February 11, 2025 • 21 mins
In this episode, we explore the reasons behind toxic relationships and how to heal from them through self-discovery and empowerment.
I share pieces of my journey in this early bird sneak peek of my new program Unbonded.
• Importance of nervous system regulation and unconscious reprogramming
• Personal stories highlighting the cycle of toxic relationships
• Exploring the notion of soul contracts in relationships
• The role of the creator field in shaping personal experiences
• Transitioning through survival, victimhood, and into creation
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Welcome to Unveiled, the podcast.
I'm your host, angela Christian, and I help you with unveiling
your true self by peeling awaythe layers that society placed
on you.
I do this with a combination ofneuroscience, energetics and
ancient spiritual wisdom.
I went from underpaid andoverworked in corporate America
to launching a six-figurecompany that continues to grow.
(00:21):
I went from toxic relationshipsto being happy and single for
over a year as I worked andcontinue to work on becoming the
best version of myself, and somuch more.
My greatest passion is to helpwomen and mothers heal,
transform and become the highestversions of themselves.
As I continue to grow andexpand my intuitive knowledge
(00:41):
and unique wisdom, I'll beincluding you on my journey to
millions.
So let's get into it.
Welcome back to Unveiled.
Today I have a little specialepisode for you.
I decided to share my firstaudio inside Unbonded with you
(01:04):
guys, which is all about why weexperience toxic relationships.
I felt this was just like agood way for you to just like
get a little taste of what toexpect inside unbonded and if
you have any questions about it,definitely reach out.
And so, as a reminder, it's onpresale.
Unbonded is on presale throughFebruary 14th, so it's being
(01:26):
delivered on February 14th.
Once it is delivered, thepresale price, which is only
$111, will go up to the fullprogram price, which is $499.
That's for now.
It might actually go up higherat some point because it's
actually a lot bigger of aprogram than I expected.
(01:46):
It's really hard for me toshare small programs because I'm
like I just want to helpeveryone with everything.
But you know, certain peoplewant to start somewhere.
My signature program is CleanBeauty E, which is a much larger
program and it includes likecheck ins with me.
So Unbonded is an instantaccess program, which means
there's no access to me.
(02:07):
You can purchase like a miniintuitive read for an additional
price.
But unbonded is more forsomeone who, just you know,
wants to jump in, wants to getstarted clearing some of this
past toxic gunk.
Unbonded does not includeemotional mastery.
(02:28):
It does not include my darkforce teachings.
What it does include is thenervous system regulation, which
is key unconsciousreprogramming to shift your mind
, to shift, which will thenpositively affect your creator
field.
So it does include someenergetic components as well.
(02:49):
So it is actually a great placeto start if you're wanting to
just start shifting therelationship dynamics that
you've been experiencing.
My typical client is a mother.
However, unbonded would alsowork for women who are just
wanting to, you know, get rid ofthis toxic relationship
(03:11):
situation that they've beenexperiencing.
Clean BDE would just be formoms, so not to confuse you, but
unbonded nervous systemregulation, unconscious
reprogramming energetics.
Clean BDE is specifically formothers wanting to clear the
toxic relationship with theirco-parent.
That includes everything.
(03:33):
Unbonded does not include theemotional mastery component,
which is one of my pillars.
My emotional mastery program iscalled Unbothered, so you can
purchase that separately.
Mastery program is calledunbothered, so you can purchase
that separately.
Or you get access to all ofthese mini programs, unbonded,
unbothered, inside my membership.
If you join my membership,you'll have access to them as
(03:54):
long as you're in the membership.
Once you leave you will nothave access to them anymore.
And these are audios.
They're made to return asneeded.
So, for example, the more thatyou listen to a specific audio
if it's clearing, childhoodprogramming if it's clearing and
I do include a childhoodunprogramming episode inside
(04:17):
Unbonded, because a lot of ourrelationship dynamics start from
our childhood relationships,right?
So I will share the links inthe show notes for all of these
and you can kind of check it out.
But again, if you have aquestion, you can reach out.
So now let's dive in.
Hello and welcome to unbonded.
So let's start with the verybasics, and you might have
(04:42):
already heard me talk about thisa little bit on my podcast or,
if you follow me on social media, maybe you've seen me post
something about this, but I justwant to be very clear about
where we're even starting onthis journey.
So if you are here, you'velikely wondered why you might
(05:03):
keep attracting the same kind ofrelationship or the same like
patterns in relationships, ormaybe, like some people, you
just can't shake, like memoriesstill keep popping up, even
though you don't want to be withthem, and then, for a lot of
you, you have a co parent whereyou just want to change the
dynamic with someone whoconsistently triggers you right.
(05:26):
So we're going to cover whythat's happening and
unfortunately, there's a lot oflow frequency information out
there about toxic relationships,about why we find ourselves in
toxic relationships and a lot ofamazing.
You know coaches who think thatthey're really helping by
(05:47):
encouraging you to label your exas a narcissist, or here's why
he did that, or you know there'sa lot of.
I mean, I follow some of thefunny like meme Instagram
creators where they're just like, make funny memes of like your
co parent and all of that.
I used to be someone who wouldshare that a lot.
I used to complain about my exco parent onparent on Facebook.
(06:07):
I used to do all the things.
So I'm really trying to becareful with not sounding like
I'm judging people or standingon a soapbox or something,
because I've been there, I'vedone it all and I actually think
they're necessary steps and apart of the healing process,
right.
So, in case you don't know,quick background on me is I've
(06:32):
had very toxic relationshipdynamics, honestly, since high
school, and I'll tell you why,and I know exactly why.
They continued to get worse, asthey often do when it's a life
lesson that we're supposed toovercome.
I will share more about that aswell.
And as it got worse, I startedpartying, drinking, doing all
(06:55):
the things to numb out and Ijust couldn't figure it out and
I just kept thinking like, okay,well, here I am in another
toxic relationship.
I'm going to have to leave him,and I would.
I would get the courage toleave, and then I would find
myself in a relationship and thesame thing would happen or very
similar right With my oldestchild.
(07:15):
I was in a very abusiverelationship and at one point
trigger warning he almost chokedme to death.
Luckily, his brother walked inand pulled him off of me.
He was on drugs and drinkingand definitely covered in dark
forces which I know about now.
I did not know the extent of itat the time.
(07:37):
So looking back, I candefinitely see what was
happening.
But what I started to notice is,even in relationships with men
who had never had any history ofabuse, somehow we would get to
a point where they would likephysically abuse me, or it would
be emotional abuse or verbalabuse.
And then I started thinking,god, is it me?
(07:59):
And I just was like so hard onmyself.
And then I was like, am I justtoo picky?
Am I too?
You know, I couldn't figure outwhat was happening.
It was really frustrating andat this point, like I had been
in so many relationships and Iwas just ready for it to be done
.
And this will help you, whetheryou're just you've had one
(08:20):
toxic relationship or if you'vehad many.
So this was definitely a lifelesson for me to learn so that I
could teach and help otherpeople.
So my work rests heavily onthree phases that I have seen
most women go through here andmy work is mostly for mothers
(08:41):
although there have been womenwho have found me who are not
mothers and it still applies ifyou've had, you know, toxic
relationships.
The first phase is justsurvival, getting out of the
relationship right.
And then the next phase isvictimhood for lack of a better
word where we're very much likeblaming them, blaming ourselves,
maybe both very much in that,like labeling oh, he was a
(09:06):
narcissist, all of that right.
So some people get stuck thereand that's where they stay.
I was stuck there for over adecade, so again, I totally get
it.
I had to be there andcontinuing to play out those
toxic relationships in order toreally understand every facet of
toxic relationships, how theylook, everything right.
(09:29):
So I am happy I got to do thatso that I can help other people.
The third stage usually women,usually mothers, come to me when
they're still in the victimhoodstage, but they're at like the
end of it, right, they've triedall of the blaming, they've gone
to therapy, they've tried othermodalities and it's just
they're just not feeling likeit's getting the job done right.
(09:51):
They might might not even beable to put their finger on it.
They're just like I just wantit out of me.
I just want to be in a healthyrelationship, right?
And I remember the day that Ifell to my knees and prayed for,
like I was, like I am done withvictimhood, please God.
Like I am ready to create mylife, and that's what I call the
(10:14):
creator era, right?
So when you're ready to startcreating your life, it does take
radical responsibility.
It does take some reprogramming.
I've seen some healers outthere say like, oh, just come to
me, I'll remove it for you.
That could remove part of it,yes, but then there's some other
(10:35):
work you have to do.
Like it's just part of you know, earning your right to be a
higher frequency soul.
And so if you're in thisprogram, you are likely a higher
frequency soul Because, if youhaven't noticed, on social media
I've been trying to really justspeak to my ideal client who is
a mother or a woman who is overbeing in that victimhood era
(10:59):
stage, right?
So, without going too much intoa different topic, about 86% of
the world is what I would call ayounger soul, right?
That leaves only 14% of thepopulation that are older souls.
Older soul meaning higher infrequency, meaning they've lived
more lives.
It doesn't make higherfrequency souls better than
(11:21):
lower frequency souls, it justit's kind of like comparing
kindergarten to a collegegraduate, right.
Like the higher frequency soulhas just lived more lives, it
has overcome more obstacles, ithas more wisdom, right?
So my work is not really goingto resonate for younger
frequency souls because theyreally want to stay in the lower
(11:42):
frequency healing modalities oflike blaming.
They might have more, theymight have a soul lesson that
hasn't been learned yet, whichgets me into the next piece of
this.
So most people don't understand.
Don't realize that toxicrelationships are always one of
two things.
It makes it very simple, but alot of people don't like to hear
(12:03):
this.
I would definitely would nothave enjoyed hearing this 10
years ago, right?
So one, it's a soul contract,meaning it's something that you
and this person agreed to beforeincarnating into this lifetime.
So one of the acts that Imentioned who was severely
abusive to me, he and I had asoul contract.
We agreed before we came inthat he would do those things to
(12:25):
me.
I would learn he literallysigned up to be a villain for me
.
He did that for me.
So can you see how, like ifsomeone is lower frequency, they
don't have a higherunderstanding of how the
universe works from an energeticperspective.
(12:48):
That would be really hard tounderstand.
It would have been hard for me,probably.
I've always been pretty open tothis stuff.
So if someone had told me that,I probably would have been like
, oh wow, that probably wouldhave shifted my perspective, but
I wouldn't have experiencedanother 10 years of toxic
relationships either.
I had to go through that right.
(13:08):
So he and I had a soul contractfor him to literally do those
things to me.
A lot of things I won't get intohere.
I do get into them all in cleanBDE, or not even all of them,
but a lot of them.
So that's number one solecontract.
Number two it's a creator fieldissue.
That simply means we are allliving in our own Truman show,
(13:31):
meaning you create everything inyour life.
If it's not a sole contractthing, right.
So like a sole contract thingmeans it will happen no matter
what.
So there was nothing I could doto prevent that happening.
It was a soul contract.
Our higher selves agreed tothat.
It was going to happen.
Our creator field reflectionshappen based on our energy,
(13:57):
based on our thoughts, ourpatterns, our beliefs, our
actions.
So that's why we can actuallychange our creator field and
change how people treat us.
So this was a big piece in mylearning as well, because what I
learned first was, okay, I justhave control over myself, right
, that worked for a little while.
(14:17):
Then I learned, oh, once I hadhigher frequency teachings, I
learned, oh yeah, I can controlmyself and I can control other
people too, which is pretty cool.
And so why would our souls dothis?
It is for growth.
Obstacles create growth, andthat's exactly why we incarnate
(14:39):
in to third realm beings.
Earth is the third realm.
We are physical beings.
This is where we can physicallyovercome obstacles.
So the toxic relationship youexperienced or if you've had
several of them too it wasn'tjust random, it wasn't a mistake
.
If it was a soul contract thing, it's because your soul chose
(14:59):
that experience to help you stepup into a higher level of
wisdom.
And now that's why you're here.
It's you're not here byaccident.
Your higher self knew you wouldsign up for this program, that
you would get this information.
So none of this means that youshould stay in a harmful
situation or that what they didwas acceptable or anything like
(15:19):
that?
Absolutely not.
This is all about just shiftingthe perspective.
Not.
This is all about just shiftingthe perspective, starting to
see the bigger picture.
So instead of asking why didthis happen to me, you could
start asking what did my soulwant me to learn from this?
We all have reoccurring soullessons that we need to learn,
(15:40):
and they often start somewhere.
You know, from zero to five,we'll have a first lesson.
For some people it's self love.
I mean, that's pretty much alesson everybody has to learn.
Self love, boundaries, trustingyourself that's a big one right
now for the entire world istrusting yourself over what
other people are telling you todo, and then choosing yourself
(16:04):
and not settling for less.
So now let me back up a littlebit, in case you don't know what
a creator field is.
Our creator field is anelectromagnetic field that we
have around us.
It's made up of our thoughts,beliefs, past experiences,
unconscious reprogram orunconscious programming all of
that we.
(16:25):
It's what literally hands thescripts to people to act out.
So you can kind of think of itlike a movie and your energy is
broadcasting a script that sayspeople always take advantage of
me or I'm beating myself up, soplease come beat me up.
Right, that was mine From avery young age.
(16:46):
I was so hard on myself withgrades, with diet, I had eating
disorders, constantly beatingmyself up, and if you look back
at pictures of me, I always hadbruises all over my body.
So our body speaks to us andshows us where we're emotionally
out of balance.
I didn't know that, obviously,at the time, but the doctors
(17:07):
would always ask, like, why doyou have all of these bruises
all over you?
That is a sign that you areemotionally out of balance, that
you're beating yourself up.
So if you're someone who's beenhard on yourself like I was,
that can put a script in thecreator field for other people
to be hard on you.
And it's not to punish you,it's to get you to a point where
(17:29):
you're like I've had enough.
So you guys are here, you'vegotten to that point, right.
So congratulations.
That's amazing.
Now we need to change thatscript, right?
So we're going to do that inhere with the nervous system
regulation to get you out offight or flight.
I do that for you.
Then we're going to do thatwith the unconscious
(17:50):
reprogramming.
Again, I do that for you.
I'm updating your unconsciousmind that you're no longer in
danger and then I will teach yousome of the energetics.
What you'll notice if you followthe steps in here is that the
people in your life will startresponding differently.
Some will just shift, some willfall away.
(18:12):
I've had that happen a lot oftimes.
I don't get attached to people.
That doesn't mean I don't likecare for them, but I can tell
when me and a friend orsomething are just like no
longer energetically a match andwe just fall away and that's
totally fine.
That's part of seeing thingsfrom a higher frequency.
Doesn't mean I don't care forthem.
It just means I'm, you know,moving one way, they're moving
(18:36):
another way and so because thisis an instant access program, I
am not available to help youfigure out like specifics, right
.
But if you ever do want to booka one-on-one with me, I will put
a link in the show notes for amini read and what I can do is I
can look in and see what couldbe in your creator field that
(18:58):
needs shifting and I can giveyou some power statements to
start dialing into your creatorfield to have people start
shifting and treating youdifferently.
I will teach you some in here,just based on what I feel would
be helpful for the group.
But if you ever want specificto you, you can book a mini
(19:18):
intuitive read.
So I would just listen to thisagain, let it sink in, really be
proud of yourself for takingthis step Because, like I said,
a lot of people don't make it tothis step.
A lot of people aren't made orsupposed to get to this step.
So that's okay, I havecompassion for them.
They are our younger souls whoare just going through their own
(19:42):
learning stage.
Right, if you're here, you'relikely a higher frequency, older
soul, so you're just ready,naturally, to start shifting and
with a lot of the changeshappening in the world that
we're going to see, we need morehigher frequency leaders who no
longer have these negativebeliefs and programs in their
(20:04):
creator field.
So in the next series of audiosyou will go through the nervous
system regulation.
You will go through theunconscious reprogramming and
after that, some more of theenergetics.
I'm going to give you someenergy protections and an
energetic cord cutting to gethis energy out of you, to keep
(20:24):
it out of you.
Okay, so I will talk to you inthe next audio.
Thank you for listening toUnveiled.
I always love hearing yourtakeaways, so please connect
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(20:48):
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Sending you all love.
Bye.
Welcome to Unveiled, the podcast.
I'm your host, angela Christian, and I help you with unveiling
your true self by peeling awaythe layers that society placed
on you.
I do this with a combination ofneuroscience, energetics and
ancient spiritual wisdom.
I went from underpaid andoverworked in corporate America
to launching a six-figurecompany that continues to grow.
(00:21):
I went from toxic relationshipsto being happy and single for
over a year as I worked andcontinue to work on becoming the
best version of myself, and somuch more.
My greatest passion is to helpwomen and mothers heal,
transform and become the highestversions of themselves.
As I continue to grow andexpand my intuitive knowledge
(00:41):
and unique wisdom, I'll beincluding you on my journey to
millions.
So let's get into it.
Welcome back to Unveiled.
Today I have a little specialepisode for you.
I decided to share my firstaudio inside Unbonded with you
(01:04):
guys, which is all about why weexperience toxic relationships.
I felt this was just like agood way for you to just like
get a little taste of what toexpect inside unbonded and if
you have any questions about it,definitely reach out.
And so, as a reminder, it's onpresale.
Unbonded is on presale throughFebruary 14th, so it's being
(01:26):
delivered on February 14th.
Once it is delivered, thepresale price, which is only
$111, will go up to the fullprogram price, which is $499.
That's for now.
It might actually go up higherat some point because it's
actually a lot bigger of aprogram than I expected.
(01:46):
It's really hard for me toshare small programs because I'm
like I just want to helpeveryone with everything.
But you know, certain peoplewant to start somewhere.
My signature program is CleanBeauty E, which is a much larger
program and it includes likecheck ins with me.
So Unbonded is an instantaccess program, which means
there's no access to me.
(02:07):
You can purchase like a miniintuitive read for an additional
price.
But unbonded is more forsomeone who, just you know,
wants to jump in, wants to getstarted clearing some of this
past toxic gunk.
Unbonded does not includeemotional mastery.
(02:28):
It does not include my darkforce teachings.
What it does include is thenervous system regulation, which
is key unconsciousreprogramming to shift your mind
, to shift, which will thenpositively affect your creator
field.
So it does include someenergetic components as well.
(02:49):
So it is actually a great placeto start if you're wanting to
just start shifting therelationship dynamics that
you've been experiencing.
My typical client is a mother.
However, unbonded would alsowork for women who are just
wanting to, you know, get rid ofthis toxic relationship
(03:11):
situation that they've beenexperiencing.
Clean BDE would just be formoms, so not to confuse you, but
unbonded nervous systemregulation, unconscious
reprogramming energetics.
Clean BDE is specifically formothers wanting to clear the
toxic relationship with theirco-parent.
That includes everything.
(03:33):
Unbonded does not include theemotional mastery component,
which is one of my pillars.
My emotional mastery program iscalled Unbothered, so you can
purchase that separately.
Mastery program is calledunbothered, so you can purchase
that separately.
Or you get access to all ofthese mini programs, unbonded,
unbothered, inside my membership.
If you join my membership,you'll have access to them as
(03:54):
long as you're in the membership.
Once you leave you will nothave access to them anymore.
And these are audios.
They're made to return asneeded.
So, for example, the more thatyou listen to a specific audio
if it's clearing, childhoodprogramming if it's clearing and
I do include a childhoodunprogramming episode inside
(04:17):
Unbonded, because a lot of ourrelationship dynamics start from
our childhood relationships,right?
So I will share the links inthe show notes for all of these
and you can kind of check it out.
But again, if you have aquestion, you can reach out.
So now let's dive in.
Hello and welcome to unbonded.
So let's start with the verybasics, and you might have
(04:42):
already heard me talk about thisa little bit on my podcast or,
if you follow me on social media, maybe you've seen me post
something about this, but I justwant to be very clear about
where we're even starting onthis journey.
So if you are here, you'velikely wondered why you might
(05:03):
keep attracting the same kind ofrelationship or the same like
patterns in relationships, ormaybe, like some people, you
just can't shake, like memoriesstill keep popping up, even
though you don't want to be withthem, and then, for a lot of
you, you have a co parent whereyou just want to change the
dynamic with someone whoconsistently triggers you right.
(05:26):
So we're going to cover whythat's happening and
unfortunately, there's a lot oflow frequency information out
there about toxic relationships,about why we find ourselves in
toxic relationships and a lot ofamazing.
You know coaches who think thatthey're really helping by
(05:47):
encouraging you to label your exas a narcissist, or here's why
he did that, or you know there'sa lot of.
I mean, I follow some of thefunny like meme Instagram
creators where they're just like, make funny memes of like your
co parent and all of that.
I used to be someone who wouldshare that a lot.
I used to complain about my exco parent onparent on Facebook.
(06:07):
I used to do all the things.
So I'm really trying to becareful with not sounding like
I'm judging people or standingon a soapbox or something,
because I've been there, I'vedone it all and I actually think
they're necessary steps and apart of the healing process,
right.
So, in case you don't know,quick background on me is I've
(06:32):
had very toxic relationshipdynamics, honestly, since high
school, and I'll tell you why,and I know exactly why.
They continued to get worse, asthey often do when it's a life
lesson that we're supposed toovercome.
I will share more about that aswell.
And as it got worse, I startedpartying, drinking, doing all
(06:55):
the things to numb out and Ijust couldn't figure it out and
I just kept thinking like, okay,well, here I am in another
toxic relationship.
I'm going to have to leave him,and I would.
I would get the courage toleave, and then I would find
myself in a relationship and thesame thing would happen or very
similar right With my oldestchild.
(07:15):
I was in a very abusiverelationship and at one point
trigger warning he almost chokedme to death.
Luckily, his brother walked inand pulled him off of me.
He was on drugs and drinkingand definitely covered in dark
forces which I know about now.
I did not know the extent of itat the time.
(07:37):
So looking back, I candefinitely see what was
happening.
But what I started to notice is,even in relationships with men
who had never had any history ofabuse, somehow we would get to
a point where they would likephysically abuse me, or it would
be emotional abuse or verbalabuse.
And then I started thinking,god, is it me?
(07:59):
And I just was like so hard onmyself.
And then I was like, am I justtoo picky?
Am I too?
You know, I couldn't figure outwhat was happening.
It was really frustrating andat this point, like I had been
in so many relationships and Iwas just ready for it to be done
.
And this will help you, whetheryou're just you've had one
(08:20):
toxic relationship or if you'vehad many.
So this was definitely a lifelesson for me to learn so that I
could teach and help otherpeople.
So my work rests heavily onthree phases that I have seen
most women go through here andmy work is mostly for mothers
(08:41):
although there have been womenwho have found me who are not
mothers and it still applies ifyou've had, you know, toxic
relationships.
The first phase is justsurvival, getting out of the
relationship right.
And then the next phase isvictimhood for lack of a better
word where we're very much likeblaming them, blaming ourselves,
maybe both very much in that,like labeling oh, he was a
(09:06):
narcissist, all of that right.
So some people get stuck thereand that's where they stay.
I was stuck there for over adecade, so again, I totally get
it.
I had to be there andcontinuing to play out those
toxic relationships in order toreally understand every facet of
toxic relationships, how theylook, everything right.
(09:29):
So I am happy I got to do thatso that I can help other people.
The third stage usually women,usually mothers, come to me when
they're still in the victimhoodstage, but they're at like the
end of it, right, they've triedall of the blaming, they've gone
to therapy, they've tried othermodalities and it's just
they're just not feeling likeit's getting the job done right.
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They might might not even beable to put their finger on it.
They're just like I just wantit out of me.
I just want to be in a healthyrelationship, right?
And I remember the day that Ifell to my knees and prayed for,
like I was, like I am done withvictimhood, please God.
Like I am ready to create mylife, and that's what I call the
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creator era, right?
So when you're ready to startcreating your life, it does take
radical responsibility.
It does take some reprogramming.
I've seen some healers outthere say like, oh, just come to
me, I'll remove it for you.
That could remove part of it,yes, but then there's some other
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work you have to do.
Like it's just part of you know, earning your right to be a
higher frequency soul.
And so if you're in thisprogram, you are likely a higher
frequency soul Because, if youhaven't noticed, on social media
I've been trying to really justspeak to my ideal client who is
a mother or a woman who is overbeing in that victimhood era
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stage, right?
So, without going too much intoa different topic, about 86% of
the world is what I would call ayounger soul, right?
That leaves only 14% of thepopulation that are older souls.
Older soul meaning higher infrequency, meaning they've lived
more lives.
It doesn't make higherfrequency souls better than
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lower frequency souls, it justit's kind of like comparing
kindergarten to a collegegraduate, right.
Like the higher frequency soulhas just lived more lives, it
has overcome more obstacles, ithas more wisdom, right?
So my work is not really goingto resonate for younger
frequency souls because theyreally want to stay in the lower
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frequency healing modalities oflike blaming.
They might have more, theymight have a soul lesson that
hasn't been learned yet, whichgets me into the next piece of
this.
So most people don't understand.
Don't realize that toxicrelationships are always one of
two things.
It makes it very simple, but alot of people don't like to hear
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this.
I would definitely would nothave enjoyed hearing this 10
years ago, right?
So one, it's a soul contract,meaning it's something that you
and this person agreed to beforeincarnating into this lifetime.
So one of the acts that Imentioned who was severely
abusive to me, he and I had asoul contract.
We agreed before we came inthat he would do those things to
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me.
I would learn he literallysigned up to be a villain for me
.
He did that for me.
So can you see how, like ifsomeone is lower frequency, they
don't have a higherunderstanding of how the
universe works from an energeticperspective.
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That would be really hard tounderstand.
It would have been hard for me,probably.
I've always been pretty open tothis stuff.
So if someone had told me that,I probably would have been like
, oh wow, that probably wouldhave shifted my perspective, but
I wouldn't have experiencedanother 10 years of toxic
relationships either.
I had to go through that right.
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So he and I had a soul contractfor him to literally do those
things to me.
A lot of things I won't get intohere.
I do get into them all in cleanBDE, or not even all of them,
but a lot of them.
So that's number one solecontract.
Number two it's a creator fieldissue.
That simply means we are allliving in our own Truman show,
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meaning you create everything inyour life.
If it's not a sole contractthing, right.
So like a sole contract thingmeans it will happen no matter
what.
So there was nothing I could doto prevent that happening.
It was a soul contract.
Our higher selves agreed tothat.
It was going to happen.
Our creator field reflectionshappen based on our energy,
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based on our thoughts, ourpatterns, our beliefs, our
actions.
So that's why we can actuallychange our creator field and
change how people treat us.
So this was a big piece in mylearning as well, because what I
learned first was, okay, I justhave control over myself, right
, that worked for a little while.
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Then I learned, oh, once I hadhigher frequency teachings, I
learned, oh yeah, I can controlmyself and I can control other
people too, which is pretty cool.
And so why would our souls dothis?
It is for growth.
Obstacles create growth, andthat's exactly why we incarnate
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in to third realm beings.
Earth is the third realm.
We are physical beings.
This is where we can physicallyovercome obstacles.
So the toxic relationship youexperienced or if you've had
several of them too it wasn'tjust random, it wasn't a mistake
.
If it was a soul contract thing, it's because your soul chose
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that experience to help you stepup into a higher level of
wisdom.
And now that's why you're here.
It's you're not here byaccident.
Your higher self knew you wouldsign up for this program, that
you would get this information.
So none of this means that youshould stay in a harmful
situation or that what they didwas acceptable or anything like
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that?
Absolutely not.
This is all about just shiftingthe perspective.
Not.
This is all about just shiftingthe perspective, starting to
see the bigger picture.
So instead of asking why didthis happen to me, you could
start asking what did my soulwant me to learn from this?
We all have reoccurring soullessons that we need to learn,
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and they often start somewhere.
You know, from zero to five,we'll have a first lesson.
For some people it's self love.
I mean, that's pretty much alesson everybody has to learn.
Self love, boundaries, trustingyourself that's a big one right
now for the entire world istrusting yourself over what
other people are telling you todo, and then choosing yourself
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and not settling for less.
So now let me back up a littlebit, in case you don't know what
a creator field is.
Our creator field is anelectromagnetic field that we
have around us.
It's made up of our thoughts,beliefs, past experiences,
unconscious reprogram orunconscious programming all of
that we.
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It's what literally hands thescripts to people to act out.
So you can kind of think of itlike a movie and your energy is
broadcasting a script that sayspeople always take advantage of
me or I'm beating myself up, soplease come beat me up.
Right, that was mine From avery young age.
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I was so hard on myself withgrades, with diet, I had eating
disorders, constantly beatingmyself up, and if you look back
at pictures of me, I always hadbruises all over my body.
So our body speaks to us andshows us where we're emotionally
out of balance.
I didn't know that, obviously,at the time, but the doctors
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would always ask, like, why doyou have all of these bruises
all over you?
That is a sign that you areemotionally out of balance, that
you're beating yourself up.
So if you're someone who's beenhard on yourself like I was,
that can put a script in thecreator field for other people
to be hard on you.
And it's not to punish you,it's to get you to a point where
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you're like I've had enough.
So you guys are here, you'vegotten to that point, right.
So congratulations.
That's amazing.
Now we need to change thatscript, right?
So we're going to do that inhere with the nervous system
regulation to get you out offight or flight.
I do that for you.
Then we're going to do thatwith the unconscious
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reprogramming.
Again, I do that for you.
I'm updating your unconsciousmind that you're no longer in
danger and then I will teach yousome of the energetics.
What you'll notice if you followthe steps in here is that the
people in your life will startresponding differently.
Some will just shift, some willfall away.
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I've had that happen a lot oftimes.
I don't get attached to people.
That doesn't mean I don't likecare for them, but I can tell
when me and a friend orsomething are just like no
longer energetically a match andwe just fall away and that's
totally fine.
That's part of seeing thingsfrom a higher frequency.
Doesn't mean I don't care forthem.
It just means I'm, you know,moving one way, they're moving
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another way and so because thisis an instant access program, I
am not available to help youfigure out like specifics, right
.
But if you ever do want to booka one-on-one with me, I will put
a link in the show notes for amini read and what I can do is I
can look in and see what couldbe in your creator field that
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needs shifting and I can giveyou some power statements to
start dialing into your creatorfield to have people start
shifting and treating youdifferently.
I will teach you some in here,just based on what I feel would
be helpful for the group.
But if you ever want specificto you, you can book a mini
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intuitive read.
So I would just listen to thisagain, let it sink in, really be
proud of yourself for takingthis step Because, like I said,
a lot of people don't make it tothis step.
A lot of people aren't made orsupposed to get to this step.
So that's okay, I havecompassion for them.
They are our younger souls whoare just going through their own
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learning stage.
Right, if you're here, you'relikely a higher frequency, older
soul, so you're just ready,naturally, to start shifting and
with a lot of the changeshappening in the world that
we're going to see, we need morehigher frequency leaders who no
longer have these negativebeliefs and programs in their
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creator field.
So in the next series of audiosyou will go through the nervous
system regulation.
You will go through theunconscious reprogramming and
after that, some more of theenergetics.
I'm going to give you someenergy protections and an
energetic cord cutting to gethis energy out of you, to keep
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it out of you.
Okay, so I will talk to you inthe next audio.
Thank you for listening toUnveiled.
I always love hearing yourtakeaways, so please connect
with me on Instagram that Angela, marie, christian and feel free
to tag me when you share itwith your friends.
Every single review matters andit helps me reach more people
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who want to improve this world.
If you leave a review, let meknow and I'll send you a little
thank you gift.
Any resources mentioned in theshow will be linked in the show
notes.
Sending you all love.
Bye.
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