually that we love,like our parents, our partners,
our friends, even mentors, butthey are never something we
should actually have, and I'llexplain why.
They do create a deep emotionaltie, but what that does is it
makes your emotions influencedby theirs.
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So if you've ever seen themovie which is one of my
favorite Practical Magic withNicole Kidman and Sandra Bullock
, at one point they cut theirhands and put them together and
rub their blood together Like myblood is your blood, right?
It's kind of a similar conceptwith what I would call negative
umbilical cords, in that, youknow, with the family member I
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mentioned earlier who was veryangry.
Until I cleared my umbilicalcord with her, I would take on
her anger and I could feel it asmy own and that is not healthy,
right.
So I noticed a huge shift andI've feel it as my own and that
is not healthy, right.
So I noticed a huge shift andI've actually had to cut the
cord with her several times,because if they're an important
person in your life, it's easyto let your uh protection,
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energetic protection down whichI do give in unbonded and light
it up, and my membershipactually, because it's very
important.
So I want all my people to beprotected.
The second, that you kind offeel bad for somebody.
All of your protection drops.
So there is a way to feel likesympathy for someone but setting
the intention like I am notgoing to drop my protection
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right now.
You know so anyone you've beenintimate with you have an
umbilical cord.
With any like toxicrelationship, whether it's
friendship or partnership oreven a work situation, you have
a cord with likely.
So if it's hard for you to likeseparate your feelings from how
they're feeling, it's definitelya negative umbilical cord and
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this is different than a soulconnection bond.
So this isn't what I'm talkingabout.
We do have, like soulconnection bonds those we aren't
cutting.
Those are different, adifferent topic.
But what I'm talking about isthe negative energetic cord that
we have with people and I sharea very detailed process, much
different than anywhere you'velikely heard.
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I even used to do a differentenergetic cord cutting.
This one is much more advancedand you will feel a shift
immediately.
You'll feel this like sense ofrelief, but also a flood of
positive energy, because whatalso happens is you're mixing
your soul pieces with their soulpieces.
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They're getting some of yoursoul, you're getting some of
their soul.
We don't want that.
We need to be 100% whole andthat's why, as I mentioned in
the beginning, if we're gettinghealings from like shamans and
healers, if you don't have allof your soul pieces, you're not
going to fully heal from thosehealings.
If they are a high frequencyhealing right, some healers do
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tap into a dark energy.
So you do want to be carefulwith who you're getting healings
from.
Some do it intentionally.
There's a very big name healerwho taps into dark forces
intentionally.
I share his name in my programsbut I'm not going to share it
publicly.
And then there are healers whothink they're doing a good job
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and connecting to the light andthey're actually being tricked
and they're connecting to darkforces.
So you have to be reallycareful with who you're going to
get healings from and makingsure that you have all of your
soul pieces.
Otherwise it's just wastingmoney, basically.
So those are negative umbilicalcords.
The next one is what I wouldcall energetic, energetic
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vampire cords, or you can thinkof them as like siphoning cords.
So an energetic vampire, whichI've talked about briefly, is
when someone like drains yourenergy and a lot of times they
don't even know and it's funnybecause I saw this meme on
Instagram I need to find it andit was like a guy saying oh, I
love your energy, and then heproceeds to like drain it all.
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And that's exactly what hashappened to me, specifically
around one relationship that Ihad with a singer.
And I don't think he was doingit consciously at first, but I
do think in the end he knew whathe was doing after he signed
with a big record label.
So you'll find a lot of this inthe music industry.
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Like, I can't even get intothat today.
I get into it in my light it upprogram, but anyway.
So I would go see him.
He lived in a different statethan me and I would be so
excited to go see him and thenby day two I would always get a
stye in my eye, I'd break out ina rash, it was like my whole
body was rejecting him.
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I would have all these weirdsymptoms and then I'd come home
feeling exhausted, drained, soweak it would take me like a
week to get back to normal.
So that is a very clear signthat they're an energetic
vampire.
And again, they don't alwaysknow what they're doing, but
they're siphoning your energy,they're pulling your life force
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into their energetic body.
They're feeding off of you justlike a vampire, right, and
these cords can be connected.
A lot of the times they'll showup connected in the neck, the
heart, the throat, the shoulderarea, the lower back.
So this is one you really wantto be careful of, like if you
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have your protection up that Iteach in my programs and
especially if you're aware ofthis person you know, maybe it's
someone at work, or maybe it'sa partner you're trying to leave
, or family member, if you putyour protection on and then set
the intent that you will notdrop your protection, they won't
be able to connect or cord intoyou as long as your protection
is up.
So that's why it is so key.
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Like you know, I try to explainthis stuff sometimes to my
parents.
My mom kind of gets it like.
She's starting to understand itmore.
She's always asking me to likeclear her of dark energy and I
told her I need to teach you.
I can't like I'll clear youonce and then I'm going to teach
you, because she has a lot ofdark energy around her.
But my stepdad, he's just likethinks this is all crazy and I'm
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like, okay, well, you watch,you listen to the radio.
You can't see the radio waves,right, but they're there, like
if you think about how advancedthat is, that we can turn the
radio on and listen to music,right?
Or even on our phones, likeWi-Fi on our phones.
Like you can't see that, yet weall walk around believing it,
right?
So this stuff is 100% as realas anything physical and it's
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even more important to clearyour energy body before it makes
its way to your physical body.
Okay, so the last one are calledenergetic arrows, and arrows
are like very concentratedbursts of like negative energy
being shot your way just like anarrow, right.
This can happen if someone isreally angry or upset with you,
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even if they're not aware thatthey're doing it.
You might feel pain or tensionin a specific part of your body,
like your heart, your head,your neck.
I had this happen the other day, but it wasn't from a person,
it was more a group of darkforces.
I got an arrow in my neck and Icould not turn my neck.
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After I cleared it, put myprotection back up, I was fine.
But these can come from bothunintentional people who are
just really angry with you tointentional to try to weaken
your energy centers or certainparts of your body.
These are all very realenergetic issues and these bonds
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can actually have a reallyprofound impact on your life,
like I said, making it difficultto heal physically or
emotionally, making it difficultto move on, and it can prevent
you from feeling fully empoweredin your own energy.
So the key here to trulyfreeing yourself is knowing how
to clear them, knowing how tonotice, like oh, I just got like
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hit with that or that persondefinitely like drained my
energy.
So if this interests you andyou want to learn more, I'll
just link the three differentareas I mentioned in the show
notes.
But I will say, as promised,what I see from a lot of my
clients, and recently I'vestarted working with women in a
different way, which is they'repreparing to go to court and
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they were needing something alittle different than Clean BDE,
because Clean BDE is mysignature program.
You do get a couple likecheck-ins with me, but they are
needing something morepersonalized.
So I created this program.
It's my only coaching programcalled the X Det detox and what
it is for one woman.
She was about to go on judgeJudy actually and have to face
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her abusive ex and she came tome with only like 10 days.
And so I was like, oh my gosh,like cause I didn't know her.
She was a referral from someoneelse and I'm like, okay, I'm
going to give her everythingI've got.
And so she wasn't a mother, soI didn't want to send her to
clean BDE because that wouldn'tbe as helpful for someone who's
not a mom.
So I created this whole programfor her, which was basically a
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personalized program.
So I started with an intuitiveread to see where she's at.
I told her what I saw, theissues that are currently
blocking her.
Then I intuitively curated itwas supposed to just be 10
audios that would help her clear, but I ended up giving her like
15 or maybe more.
Then, halfway through, I did acheck-in with her.
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I did another read, I scannedher field to see like what power
statements would really helpher in the courtroom, gave her
those and then just kind of likechecked in with her and it I
was like, wow, this like is areally cool offering I would
have never even thought tocreate if she hadn't come to me.
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And then she referred someoneelse to me.
So then I got to do it againand I'm like, okay, I'm going to
make this a coaching program ofits own, so I will link that
one too.
I haven't really talked aboutit publicly too much because
it's brand new and it'ssomething I was really trying to
like dial in before I talkedabout.
But she was able to go on livetelevision in front of her
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abusive ex and, like stand herground, be confident, so much so
that he like called her afterand was asking her to go get
lunch or dinner or something.
And she was like yeah, and Itold her I'm like yeah, he
definitely felt your energyshift, because that's the whole
thing is.
You might've seen on Instagramme talking about how, like just
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constantly labeling our exes,constantly saying like it's
their fault, that does nothingfor us.
It actually hurts our energeticfield.
It shuts down our creator field, because the second you say
they did it, it's their fault,your unconscious, your creator
field, says, okay, well then wecan't do anything about it,
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right?
Whereas if you take time andresponsibility, it does take
radical responsibility to stopand ask.
Like, for example, one of mynewer clients, she felt like her
ex was stepping over the line,being outrageously disrespectful
.
So what I do first is I ask myclients how do you feel like
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they're being to you, becausethe words they're saying are
actually how they feel aboutthemselves.
So there's something calledconfession through projection
and that looks like.
You know, I had an ex who thisis where it very much clicked
for me because he was telling methat I was a loser, that I was
not good enough, all of thesethings that weren't, that I was
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not good enough, all of thesethings that weren't that I knew
weren't true.
And by this time I had doneenough of you know, learning all
of these energetic laws tounderstand what was happening
and I didn't take it on.
But what I realized is he wasactually telling me exactly how
he felt about himself because hehad lost multiple jobs, he had,
you know, several addictionissues, he had all these things
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happening, and so he was tellingme literally how he felt about
himself and I was able to justlike protect myself from those
projections.
Right, he was literallyconfessing how he felt about
himself.
So the words people say to youdon't mean anything about you,
okay, unless they can be clues.
So if someone says like you'renot prioritizing me, that means
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they're not prior toprioritizing themselves in a
certain area of life, and thereare eight areas I've talked
about before.
I dive into them deeply in mymembership.
And so when we feel likesomeone for example my client
was crossing a boundary, wasbeing overly disrespectful,
right, I immediately tell myclient like, okay, let me look
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into this and I look in and Isee intuitively where my client
is actually doing that toherself, and I've been on the
other side of that so I alsoknow it can be a blind spot for
us, even when we know all ofthese higher frequency ways of
thinking and healing.
I had a read with my teacher,alessandro, and I was sharing
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with him about an ex who youknow had been heavy drinker,
doing drugs, losing jobs, all ofthis that I felt was really I
don't even think I said thewords irresponsible, but it
definitely could come across asme believing he was being
irresponsible, right.
And so when Alessandro did areading for me, he said you are
feeling like you're beingirresponsible in the area of
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money, which you've had sinceage 16, you inherited from your
mom and you've been beatingyourself up since then about
money.
And so when I have that in mycreator field irresponsibility
what do you think I'm going toattract someone who I feel is
being irresponsible to me, totheir commitments, to you know,
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life in general, and it actuallythey were doing me a favor.
It's like, oh, hello, okay, howdo you think I'm being?
I'm being irresponsible.
I'm doing this for you.
I'm reflecting this back so thatyou can see where you're
beating yourself up, and theseare complex concepts and laws,
energetic laws to wrap your mindaround.
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So give yourself patience, likeyou're never not going to have
reflections, but you canactually start looking at them
like a game, just like I said,and piecing it together.
And thank God, I have friendsinside the intuitive world where
we're, all you know, learningall of this together and we can
ask each other hey, what do youthink?
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This is a reflection of right,and so could I have looked in
and seen that for myself?
Yes, but it's always nice tohave it from the outside.
Also, unless you are trainedand practiced in emotional
mastery, as I am now, you canemotionally manipulate your
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answers that you're getting,even if you are a trained
intuitive.
If your emotions are higherthan like 17%, you are likely
manipulating the intuitiveanswers you are getting right.
So there's a lot to it andthat's why, when it comes to my
own stuff.
Yes, I decode 95% of it myself.
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But then for the things thatfeel really tough, I do go and
get help.
And in case you haven't heardme say this before, when I'm
recognizing that the otherperson for example my ex, the
irresponsible ex when I'mrecognizing what happened, that
doesn't mean I just excuse allof his behavior and think he's
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an angel, right?
No, what I'm doing isunderstanding that I had that in
my creator field.
My energy was a match forsomeone to behave like that,
right?
So when I shift my own energyand look in and understand the
reflections, shift them.
Then I won't be a match forthat type of behavior anymore,
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right.
And if I had even stayed withhim, I could have shifted myself
.
He would have acted differently, unless it was just a sole
contract thing where he was inmy life, which he was.
He was in my life to help mewith something and our contract
ended.
He was actually a two out offour and this is something I
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could talk about in a differentepisode.
I would do talk about it.
And unbonded, where there'sdifferent levels of soulmates
and then there's a soulcompliment which is like,
basically, you in the oppositeenergy.
I'm not going to go into thattoday.
But basically the best soulmateyou can have is a four out of
four which is mental, emotional,spiritual and physical like a
match.
He was a two out of four for me, so we weren't meant to stay
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together forever, however,forever.
However, if I had shifted mybehavior, we probably would have
just broken up sooner.
Like, if I had changed mybehavior at the time, shifted my
own energy, healed thatreflection, we would have
probably just broken up becausewe would have no longer been an
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energetic match.
So this is what I do with myclients is I help them shift
their own reflection so they'rejust no longer a match for the
kind of behavior that they don'twant in their life.
It's not about we don't have togo through this whole
forgiveness process.
Like, if you want to great, doit.
I've definitely done it and Iteach it inside clean BDE.
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Is it necessary?
No, the energetic cord cutting,necessary understanding,
whether it was a sole contractor a creator field issue, which
is a reflection, right, somekind of imbalance.
Those things are important andthey're so key to helping you
move up to higher frequencyrelationships, right?
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So the next relationship I getinto I'm going to be a match for
a lot different energy than Iever was before, and I was so
happy to hear from Alessandrathat I do have a four out of
four soulmate out there Notcurrently in California, I guess
, but excited to meet him forsure when the time is right.
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So I'm really trying to sharethis higher frequency way of
looking at other people in a waythat is warm and still
sympathetic, right, and Ihaven't done the best job just
because now that I'm on theother side of it and I can see
exactly what's happening Like ifsomeone's saying like he's not
making enough time for me, hedid this, he did that, he did
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this it has nothing to do withhim.
It has everything to do withher not prioritizing herself,
not whatever she's wanting fromhim.
She's actually lacking ingiving herself.
So people just come into ourlives to play a specific role,
whether it's soul contract orwhether it is to reflect our
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creator field and show us right.
And if you just spend your timefocusing on what the other
person is doing, you are givingthem all the control in many
different ways.
It's so simple to take yourcontrol back by just saying I
created this and so I know.
That's hard to do or it can be.
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I like doing it.
Now.
I find it like a game.
I'm like, okay, I created this,like what created it?
And I find it and I solve itand it shifts and I do that for
my clients, so it is 100%possible.
And then it shifts the waypeople treat you as well.
However, we were taught allthese low frequency ways to
behave, to interact inrelationships, because the dark
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forces of the world knew thatwould keep us from reaching our
high frequency potentials.
So this is something you'llhave to accept and then start to
do if you want to reach thathigh frequency potential.
Because the high frequencypotential.
There is no room up there forblaming other people all the
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time, and I even tried toexplain this to my family member
who's really angry with acertain person.
I explained to her where she'sdoing that to herself and it
actually helped diffuse some ofthe anger.
So this is something I also dofor like one on one intuitive
reads.
So I will share that in theshow notes as well.
But this is all just to empoweryou.
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It's not to you know.
I just feel like this world hasbecome such a victimhood
mentality where a lot of peopleare whining and complaining and
I believe me, I was there, sonot judging but it's like now
that I'm on the other side, I'mlike, oh God, I did that for so
long, I did it for so long.
So I do have sympathy.
But then I'm like, oh my gosh,it's so much better over here.
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So I'm trying to communicatethis in a softer way, but reach
out.
If you have anything that youwould want me to cover on a
podcast episode, I would reallylove to hear from you.
I love hearing from mylisteners and I'm happy to dive
into any kind of topic.
I am going to start talkingabout some conscious parenting
topics.
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So, yeah, I would love to hearfrom you.
I hope you have an amazing week.
Thank you for listening toUnveiled.
I always love hearing yourtakeaways, so please connect
with me on Instagram that,angela Marie Christian and feel
free to tag me when you share itwith your friends.
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Any resources mentioned in theshow will be linked in the show
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