February 25, 2025 • 54 mins
On this episode, Nellie emphasizes the importance of embracing a wealthy mindset and overcoming obstacles. Nellie shares personal experiences to illustrate the challenges of achieving goals and the concept of "Upper Limiting," where external and internal barriers arise when one's energy shifts. Participants were encouraged to take full ownership of their lives, be proactive, and focus on their biggest desires. Practical exercises included identifying and addressing major obstacles, such as health, time management, and fear of rejection, by breaking them down into manageable tasks. The episode concludes with a call to action for participants to raise their standards, engage in 15-minute sprints, and reflect on their soul's purpose to achieve their wealthiest selves.
We will touch on:
- Unlocking Wealthy Energy and Overcoming Obstacles
- Embracing Proactive Energy and Wealth Mindset
- Raising Standards and Meeting the Wealthiest Self
- Belief Percentage and Identifying Big Boulders
- Feeling Confident and Changing Perspectives
- Creating a Wealthy Habit and 15-Minute Sprints
- Clarity of Purpose and Soul's Mission
- Homework and Accountability
- Final Encouragement and Closing Remarks
Let's Take Some Action:
- Spend 15-minute sprints this weekend working on the biggest boulder/obstacle currently in your way.
- Reflect on and get clarity on your sole purpose, what you feel you are here to do.
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Unknown (00:02):
Alright, welcome, welcome, welcome, officially to
your session where I get to fillyour cup up because you're
filling up everyone else's cup.
So this is like going to the spamixed with going to the hair
salon mixed with mixed with somany other things, like your
favorite restaurant, like allthe good wealthy energy is now
in this force field, and it'sready for you to receive it. I
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don't feel like it's an accidentthat you are here. Raise your
hand if it was not easy for youto get your butt here. Like, be
honest, was it easy? Raise yourhand if it was not easy. I want
to see the screen. Let me. Letme go to the whole gallery here.
Like, so I have, like, a hand inthe air. So the one of the most
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important things to remember isour big goals and dreams are not
always going to be convenient.
They're not always going to beconvenient. I am running on very
low sleep. There is a plumberdownstairs. My husband is here
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with the plumber. I have aGerman Shepherd barking in the
room next door. I'm hoping andpraying that you can't hear her
that loud. I have like lockedmyself in the office. I have
cleansed my energy so I can bemy best for you, but I want to
model for you that it's notalways going to be easy, but I
made a commitment to you to behere and my character is I'm
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going to do everything in mypower to be my word as much as I
possibly can. And sometimesthere's some things that we have
to move out of the way to get towhere we want to go. So that's
not going to change. And I dobelieve when you start shaking
up the energy right, like maybeyou were a lot of blah energy,
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even 18 days ago, and now you'veshooken up the energy, right?
Like I feel it too, just evenbeing a facilitator with you,
like I am different than I was19 days ago. I am different.
Drop a yes in the chat. Ifyou're you're on the same page.
Like I am a different human.
This is how fast this workhappens. And it's not an end all
be all. It will just keep going.
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It will just keep what I callwealthy leaping, like quantum
leaping. It will wealthy leapmore and more and more the more
you do it. And so when we shakeup that energy, sometimes you
get more curve balls. Is anyoneexperiencing that. Like, have
you had technology breakdowns,car breakdowns? Maybe conflicts
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with your significant othergetting sick, right? So this is
what's called Upper Limiting.
Has anyone heard of UpperLimiting before? So Upper
Limiting is really big in themindset energy space, where you
have operated in a certainenergy for a certain period of
time. You've been in an identityfor a certain period of time,
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and now you have shooken up theenergy that your nervous system
and the outside world is like,what is happening, what is
happening, what is going on. Sothis is why you have internal
and external curve balls thathappen, because everyone's
trying to figure out what isgoing on. Logically, it's so
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good, though, and when we canpersevere and get through these
hiccups, right? Get throughthese barriers. They don't last
forever. Like, one of myfavorite things to say to myself
is, you know, when you get thehiccups and they're, like,
really annoying, they don't lastforever, though, right? Like,
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you could have the hiccups andwithin the hour, they'll go
away. Is it so annoying duringthat time. Like, have you ever
tried to like, I've done atraining and I have the hiccups
and I'm like, this works time tohave the hiccups, and so they
don't last forever. The biggestrainstorm doesn't last forever.
And so we get to continue tobuild up our mental strength so
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that we can persevere throughthose hiccups, through those
obstacles. We equally get to beproactive. In regards to there
are a lot of obstacles andhiccups and fertiles that can be
prevented when we are inproactive energy. And wealth
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loves proactive energy. Can weplan and prepare for everything?
No, I wish we could, but thereare so many things that we can
plan and prepare for, big andsmall. And so the more we can do
that, the better. And so this.
Experience is going to helpcontinue the work that you've
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done. The transformation processyou become a millionaire in your
mind before anywhere else. Andthat word may freak you out, it
can be your wealthiest self.
It's it's getting everythingthat you desire. It it's
utilizing and leveraging moneyas a tool and a resource to
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create what you desire. And oneof my friends says this all the
time. She says, money amplifieswho you already are. So if you
love to give, you're going to beable to give more. If you love
to invest in yourself, you'regoing to be able to do that more
if you love to save for thefuture, you're going to be able
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to save for the future more,right? Like money amplifies who
you already are, and so more ofit means you get to bless more
people, including yourself. Andthe biggest hurdle is you. You
are the biggest thing blockingyou from everything that you
desire. We tend to make otherpeople the villain. We tend to
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to point the fingers and stepnumber one of this process is
you've got to take fullownership for this to work.
You've got to take 100%extreme, radical ownership
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of your life, of you, of yourdecisions, of your actions,
because if not, you're not incontrol. And so it makes it
really challenging to create thelife that you desire if you're
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not in the driver's seat. Sostep number one of this process
today is, are you in thedriver's seat? Are you in the
driver's seat? And it has to bea hell Fucking yes. It can't be
like, Well, I'm kind of in thedriver's seat, but I'm kind of
not like, it needs to be like aI'm in the driver's seat. My
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seat belt is on. My hands are at10 and two. Tell me, like,
what's next, right? Like, it hasto be that focused, that
determined, that you're like, Iam in the driver's seat. I own
every aspect of me and mydesires and where I'm going. If
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it's to be it's up to me. Ican't want this more than you
want this. Trust me, I have beenthat mentor in the past, and it
is draining. It is draining. Ican't want this more than you
want this. If my energy is uphere, you've gotta exceed it for
yourself, right? Like, beat me.
Please bring it on. Beat myenergy for you. Okay,
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beat my energy for you.
I love to serve and support andhelp people. But that doesn't
mean that I do the work for you.
That doesn't mean that I want itmore than you. Beat me. I want
to be in the passenger seat. Andwhat's so powerful about this is
you actually get to meet yourmost powerful self. I'm already
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powerful. I've already met mymost powerful self. I want you
to meet your most powerful self.
I'm I'm not that. I'm done, butI've, I've already been in the
car as the driver with otherpeople. Now I'm going back.
Sarah's going back. We're goingback because it's the right
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thing to do. Okay? This, this isvery serious, okay? And this
process is not like you watchthe trainings when you have
time, like I am raising mystandards. If you're going to go
through this process with me,you're going through it and if
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not totally cool, bless andrelease. So you're already here,
and that's huge. Like, truly,like, that's huge, whether
you're watching the live or thereplay. There are strict
boundaries around this process,around this container, because
this is a big fucking gift to bein my energy. I have so much
experience that can bless yourlife, but if you're not willing
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to do the work, if you're notwilling to try it. Can't even
bless your life. You're block.
You're blocking yourself fromthe blessings. And so we're
weeding out that energy in realtime. Like, if, if you can't
continue to be in the car, thenyou can't, you can't stay in the
car. Like, and it's not to be,mean, it's to, it's to wake you.
Up like, right? Because youcan't be asleep at the wheel.
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Literally, that's how people gethurt. So it's this is your wake
up call. This is time that youstep up your standards for
yourself, because you deserve tomeet your wealthiest self. And
my goal is to create anenvironment that makes it easier
and more fun for you to do sothat felt really good.
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Felt really good.
We're just going to take amoment for that.
I am sick and tired of seeingpeople's potential go to waste.
I'm done. I don't want to be anenergy around people that are
going to be like, Well, I'm onmy ball blah ladder, but I want
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to be on my wealthy ladder, butI'm not willing to do the work.
I'm not there. I'm not thementor for you. I'm just not and
you don't have to be perfect.
You don't have to have your shittogether to be here. But what I
do expect is you to raise yourown standards for yourself and
step up. And step up. You canhave your moment on the blah
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ladder, and then you move off,and you choose to move off. I'm
not going to drag your ass offof the blah ladder, you get to
say, here's my moment, and nowthis is what I'm doing about it,
that this is how you meet yourwealthiest self is you decide,
you decide that it's time. Youdecide that you'll figure it
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out. You say yes, and then yousay yes again, and then you say
yes again. And you're notworried about the how, the How
will take care of itself. Italways does. When you really
think about your whole life,you've had miracles that don't
make sense.
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Can you imagine, if you got hungup in the how
the miracle would have not evenbeen able to happen? Like, think
about maybe meeting yoursignificant other, or, uh, maybe
you got this huge jobopportunity. Or, like, where did
that come from? That was like,the the biggest blessings in our
lives. Typically, we didn't knowthat they were happening. We
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didn't have the plan. We didn'tknow how it was going to happen.
But yet, they're the biggestblessings of our lives. Imagine
365 days of that energy. You canmanufacture this. It. You don't
have to sit around and wait forit to happen, you can
manufacture this type of energythat radically changes
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everything for you.
So what is your beliefpercentage at today?
What is your belief percentageat today? Because it's time to
get it cranked the up. What isyour belief percentage at today?
Meaning that you believe you canmake this happen, your biggest,
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grandest, wealthiest life,millions of dollars, whatever it
is for you. Okay.
100% okay. 44%and now it's at a 95% what?
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5% Shut the front door. Shut thefront door. Holy smokes. Okay,
well, now I'm determined to getyou to help, get you to that 5%
okay, whoo, um, none of thisis planned. Of what I'm talking
about, by the way, so this isjust the Holy Spirit coming in
here. Uh, alright, 5050, 80% 85now you're feeling 89 so good.
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8778 Okay. Huge. What iseveryone's biggest boulder in
their way right now? Tell me inthe chat, what do you feel like
with your current operatingsystem, your current energy,
what is that big boulder in yourway? And get specific. Okay,
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health and weight, good. Okay,time, not enough hours in the
day. Myself. Can you we digdeeper in the me, the myself,
like, can you pinpoint it? Ifyou can regulating to hold the
95% belief, okay, selling myoffer to everyone, okay, can you
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tell me in the chat what youroffer is and how money you need
or want to sell.
I just have excuses because offear of rejection, okay, drop
like the more context I have,the the deeper I can support you
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and the faster we can getthrough. Thing. So tell me some
of the fears that you havetime tell me more
nothing to generate wealth withyet working on it. Okay. What do
you mean by nothing? Tell me inthe chat. Do
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Okay, so as people are giving memore context, here's the most
beautiful part, you have, thetime, you have the energy, you
have the resources, you have theaudience, you have the
knowledge. Do we want more? Ofcourse, we want more. We're
women, right? Of course, we wantmore, and there's nothing wrong
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with wanting more. However weget to get out of lack energy of
it's not enough. So it's okay towant more, but the current, what
we currently have, we cannot bein lack with it. We get to be in
love with it. We get to be inlove with the the body that we
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have right now. We get to be inlove with the time that we have
right now. We get to be in lovewith the audience that we have
right now. We get to likewherever we're at right now,
internally and externally,instead of being in lack instead
of being on your blah ladder,which creates blah results, we
get to be in love. Love operateson one of the highest
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frequencies. Have you ever beenso madly in love in the world
looks and feels so different,right? Like think about a time
that you were just ridiculouslymadly in love, whether it be
with your business, yourself,another person, an idea that you
had, like, there's lots oflevels of love, okay, different,
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different levels of love, butlike, pinpoint an a time in your
life that you've been so mad,madly in love, it is actually
really hard for you to be onyour blah ladder, right? You
could have somebody screaming inyour face. But when you're so in
love, you're like, I don't evencare. Bye, bye, right? Maybe
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some someone nasty on socialmedia says something to your
like, oh block and goodbye, bye,bye, right? I'm just so in love.
I don't even care, right? It'sthe biggest, most powerful
shield, and it operates on thehighest frequency. Guess what
else does money so love is sopowerful, and so when we can
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stop and look at what we haveright now, everything, when we
can look at it and be so madlyin love with it, it creates so
much more of what we desire, youimmediately go on the wealthy
ladder, on the highest level ofthe wealthy ladder, and it's
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almost like when you play likeshoots and ladders, and you're
just like, right? This is theFast Pass. Love is the Fast Pass
to everything that you desire.
And again, it's okay. It's morethan okay to love where you're
at and want more and want to bebetter, right? So it's a both,
and there's duality here, but wecan't be in lack and want more.
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You're already at a deficit. Weget to be careful. Well, well,
when I lose 10 pounds, then I'lllove myself. No, you love
yourself right now. Go watchLizzo on Tiktok or her videos.
That woman loves herself morethan I love myself. Like she is
such an icon for bodypositivity, like it's so good,
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it's so good. Okay, so what Iwant you to do is I want you to
think about Lizzo. Is a singer.
If you look her up, she'samazing, huge body positivity.
Okay, so what I want you to dois I want you to look at what
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part of your life and yourbusiness are you not in love
with. Okay, so I want you totake five minutes to reflect on
that, okay, what part of yourlife and or your business are
you not in love with? Okay, soI'm going to give you five
minutes to just have a moment tobreathe, to really think about
this, because it's thatimportant, okay, and I'll set a
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timer so we're like, true totime, okay? And I'm going to
mute myself here, okay, and if,if and when you want to share,
put it in the chat. Okay, I'mjust going to go check on my
baby as you do that, and I'll beright back. Okay.
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Okay, he's gonna steal the show.
Now it's gonna be hard to keepyou focused.
Can you say hi to everyone?
He blown kisses. Go.
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That one that you're getting.
Yeah, so good.
He's gonna break some hearts.
He's going to break some hearts,but just not mine. Alright,
cool, alright, back to trying tofocus here. Okay, let's see what
we've got in the chat. Okay, notin love fully with knowing how
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to promote my business. Okay,for me, it is the current level
of income and navigating hobbyhubby not being on board with
me, doing away doing away tripsfor learning and growing,
although the income is changingbig time and has over the last
four days, I love that so Good.
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Not in love with my lack ofdiscipline and organization and
planning out content for makingon top making on top of making
time for actually products. Uh,fear of people saying no to mid
to high ticket. Oh, okay, lookat the adorable girl. Yes. Um,
alright. Not in love with debtand messy house. Okay, huge, all
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right. So if we think about thebelief percentage, I'm going to
move this up here. Okay, so ifwe think about the belief
percentage, what would it feellike if this boulder was not in
your way? So I just want you to,like, visualize that just like,
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poop, this boulder is not inyour way, like, for some reason,
it just changed really fast.
What does that feel like? I wantyou to feel it in your body.
Okay. I want you to feel it inyour body, and then tell me in
the chat, what does it feel likein your body when I say that big
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boulderis gone, what does it feel like
in your body?
Freedom, light, expansive, free,lighter I love that
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hopeful, okay,I would jump around 10% at least
before I knew my health. I lovethat huge, okay, lighter,
happier.
All right, then that is veryloud,
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okay, all right, so here is areally cool hack. Okay, I'm
gonna come over here. Sowhatever word that you said, I
want you to write it on a bigpiece of paper. Okay, like, let
me get a big piece of paper overhere.
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So we'regonna write down the word
confident, okay, but you writedown whatever word feeling you
had pick one to start with, sowe don't overwhelm your your
brain. But you can do this againand again. This is very
duplicatable. Okay, so I'm goingto pick confident. Okay, so.
We're not going to worry aboutfeeling this way with the
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boulder. Okay, just hang with mefor a second. However, we're
going to see where we can feelthis way and other aspects of
your life and your business.
Okay, so if you wanted to feelconfident with marketing your
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business, we're not going toworry about that right now,
because it's so big, it's sooverwhelming, and it would it
wouldn't be a barrier if itdidn't stop you, right? Like
there's things that come naturalto you, that other people have
barriers around and so we're notgoing to worry about your big
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barrier, because it's going tofeel so hard to move it versus
us taking the easy way. Whowants the easy way around this
barrier? Yes. Drop a yes in thechat, if you're like, yes
please. Alright, we got someyeses. So what you get to think
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about is, okay, outside of thebarrier, outside of the boulder,
right? How can I feel my mostconfident self? So I'm just
going to, like, pretend I'mdoing the exercise with you, so
we're, I'm not going to worryabout marketing the business,
because that's, that's thethat's the barrier, okay? So
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we're not going to worry aboutthat. So that's just, like, x
through okay, I'm going to draw,like, a line through it. But we
can think about, where else canwe create the feeling of feeling
confident? Okay, so maybe forme, in this scenario, it would
be putting on a cute outfit.
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Cute outfit, I would feel somuch more confident with a cute
outfit. Then maybe we thinkabout, oh, my schedule. If I
could feel so dialed in about myschedule, it would make me feel
so on top of it, so confident.
Okay, so you're getting a reallyclear list of where else this is
showing up for you, and this canbe the path of least resistance
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that can really help. Maybe yourhome is really messy right now,
and you're like, I would justlove to feel so good in my home
and so confident in like mycleaning schedule, for example.
Okay, so again, we haven'taddressed the big boulder yet,
but here's the cool part, how wedo most things is how we do most
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things. So right now, okay,right now. The big the boulder
feels so big because it's a wayof being okay. It's actually not
you being confident in yourmarketing. It's your way of
being that's spilling over to somany other categories of your
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life and your business, that thebiggest thing that we can
pinpoint is it's, I don't feelconfident in marketing my
business. So whatever you canpinpoint is probably the biggest
piece of the boulder, okay, soif you looked at like a big
boulder, okay? And there waslike little, like other pebbles
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that were, like, breaking it up.
My drawing is just so beautiful.
Okay, so, like, imagine aboulder, and it's like, filled
with little pebbles and rocks,but then there still is, like,
one big boulder. Okay, sir.
Okay, so the marketing thebusiness is probably right here,
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okay, um, but then all of theseother little ones are all the
other things that we can do. Soit's going to be easier for your
brain to to focus on thosethings. This is what we start to
do in 15 minute sprints. Okay,so we've start, we've we start
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to focus on these little thingsthat we can do to make the
boulder smaller and smaller andsmaller. You become more
confident in those smaller 15minute sprints. So by the time
we actually do go to address themarketing, the business in this
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example, you're a wholedifferent you, you're like, Why?
Why did I make this such a bigdeal before this actually is not
a big deal. This is the, theeasy button to any and every
obstacle. It's kind of like,like reverse psychology. You're,
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you're going to not payattention to the thing, the big
thing, and you're going to,you're going to pay attention to
all of these other things, andthen the big boulder. Going to
get kind of jealous, and it'sgoing to be like, I want your
attention. You're gonna be like,Okay, fine, but you gotta play
nicely, right? And then youknock it down. You knock it
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down. So if debt currently feelslike you're big boulder, it's
not that I want you to ignoreit, right? But where else do you
have debt? Do you have sleepdebt? Do you have laundry debt?
Are you avoiding conversations?
All of these things are debt.
It's your way of being that isnot truly you, right? But these
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boulders become bigger andbigger and bigger over time that
they feel so daunting and sobig. But guess what, after we
clear the boulder, the blessingsflood end.
They flood in.
And the coolest part about thisprocess of you knocking down
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piece by piece of the bouldersis you become a better version
of yourself by the time theblessings flood in. You're
ready.
You're ready for them.
You'll be able to hold them,you'll be able to nurture them,
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you'll be able to then saywhat's next. You really will be
unstoppable. Anything that youput your mind to you can make
happen. So the biggest thingthat I want for you in this
session, if you watch today'slesson in wealthy month is, what
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do you want? Cuz this bigboulder you could knock down
this weekend. You could get itto be the smallest little pebble
if your life depended on it, youcould in 15 minute sprints over
the next few days, you couldknock it down, and that is your
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homework. I don't care what'sgoing on in your calendar, you
can still do it. I'm running amarathon on Sunday, and I'm
already strategically thinkingabout, how can I maximize that
run, and I'm scheduling socialmedia post, so while I'm
running, there will be a minilaunch happening, because that's
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what wealthy me would do, right?
She's already thinking ahead.
Wealth loves proactive energy.
Our presenting sponsor forwealthy mama movement. I met up
with her this morning because Iwas like, I want to wear your
logo while I run. I'm going tobe passing 1000s of people. And
she's like, really, yes, yousaid yes to us. Like, I want to
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do something really special.
Like, this feels really good tome. And so this is who I am.
This is wealthy me. And everysingle day I become more
comfortable and so in love withthis version of myself that the
blessings just keep flooding inand flooding in. And I feel so
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ready. I'm not even nervous forSunday. And I told my husband.
I'm like, I'm about to run 26.2miles. That's not normal, but I
feel normal. And he's like, butyou've been preparing every
boulder of in training I'veknocked down. I feel so ready,
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as if it's just a normal day.
And that's actually a reallygood thing when things feel so
normal, as odd as running 26.2miles
bring bring millions of dollarsto me. I'm ready.
I am so ready. I'm ready tobless so many people as if it's
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so normal, but yet it's actuallynot right. Like, it's kind of a
little bit of a mind f whereyou're like, Okay, I know that
this isn't normal, but it feelsnormal, and I know that's good,
so we're just going to allow itto be that way. So what crazy,
cool things do you want in thenext 365, days? Because this is
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key. This motivates you to knockdown every single boulder if you
lived the most ridiculous,outlandish, wealthiest, happiest
life where people are annoyed byit. They're like, shit, like,
what are you doing? Like, whatKool Aid Are you drinking? And
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you're like, oh my gosh, I'mjust being me, right? Like, I'm
just being me, loving my life,all the things. What if it What
if it was just okay for you? Todo that like more than okay,
what if you gave yourselfpermission to create the most
crazy, ridiculous, wealthiestyear? And again, you're not
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worried about the how your jobis to dream. Your job is to
knock down all the boulders, thebarriers to clear the way so the
blessings can actually come in.
Your job is to prepare, preparefor the blessings. You don't
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have to know the how. I don'twant you to build a year, a
wealthy year plan based on like,oh, but this is what's in my
bank account, and this is theenergy that I have. We're in
lack. We're in lack. You cancreate more energy, you can
create more money, you can evencreate more time. You can even
manipulate time by having peopleto support you, by having
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systems to support you, byhaving offers that sell without
you having to physically beanywhere or do anything. I think
it's the coolest thing that ourboutique, like the product ship
without me touching them. Like,it is the most bizarre thing to
me, but the coolest thing at thesame time I'm like, I've been
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working too hard for too long.
Like, no more, like, what if itjust could be so easy, right?
Like, what if it could just beso easy and so fun and you just
live the best life ever. Butagain, I can't want this more
than you for yourself. Like, Iwant this for me. Like, I'm
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pumped up. I am ready to go forme and equally for you, but I
need you to beat my energy foryourself, not like we're not in
competition, but like I'mraising my standards for you. I
need you to do the same, so thatway we're Energy Partners, and
we're doing it together, right?
Like, I need that from you. It'snot even like a well, like,
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Could you please put sugar ontop? It's like a no. If you are
investing in personal growth, weget to grow. Or, why are we
here, right? I'm not here tofeed your blah excuses. I'm here
to help you grow, so I've gottamake sure you're not on the blah
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ladder, right, or it's not goingto like. It's just not going to
work.
It's not going to work.
So what I need from you is to bea maniac on a mission this
weekend, a maniac on a mission.
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Anytime you catch yourself inblah energy, you've got a shift.
You've got to demand excellencefrom yourself and say, okay,
like nope, not today. Satan, nottoday. There's a new sheriff in
town, and there will, therecould be some tug of war,
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because you've been a certainway for a certain period of
time, and sometimes we don'teven know it, but where you're
wanting to go is going torequire a more discipline you
and we don't just it doesn'tjust magically happen. You
decide, and then you keepdeciding, and you keep getting
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better and better and better.
And if we keep staying on theblah ladder, we're going to keep
creating blah results the minutewe decide to be on our wealthy
ladder and stay on our wealthwealthy ladder, and continue to
climb our wealthy ladder, it isliterally inevitable that you
will be super successful. Thinkabout it. Healthy Habits create
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a healthy life over time whenyou do them long enough. The
same is true about wealthyhabits. Wealthy habits, which
are those 15 minute sprints,right? We can accomplish so much
in 15 minutes. And every 15minutes sprint anchors in it
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being normal for you, without itbeing alarming, if I told you to
be a certain way forever,typically, just want to make
sure that nothing's happeningback there. Typically, it's too
much. Right when we say alwaysor forever or never, it's it's
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too much, too fast. But if I cansay, Can you do some steps for
15 minutes and you're like,Yeah, I can do that right? If I
say, can you go think about anoffer that you would love to
create for 15 minutes? Yeah, Icould do that right. It's the
path of least resistance. Doing.
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Something for 15 minutes is farbetter than thinking about
something for 15 hours, truly,and it keeps stacking. These are
the 15 minute sprints are likedeposits into your bank account.
Okay, so if there was a joboffering, okay, just kind of
play with me for a second, ifthere was a job offering, and
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the job listing said 15 minutessprints, and we'll pay you
$50,000 for each 15 minutesprint.
Would you apply for that jobevery 15 minutes that you do
something that is in alignmentwith you, right? But it paid
$50,000 or it paid $100,000like, it's enough to get your
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attention where you're like, oh,that's worth the squeeze, right?
That's worth any resistance,that's worth any thing that I've
gotta like, any hoops that Ihave to jump through, right? So
when your dream life is moredesirable than your current
reality. It creates that type ofenergy. You've gotta become so
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obsessed and so in love with notonly where you're currently at,
but more importantly, we needmore excitement of where you're
going. We need more passion forwhere you're going. This will
help move every barrier, everyBoulder, when you're so in love
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and obsessed and excited anddetermined for where you're
going, rejection becomes like,right? Any boulder or any
hiccup, it's again, it's thatlove energy. You're like, oh,
okay, you're so in love with whoyou're becoming, where you're
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going, that any hiccup, anyBoulder, any challenge, doesn't
feel so bad. So lack of claritycould be stopping you if we
don't know where we're going,then you've got some work to do.
You've got some soul searchingto do. We don't need to know how
we're going to get there, but wedo need to know, where do you
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desire to go? If you told methat, like if I get in your
passenger seat, because you'reyou're the driver, and you say,
we're going to Florida, thatlooks different than if we're
going to California, right? Youneed, as the driver, you have to
have the clarity of, where arewe trying to go? What's the big
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desire that you're having, notfrom a business perspective, cuz
there's a lot of things that youcould do or sell, right, and
that could change over time. Itprobably will. But what are you
trying to go toward?
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What's the big,big thing that you're like, oh
my gosh, this would literally bethe coolest thing. And it should
be big. It should be so big thatyou have to become the best
version of yourself, right? Youhave to grow into your dreams.
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We should not be downgrading ourdreams to fit our current
reality. We should be upgradingus to grow in to our dreams. So
for me, it's 1 million momshelping support 1 Million Moms.
I want to have a list, even if Idon't know them individually,
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but I want to know that we haveimpacted 1 Million Moms. Can you
believe the amount ofcommunities that would be
transformed when women becomethe best for moms become the
best version of themselves, likeI'm open to other people and and
accomplishments, but for me,it's the one dream that I've
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gotta become a better version ofmyself. I have to grow so much,
I've gotta expand so much forthat to become inevitable. And
I'm so down for that, becauseit's so expansive, that's what
I'm looking for. It should makeyou like your heartbeat, right?
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It should be that big. And forme, I've done you, okay? I've
done a money goal, and itdoesn't work for me.
So I've done like $1 millionwhat I have realized my soul is
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here to give. It's naturally whoI am. It doesn't surprise me. I
started a nonprofit at 16 whenpeople thought I was crazy. It
literally. It is my soul'spurpose to give, and it is so
natural for me. It feels so goodfor me and so authentically my
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big, expansive mission, drivengoal has to be giving. And I
I've finally realized that whenI've gone for like, big money
goals, the money is inevitable.
It will happen. It'll, it'll,it'll just happen. When I have
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more fun, when I give,everything takes care of itself.
It really does. And I keepreminding myself of that I don't
have to be in full control. Ihave to focus on giving, giving
more than I've ever gave before,which is why you're here, truly.
I I'm not asking anything fromyou, but to show up,
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and I'm so excited about it,I'm not worried about it.
There's no sales pitch. There'sno slide deck trying to, like,
be sneaky here. I'm just readyto pour into you, and I know
everything will take care ofitself, because it always does.
My soul's purpose is to be hereto give and radically give. It's
just just like when Steve Jobswas here, he had a big souls
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purpose. Every single person hasa big souls purpose, and
everyone is different, andthey're all beautiful and
amazing. Um, how you can reallystart to realize what yours is
is, who are you before the worldtells you who to be? What do you
desire? When noone else has anopinion, success leaves clues.
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Okay, it will continue to evolveas you go through this process.
But the big things that I needfrom you this weekend, Okay,
before we meet back on Monday,is what I need from you is to 15
minutes. Sprint it up as much asyou can around that boulder.
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Okay, I'm going to have youreport in on Monday on how did
it go? I we've gotta have aprogress report, okay? And I
want you to raise your standardsfor yourself. There is we can
get so creative with time andand energy. It it's so cool. And
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when we try, don't give up tooquickly. Okay, don't give up too
quickly, and we'll really worktogether to to move forward. So
that's big homework piece numberone is two is, I want you to
think about that sole purpose.
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Okay, what do you feel likeyou're here to do?
Can you imagine who you'llbecome as you do that? Like, how
rewarding is that? And in 15minutes sprints, you will grow
in to who you're supposed to be,who your soul, what your soul is
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supposed to do here, and it isour duty and our obligation to
do that, and everyone's looksdifferent, and it's not a
competition. So I want you tosit with that okay, and get as
much clarity as you can. Andthose are going to be the two
pieces that I need on Monday.
And I'm going to have youliterally, I want to hear your
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voice. I want to hear it onMonday. Okay, so come prepared.
That's your homework, whetheryou're watching live or the
replay right now, and do yourbest. That's all I ask from you.
Like you don't have to have itall flushed out, but give it
your best shot, okay? And youknow your best shot, like, in
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your heart of hearts, you'relike, I gave it my best it, if
it's kind of like, oh, I kind ofdid then we did, like, again,
raise our standards. Okay, Iwant to get that belief
percentage even above 100% andI'll leave you with this
sometimes when we are increasingour belief percentage, it's
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going to come from conflict.
Okay, I have grown so much inconflict.
It gets your attention, okay? Solet's not look at conflict as a
bad thing, and let's look at itas like, oh my gosh, this just
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showed me a shadow, or this justshowed me something I get to
work on, or I'm really proud ofmyself of how I handle that
situation, right? So everythingis wanting to help you win.
Every situation is here to helpyou win. Every situation is here
to help you learn, and everysituation is really striving to
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guide you to that sole purpose.
It's when we're trying to be infull control. That sometimes
creates some friction, becauseit, like, the the energy can't
do what it needs to do to guideyou in the direction. And then
you, like, kind of like, whenyou're when you're going off
script, right? It's like drivingwithout a GPS to a destination
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you've never been at. I don'tthink I could get there, right?
So your sole purpose is the GPS.
Okay? And I don't know aboutyou, but there's been times
where I don't listen to my GPSbecause I think I know better,
and I'm like, oh, I should havelistened. I should have
listened. So you're the driver.
You're in control, but the GPSis your sole purpose. It's
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really striving to guide you.
And we just get to, like, take adeep breath and do our best to
listen to what it's trying todo, left, right, straight or
like, what's happening. Okay, sothat's your mission. Over the
weekend, 15 minutes, sprint itup, and I can't wait to hear a
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full report after I run 26.2miles, I'm with you on Monday.
Okay, good thing. I can sitdown, but you're meant for big
things. You have the time, youhave the resources, you have the
energy, you have the effort, andit will just keep getting better
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and better for you when youdecide. So I love you so much.
I'll see you back on Monday, andI hope that you have a great
weekend.
Bye, guys. You.
Alright, welcome, welcome, welcome, officially to
your session where I get to fillyour cup up because you're
filling up everyone else's cup.
So this is like going to the spamixed with going to the hair
salon mixed with mixed with somany other things, like your
favorite restaurant, like allthe good wealthy energy is now
in this force field, and it'sready for you to receive it. I
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don't feel like it's an accidentthat you are here. Raise your
hand if it was not easy for youto get your butt here. Like, be
honest, was it easy? Raise yourhand if it was not easy. I want
to see the screen. Let me. Letme go to the whole gallery here.
Like, so I have, like, a hand inthe air. So the one of the most
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important things to remember isour big goals and dreams are not
always going to be convenient.
They're not always going to beconvenient. I am running on very
low sleep. There is a plumberdownstairs. My husband is here
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with the plumber. I have aGerman Shepherd barking in the
room next door. I'm hoping andpraying that you can't hear her
that loud. I have like lockedmyself in the office. I have
cleansed my energy so I can bemy best for you, but I want to
model for you that it's notalways going to be easy, but I
made a commitment to you to behere and my character is I'm
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going to do everything in mypower to be my word as much as I
possibly can. And sometimesthere's some things that we have
to move out of the way to get towhere we want to go. So that's
not going to change. And I dobelieve when you start shaking
up the energy right, like maybeyou were a lot of blah energy,
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even 18 days ago, and now you'veshooken up the energy, right?
Like I feel it too, just evenbeing a facilitator with you,
like I am different than I was19 days ago. I am different.
Drop a yes in the chat. Ifyou're you're on the same page.
Like I am a different human.
This is how fast this workhappens. And it's not an end all
be all. It will just keep going.
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It will just keep what I callwealthy leaping, like quantum
leaping. It will wealthy leapmore and more and more the more
you do it. And so when we shakeup that energy, sometimes you
get more curve balls. Is anyoneexperiencing that. Like, have
you had technology breakdowns,car breakdowns? Maybe conflicts
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with your significant othergetting sick, right? So this is
what's called Upper Limiting.
Has anyone heard of UpperLimiting before? So Upper
Limiting is really big in themindset energy space, where you
have operated in a certainenergy for a certain period of
time. You've been in an identityfor a certain period of time,
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and now you have shooken up theenergy that your nervous system
and the outside world is like,what is happening, what is
happening, what is going on. Sothis is why you have internal
and external curve balls thathappen, because everyone's
trying to figure out what isgoing on. Logically, it's so
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good, though, and when we canpersevere and get through these
hiccups, right? Get throughthese barriers. They don't last
forever. Like, one of myfavorite things to say to myself
is, you know, when you get thehiccups and they're, like,
really annoying, they don't lastforever, though, right? Like,
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you could have the hiccups andwithin the hour, they'll go
away. Is it so annoying duringthat time. Like, have you ever
tried to like, I've done atraining and I have the hiccups
and I'm like, this works time tohave the hiccups, and so they
don't last forever. The biggestrainstorm doesn't last forever.
And so we get to continue tobuild up our mental strength so
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that we can persevere throughthose hiccups, through those
obstacles. We equally get to beproactive. In regards to there
are a lot of obstacles andhiccups and fertiles that can be
prevented when we are inproactive energy. And wealth
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loves proactive energy. Can weplan and prepare for everything?
No, I wish we could, but thereare so many things that we can
plan and prepare for, big andsmall. And so the more we can do
that, the better. And so this.
Experience is going to helpcontinue the work that you've
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done. The transformation processyou become a millionaire in your
mind before anywhere else. Andthat word may freak you out, it
can be your wealthiest self.
It's it's getting everythingthat you desire. It it's
utilizing and leveraging moneyas a tool and a resource to
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create what you desire. And oneof my friends says this all the
time. She says, money amplifieswho you already are. So if you
love to give, you're going to beable to give more. If you love
to invest in yourself, you'regoing to be able to do that more
if you love to save for thefuture, you're going to be able
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to save for the future more,right? Like money amplifies who
you already are, and so more ofit means you get to bless more
people, including yourself. Andthe biggest hurdle is you. You
are the biggest thing blockingyou from everything that you
desire. We tend to make otherpeople the villain. We tend to
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to point the fingers and stepnumber one of this process is
you've got to take fullownership for this to work.
You've got to take 100%extreme, radical ownership
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of your life, of you, of yourdecisions, of your actions,
because if not, you're not incontrol. And so it makes it
really challenging to create thelife that you desire if you're
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not in the driver's seat. Sostep number one of this process
today is, are you in thedriver's seat? Are you in the
driver's seat? And it has to bea hell Fucking yes. It can't be
like, Well, I'm kind of in thedriver's seat, but I'm kind of
not like, it needs to be like aI'm in the driver's seat. My
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seat belt is on. My hands are at10 and two. Tell me, like,
what's next, right? Like, it hasto be that focused, that
determined, that you're like, Iam in the driver's seat. I own
every aspect of me and mydesires and where I'm going. If
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it's to be it's up to me. Ican't want this more than you
want this. Trust me, I have beenthat mentor in the past, and it
is draining. It is draining. Ican't want this more than you
want this. If my energy is uphere, you've gotta exceed it for
yourself, right? Like, beat me.
Please bring it on. Beat myenergy for you. Okay,
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beat my energy for you.
I love to serve and support andhelp people. But that doesn't
mean that I do the work for you.
That doesn't mean that I want itmore than you. Beat me. I want
to be in the passenger seat. Andwhat's so powerful about this is
you actually get to meet yourmost powerful self. I'm already
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powerful. I've already met mymost powerful self. I want you
to meet your most powerful self.
I'm I'm not that. I'm done, butI've, I've already been in the
car as the driver with otherpeople. Now I'm going back.
Sarah's going back. We're goingback because it's the right
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thing to do. Okay? This, this isvery serious, okay? And this
process is not like you watchthe trainings when you have
time, like I am raising mystandards. If you're going to go
through this process with me,you're going through it and if
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not totally cool, bless andrelease. So you're already here,
and that's huge. Like, truly,like, that's huge, whether
you're watching the live or thereplay. There are strict
boundaries around this process,around this container, because
this is a big fucking gift to bein my energy. I have so much
experience that can bless yourlife, but if you're not willing
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to do the work, if you're notwilling to try it. Can't even
bless your life. You're block.
You're blocking yourself fromthe blessings. And so we're
weeding out that energy in realtime. Like, if, if you can't
continue to be in the car, thenyou can't, you can't stay in the
car. Like, and it's not to be,mean, it's to, it's to wake you.
Up like, right? Because youcan't be asleep at the wheel.
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Literally, that's how people gethurt. So it's this is your wake
up call. This is time that youstep up your standards for
yourself, because you deserve tomeet your wealthiest self. And
my goal is to create anenvironment that makes it easier
and more fun for you to do sothat felt really good.
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Felt really good.
We're just going to take amoment for that.
I am sick and tired of seeingpeople's potential go to waste.
I'm done. I don't want to be anenergy around people that are
going to be like, Well, I'm onmy ball blah ladder, but I want
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to be on my wealthy ladder, butI'm not willing to do the work.
I'm not there. I'm not thementor for you. I'm just not and
you don't have to be perfect.
You don't have to have your shittogether to be here. But what I
do expect is you to raise yourown standards for yourself and
step up. And step up. You canhave your moment on the blah
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ladder, and then you move off,and you choose to move off. I'm
not going to drag your ass offof the blah ladder, you get to
say, here's my moment, and nowthis is what I'm doing about it,
that this is how you meet yourwealthiest self is you decide,
you decide that it's time. Youdecide that you'll figure it
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out. You say yes, and then yousay yes again, and then you say
yes again. And you're notworried about the how, the How
will take care of itself. Italways does. When you really
think about your whole life,you've had miracles that don't
make sense.
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Can you imagine, if you got hungup in the how
the miracle would have not evenbeen able to happen? Like, think
about maybe meeting yoursignificant other, or, uh, maybe
you got this huge jobopportunity. Or, like, where did
that come from? That was like,the the biggest blessings in our
lives. Typically, we didn't knowthat they were happening. We
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didn't have the plan. We didn'tknow how it was going to happen.
But yet, they're the biggestblessings of our lives. Imagine
365 days of that energy. You canmanufacture this. It. You don't
have to sit around and wait forit to happen, you can
manufacture this type of energythat radically changes
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everything for you.
So what is your beliefpercentage at today?
What is your belief percentageat today? Because it's time to
get it cranked the up. What isyour belief percentage at today?
Meaning that you believe you canmake this happen, your biggest,
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grandest, wealthiest life,millions of dollars, whatever it
is for you. Okay.
100% okay. 44%and now it's at a 95% what?
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5% Shut the front door. Shut thefront door. Holy smokes. Okay,
well, now I'm determined to getyou to help, get you to that 5%
okay, whoo, um, none of thisis planned. Of what I'm talking
about, by the way, so this isjust the Holy Spirit coming in
here. Uh, alright, 5050, 80% 85now you're feeling 89 so good.
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8778 Okay. Huge. What iseveryone's biggest boulder in
their way right now? Tell me inthe chat, what do you feel like
with your current operatingsystem, your current energy,
what is that big boulder in yourway? And get specific. Okay,
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health and weight, good. Okay,time, not enough hours in the
day. Myself. Can you we digdeeper in the me, the myself,
like, can you pinpoint it? Ifyou can regulating to hold the
95% belief, okay, selling myoffer to everyone, okay, can you
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tell me in the chat what youroffer is and how money you need
or want to sell.
I just have excuses because offear of rejection, okay, drop
like the more context I have,the the deeper I can support you
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and the faster we can getthrough. Thing. So tell me some
of the fears that you havetime tell me more
nothing to generate wealth withyet working on it. Okay. What do
you mean by nothing? Tell me inthe chat. Do
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Okay, so as people are giving memore context, here's the most
beautiful part, you have, thetime, you have the energy, you
have the resources, you have theaudience, you have the
knowledge. Do we want more? Ofcourse, we want more. We're
women, right? Of course, we wantmore, and there's nothing wrong
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with wanting more. However weget to get out of lack energy of
it's not enough. So it's okay towant more, but the current, what
we currently have, we cannot bein lack with it. We get to be in
love with it. We get to be inlove with the the body that we
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have right now. We get to be inlove with the time that we have
right now. We get to be in lovewith the audience that we have
right now. We get to likewherever we're at right now,
internally and externally,instead of being in lack instead
of being on your blah ladder,which creates blah results, we
get to be in love. Love operateson one of the highest
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frequencies. Have you ever beenso madly in love in the world
looks and feels so different,right? Like think about a time
that you were just ridiculouslymadly in love, whether it be
with your business, yourself,another person, an idea that you
had, like, there's lots oflevels of love, okay, different,
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different levels of love, butlike, pinpoint an a time in your
life that you've been so mad,madly in love, it is actually
really hard for you to be onyour blah ladder, right? You
could have somebody screaming inyour face. But when you're so in
love, you're like, I don't evencare. Bye, bye, right? Maybe
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some someone nasty on socialmedia says something to your
like, oh block and goodbye, bye,bye, right? I'm just so in love.
I don't even care, right? It'sthe biggest, most powerful
shield, and it operates on thehighest frequency. Guess what
else does money so love is sopowerful, and so when we can
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stop and look at what we haveright now, everything, when we
can look at it and be so madlyin love with it, it creates so
much more of what we desire, youimmediately go on the wealthy
ladder, on the highest level ofthe wealthy ladder, and it's
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almost like when you play likeshoots and ladders, and you're
just like, right? This is theFast Pass. Love is the Fast Pass
to everything that you desire.
And again, it's okay. It's morethan okay to love where you're
at and want more and want to bebetter, right? So it's a both,
and there's duality here, but wecan't be in lack and want more.
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You're already at a deficit. Weget to be careful. Well, well,
when I lose 10 pounds, then I'lllove myself. No, you love
yourself right now. Go watchLizzo on Tiktok or her videos.
That woman loves herself morethan I love myself. Like she is
such an icon for bodypositivity, like it's so good,
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it's so good. Okay, so what Iwant you to do is I want you to
think about Lizzo. Is a singer.
If you look her up, she'samazing, huge body positivity.
Okay, so what I want you to dois I want you to look at what
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part of your life and yourbusiness are you not in love
with. Okay, so I want you totake five minutes to reflect on
that, okay, what part of yourlife and or your business are
you not in love with? Okay, soI'm going to give you five
minutes to just have a moment tobreathe, to really think about
this, because it's thatimportant, okay, and I'll set a
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timer so we're like, true totime, okay? And I'm going to
mute myself here, okay, and if,if and when you want to share,
put it in the chat. Okay, I'mjust going to go check on my
baby as you do that, and I'll beright back. Okay.
(21:03):
Okay, he's gonna steal the show.
Now it's gonna be hard to keepyou focused.
Can you say hi to everyone?
He blown kisses. Go.
(21:27):
That one that you're getting.
Yeah, so good.
He's gonna break some hearts.
He's going to break some hearts,but just not mine. Alright,
cool, alright, back to trying tofocus here. Okay, let's see what
we've got in the chat. Okay, notin love fully with knowing how
(21:54):
to promote my business. Okay,for me, it is the current level
of income and navigating hobbyhubby not being on board with
me, doing away doing away tripsfor learning and growing,
although the income is changingbig time and has over the last
four days, I love that so Good.
(22:20):
Not in love with my lack ofdiscipline and organization and
planning out content for makingon top making on top of making
time for actually products. Uh,fear of people saying no to mid
to high ticket. Oh, okay, lookat the adorable girl. Yes. Um,
alright. Not in love with debtand messy house. Okay, huge, all
(22:43):
right. So if we think about thebelief percentage, I'm going to
move this up here. Okay, so ifwe think about the belief
percentage, what would it feellike if this boulder was not in
your way? So I just want you to,like, visualize that just like,
(23:07):
poop, this boulder is not inyour way, like, for some reason,
it just changed really fast.
What does that feel like? I wantyou to feel it in your body.
Okay. I want you to feel it inyour body, and then tell me in
the chat, what does it feel likein your body when I say that big
(23:27):
boulderis gone, what does it feel like
in your body?
Freedom, light, expansive, free,lighter I love that
(23:48):
hopeful, okay,I would jump around 10% at least
before I knew my health. I lovethat huge, okay, lighter,
happier.
All right, then that is veryloud,
(24:12):
okay, all right, so here is areally cool hack. Okay, I'm
gonna come over here. Sowhatever word that you said, I
want you to write it on a bigpiece of paper. Okay, like, let
me get a big piece of paper overhere.
(24:36):
So we'regonna write down the word
confident, okay, but you writedown whatever word feeling you
had pick one to start with, sowe don't overwhelm your your
brain. But you can do this againand again. This is very
duplicatable. Okay, so I'm goingto pick confident. Okay, so.
We're not going to worry aboutfeeling this way with the
(25:02):
boulder. Okay, just hang with mefor a second. However, we're
going to see where we can feelthis way and other aspects of
your life and your business.
Okay, so if you wanted to feelconfident with marketing your
(25:24):
business, we're not going toworry about that right now,
because it's so big, it's sooverwhelming, and it would it
wouldn't be a barrier if itdidn't stop you, right? Like
there's things that come naturalto you, that other people have
barriers around and so we're notgoing to worry about your big
(25:46):
barrier, because it's going tofeel so hard to move it versus
us taking the easy way. Whowants the easy way around this
barrier? Yes. Drop a yes in thechat, if you're like, yes
please. Alright, we got someyeses. So what you get to think
(26:09):
about is, okay, outside of thebarrier, outside of the boulder,
right? How can I feel my mostconfident self? So I'm just
going to, like, pretend I'mdoing the exercise with you, so
we're, I'm not going to worryabout marketing the business,
because that's, that's thethat's the barrier, okay? So
(26:33):
we're not going to worry aboutthat. So that's just, like, x
through okay, I'm going to draw,like, a line through it. But we
can think about, where else canwe create the feeling of feeling
confident? Okay, so maybe forme, in this scenario, it would
be putting on a cute outfit.
(26:56):
Cute outfit, I would feel somuch more confident with a cute
outfit. Then maybe we thinkabout, oh, my schedule. If I
could feel so dialed in about myschedule, it would make me feel
so on top of it, so confident.
Okay, so you're getting a reallyclear list of where else this is
showing up for you, and this canbe the path of least resistance
(27:16):
that can really help. Maybe yourhome is really messy right now,
and you're like, I would justlove to feel so good in my home
and so confident in like mycleaning schedule, for example.
Okay, so again, we haven'taddressed the big boulder yet,
but here's the cool part, how wedo most things is how we do most
(27:37):
things. So right now, okay,right now. The big the boulder
feels so big because it's a wayof being okay. It's actually not
you being confident in yourmarketing. It's your way of
being that's spilling over to somany other categories of your
(27:59):
life and your business, that thebiggest thing that we can
pinpoint is it's, I don't feelconfident in marketing my
business. So whatever you canpinpoint is probably the biggest
piece of the boulder, okay, soif you looked at like a big
boulder, okay? And there waslike little, like other pebbles
(28:20):
that were, like, breaking it up.
My drawing is just so beautiful.
Okay, so, like, imagine aboulder, and it's like, filled
with little pebbles and rocks,but then there still is, like,
one big boulder. Okay, sir.
Okay, so the marketing thebusiness is probably right here,
(28:44):
okay, um, but then all of theseother little ones are all the
other things that we can do. Soit's going to be easier for your
brain to to focus on thosethings. This is what we start to
do in 15 minute sprints. Okay,so we've start, we've we start
(29:06):
to focus on these little thingsthat we can do to make the
boulder smaller and smaller andsmaller. You become more
confident in those smaller 15minute sprints. So by the time
we actually do go to address themarketing, the business in this
(29:28):
example, you're a wholedifferent you, you're like, Why?
Why did I make this such a bigdeal before this actually is not
a big deal. This is the, theeasy button to any and every
obstacle. It's kind of like,like reverse psychology. You're,
(29:51):
you're going to not payattention to the thing, the big
thing, and you're going to,you're going to pay attention to
all of these other things, andthen the big boulder. Going to
get kind of jealous, and it'sgoing to be like, I want your
attention. You're gonna be like,Okay, fine, but you gotta play
nicely, right? And then youknock it down. You knock it
(30:13):
down. So if debt currently feelslike you're big boulder, it's
not that I want you to ignoreit, right? But where else do you
have debt? Do you have sleepdebt? Do you have laundry debt?
Are you avoiding conversations?
All of these things are debt.
It's your way of being that isnot truly you, right? But these
(30:39):
boulders become bigger andbigger and bigger over time that
they feel so daunting and sobig. But guess what, after we
clear the boulder, the blessingsflood end.
They flood in.
And the coolest part about thisprocess of you knocking down
(31:03):
piece by piece of the bouldersis you become a better version
of yourself by the time theblessings flood in. You're
ready.
You're ready for them.
You'll be able to hold them,you'll be able to nurture them,
(31:25):
you'll be able to then saywhat's next. You really will be
unstoppable. Anything that youput your mind to you can make
happen. So the biggest thingthat I want for you in this
session, if you watch today'slesson in wealthy month is, what
(31:49):
do you want? Cuz this bigboulder you could knock down
this weekend. You could get itto be the smallest little pebble
if your life depended on it, youcould in 15 minute sprints over
the next few days, you couldknock it down, and that is your
(32:10):
homework. I don't care what'sgoing on in your calendar, you
can still do it. I'm running amarathon on Sunday, and I'm
already strategically thinkingabout, how can I maximize that
run, and I'm scheduling socialmedia post, so while I'm
running, there will be a minilaunch happening, because that's
(32:31):
what wealthy me would do, right?
She's already thinking ahead.
Wealth loves proactive energy.
Our presenting sponsor forwealthy mama movement. I met up
with her this morning because Iwas like, I want to wear your
logo while I run. I'm going tobe passing 1000s of people. And
she's like, really, yes, yousaid yes to us. Like, I want to
(32:54):
do something really special.
Like, this feels really good tome. And so this is who I am.
This is wealthy me. And everysingle day I become more
comfortable and so in love withthis version of myself that the
blessings just keep flooding inand flooding in. And I feel so
(33:16):
ready. I'm not even nervous forSunday. And I told my husband.
I'm like, I'm about to run 26.2miles. That's not normal, but I
feel normal. And he's like, butyou've been preparing every
boulder of in training I'veknocked down. I feel so ready,
(33:37):
as if it's just a normal day.
And that's actually a reallygood thing when things feel so
normal, as odd as running 26.2miles
bring bring millions of dollarsto me. I'm ready.
I am so ready. I'm ready tobless so many people as if it's
(33:59):
so normal, but yet it's actuallynot right. Like, it's kind of a
little bit of a mind f whereyou're like, Okay, I know that
this isn't normal, but it feelsnormal, and I know that's good,
so we're just going to allow itto be that way. So what crazy,
cool things do you want in thenext 365, days? Because this is
(34:25):
key. This motivates you to knockdown every single boulder if you
lived the most ridiculous,outlandish, wealthiest, happiest
life where people are annoyed byit. They're like, shit, like,
what are you doing? Like, whatKool Aid Are you drinking? And
(34:48):
you're like, oh my gosh, I'mjust being me, right? Like, I'm
just being me, loving my life,all the things. What if it What
if it was just okay for you? Todo that like more than okay,
what if you gave yourselfpermission to create the most
crazy, ridiculous, wealthiestyear? And again, you're not
(35:11):
worried about the how your jobis to dream. Your job is to
knock down all the boulders, thebarriers to clear the way so the
blessings can actually come in.
Your job is to prepare, preparefor the blessings. You don't
(35:32):
have to know the how. I don'twant you to build a year, a
wealthy year plan based on like,oh, but this is what's in my
bank account, and this is theenergy that I have. We're in
lack. We're in lack. You cancreate more energy, you can
create more money, you can evencreate more time. You can even
manipulate time by having peopleto support you, by having
(35:56):
systems to support you, byhaving offers that sell without
you having to physically beanywhere or do anything. I think
it's the coolest thing that ourboutique, like the product ship
without me touching them. Like,it is the most bizarre thing to
me, but the coolest thing at thesame time I'm like, I've been
(36:18):
working too hard for too long.
Like, no more, like, what if itjust could be so easy, right?
Like, what if it could just beso easy and so fun and you just
live the best life ever. Butagain, I can't want this more
than you for yourself. Like, Iwant this for me. Like, I'm
(36:40):
pumped up. I am ready to go forme and equally for you, but I
need you to beat my energy foryourself, not like we're not in
competition, but like I'mraising my standards for you. I
need you to do the same, so thatway we're Energy Partners, and
we're doing it together, right?
Like, I need that from you. It'snot even like a well, like,
(37:04):
Could you please put sugar ontop? It's like a no. If you are
investing in personal growth, weget to grow. Or, why are we
here, right? I'm not here tofeed your blah excuses. I'm here
to help you grow, so I've gottamake sure you're not on the blah
(37:24):
ladder, right, or it's not goingto like. It's just not going to
work.
It's not going to work.
So what I need from you is to bea maniac on a mission this
weekend, a maniac on a mission.
(37:45):
Anytime you catch yourself inblah energy, you've got a shift.
You've got to demand excellencefrom yourself and say, okay,
like nope, not today. Satan, nottoday. There's a new sheriff in
town, and there will, therecould be some tug of war,
(38:06):
because you've been a certainway for a certain period of
time, and sometimes we don'teven know it, but where you're
wanting to go is going torequire a more discipline you
and we don't just it doesn'tjust magically happen. You
decide, and then you keepdeciding, and you keep getting
(38:29):
better and better and better.
And if we keep staying on theblah ladder, we're going to keep
creating blah results the minutewe decide to be on our wealthy
ladder and stay on our wealthwealthy ladder, and continue to
climb our wealthy ladder, it isliterally inevitable that you
will be super successful. Thinkabout it. Healthy Habits create
(38:49):
a healthy life over time whenyou do them long enough. The
same is true about wealthyhabits. Wealthy habits, which
are those 15 minute sprints,right? We can accomplish so much
in 15 minutes. And every 15minutes sprint anchors in it
(39:10):
being normal for you, without itbeing alarming, if I told you to
be a certain way forever,typically, just want to make
sure that nothing's happeningback there. Typically, it's too
much. Right when we say alwaysor forever or never, it's it's
(39:34):
too much, too fast. But if I cansay, Can you do some steps for
15 minutes and you're like,Yeah, I can do that right? If I
say, can you go think about anoffer that you would love to
create for 15 minutes? Yeah, Icould do that right. It's the
path of least resistance. Doing.
(39:59):
Something for 15 minutes is farbetter than thinking about
something for 15 hours, truly,and it keeps stacking. These are
the 15 minute sprints are likedeposits into your bank account.
Okay, so if there was a joboffering, okay, just kind of
play with me for a second, ifthere was a job offering, and
(40:20):
the job listing said 15 minutessprints, and we'll pay you
$50,000 for each 15 minutesprint.
Would you apply for that jobevery 15 minutes that you do
something that is in alignmentwith you, right? But it paid
$50,000 or it paid $100,000like, it's enough to get your
(40:42):
attention where you're like, oh,that's worth the squeeze, right?
That's worth any resistance,that's worth any thing that I've
gotta like, any hoops that Ihave to jump through, right? So
when your dream life is moredesirable than your current
reality. It creates that type ofenergy. You've gotta become so
(41:04):
obsessed and so in love with notonly where you're currently at,
but more importantly, we needmore excitement of where you're
going. We need more passion forwhere you're going. This will
help move every barrier, everyBoulder, when you're so in love
(41:28):
and obsessed and excited anddetermined for where you're
going, rejection becomes like,right? Any boulder or any
hiccup, it's again, it's thatlove energy. You're like, oh,
okay, you're so in love with whoyou're becoming, where you're
(41:49):
going, that any hiccup, anyBoulder, any challenge, doesn't
feel so bad. So lack of claritycould be stopping you if we
don't know where we're going,then you've got some work to do.
You've got some soul searchingto do. We don't need to know how
we're going to get there, but wedo need to know, where do you
(42:14):
desire to go? If you told methat, like if I get in your
passenger seat, because you'reyou're the driver, and you say,
we're going to Florida, thatlooks different than if we're
going to California, right? Youneed, as the driver, you have to
have the clarity of, where arewe trying to go? What's the big
(42:36):
desire that you're having, notfrom a business perspective, cuz
there's a lot of things that youcould do or sell, right, and
that could change over time. Itprobably will. But what are you
trying to go toward?
(42:57):
What's the big,big thing that you're like, oh
my gosh, this would literally bethe coolest thing. And it should
be big. It should be so big thatyou have to become the best
version of yourself, right? Youhave to grow into your dreams.
(43:18):
We should not be downgrading ourdreams to fit our current
reality. We should be upgradingus to grow in to our dreams. So
for me, it's 1 million momshelping support 1 Million Moms.
I want to have a list, even if Idon't know them individually,
(43:39):
but I want to know that we haveimpacted 1 Million Moms. Can you
believe the amount ofcommunities that would be
transformed when women becomethe best for moms become the
best version of themselves, likeI'm open to other people and and
accomplishments, but for me,it's the one dream that I've
(44:02):
gotta become a better version ofmyself. I have to grow so much,
I've gotta expand so much forthat to become inevitable. And
I'm so down for that, becauseit's so expansive, that's what
I'm looking for. It should makeyou like your heartbeat, right?
(44:25):
It should be that big. And forme, I've done you, okay? I've
done a money goal, and itdoesn't work for me.
So I've done like $1 millionwhat I have realized my soul is
(44:46):
here to give. It's naturally whoI am. It doesn't surprise me. I
started a nonprofit at 16 whenpeople thought I was crazy. It
literally. It is my soul'spurpose to give, and it is so
natural for me. It feels so goodfor me and so authentically my
(45:08):
big, expansive mission, drivengoal has to be giving. And I
I've finally realized that whenI've gone for like, big money
goals, the money is inevitable.
It will happen. It'll, it'll,it'll just happen. When I have
(45:28):
more fun, when I give,everything takes care of itself.
It really does. And I keepreminding myself of that I don't
have to be in full control. Ihave to focus on giving, giving
more than I've ever gave before,which is why you're here, truly.
I I'm not asking anything fromyou, but to show up,
(45:52):
and I'm so excited about it,I'm not worried about it.
There's no sales pitch. There'sno slide deck trying to, like,
be sneaky here. I'm just readyto pour into you, and I know
everything will take care ofitself, because it always does.
My soul's purpose is to be hereto give and radically give. It's
just just like when Steve Jobswas here, he had a big souls
(46:16):
purpose. Every single person hasa big souls purpose, and
everyone is different, andthey're all beautiful and
amazing. Um, how you can reallystart to realize what yours is
is, who are you before the worldtells you who to be? What do you
desire? When noone else has anopinion, success leaves clues.
(46:37):
Okay, it will continue to evolveas you go through this process.
But the big things that I needfrom you this weekend, Okay,
before we meet back on Monday,is what I need from you is to 15
minutes. Sprint it up as much asyou can around that boulder.
(47:00):
Okay, I'm going to have youreport in on Monday on how did
it go? I we've gotta have aprogress report, okay? And I
want you to raise your standardsfor yourself. There is we can
get so creative with time andand energy. It it's so cool. And
(47:21):
when we try, don't give up tooquickly. Okay, don't give up too
quickly, and we'll really worktogether to to move forward. So
that's big homework piece numberone is two is, I want you to
think about that sole purpose.
(47:42):
Okay, what do you feel likeyou're here to do?
Can you imagine who you'llbecome as you do that? Like, how
rewarding is that? And in 15minutes sprints, you will grow
in to who you're supposed to be,who your soul, what your soul is
(48:05):
supposed to do here, and it isour duty and our obligation to
do that, and everyone's looksdifferent, and it's not a
competition. So I want you tosit with that okay, and get as
much clarity as you can. Andthose are going to be the two
pieces that I need on Monday.
And I'm going to have youliterally, I want to hear your
(48:27):
voice. I want to hear it onMonday. Okay, so come prepared.
That's your homework, whetheryou're watching live or the
replay right now, and do yourbest. That's all I ask from you.
Like you don't have to have itall flushed out, but give it
your best shot, okay? And youknow your best shot, like, in
(48:49):
your heart of hearts, you'relike, I gave it my best it, if
it's kind of like, oh, I kind ofdid then we did, like, again,
raise our standards. Okay, Iwant to get that belief
percentage even above 100% andI'll leave you with this
sometimes when we are increasingour belief percentage, it's
(49:10):
going to come from conflict.
Okay, I have grown so much inconflict.
It gets your attention, okay? Solet's not look at conflict as a
bad thing, and let's look at itas like, oh my gosh, this just
(49:31):
showed me a shadow, or this justshowed me something I get to
work on, or I'm really proud ofmyself of how I handle that
situation, right? So everythingis wanting to help you win.
Every situation is here to helpyou win. Every situation is here
to help you learn, and everysituation is really striving to
(49:53):
guide you to that sole purpose.
It's when we're trying to be infull control. That sometimes
creates some friction, becauseit, like, the the energy can't
do what it needs to do to guideyou in the direction. And then
you, like, kind of like, whenyou're when you're going off
script, right? It's like drivingwithout a GPS to a destination
(50:15):
you've never been at. I don'tthink I could get there, right?
So your sole purpose is the GPS.
Okay? And I don't know aboutyou, but there's been times
where I don't listen to my GPSbecause I think I know better,
and I'm like, oh, I should havelistened. I should have
listened. So you're the driver.
You're in control, but the GPSis your sole purpose. It's
(50:40):
really striving to guide you.
And we just get to, like, take adeep breath and do our best to
listen to what it's trying todo, left, right, straight or
like, what's happening. Okay, sothat's your mission. Over the
weekend, 15 minutes, sprint itup, and I can't wait to hear a
(51:02):
full report after I run 26.2miles, I'm with you on Monday.
Okay, good thing. I can sitdown, but you're meant for big
things. You have the time, youhave the resources, you have the
energy, you have the effort, andit will just keep getting better
(51:23):
and better for you when youdecide. So I love you so much.
I'll see you back on Monday, andI hope that you have a great
weekend.
Bye, guys. You.
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