Why Authenticity is BS with Dr. Tomas Chamorro-Premuzic

In this We Are Human Leaders conversation, author and organizational psychologist Dr. Tomas Chamorro-Premuzic shares insights from his latest book: Don't Be Yourself: Why Authenticity Is Overrated (and What to Do Instead).

We discuss the complexities of authenticity in leadership, emphasizing that the common advice to 'just be yourself' can be misleading. He explores the psychological underpinnings of self-perception, the importance of emotional intelligence, and the traps associated with pursuing authenticity.

This inspiring discussion highlights the need for leaders to be aware of their impact on others and to cultivate a balance between self-awareness and pro-social behavior. And, the conversation calls for a redefinition of authenticity that includes the potential for growth and change.

You'll Learn:

• How authenticity is often misinterpreted in leadership contexts.
• Why self-deception is prevalent among leaders, affecting their effectiveness.
• The science behind how caring about how we impact others is crucial for effective leadership.
• Why the mantra 'always be true to yourself' can be a trap.
• How ignoring others' perceptions can lead to ineffective leadership.
• The reasons why emotional intelligence is essential for navigating interpersonal dynamics.
• That self-knowledge is a continuous journey, not a destination.
• Why integrating feedback from others is vital for personal growth.
• How leaders should sculpt their future selves rather than just amplify their current personas.
• That authenticity should encompass all possible selves, allowing for growth and evolution.

Chapters

00:00 The Complexity of Authenticity

05:07 The Performative Nature of Self

08:00 The Nuances of Leadership and Authenticity

10:35 The Dangers of Self-Deception

13:32 The Authenticity Traps in Leadership

15:42 The Impact of Others' Perceptions

18:23 Navigating the Balance of Self and Others

23:00 Navigating Cultural Sensitivity and Conflict Avoidance

24:22 The Balance of Self-Awareness and Leadership

27:27 Emotional Intelligence: A Counterpoint to Authenticity

29:15 The Tyranny of the Self in Modern Society

34:22 Cultural Values: Individualism vs. Collectivism

38:00 Authenticity: Self-Knowledge vs. Community Engagement

44:50 The Future of Authenticity in Leadership

46:25 Introduction to Human Leadership

46:34 Exploring the Essence of Human Leadership

Learn more about the work of Dr. Tomas Chamorro-Premuzic including his latest book at https://www.wearehumanleaders.com/podcast/why-authenticity-is-bs-tomas-chamorro-premuzic

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