February 6, 2025 • 61 mins
On this episode, Nellie talks about setting and achieving 12 specific goals for 2025, emphasizing the importance of clarity and specificity. She encourages participants to list their top desires, including health, wealth, and happiness, and to avoid vanity metrics. Examples include attending a Taylor Swift concert, achieving a health goal like 10,000 steps daily, and planning a Halloween Gala. Nellie shares personal experiences, such as wealthy leaping and the importance of proactive energy. The discussion also covers the strategic planning of goals, starting with easier tasks and gradually moving to more challenging ones, and the significance of maintaining a balance between personal and professional aspirations.
We will touch on:
- Wealthy Games Introduction
- Balancing Personal and Professional Goals
- Personal Anecdotes and Desires
- Specificity and Clarity in Goal Setting
- Proactive Energy and Preparation
- Wealthy Leap and Personal Growth
- Monthly Goal Setting and Earmarking
- Strategic Planning and Manifestation
- Daily Habits and Strong Foundation
- Community Support and Accountability
- Final Thoughts and Homework Assignment
Let's Take Some Action:
- Get clear on your top 12 goals, dreams, and desires for 2025.
- Assign target months for each of your 12 items, following the "wealthy ladder" framework.
- Be proactive, flexible, and open to how your manifestations may unfold.
Shout out to Robin Pfeifer for sponsoring this episode!
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Unknown (00:01):
Welcome to the wealthy games. You didn't know that you
were signing up for the wealthygames, but here is the interview
process to see if you're gonnapass and be ready to go for the
wealthy games.
I'm so excited.
Okay, so 12 months, 12 wealthydrinks. Do you think you can do
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it? Do you want to do it? Areyou excited to do it? What if
you could get the 12 juiciestthings that you desire in 2025
and you could have fun doing it?
Would you do it? Would you?
Would you put in the time andenergy and effort to create the
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12 juiciest things that youdesire? So this does build off
the previous trainings that I'vebeen doing about getting
everything that you want.
Because we're now going to getreally, really clear on what are
those top 12 things, and theyneed to be super duper specific
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so we can actually create them.
If they're too vague, it's hardto measure if you if you did it
or not, right? If youaccomplished the dream, the
goal, the desire. And we want tohave a well balanced we want to
have a beautiful blend of thingsfor you, things for your family,
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things for maybe, things youwant to accomplish
professionally. That way youfeel like a well balanced human
that is pouring into herself.
You're pouring into yourbusiness. You're pouring into
your family, right? Like I havefound in years, where my goals
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and dreams were like so heavyinto my business, it actually
like hurt my heart, because thenI was like, I'm working so hard
in my business, and like, myfamily's not seeing me, or
they're not reaping the rewardsthat I want them to right? So
it's I don't want you to chasevanity metrics. I don't want you
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to chase what you think everyoneelse wants you to do. I don't
want you to chase what you thinkyou should do. I want you to
take some time with yourself,okay? And I want you to number a
piece of paper, one through 12.
And I want you to get really,really clear with yourself. I
don't want you to ask yourpartner. I don't want you to ask
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your kids. I want you to sitwith yourself and say, if you
could create anything, anythingin 2025 what would be the top 12
things? I want you to thinkhealth. I want you to think
wealth. I want you to thinkhappiness. I want you to think
crazy, audacious, mind blowing,goals, dreams, things that maybe
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you've had a desire in the past,and then maybe you, like, talked
yourself out of it, or youstarted it, but then we ran
away. I've talked about this inprevious episodes, because
things that you really, reallydesire always come back. They
always come back. Like theTaylor Swift example, I had the
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desire to go to Taylor Swift. Itwas just this random, random,
random, intuitive download whereI was like, I want to go to the
Taylor Swift concert. I'vealready been to the eras
concert, but I really, like, Ijust got this like flood of like
the desire, and I got all tinglyand excited. And so I started to
pursue it, but then I ran awayfrom it, because it wasn't so
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easy, right? And that patterncan happen a lot if we're not
careful. And so when the desirecame back at the beginning of
August, I couldn't ignore it, soI really do believe what is
meant for you always finds itsway back to you, and who is
meant for you always finds theirway back. So it's so beautiful,
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because I can't think of abetter person to sponsor this
episode, then Robin, becausethat is her. We have known each
other since we were little, andsocial media got us reconnected,
and when we opened the doors toour passive income school, she
signed up on her own, like Inever like Chase or beg anyone.
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I never want people to feelpressured, like I will invite
when I feel like it's necessary,or like I feel like I want that,
like I want them in there, butseeing her name come through,
and she's been so consistent,and she's done the work and put
in the time and persevered evenwhen, like, kids have been sick.
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But I. Love that social mediaconnected us back. She's
building her digital business.
She is a cake pop business.
She's a mom. I just alwaysadmired her throughout school,
and I just love that socialmedia brought us back together.
So thank you, Robin forsponsoring this episode. I feel
like the luckiest girl on theplanet, like so many people,
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have been stepping up andsupporting The Wealthy Mama
Movement in so many differentways, and I'm just I'm very
humbled, and I've had to reallyregulate myself around all that
beautiful support and attention,because what's so wild is I'm
actually an introvert, so like,having a lot of attention, or a
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lot of people that want to like,sponsor or join one of our
programs, or like everyonethat's been like, commenting on
my content, like, I've like, ifI'm being like, super honest,
I've had to, like, just take amoment to, like, take a deep
breath and be like, this isokay. You are safe. Like you can
handle this. You've got this,right? So I just always try to
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be real here. Okay, so yourhomework? Okay, your homework is
to sit down. I don't want you torush this either. If you could
create anything, health, wealth,happiness in 2025 what would
these 12 things be? Okay? Whatwould these 12 things be? So I
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will actually share buying withyou, because I love being a
student. Okay? So this, like Isaid, this does build off the
previous exercises of how to geteverything that you want, and
now we are chiseling it down tothe top 12 things. Okay? Now,
when I've done similar exerciseswith people, it can be easy to
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be like, I want to be happy,okay, but what's going to make
you happy? That's too vague. Sothese should be very, very
specific, very specific. Like,if you want to find a new job,
right? That's very specific. Ifyou want to buy a new car, very
specific, right? Like, later, wecan get even more detailed, of
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like, okay, what kind of carIdeally, when would you like to
have that happen, right? But itshould be pretty specific from
the get go, so we can, like, runwith it quicker. If you want to
get healthy, too big, it's toovague. I love you. I'm here to
be I'm here to be your lovinginterruption. What does being
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healthy mean to you? Is it10,000 steps a day? Is it
losing, like, a certain amountof weight? Is it, you know,
counting your your macros, like,what is it for you? Is it going
to the gym a certain amount ofdays of the week? So we want to
get really, really clear on,what do you desire? Okay, now
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this is what's important. Whenyou do this exercise, you're a
current version of yourself whenyou work with me, you wealthy
leap really fast like I amunrecognizable myself, because
I'm a student of my work, okay,I am unrecognizable from that
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person in February when She waslike, oh, let's go to the Taylor
Swift concert. And then she,like, ran away from her desire.
I'm so different. I have wealthyleaped in six months, right?
Less than six months, so fast.
So that's the power of the workthat I do. Like everyone that
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comes into wealthy month, you'regoing to experience, like, what
some people experience in 10years. You're going to
experience it in 30 dayswithout, like, without being
overwhelmed and burn out either.
Okay, so like, we go deep, we gofast, but we go with joy and
happiness and fun, which makesit be so good, so you don't burn
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out, okay? And so you're acurrent version of yourself.
This may change when you're whenyou wealthy leap. You may
accomplish everything fasterthan you even think. Okay, so I
want you to stay open that likethis is your current vision of
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what you desire, and we're opento all the possibilities. So I
just want to say that, because Ithink that's important, but this
gives us a starting point to hitthe ground running, right now,
right now. If you enroll inwealthy year, there is a warm up
phase before 2025because by the time 2025 comes,
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I want you to already be warmedup and ready for the game. Ready
for the game, ready to go. Notlike Okay, now let's go, right
so there's a warm up phase. Thatwill happen and you being
prepared is absolutely key. LoveWell, let me say that again.
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Wealth loves proactive energy.
Wealth loves proactive energy.
This has been the loudest,intuitive download for me, very,
very recently, the blah ladderthat I've talked a lot about is
reactive energy. Think about it.
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When you're tired, most likelyit's because you didn't get a
lot of sleep, and then you'revery short fused. You eat, not
so great, right? You're veryreactive, and it feels very
yucky and blah when you're notprepared for a meeting. You feel
very unprepared and reactive.
Right? When you're not preparedfor a trip. I've been there
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before where I'm like, Oh mygosh. Like, I did not, I didn't,
I did not prepare, like, soonenough, and then I'm like, out
the night before, stressed out,and I'm like, I did this to
myself. Like, I did this tomyself. I've had trips where I'm
literally packing and throwingthings in a suitcase, and I need
to, like, rush to the airport,and it doesn't feel great. I
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don't love it. That's the blahladder, right? So the blah
ladder is totally reactiveenergy. And so the more we can
get you in proactive energy onevery level possible. It feels
incredible, like, when yourhouse is picked up, not perfect,
right? Like, especially if youlive with children, we're not
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looking for perfect, but whenyour house is picked up, when,
like, when you feel like you'vegot your together, and you're
like, Man, this is nice. That'sproactive energy. Like, we
already like, well one all ofour repurposing content, like,
shout out to em. She's so farahead with all of our
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repurposing content, she's like,three months, if not four months
ahead. And I told her to, like,pause and help us on like, other
projects, but she's so farahead. Same thing with Sarah,
she's so far ahead. We'realready, like, planned and
prepared for wealthy month.
Like, we're almost done wrappingup wealthy year preparations,
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like, what, what? Like I have myhouse has never been so
systematized, so organized, likeI'm impressing myself, like,
truly, I'm having out of bodyexperiences where I'm like, this
is getting good. Like, I've gotmy popcorn, and I'm like, this
is getting really good. Like,look at you go, like you are
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walking the walk. You are beinga star student of your work, and
it's just so cool. And if youheard the story from this
morning of the guy that stoppedme at Walmart and decided to to
reign me, scold me, and I, likeimmediately, stood up for
myself. I did not hesitate. Idid not waver. I stood in my
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power. I did not agree to whathe wanted me to do, which was
move all the way over into likethe next lane. I said, No, I'm,
I'm safe. Here. You can goaround me and I'll, I'll move
when I want to move. And what Iwas telling Sarah was I was,
like, that was such a divineuniverse moment, because I
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didn't have time to prepare forthat moment, right? Like, it's
easier to stand in your powerwhen you have time to, like,
role, play and plan and prepare.
But that was a curveball, momentthat it was a test. It was a
test from the universe. Theuniverse loves giving pop
quizzes. Have you ever set aboundary and then somebody tries
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to test it, and you're like, ohGod, like, is everyone listening
to like boundary conversations?
It is a pop quiz from theuniverse. And so I'm so happy
that that situation happened,because I was kind but firm and
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I had no time to prepare. I hadno time to prepare. And in
previous situations like that,like I shared on the live video
this morning, I've had a guylike, at a stoplight get out of
his car and tap my window andlike, scolded me for not turning
left because I didn't feelcomfortable turning left. And I
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like, like, immediately like,turtled and like, said sorry.
I'm so sorry, and I immediatelyregretted it, because I'm like,
Nope, I'm not sorry. I am notsorry. I had two kids in the
back of my car, and I am agrandma when it comes to
driving, and I did not feel safeturning left. It was a huge
intersection, and I waited tillthe next time. But. I didn't
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stand in my power. I'm trying toremember when that was. I think
it was last spring when thatsituation happened, and so there
are no accidents. It's towardsthe end of September, we're
about to embark on our biggestlaunch ever. I've been
energetically preparing,mentally preparing, physically
preparing, emotionally,preparing, financially and
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strategically, preparing like Ihave put in so much energy and
effort, personally andprofessionally, to be as
prepared as I possibly can, froma proactive standpoint, and so
it's just so cool that thatsituation happened this morning
because I had no time toprepare, and that just showed me
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how truly, authentically Ireally am in a very powerful,
energetic state that is like,almost like muscle memory. And
I'm really excited about it. Andanyone can do this, anyone can
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do this. So with that beingsaid, that was a little bit of a
tangent, but I think it'sempower. It's so empowering for
you to hear this type of stuff,because you can do this, you've
got to put in the time, theenergy and the effort. I wish
there is. I want there, not evenI wish. I want there to be more
women showing how simple healthand fitness can be. Walk 10,000
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steps a day, get your greensshot in every single day. Like I
want there being more womenshowing how easy it can be, how
fun it can be, the savingschallenges that I've been doing
this year the organization, Ican't wait to show you every
little thing that I've done inmy house that has really just,
like, simplified my day to day,so I don't have to think so hard
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like, I share, because I carelike and I want More women to
win like I truly, truly do, butyou've gotta do you've gotta do
your part. Okay, so, top, top,top 12, goals, okay, goals,
dreams, desires for 2025, wewant a good blend of health,
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wealth and happiness. We want tobe very, very specific. Okay, so
I'm going to share mine. Okay,so that way you can kind of hear
mine in real time. So I'mcontinuing my tattoo sleeve as
planned. So I started it, okay,I started it, and I knew that it
was going to carry over into2025, I'm continuing to grow the
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hair out. I cannot wait until itis past my shoulders. I'm being
I'm gonna take my moment to beon the blah ladder for just a
second. It like, does this,like, flippy thing right now?
And it drives me bonkers. Andit's still not fully long enough
to, like, get everything in amessy bun. And so it likes to do
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this, like little Wendy's, like,Hair flip thing, if I don't blow
dry it and it, it's, it's notideal, but we're working through
it. And I'm really proud of thehair growth, because I got
through the awkward phase, whichwas, like the bowl cut mullet,
which was not fun. So the hairgrowth is it's happening. We're
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going to add some extensionseventually, the mama makeover.
We're finishing our savings goalfor our next house, which I'm
really excited about as Icontinue to, like, get this
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house so organized andsystematized. I'm like, I kind
of like it here.
Isn't that interesting. I kindof like it here. I don't want to
move as much,but that's important. But I
still do want to move. I wantour I want a bigger backyard. I
don't want as many neighbors, sowe're still moving. Okay,
universe, you hear that I likeit here, but and I'm grateful
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for here, but we're stillmoving. Okay? I want so much
wealthy mama merch. It'sredonkulous, like I want to have
surprise boxes show up atpeople's houses where they've
got, like, stickers and hoodiesand mugs and hats, and they can,
just like, spread wealthy mamamerch across the United States
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and their communities. And like,you get a sticker, you get a
hat, like, have stuff for kids,like, just like Joy boxes, like
wealthy mama Joy boxes that are,like, filled with merch and
spreading the word. And like,everyone's looking so cute and
so comfy and all the things somerch. This. We're doing a denim
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and diamonds Gala. Next yearwill be a Halloween party in
October. I freaking loveHalloween. And I'm like, why am
I not doing a costume Gala? Youknow how fun that will be, kids
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included. So I'm so excitedabout that. I have always wanted
to interview a really big namein my industry, like a huge
name, like a Mel Robbins, okay?
Or I love Ed Malet, oh my gosh.
Like, there's some really bignames that I'm like, if I could
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sit across from you and ask youevery question I've ever wanted
to ask you, and have an audienceor recorded or however it plays
out, I want to interview. Adesire to interview one big
name. I think in anotherlifetime I was a news anchor.
Interviews. I love interviews. Ilove being interviewed. I love
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interviewing people. It's like aconversation. It's so fun and
it's really relaxing for bothsides, because you don't have to
like plan and prepare this bigproduction of a talk. I've done
lots of keynotes in my life, andthey take a lot of time and
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energy as we're like, aninterview, just feels like two
people chatting and getting toknow each other, and it just
feels like fun and authentic. Sothat is a big desire of mine.
It's been a big desire. And I'mlike, it's, it's happening,
okay, um, I did already havethese pre I've already had these
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done for a while. So yours mighttake a little bit longer. Next
year is our 10 year anniversary,um, and we got married in Vegas,
and so we've already decidedthat we will be going back, but
it is on the list to make surethat it absolutely happens. So
Vegas anniversary is on thelist. We have obviously done a
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lot of giveaways this year, butI want to go even bigger, like
massive all year long. So I havelots of ideas around that. So
huge year of giveaways. Sothat's still a little vague, but
we will flush it out. Okay, Ihave always wanted to be a
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blogger again. This is we'resaying yes to ourselves. Okay,
we're done saying no. We'resaying yes. Okay, so blogging
gets to be a top priority fornext year. And really like
blogging, like blogging andblogging, it's easier for me to
do videos both in the season oflife that I am and I'm just I'm
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naturally like a talker, not atyper, so it'll be like blogging
slash vlogging, but I have thiswhole vision that is already
started for my kids that's aprivate digital archive of their
life. They're still young enoughthat I'm gonna go back in time.
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I'm gonna go back in time. I'mgonna go back in time and go
since they were born. You knowhow like it back in the olden
days, you would like do babybooks. I want to do like a
digital keepsake. So the theblog name is the venture, The
Adventures of Emma and Boone,and it has its password
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protected. It's, it's only forthem, but I want it to literally
show their whole life. Like, howcool would that be? Like, even
though baby books are cool and,like, home videos are cool,
they're not organized, right?
They don't like, they don't tella story. And so, like, the
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vision with this private blogfor them is, like, it will
literally be a digital keepsake,a time capsule of their life,
like I, I will probably cry theday that they graduate. So it
has to be a priority. They'reyoung enough that I can do it,
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but then I've gotta, like, I getto keep up with it. So like,
I'm, I'm raising my standards oflike, it's a priority and I want
it to happen. Okay, somethingcrazy is a convertible. I'm not
sure what that looks like yet,but it keeps showing up for me.
I don't know if it means I buy aconvertible, if I like rent a
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convertible for a period oftime. If, if a company gives us
a wealthy mama convertible,there's just intuitively, it
like, keeps. Surfacing, and thenwe've decided to get a little
dog once we move. So that's onthe list. So obviously that
one's a little bit contingent,but we don't want a puppy. We're
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done with our puppy face, but inthis current version of Nelly.
These are the things that I'mlike. I do not want to go out of
2025 without these things.
Again, I'm wealthy leaping sofast a few different things
could happen. I could knock someof these out literally so fast,
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some of these could change,okay? And I used to get tripped
up on that, because I'm like,but I'm changing. I'm changing.
Yeah, that's the whole point,right? So we want to stay
flexible. Of like, let's say theconvertible, it's on this
current list. It keeps showingup. But maybe that changes.
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Maybe it's like, maybe I get tothat, maybe I once I'm a
different version of myself.
Okay, we're trying. We're timetraveling. I can always check in
with myself energetically andsay, Do I still desire that?
Right? Like it was in the worksto run a full marathon. When I
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signed up for the half marathonlast year, but I still allowed
myself to like, do I still wantto run a full marathon? And the
answer was yes, and so I signedup. And so now I'm doing it.
It's like weeks away. How manyweeks away is it? I'm looking at
my gut lender, where are we? Um,I've lost track of time. Oh my
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gosh, it's init's in three weeks.
It's in three weeks. Soexciting. It's so exciting.
Oh,oh my goodness. I'm so excited.
I'm so excited. Remember, yourbrain doesn't know.
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Your brain only knows what youtell it. So I'm so excited. I
really am. And I've been so gladthat I've been training, because
I've worked so many kinks out intraining things that, like the
old running backpack that I had,literally, like, I don't even
know if it's still here, but itliterally, like, gave me, like a
rug burn, like a burn. So Ireturned that one, got a new
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one, but then the new one, thewater wasn't working again, and
I'm like, is it me? Like, what'sgoing on? Are running backpacks
just that hard to, like,actually work. Um, so I've just,
I've worked out so many kings,uh, by practicing. That's the
whole point of practice, right?
Like, make practice count. Sothat way when Game Day happens,
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Game Day is, like, we're good.
This is muscle memory. We'veworked out the kinks. It's all
good. Okay, so your homework isin this version of yourself to
get very, very clear on what youdesire. Now, where does the 12
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months come into play? I'm soglad that you asked. Okay, so
your brain does love focus. Letme see if I have another marker.
Um, what marker do I want?
Let's do green for money. Okay,so your, your brain loves focus.
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So we're going to go with whatis easy first. My brain loves
easy. Okay, so the Halloweenparty, we can already earmark
that for. That's going to happenin October, obviously. Why did I
spell it like that? That isspell October. Um, obviously
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there's going to be things thatwe do leading up to that, but it
will the manifestation willhappen in October for the
Halloween party. Okay,you you can be working on yours
as I'm doing mine here too.
Okay, this isn't the first timeI've done this, either. So if
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you're like that looked so easyfor her, it's because I've spent
a lot of time on this. Are youokay? What's wrong? What's
wrong?
Everything's all right. You sayhi to the people. Okay,
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it's okay. Do. It's all okay.
Are you okay if I finish thisvideo real quick,
okay, can, can I hold you justright here, and I'll finish it,
and then we'll go, okay. Allright, cool. All right. So the
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Halloween party will obviouslyhappen in October. Okay, the
Vegas anniversary, ouranniversaries in September.
Okay, so we're starting toearmark
some predictions, if you will. Ilove saying predictions. We're
earmarking and predicting.
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This marker is very dry.
Whenit makes sense. Some of these
things are going to happen,okay,
some will be ongoing as well.
Okay,so let's look here. What else is
very easy. I was earmarking theconvertible for my birthday
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month next year, so August.
Okay, let's see what else iseasy on here, the mommy makeover
we had earmarked for June. Okay,the tattoo sleeve. I've already
been talking to her. So we'rethinking January, I was
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earmarking the hair now the hairhas to be to my shoulders for
extensions, but I was earmarkingbased on how fast my hair has
been growing, of doing Februaryfor hair extensions. Okay,
what are you looking at that?
Okay,I was earmarking the house money
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deadlineby the time she's done with
first grade, which is May.
Okay, let's see what else iseasy.
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We're gonna say the little dogto be December, because
obviously that we have to be inthe next house. So we'll just
say December. Um,oh, be careful. I'm talking to
my my friends.
Okay, I'm almost done. Okay. Um,all right. So the other ones on
here, merch, year of giveawaysand blogging, are all pretty
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much on going, Okay, but whatcan happen? Oops. What can
happen is we can still say, Whenare we like? When are we going
to put a lot more energy intothat? So the the months that I
have available that I don't havesomething earmarked, um, is,
let's see here, I have March,April.
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So let's see here.
March can be for merch. Marchfor merch that just even sounds
good, okay.
Oh, I don't have the big personinterview yet.
Let's see here.
I'm thinking, do intuitive,intuitively, what showed up was
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November, so we're just gonnatrust that. See, I've even done
this a few times and but I'm notlooking at my my notes. I was
looking at my goal list, but um,not my earmarks of like, my my
predictions, if you willdo to do, to do.
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And then, although it's the hugeyear of giveaways, I think what
would be this another, here'sanother intuitive download. July
could be like Christmas in July.
How fun would that be? And whenwe're in summer, moms are going
crazy, so it could be like areally good distraction, yes.
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Well, okay, just hold on onesecond. I'm almost done. Okay,
um, all right, and then what'suh, so April is the only month
left, I believe. Okay, soblogging. We'll put April, which
I love, because that could beright before Mother's Day. Do a
ton of blogging. So again, therecould be blogging leading up to
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that, but like, we're justputting some time and energy
into sorting everything. So nowwe have all of our earmarks.
This looks like a crazy personslist. Welcome to my break. Okay,
so now what we're going to do iswe're going to we're going to
now put the predictions in orderof the months. Okay, so 2025,
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and then we're going to writeJanuary. Hey, can you please
stop doing that? I'm.
February, March, April, May,June, July, August, September,
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October, November, December,okay, so the tattoo sleeve was
January, Hair is February.
March is March.
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April is blogging.
I may is house money.
June is Mommy Makeover.
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July is give away galore. Whoknows? Maybe we'll give away a
car, you get a convertible and Iget a convertible, and we'll be
twins. Wouldn't that be cool? Iwould definitely have to talk to
my accountant about that,because it's like, do they need
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to, like, I'm assuming theywould need to put
that on their taxes.
I'm gonna guess that's where,like, the the Elle Woods in me
comes out. I'm like, I'm sureyou have to claim that on your
taxes. Even when you're at thecasino and it goes over a
certain amount, you have to toclaim it. So giveaway galore in
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July. August is the convertible.
Okay?
September is Vegas anniversary,big anniversary. October is the
Halloween Gala. Areyou gonna come to my Halloween
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party? Yes, yes. What are yougonna wear?
Tinkerbell.
I love it. Okay. November is bigperson interview, okay,
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and then December was the littledoggie. Do
you want a little dog?
Yeah? Yeah,that'd be cool. Do you think
they would cuddle with us? Yeah,oh, put, oh, curious, oh, nice,
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like in a little purse.
Which of the little dog bootnames be? What do you think?
Probably I lovely,Emma. Emma, that's you, but
you're our Emma. We don't wantto get confused.
Well, you know my name and thedog's name. Oh, we
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got a thumbs down. Why? I don'tknow.
Oh, maybe it's me.
I don't know. Let's see.
I know when I do this, you gethearts. It's pretty cool.
Is that so cool? Yeah, youwant to try it, you've
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got to make a heart on thescreen.
Hold it closer.
Just patience. Patience. Oh,yours worked. Hearts, hearts,
hearts, hearts. Remember whenyou went on Facebook Live on my
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on my profile,so if she could go on Facebook
Live, you can go on FacebookLive. Anyways. Okay, so now this
is all organized. There's alittle bit of business here,
okay, two choices. Okay, goodjob.
There's a little bit of youknow, relationship. There's a
little bit of, you know, wealthon here. There's a little bit of
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everything. Okay, I got it.
Okay. Now, are there everydaythings like my habits? Yes, but
I've already the beautiful partabout my habits is they've
gotten to a point where I don'thave to think about them like I
take my ADHD meds every singleday, which I know sounds silly,
but it's not always easy toremember to take your ADHD meds.
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But I take my meds every singleday. I take my greens every
single day. I, on average, hitmy 10,000 steps, or some days I
have 30,000 steps, right? Likeso, I average have 10,000 steps.
I get a massive amount of waterin. We're so good on our food,
like, we still splurge, butlike, it's so balanced and it's
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so easy, so like, there's thingsthat are now on autopilot that I
do believe are critical for astrong foundation. That's really
what a lot of this year hasbeen. I've called this year like
the dress rehearsal, personallyand professionally there, and
it's still been amazing, butit's been like the dress
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rehearsal, where we're workingout the kinks, we're getting the
habits in right, like we'rereally getting those strong
foundational pieces in place sowe can massively grow, but not
crumble and fail, right? And orburn out, even as we've been
planning wealthy year, I wastelling Sarah today, like, I
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don't want even you burning out,so like to be proactive. Let's
think about this, right? Like,let's plan and prepare so we
don't burn out. It's okay. Soonce you get to this part,
you'll thank me. Okay, becausenow we have a system in place.
Okay? Now, some of these will bepretty easy, right? So, like,
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I'm already talking to the galthat did my first tattoo. We've
already been in communication.
Already know her pricing. We'renow starting to get, like, on
the calendar, that's going to bea pretty man, pretty easy
manifestation to make happen.
Okay, like I taught you in theGetting everything that you
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want, it's going to go fromeasiest to most challenging. So
isn't it interesting that evenwithout fully knowing it Okay,
subconsciously, yes, but likethe stuff at the top of the year
for 2025 is easier, tattoosleeve, hair merch, blogging,
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the house, money like those areall things that have already
they're already in motion.
They're already happening. I'mregulating myself around them.
I'm planning and preparing forthem. That is much, much, much
easier than like the HalloweenGala, even though I have tons of
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event experience that's going totake some time and energy to put
in, right? The big personinterview. Who am I
interviewing? What's their cost,right? Do I fly to them? Are
they flying to here? What are wetalking about? Is there a camera
crew, right? And so althoughthat can absolutely happen, it
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who I'm becoming on the way tothat manifestation is how it
will actually happen. So mucheasier. Okay, and so the we want
to take that same framework ofwhat does it what logically
makes sense, not only based onthe time of the year and also
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taking the framework of easiestto most challenging. Because
wouldn't you know, it okay? Justgonna draw you a little picture.
Now, 2025it's going to be the wrong way
in this drawing. Okay, so bearwith me, because it's up and
(43:26):
down. But if we were doing itlike I was drawing it the other
day, it would have beenreversed. But wouldn't you know
it? You now have a wealthyladder for 2025 it will feel
challenging right now for thethings that are towards next
year, the end of next year, butwith that strong foundation of
your your healthy and wealthyhabits and working on the
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previous manifestations, itwon't feel as challenging once
you come to that step, becauseyou'll be an energetic match,
right? It won't feel aschallenging
trying to get it to work. It'sokay, yeah.
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Type something you want to typesomething.
Do you have the caps lock on.
Oh, you did, okay, there you go.
You want the notes section?
Yeah, okay. Well, you like type,okay, type away. Take notes for
us. Okay, tell us how to do allthe things. What's your big goal
(44:36):
for 2025or a big dream that you have,
I got a dream of me, unicorns inreal life.
Unicorns in real life. We'redoing that tomorrow. Tomorrow we
go to unicorn world. I'm soexcited. Are you so excited?
(44:57):
Yeah, I.
Big unicorn world. So that'salready happening. I'm
gonna bring like my my unicorn,like my one unicorn I have.
Well, that's a good idea. Yeah.
Do you have any other dreams orgoals that you can think of?
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Do you want a YouTube channelyour own? Do
you want your own YouTubechannel? Yeah, I think I could
get you some subscribers.
I don't know if daddy would beon board with you having a
YouTube channel, though, but youcan just pop on and come on
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mine. How about that? Yeah, doesthat sound fair? Because
everyone loves you.
Smash the pumpkin. Smash thepumpkin. Yeah, that was last
year. Can we do that again? Iwas already thinking about the
baby looking like pink, likeblue and pink. Love it, but pink
can be in this side, and bluecan be in this side,
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okay, and then we smash it.
Yeah, do you knowwhy we smashed the pumpkins last
year? Why? Because we wereletting go of our fears.
Go on, What? What? Oh my gosh.
What's the fear that you have?
You have a fear. Um,I'm gonna type it. You're gonna
type it. Okay. Anyways, I know Igot one. You got a fear?
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Yeah, okay.
What's the fear? My fear is notlistening a mirror, not not what
lifting them a mirror and thenhurting myself? Oh, that's,
that's a valid fear. Yeah, wewouldn't want you to get hurt.
I'm gonna do some. Do you wantto show them your wiggly tooth?
Yeah, okay, show it's reallywiggly. It's the front tooth.
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Oh, my gosh. It's literallyhanging on by a thread. Oh, it's
creepy.
Like literally is sticking out.
It's hanging on. Okay, so nowyou have your wealthy ladder. So
if we, if we were doing it frombottom to top, then January
would be down here, so thatyou're literally climbing your
wealthy ladder. Now, justbecause something is in June
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doesn't mean that you won'tstart preparing for it before.
So then we still take the sameframework that I taught you, and
we say the what do we need todo? Okay, or, excuse me, how do
we make this happen? And who cansupport you? So that way we can
already start to get some ofthese things rolling. And like I
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said, some will be easier thanothers, but you can already
start to say yes to all of yourdesires. So for example, the
convertible. When I did this thefirst time, a few weeks ago, I
went on Carvana to look atconvertibles as if I was going
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to buy one. Carvana is, like,made for moms. They literally
will drop off a card to you thatyou buy, you buy it online, and
you have seven days to returnit. Like, I just think that that
is so cool. And so I was lookingat convertibles, and I was like,
Oh, I like that one, I like thatone. And here was the here. Here
was the coolest part about beingin that manifestation. It was
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fun just to be in it, right? Italso surprised me, because the
ones that I liked were muchlower of a cost than I thought.
And I was like, Huh,interesting, right? And then I
also thought, well, maybe Iwould just like rent a
convertible for the month ofAugust, right? Because here in
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Ohio, it's so cold and rainy andyucky from like, honestly
October to like, sometimes evenMarch. So maybe I would just
rent a convertible for 30 days,right? Or maybe a dealership
would let me have one for 30days in exchange for, like,
social media marketing. This iswhy we want to be open to how we
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get there, when it actuallyhappens, how it actually
happens, like all of the things,because there's an infinite
amount of ways to create whatyou desire, you know, devil's
advocate. Let's say we find ourhouse that we desire. Next year.
We have the house money. We findit, but it needs renovations,
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and we can't move in until 2026Well, the little dog may not
happen, but could we start to,you know, look at dogs. Or could
I volunteer at a dog shelter?
Right? Like you can start to bein every single manifestation
and start to receive that energyas if you already have it, even
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if you don't have it in the waythat you eventually will have
it, have it for. Fully yourbrain doesn't know that, right?
Like when you go test drive acar, the reason why that sales
person wants you to test drivethe car is because they know
psychologically, when you testdrive it, you're behind the
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wheel, right? You have that newcar smell, it's quiet, or you've
got the radio on right, like thewindows are down, like I even
remember the day that I testdrove my jeep. I was driving
around. They let me go bymyself, which I actually think
is really smart. And that wholetime I was like, This is it.
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This is it. I know this is thisis my car. I just knew it in my
heart of hearts. And what'sreally cool about that is I test
drove two different Jeeps. Thefirst one, I didn't have that
feeling. The second one, whichis now my now, my now Jeep, it
felt that was like, This is mycar. This is my car. And so we
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can have that test drive carenergy with every single thing
on your list. Honestly, my myheart tattoo like was the test
drive I wanted to feel what itwas going to feel like to have a
tattoo, a little tattoo, beforeI went through and got the whole
sleeve. And what was so coolabout that was as she's doing
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the little tattoo we're nowtalking about the sleeve, she's
like, Oh my gosh, I would loveto do that for you. And I was
asking her more questions. I waslike, would you break it up into
multiple days? What's your rate?
And so I was already plantingthe bigger manifestation as I
was doing the smallermanifestation. So you're, if
you're not already at the point,you're going to get to the point
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with manifestation where you'replaying chess, not checkers,
like everything that I do, I'malways three steps ahead of
myself, and it takes a momentto, like, get there, but there
is strategy and intention witheverything that I'm doing. I
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knew. So, like the thesupplements that I drink, I
started with trim, which is verysimilar to happy juice, and I
knew that then I was eventuallygoing to add in my greens shot.
So I started with trim, andliterally, like, three weeks
later, I then added in the greenshot, okay, now that I have the
green shot, I'm, like, alreadylooking for, like, that next
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layer of what I'm going to donext, right? And so when we are
really being strategic, we'reteeing up everything and being
just very, very intentional.
Like the mama makeover has beenhappening, been in the works for
a while, and I've been savingfor it. I've been planning for
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it. I've been researching aboutit. I've been getting really
curious and serious about like,what does this look like? Why do
I want this? What makes sense?
I've talked about this onanother episode, and I'll talk
more about it, but it's not a Ineed it. I've gotten to a place
with my body where I truly lovemy body and I want it for many
reasons that we'll talk aboutanother day. Okay, but a very
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simple thing for Vegas is we'vealready talked about it. We
already know where we're gonnastay. We know when we're gonna
go. It's already in my calendar.
I'm already in themanifestation, and it's 12
months away, right? TheHalloween Gala. I'm like, Oh my
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gosh, what date should we do it?
Right? Probably, like, maybe theweekend before Halloween.
Because, you know, the week ofHalloween gets really busy for
people. Should I do it at thecurrent venue that I'm gonna
have? Should I do a differentvenue? Right? I'm already
starting to think about thisseason when all the Halloween
decorations go 75% off. I shouldbe running to the store like the
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day after Halloween and begetting some of that decorations
for next year. This is the powerof being in proactive energy.
You can Quantum Leap, or what Ilike to say is wealthy leap. You
can wealthy leap so much fasterwhen you know where you're going
and you know why you're goingthere, and you're also super
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flexible, right? Like, I'm notmarried to the idea of, you
know, the big person interview,what if the the key person that
I want to interview? What ifthey're not available in
November? Am I going to gettripped up on that? I'm like,
no, maybe it's in January, butwe start promoting it in
November. So this is the coolpart about like, we've got
intention, we've got focus,we're being proactive, and
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equally, we're open andavailable for something better.
We're flexible, if it takes alittle bit longer, or we need to
shift something, or we want toshift something. Something else
feels better, and maybe I swapit out. That's okay, right? The
whole goal here is that we'removing in the direction that
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your current self feels like itwants to go, and even if then,
three months from now, you'rethen, then version of yourself
wants to go a little bit to theright or a little bit to the
left, it still is moving in thedirection that you desire, and
it's just so powerful to trustthat everything is happening for
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you. Like, I was even Yes,can you, like, make a math
problem?
A math problem? Yeah, yes. Doyou want to solve it? Okay, so I
was even telling Sarah today. SoSarah and I have, she's my right
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hand business manager. I wastelling Sarah today we were
meant like we are truly soulmates, yes, can you let me do
some homework? Yeah, we'll dohomework. We'll do homework in a
little bit. Okay, hold on onesecond. So we're truly soul
mates, because how we met in aFacebook group, there was like
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9000 people in there. She then,like, became a client of mine,
joined my mastermind. We justgot really, really close, and
then she, like, came on my team,and just, there's been so many
connections of like we weresupposed to be together. Like,
there's when you do goals anddreams, there's things on your
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list that you're just like, Iknow I'm supposed to do this
right, like, whatever it may be,or I get excited about
something, right? And so just,like, what is meant for you, you
just, you just know in yourheart of hearts, right? Like,
there's just certain things thatyou just know in your heart of
hearts, and it's going tohappen. And we just can get to
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continue to do our part. Soanyways, your homework is to put
some really thought into thisand really get clear, because
you can absolutely make those 12things happen and more. And we
want that beautiful blend ofhealth, wealth and happiness,
because they all do connect, thehappier you are, the healthier
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you will become, and the happierand healthier you are, the
wealthier you will become, likethey all connect, and so when we
can have a big like a beautifulblend of all of them, it just
changes the game. It changes thegame. So more to come on all of
this, but this is just a littletease of what wealthy year is
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really designed to do, becauseit's easy to get the party
started. It's harder in thosemoments of doubt and fear, and
if something's not going how youwant it to go, or you just want
that accountability, right? Likeso wealthy year is really
designed to to keep the momentumgoing, as if each month is its
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own year. Because that likesparkle that we have with that
fresh start of a new month or anew year is so delicious. So
like, imagine feeling that 12times next year, right? Like
that's my goal when it comes towealthy year, it is equal parts
personal development andbusiness development. And it's
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very, very intentional,intentionally designed to be
that. So that way both sides ofyou are getting filled up in
real time together, so I'm gonnago be mom. You have Hallmark,
and I will talk to you very,very soon. Love you. Thank you,
Robin, for sponsoring today.
You.
Welcome to the wealthy games. You didn't know that you
were signing up for the wealthygames, but here is the interview
process to see if you're gonnapass and be ready to go for the
wealthy games.
I'm so excited.
Okay, so 12 months, 12 wealthydrinks. Do you think you can do
(00:25):
it? Do you want to do it? Areyou excited to do it? What if
you could get the 12 juiciestthings that you desire in 2025
and you could have fun doing it?
Would you do it? Would you?
Would you put in the time andenergy and effort to create the
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12 juiciest things that youdesire? So this does build off
the previous trainings that I'vebeen doing about getting
everything that you want.
Because we're now going to getreally, really clear on what are
those top 12 things, and theyneed to be super duper specific
(01:10):
so we can actually create them.
If they're too vague, it's hardto measure if you if you did it
or not, right? If youaccomplished the dream, the
goal, the desire. And we want tohave a well balanced we want to
have a beautiful blend of thingsfor you, things for your family,
(01:31):
things for maybe, things youwant to accomplish
professionally. That way youfeel like a well balanced human
that is pouring into herself.
You're pouring into yourbusiness. You're pouring into
your family, right? Like I havefound in years, where my goals
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and dreams were like so heavyinto my business, it actually
like hurt my heart, because thenI was like, I'm working so hard
in my business, and like, myfamily's not seeing me, or
they're not reaping the rewardsthat I want them to right? So
it's I don't want you to chasevanity metrics. I don't want you
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to chase what you think everyoneelse wants you to do. I don't
want you to chase what you thinkyou should do. I want you to
take some time with yourself,okay? And I want you to number a
piece of paper, one through 12.
And I want you to get really,really clear with yourself. I
don't want you to ask yourpartner. I don't want you to ask
(02:38):
your kids. I want you to sitwith yourself and say, if you
could create anything, anythingin 2025 what would be the top 12
things? I want you to thinkhealth. I want you to think
wealth. I want you to thinkhappiness. I want you to think
crazy, audacious, mind blowing,goals, dreams, things that maybe
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you've had a desire in the past,and then maybe you, like, talked
yourself out of it, or youstarted it, but then we ran
away. I've talked about this inprevious episodes, because
things that you really, reallydesire always come back. They
always come back. Like theTaylor Swift example, I had the
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desire to go to Taylor Swift. Itwas just this random, random,
random, intuitive download whereI was like, I want to go to the
Taylor Swift concert. I'vealready been to the eras
concert, but I really, like, Ijust got this like flood of like
the desire, and I got all tinglyand excited. And so I started to
pursue it, but then I ran awayfrom it, because it wasn't so
(03:50):
easy, right? And that patterncan happen a lot if we're not
careful. And so when the desirecame back at the beginning of
August, I couldn't ignore it, soI really do believe what is
meant for you always finds itsway back to you, and who is
meant for you always finds theirway back. So it's so beautiful,
(04:14):
because I can't think of abetter person to sponsor this
episode, then Robin, becausethat is her. We have known each
other since we were little, andsocial media got us reconnected,
and when we opened the doors toour passive income school, she
signed up on her own, like Inever like Chase or beg anyone.
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I never want people to feelpressured, like I will invite
when I feel like it's necessary,or like I feel like I want that,
like I want them in there, butseeing her name come through,
and she's been so consistent,and she's done the work and put
in the time and persevered evenwhen, like, kids have been sick.
(04:57):
But I. Love that social mediaconnected us back. She's
building her digital business.
She is a cake pop business.
She's a mom. I just alwaysadmired her throughout school,
and I just love that socialmedia brought us back together.
So thank you, Robin forsponsoring this episode. I feel
like the luckiest girl on theplanet, like so many people,
(05:20):
have been stepping up andsupporting The Wealthy Mama
Movement in so many differentways, and I'm just I'm very
humbled, and I've had to reallyregulate myself around all that
beautiful support and attention,because what's so wild is I'm
actually an introvert, so like,having a lot of attention, or a
(05:40):
lot of people that want to like,sponsor or join one of our
programs, or like everyonethat's been like, commenting on
my content, like, I've like, ifI'm being like, super honest,
I've had to, like, just take amoment to, like, take a deep
breath and be like, this isokay. You are safe. Like you can
handle this. You've got this,right? So I just always try to
(06:02):
be real here. Okay, so yourhomework? Okay, your homework is
to sit down. I don't want you torush this either. If you could
create anything, health, wealth,happiness in 2025 what would
these 12 things be? Okay? Whatwould these 12 things be? So I
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will actually share buying withyou, because I love being a
student. Okay? So this, like Isaid, this does build off the
previous exercises of how to geteverything that you want, and
now we are chiseling it down tothe top 12 things. Okay? Now,
when I've done similar exerciseswith people, it can be easy to
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be like, I want to be happy,okay, but what's going to make
you happy? That's too vague. Sothese should be very, very
specific, very specific. Like,if you want to find a new job,
right? That's very specific. Ifyou want to buy a new car, very
specific, right? Like, later, wecan get even more detailed, of
(07:14):
like, okay, what kind of carIdeally, when would you like to
have that happen, right? But itshould be pretty specific from
the get go, so we can, like, runwith it quicker. If you want to
get healthy, too big, it's toovague. I love you. I'm here to
be I'm here to be your lovinginterruption. What does being
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healthy mean to you? Is it10,000 steps a day? Is it
losing, like, a certain amountof weight? Is it, you know,
counting your your macros, like,what is it for you? Is it going
to the gym a certain amount ofdays of the week? So we want to
get really, really clear on,what do you desire? Okay, now
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this is what's important. Whenyou do this exercise, you're a
current version of yourself whenyou work with me, you wealthy
leap really fast like I amunrecognizable myself, because
I'm a student of my work, okay,I am unrecognizable from that
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person in February when She waslike, oh, let's go to the Taylor
Swift concert. And then she,like, ran away from her desire.
I'm so different. I have wealthyleaped in six months, right?
Less than six months, so fast.
So that's the power of the workthat I do. Like everyone that
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comes into wealthy month, you'regoing to experience, like, what
some people experience in 10years. You're going to
experience it in 30 dayswithout, like, without being
overwhelmed and burn out either.
Okay, so like, we go deep, we gofast, but we go with joy and
happiness and fun, which makesit be so good, so you don't burn
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out, okay? And so you're acurrent version of yourself.
This may change when you're whenyou wealthy leap. You may
accomplish everything fasterthan you even think. Okay, so I
want you to stay open that likethis is your current vision of
(09:21):
what you desire, and we're opento all the possibilities. So I
just want to say that, because Ithink that's important, but this
gives us a starting point to hitthe ground running, right now,
right now. If you enroll inwealthy year, there is a warm up
phase before 2025because by the time 2025 comes,
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I want you to already be warmedup and ready for the game. Ready
for the game, ready to go. Notlike Okay, now let's go, right
so there's a warm up phase. Thatwill happen and you being
prepared is absolutely key. LoveWell, let me say that again.
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Wealth loves proactive energy.
Wealth loves proactive energy.
This has been the loudest,intuitive download for me, very,
very recently, the blah ladderthat I've talked a lot about is
reactive energy. Think about it.
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When you're tired, most likelyit's because you didn't get a
lot of sleep, and then you'revery short fused. You eat, not
so great, right? You're veryreactive, and it feels very
yucky and blah when you're notprepared for a meeting. You feel
very unprepared and reactive.
Right? When you're not preparedfor a trip. I've been there
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before where I'm like, Oh mygosh. Like, I did not, I didn't,
I did not prepare, like, soonenough, and then I'm like, out
the night before, stressed out,and I'm like, I did this to
myself. Like, I did this tomyself. I've had trips where I'm
literally packing and throwingthings in a suitcase, and I need
to, like, rush to the airport,and it doesn't feel great. I
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don't love it. That's the blahladder, right? So the blah
ladder is totally reactiveenergy. And so the more we can
get you in proactive energy onevery level possible. It feels
incredible, like, when yourhouse is picked up, not perfect,
right? Like, especially if youlive with children, we're not
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looking for perfect, but whenyour house is picked up, when,
like, when you feel like you'vegot your together, and you're
like, Man, this is nice. That'sproactive energy. Like, we
already like, well one all ofour repurposing content, like,
shout out to em. She's so farahead with all of our
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repurposing content, she's like,three months, if not four months
ahead. And I told her to, like,pause and help us on like, other
projects, but she's so farahead. Same thing with Sarah,
she's so far ahead. We'realready, like, planned and
prepared for wealthy month.
Like, we're almost done wrappingup wealthy year preparations,
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like, what, what? Like I have myhouse has never been so
systematized, so organized, likeI'm impressing myself, like,
truly, I'm having out of bodyexperiences where I'm like, this
is getting good. Like, I've gotmy popcorn, and I'm like, this
is getting really good. Like,look at you go, like you are
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walking the walk. You are beinga star student of your work, and
it's just so cool. And if youheard the story from this
morning of the guy that stoppedme at Walmart and decided to to
reign me, scold me, and I, likeimmediately, stood up for
myself. I did not hesitate. Idid not waver. I stood in my
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power. I did not agree to whathe wanted me to do, which was
move all the way over into likethe next lane. I said, No, I'm,
I'm safe. Here. You can goaround me and I'll, I'll move
when I want to move. And what Iwas telling Sarah was I was,
like, that was such a divineuniverse moment, because I
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didn't have time to prepare forthat moment, right? Like, it's
easier to stand in your powerwhen you have time to, like,
role, play and plan and prepare.
But that was a curveball, momentthat it was a test. It was a
test from the universe. Theuniverse loves giving pop
quizzes. Have you ever set aboundary and then somebody tries
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to test it, and you're like, ohGod, like, is everyone listening
to like boundary conversations?
It is a pop quiz from theuniverse. And so I'm so happy
that that situation happened,because I was kind but firm and
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I had no time to prepare. I hadno time to prepare. And in
previous situations like that,like I shared on the live video
this morning, I've had a guylike, at a stoplight get out of
his car and tap my window andlike, scolded me for not turning
left because I didn't feelcomfortable turning left. And I
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like, like, immediately like,turtled and like, said sorry.
I'm so sorry, and I immediatelyregretted it, because I'm like,
Nope, I'm not sorry. I am notsorry. I had two kids in the
back of my car, and I am agrandma when it comes to
driving, and I did not feel safeturning left. It was a huge
intersection, and I waited tillthe next time. But. I didn't
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stand in my power. I'm trying toremember when that was. I think
it was last spring when thatsituation happened, and so there
are no accidents. It's towardsthe end of September, we're
about to embark on our biggestlaunch ever. I've been
energetically preparing,mentally preparing, physically
preparing, emotionally,preparing, financially and
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strategically, preparing like Ihave put in so much energy and
effort, personally andprofessionally, to be as
prepared as I possibly can, froma proactive standpoint, and so
it's just so cool that thatsituation happened this morning
because I had no time toprepare, and that just showed me
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how truly, authentically Ireally am in a very powerful,
energetic state that is like,almost like muscle memory. And
I'm really excited about it. Andanyone can do this, anyone can
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do this. So with that beingsaid, that was a little bit of a
tangent, but I think it'sempower. It's so empowering for
you to hear this type of stuff,because you can do this, you've
got to put in the time, theenergy and the effort. I wish
there is. I want there, not evenI wish. I want there to be more
women showing how simple healthand fitness can be. Walk 10,000
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steps a day, get your greensshot in every single day. Like I
want there being more womenshowing how easy it can be, how
fun it can be, the savingschallenges that I've been doing
this year the organization, Ican't wait to show you every
little thing that I've done inmy house that has really just,
like, simplified my day to day,so I don't have to think so hard
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like, I share, because I carelike and I want More women to
win like I truly, truly do, butyou've gotta do you've gotta do
your part. Okay, so, top, top,top 12, goals, okay, goals,
dreams, desires for 2025, wewant a good blend of health,
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wealth and happiness. We want tobe very, very specific. Okay, so
I'm going to share mine. Okay,so that way you can kind of hear
mine in real time. So I'mcontinuing my tattoo sleeve as
planned. So I started it, okay,I started it, and I knew that it
was going to carry over into2025, I'm continuing to grow the
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hair out. I cannot wait until itis past my shoulders. I'm being
I'm gonna take my moment to beon the blah ladder for just a
second. It like, does this,like, flippy thing right now?
And it drives me bonkers. Andit's still not fully long enough
to, like, get everything in amessy bun. And so it likes to do
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this, like little Wendy's, like,Hair flip thing, if I don't blow
dry it and it, it's, it's notideal, but we're working through
it. And I'm really proud of thehair growth, because I got
through the awkward phase, whichwas, like the bowl cut mullet,
which was not fun. So the hairgrowth is it's happening. We're
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going to add some extensionseventually, the mama makeover.
We're finishing our savings goalfor our next house, which I'm
really excited about as Icontinue to, like, get this
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house so organized andsystematized. I'm like, I kind
of like it here.
Isn't that interesting. I kindof like it here. I don't want to
move as much,but that's important. But I
still do want to move. I wantour I want a bigger backyard. I
don't want as many neighbors, sowe're still moving. Okay,
universe, you hear that I likeit here, but and I'm grateful
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for here, but we're stillmoving. Okay? I want so much
wealthy mama merch. It'sredonkulous, like I want to have
surprise boxes show up atpeople's houses where they've
got, like, stickers and hoodiesand mugs and hats, and they can,
just like, spread wealthy mamamerch across the United States
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and their communities. And like,you get a sticker, you get a
hat, like, have stuff for kids,like, just like Joy boxes, like
wealthy mama Joy boxes that are,like, filled with merch and
spreading the word. And like,everyone's looking so cute and
so comfy and all the things somerch. This. We're doing a denim
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and diamonds Gala. Next yearwill be a Halloween party in
October. I freaking loveHalloween. And I'm like, why am
I not doing a costume Gala? Youknow how fun that will be, kids
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included. So I'm so excitedabout that. I have always wanted
to interview a really big namein my industry, like a huge
name, like a Mel Robbins, okay?
Or I love Ed Malet, oh my gosh.
Like, there's some really bignames that I'm like, if I could
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sit across from you and ask youevery question I've ever wanted
to ask you, and have an audienceor recorded or however it plays
out, I want to interview. Adesire to interview one big
name. I think in anotherlifetime I was a news anchor.
Interviews. I love interviews. Ilove being interviewed. I love
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interviewing people. It's like aconversation. It's so fun and
it's really relaxing for bothsides, because you don't have to
like plan and prepare this bigproduction of a talk. I've done
lots of keynotes in my life, andthey take a lot of time and
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energy as we're like, aninterview, just feels like two
people chatting and getting toknow each other, and it just
feels like fun and authentic. Sothat is a big desire of mine.
It's been a big desire. And I'mlike, it's, it's happening,
okay, um, I did already havethese pre I've already had these
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done for a while. So yours mighttake a little bit longer. Next
year is our 10 year anniversary,um, and we got married in Vegas,
and so we've already decidedthat we will be going back, but
it is on the list to make surethat it absolutely happens. So
Vegas anniversary is on thelist. We have obviously done a
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lot of giveaways this year, butI want to go even bigger, like
massive all year long. So I havelots of ideas around that. So
huge year of giveaways. Sothat's still a little vague, but
we will flush it out. Okay, Ihave always wanted to be a
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blogger again. This is we'resaying yes to ourselves. Okay,
we're done saying no. We'resaying yes. Okay, so blogging
gets to be a top priority fornext year. And really like
blogging, like blogging andblogging, it's easier for me to
do videos both in the season oflife that I am and I'm just I'm
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naturally like a talker, not atyper, so it'll be like blogging
slash vlogging, but I have thiswhole vision that is already
started for my kids that's aprivate digital archive of their
life. They're still young enoughthat I'm gonna go back in time.
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I'm gonna go back in time. I'mgonna go back in time and go
since they were born. You knowhow like it back in the olden
days, you would like do babybooks. I want to do like a
digital keepsake. So the theblog name is the venture, The
Adventures of Emma and Boone,and it has its password
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protected. It's, it's only forthem, but I want it to literally
show their whole life. Like, howcool would that be? Like, even
though baby books are cool and,like, home videos are cool,
they're not organized, right?
They don't like, they don't tella story. And so, like, the
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vision with this private blogfor them is, like, it will
literally be a digital keepsake,a time capsule of their life,
like I, I will probably cry theday that they graduate. So it
has to be a priority. They'reyoung enough that I can do it,
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but then I've gotta, like, I getto keep up with it. So like,
I'm, I'm raising my standards oflike, it's a priority and I want
it to happen. Okay, somethingcrazy is a convertible. I'm not
sure what that looks like yet,but it keeps showing up for me.
I don't know if it means I buy aconvertible, if I like rent a
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convertible for a period oftime. If, if a company gives us
a wealthy mama convertible,there's just intuitively, it
like, keeps. Surfacing, and thenwe've decided to get a little
dog once we move. So that's onthe list. So obviously that
one's a little bit contingent,but we don't want a puppy. We're
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done with our puppy face, but inthis current version of Nelly.
These are the things that I'mlike. I do not want to go out of
2025 without these things.
Again, I'm wealthy leaping sofast a few different things
could happen. I could knock someof these out literally so fast,
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some of these could change,okay? And I used to get tripped
up on that, because I'm like,but I'm changing. I'm changing.
Yeah, that's the whole point,right? So we want to stay
flexible. Of like, let's say theconvertible, it's on this
current list. It keeps showingup. But maybe that changes.
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Maybe it's like, maybe I get tothat, maybe I once I'm a
different version of myself.
Okay, we're trying. We're timetraveling. I can always check in
with myself energetically andsay, Do I still desire that?
Right? Like it was in the worksto run a full marathon. When I
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signed up for the half marathonlast year, but I still allowed
myself to like, do I still wantto run a full marathon? And the
answer was yes, and so I signedup. And so now I'm doing it.
It's like weeks away. How manyweeks away is it? I'm looking at
my gut lender, where are we? Um,I've lost track of time. Oh my
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gosh, it's init's in three weeks.
It's in three weeks. Soexciting. It's so exciting.
Oh,oh my goodness. I'm so excited.
I'm so excited. Remember, yourbrain doesn't know.
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Your brain only knows what youtell it. So I'm so excited. I
really am. And I've been so gladthat I've been training, because
I've worked so many kinks out intraining things that, like the
old running backpack that I had,literally, like, I don't even
know if it's still here, but itliterally, like, gave me, like a
rug burn, like a burn. So Ireturned that one, got a new
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one, but then the new one, thewater wasn't working again, and
I'm like, is it me? Like, what'sgoing on? Are running backpacks
just that hard to, like,actually work. Um, so I've just,
I've worked out so many kings,uh, by practicing. That's the
whole point of practice, right?
Like, make practice count. Sothat way when Game Day happens,
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Game Day is, like, we're good.
This is muscle memory. We'veworked out the kinks. It's all
good. Okay, so your homework isin this version of yourself to
get very, very clear on what youdesire. Now, where does the 12
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months come into play? I'm soglad that you asked. Okay, so
your brain does love focus. Letme see if I have another marker.
Um, what marker do I want?
Let's do green for money. Okay,so your, your brain loves focus.
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So we're going to go with whatis easy first. My brain loves
easy. Okay, so the Halloweenparty, we can already earmark
that for. That's going to happenin October, obviously. Why did I
spell it like that? That isspell October. Um, obviously
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there's going to be things thatwe do leading up to that, but it
will the manifestation willhappen in October for the
Halloween party. Okay,you you can be working on yours
as I'm doing mine here too.
Okay, this isn't the first timeI've done this, either. So if
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you're like that looked so easyfor her, it's because I've spent
a lot of time on this. Are youokay? What's wrong? What's
wrong?
Everything's all right. You sayhi to the people. Okay,
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it's okay. Do. It's all okay.
Are you okay if I finish thisvideo real quick,
okay, can, can I hold you justright here, and I'll finish it,
and then we'll go, okay. Allright, cool. All right. So the
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Halloween party will obviouslyhappen in October. Okay, the
Vegas anniversary, ouranniversaries in September.
Okay, so we're starting toearmark
some predictions, if you will. Ilove saying predictions. We're
earmarking and predicting.
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This marker is very dry.
Whenit makes sense. Some of these
things are going to happen,okay,
some will be ongoing as well.
Okay,so let's look here. What else is
very easy. I was earmarking theconvertible for my birthday
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month next year, so August.
Okay, let's see what else iseasy on here, the mommy makeover
we had earmarked for June. Okay,the tattoo sleeve. I've already
been talking to her. So we'rethinking January, I was
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earmarking the hair now the hairhas to be to my shoulders for
extensions, but I was earmarkingbased on how fast my hair has
been growing, of doing Februaryfor hair extensions. Okay,
what are you looking at that?
Okay,I was earmarking the house money
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deadlineby the time she's done with
first grade, which is May.
Okay, let's see what else iseasy.
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We're gonna say the little dogto be December, because
obviously that we have to be inthe next house. So we'll just
say December. Um,oh, be careful. I'm talking to
my my friends.
Okay, I'm almost done. Okay. Um,all right. So the other ones on
here, merch, year of giveawaysand blogging, are all pretty
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much on going, Okay, but whatcan happen? Oops. What can
happen is we can still say, Whenare we like? When are we going
to put a lot more energy intothat? So the the months that I
have available that I don't havesomething earmarked, um, is,
let's see here, I have March,April.
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So let's see here.
March can be for merch. Marchfor merch that just even sounds
good, okay.
Oh, I don't have the big personinterview yet.
Let's see here.
I'm thinking, do intuitive,intuitively, what showed up was
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November, so we're just gonnatrust that. See, I've even done
this a few times and but I'm notlooking at my my notes. I was
looking at my goal list, but um,not my earmarks of like, my my
predictions, if you willdo to do, to do.
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And then, although it's the hugeyear of giveaways, I think what
would be this another, here'sanother intuitive download. July
could be like Christmas in July.
How fun would that be? And whenwe're in summer, moms are going
crazy, so it could be like areally good distraction, yes.
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Well, okay, just hold on onesecond. I'm almost done. Okay,
um, all right, and then what'suh, so April is the only month
left, I believe. Okay, soblogging. We'll put April, which
I love, because that could beright before Mother's Day. Do a
ton of blogging. So again, therecould be blogging leading up to
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that, but like, we're justputting some time and energy
into sorting everything. So nowwe have all of our earmarks.
This looks like a crazy personslist. Welcome to my break. Okay,
so now what we're going to do iswe're going to we're going to
now put the predictions in orderof the months. Okay, so 2025,
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and then we're going to writeJanuary. Hey, can you please
stop doing that? I'm.
February, March, April, May,June, July, August, September,
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October, November, December,okay, so the tattoo sleeve was
January, Hair is February.
March is March.
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April is blogging.
I may is house money.
June is Mommy Makeover.
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July is give away galore. Whoknows? Maybe we'll give away a
car, you get a convertible and Iget a convertible, and we'll be
twins. Wouldn't that be cool? Iwould definitely have to talk to
my accountant about that,because it's like, do they need
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to, like, I'm assuming theywould need to put
that on their taxes.
I'm gonna guess that's where,like, the the Elle Woods in me
comes out. I'm like, I'm sureyou have to claim that on your
taxes. Even when you're at thecasino and it goes over a
certain amount, you have to toclaim it. So giveaway galore in
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July. August is the convertible.
Okay?
September is Vegas anniversary,big anniversary. October is the
Halloween Gala. Areyou gonna come to my Halloween
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party? Yes, yes. What are yougonna wear?
Tinkerbell.
I love it. Okay. November is bigperson interview, okay,
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and then December was the littledoggie. Do
you want a little dog?
Yeah? Yeah,that'd be cool. Do you think
they would cuddle with us? Yeah,oh, put, oh, curious, oh, nice,
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like in a little purse.
Which of the little dog bootnames be? What do you think?
Probably I lovely,Emma. Emma, that's you, but
you're our Emma. We don't wantto get confused.
Well, you know my name and thedog's name. Oh, we
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got a thumbs down. Why? I don'tknow.
Oh, maybe it's me.
I don't know. Let's see.
I know when I do this, you gethearts. It's pretty cool.
Is that so cool? Yeah, youwant to try it, you've
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got to make a heart on thescreen.
Hold it closer.
Just patience. Patience. Oh,yours worked. Hearts, hearts,
hearts, hearts. Remember whenyou went on Facebook Live on my
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on my profile,so if she could go on Facebook
Live, you can go on FacebookLive. Anyways. Okay, so now this
is all organized. There's alittle bit of business here,
okay, two choices. Okay, goodjob.
There's a little bit of youknow, relationship. There's a
little bit of, you know, wealthon here. There's a little bit of
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everything. Okay, I got it.
Okay. Now, are there everydaythings like my habits? Yes, but
I've already the beautiful partabout my habits is they've
gotten to a point where I don'thave to think about them like I
take my ADHD meds every singleday, which I know sounds silly,
but it's not always easy toremember to take your ADHD meds.
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But I take my meds every singleday. I take my greens every
single day. I, on average, hitmy 10,000 steps, or some days I
have 30,000 steps, right? Likeso, I average have 10,000 steps.
I get a massive amount of waterin. We're so good on our food,
like, we still splurge, butlike, it's so balanced and it's
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so easy, so like, there's thingsthat are now on autopilot that I
do believe are critical for astrong foundation. That's really
what a lot of this year hasbeen. I've called this year like
the dress rehearsal, personallyand professionally there, and
it's still been amazing, butit's been like the dress
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rehearsal, where we're workingout the kinks, we're getting the
habits in right, like we'rereally getting those strong
foundational pieces in place sowe can massively grow, but not
crumble and fail, right? And orburn out, even as we've been
planning wealthy year, I wastelling Sarah today, like, I
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don't want even you burning out,so like to be proactive. Let's
think about this, right? Like,let's plan and prepare so we
don't burn out. It's okay. Soonce you get to this part,
you'll thank me. Okay, becausenow we have a system in place.
Okay? Now, some of these will bepretty easy, right? So, like,
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I'm already talking to the galthat did my first tattoo. We've
already been in communication.
Already know her pricing. We'renow starting to get, like, on
the calendar, that's going to bea pretty man, pretty easy
manifestation to make happen.
Okay, like I taught you in theGetting everything that you
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want, it's going to go fromeasiest to most challenging. So
isn't it interesting that evenwithout fully knowing it Okay,
subconsciously, yes, but likethe stuff at the top of the year
for 2025 is easier, tattoosleeve, hair merch, blogging,
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the house, money like those areall things that have already
they're already in motion.
They're already happening. I'mregulating myself around them.
I'm planning and preparing forthem. That is much, much, much
easier than like the HalloweenGala, even though I have tons of
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event experience that's going totake some time and energy to put
in, right? The big personinterview. Who am I
interviewing? What's their cost,right? Do I fly to them? Are
they flying to here? What are wetalking about? Is there a camera
crew, right? And so althoughthat can absolutely happen, it
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who I'm becoming on the way tothat manifestation is how it
will actually happen. So mucheasier. Okay, and so the we want
to take that same framework ofwhat does it what logically
makes sense, not only based onthe time of the year and also
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taking the framework of easiestto most challenging. Because
wouldn't you know, it okay? Justgonna draw you a little picture.
Now, 2025it's going to be the wrong way
in this drawing. Okay, so bearwith me, because it's up and
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down. But if we were doing itlike I was drawing it the other
day, it would have beenreversed. But wouldn't you know
it? You now have a wealthyladder for 2025 it will feel
challenging right now for thethings that are towards next
year, the end of next year, butwith that strong foundation of
your your healthy and wealthyhabits and working on the
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previous manifestations, itwon't feel as challenging once
you come to that step, becauseyou'll be an energetic match,
right? It won't feel aschallenging
trying to get it to work. It'sokay, yeah.
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Type something you want to typesomething.
Do you have the caps lock on.
Oh, you did, okay, there you go.
You want the notes section?
Yeah, okay. Well, you like type,okay, type away. Take notes for
us. Okay, tell us how to do allthe things. What's your big goal
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for 2025or a big dream that you have,
I got a dream of me, unicorns inreal life.
Unicorns in real life. We'redoing that tomorrow. Tomorrow we
go to unicorn world. I'm soexcited. Are you so excited?
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Yeah, I.
Big unicorn world. So that'salready happening. I'm
gonna bring like my my unicorn,like my one unicorn I have.
Well, that's a good idea. Yeah.
Do you have any other dreams orgoals that you can think of?
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Do you want a YouTube channelyour own? Do
you want your own YouTubechannel? Yeah, I think I could
get you some subscribers.
I don't know if daddy would beon board with you having a
YouTube channel, though, but youcan just pop on and come on
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mine. How about that? Yeah, doesthat sound fair? Because
everyone loves you.
Smash the pumpkin. Smash thepumpkin. Yeah, that was last
year. Can we do that again? Iwas already thinking about the
baby looking like pink, likeblue and pink. Love it, but pink
can be in this side, and bluecan be in this side,
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okay, and then we smash it.
Yeah, do you knowwhy we smashed the pumpkins last
year? Why? Because we wereletting go of our fears.
Go on, What? What? Oh my gosh.
What's the fear that you have?
You have a fear. Um,I'm gonna type it. You're gonna
type it. Okay. Anyways, I know Igot one. You got a fear?
(46:31):
Yeah, okay.
What's the fear? My fear is notlistening a mirror, not not what
lifting them a mirror and thenhurting myself? Oh, that's,
that's a valid fear. Yeah, wewouldn't want you to get hurt.
I'm gonna do some. Do you wantto show them your wiggly tooth?
Yeah, okay, show it's reallywiggly. It's the front tooth.
(46:58):
Oh, my gosh. It's literallyhanging on by a thread. Oh, it's
creepy.
Like literally is sticking out.
It's hanging on. Okay, so nowyou have your wealthy ladder. So
if we, if we were doing it frombottom to top, then January
would be down here, so thatyou're literally climbing your
wealthy ladder. Now, justbecause something is in June
(47:20):
doesn't mean that you won'tstart preparing for it before.
So then we still take the sameframework that I taught you, and
we say the what do we need todo? Okay, or, excuse me, how do
we make this happen? And who cansupport you? So that way we can
already start to get some ofthese things rolling. And like I
(47:41):
said, some will be easier thanothers, but you can already
start to say yes to all of yourdesires. So for example, the
convertible. When I did this thefirst time, a few weeks ago, I
went on Carvana to look atconvertibles as if I was going
(48:02):
to buy one. Carvana is, like,made for moms. They literally
will drop off a card to you thatyou buy, you buy it online, and
you have seven days to returnit. Like, I just think that that
is so cool. And so I was lookingat convertibles, and I was like,
Oh, I like that one, I like thatone. And here was the here. Here
was the coolest part about beingin that manifestation. It was
(48:25):
fun just to be in it, right? Italso surprised me, because the
ones that I liked were muchlower of a cost than I thought.
And I was like, Huh,interesting, right? And then I
also thought, well, maybe Iwould just like rent a
convertible for the month ofAugust, right? Because here in
(48:46):
Ohio, it's so cold and rainy andyucky from like, honestly
October to like, sometimes evenMarch. So maybe I would just
rent a convertible for 30 days,right? Or maybe a dealership
would let me have one for 30days in exchange for, like,
social media marketing. This iswhy we want to be open to how we
(49:08):
get there, when it actuallyhappens, how it actually
happens, like all of the things,because there's an infinite
amount of ways to create whatyou desire, you know, devil's
advocate. Let's say we find ourhouse that we desire. Next year.
We have the house money. We findit, but it needs renovations,
(49:31):
and we can't move in until 2026Well, the little dog may not
happen, but could we start to,you know, look at dogs. Or could
I volunteer at a dog shelter?
Right? Like you can start to bein every single manifestation
and start to receive that energyas if you already have it, even
(49:55):
if you don't have it in the waythat you eventually will have
it, have it for. Fully yourbrain doesn't know that, right?
Like when you go test drive acar, the reason why that sales
person wants you to test drivethe car is because they know
psychologically, when you testdrive it, you're behind the
(50:16):
wheel, right? You have that newcar smell, it's quiet, or you've
got the radio on right, like thewindows are down, like I even
remember the day that I testdrove my jeep. I was driving
around. They let me go bymyself, which I actually think
is really smart. And that wholetime I was like, This is it.
(50:37):
This is it. I know this is thisis my car. I just knew it in my
heart of hearts. And what'sreally cool about that is I test
drove two different Jeeps. Thefirst one, I didn't have that
feeling. The second one, whichis now my now, my now Jeep, it
felt that was like, This is mycar. This is my car. And so we
(50:57):
can have that test drive carenergy with every single thing
on your list. Honestly, my myheart tattoo like was the test
drive I wanted to feel what itwas going to feel like to have a
tattoo, a little tattoo, beforeI went through and got the whole
sleeve. And what was so coolabout that was as she's doing
(51:22):
the little tattoo we're nowtalking about the sleeve, she's
like, Oh my gosh, I would loveto do that for you. And I was
asking her more questions. I waslike, would you break it up into
multiple days? What's your rate?
And so I was already plantingthe bigger manifestation as I
was doing the smallermanifestation. So you're, if
you're not already at the point,you're going to get to the point
(51:45):
with manifestation where you'replaying chess, not checkers,
like everything that I do, I'malways three steps ahead of
myself, and it takes a momentto, like, get there, but there
is strategy and intention witheverything that I'm doing. I
(52:05):
knew. So, like the thesupplements that I drink, I
started with trim, which is verysimilar to happy juice, and I
knew that then I was eventuallygoing to add in my greens shot.
So I started with trim, andliterally, like, three weeks
later, I then added in the greenshot, okay, now that I have the
green shot, I'm, like, alreadylooking for, like, that next
(52:29):
layer of what I'm going to donext, right? And so when we are
really being strategic, we'reteeing up everything and being
just very, very intentional.
Like the mama makeover has beenhappening, been in the works for
a while, and I've been savingfor it. I've been planning for
(52:52):
it. I've been researching aboutit. I've been getting really
curious and serious about like,what does this look like? Why do
I want this? What makes sense?
I've talked about this onanother episode, and I'll talk
more about it, but it's not a Ineed it. I've gotten to a place
with my body where I truly lovemy body and I want it for many
reasons that we'll talk aboutanother day. Okay, but a very
(53:16):
simple thing for Vegas is we'vealready talked about it. We
already know where we're gonnastay. We know when we're gonna
go. It's already in my calendar.
I'm already in themanifestation, and it's 12
months away, right? TheHalloween Gala. I'm like, Oh my
(53:38):
gosh, what date should we do it?
Right? Probably, like, maybe theweekend before Halloween.
Because, you know, the week ofHalloween gets really busy for
people. Should I do it at thecurrent venue that I'm gonna
have? Should I do a differentvenue? Right? I'm already
starting to think about thisseason when all the Halloween
decorations go 75% off. I shouldbe running to the store like the
(53:59):
day after Halloween and begetting some of that decorations
for next year. This is the powerof being in proactive energy.
You can Quantum Leap, or what Ilike to say is wealthy leap. You
can wealthy leap so much fasterwhen you know where you're going
and you know why you're goingthere, and you're also super
(54:21):
flexible, right? Like, I'm notmarried to the idea of, you
know, the big person interview,what if the the key person that
I want to interview? What ifthey're not available in
November? Am I going to gettripped up on that? I'm like,
no, maybe it's in January, butwe start promoting it in
November. So this is the coolpart about like, we've got
intention, we've got focus,we're being proactive, and
(54:45):
equally, we're open andavailable for something better.
We're flexible, if it takes alittle bit longer, or we need to
shift something, or we want toshift something. Something else
feels better, and maybe I swapit out. That's okay, right? The
whole goal here is that we'removing in the direction that
(55:09):
your current self feels like itwants to go, and even if then,
three months from now, you'rethen, then version of yourself
wants to go a little bit to theright or a little bit to the
left, it still is moving in thedirection that you desire, and
it's just so powerful to trustthat everything is happening for
(55:31):
you. Like, I was even Yes,can you, like, make a math
problem?
A math problem? Yeah, yes. Doyou want to solve it? Okay, so I
was even telling Sarah today. SoSarah and I have, she's my right
(55:53):
hand business manager. I wastelling Sarah today we were
meant like we are truly soulmates, yes, can you let me do
some homework? Yeah, we'll dohomework. We'll do homework in a
little bit. Okay, hold on onesecond. So we're truly soul
mates, because how we met in aFacebook group, there was like
(56:14):
9000 people in there. She then,like, became a client of mine,
joined my mastermind. We justgot really, really close, and
then she, like, came on my team,and just, there's been so many
connections of like we weresupposed to be together. Like,
there's when you do goals anddreams, there's things on your
(56:37):
list that you're just like, Iknow I'm supposed to do this
right, like, whatever it may be,or I get excited about
something, right? And so just,like, what is meant for you, you
just, you just know in yourheart of hearts, right? Like,
there's just certain things thatyou just know in your heart of
hearts, and it's going tohappen. And we just can get to
(56:58):
continue to do our part. Soanyways, your homework is to put
some really thought into thisand really get clear, because
you can absolutely make those 12things happen and more. And we
want that beautiful blend ofhealth, wealth and happiness,
because they all do connect, thehappier you are, the healthier
(57:21):
you will become, and the happierand healthier you are, the
wealthier you will become, likethey all connect, and so when we
can have a big like a beautifulblend of all of them, it just
changes the game. It changes thegame. So more to come on all of
this, but this is just a littletease of what wealthy year is
(57:44):
really designed to do, becauseit's easy to get the party
started. It's harder in thosemoments of doubt and fear, and
if something's not going how youwant it to go, or you just want
that accountability, right? Likeso wealthy year is really
designed to to keep the momentumgoing, as if each month is its
(58:07):
own year. Because that likesparkle that we have with that
fresh start of a new month or anew year is so delicious. So
like, imagine feeling that 12times next year, right? Like
that's my goal when it comes towealthy year, it is equal parts
personal development andbusiness development. And it's
(58:32):
very, very intentional,intentionally designed to be
that. So that way both sides ofyou are getting filled up in
real time together, so I'm gonnago be mom. You have Hallmark,
and I will talk to you very,very soon. Love you. Thank you,
Robin, for sponsoring today.
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