What if the scariest transitions in life—divorce, death, or starting over—could be handled with peace, clarity, and even empowerment? In this episode of Unwritten, I sit down with family law and estate planning attorney Shaunis Mercer, co-founder of Peaceful Law, to explore how women can navigate divorce and life planning without fear-based tactics or emotional burnout.
We talk about:
- Why peaceful legal support matters more than aggressive litigation
- How to make smart, values-driven choices in divorce or separation
- Estate planning as a radical act of self-respect (even if you're single or have "nothing")
- The power of asking honest questions early in relationships
- And how women can reclaim their worth and voice—legally and emotionally
As someone who’s been divorced, reinvented, and rebuilt—both personally and professionally—I bring these insights into the work I do at Steph Shanks Photography, where I help women over 40 see their strength, beauty, and transformation reflected back to them.
If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed by what-ifs or fearful of what’s next, this episode is a roadmap for reclaiming your agency—with compassion and clarity at the center.
More links:
Website: https://peacefullaw.com/
Instagram: https://instagram.com/ncpeacefullaw
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61556203799350
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/peaceful-law/
https://www.stephshanks.com
https://www.instagram.com/stephshanksphotography
https://www.linkedin.com/in/stephshanks/
https://www.youtube.com/@stephshanks
https://www.tiktok.com/@stephshanks?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc
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