May 20, 2025 • 28 mins
Ever felt that nagging shame about your relationship history? That constant pull toward an ex despite knowing better? The mysterious pattern of attracting the same painful dynamics? There's a profound spiritual explanation that changes everything about how we view our romantic pasts.
Your dating history wasn't random chaos—it was divinely orchestrated by your higher self to teach you critical soul lessons. Each relationship, especially the painful ones, served as curriculum for your spiritual development.
I've moved from feeling shame about my past relationships to profound gratitude for every experience that shaped me. This shift comes from understanding that we're energetically connected to everyone we've been emotionally involved with through invisible cords that continue to affect our physical health, emotional wellbeing, and ability to move forward.
When you share connection with someone, you exchange soul fragments and establish energetic pathways for ongoing emotional exchange. This explains why you might suddenly think of an ex or feel their emotions years later—you're literally still connected. The feeling of needing "closure" is actually your soul wanting its pieces back. Traditional closure conversations rarely accomplish this, which is why energetic cord-cutting produces such profound healing.
Perhaps most revolutionary is understanding that relationships have soul contracts with expiration dates. Unless you've found a true soulmate (someone matching you in all four areas: emotional, spiritual, physical, and mental), your relationship was likely designed to last for a specific duration to teach specific lessons. When that contract expires, trying to force continuation creates misalignment and suffering. Society has conditioned us to view ended relationships as failures when they're actually completed soul agreements.
Ready to release these energetic binds and reclaim your wholeness? Soul reclamation work helps cut these cords, return soul fragments, and align you with the future you actually desire. Your exes weren't mistakes—they were messengers. Your "relationship resume" wasn't a series of failures but a carefully crafted curriculum for becoming who you're meant to be.
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Speaker 1 (00:05):
Welcome to Unveiled, the podcast.
I'm your host, angela Christian, and I help you with unveiling
your true self by peeling awaythe layers that society placed
on you.
I do this with a combination ofneuroscience, energetics and
ancient spiritual wisdom.
I went from underpaid andoverworked in corporate America
to launching a six-figurecompany that continues to grow.
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I went from toxic relationshipsto being happy and single for
over a year as I worked andcontinue to work on becoming the
best version of myself, and somuch more.
My greatest passion is to helpwomen and mothers heal,
transform and become the highestversions of themselves.
As I continue to grow andexpand my intuitive knowledge
(00:46):
and unique wisdom, I'll beincluding you on my journey to
millions, so let's get into it.
Hello and welcome back toUnveiled.
Today I have a fun episode foryou that just popped in earlier
this week and I'm just gonna gowith it.
(01:08):
I'm gonna see what's gonna comeout here.
So I was just thinking like howI used to feel so guilty and
filled with shame andembarrassment around some of the
relationships of my past, someof the things that happened,
some of the things that I did,all of that.
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But what came to me when I wasthinking about it was like my
little black book was divinelyorchestrated, like my higher
self wanted me to experienceevery possible situation in a
relationship dynamic.
I wasn't just collecting lovers, I was collecting soul lessons,
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because I used to be a littleashamed of how many
relationships I had.
And if I did have a littleblack book, it would look very
chaotic.
And what's hilarious is I foundthis diary I had from high
school and, oh my gosh, I, myteen was like when she was
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reading it was we're laughinghysterically because I was so
freaking boy crazy.
Like one week I'd be like, oh,I like this person, blah, blah,
blah.
And the next, like one week,I'd be like, oh, I like this
person, blah, blah, blah.
And the next week I'd be like,oh, I don't like that person
anymore.
And it was just so chaotic andit was just like I could not
focus on a single person.
But as I've been going throughthis process of cutting cords
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with people, because Idefinitely have more than the
average person, I have morecords to cut than the average
person Because I mean my firstwhat I would call serious and
I'm putting that in quotationmarks, but serious relationship
was when I was 15.
And I was with him for about ayear and a half.
He was a great guy.
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Obviously I was 15.
But, you know, I cheated on him.
Then I went to someone else.
Or then I was with the guy Icheated on him with and I
cheated on him, went to theother guy Like it was a mess,
you guys.
I had no respect for them andno respect for myself, you know.
But it was perfect.
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It was perfect just as it was,and like I wouldn't have been
able to say that if I hadn'tdone a ton of healing.
And now I can look back and I'mlike, damn, that girl was crazy
.
Thank God I had a lot of actionback then because I've been
single for two years, so maybeit evens out a little bit, maybe
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.
So what's really cool, though,as I've been doing these soul
reclamation sessions for people,which is I am removing
energetic arrows, energetichooks, energetic cords, and if
you don't know what I'm talkingabout, if this is your first
episode, I would listen to theone before this where I talk a
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little bit more in depth.
I'll link it in the show notes.
But these are all things thatnot just hold us back in the
past, but they can actually keepus from feeling, from healing,
physically, emotionally, all ofthis.
So, if you have, you know, lastweek I had a session with
someone she had like sevenenergetic arrows, seven
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energetic hooks, like no wondershe wasn't feeling very
energetic.
There was like all of thesepeople's energy just hooked into
her.
That wasn't even her cords,like she had six actual what I
call umbilical negative energyexchange cords.
So typically when I removethese for people like, their
energy just increases.
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There are some warnings, though, and I was very silly last
night and decided to do fivecord cuttings on myself, so I
did it earlier in the day.
I'll explain this.
I don't think I mentioned this.
I think I mentioned maybe pieceof this on the last podcast,
but anyway, I was watching amovie with my son and this
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Beastie Boys song came on, andevery time I would hear it
because we watch Sonic a lot, itwas on Sonic too.
Every time I hear, I think ofthis guy from my past who we
weren't like in a seriousrelationship, but we had that
like toxic back and forth formany years, like we would go
years without talking and thenwe would get drawn back together
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.
I've had many of those kinds ofsituationships.
He was a Wall Street guy and heinvited me to go to LA once,
but it was like a work event, sohe flew there with his work
friends.
I had to fly on a plane bymyself, even though we were like
leaving the same day, like hedidn't want me on the flight
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with his work friends, whichshould have been a red flag,
right, I'm not really sure.
I think they were doing thingson the flight or something that
I wouldn't have approved of.
But so we get there and we goto this party one night and
there's like the brass monkeysong, so it's a different
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beastie boy song.
Anyway, long story short,whenever I hear this other song
I think of that night and likethings just went really downhill
that night and he didn't treatme with a lot of respect.
But now I know from a higherperspective it was because I
wasn't treating myself withrespect.
So people can only treat us theway we treat ourselves If we
don't value ourselves in acertain area of life, if we
don't value our physical body,if we don't value our passion,
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hobby and everybody has apassion hobby.
I have two ballet or any kind ofdance really, but ballet is
very high, and then archery,which is interesting, but it's
in our DNA so I can pull thisfrom my clients.
If you guys are in mymembership, you can ask me to do
this on a monthly check-in andI'll pull your two top passion
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hobbies for you because we needa passion hobby to be balanced.
So we have the eight areas oflife that I've talked about
before and passion hobby tendsto get ignored.
But that's the one if youbalance it and make sure you
spend just a little bit of time.
So, for example, I don't knowanything about archery.
I do have my first class comingup private session, but just
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going on YouTube and likewatching a 10 minute video on
archery or something that countstowards your passion hobby area
of life.
So we have to balance all eightareas of life, otherwise it will
show up in our relationshipsand because our society right
now is really big on justpointing fingers at the other
person, labeling everyone as anarcissist, it takes away the
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power.
You actually have to lookwithin and now like, if there's
someone any kind of like,friendship or anything, if I
feel like they're not valuing meor something, I immediately I
don't say anything to them, I goinwards and I'm like where am I
not valuing myself right now?
Oh, here's where I'm notvaluing myself.
I fix it, then everything'sfine with them.
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I don't even have to say a wordto them.
It's like a whole differenttype of relationship dynamic.
I wish.
I wish I had known about backthen, but I have a ton of
examples for you guys, so sothat's, that's a plus.
I don't see it as just likerandom dating.
It was like destiny in disguiseon the dating scene.
So I just want to relieve anykind of guilt, shame or
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embarrassment you have of yourpast, because it wasn't a
mistake, it was divinelyorchestrated.
Your higher self handpickedevery one of your relationships
not to torture you but to teachyou.
So I had and I know I've talkedabout this before and I
definitely talked about it inthe last podcast, but it's just
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a great example I was dating acountry music singer who you
know we had fun together, but itwas like it was pretty clear
Like we weren't, it wasn't goingto work Right.
Yeah, I kept getting called backto him.
I kept going back to him.
Years would go by, I'd go backto him.
So he signed a music deal witha large company and I know
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that's a whole different topicwith dark force stuff, but he
had energetic hooks in me andlike some people could actually
even see them People that havetheir third eye open, people
that didn't even know each otherwould reach out and be like he
has like hooks in you, and itwas very clear when I was there
that he did, because I wouldbreak out in rashes, I would get
styes in my eyes, like my bodywas trying to protect me from
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him.
It was very interesting.
So my higher self knew like Ineeded to learn something from
that and then, when it was timeto no longer be involved with
him, she made it very clear.
So I've been talking to severalpeople in my life who are going
through the process of a divorceor about to start it, and I've
noticed like they do carry guilt.
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They carry society's guilt forfeeling like a failure.
They're not, and so what Ireally want to explain here is I
needed to have theseexperiences with people who were
not my soulmates Thank God noneof them were my soulmates,
because I think I've mentionedthis before as well but like
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there are four areas of lifethat we match up to with other
people, so emotional, spiritual,physical and mental.
If you're not a match in allfour areas, you are not going to
be a soulmate type ofrelationship.
So what's really common is forpeople to meet a two out of four
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or a 50% match, which meansthey might match up physically
right, they might fit reallywell together, they might have a
good, passionate love life allof that.
They might match up mentallywhere they love to talk about
certain topics and they couldtalk for hours, right.
So that can feel like aspiritual connection, but it's
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not.
It can feel like, oh my gosh,like we are just meant to be,
and you can get lost in thosehormones.
I see it all the time onInstagram when it's actually not
a four out of four soulmatematch.
But we do need thoseexperiences.
But where society has led uswrong intentionally is making us
feel like we're failures whenwe leave a relationship.
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Relationships have a contract.
They have an expiration dateunless you're with your soul
mate or your soul compliment,which is a little different than
your soulmate, because a soulcompliment is like you and the
opposite energy.
I will not be with my soulcompliment in this lifetime.
I have bigger things to do.
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So I will be with my soulmate,one of my four out of four
soulmates.
We typically have, like, youknow, a few, even up to like, uh
, maybe six.
So and then also, even withsoulmates, your contract can
expire sometimes if they're like, if you guys are at a certain
level and then, let's say, yougrow in consciousness like
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hundreds of points, hundreds offrequency points, right, you
might no longer be a match forthem spiritually.
So then you fall to a three outof four, a 75% match.
But if we just looked at the atthis differently as a society
and we knew this right, like,but the only way you'll know
this is if you have an intuitivelike me or somebody else, look
in and say, ok, you are a twoout of four match.
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Your contract expired two yearsago or it's expiring in a year,
whatever it might be.
And right now, that's like theway that you would get your
answer Right.
But ideally, we would be livingin a society where everyone has
intuition and everyone would bekind of on the same page.
And what's interesting is thevery first place, back in 2018,
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I believe it was where I startedlearning intuition and energy
work at a I call it my HarryPotter school, where my oldest
daughter and I went and that'swhen I first started like
tapping into my gifts andexpanding them and being able to
be able to read energy, to beable to do intuitive reads all
of that my teacher there.
He had told us the story and atthe time I was just like what?
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But now it makes so much sense.
He said that he met his ex-wife, but she was still a teacher
there.
They had met.
She was a student of his andwhen they met, because they both
had their intuition dialed in,they sat down, looked at their
contract together.
They saw that they weresupposed to be together for
seven years and that they weresupposed to get divorced on this
date.
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They honored that.
That date came.
They still loved each other andcared for each other, but they
respected the plan that theirhigher self had in place for
this lifetime.
And I just remember being likewow, that, like it was hard for
me to wrap my mind around that,but now I would be so on board
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with that because it's like Idon't want to hold anyone back.
I don't want anyone holding meback.
And one of my friends justexperienced a situation where
she found out she had been heldback three years, like her sole
contract had expired three yearsago.
And most people are walkingaround with contracts that are
expired and they're wonderingwhy they're miserable in their
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relationships, right?
But just imagine if you didn'thave this pressure to stay with
that person, if you were like,yeah, we're supposed to learn X,
y, z over the next six yearsand then we're both supposed to
move on.
Now maybe I'm just reallyopen-minded and I've been in
this world for a long time.
But if you are someone who's ina miserable relationship, it
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might make some sense to you.
So if you're feeling like afull-on resistance, then there's
definitely something here foryou, because resistance just
means it's like your higher selfis really wanting you to hear
this.
So you're welcome.
So one of the issues when youstay corded to someone and you
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don't clear these negativeenergetic emotional cords is
that their energy stays with you.
So this means the guy I waswith at age 15, which actually I
haven't done a soul, which Ihaven't done a soul reclamation,
with another one to add to mylist working my way through,
which means I'm still corded tohim, he's still corded to me, so
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we're still exchanging emotions.
He has some of my soul pieces.
I have some of his exchangingemotions.
He has some of my soul pieces.
I have some of his right.
So you cannot heal physically,emotionally.
All of this went to 100% untilyou get all of your soul pieces
back.
Now sometimes there are peoplein your life who you will keep
courting into or who will courtinto you.
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There are ways around that thatI teach in my soul reclamation
session to you.
There are ways around that thatI teach in my soul reclamation
session, but anytime.
So, for example, this is kindof a funny example but it shows
it's not just relationships.
We can also court into our kids.
They court into us, but it'susually the parent courting into
the kid because we're like,curious, how are they doing, how
are they feeling?
Like we open our hearts up andwe court in.
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It's actually better for youand the child if you do not cord
in and these aren't thepositive soul bonds.
We don't touch those.
We leave those in place.
What I'm removing is just thenegative emotional cords that do
not help us at all.
They actually hold us back.
So over this last I don't knowlike week or so, I've been
really interested in the Cassieand Diddy trial.
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So much so it's been.
It was a little.
It was taking up some of mytime like reading through, and I
didn't even realize untilyesterday that I had courted in,
or sorry, it was on Sunday.
I realized that I courted intothem, like into their situation,
because I was curious, becauseI was trying to like see things
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from all these differentperspectives and I was like why
did I do that?
And I know why it's because oneof my very serious, uh,
probably most painfulrelationship, uh, which means he
loves me the most in the soulworld, like outside of this
world.
He loves me dearly because thepeople who cause us the most
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pain in this life are actuallypeople who love us so much on a
soul level.
He would do pretty horrificthings to me and some of it like
nothing close to the Cassie andDiddy, but like he would
physically hurt me and and hewould threaten to tell my family
members certain things about meif I tried to leave.
So like there were just piecesthat I could kind of relate to
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with Cassie and uh, back in theday I had like a huge crush on
Diddy.
Oh, my God, I had a huge crush.
So I realized I was corded intotheir situation, right, uh,
reasons.
And so yesterday I had realizedI hadn't cut the cord yet from
the Wall Street guy, the BeastieBoys song reminder.
So I sat down I was like, okay,I'm going to cut the cord with
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him.
I'm going to cut the cord withDiddy and Cassie.
The situation I put them as asituation so we can cord into
situations, people, all of that.
Someone asked a great questionwhat if they have passed on?
Yes, you still have a cord withthem, it's likely with a place
or situation.
So, yes, we would want to stillcut that cord.
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And then there was another cordof a friend who is going
through some stuff right nowwith his divorce, and I was like
, too invested in theinformation.
So, like I realized I hadcourted into them their
situation.
So, silly me, disconnected fromfive people.
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Last night, about two hourslater, I'd forgotten about it, I
felt great, huge, huge, likerelease of energy.
But then two hours later Istarted getting the chills and I
was like my skin hurt and I waslike what is going on?
I feel like I'm coming downwith a flu.
And I was talking to a friendand then it dawned on me.
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I was like, oh my gosh, it'sthe energy detox from releasing
the cord from too many people.
And then I woke up in themiddle of the night with nausea,
all this stuff.
I'm fine Now.
I did a bunch of healing work onmyself, but there are there is
a limit to how many people youcan disconnect from, and I
disconnected from too manypeople last night and it caused
that energetic detox.
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That can happen.
So that's why typically I onlydo two in a session.
Very rarely will I disconnectyou from three, because three
like I even get an energy detoxfrom and I do energy work every
day.
So you can imagine how, how funit was last night after
disconnecting from five people.
So in my soul reclamationsession someone asked about this
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too.
So in that session I'm clearingyour hooks, arrows and two
negative energy cords.
Okay, my 40 minute session,which is called the ultra
activation.
I am doing that Plus I'mcleaning up some of your past
and then I'm aligning you with amore aligned future.
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So there's a little bit moreenergy healing work in that
session.
So I had someone last week.
She had the 40 minute sessionwith me.
So she chose telegram distancesession, which is just as
powerful as being on zoom.
I actually think the distancesessions are even more powerful
because I'm just in my space.
More powerful because I'm justin my space, totally connected
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and like it's deep work, whereaslike zoom can sometimes be a
little distracting for me anyway, like when there's another
person on the call with you.
Right, it's just it can be alittle distracting.
I mean they're both powerful,but if I had a choice I would
rather do a distance healing onsomeone because I am so dialed
in and I'm just focused on theenergy and the session.
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So she booked a 40 minutesession with me where we cleared
two cords.
Then I did a cleanup of herpast stuff, because she wants a
healthy relationship.
So I had to clean up some ofher past to align her with a
better future for romanticrelationships.
I told her what was holding herback from calling in a healthy
romantic relationship, what shecan start working on.
She immediately went and bookeda soul reclamation session with
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me.
So these work together and infact I do recommend like the 40
minute session and a soulreclamation, because then you're
getting at least four cords cutand you're getting me cleaning
up energetically your past,which means you won't keep
calling in the same type ofpeople, same type of issues.
All of that right, I close theloop on the pain, trauma of the
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past and align you for a betterfuture.
And the 75-minute call which Ihaven't even put on my website
yet.
I go even deeper.
Where I actually look at youknow, are there things going on
in your body, what are somepatterns you're not liking?
Right now I tell you exactlywhat's causing that and then how
to fix it.
So those are the different waysto handle these things.
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But the soul reclamation is agreat entryway because it's 20
minutes, you can choose telegramor zoom and you're going to
feel like a shift in your energy.
I intuit which ones to clear,like the biggest ones, and right
now there are two spots left at$100.
So my mentor told me to offerthese as a micro healing session
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and to just do it in thisincremental like rollout, which
I really love.
I've never done this before.
So I first had five sessions at75, which sold out.
Now I have two left at $100,and then I'll go up to 125 and
so on until I reach the fullprice hundred dollars and then
I'll go up to 125 and so onuntil I reach the full price.
So what you can start doing nowis just writing out a little
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black book of your own, writingout in like a note Maybe you
don't want someone to see it,but like, open your notes app on
your phone and just start withlike the heaviest, oldest cords
and just figure out, likeeverybody.
So I'm still working throughsome of the people because I I
honestly like they were so longago I forgot about them.
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But then what's interesting islike, as I clear.
So yesterday I cleared thosefive that I mentioned another
one popped in and this was a guylike I dated briefly, didn't?
There were, there was someemotions there, nothing super
heavy, but my higher self wasjust like, yeah, let's just
clean this up.
Let's just clean all of theseup, right, let's clean up your
little black book, because Iwant to be nice and clear of all
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of this for myself, for myphysical healing, for my
emotional healing, and also sothat when my soulmate comes in,
that I don't have all of thisweighing me down right.
Because how are we going toalign with a healthy
relationship if we have all ofthis negative emotion from the
past constantly affecting us?
And even if you are in arelationship, even more of a
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reason to clear all of this, andtypically parents, partners and
kids we might have to do thedisconnect a few times before it
becomes permanent.
But, like I said, there areways around that.
And then, once you cut thesecords and you call your soul
pieces back, any need forclosure goes away.
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It's like you're whole againand the only reason you have
felt like you needed closure isbecause they literally have
pieces of you and you need thatback right?
So, like your higher self istelling you like, yes, we need
our soul pieces back, but thehuman self translates that as
like we need closure, becausethe human self doesn't know how
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to translate that feeling.
So just look at all of yourlike divine dating past that was
all orchestrated by your higherself.
List out the ones that you knowyou need to disconnect from and
try to pull out.
What each relationship taughtyou and this is a tip that will
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also help you in the financialarea of life is when we carry
the feeling like someone owes me, then what that does is it
creates this debt in yourelectromagnetic field and you
become a match for debt.
So our relationship crap cancome over and affect our
financial situation, whichactually happens a lot.
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So if you can look at eachrelationship and, like you know,
for example, the country musicsinger, that whole relationship
is the big lesson there was totrust my intuition.
My intuition, my body, kepttelling me to run right and I
didn't trust that and thensomething ended up happening and
that was very dangerous.
Didn't trust that and thensomething ended up happening
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that was very dangerous and thatwas a huge lesson.
So I was able to neutralizethat by looking at what did that
teach me?
So everyone, all relationshipsare teaching moments, even the
ones that were abusive for me,were teaching moments.
I have nothing but love for allof my exes, all of the people in
my past, because we agreed todo this.
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We agreed to play this likelittle human dance before we
came into this world.
So why would I be mad at themfor simply playing the role that
they had agreed to play beforewe came here, right?
So this is all about awareness,not shame.
There's nothing to be ashamedabout, and if you do feel that
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heavy shame and guilt, I wouldrecommend the 40 minute session,
because then I clean up thepast.
I also have a program calledunbonded, which is a instant
access program that helps youkind of clear up the unconscious
programming piece of it, butyou'll still need the energetic
cleanup, like I went through allof the nervous system
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regulation, all of theunconscious reprogramming.
That healed me a lot but it didnot do the full job because we
also have to address theenergetic components.
So if you don't address theenergetic components, it's never
going to fully heal.
Your exes weren't mistakes,they were messages.
So we just need to unplug youfrom the past to align you with
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the future you actually desire,and that's what I love doing for
people more than anything.
So reach out if you want somehelp there, sending you all so
much love Bye.
Thank you for listening toUnveiled.
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I'm your host, angela Christian, and I help you with unveiling
your true self by peeling awaythe layers that society placed
on you.
I do this with a combination ofneuroscience, energetics and
ancient spiritual wisdom.
I went from underpaid andoverworked in corporate America
to launching a six-figurecompany that continues to grow.
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I went from toxic relationshipsto being happy and single for
over a year as I worked andcontinue to work on becoming the
best version of myself, and somuch more.
My greatest passion is to helpwomen and mothers heal,
transform and become the highestversions of themselves.
As I continue to grow andexpand my intuitive knowledge
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and unique wisdom, I'll beincluding you on my journey to
millions, so let's get into it.
Hello and welcome back toUnveiled.
Today I have a fun episode foryou that just popped in earlier
this week and I'm just gonna gowith it.
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I'm gonna see what's gonna comeout here.
So I was just thinking like howI used to feel so guilty and
filled with shame andembarrassment around some of the
relationships of my past, someof the things that happened,
some of the things that I did,all of that.
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But what came to me when I wasthinking about it was like my
little black book was divinelyorchestrated, like my higher
self wanted me to experienceevery possible situation in a
relationship dynamic.
I wasn't just collecting lovers, I was collecting soul lessons,
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because I used to be a littleashamed of how many
relationships I had.
And if I did have a littleblack book, it would look very
chaotic.
And what's hilarious is I foundthis diary I had from high
school and, oh my gosh, I, myteen was like when she was
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reading it was we're laughinghysterically because I was so
freaking boy crazy.
Like one week I'd be like, oh,I like this person, blah, blah,
blah.
And the next, like one week,I'd be like, oh, I like this
person, blah, blah, blah.
And the next week I'd be like,oh, I don't like that person
anymore.
And it was just so chaotic andit was just like I could not
focus on a single person.
But as I've been going throughthis process of cutting cords
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with people, because Idefinitely have more than the
average person, I have morecords to cut than the average
person Because I mean my firstwhat I would call serious and
I'm putting that in quotationmarks, but serious relationship
was when I was 15.
And I was with him for about ayear and a half.
He was a great guy.
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Obviously I was 15.
But, you know, I cheated on him.
Then I went to someone else.
Or then I was with the guy Icheated on him with and I
cheated on him, went to theother guy Like it was a mess,
you guys.
I had no respect for them andno respect for myself, you know.
But it was perfect.
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It was perfect just as it was,and like I wouldn't have been
able to say that if I hadn'tdone a ton of healing.
And now I can look back and I'mlike, damn, that girl was crazy
.
Thank God I had a lot of actionback then because I've been
single for two years, so maybeit evens out a little bit, maybe
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.
So what's really cool, though,as I've been doing these soul
reclamation sessions for people,which is I am removing
energetic arrows, energetichooks, energetic cords, and if
you don't know what I'm talkingabout, if this is your first
episode, I would listen to theone before this where I talk a
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little bit more in depth.
I'll link it in the show notes.
But these are all things thatnot just hold us back in the
past, but they can actually keepus from feeling, from healing,
physically, emotionally, all ofthis.
So, if you have, you know, lastweek I had a session with
someone she had like sevenenergetic arrows, seven
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energetic hooks, like no wondershe wasn't feeling very
energetic.
There was like all of thesepeople's energy just hooked into
her.
That wasn't even her cords,like she had six actual what I
call umbilical negative energyexchange cords.
So typically when I removethese for people like, their
energy just increases.
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There are some warnings, though, and I was very silly last
night and decided to do fivecord cuttings on myself, so I
did it earlier in the day.
I'll explain this.
I don't think I mentioned this.
I think I mentioned maybe pieceof this on the last podcast,
but anyway, I was watching amovie with my son and this
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Beastie Boys song came on, andevery time I would hear it
because we watch Sonic a lot, itwas on Sonic too.
Every time I hear, I think ofthis guy from my past who we
weren't like in a seriousrelationship, but we had that
like toxic back and forth formany years, like we would go
years without talking and thenwe would get drawn back together
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.
I've had many of those kinds ofsituationships.
He was a Wall Street guy and heinvited me to go to LA once,
but it was like a work event, sohe flew there with his work
friends.
I had to fly on a plane bymyself, even though we were like
leaving the same day, like hedidn't want me on the flight
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with his work friends, whichshould have been a red flag,
right, I'm not really sure.
I think they were doing thingson the flight or something that
I wouldn't have approved of.
But so we get there and we goto this party one night and
there's like the brass monkeysong, so it's a different
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beastie boy song.
Anyway, long story short,whenever I hear this other song
I think of that night and likethings just went really downhill
that night and he didn't treatme with a lot of respect.
But now I know from a higherperspective it was because I
wasn't treating myself withrespect.
So people can only treat us theway we treat ourselves If we
don't value ourselves in acertain area of life, if we
don't value our physical body,if we don't value our passion,
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hobby and everybody has apassion hobby.
I have two ballet or any kind ofdance really, but ballet is
very high, and then archery,which is interesting, but it's
in our DNA so I can pull thisfrom my clients.
If you guys are in mymembership, you can ask me to do
this on a monthly check-in andI'll pull your two top passion
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hobbies for you because we needa passion hobby to be balanced.
So we have the eight areas oflife that I've talked about
before and passion hobby tendsto get ignored.
But that's the one if youbalance it and make sure you
spend just a little bit of time.
So, for example, I don't knowanything about archery.
I do have my first class comingup private session, but just
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going on YouTube and likewatching a 10 minute video on
archery or something that countstowards your passion hobby area
of life.
So we have to balance all eightareas of life, otherwise it will
show up in our relationshipsand because our society right
now is really big on justpointing fingers at the other
person, labeling everyone as anarcissist, it takes away the
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power.
You actually have to lookwithin and now like, if there's
someone any kind of like,friendship or anything, if I
feel like they're not valuing meor something, I immediately I
don't say anything to them, I goinwards and I'm like where am I
not valuing myself right now?
Oh, here's where I'm notvaluing myself.
I fix it, then everything'sfine with them.
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I don't even have to say a wordto them.
It's like a whole differenttype of relationship dynamic.
I wish.
I wish I had known about backthen, but I have a ton of
examples for you guys, so sothat's, that's a plus.
I don't see it as just likerandom dating.
It was like destiny in disguiseon the dating scene.
So I just want to relieve anykind of guilt, shame or
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embarrassment you have of yourpast, because it wasn't a
mistake, it was divinelyorchestrated.
Your higher self handpickedevery one of your relationships
not to torture you but to teachyou.
So I had and I know I've talkedabout this before and I
definitely talked about it inthe last podcast, but it's just
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a great example I was dating acountry music singer who you
know we had fun together, but itwas like it was pretty clear
Like we weren't, it wasn't goingto work Right.
Yeah, I kept getting called backto him.
I kept going back to him.
Years would go by, I'd go backto him.
So he signed a music deal witha large company and I know
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that's a whole different topicwith dark force stuff, but he
had energetic hooks in me andlike some people could actually
even see them People that havetheir third eye open, people
that didn't even know each otherwould reach out and be like he
has like hooks in you, and itwas very clear when I was there
that he did, because I wouldbreak out in rashes, I would get
styes in my eyes, like my bodywas trying to protect me from
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him.
It was very interesting.
So my higher self knew like Ineeded to learn something from
that and then, when it was timeto no longer be involved with
him, she made it very clear.
So I've been talking to severalpeople in my life who are going
through the process of a divorceor about to start it, and I've
noticed like they do carry guilt.
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They carry society's guilt forfeeling like a failure.
They're not, and so what Ireally want to explain here is I
needed to have theseexperiences with people who were
not my soulmates Thank God noneof them were my soulmates,
because I think I've mentionedthis before as well but like
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there are four areas of lifethat we match up to with other
people, so emotional, spiritual,physical and mental.
If you're not a match in allfour areas, you are not going to
be a soulmate type ofrelationship.
So what's really common is forpeople to meet a two out of four
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or a 50% match, which meansthey might match up physically
right, they might fit reallywell together, they might have a
good, passionate love life allof that.
They might match up mentallywhere they love to talk about
certain topics and they couldtalk for hours, right.
So that can feel like aspiritual connection, but it's
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not.
It can feel like, oh my gosh,like we are just meant to be,
and you can get lost in thosehormones.
I see it all the time onInstagram when it's actually not
a four out of four soulmatematch.
But we do need thoseexperiences.
But where society has led uswrong intentionally is making us
feel like we're failures whenwe leave a relationship.
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Relationships have a contract.
They have an expiration dateunless you're with your soul
mate or your soul compliment,which is a little different than
your soulmate, because a soulcompliment is like you and the
opposite energy.
I will not be with my soulcompliment in this lifetime.
I have bigger things to do.
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So I will be with my soulmate,one of my four out of four
soulmates.
We typically have, like, youknow, a few, even up to like, uh
, maybe six.
So and then also, even withsoulmates, your contract can
expire sometimes if they're like, if you guys are at a certain
level and then, let's say, yougrow in consciousness like
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hundreds of points, hundreds offrequency points, right, you
might no longer be a match forthem spiritually.
So then you fall to a three outof four, a 75% match.
But if we just looked at the atthis differently as a society
and we knew this right, like,but the only way you'll know
this is if you have an intuitivelike me or somebody else, look
in and say, ok, you are a twoout of four match.
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Your contract expired two yearsago or it's expiring in a year,
whatever it might be.
And right now, that's like theway that you would get your
answer Right.
But ideally, we would be livingin a society where everyone has
intuition and everyone would bekind of on the same page.
And what's interesting is thevery first place, back in 2018,
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I believe it was where I startedlearning intuition and energy
work at a I call it my HarryPotter school, where my oldest
daughter and I went and that'swhen I first started like
tapping into my gifts andexpanding them and being able to
be able to read energy, to beable to do intuitive reads all
of that my teacher there.
He had told us the story and atthe time I was just like what?
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But now it makes so much sense.
He said that he met his ex-wife, but she was still a teacher
there.
They had met.
She was a student of his andwhen they met, because they both
had their intuition dialed in,they sat down, looked at their
contract together.
They saw that they weresupposed to be together for
seven years and that they weresupposed to get divorced on this
date.
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They honored that.
That date came.
They still loved each other andcared for each other, but they
respected the plan that theirhigher self had in place for
this lifetime.
And I just remember being likewow, that, like it was hard for
me to wrap my mind around that,but now I would be so on board
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with that because it's like Idon't want to hold anyone back.
I don't want anyone holding meback.
And one of my friends justexperienced a situation where
she found out she had been heldback three years, like her sole
contract had expired three yearsago.
And most people are walkingaround with contracts that are
expired and they're wonderingwhy they're miserable in their
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relationships, right?
But just imagine if you didn'thave this pressure to stay with
that person, if you were like,yeah, we're supposed to learn X,
y, z over the next six yearsand then we're both supposed to
move on.
Now maybe I'm just reallyopen-minded and I've been in
this world for a long time.
But if you are someone who's ina miserable relationship, it
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might make some sense to you.
So if you're feeling like afull-on resistance, then there's
definitely something here foryou, because resistance just
means it's like your higher selfis really wanting you to hear
this.
So you're welcome.
So one of the issues when youstay corded to someone and you
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don't clear these negativeenergetic emotional cords is
that their energy stays with you.
So this means the guy I waswith at age 15, which actually I
haven't done a soul, which Ihaven't done a soul reclamation,
with another one to add to mylist working my way through,
which means I'm still corded tohim, he's still corded to me, so
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we're still exchanging emotions.
He has some of my soul pieces.
I have some of his exchangingemotions.
He has some of my soul pieces.
I have some of his right.
So you cannot heal physically,emotionally.
All of this went to 100% untilyou get all of your soul pieces
back.
Now sometimes there are peoplein your life who you will keep
courting into or who will courtinto you.
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There are ways around that thatI teach in my soul reclamation
session to you.
There are ways around that thatI teach in my soul reclamation
session, but anytime.
So, for example, this is kindof a funny example but it shows
it's not just relationships.
We can also court into our kids.
They court into us, but it'susually the parent courting into
the kid because we're like,curious, how are they doing, how
are they feeling?
Like we open our hearts up andwe court in.
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It's actually better for youand the child if you do not cord
in and these aren't thepositive soul bonds.
We don't touch those.
We leave those in place.
What I'm removing is just thenegative emotional cords that do
not help us at all.
They actually hold us back.
So over this last I don't knowlike week or so, I've been
really interested in the Cassieand Diddy trial.
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So much so it's been.
It was a little.
It was taking up some of mytime like reading through, and I
didn't even realize untilyesterday that I had courted in,
or sorry, it was on Sunday.
I realized that I courted intothem, like into their situation,
because I was curious, becauseI was trying to like see things
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from all these differentperspectives and I was like why
did I do that?
And I know why it's because oneof my very serious, uh,
probably most painfulrelationship, uh, which means he
loves me the most in the soulworld, like outside of this
world.
He loves me dearly because thepeople who cause us the most
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pain in this life are actuallypeople who love us so much on a
soul level.
He would do pretty horrificthings to me and some of it like
nothing close to the Cassie andDiddy, but like he would
physically hurt me and and hewould threaten to tell my family
members certain things about meif I tried to leave.
So like there were just piecesthat I could kind of relate to
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with Cassie and uh, back in theday I had like a huge crush on
Diddy.
Oh, my God, I had a huge crush.
So I realized I was corded intotheir situation, right, uh,
reasons.
And so yesterday I had realizedI hadn't cut the cord yet from
the Wall Street guy, the BeastieBoys song reminder.
So I sat down I was like, okay,I'm going to cut the cord with
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him.
I'm going to cut the cord withDiddy and Cassie.
The situation I put them as asituation so we can cord into
situations, people, all of that.
Someone asked a great questionwhat if they have passed on?
Yes, you still have a cord withthem, it's likely with a place
or situation.
So, yes, we would want to stillcut that cord.
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And then there was another cordof a friend who is going
through some stuff right nowwith his divorce, and I was like
, too invested in theinformation.
So, like I realized I hadcourted into them their
situation.
So, silly me, disconnected fromfive people.
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Last night, about two hourslater, I'd forgotten about it, I
felt great, huge, huge, likerelease of energy.
But then two hours later Istarted getting the chills and I
was like my skin hurt and I waslike what is going on?
I feel like I'm coming downwith a flu.
And I was talking to a friendand then it dawned on me.
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I was like, oh my gosh, it'sthe energy detox from releasing
the cord from too many people.
And then I woke up in themiddle of the night with nausea,
all this stuff.
I'm fine Now.
I did a bunch of healing work onmyself, but there are there is
a limit to how many people youcan disconnect from, and I
disconnected from too manypeople last night and it caused
that energetic detox.
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That can happen.
So that's why typically I onlydo two in a session.
Very rarely will I disconnectyou from three, because three
like I even get an energy detoxfrom and I do energy work every
day.
So you can imagine how, how funit was last night after
disconnecting from five people.
So in my soul reclamationsession someone asked about this
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too.
So in that session I'm clearingyour hooks, arrows and two
negative energy cords.
Okay, my 40 minute session,which is called the ultra
activation.
I am doing that Plus I'mcleaning up some of your past
and then I'm aligning you with amore aligned future.
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So there's a little bit moreenergy healing work in that
session.
So I had someone last week.
She had the 40 minute sessionwith me.
So she chose telegram distancesession, which is just as
powerful as being on zoom.
I actually think the distancesessions are even more powerful
because I'm just in my space.
More powerful because I'm justin my space, totally connected
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and like it's deep work, whereaslike zoom can sometimes be a
little distracting for me anyway, like when there's another
person on the call with you.
Right, it's just it can be alittle distracting.
I mean they're both powerful,but if I had a choice I would
rather do a distance healing onsomeone because I am so dialed
in and I'm just focused on theenergy and the session.
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So she booked a 40 minutesession with me where we cleared
two cords.
Then I did a cleanup of herpast stuff, because she wants a
healthy relationship.
So I had to clean up some ofher past to align her with a
better future for romanticrelationships.
I told her what was holding herback from calling in a healthy
romantic relationship, what shecan start working on.
She immediately went and bookeda soul reclamation session with
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me.
So these work together and infact I do recommend like the 40
minute session and a soulreclamation, because then you're
getting at least four cords cutand you're getting me cleaning
up energetically your past,which means you won't keep
calling in the same type ofpeople, same type of issues.
All of that right, I close theloop on the pain, trauma of the
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past and align you for a betterfuture.
And the 75-minute call which Ihaven't even put on my website
yet.
I go even deeper.
Where I actually look at youknow, are there things going on
in your body, what are somepatterns you're not liking?
Right now I tell you exactlywhat's causing that and then how
to fix it.
So those are the different waysto handle these things.
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But the soul reclamation is agreat entryway because it's 20
minutes, you can choose telegramor zoom and you're going to
feel like a shift in your energy.
I intuit which ones to clear,like the biggest ones, and right
now there are two spots left at$100.
So my mentor told me to offerthese as a micro healing session
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and to just do it in thisincremental like rollout, which
I really love.
I've never done this before.
So I first had five sessions at75, which sold out.
Now I have two left at $100,and then I'll go up to 125 and
so on until I reach the fullprice hundred dollars and then
I'll go up to 125 and so onuntil I reach the full price.
So what you can start doing nowis just writing out a little
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black book of your own, writingout in like a note Maybe you
don't want someone to see it,but like, open your notes app on
your phone and just start withlike the heaviest, oldest cords
and just figure out, likeeverybody.
So I'm still working throughsome of the people because I I
honestly like they were so longago I forgot about them.
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But then what's interesting islike, as I clear.
So yesterday I cleared thosefive that I mentioned another
one popped in and this was a guylike I dated briefly, didn't?
There were, there was someemotions there, nothing super
heavy, but my higher self wasjust like, yeah, let's just
clean this up.
Let's just clean all of theseup, right, let's clean up your
little black book, because Iwant to be nice and clear of all
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of this for myself, for myphysical healing, for my
emotional healing, and also sothat when my soulmate comes in,
that I don't have all of thisweighing me down right.
Because how are we going toalign with a healthy
relationship if we have all ofthis negative emotion from the
past constantly affecting us?
And even if you are in arelationship, even more of a
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reason to clear all of this, andtypically parents, partners and
kids we might have to do thedisconnect a few times before it
becomes permanent.
But, like I said, there areways around that.
And then, once you cut thesecords and you call your soul
pieces back, any need forclosure goes away.
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It's like you're whole againand the only reason you have
felt like you needed closure isbecause they literally have
pieces of you and you need thatback right?
So, like your higher self istelling you like, yes, we need
our soul pieces back, but thehuman self translates that as
like we need closure, becausethe human self doesn't know how
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to translate that feeling.
So just look at all of yourlike divine dating past that was
all orchestrated by your higherself.
List out the ones that you knowyou need to disconnect from and
try to pull out.
What each relationship taughtyou and this is a tip that will
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also help you in the financialarea of life is when we carry
the feeling like someone owes me, then what that does is it
creates this debt in yourelectromagnetic field and you
become a match for debt.
So our relationship crap cancome over and affect our
financial situation, whichactually happens a lot.
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So if you can look at eachrelationship and, like you know,
for example, the country musicsinger, that whole relationship
is the big lesson there was totrust my intuition.
My intuition, my body, kepttelling me to run right and I
didn't trust that and thensomething ended up happening and
that was very dangerous.
Didn't trust that and thensomething ended up happening
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that was very dangerous and thatwas a huge lesson.
So I was able to neutralizethat by looking at what did that
teach me?
So everyone, all relationshipsare teaching moments, even the
ones that were abusive for me,were teaching moments.
I have nothing but love for allof my exes, all of the people in
my past, because we agreed todo this.
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We agreed to play this likelittle human dance before we
came into this world.
So why would I be mad at themfor simply playing the role that
they had agreed to play beforewe came here, right?
So this is all about awareness,not shame.
There's nothing to be ashamedabout, and if you do feel that
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heavy shame and guilt, I wouldrecommend the 40 minute session,
because then I clean up thepast.
I also have a program calledunbonded, which is a instant
access program that helps youkind of clear up the unconscious
programming piece of it, butyou'll still need the energetic
cleanup, like I went through allof the nervous system
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regulation, all of theunconscious reprogramming.
That healed me a lot but it didnot do the full job because we
also have to address theenergetic components.
So if you don't address theenergetic components, it's never
going to fully heal.
Your exes weren't mistakes,they were messages.
So we just need to unplug youfrom the past to align you with
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the future you actually desire,and that's what I love doing for
people more than anything.
So reach out if you want somehelp there, sending you all so
much love Bye.
Thank you for listening toUnveiled.
I always love hearing yourtakeaways, so please connect
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