We all know that rush - the butterflies, the magnetic pull, the thrill of connection that makes you think, “This could be it.”
But what happens when the spark fades, and you realise your lifestyles, values, or visions for the future don’t quite align?
In this episode, Ashika Lessani and Anu Verma dive deep into the difference between chemistry and compatibility - and why both matter, but in very different ways. Together, we unpack the truth about attraction, emotional intelligence, and the courage it takes to choose peace over potential.
We explore:
💫 What chemistry really feels like (and why it’s so addictive)
💭 Why compatibility quietly determines long-term peace and partnership
💎 The fine line between having standards and being judgmental
❤️ How loneliness can tempt us to settle for less than we deserve
🌿 Why standards are a reflection of self-respect, not entitlement
This episode is for anyone who’s ever questioned if their “type” is keeping them stuck — or if their standards are really boundaries in disguise.
✨ Tune in, reflect, and learn how to build love that feels calm, aligned, and real.
#DatingWisdom #SelfWorth #Compatibility #EmotionalIntelligence #ModernLove #Boundaries #Healing #SelfAwareness
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