October 21, 2025 • 23 mins
Sudden blow-ups, looping jealousy, or a partner who feels oddly unlike themselves can make any relationship feel fragile. We dig into the pattern behind those moments and share a grounded, practical way to protect your connection: regulate first, reflect second, then clear energy if needed. No fear-mongering, no bypassing—just a clear map for staying steady when emotions surge and narratives get loud.
We start by unpacking how out-of-character spikes in anger, fear, and blame can signal more than miscommunication, especially when substances are involved.
I walk through recent client cases, the telltale signs of energetic interference, and why emotional cords formed during arguments can make two people amplify the same pain.
From there, we focus on strategy: how to check your own overwhelm, anger, and fear before projecting, how to cut cords to de-escalate, and how to stabilize your energy centers—especially the sacral, solar plexus, and throat—to regain voice, boundaries, and choice.
We also talk about choosing self first so the relationship can mirror that respect back, using curiosity to navigate polarizing topics without getting hooked, and treating obstacles as training rather than proof that love is broken. If you’ve ever wondered why certain fights feel scripted or why apologies don’t stick, this conversation offers tools to break the loop and rebuild safety without losing your spark.
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SPEAKER_00 (00:05):
Welcome to Unveil Podcast.
I'm your host, Angela Christmas,and I help you with unveiling
your true self by peeling awaythe layers.
I do this with a combination ofneuroscience, energetics, and
intense spiritual places.
I went from underpaid andoverworked in corporate America
to launching a six-figurecompany that continues to grow.
(00:27):
I went from toxic relationships,being happy and single for over
a year, as I work and continueto work on becoming the best
version of myself and so muchmore.
My greatest passion is to helpwomen and mothers feel,
transform, and become thehighest versions of themselves.
As I continue to grow and expandmy intuitive knowledge and
unique wisdom, I'll be includingyou on my journey to millions.
(00:50):
So let's get into it.
Hello and welcome back toUnveiled.
Today we're going to talk abouthow dark forces can mess with
our romantic relationships, ourfamily relationships, all of
(01:11):
that.
Super important to understand.
And I am someone who always paysattention to patterns and signs.
And this last week, I havehelped probably six different
people, clients, friends withdark force issues in their
(01:33):
relationship.
And that is always a sign for meto pay attention.
And I wanted to share that todayon the podcast.
Relationships in general willprovide us with the biggest
learning opportunities, right?
Even though I have avoided beingin a relationship for the last
two years, I know relationshipsare 100% the way that I kept
(01:59):
growing and evolving, right?
Because without thoserelationships I was in, I
wouldn't be where I'm at now.
So I'm very grateful and feelappreciative of all of my past
relationships, even the onesthat did include abuse.
When I do look back, I can seethat in some of the
relationships I was in, therewas very much a dark force
(02:22):
influence on my partner,especially with partners who
drank a lot, who dabbled indifferent drugs, all of that,
right?
And so the dark forces take thatas an opportunity to come in and
amplify whatever's going on.
And because I am a light being,as you guys are, that gave the
(02:43):
dark forces more light, morefood, right?
Because they have disconnectedfrom source, which means they
need to get light fromsomewhere.
That is the way that they live.
And so they get it throughpeople.
So they wouldn't just work andmess with my partner.
They would also jump onto me,drain me, all of that, right?
(03:05):
So I just started kind oflooking at this in this way.
And then with the people I'vebeen helping with the dark
forces and their relationships,it can show up as really heated
arguments, right?
Because you can just imaginelike dark energy hanging around,
just waiting, right?
For that moment where theperson's going to be a match to
(03:29):
have dark energy attached tothem.
That's a whole different topic.
But that happens, then the otherperson gets upset, then they
become a match for dark energy.
And then you have two people,all of their emotions getting
amplified by dark energy.
So how will you know darkenergy, dark forces are
affecting your relationships?
(03:52):
Well, there will be a lot offeelings of anger from you or
the other person, right?
Your partner, or feelings offear.
If there's a lot of substanceabuse, there's definitely dark
forces involved.
It can be feelings of jealousy,it can be feelings of, well, it
depends on the different entity,right?
(04:12):
So I get into this more in mylight it up program, which is my
dark force program that I'vebeen revamping.
So if you're in my light it up,go log into circle because I'm
actually going to do away withmy hello audio for dark forces.
And it is, there are tons of newaudios in Circle for Dark Forces
right now, and I'm continuing toadd to it.
(04:35):
So we always have to look at thereflective component of Dark
Forces as well.
Like, unless I wake up in totalpain, which was this morning, I
had a severe pain in my thirdeye.
I shared all about it in myastral armor audio this morning
because it was very much relatedto a sleep issue, something that
(04:57):
happened in my sleep.
But unless I wake up in totalpain, I'm always checking my
reflections before I even lookat dark forces.
So you don't want to give darkforces the power.
You don't want to just jump todark forces because then who are
you prioritizing?
Yourself or dark forces, right?
I used to do that.
I used to jump straight into,oh, must be this, must be that.
(05:20):
I don't anymore.
They're just not important tome, right?
I'm not going to put them at thetop of the list because they
don't matter as much as I do.
So I immediately go throughdifferent levels of overwhelm,
fear, anger.
I check the most common emotionsthat will cause me to be a match
(05:40):
for dark forces.
I bring those levels down, thenI go look at my dark force
issues, right?
If I have any.
50% of the time, people are justjumping straight to the dark
force issue.
And it's actually false.
It's not even a dark forceattack.
It's just sometimes our higherself knows that we'll pay
(06:01):
attention if it's a certainsituation, right?
So they might be thinking like,oh, well, I need to communicate
something's out of balance.
So this is the way I know thatthey'll pay attention.
But then you're just clearingthe dark force entity and you're
not actually clearing thereflection.
So this is a newer upgradedtechnique that will be in my
(06:21):
light it up.
It wasn't in there before, but Iwill walk you through the steps
of this because this is key.
If you get your reflections andyour emotional imbalances
settled, you won't be getting aton of dark force attacks.
I mean, there's alwaysexceptions, right?
But by jumping straight intodiagnosing as a dark force issue
(06:45):
and bypassing the reflectivecomponent, that's not actually
going to solve the issue, right?
So going back to therelationship piece here, if
you're noticing that yourpartner is extremely angry or is
so distant or is blaming you orwhatever it might be, especially
(07:09):
if it's out of character, it'svery possible it's a dark force
issue.
It's also a reflective issue.
So there's always a reflectivecomponent.
That is my point.
So you want to deal with both,right?
Reflections and relationships,they go hand in hand, right?
If you get out of balance, thenkind of brings a third person
entity into your relationship.
(07:30):
Dark forces.
There's one specific dark forceentity whose entire joy in life
is creating issues inrelationships.
And they will even take someonethat you've known for 20 years
and make you think if if thedark force issues with you, then
they could make you think thatthat person is actually a
(07:52):
horrible person.
They've been plotting againstyou your whole life.
You will totally believe that ifyou're dealing this with this
one type of entity.
And same goes for if it's your,you know, let's say it's your
best friend of 20 years andthey're being influenced by this
specific entity, they're goingto think you've done something
wrong, that you're plottingagainst them, all of these
(08:14):
things.
And they make you so sure of itthat it will drive a wedge
between you two, right?
That's what they and they theylove doing that.
So it's really key to noticeanything out of character.
Like if there's if you're sohappy in your relationship or
marriage, you don't really getinto like intense arguments.
(08:34):
And then all of a sudden, likethere's all this anger and like
going at each other's throats.
Just take a step back for asecond.
What I do uh for a client, ifthey were to come to me and say
that, which I did deal, which Idid help a client with last week
when she was like, we neverfight.
This is so out of character.
We've been at each other'sthroats for the last three days.
(08:55):
It's affecting our kids.
Like, I don't know what to do.
I immediately looked at what aretheir levels of overwhelm, of
anger, of fear, right?
Making sure I relay that to themso that they can work on those
pieces.
And then I do look in and I'mlike, okay, what is actually
going on from a dark energy,dark force perspective?
(09:18):
And it's always usually one ortwo entity types that tend to
amplify the anger, the fear, thejealousy, the, you know, not
understanding each other, all ofthat.
So this has made me think overthe last, over the last week as
I've been helping so many peoplewith this, I'm like, just think
(09:38):
of all their relationships thatend and likely were because of
dark forces and the reflectivecomponents, right?
Because your partner is therefor you to grow.
They are reflecting you.
If you love yourself and you putyourself first, yes, that's what
(09:59):
you should be doing.
You should be putting yourselffirst.
So if you're not, your partnerwill never put you first.
You have to put yourself firstif you want your partner to put
you first, right?
So it's like just observingrelationships has been really
interesting.
And like thinking back on myrelationships.
Like I would always jump in andwant to do everything possible
(10:21):
for my partner to help them, butI was putting them before
myself.
And then I was wondering whythey weren't doing things that I
wanted them to be doing, likesurprising me or taking me out
to dinner.
They weren't putting me firstbecause I wasn't putting myself
first, right?
It sounds so simple, but it'svery true.
(10:42):
There's also things you can putinto your creator field to get
them to treat you a certain waythat's a little bit more
advanced.
But relationships really are thebest way to learn.
And so, yes, I'm not in arelationship right now, but I
still have relationships.
So I still have close familyrelationships, friendships, all
(11:02):
of that.
Anytime I get triggered bysomeone, I first look at what's
underneath that trigger, right?
What is it that I'm actuallywanting or worried about?
It's always an insecurity or alack.
So if I get triggered bysomeone, I ask, is this getting
triggered by an insecurity or alack?
(11:23):
Okay, let's say it's aninsecurity.
And then I look at the emotion.
Is it anger, fear, overwhelm,blah, blah, blah, right?
I get to the root of it, thenI'm able to neutralize.
Because what often happens, andI know I've talked about this
before, but we're in such an eraof blaming the other person in
(11:44):
the relationship, but they arejust mirroring you.
And yes, they could beamplified, right?
If they're dabbling in substanceabuse or drinking.
Like I know for me, I can havelike one glass of wine and be
good.
But if I have two glasses ormore, I have seen the shift in
(12:10):
how my energy opens up and Ibecome more vulnerable to dark
forces, right?
Yes, there's things you can do,but I have zero desire to get
drunk anymore.
I've done that plenty in myyounger years, but I have zero
desire to be drunk.
However, I do like the taste ofred wine, and I do like having a
glass of red wine here andthere.
(12:31):
So I have devised things I cando to protect myself.
But if I were to get into thethree glasses of wine stage,
100% I would be vulnerable todark forces, right?
They would love that.
So sometimes they can workthrough other people.
I noticed this the other daywhere someone offered me a glass
(12:53):
of wine and I didn't want anyfor a moment.
I was like, maybe that would benice.
But then I realized because thatperson that offered it to me had
an issue with dark forces, I waslike, oh, they're not doing that
to be nice.
They're doing that becausethey're influenced and they want
me to drink it so that then Ibecome vulnerable, right?
(13:13):
Because at the moment I wasreally emotionally balanced.
So I was not really a match.
But after you have a coupleglasses of wine, it's very easy
to get out of balanceemotionally, right?
You start thinking about thingsthat bothered you, you start
venting, all of that, then youbecome a match, and then you
become vulnerable and on you goto getting attacks and
(13:39):
reflections.
So, how can you prevent darkforces from affecting your
relationship?
Well, that is a much longertopic, but in short, what you
can start doing is trying tostay emotionally balanced,
meaning if your partner doessomething that pisses you off,
(14:01):
take a moment for yourself toregulate and don't react because
you're basically just screamingat yourself in the mirror if you
just start reacting.
So, does that do any good atall?
No.
So take a moment, try to see itfrom their perspective.
That has been one of the biggeststruggles for me, to be honest,
(14:25):
in my past relationships.
I'm like, well, he did that.
Like he stole money from me.
Of course I'm pissed.
But what I would do now is Iwould look at, okay, if I was in
his position, would I have donethat?
You know, I try, I see it fromtheir perspective.
I do that even now with certainfamily members who trigger me.
(14:45):
I will look at things from theirperspective.
Well, what made them do this?
Right.
I'm intuitive, so I can see likewhat's actually going on, how
they're feeling, where it'scoming from, all of that.
So I can actually have morecompassion instead of labeling
them as the bad person.
Yes, of course, I'm human.
I have moments where I just needto vent, but I will vent about
(15:08):
something or someone knowing.
Like I'll usually do it to afriend who's also high
frequency, and I'll just say,like, I just need to vent for a
moment and get this out so thatI can move forward.
And so I'll vent, and becauseshe's also intuitive, she'll
pick up on things that I didn'teven think about.
And I'm like, oh yeah, great.
Okay, seeing it from this way,this way, here's the reflection
(15:30):
for me.
Here's what I can do differentlyin the future, all of that.
I always look at these things aslearning opportunities.
Obstacles are the best way tolearn.
So instead of thinking asobstacles as bad, they're
actually amazing because youknow what?
Obstacles help us grow.
And like I would not be whereI'm at right now if I hadn't
(15:52):
gone through all of theobstacles I did.
And as some of you know, it'slike I've had so many obstacles.
Like most people don't even haveone of the obstacles I've had,
and I've had so many, but I'mgrateful for all of them.
And I can look and see exactlywhat I learned and pulled from
each situation.
And I can look at them all asperfect, right?
(16:14):
I can even take horribleexperiences, traumatic
experiences of mine that I usedto think happened to me because
I wasn't special, because all ofthis stuff.
And I can actually see now howit happened because I'm so
special.
I can flip horrific things intopositive things because I've
(16:35):
grown in consciousness, I'vegrown in the way I view things
closer to how Source views them,right?
Obviously, I'm still growing andmaking my way up.
But I like to play that game ofhow would Source view this as
perfect?
Because Source doesn't seeanything as bad.
Source sees everything asperfect.
(16:56):
So if you can take a horrificsituation, like I've had many of
those in the past and see themas perfect and how they've
gotten me to where I'm at now,like if none of those things had
happened, I wouldn't be hereright now talking to you.
I'd probably still be incorporate America dealing with
douchebags in San Francisco thatI used to date, right?
(17:17):
So that's where it'd probablybe.
Maybe a little bit lessstressed, but stress isn't
actually always bad when it'swhen you can see that it's
helping you grow.
So humans just so badly alwayswant to feel good and safe,
right?
I get it.
But feeling good and safe, doyou think that's going to help
(17:38):
you grow?
No.
So I encourage myself every dayto try to take a risk to, you
know, where I want to likereact, hold it in, neutralize,
and see it from theirperspective.
And the best situation to dothis in actually is if you have
(17:59):
a family member or friend who'ssuper political, right?
I'm not super political.
I have my views on things, but Idon't push them on other people.
But of course I know people whoare very political, who try to
push their views on everyone.
It used to bother me, I used torun away from it.
And now I just sit in it, Iactually lean in and I ask
(18:20):
questions.
Like they're saying, uh, I feelXYZ.
Oh, why do you feel like that?
And a lot of times they don'teven know.
It's just because of thebrainwashing, right?
So I've thought about justsneaking my contagion healing
into their bedroom at night,just giving them some space from
(18:40):
all the contagions, and thenmaybe they'll have a little aha
moment and realize that it's notactually how they feel.
It's the brainwashing, theprogramming, right?
So one of the biggest things Ididn't even touch on that I'm
realizing is the chords wecreate when we're having an
(19:00):
emotional reaction with someone.
So let's say you're in anargument with your partner and
you're feeling angry, and thenyou guys connect with a negative
emotional cord, you guys aregonna feel each other's anger,
then you're going to beamplifying it.
And I see this happen again andagain with partners who are
(19:21):
going through growth moments,right?
So if someone's having an issuewith their partner, that's one
of the first things I check too.
Are they corded into each other?
Most of the time it's yes.
So I fix that.
They usually feel some reliefjust from that piece of it.
Then the next thing I do is Icheck a lot of times with women,
(19:44):
I'm finding their lower chakrasare not operating at the level
they should be, which is anissue for many reasons.
It can also cause health issues.
So I've noticed a lot of thetimes, it's usually the first,
yeah, it's usually, it's usuallythe second and the third,
sometimes the first chakra, andthen sometimes the throat chakra
(20:04):
too, just if they're not someonewho feels comfortable speaking
up, all of that.
And so then I always fix thatsituation that brings them more
relief, right?
These are things they're noteven doing.
I'm just doing for them.
I do that first to boost all oftheir energy.
I infuse really high frequencyenergy into them so they're
(20:25):
feeling really good.
Then we can look at, okay,what's the reflection here?
And luckily, all of my clientsare really open to hearing that.
I've yet to work with someonewho is like, nope, that's not my
issue.
That's their issue, right?
(20:46):
Because I tend to attract highfrequency people.
And even if they did say that,that's okay.
Because I just know that's theirego having some resistance.
It's not them.
If they've found their way tome, I know that they're a high
frequency person who will end upbeing willing to look at their
piece in all of it, right?
But they might just need somecoaching to get there.
(21:08):
Anyway, so if this resonateswith you, I know this was kind
of a little bit of everything.
I will next week dive into onespecific piece of relationships
and dark forces.
If there's something you want meto talk about, definitely email
me.
Of course, it will be anonymous.
I would not share your name.
But if there's somethingspecific, like a relationship
(21:30):
issue you keep running runninginto, I can talk about that on
the podcast as an example andshare if there's dark force
issues happening, like what thatmight look like, all of that.
I love getting ideas from youguys and what you want to hear
about.
So email me, Angela atangela-marie Christian.com.
(21:51):
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and this is different from we'renot clearing groups off of you
for those who are familiar withdark forces.
It's a group clearing, meaningit's a live Zoom call where my
fellow intuitive and friendManuk and I are going to cut
(22:12):
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It's only$59, and it's comingup.
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Welcome to Unveil Podcast.
I'm your host, Angela Christmas,and I help you with unveiling
your true self by peeling awaythe layers.
I do this with a combination ofneuroscience, energetics, and
intense spiritual places.
I went from underpaid andoverworked in corporate America
to launching a six-figurecompany that continues to grow.
(00:27):
I went from toxic relationships,being happy and single for over
a year, as I work and continueto work on becoming the best
version of myself and so muchmore.
My greatest passion is to helpwomen and mothers feel,
transform, and become thehighest versions of themselves.
As I continue to grow and expandmy intuitive knowledge and
unique wisdom, I'll be includingyou on my journey to millions.
(00:50):
So let's get into it.
Hello and welcome back toUnveiled.
Today we're going to talk abouthow dark forces can mess with
our romantic relationships, ourfamily relationships, all of
(01:11):
that.
Super important to understand.
And I am someone who always paysattention to patterns and signs.
And this last week, I havehelped probably six different
people, clients, friends withdark force issues in their
(01:33):
relationship.
And that is always a sign for meto pay attention.
And I wanted to share that todayon the podcast.
Relationships in general willprovide us with the biggest
learning opportunities, right?
Even though I have avoided beingin a relationship for the last
two years, I know relationshipsare 100% the way that I kept
(01:59):
growing and evolving, right?
Because without thoserelationships I was in, I
wouldn't be where I'm at now.
So I'm very grateful and feelappreciative of all of my past
relationships, even the onesthat did include abuse.
When I do look back, I can seethat in some of the
relationships I was in, therewas very much a dark force
(02:22):
influence on my partner,especially with partners who
drank a lot, who dabbled indifferent drugs, all of that,
right?
And so the dark forces take thatas an opportunity to come in and
amplify whatever's going on.
And because I am a light being,as you guys are, that gave the
(02:43):
dark forces more light, morefood, right?
Because they have disconnectedfrom source, which means they
need to get light fromsomewhere.
That is the way that they live.
And so they get it throughpeople.
So they wouldn't just work andmess with my partner.
They would also jump onto me,drain me, all of that, right?
(03:05):
So I just started kind oflooking at this in this way.
And then with the people I'vebeen helping with the dark
forces and their relationships,it can show up as really heated
arguments, right?
Because you can just imaginelike dark energy hanging around,
just waiting, right?
For that moment where theperson's going to be a match to
(03:29):
have dark energy attached tothem.
That's a whole different topic.
But that happens, then the otherperson gets upset, then they
become a match for dark energy.
And then you have two people,all of their emotions getting
amplified by dark energy.
So how will you know darkenergy, dark forces are
affecting your relationships?
(03:52):
Well, there will be a lot offeelings of anger from you or
the other person, right?
Your partner, or feelings offear.
If there's a lot of substanceabuse, there's definitely dark
forces involved.
It can be feelings of jealousy,it can be feelings of, well, it
depends on the different entity,right?
(04:12):
So I get into this more in mylight it up program, which is my
dark force program that I'vebeen revamping.
So if you're in my light it up,go log into circle because I'm
actually going to do away withmy hello audio for dark forces.
And it is, there are tons of newaudios in Circle for Dark Forces
right now, and I'm continuing toadd to it.
(04:35):
So we always have to look at thereflective component of Dark
Forces as well.
Like, unless I wake up in totalpain, which was this morning, I
had a severe pain in my thirdeye.
I shared all about it in myastral armor audio this morning
because it was very much relatedto a sleep issue, something that
(04:57):
happened in my sleep.
But unless I wake up in totalpain, I'm always checking my
reflections before I even lookat dark forces.
So you don't want to give darkforces the power.
You don't want to just jump todark forces because then who are
you prioritizing?
Yourself or dark forces, right?
I used to do that.
I used to jump straight into,oh, must be this, must be that.
(05:20):
I don't anymore.
They're just not important tome, right?
I'm not going to put them at thetop of the list because they
don't matter as much as I do.
So I immediately go throughdifferent levels of overwhelm,
fear, anger.
I check the most common emotionsthat will cause me to be a match
(05:40):
for dark forces.
I bring those levels down, thenI go look at my dark force
issues, right?
If I have any.
50% of the time, people are justjumping straight to the dark
force issue.
And it's actually false.
It's not even a dark forceattack.
It's just sometimes our higherself knows that we'll pay
(06:01):
attention if it's a certainsituation, right?
So they might be thinking like,oh, well, I need to communicate
something's out of balance.
So this is the way I know thatthey'll pay attention.
But then you're just clearingthe dark force entity and you're
not actually clearing thereflection.
So this is a newer upgradedtechnique that will be in my
(06:21):
light it up.
It wasn't in there before, but Iwill walk you through the steps
of this because this is key.
If you get your reflections andyour emotional imbalances
settled, you won't be getting aton of dark force attacks.
I mean, there's alwaysexceptions, right?
But by jumping straight intodiagnosing as a dark force issue
(06:45):
and bypassing the reflectivecomponent, that's not actually
going to solve the issue, right?
So going back to therelationship piece here, if
you're noticing that yourpartner is extremely angry or is
so distant or is blaming you orwhatever it might be, especially
(07:09):
if it's out of character, it'svery possible it's a dark force
issue.
It's also a reflective issue.
So there's always a reflectivecomponent.
That is my point.
So you want to deal with both,right?
Reflections and relationships,they go hand in hand, right?
If you get out of balance, thenkind of brings a third person
entity into your relationship.
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Dark forces.
There's one specific dark forceentity whose entire joy in life
is creating issues inrelationships.
And they will even take someonethat you've known for 20 years
and make you think if if thedark force issues with you, then
they could make you think thatthat person is actually a
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horrible person.
They've been plotting againstyou your whole life.
You will totally believe that ifyou're dealing this with this
one type of entity.
And same goes for if it's your,you know, let's say it's your
best friend of 20 years andthey're being influenced by this
specific entity, they're goingto think you've done something
wrong, that you're plottingagainst them, all of these
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things.
And they make you so sure of itthat it will drive a wedge
between you two, right?
That's what they and they theylove doing that.
So it's really key to noticeanything out of character.
Like if there's if you're sohappy in your relationship or
marriage, you don't really getinto like intense arguments.
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And then all of a sudden, likethere's all this anger and like
going at each other's throats.
Just take a step back for asecond.
What I do uh for a client, ifthey were to come to me and say
that, which I did deal, which Idid help a client with last week
when she was like, we neverfight.
This is so out of character.
We've been at each other'sthroats for the last three days.
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It's affecting our kids.
Like, I don't know what to do.
I immediately looked at what aretheir levels of overwhelm, of
anger, of fear, right?
Making sure I relay that to themso that they can work on those
pieces.
And then I do look in and I'mlike, okay, what is actually
going on from a dark energy,dark force perspective?
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And it's always usually one ortwo entity types that tend to
amplify the anger, the fear, thejealousy, the, you know, not
understanding each other, all ofthat.
So this has made me think overthe last, over the last week as
I've been helping so many peoplewith this, I'm like, just think
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of all their relationships thatend and likely were because of
dark forces and the reflectivecomponents, right?
Because your partner is therefor you to grow.
They are reflecting you.
If you love yourself and you putyourself first, yes, that's what
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you should be doing.
You should be putting yourselffirst.
So if you're not, your partnerwill never put you first.
You have to put yourself firstif you want your partner to put
you first, right?
So it's like just observingrelationships has been really
interesting.
And like thinking back on myrelationships.
Like I would always jump in andwant to do everything possible
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for my partner to help them, butI was putting them before
myself.
And then I was wondering whythey weren't doing things that I
wanted them to be doing, likesurprising me or taking me out
to dinner.
They weren't putting me firstbecause I wasn't putting myself
first, right?
It sounds so simple, but it'svery true.
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There's also things you can putinto your creator field to get
them to treat you a certain waythat's a little bit more
advanced.
But relationships really are thebest way to learn.
And so, yes, I'm not in arelationship right now, but I
still have relationships.
So I still have close familyrelationships, friendships, all
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of that.
Anytime I get triggered bysomeone, I first look at what's
underneath that trigger, right?
What is it that I'm actuallywanting or worried about?
It's always an insecurity or alack.
So if I get triggered bysomeone, I ask, is this getting
triggered by an insecurity or alack?
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Okay, let's say it's aninsecurity.
And then I look at the emotion.
Is it anger, fear, overwhelm,blah, blah, blah, right?
I get to the root of it, thenI'm able to neutralize.
Because what often happens, andI know I've talked about this
before, but we're in such an eraof blaming the other person in
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the relationship, but they arejust mirroring you.
And yes, they could beamplified, right?
If they're dabbling in substanceabuse or drinking.
Like I know for me, I can havelike one glass of wine and be
good.
But if I have two glasses ormore, I have seen the shift in
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how my energy opens up and Ibecome more vulnerable to dark
forces, right?
Yes, there's things you can do,but I have zero desire to get
drunk anymore.
I've done that plenty in myyounger years, but I have zero
desire to be drunk.
However, I do like the taste ofred wine, and I do like having a
glass of red wine here andthere.
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So I have devised things I cando to protect myself.
But if I were to get into thethree glasses of wine stage,
100% I would be vulnerable todark forces, right?
They would love that.
So sometimes they can workthrough other people.
I noticed this the other daywhere someone offered me a glass
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of wine and I didn't want anyfor a moment.
I was like, maybe that would benice.
But then I realized because thatperson that offered it to me had
an issue with dark forces, I waslike, oh, they're not doing that
to be nice.
They're doing that becausethey're influenced and they want
me to drink it so that then Ibecome vulnerable, right?
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Because at the moment I wasreally emotionally balanced.
So I was not really a match.
But after you have a coupleglasses of wine, it's very easy
to get out of balanceemotionally, right?
You start thinking about thingsthat bothered you, you start
venting, all of that, then youbecome a match, and then you
become vulnerable and on you goto getting attacks and
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reflections.
So, how can you prevent darkforces from affecting your
relationship?
Well, that is a much longertopic, but in short, what you
can start doing is trying tostay emotionally balanced,
meaning if your partner doessomething that pisses you off,
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take a moment for yourself toregulate and don't react because
you're basically just screamingat yourself in the mirror if you
just start reacting.
So, does that do any good atall?
No.
So take a moment, try to see itfrom their perspective.
That has been one of the biggeststruggles for me, to be honest,
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in my past relationships.
I'm like, well, he did that.
Like he stole money from me.
Of course I'm pissed.
But what I would do now is Iwould look at, okay, if I was in
his position, would I have donethat?
You know, I try, I see it fromtheir perspective.
I do that even now with certainfamily members who trigger me.
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I will look at things from theirperspective.
Well, what made them do this?
Right.
I'm intuitive, so I can see likewhat's actually going on, how
they're feeling, where it'scoming from, all of that.
So I can actually have morecompassion instead of labeling
them as the bad person.
Yes, of course, I'm human.
I have moments where I just needto vent, but I will vent about
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something or someone knowing.
Like I'll usually do it to afriend who's also high
frequency, and I'll just say,like, I just need to vent for a
moment and get this out so thatI can move forward.
And so I'll vent, and becauseshe's also intuitive, she'll
pick up on things that I didn'teven think about.
And I'm like, oh yeah, great.
Okay, seeing it from this way,this way, here's the reflection
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for me.
Here's what I can do differentlyin the future, all of that.
I always look at these things aslearning opportunities.
Obstacles are the best way tolearn.
So instead of thinking asobstacles as bad, they're
actually amazing because youknow what?
Obstacles help us grow.
And like I would not be whereI'm at right now if I hadn't
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gone through all of theobstacles I did.
And as some of you know, it'slike I've had so many obstacles.
Like most people don't even haveone of the obstacles I've had,
and I've had so many, but I'mgrateful for all of them.
And I can look and see exactlywhat I learned and pulled from
each situation.
And I can look at them all asperfect, right?
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I can even take horribleexperiences, traumatic
experiences of mine that I usedto think happened to me because
I wasn't special, because all ofthis stuff.
And I can actually see now howit happened because I'm so
special.
I can flip horrific things intopositive things because I've
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grown in consciousness, I'vegrown in the way I view things
closer to how Source views them,right?
Obviously, I'm still growing andmaking my way up.
But I like to play that game ofhow would Source view this as
perfect?
Because Source doesn't seeanything as bad.
Source sees everything asperfect.
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So if you can take a horrificsituation, like I've had many of
those in the past and see themas perfect and how they've
gotten me to where I'm at now,like if none of those things had
happened, I wouldn't be hereright now talking to you.
I'd probably still be incorporate America dealing with
douchebags in San Francisco thatI used to date, right?
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So that's where it'd probablybe.
Maybe a little bit lessstressed, but stress isn't
actually always bad when it'swhen you can see that it's
helping you grow.
So humans just so badly alwayswant to feel good and safe,
right?
I get it.
But feeling good and safe, doyou think that's going to help
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you grow?
No.
So I encourage myself every dayto try to take a risk to, you
know, where I want to likereact, hold it in, neutralize,
and see it from theirperspective.
And the best situation to dothis in actually is if you have
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a family member or friend who'ssuper political, right?
I'm not super political.
I have my views on things, but Idon't push them on other people.
But of course I know people whoare very political, who try to
push their views on everyone.
It used to bother me, I used torun away from it.
And now I just sit in it, Iactually lean in and I ask
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questions.
Like they're saying, uh, I feelXYZ.
Oh, why do you feel like that?
And a lot of times they don'teven know.
It's just because of thebrainwashing, right?
So I've thought about justsneaking my contagion healing
into their bedroom at night,just giving them some space from
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all the contagions, and thenmaybe they'll have a little aha
moment and realize that it's notactually how they feel.
It's the brainwashing, theprogramming, right?
So one of the biggest things Ididn't even touch on that I'm
realizing is the chords wecreate when we're having an
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emotional reaction with someone.
So let's say you're in anargument with your partner and
you're feeling angry, and thenyou guys connect with a negative
emotional cord, you guys aregonna feel each other's anger,
then you're going to beamplifying it.
And I see this happen again andagain with partners who are
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going through growth moments,right?
So if someone's having an issuewith their partner, that's one
of the first things I check too.
Are they corded into each other?
Most of the time it's yes.
So I fix that.
They usually feel some reliefjust from that piece of it.
Then the next thing I do is Icheck a lot of times with women,
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I'm finding their lower chakrasare not operating at the level
they should be, which is anissue for many reasons.
It can also cause health issues.
So I've noticed a lot of thetimes, it's usually the first,
yeah, it's usually, it's usuallythe second and the third,
sometimes the first chakra, andthen sometimes the throat chakra
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too, just if they're not someonewho feels comfortable speaking
up, all of that.
And so then I always fix thatsituation that brings them more
relief, right?
These are things they're noteven doing.
I'm just doing for them.
I do that first to boost all oftheir energy.
I infuse really high frequencyenergy into them so they're
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feeling really good.
Then we can look at, okay,what's the reflection here?
And luckily, all of my clientsare really open to hearing that.
I've yet to work with someonewho is like, nope, that's not my
issue.
That's their issue, right?
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Because I tend to attract highfrequency people.
And even if they did say that,that's okay.
Because I just know that's theirego having some resistance.
It's not them.
If they've found their way tome, I know that they're a high
frequency person who will end upbeing willing to look at their
piece in all of it, right?
But they might just need somecoaching to get there.
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Anyway, so if this resonateswith you, I know this was kind
of a little bit of everything.
I will next week dive into onespecific piece of relationships
and dark forces.
If there's something you want meto talk about, definitely email
me.
Of course, it will be anonymous.
I would not share your name.
But if there's somethingspecific, like a relationship
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issue you keep running runninginto, I can talk about that on
the podcast as an example andshare if there's dark force
issues happening, like what thatmight look like, all of that.
I love getting ideas from youguys and what you want to hear
about.
So email me, Angela atangela-marie Christian.com.
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And if you haven't signed up forthe Halloween group clearing,
and this is different from we'renot clearing groups off of you
for those who are familiar withdark forces.
It's a group clearing, meaningit's a live Zoom call where my
fellow intuitive and friendManuk and I are going to cut
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cords for you, clear contagions,give you thought and emotional
protection tools, and thenyou'll have a short QA at the
end with us.
It's only$59, and it's comingup.
Oh, it's actually nextWednesday.
So it's the 29th.
So you have about a week, andit'll be a great fun time.
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At the end, you can askquestions in general just about
dark forces, but you will walkaway feeling amazing.
So hope to see you guys there.
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