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Transformative healing is possible, even in the most toxic co-parenting relationships. Drawing from my journey as a mother of three with three different fathers, I've discovered powerful methods that go far beyond conventional advice about "setting boundaries" or "being the bigger person."

What if I told you that you can actually change how your ex treats you? That the stomach-dropping anxiety when they text, the energy drain after every interaction, and the constant walking on eggshells could completely transform? Clean BDE (Clean Baby Daddy Energy) combines neuroscience, emotional mastery, and energetic healing to create lasting transformation in co-parenting relationships that seemed beyond repair. 

My clients have turned abusive situations into peaceful co-parenting arrangements, bitter custody battles into friendly partnerships, and anxiety-filled interactions into neutral exchanges.

The program works through four essential pillars: nervous system regulation to get you out of fight-or-flight, rewiring the subconscious patterns that made you a match for toxic dynamics, emotional mastery techniques to neutralize triggering situations in real time, and energetic healing that includes cutting cords and retrieving soul pieces lost in traumatic relationships. 

While subconscious reprogramming might get you around 70 - 80% healed, the emotional and energetic components complete the transformation. This isn't just about improving your life—it's about breaking generational patterns so your children don't inherit your trauma. 

Your healing radiates outward, creating a ripple effect that changes everything - in all areas of life.

Ready to experience what true freedom feels like? The Clean BDE program is currently available at 40% off with the code cleanBDE48. Connect with me on Instagram @angelamariechristian to learn more about transforming your co-parenting relationship and breaking free from patterns that no longer serve you or your children.

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Speaker 1 (00:05):
Welcome to Unveiled the podcast.
I'm your host, angela Christian, and I help you with unveiling
your true self by peeling awaythe layers that society placed
on you.
I do this with a combination ofneuroscience, energetics and
ancient spiritual wisdom.
I went from underpaid andoverworked in corporate America
to launching a six-figurecompany that continues to grow.

(00:26):
I went from toxic relationshipsto being happy and single for
over a year as I worked andcontinue to work on becoming the
best version of myself, and somuch more.
My greatest passion is to helpwomen and mothers heal,
transform and become the highestversions of themselves.
Heal, transform and become thehighest versions of themselves.

(00:46):
As I continue to grow andexpand my intuitive knowledge
and unique wisdom, I'll beincluding you on my journey to
millions, so let's get into it.

Speaker 2 (00:57):
Hi, my loves, Welcome back to Unveiled, and today I
am talking about Clean BDE.
So if you follow me onInstagram, you would see that
I'm doing a flash sale of 40%off Clean BDE, which is a
signature program of mine that Icreated back in December of
2023 after I had spent yearshealing and unraveling the pain

(01:22):
and trauma of my past, and Ijust want to dive in a little
bit deeper today and kind ofshare what you might not have
heard on other interviews Thingshave changed so much since
December 2023, when I createdClean BDE.
So first of all, what is CleanBDE?
In case you're new here,welcome.

(01:43):
Clean BDE stands for Clean BabyDaddy Energy, which I know
sounds funny, but I have threechildren with three different
fathers and experiencedliterally everything that
someone could experience with aco-parent.
I know now that was part of mysole plan, so that I could learn
every single thing that couldgo wrong.

(02:04):
Well, it's not technicallywrong.
From the human viewpoint,someone might think it's wrong,
but from a higher consciousplace, we know it isn't wrong.
There are no mistakes.
So part of my sole plan, mysole path, was to learn every
single thing so that I couldheal myself and then I could
heal others.
So when I launched this programin December 2023, I had the

(02:25):
honor of bringing in mothers andhelping them.
One of them, just yesterday,messaged me and said you know,
when she left her marriage, sheliterally had to go, drive nine
hours away, call him and tellhim she was divorcing him.
She was fearing for her lifewith her four kids and, after

(02:48):
working with me, she has beenable to.
They've been in mediation thisweek and they're working
together Like he's no longerabusive towards her, no longer
verbally abusive towards thekids, because what nobody else
will teach you in these kinds ofprograms is that we can 100%
control the way people treat us.

(03:09):
We're taught the opposite and Isee a lot of like Instagram
posts, which I know have wellintentions, but they're false.
When they say like we can'tcontrol others, we can only
control our response, that'stotally false.
I know because I have been ableto shift this for myself and
for others right.
So now they're working togetherin mediation and the mediator
even pulled her aside and saidlike wow, you guys are like

(03:36):
really working together and itwas someone that had experienced
them during the first part oftheir legal battle a year ago
and she's like what, what haveyou done?
She was like so mystified andit's possible, it is possible,
I've done it.
I had an abusive partner wholiterally did horrendous things.
If I told you about them, whichI'm not going to share on the
podcast, I do share in myprograms, but I mean I could

(03:57):
have had 50 Lifetime movies madeabout the things I've gone
through and I'll see him in thestore and I'll give him a hug.
I invite him to.
You know our child's events.
Another one of my exes I had ahorrific custody battle with and
I thought we would never get toa place of peace, his
neutrality much less.
Now I consider him a friend.

(04:19):
We talk several times a weekand it feels more like a
sister-brother type relationship.
But I would have never thoughtthat this was all possible.
But it is and that's why I'm soenthusiastic and that's why I'm
so passionate about Clean BDE,because I've seen, not in just
myself but in others.

(04:39):
Another mother had been sexuallyabused by her ex and now she
can see him.
She doesn't feel anything Rightand when you shift and you heal
yourself, it also radiates outto your kids.
That's what I can't stressenough is like, even if you're
like, oh, I don't need thehealing, I'll just deal with it.
Right, because humans do adaptto a certain level of pain.

(05:00):
They get used to just dealingwith it.
Do it for your kids.
Don't let them inherit yourpain, your trauma.
Okay, so today's episode is forthe woman who knows she's meant
for more more peace, more power, more presence in her life,
especially when it comes toco-parenting dynamics that
continue to drain her even yearslater.

(05:22):
So this was me.
I would wake up at 3 am in apanic, thinking that I was about
to be abused all over again.
And unfortunately, what I'veseen in the online space are a
lot of groups againwell-intentioned, but formed
around like let's call our exesa narcissist and just complain
about him for years, and that itisn't just unhealthy to do that

(05:45):
.
It keeps you in those emotions,it keeps that in your creator
field, which is how we createeverything in our life.
So if you're constantly justcomplaining about your ex,
venting about him, you're justgoing to keep creating scenarios
where you have that in yourlife.
Where it goes a step further,there's someone I follow on
Instagram.
She every day is posting abouther ex, who is very well known

(06:08):
and she's remarried, like she'smoved on, but every day she's
posting about her ex and likethat is actually called a
conscious ritual.
So she doesn't know this, butshe's literally creating a
conscious ritual which hasserious consequences for her and
for him.
And she doesn't know this andmost people don't, right?
But these are the things Icover inside Clean BDE that

(06:31):
nobody else does, and so I'vethought about actually telling
her like hey, you're creatingthese conscious rituals every
time you post about him and he'sstill alive, and so it's one
thing to just vent, which alsois not healthy.
I share in my clean BDE programthe neuroscience that supports
this.
But like, once you go beyond 48hours of experiencing an

(06:54):
emotion, like, get that outwithin 48 hours, because after
that it starts creating negativeeffects in your creator field,
which means you're a match forsickness, disease, other
unfortunate events happening inyour life.
These are the low frequencytools that we've been taught
right, and this is why peoplewho go to therapy and they go

(07:14):
every week and they complainabout their ex or even their
current partner nothing is evergoing to get better, because
you're staying in that emotionand you're creating more and
more based on that emotion andthen it starts to bleed in other
areas of life like finance,career, health, and we don't
want that right.
So we were not meant to justsit in this negativity and blame

(07:38):
forever, and so I do not dothat in my program.
I have sympathy for what womenhave gone through because I've
been there, but then I am thereto move them past that right.
When they come to me, they'reready for something new.
So this is about true energeticand emotional freedom.
And the truth that just mostpeople won't tell you is that

(07:59):
you can actually influence theway people treat you.
Just like I shared with myclient.
Once you shift inside and Iteach all of this in Clean BDE
we can actually shift how theytreat us.
And this is about long-termhealing.
It's not about just feelinggreat.
Therapy is kind of like a sugarrush treatment.
It's like you go in, you vent,you feel really good for a

(08:20):
minute and then you just goright back because you haven't
addressed the core, root issue,and a lot of times it's
something you don't even realize, and so that's where the
energetics piece comes in.
Because I'm an intuitive healer, I can look in and see exactly
where all of this started.
I can go.
Soon I'm going to be offering atimeline healing where I

(08:42):
actually go back in time to thatspot where it happened.
I heal that and everythingforward.
And I've been doing this onmyself, I've been practicing on
some of my friends and it islike miraculous.
So this is for you.
If you've ever felt that likedrop in your stomach, like right
, when you see a text come infrom your co-parent, or if
you've ever like been reallynervous to get on a phone call

(09:03):
with them or see them, and soyou're rehearsing the
conversation multiple timesbefore, right.
Or if you've ever gotten offthe phone with your ex and you
just feel like your energy isgone, like you need to take a
nap.
Right, it's not just stress,it's actually stress, an
energetic and emotionalimbalance, and it's not going to
get better until we clear it atthe root.

(09:25):
And this is not just about likeagain, I try not to be so
hardcore about this but like nowthat I know and I'm on the
other side and I've helped otherwomen come to the side, it's
like I see just so much fluff onInstagram and, again, most of
them are well intentioned.
But this is not just aboutsetting better boundaries, it's
not about being the biggerperson, and it's definitely not

(09:46):
about pretending somethingdoesn't bother you.
I created Clean BDE becausenobody else teaches this.
Nobody else teaches how toemotionally, energetically and
from a neuroscience perspective,rewire all of this.
Okay, so I'm going to just talkabout the pillars and why I walk
people through certain pillarsand clean BDE and how important

(10:08):
it is.
So the first one is alwaysnervous system regulation,
because if you don't have yournervous system regulated, it
doesn't matter what I teach you,it's not going to stick.
So the way I like to explainthis is we still have very
primal caveman systems in ourbody and so when our fight or
flight is triggered, whathappens is we get tunnel vision.

(10:32):
So just like thinking about andI say this a lot.
So if you've already heard it,sorry, but not sorry so if you
see like a little bunny rabbitand they're running and all of a
sudden a fox starts chasingthem, that bunny is going to
have tunnel vision to survive,its nervous system is going to
kick in to make it run fast fora short amount of time.
It's not noticing the carrotson the right side, it's not

(10:54):
noticing a lovely little spot togo rest and digest their food.
It is just focused on survivaland it actually shuts down the
systems of digest and rest andother healing mechanisms that
are important for our health.
So if I was on the sidelinestrying to talk to the bunny,
like it's not going to listen tome, right?

(11:15):
So I need to get you out offight or flight so that you can
actually take in the information.
So that is the very first thingI do.
The second thing is the wiring,right?
So, and these are all of theprograms, beliefs, the blueprint
that made you a match for thisdynamic in the first place.
So you didn't just attractchaos, you were actually

(11:35):
programmed for it, maybe fromchildhood, maybe even from a
past life, but your body, yournervous system and your
subconscious recognize thatchaos as familiar and as long as
that wiring is still active,you will continue to tolerate
treatment that drains you.
You will continue being a matchfor it because it's in your
subconscious.
So, in Clean BDE, I actuallyundo that wiring for you all the

(11:58):
way back from childhood becauseit's absolutely necessary, so
that you won't be a match forthat anymore, right?
Then the third pillar is allaround emotions, because we need
to get your emotions dialed in.
So I teach you really uniqueways to neutralize your emotions
in real time.
I teach you how to reprogrammemories.

(12:18):
I did this years ago, back in2017.
I just channeled this and it'swhat actually stopped those 3 am
nightmares.
So when you're constantly stuckin emotional residue from a
toxic dynamic, it startsbleeding into every area your
parenting, your business, yoursleep, your decisions.
So, in Clean BDE, the thirdpillar is emotional mastery how

(12:41):
to regulate your inner world soyou can start reprogramming the
reality around you and also justteaching how emotions are
contagious.
So sometimes you're thinkingthat it's your emotion or even
your thoughts.
Both are contagious and it'snot.
And so I have very fast ways toclear other people's emotion,
clear other people's thoughts,to make sure you're only

(13:04):
utilizing your emotions and yourthoughts, because this happens
way more than you would actuallythink.
You can walk into a Starbucks.
If someone in there is angry,that's contagious, and then
you'll take it on as your own.
So the emotional mastery pieceis all about dialing in our
emotional mastery, learning howto see everything as neutral and

(13:26):
perfect and, yes, even thingsthat, like our human self, would
think is not fair or whatever.
We neutralize it.
So the final piece is theenergetics.
So that is where I teach whatyour creative field is, how you
are a match for other people.
We talk a little bit about soulcontracts, and then the biggest

(13:47):
piece is how we areenergetically corded to others,
and so then I share how peoplecord into us, how people put
energetic hooks in us that keepus stuck, and so do you
understand that You'll know whenyou need to do an energetic
cord cutting and why that'simportant and what makes it

(14:09):
different.
The way I teach it is anytimewe've had an emotional traumatic
experience with someone anyonethey keep some of our soul
pieces and we take on some oftheirs, and so if and I
guarantee 99% of people outthere have this issue so if
someone else has your soulpieces, you cannot heal 100% on

(14:31):
a physical level, so we need toget all of those soul pieces
back, and this is an actualhealing session that I do for my
clients, so my clean BDEstudents would have a discounted
rate for this, but I am goingto start offering this
separately so you can send me amessage if that's something that
interests you.
I will actually find and cutthe energetic cords that are in

(14:56):
you at the moment, which aredraining your energy, affecting
your intuition, all of that.
And then I go into what Ialready talked about a little
bit, which is how to reprogramour creator field to not be a
match for toxic dynamics, how toinfluence our creator field,
how to program in our creatorfield the way we want people to

(15:18):
treat us.
This has been huge for myselfand for my clients.
So I teach you how to do that.
And then there are tons ofother audios for different
scenarios.
So I teach you how to do that.
And then there are tons ofother audios for, like different
scenarios.
So like dealing with angrytexts from an ex, how to deal
with that, how to go likethere's bonus audios on on court
tactics, all of that.
If you're interested in seeinglike all of the different audios

(15:42):
, I'm happy to send that to you.
Just out, this program took me ayear to create and it is
top-notch.
I guarantee nobody else has aprogram like this.
So right now it's 40% off.
So the code which will only beavailable this week is clean BDE

(16:02):
48.
You can jump in.
I'm also offering I've neverdone this before, but I'm
offering an alignment call.
So as soon as you book, I willset up an alignment call with
you to make sure you're set upfor success as you move forward.
And then you'll get twocheck-ins with me just because I
want to make sure everything isprogressing, answer your

(16:23):
questions, all of that and thisprogram is literally worth
probably $3,000.
And with the 40% off, you'regetting it for 599.
So even at its regular price,999, it is still like it's
definitely under priced at themoment.
So after the sale, I'm going tolook at what it should actually
be set at.
It is worth way more than $999.

(16:45):
So, but I mean, you just have toask yourself do you want to
stay in this negativity?
Do you want to stay in a placewhere you fear your ex?
Do you want to stay in a placewhere your kids are watching you
crumble under stress?
What is that worth To me?
I would have paid easily $5,000for something to help me with
the situation and places I was,which I get into in Clean VDE.

(17:07):
I was not in a good place.
I was in a very dark place andit was important to me to heal
this, for myself, yes, but alsofor my kids, because I don't
want them repeating the samemistakes.
They're not mistakes, because Iwas meant to do this, but I
don't want them to experiencethe pain and the trauma that I
did.
I wouldn't want anyone toexperience the things I did.

(17:27):
So I just wanted to get on andkind of explain a little bit
more, because I'm super excitedabout sharing this flash sale.
I've never done a flash saleMaybe for Mother's Day last year
I did so.
There are also payment plansavailable.
I offer like after pay Klarna,so you can get it for like
pretty low per month, which isamazing, right, because

(17:50):
everybody deserves thisinformation.
But I do have to price it at aplace where it's in fair
exchange.
I can't just give it to someonefor a hundred dollars.
That would be way out of fairexchange.
So the last thing I'll say isyou know, yes, there are a lot
of amazing coaches who focus onrewiring and like reprogramming

(18:10):
and all of that.
That is fantastic.
That will help you.
It did help me get, like Iwould say, 80% of the way healed
, but the last piece is theemotional and energetic.
So the rewiring piece isamazing and it's absolutely
necessary part of this healing,but it is not enough.
So that's what I realizedquickly is like that got me a

(18:33):
huge piece of the way there, butit was then adding in the
emotional mastery and theenergetics that finished the job
right Kind of a funny way ofsaying it.
So I'm also going to share inthe show notes a link.
One of my clients wrote thisbeautiful article and talked
about her experiences with cleanBDE.
Her acts, as she shares in thepost, would rape her nightly and

(18:56):
she tried to run away from thetrauma.
She tried other things andnothing helped until clean BDE.
And like I, was in tearsreading this article because
it's so beautiful.
And so, yes, I'm the guide, I'mhelping you heal, but you're
the one taking the move, you'rethe one doing the work.
So this is a beautifulpartnership and I hope to see

(19:17):
you inside Clean BDE.
If you have any questions, feelfree to reach out and the sale
will continue for the nextcouple of days.
Sending you love, bye.

Speaker 1 (19:34):
Thank you for listening to Unveiled.
I always love hearing yourtakeaways, so please connect
with me on Instagram that,angela, marie, christian and
feel free to tag me when youshare it with your friends.
Every single review matters andit helps me reach more people
who want to improve this world.
If you leave a review, let meknow and I'll send you a little
thank you gift.
Any resources mentioned in theshow will be linked in the show

(19:58):
notes.
Sending you all love.
Bye.
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