POV From The Friend Back Home (ft. Seun Frank)

Keywords

Lagos, Uber, friendship, long-distance, moving abroad, emotional impact, safety, celebration, home visits, advice

Summary

In this conversation, Seun and Bianim Isibor discuss their experiences living in Lagos, the challenges of maintaining friendships across distances, and the emotional impact of friends moving abroad. They share personal anecdotes about safety concerns while using Uber, the overwhelming nature of home visits, and the importance of checking in on friends, whether they are back home or abroad. The conversation highlights the dynamics of friendship, the adjustments required when friends move away, and the need for understanding and grace in maintaining these relationships.

Takeaways

Navigating life in Lagos has its challenges, especially with rising Uber prices.

Safety concerns in transportation are a common topic among friends.

Moving abroad can create a sense of distance but also new experiences.

Maintaining friendships requires effort, especially across time zones.

Celebrating friends' achievements from afar can strengthen bonds.

Home visits can be overwhelming due to multiple social obligations.

Friendship dynamics can change when friends move away, leading to fears of drifting apart.

Emotional impacts of friends moving can affect one's sense of stability.

Checking in on friends is crucial for maintaining connections.

Understanding and grace are essential in long-distance friendships.