We Need To Talk with Harry and Shade
Welcome to The Harry & Shade Show, where a real married couple sits down, keeps it 100, and talks about everything your relationship group chat is too scared to bring up. Harry and Shade don't have it all figured out. They have four kids, strong opinions, and a whole lot of real-life experience, including the arguments, the laughs, the hard seasons, and the moments that make it all worth it. From communication and finances to keeping the spark alive when you're raising ages from 7-year-old to a 20-year-old under the same roof, nothing is off-limits, and nothing is sugarcoated. This isn't a highlight reel. It's the real story of two people choosing each other, parenting together, and figuring it out as they go with humor, honesty, and zero filter. New episodes drop weekly. Come for the relationship talk. Stay for the chaos.
Episodes
This is the episode we did not plan to make.
But it is the one we had to.
Harry and Shade go deeper than they have ever
gone — connecting brain science, marriage,
parenting, and what it means to raise Black
children in a world that is still running on
very old, very dangerous programs.
This is not a political episode.
This is a human episode.
About fear. About the stories our...
Money ends more marriages than cheating.
Not because couples don't love each other —
but because they never had the real
conversation about it.
In Episode 5, Harry and Shade go all the way
in on finances. The money mindsets they each
brought into this marriage. The mistakes. The
disagreements. The power dynamics. And the
financial lessons that only 20 years of real
life tog...
Most couples think they have good communication
problem. But what if the real problem is not
HOW you communicate, but WHAT is actually
driving the conversation without your
permission?
In Episode 4, Harry and Shade break down the
two systems are running inside your brain every
single day and show exactly how they show up
inside a marriage, in real...
This is the episode most podcasts won't make.
Harry and Shade get completely vulnerable about
something millions of couples go through and almost
nobody talks about out loud — intimacy challenges,
body changes, and the health issues that silently
affect your relationship before you even know
what's happening.
This one is personal. This one is real.&nbs...
We said we weren't done with Trust — and we meant it.
Episode 2 picks up right where we left off. Harry and
Shade finish answering the Top 10 most common trust
questions couples actually ask and as always, we
don't always agree. That's kind of the whole point.
Then we do something new we break down a real
Comment left by a listener and answer it in 5 deep ...
Welcome to We Need To Talk with Harry and Shade the podcast where a real married couple sits down, keeps it 100, and has the conversations most people avoid.
We're Harry and Shade Farquharson. Twenty years married, four kids ranging from 7 to 20, and zero interest in pretending we have it all figured out. This podcast is our real story the love, the hard seasons, the laughs, and the lessons that only come fro...
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