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This episode reveals how energy vampires and unconscious (and conscious) rituals keep individuals stuck in toxic patterns. Empowering listeners to take radical responsibility and reclaim their energy, I provide insights into energetic healing and practical steps for transformation.

• Understanding the impact of energy vampires
• Recognizing hidden energetic cords that persist post-relationship
• The difference between conscious and unconscious rituals
• How negative thoughts about exes can manifest dark energy
• The importance of taking radical responsibility in relationships
• Tools and techniques for energetic clearing and protection
• The ripple effects of healing on children and future generations

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Speaker 1 (00:05):
Welcome to Unveiled, the podcast.
I'm your host, angela Christian, and I help you with unveiling
your true self by peeling awaythe layers that society placed
on you.
I do this with a combination ofneuroscience, energetics and
ancient spiritual wisdom.
I went from underpaid andoverworked in corporate America
to launching a six-figurecompany that continues to grow.

(00:26):
I went from toxic relationshipsto being happy and single for
over a year as I worked andcontinue to work on becoming the
best version of myself, and somuch more.
My greatest passion is to helpwomen and mothers heal,
transform and become the highestversions of themselves.
Heal, transform and become thehighest versions of themselves.

(00:46):
As I continue to grow andexpand my intuitive knowledge
and unique wisdom, I'll beincluding you on my journey to
millions, so let's get into it.
Hello and welcome back toUnveiled.
Okay, so today we're going toget into how rituals and energy
vampires keep you stuck, butbefore that, I did promise in

(01:10):
the last episode that I wasgoing to share the IG live on
here with Andrea, sounfortunately, I could not
figure out how to share my andAndrea's IG live with you all,
so I will link the IG live inthe show notes.
The pleasure model sale is onlyvalid through tomorrow, january
31st.
So 25% off is only validthrough January 31st.

(01:33):
Even if you purchase thepleasure model through my link
at a later time, you will stillget the free intuitive read from
me to help you see where yourbiggest blocks are.
But if you're just wanting toknow where your biggest blocks
are, you can also just purchasea mini intuitive read from me.
Okay, so today we're going toget real about energy healing

(01:55):
and reclaiming your power.
Today I'm going to talk aboutsomething that might be a little
triggering.
It was triggering for me when Ifirst started learning all of
this, but now it is like soempowering, so empowering.
That doesn't mean it's not,that doesn't mean it's fun,
let's be real.
But I just I see so many peopleposting on social media all

(02:20):
about blaming the ex right, andI used to do that too and I used
to like all of those quoteslike he's love bombing you, he's
a narcissist, blah, blah, blah.
His actions might have appearedthat way, but I'm going to talk
about why we wouldn't even be amatch if we didn't have
something going on in ourcreator field to attract that.

(02:42):
So I'm not blaming you, notblaming the old version of me,
but knowing that then you canstart to shift, because I feel
like everybody labels their exnow as a narcissist and what's
really getting missed when wejust label our ex is the radical
responsibility of knowing thatyou create your life.

(03:04):
You are literally living theTruman Show, as I always say.
But something very real thathappens in relationships are
rituals and energy siphoning.
So what this can look like orfeel like is, for example, I
used to date a country musicsinger and he was really into

(03:27):
dark energy stuff, like healways wanted to get the Ouija
board out and to go to hotelsthat were haunted, all of that
right, he was very fascinated byit.
He did end up signing with abig record label.
So I wouldn't be surprised,knowing what I know about the
music industry, if he didactually end up intentionally

(03:50):
using Dark Forces.
Different topic, different day.
But I dated him on and off forseveral years until he did
something unexcusable, which Iwon't even talk about today.
But again, coming back to me,right, I was an energy match for
it.
So my point here is that what Iwould notice is he lived in

(04:14):
Nashville and I lived inCalifornia, so I would only go
see him, probably like for aweek, once a month or so, and
the first day or two it wasgreat.
But by the end of my time withhim I would have rashes on my
face, I would have a stye in myeye, I would feel drained.

(04:35):
I didn't know the energeticprotections and the dark force
information that I do now.
If I had, well, first of all, Iwouldn't have probably dated
him, but second, I would haveknown how to protect myself and
how to recover my energy in themoment.
So I would return homeexhausted.
I would often be sick, I wouldhave to take medication for the

(04:59):
various rashes and things thatwere happening.
And I knew I was like.
I even had some of my spiritualfriends, some of my spiritual
teachers, telling me, like theycould see, even in photos, that
he was siphoning energy.
He had hooks in me.
That's what they're calledenergetic hooks.
Now, he didn't realize what hewas doing.

(05:22):
He just loved my energy.
I have very high frequency,high vibration energy and he
would tell me all the time likehe just loved being around me.
And that's probably the samefor all of you.
You're probably also a highfrequency soul.
So he was consumed by darkforces.
At that point it wasunintentional.

(05:43):
He was just like obsessed withthem, right, and yeah, I could
share a lot of stories, but sohim and his dark force friends
were using my energy to feed offof me, and it was literally
draining me.
I didn't realize, though, that,even when I left his company,
that he was still energeticallycorded into me, still siphoning

(06:03):
my energy, and that's why I keptfeeling this pull to go back to
him, even though some of thethings that happened like now
that I look back, I'm like Iwould never put up with that.
I didn't know, right, and thishappens to a lot of women, and
so energy vampires are very real.
Some are intentional, some areunintentional, and so, even if

(06:25):
you've moved on from someone,the way you can tell that
they're still corded into you isif you know you've cut off
contact, you've set boundaries,you've told yourself like I'm
not going back, but somehowmemories of him keep popping in,
or you just can't get him outof your mind, or you just find
yourself keep going back.

(06:46):
It's because he has a hold onyou energetically, and then what
happens with really toxic highconflict relationships is that
our unconscious mind is tryingto fix what has happened, and so
these are two very stronginvisible ties keeping you

(07:06):
connected to him.
So here's something to knowabout all the labeling that's
happening online.
So let's talk about all thelabeling that's happening online
and how this can actuallybackfire on the person.
So there are two types ofrituals which I'm going to dive
into.
There's I have a whole courseon on dark forces and rituals.

(07:27):
If you want to learn more, join, light it up.
It's an interactive program, soit's you get one-on-one access
to me as you're going throughthe program.
So unconscious rituals are let'ssay, you have an ex where
you're very angry and you keepthinking about him and you keep
sending and you're just like God, I hate him, blah, blah, blah.

(07:48):
Sending those kinds of thoughtsto him can actually create a
dark cloud in his life which youmight be thinking.
Well good, he deserves it.
But here's the thing is, bydoing that, even unintentionally
, it can come back on youenergetically.
We don't want that right.
So that would be an unconsciousritual.

(08:08):
And vice versa, if there's anex you have like, I guarantee,
at least one of my exes well, Iknow because I've had to clear
this ritual many times butthey're sending negative
thoughts towards me.
They don't know that they'recreating a ritual.
It's me.
They don't know that they'recreating a ritual.
They are and it's going toultimately end up harming them.
So this is why it's so key toone update your unconscious mind

(08:31):
that you're no longer in thisrelationship.
Regulate your nervous system.
I do all of that in my programs.
I will list them all below.
And then the other piece ofthat is the energetic.
So this month in my membershipunveiled, I'm going to be
focusing on relationships.
So we're going to update theunconscious mind that we're no

(08:52):
longer in those toxicrelationships and I'm going to
teach very specific energeticreleases and energetic
protections to cut the ties withall of your exes and anybody
who's has a lot of energeticinfluence in your life and then
also give you a very advancedprotection.
So you can either join mymembership or I'm offering this.

(09:16):
It's called unbonded.
I'm offering it as a miniprogram separately as well, so I
will link link both of thembelow.
So Unbonded will be deliveredto you on February 14th Happy
Valentine's Day and you'll havelifetime access and it'll be an
instant access program.
Or you can just join themembership.
In my membership you get accessto all of my monthly

(09:39):
masterclasses, mini programs andmonthly one-on-one intuitive
reads from me and monthlyone-on-one intuitive reads for
me, so you can choose what makessense to you.
So we just covered unconsciousrituals very briefly.
So conscious rituals there's alot to conscious rituals.
There's a lot that I go intoand light it up, but in terms of

(10:03):
relationships, I'm just goingto cover like a little sliver of
what conscious rituals areright now.
So conscious rituals would beand I used to do this, so I'm
not judging but would be likegoing on Facebook and just
blasting all about your ex andeverybody knows who you're
talking about.
All of that, right, so postingabout him online, talking about

(10:26):
how awful he is to your friends,but when you put it in writing,
that's when it makes itconscious.
So just like this also goes forif you were going to leave a
negative review for somebodyonline, which I actually had the
intuitive hit about six monthsago, I had left this really,
really negative review on atherapist who had access to one

(10:50):
of my children and I just wantedto help other parents, like
prevent them from having thesame issue.
So I wrote this very detailednegative review and I got an
intuitive hit like I shouldremove it.
Maybe it was even longer thansix months ago and I was like
that's weird, why am I thinkingthat?
And then I learned that, byleaving negative reviews, you

(11:11):
can go listen to AlessandroGiannetti's podcast this week
Amazing, it's all about likeleaving reviews and it talks
about similar things that I'mtalking about right now.
When I heard his podcast, I waslike that's why I got the
intuitive hit, because my higherself wants me to remove that,
because here's what happens isand I'm not going to talk about

(11:31):
what he talks about, because youcan go listen to his podcast
but I had to be a match right Toexperience what I experienced
with her.
However, when I put myexperience in writing, that
damages her reputation, eventhough what I experienced was
real.
It damages her reputation, itcan actually harm her.
And by doing that and nowknowing what I know, that is a

(11:53):
conscious ritual I'm purposelytrying to damage her reputation,
right?
So I am going to go remove it.
I need to find it.
So it's basically like castinga spell, and we don't want to do
that because the universedoesn't care whether the ritual
is intentional or not, and bothof them will come back on you.
And then, of course, we have themore advanced conscious rituals

(12:15):
, which I talk about in Light itUp, where people go into voodoo
shops or psychic shops and theysay, oh, I just really want to
be with this person, and thepsychic there can say like, oh,
I can help you.
Well, what they can do isactually create this whole
ritual which, yes, I know how todo, I would never do it when

(12:37):
you become the two of you becomelike, attracted to each other.
They can also do another ritual, which is more of a repelling
ritual, where, for example, ifyou want to break two people up,
there's a spell that you can do.
That will do that.
However, this is all dark force, dark magic you do not want to
mess with.
You do not want to beassociated with.

(12:58):
The thing is, though, theseshops are like as many Starbucks
that are around, there arethese shops, so you have to be
really careful with who you'reworking with in terms of, like,
a psychic and intuitive, If theyknow about dark forces some of
them don't even know about darkforces, but then if they do know
, and they're utilizing them,tapping into them, that's a

(13:19):
whole different ball game thatyou do not want to be involved
in.
A lot of actors, musicians.
They have used these rituals toget fame, to get wealth, to get
all of this right.
So I go into that in my Lightit Up program.
So you'll see me if you followme on Instagram talking more and
more about this throughout themonth.

(13:40):
But I really wanted to sharethis because in our culture
right now I talk about the threephases that I went through and
that I help my clients gothrough, and that is, for a lot
of us, was survival.
Right.
We escaped toxic, abusiverelationships.
We survived that relationship.
Then we moved into victimhoodonline airing out their dirty

(14:04):
laundry, talking about their exand labeling him as all of these
things.
Right.
You will never catch me onlinetalking about any of my exes or
even saying anything negativeabout them, because I know that
I created it.

(14:25):
I put out a casting call for aspecific character to come play
this role in my life so that Icould level up.
They actually did me a favor.
So I have nothing but love,even for my exes who physically
harmed me, and that might soundcrazy to some people, but what
can also happen is when someonefills that role.

(14:46):
For example, I had an ex whowas an, and then I, because I
was beating myself up so badly,he ended up getting physical
with me and that ended ourrelationship.
And it was so confusing to himand to me, because he had never

(15:07):
been physical with anybody elseI guarantee he's never been
physical with anyone after meand it was because he came and
filled that role.
And it kept getting worse andworse because my higher self was
like come on, learn thisfreaking lesson, stop beating
yourself up, right.
So that's why all of this is soimportant to understand,

(15:32):
because relationships are ourbiggest reflections and they are
our biggest opportunity forlearning.
Because these people are cominginto our lives playing a role
that we put a casting call outfor and they're showing up and
helping us.
And then what are we doing?
We are making them the villain,even though we're the one who
put out the casting call for thevillain, right?

(15:53):
When you look at this all from ahigher energetic perspective
and my work is for people whoare ready to move up to this
higher perspective I would neverwant to call in anyone who is
still very much gaining energyfrom labeling, from blaming, all
of that, like they would not beready for my work.
They will eventually, whetherin this lifetime or a different

(16:17):
lifetime.
But I only call in people whoare like, who just feel, okay,
I've done the blaming, I've donethe shaming, I've done all of
this.
I just want to feel better,right, like that's who I love
working with and who are readyto take radical responsibility
and understand, like, yes, wecreate everything in our life.
So in Unbonded I'm going tocover how to unhook yourself

(16:38):
energetically, clear theenergetic hooks, stop the energy
, siphoning the energeticvampires right, and then how to
break the rituals, and then howto reclaim your energy and make
sure nobody can drain from youanymore and if they do, you'll
know how to recover quickly.
So this is a lot.

(17:00):
You might want to listen to ita couple of times, but this is
the real work.
This is about you taking backyour power.
Okay, so if you are ready tofully clear the past, reclaim
your energy, join me insideunbonded or just join the
membership and then you getaccess to everything.
So some of the pastmasterclasses, many programs

(17:23):
I've had in the membership, areUnbothered.
So that was all about emotionalmastery.
I'll also be adding one in there, called Unwounded, which is all
about clearing childhoodprogramming.
That is key because a lot ofthe reasons why we end up
calling in people is because ofour childhood programming.
That is key, because a lot ofthe reasons why we end up
calling in people is because ofour childhood programming as
well.
So I also have an entiresection on energetic work.

(17:47):
But if you really areinterested in like the rituals
and all of that, then light itup would be the program for you.
I'm about to add a ton more inthere.
Once lighted up is complete,I'm going to double the price so
you can get in now, as I'mstill building it, and you'll
just have lifetime access.

(18:08):
But the work that I do, whileit's mostly for moms, it really
will benefit anybody.
So even if you're listening andyou're not a mom I have women
in my membership who are notmoms.
However, if you do have kids,this is even more important.
I had the sweetest note fromone of my clients in my clean
BDE program her five-year-old.

(18:29):
She likes to voice text and shewrote to her family group chat
like you guys have to listen toAngela.
She'll keep you safe.
Just listen to Angela.
And it was the sweetest thing.
It like made me want to cry.
I had like tears in my eyes.
I'm like, oh my gosh.
This is why I do what I do,because when you heal, if you do
have children, you are healingyour children and your

(18:51):
children's children.
It will be a ripple effect thesecond you start taking a
radical responsibility for yourlife, understanding that we
create everything in our life.
Right Today I'm having anenergetically off day.
I don't blame it on anybodyelse.
I started to get into my headbecause I do a lot of readings
for people and I was like I needto get out of people's energy.

(19:13):
I need to just get back in myenergy.
People are taking advantage ofme.
They're wanting me to do allthese free reads for them.
And then I was like, actually,where am I taking advantage of
myself?
So that's a huge piece issomething that I do cover in the
membership reflections wholedifferent topic.
But if someone is being rude toyou, for example, in simple

(19:38):
terms you're either being rudeto someone in your life Like I
caught myself doing this with mymom.
She sometimes talks to me aboutthings like I don't really care
about, and so I was being kindof rude and dismissive with her,
and then I noticed someone Ireally respected being rude and
dismissive to me and then I waslike, oh, it's because of the

(19:59):
way I've been treating my mom,right, so it can show up like
that.
Or it can show up as where am Ibeing rude and dismissive to
myself?
In the eight areas of life andI cover all of those in my
membership and how to balancethe eight areas of life but
typically the reflection willshow up in the area that you
care the most about.

(20:20):
So I get a lot of reflectionsin not really so much anymore.
Financial was a big one for meuntil I started shifting a lot,
but it'll show up in terms ofsocial family lately.
So when I get a reflectionthere, I'm like got it.
And our children, if you are aparent, our children, if they're

(20:40):
under seven, they are justreflections for us.
They are our little teachers,same with pets.
So my son last week wasfollowing me around literally
all week saying mommy, do youlove me, mommy, do you like me,
mommy, do you love me?
And at first I didn't evenconnect and then I realized I
was like, oh my gosh, he'sreflecting to me.
Where am I not showing myselfunconditional love, right?

(21:03):
And then as soon as I shiftedit, he shifted.
So all of this is connected andit all comes back to you.
I didn't love hearing that,believe me, but once you
understand how all of this works, it's really empowering,
because you can change yourself,yes, but you can change the way
other people treat you, andthat's why it's so hard for me
to see the labels online.

(21:26):
But then I also have empathyfor them, because I used to be
that person too.
I used to be sharing all thequotes about how horrible exes
are, and I used to talk about myex and all that does is come
back on you.
So it's not the vibe.
Let's change that.
So, again, I'll link the IGlive with Andrea and then I'll

(21:51):
link my membership and unbonded,which will be my new program in
February.
Or you can just do yourself afavor and join the membership,
which then you get access to allof my masterclasses, mini
programs and one-on-oneintuitive reads.
So, sending you guys so muchlove, bye.

(22:17):
Thank you for listening toUnveiled.
I always love hearing yourtakeaways, so please connect
with me on Instagram.
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(22:40):
notes.
Sending you all love.
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