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March 16, 2025 11 mins

Are you still searching for that "perfect partner" and wondering why you're still single? This episode is a brutally honest reality check: the perfect partner doesn't exist, and you might be the one sabotaging your love life. We're calling out the unrealistic expectations that are keeping you stuck and revealing why YOU might be the problem.

In this episode, you'll discover:

  • The harsh truth: Why the "perfect partner" myth is a complete lie.
  • Why you're still single: How unrealistic expectations are ruining your chances of finding real love.
  • The illusion of perfection: Why those "perfect" couples on social media are just showing you the highlight reel.
  • The importance of shared values: What to prioritize in a partner besides superficial qualities.
  • The power of growth: Why you need a partner who wants to evolve and learn with you.
  • How to embrace imperfection: Why flaws can make someone even more attractive.
  • Why you might be the problem: How your own perfectionism is pushing people away.

Key Quotes from the Episode:

  • "There is no perfect partner."
  • "You are missing out on so many fabulous people out there because you're looking for perfection and you're probably a perfectionist yourself."
  • "What you've got to concentrate on doing is meeting the perfect person that you can create a great life with."
  • "Stop trying to get perfect because you never are going to get perfect and that is your problem."
  • "Choose real over perfection. Choose connection over fantasy. Choose love over the illusion."

Actionable Steps:

  1. Examine your expectations: Are you being realistic about what you're looking for in a partner?
  2. Challenge your beliefs: Are you letting superficial qualities cloud your judgment?
  3. Embrace imperfection: Can you appreciate the flaws that make someone unique?
  4. Look inward: Are you bringing unrealistic expectations to the table?

Final Thought: Stop searching for perfection and start building something real.

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