500. Saying Yes To You Changes EVERYTHING!

On this episode, Nellie emphasizes the transformative power of saying "yes" to oneself, whether it's a small decision like buying a shirt or a significant choice like pursuing a career. She discusses the impact of affirmative actions on self-worth and financial success, urging listeners to seek new revenue streams and make decisions that align with their desires. Nellie highlights the importance of energetically matching "yeses" with "yeses" and "nos" with "nos," and the need to surround oneself with high-integrity individuals. 

We will touch on:

• Saying Yes to Yourself
• Financial Decisions and Their Impact
• Transformation Through Big Decisions
• Surrounding Yourself with High-Energy People
• The Power of a Movement
• Sponsorship and Community Support

Shout out to Tara Vicars for sponsoring this episode
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Episode Transcript

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Have you ever said yes to something and you're so
incredibly glad that you did,whether it was like buying the
new shirt or going to lunch ordinner with a girlfriend or, you
know, taking your kids to themovie, or maybe who you picked
as your significant other. Sowhether it's a big YES or a
small Yes. I bet you that youhave a whole list of things that

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you're like. I am so glad that Isaid yes to this. It's really
not the thing or the even theother person that you're saying
yes to. It's your it's yousaying yes to yourself. And when
you say yes to yourself so muchof around things that you really
desire, and you really mean theyes, it's a full body Yes, and

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it feels so good before, duringand after, you are telling your
soul that you matter. It's likethe highest form of self care.
Now the opposite is true when wekeep saying, no, no, no, no, no,
you can't have the shirt, no,you can't have the coffee, no,
you can't go to dinner with thegirlfriend. Saying, like you're

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saying this to yourself, right?
And you're like, No, you can'tjoin that program, no, you can't
go on Facebook Live. No, youcan't, you know, go on that
trip, or whatever it may be. Youcan say yes to your wealthiest
self and be massively financial,financially responsible. And the
reason how this is where likeunhinged Nelly comes in, is

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there are an infinite amount ofways to go make money. When we
keep making decisions out ofwhat is currently in our bank
account, you're going to keepcreating your current reality.
Like let that sink in for asecond. If you keep making
decisions out of what is in yourcurrent bank account, you'll
keep making those decisions andcreating the same reality. You

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can go start a new revenuestream, or maybe you already
have a revenue stream, and youcan go light it the fuck up and
make it so big and so amazing,and then get the desires that
you have, like you have accessto ATMs that have an infinite
amount of money. You just mayhave to drive across town or

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drive to another state in thispretend example, to access the
cash. But if you knew that therewas an ATM three states away
that you had access to, that hadthe amount of money that you're
you're wanting for whatever itis that you're currently
desiring, raise your hand if youwould go drive three, three

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states. If that was, if that wasyour only option, you would make
it happen. And this is thepowerful part about once we've
got clarity, we find the cashright. If you look back on your
life, you always figured it outwhen you really wanted something
like I told Sarah today thataccessing the cash for the

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Taylor Swift tickets changed mylife forever. It was something
that I didn't have to do, but itwas, it was a big enough Pattern
Interrupt in my day to day thatI was like, if you want it bad
enough, make it happen, sister.
Like, make it happen. Like, it'sgo time. It's you versus you,

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and it changed me so muchbecause of the transaction. The
transformation happens in thetransaction, and the bigger the
transaction, especially whenit's what you desire, the bigger
the transformation. And so thisis the coolest part about you
saying yes to what you actuallydesire, and then you go figure

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it out. This is how you actuallycreate your wealthiest life,
your wealthiest year, yourwealthiest self. It's saying yes
to who you're becoming versuswho you already are. There's
easy yeses right now that you'resaying yes to but at one point,
it wasn't like I used to go intothe grocery store and not know

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how I could afford groceries.
Now it's no problem. Let me getmy groceries delivered. This is
awesome. This is amazing. I'malso feeding more mouse, but at
one point it was a struggle toeven feed myself, let alone
thinking about feeding anyoneelse. And so this is the power
of you going into the future andsaying yes to your wealthiest

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self, and then you workingtowards that actively. Okay, we
can't just talk the talk. Yourday to day action should be
reflecting what you're actuallydesiring. So if I were to follow
you around for a whole day and awhole week, I'd be like, Oh
yeah, she really is activelypursuing whatever that goal is.
I can see it in her day to day.

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It's almost like Nelly has like,a clipboard, and she's just
like, awkwardly in the corner,kind of like creepily staring at
you. Like, what's she gonna donext? What are you gonna. Do,
right? You might, you might makedifferent decisions, right? It's
like, when you have that healthand fitness coach and they have
you, like, send pictures of allof your food, and you're like,
Okay, well, I, I don't want tohave to send her that or that.

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So you make different decisions,right? And so I just, I can't
stop talking about this message,because I see so many people
staying stuck, and they'rechoosing to stay stuck versus
what they desire. Now, here's abig difference. You can say
you're not interested insomething and you mean it,
that's a no, and you mean it,that is a good thing, right?

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We're not meant to say yes toeveryone and everything, but
we've gotta make sure we'reenergetically matching the yeses
to the yeses and the nose to thenose, and we mean all of it,
right? That's who I want tosurround myself with. I don't
want to surround myself withpeople that say no, but they
want to say yes and then theysay yes, but they are they
actually meant no, or they sayyes, but then their actions are

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not reflecting that, like I amonly available for high energy,
high integrity humans that arelike, I'm I'm here with you,
girlfriend, I am ready to go tothe top with you. Like, let's do
it together, right? Like,sleeves up, let's go. Let's do
this right? Because When morewomen win, everyone wins,

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especially moms. And I am on amission to impact over 1 million
moms, because we've gotta see itcan't just be one mom like I
didn't name my business theNelly Corvo movement, because I
don't want it to be me. I wantit to be everyone that like
wants to be a part of this. Thisis a movement we've got to move

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and we get to see more womenwin. And when you can see
another woman like you, thatlooks like you, that acts like
you, that talks like you win,you believe that you can too.
And guess what? There's so manylittle leaders watching all of
us, and this is where I believethat we change the next
generation. I believe that thisis my sole purpose. And it's

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really easy to step it up and tolevel up, because I feel this
deep, this deep responsibility.
It's not just my dreams. It'syour dreams too, and I'm willing
to move mountain mountains towake you up, to activate you.
And so one mom that I want toshout out that sponsored today's
video episode is Tara. She'shere to help you with all of

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your marketing needs, and she'scoming at it from a different
approach to really help you withinfusing your marketing needs
with your life and yourbusiness, so it can just feel so
much better. Marketing is a big,daunting task for so many
people, so I want you to connectwith Tara. I'll make sure that
her information is included onthis episode so you can connect
with her. You can say hi, justget to know her, see if she's a

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good fit for your marketingneeds. But she's a mom out there
wanting to make big thingshappen and help other people do
the same. So thank you, Tara forsponsoring this episode, and
thank you for you for forwalking the walk. And this is so
important that we do thistogether, because it's just more
fun and we don't give up whenwe're doing it together, like

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you help me continue to moveforward, because I know that
there's somebody out therecounting on me to show up, and
it really does help me. So fromthe bottom of my heart, thank
you so much, because you reallygive me so much motivation to
keep going, to keep growing, tokeep speaking up and activating
as many Williams, as many womenas it can, 1 million, to be

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exact. So let's go. I'm walkingthe walk. Are you? Because let's
do this together. All right. Ilove you. Bye.