August 15, 2024 • 45 mins
We Out Da Mud episode 14 Trust Issues. We talking about trust issues in our life, with friends, family, & marriage.
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Step in and put in something different
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So you're the only one
Cause I don't trust these bitches
I don't like all trust these bitches
They might catch me slipping
So you're the only one
How about
Trust issues
How about
Trust issues
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How about
Trust issues
How about
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What's up bro?
Today we're gonna talk about
Trust issues
Insecurities
I'm trying to touch on everything
Oh shit
So trust issues
Friends, family, and personal relationship
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Friends, family, and personal relationships
Yeah, with significant other and stuff like that
But before we get into it, bro, how was your week?
Oh man, my week was good
My week was good, man
I can't complain
I really can't complain
Coming out to my daughter leaving for school
Second year
You know what I mean?
Congratulations KK
So you know, man, we getting ready for that
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And that's it, man
I had a good week, man
I had a good week
Good week
My week been stressful at work
Yeah, if I mean you got two people in my job
Got suspended
For tasting wine
So we came from having eight people
Now we're down to six people
Got down
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Yeah, so I mean it's a struggle
People who got to pick up extra work and do extra shit
That mean they need extra money
Yeah, for me, got people working six days now too
Yeah, they need to extra bread though
Yeah, but you know, and then my wife's birthday next week
Oh man, happy early birth day
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Yeah, but you too, my wife and shit, love you baby
You know what I'm saying?
But let's jump right into this topic, bro
What's up with you?
All right, trust issues
All right, now are you currently dealing with trust issues
Right now today?
Yeah, yeah, I'm dealing with it, yeah
I'm dealing with it, that's shit crazy, man
But it come from, I think childhood, man
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You think so?
Yeah, man, it come from what you've been through with your childhood
Right
What you seen in your childhood
Yeah
You know what I'm saying?
So, and then what you did
Oh yeah
You know what I'm saying?
That I had you thinking people doing snake shit to you
You know what I'm saying?
Because if you do it then you will swim other people doing it too
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So exact
You understand
I understand
Trust me, so yeah, man, that's shit crazy, man
Yeah, man
It had you thinking everybody on your ass
It's due too
You know what I'm saying?
It's crazy
More than having everybody doing snake shit to you
Yeah
Like everybody know this person's snaking you but you
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Oh yeah, that's the worst type when you don't know
Yeah, man, because everybody say yo, just bring it to the table
Right
I'm bringing it to the table
I know
They think it's better to be sneaky
You know what I'm saying?
So, you know
You speak into them all, fuck it up
Been through some shit and that shit real, man
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But then you also could punish a person if they really genuinely fucks what you and love you
But you keep saying they even cheating or they backstabbing or they doing this
You could turn them against you
Yeah, because
They're really probably not doing this shit
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Because if you used to it happen all the time
So say you used to somebody, people around you, all assholes, all jerks and shit like that
Nobody nice to you
And then one person coming in life and they like genuinely care about you
And you're not used to it
You know, why are you nice?
When you trying to get out of me?
Like what do you want from me and shit like that?
But understand, understand
That shit real, man
So, my question is
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So what is the earliest, like the earliest signs of trust issues for you?
My pop not coming to get me when he said he was coming to fucking get me
Oh, yeah
You know what I'm saying?
Yeah
You know what I mean? I was your word
I trusted your word
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Oh, yeah
You know what I mean?
A son out there Friday after I get off and work
Right
They come get you and your brothers
And you wait and then all the world ones been through that
Yeah
You know what I'm saying?
So when you wait, you wait, you wait
Right
Wait
Oh, yeah
You know what I'm saying?
Right
So it start right there
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You know what I mean?
So then you know
You're like, I don't trust, I don't fucking know what you mean
I don't trust nothing
Fuck you, you say dog
Exactly
You know what I'm saying?
And then you see people do crumb shit that a motherfucker put trust in
Oh, yeah
And then you're looking like, damn
I thought that was your homie, bro
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Yeah
Especially, I think especially if you grow up like around like the underworld
Like the drug dealers and shit like that
You see that a lot
Like for me growing up in the house I grew up in
Not even growing up in the house
The two years I told you about being on Aethan Street
Right
That shit like fucked me up for real
So Martin Lewis and the Trust issues came from my mom
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Okay
It was my dad too
But I said my mom because of my mom work
Right
Like seeing my mom doing the stuff that she did
And she out like she wasn't
Because of the addiction
She wasn't like there
As a mom
Okay
And shit like that
Or like caretaking, shit like that
So watching it
Seeing like oh shit
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I'm like oh man so like
Like how can you trust the main people
Who's called the Trust which is your parents
Fucking up
And this is trickle down to every other
Sense of the worst
You know what I'm saying, trust issues start from
From childhood bro
Right
Like real rap
And like I said you expand shit, see shit
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And it make it hard to trust motherfuckers man
It do bro
Cause then when you do
And then they do that crumb shit too
You got no more
I know I should not
Fucking do it man
Alright so what you think so
Is it do hurt more that you trust somebody
And they broke the trust
Or does it hurt more that
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No is it hurt more that you
I'm sorry what I mean is are you more made
Of yourself or trusting them
Or mad at the person for breaking the trust
Mad at the person for breaking the trust
I gave you no reason to break it
True understandable
If I gave you a reason it would not
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If I gave you a reason it would not
If I gave you a reason
Fuck you break it for
Like what you meant for it like
Yeah like if I
I don't tell you but I love them you feel me
Yeah I feel you
So if I told
A significant other
A friend
Family member
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Yeah man
Alright for real
For real for real you feel me Zane
Right
So I trust that you should
For real for real
So do you give second chances
Somebody break your trust
Fuck no
Fuck no
I don't
I don't
I don't and that's
And I keep hearing that's bad
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But bro you shouldn't have broke it bro
Yeah
You know what I'm saying
How can I trust you again
Yeah how are you gonna do it again
I feel you bro
You fucked it up
And people say
And people say trust a person
Who showed you who you who they are the first time
Right
And don't give them a second time they'll stab you in the back
Exactly
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So I'm saying
It's crazy though like
Because if you really fucked with me and loved me
You wouldn't have did nothing or hurt me
True
And then look at Starfung when you young
Parents hurt you
Alright
You know what I'm saying
Right
But I think
I think trusting the parents and like trusting a friend is different though
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Yeah
Because like you know your parents are you a kid like you if you get a beating
Oh I don't can't trust you no more because you beat me
But then it's still your parents though
But like when a friend like do some crumb shit a snake shit like
All right like growing up one of my homies
That we grew up with
Or I pay to him now but he stole my mom rain
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From my from our house
What?
Yeah and we didn't know
He did it until I went to my other homies house the twins at no house and they found it
And I go yeah such and such had it
And we found it here I'm like whoa that's my mom's like
Yo
Yeah so like
See me and me and my nigga never did that
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Right
We not stealing from my mom's
The rest of these dukes
We ain't never do that
My mans could leave me in a crib
I want to get the girls their sisters their moms their cousins their aunts
Nothing bro like
That's a different type of trust bro
Yeah
They can go to the store
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They can make a run
And no now I ain't doing nothing
Right
I mean now is my nephew that's my little brother
That's my cousin
Whatever
You know what I mean?
Yeah
That's a real shit
Like I'm anybody that know me
Yeah
Yeah I'm the same way
I know niggas that
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Really did crumb shit to the day one homies
They call me best friend
That's your best friend bro
They get mad when they get called out on it
Yeah
Bro you're crumb
See that
Before bro
They're fucking crumb
Yo alright I just had before
So when I worked in McDonald's right
Right
At these two bulls
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They came in together
Talking about how they was cool since Kenny got in
Best friends all that shit
Alright
So I'm gonna say K and S
I ain't gonna say anything
So the boy K liked the girl that worked with us
So they was chilling together talking all the time right
And then so since S was his best friend
They was talking, chilling, talking about it
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And they think I know S and they'll smash in the jaw
That K loved that light and shit like that
I'm like bro I thought that was your mans
Why would you do that if you knew he liked her?
It didn't come to find out K said that S did it
Three times before and he forgave them all three times
No I once he did it the first time man
If y'all ain't had that understand LAO
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She for the team or this really ain't my girl
Cool
But if you know your man really like Shorty
Regardless of what her status is
Let him do him and learn on his own
Find out on your own
Right
I say the best if she was like a slide or something like that
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You can tell her
Tell them yo bro you know be careful like that
Right
But don't just like smash and then get wonder why he mad at you bro
He trust you nigga
Trust my trustworthy bitch
They're crazy party they told him he told him everything too bro
I remember
I ain't I ain't even liking my niggas baby moms and wise pictures if they ain't in it
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I'm standable yeah I feel you
Yeah I don't even think I'm following any of my niggas baby moms and girls and that's what I do is probably one
Yeah man I don't play that shit man
Yeah I don't do it
I don't know
I don't know that
It's certain stuff that you don't want you don't want to open that door
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Yeah I don't want to see you know she on vacation on the beach you know
I don't want to see none
All right
That's my man pebbles
Yeah to me you look at her different and something like that this is
I feel you I feel you bro
You feel me so
Who get this
All right I got another all right all right is there is there a trust issue in your relationship
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Like was there and how you get past it or
How you working with her
Because I'm gonna answer your two bro don't worry I got your own answer the same
Um it was but it was mainly me though man the shit that I was doing and shit man then
thinking someone else doing that shit so that's what I say man
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It could be what you've been through and doing right and you're thinking someone else doing it too
Because of what you've seen in them streets
Or you've been around chicks that are
Be on the farm with their niggas or their husband
And got the song nigga right there
I just saw the video like that on the phone what they do
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Or whatever and suck it in and go off in the whip
And pause in the phone while I'm talking to a speaker
You know what I mean
This is bro this is this is
So that's what it is
But that don't mean every female do that right that don't mean every man do what niggas do right so yeah, man, so
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You get through it by saying
Everybody not the same. Yeah
Yeah, man one thing I don't like like I
Dislike when people say yo all niggas act the same or all bitches are the same
No, they not yeah, they not I'm like no, that's just get a bad rep because
The ones that are out there doing whatever
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Get them a bad name. Yeah, but if you hang with them, you're gonna look like you do the shit they do
Yeah, exactly. It's gonna be hard for a man to say
To pick you out that crowd right?
I saw I saw the video bull broke it down crazy. He said
Girls like girls and not holes hanging over holes
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It's like you see in a pack of lines and the one of the lines not gonna eat you
But are you gonna stand around and find out which one I'm gonna eat you?
Same same thing
The ladies the ladies dressing like holes and like the
The the regular citizens trying to be the thugs and shit like that. That's I just think these niggas got trusted shoes
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Because these these women ain't waiting around no more
Yeah, they're going to get their own back
They got their own motion
Yeah, I mean they ain't waiting for no hand dogs
So the first thing that should occur nigga do is leave because she make more money than he
Right, you know I said, well or she got work late or whatever
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And he thinking she's dipping off with a nigga, but she's really working
But yeah, it do be going down at the workplace
There's a lot of boo boo's and job husbands and wives
So I ain't gonna act like you can't not a cool word
My fuck is be acting like that shit is like not happening
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You better go and you go have lunch
Which is check on on lunch time where you're nigga
Right. Oh, right. I didn't I'm all right. I didn't answer the question. So many ask the question
There you go
All right. So in the beginning of my relationship
I say no, I had no trust issues. No insecurities now that
I say about earlier this year. That's when a little bit start creeping up
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It's so wild so wild now
It's this is like like I said a little stuff from
My childhood creeping up and shit like that. That's all that is
Okay, nothing. Yeah, why oh no, no no, no nothing more. No, no, no, no, no because nothing changed
So is you it doesn't mean yeah, this is thinking
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Sunny world, yeah, social media, bro. Yeah social media too though social media, bro
That will fuck you up bro. Bro. I just I stay off it man thinking
Because first all right good
All right, so when I'm seeing a lot of
Females becoming that the niggas that even got girls or Mary. Mm-hmm like any pictures or
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Common or whatever then you might see a shorty pit
Uh watch it they go this that what I would have kissed me big right I ain't no
You couldn't like a person picture that you follow
I do the purpose of social media if you slide in her DM. Yeah, that's different and doing dick messages and leaving comments too
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Then that's that's yeah, I understand what she's coming from. All right, and then you trust in this nigga. You trust in this bitch
Yeah, I might be in the city videos help plan with a man. Yeah, I understand that
But I ain't always a problem if you like a shorty picture or you like the nigga picture and there ain't no
Flirtation shit with it. Yeah, I just like the picture. I'm not talking to you. I'm not even oh sure. That's a good pick
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Nice pick from that. You're so insane
so
I guess I guess some
That's that that could be media. I do not trust in nobody. Yeah, that could be insecurity though, too
Yeah, a lot of niggas deal with that shit because these females is bossed up. Yeah, they are bossed up, bro
If you want to believe it at night
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They're not waiting. All right
They're working more and harder than a man. That's not holding down a crib and take care of the family
Yeah, if I just do so now they're getting a good job in the back
I understand but that
Yeah, I feel you though, bro. Cause like if you want to
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If you want to like do something you could do something but people just sit on social media
They're scrolling and looking and scrolling and looking and shit like that
Like if people these social media alone for six months
Can you not if you don't run a business or nothing
Can you not be on social media for six months? I don't think people can bro
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I don't think people can bro and your mate picked a trust in you like yeah
I trust you kid do it. You could do it and then you fucking around going. It's the same shit every day
Yeah, the same shit everything and like people going there crying. They going there telling that whole story, bro. I don't
Knock them. Uh-huh because that's dumb right. I mean, I don't knock them, but I just can't do it. I can't do it
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Never yeah, I mean I might get on there throw a rant
Right for nigga playing with me
I give him a couple days and I'll
Fuck that's you know, that's what we doing a little subtle message. Yeah, that's what we want to do
Because a lot of people talk through music. That's what I'm learning. Yeah, I learned this to you
You can't even like shit because you like I said you put an rb song or they're gonna think you stress
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Right, they're gonna think you only get make on through it right they're gonna. Thank you to press. Oh, yeah
You put a shirt wrap up. Oh, we talking about oh, we beef
Oh, you got to go get my tips, but uh about the end of drill. Yeah, right
Not because I like the song right now because I came up in that ever
Right and the shit y'all talking about is bullshit, but that's a that's a scene that that's a sign of uh
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Insecurity and trust issues too from another person because you thinking like I don't know you right?
So what makes you assume this song is talking about you or what makes you assume I'm talking about somebody else
I put a post up
put up a rap lyric
uh, no kiss, uh
On the way see my bitch typing on the way to college see my bitch
This might put or you got to a bitch in college niggas are fucking verse like
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Yes
You saw these shit
You know, we got that segment coming up. What's up?
Who we calling? Oh, right on call bro. We calling this episode trust issues. Oh, I got some money
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Oh, I got somebody good. I'm about the call. I got you. I got you
Yo, we whenever in the car
Hello, yo, this Lisa
Yes
Yo, what up? What up? It's now from we out the money. We want it with nine martyrs your little bro
Oh
Yeah, I mean so yeah, we looking for picking up and um today's topic is trust issues
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Oh boy. That's a that's a tough one. Yeah, so we want to know if you're going through trust issues
Uh, if you don't have trust issues and how do you feel about people who have them?
To bring it to the people that don't have trust issues. Yeah. All right, so
I would say growing up. I didn't have trust issues. I think I was a little
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Too trusting so I believe people took advantage of me, you know, because I just couldn't
Understand like what people were doing. I thought everybody was like nice and sweet like me
So when um, you know, people took advantage of me. I was like it really caught me off guard like every single time
Which is just crazy. Um, so but as I got older
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I um started to understand that that wasn't like a reflection of me
It was more of a person and with the things they were dealing with and I noticed like
A lot of the times people would attach their own emotions to my actions and then, you know, try to give me
Try to imply that that's the way I felt because that's the way they made them feel so
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Um, you know, I just decided that I'm not going to worry about that anywhere
I just feel what they want to feel think what they want to think
I don't really want to um, you know, I feel like it's unnecessary for me to start correcting adults
If you know by now and you ain't my problem, right?
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You know, that's that's my biggest thing, but I was saying when I was younger man, I was like
A nutty people got over me all the time. Um, you know, but now that I got older and
I realized, you know
People just weird
It made it easier for me to like not worry about other people's feelings
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but I think that's the biggest issue with trust because
We worry about hurting other people's feelings and doing everything to make
Everybody feel good and we kind of forget about ourselves. So
I just started trusting in myself more than anything and things just fell into place, you know, okay?
Okay. Hello, Lisa. This is your brother Marty
Oh, hello Marty
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So so how long did it how long did it take you to like get past the whole like not caring about what other people think and stuff like that?
It took me a very long time. Actually, I would say I didn't
Really stop caring about people
caring about what people think until I like got laid off from my job like a couple years ago
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I'm not gonna lie. I was there for 27 years and I got laid off and I'm like, wait
I was sitting there trying to be the best employee I could be and
You know, I still got let go. So it's like I stopped caring about everybody at that point. I'm like, it's all about me
Whoa, wait a minute. I don't know what we're in on. Wait, wait. You said you was there for what?
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27 years, bro
and
They let you go
Yep, they're not there to say that. You did to say that, bro. I just say that bro. Yeah, exactly, man
They like these jobs don't be given enough. Fuck. That's what I'm saying. And I was like
This is deep filling name of the company. I give them a promotion, but
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I was like superstar employee there if you ask me, but
But didn't it get a lazy
promotion
Yeah, once we don't know anything like there are people I trained and got promotions over me and all that so
But so I mean just think about that. So that was what three years ago. So I was like already
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40 something
and uh, you know, so now it's just like I just
Worry about me, you know me and my family
So so you don't have no trust issues
um, I mean
I would just say
I don't think I have trust issues because like I'm married. I've been married for almost 21 years
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There's no trust issues there like my kids
I mean, I get nervous like when they go out into the world like my oldest is 19
She's been driving for a while. So I don't trust other cars and streets, you know, right?
When they go to stores and you know, I just
people trying to take advantage of them and stuff like that like
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But when it comes to like something internal like
I don't I don't think I have trust issues in that way people actually have to show me that
I shouldn't be asking what I'm like that and then I'll just leave them alone
But it's not something I carry with me over and over, you know, okay now. I'm at this point
It's like one time and I'm done like I see what you are
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I try to you know
I think like, you know, I'm a person like almost I'm an observer, right?
So and that's another thing that people get wrong about me because if I walk into a room or from somewhere
I'm sitting there quiet. I'm just observing the right thing. I'm juggling, you know
It's like
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Me too though, I can't throw me too. I get that all the time. All right
Lisa is it it's because we quiet people think that we better than them or
What's that? I am better
I think people do take my silence and it makes them it makes them nervous or it makes them uneasy, you know
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So they kind of like assume I'm thinking something or whatever and I like I want everybody to win Marty, you know that like I share
Everything I know I'm sharing it. I'm sharing like
investment information, style of information and how to buy a house. That's sure any information I get I'm like
Giving it away like on the corner. So like, you know what I'm saying? So, like I'm I want everybody to win
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I want everybody to be great and you know, if anything anybody need to know just come ask me
I'm not like I ain't talking to you in three books. I can be calling you now. Like that's not me
I'm welcome every phone call every hug every drop by all of that. So, you know, it's it's it's kind of tough, you know, because
People do assume they know things about you that they don't know because I'm still learning stuff about myself
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Exactly
You know, but
All right, so
All for that what since you listen to us every week you're you're you're a real listener, you know, yeah
What can we do
different
To improve and what topics do you want us to touch on?
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All right, so I would say
The number one thing so you guys y'all drop like what 8 30 on Thursday or something like that, right?
Right
I work from home on Friday. So I'm listening to y'all every Friday morning. Right and
So that's fire. I think what a cool thing y'all can do is like add like a survey to your social media like Friday's afternoons
(28:39):
Like what y'all think about the podcast?
You know, what you think about our guests or whatever. I think that's fire to get
People to be a little more interactive on your social media because I think I see y'all get like a lot of likes
Right, but I don't see a lot of comments, right? So but if you do a survey
They want to be like tempted to just click a button, which is easier than to write in a sentence, you know, okay?
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So that's one thing
I do think that Nas though you didn't be name dropping too much
You didn't be name dropping too much
Need somebody keep it in world so all young I would I swear to God. I bet I see one comment
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Of y'all talking about
Yeah, she white because I swear to God. I'm not gonna do that
I don't have 13 episodes to tell me this shit
Nobody said
It's like cool because y'all be going in the flow and he just go up into your own little world
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The only reason why I suggest that though is because I see this podcast doing big things, right?
So it's like y'all going national. Yeah people all over the world. They don't know these people. They don't need to know that
So we like keep it high level
You know, I think that's that's the only reason why I say that
and um
I think another thing is like this is definitely for mardy. Oh lord
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Oh lord start fact checking bro. You acting like
Trump
Hold on let me talk let me say something
What it's not my job to fetch it is my job to talk and how you're jowling
It's just jowling fetch it because my job just to put out there put the information out there and you look it up
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All right, I got you. I'm gonna start fetch it. I got you. Yeah, like even if like
fact check doing the show pull out the phone, you know, you got like a
What seven eight hundred dollars computer in your pocket?
You know
And if not like the next week start off like
Yeah, next week I said this right but that was wrong because you don't want to lose credibility
Yeah, y'all chilling credibility. Sorry. Right, but you know, I'm saying y'all y'all chilling y'all doing great
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Every week did y'all really consistent like y'all staying true to yourself?
um, you know all all the
Great meetings of a podcast y'all got a down pat, you know, you're engaging in your social media is always popping
um
You know, y'all definitely got your personality showing I do like when y'all need to um talk about the song at the end
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That's like
Why do you think he was the rmb?
I am mr. Rmb
112
Missing member. I am listen. Yeah, I got this
He's he's a mr. Member and sink not one to wow
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That's fire. It's my sister
I love this show. Seriously. It's like a me
Appreciate I really
You know
That's it man. We appreciate you keeping it a b&c group
Again y'all back now coming to fucking comments. Don't
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Don't come in the comments on my yeah, Marty sister was right. No, don't do that
We appreciate you picking up me
All right. Thanks Lisa and we'll talk to you later
All right, yo
Yo, so that was Marty sister Lisa, man
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Thank you Lisa. Appreciate it. That was a class in there. That might that might be
I mean, what are the best? No, so so everybody's who called man. Y'all got some
Saying I got some comp man. I got some comp and we doing that survey do not name drop too much
All right. Yeah, ladies good looking
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So Marty, what did you see this week man? That was crazy. Uh, I saw the crazy
Well, I did see how
Uh, the cops tricked this girl into getting her getting her boyfriend arrested. What? Yeah
She said that the cops had a girl called said her boyfriend got her got got the girl pregnant
They were s.c.d. And he wasn't talking to her and calling her back and nothing like that. So she was like
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She went to confront them and talk to them. She like that. They start arguing
So she like I'm done. She walked out the door. You know when you girl walk out you follow bonder
Right. So when he followed behind her the cops like freeze going the ground and booked them
What? Yeah
It's exactly bro. This is a new generation crazy. I don't know if I'm like, that's crazy
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Only thing I seen how LeBron James took over the limit. Oh, yeah
Why you ain't talking about that?
I ain't saying that from LeBron James
He did
LeBron James
I guess I mean her today
It was and Steph Curry. Oh Steph crazy
Bro, we are going to miss them three bro. Are you going?
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Yeah, because the the list
That I heard from
Jeff T. You know parkas
Bro, that list doodle of all the superstars that's coming after
The ones that just want to go metal. Right. We might not even get a bronze. So who's it though? Is Anthony Edwards?
Now they think it was on that team
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Well, all right, so but the future is there there's no future superstars their future stars. It's not no
Like it's like no no and a superstar. They he's a superstar. He's a superstar
But but normally it's more than one
It's him
I'ma say the young boy from okc. Oh shade Canada. They from Canada don't talk to us
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Oh from us. So I gotta say we might got a job in the ramp
Yeah, but the things get back to his shit. Yeah, it will pose the benzion
Jan's ain't I got got going this lose his weight too though. Yeah, I mean
So we got some potential with just they got to get into the basketball sheet. Yeah, true
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Oh, did you did you see some own bottles killed them bitches got four goals?
That's it. No Richardson
Huh the track star. Oh, yeah
Yeah, bro, when she got that look to the side and she knew it was over
Where you at?
Like she was a boost mobile
Like oh no the other the other girl I can't remember her name, but did the hurdles broke the world record hurdles?
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Oh, no. Yeah, I don't know the name but like that's hurdles. He broke the world record hurdles, bro
Shout out to us. Say yeah, shout out to us man. I did your thing women basketball too unstoppable. Yo, y'all did your thing
Yeah, I mean, oh, so you didn't have more pressure on them the men's who didn't who went bronze last time
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Or the other or the women's who damn near went gold every single time. Who didn't have more pressure on them?
I gotta say the pressure was more on them
On the men only because if
I'm by what that goes
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Bro, yeah, they would uh, dog
dog
That's my man like
I wish
He was the type that really talks it like
What?
Yeah, I care from acting right fuck you. Yeah
Yeah, got all that with all my shoulder. You can't hold me
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All right, I'm doing this 20 plus years
20 plus years bro. Come on man. And that's what he's like 60
My son got drafted on the team with me
People hate that bro. People hate that bro and bought that gold medal home. He did
Come on, bro. You can't hate though, but people still gonna find it with hate though. They said they asked
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They said yeah the last team with the redeem team what you call this team. He said they're Avengers
The avengers
All right, but I was worried by that game the second game against Syria when they was down by like 12 points
Yeah, that's why I'm nervous
Stuff carry stuff. Oh my gosh stuff carry bro. Now. I see why people worry his fans
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It's the stuff to do that shit every day this throw that shit up saying he the best garden in the world
I can see that he got handle any issue. So like that's
Yeah, man, so all right, that's what you're saying. So, you know
Little white shit topic trust issues. I mean, hope y'all like it for me y'all like it man. That was I was so
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Hortene, man, right? Yeah, I mean so what you got with this music man because you're just this I hear my sister
Yeah, but I'm back on my music. But like I said the survey with the flip side
I
Krat
Was a free way. Oh, we're
All right, I feel like what you got this week for all right this week
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We're gonna do I'm gonna do the battle the bars first. All right. So
This is I'm picking duels. These people got multiple songs together
All right, so for me, I was gonna be yonkers versus Harlem. I'm gonna put dipset
Cam and jewel sent in an old boy. So there's a versus part two. Yeah
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Pretty much. So we got cam and jewels old boy
Going against kissing styles. We gonna make it
You know
For me, no, he's younger. I like that. Uh, oh boy, but I'm gonna say oh boy. What a nice song but
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So for me growing up
I I say oh boy better because it came out when I was growing up and really into the music thing
But I got older and really started listening to we gonna make it. I'm gonna say we gonna make it too
Like uh like cam and maestro. I'm not coming
Styles and kiss the way they like flow off each other. I don't know they write that shit together or do that shit separate
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But style said he don't even write so I don't even know
I don't think they write so you think this is go a feeling
I think one late
And then I want here and then he's gonna is
Or they might want to go together and just feel off each other for if they that's crazy
If they do because they know I never see how they did it. I never said it didn't either. I mean, so if there's a video out there
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Let us know
They've been doing this shit for years, right? So I'm like, oh, did you oh before I jump into the r&b zone? Did you see uh
The locks a tiny desk
No, oh, they got a tiny desk is the tiny desk is where artists go when they play the music
They do they song with a lot of band and shit like that. Oh, okay. Okay. The locks got one bro. That shit fire bro
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Tell me we gonna make it with the pianos and a lot of guitar and a lot of drums and shit. Yo that's on fire
And like and they got it they got a 30 year
It's a 30 or 25 year tour coming up
We might got go to that job to come to Philly bro. They do come to Philly
We definitely got to go to that job bro. Do come to Philly though and they've been together no beef. None of that shit
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That's how that's how we're gonna be bro. Yeah, of course, but if they dare with this agreement, we see that's how it's supposed to be though
We we supposed to know we supposed to see
They grown as nothing right and and they friends from like and I appreciate
What they bought to the culture exactly bro and to the hood
They prove that y'all can you get stick it out?
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Who you can stick it out no matter what?
Kiss and she nigga
Fuck y'all talk about the locks living off experience
Yeah
I forgot what the locks do
All right, so now I'm about to jump into the R&B jump
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Damn we missed it. What they came August 11th. Oh they did
Oh, they did
Damn
We missed that. Oh shit. That's crazy next time bro, but
But we by the jumping to the R&B jump bro
(41:38):
Give it time. All right. So this next song. All right. So I've touched every song
But this genre here. I will listen to it today
And like it's super disrespectful. The name of the song is called disrespectful
It's Trace songs got a song called disrespectful. Right. So
The chorus people must say you can call my phone at four in the morning. He talking is Trace songs featuring
(42:02):
Uh, Mila J. That's a geniaco sister. So they got some. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. They got some
But you he said you can call my phone at four in the morning
You can ride shotgun every time you're rolling
He said
He said he can take you out to a favorite diner. She even took me home so I could meet her mama
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They ain't disrespectful. I don't know what it is
That shit. Well
I'm like that's crazy
He's she's the girl. I think the girl first was worse than the than Trace first
She said she said my man find out I'm watching your draws
My man find out you paying my rent bro. That's disrespectful
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I can spit disrespectful bro
Let me go if I know some more disrespectful than that, let me know because I think that's the most disrespectful song I heard
Disrespectful
What's the more disrespectful I can't think of nothing more disrespectful than that
Yeah, that's yeah, that's a top that might be one of top five disrespectful
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Disrespectful jar. We're gonna we're gonna put that in a survey general. Oh, yeah, we're gonna pull that
So what you got for the lyrics man?
All right, so before we go
I mean, let me tell you that y'all know that's what song
You know you did wrong
Up in the club and you left your man home
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You couldn't even wait till we got to the bedroom
Well, I know I forgot the rest
(43:52):
Uh-huh
Oh, I got it now bring it back bring it back bring it back and you know
No edit you know you did wrong
Up in the club and you left your man home
You couldn't wait till we got to the bedroom
I know it ain't good, but these holes gonna do it. They want one one
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I know what that is
They gonna do it they want one one. I know
Who that is?
Yo, man listen man again, this is episode 14. We want to shout out
Lisa on the random call. Thank you Lisa. I appreciate you
Shout out to everybody that listen and shout out to my wife. Shout out to my kids. Shout out to Marty wife
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Happy early birthday. Every birthday wife. Love you. Yeah, I mean and this is episode 14
So always y'all know my saying by now
Say it when you leave the crib
Leave with common sense
Because they're trying to make it common not to have sense and I hollered and we out peace
Step in and put in something different
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So you're the only one
Cause I don't trust these bitches
I don't like all trust these bitches
They might catch me slipping
So you're the only one
How about
Trust issues
How about
Trust issues
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How about
Trust issues
How about
(00:58):
What's up bro?
Today we're gonna talk about
Trust issues
Insecurities
I'm trying to touch on everything
Oh shit
So trust issues
Friends, family, and personal relationship
(01:22):
Friends, family, and personal relationships
Yeah, with significant other and stuff like that
But before we get into it, bro, how was your week?
Oh man, my week was good
My week was good, man
I can't complain
I really can't complain
Coming out to my daughter leaving for school
Second year
You know what I mean?
Congratulations KK
So you know, man, we getting ready for that
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And that's it, man
I had a good week, man
I had a good week
Good week
My week been stressful at work
Yeah, if I mean you got two people in my job
Got suspended
For tasting wine
So we came from having eight people
Now we're down to six people
Got down
(02:05):
Yeah, so I mean it's a struggle
People who got to pick up extra work and do extra shit
That mean they need extra money
Yeah, for me, got people working six days now too
Yeah, they need to extra bread though
Yeah, but you know, and then my wife's birthday next week
Oh man, happy early birth day
(02:26):
Yeah, but you too, my wife and shit, love you baby
You know what I'm saying?
But let's jump right into this topic, bro
What's up with you?
All right, trust issues
All right, now are you currently dealing with trust issues
Right now today?
Yeah, yeah, I'm dealing with it, yeah
I'm dealing with it, that's shit crazy, man
But it come from, I think childhood, man
(02:50):
You think so?
Yeah, man, it come from what you've been through with your childhood
Right
What you seen in your childhood
Yeah
You know what I'm saying?
So, and then what you did
Oh yeah
You know what I'm saying?
That I had you thinking people doing snake shit to you
You know what I'm saying?
Because if you do it then you will swim other people doing it too
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So exact
You understand
I understand
Trust me, so yeah, man, that's shit crazy, man
Yeah, man
It had you thinking everybody on your ass
It's due too
You know what I'm saying?
It's crazy
More than having everybody doing snake shit to you
Yeah
Like everybody know this person's snaking you but you
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Oh yeah, that's the worst type when you don't know
Yeah, man, because everybody say yo, just bring it to the table
Right
I'm bringing it to the table
I know
They think it's better to be sneaky
You know what I'm saying?
So, you know
You speak into them all, fuck it up
Been through some shit and that shit real, man
(03:53):
But then you also could punish a person if they really genuinely fucks what you and love you
But you keep saying they even cheating or they backstabbing or they doing this
You could turn them against you
Yeah, because
They're really probably not doing this shit
(04:13):
Because if you used to it happen all the time
So say you used to somebody, people around you, all assholes, all jerks and shit like that
Nobody nice to you
And then one person coming in life and they like genuinely care about you
And you're not used to it
You know, why are you nice?
When you trying to get out of me?
Like what do you want from me and shit like that?
But understand, understand
That shit real, man
So, my question is
(04:35):
So what is the earliest, like the earliest signs of trust issues for you?
My pop not coming to get me when he said he was coming to fucking get me
Oh, yeah
You know what I'm saying?
Yeah
You know what I mean? I was your word
I trusted your word
(04:55):
Oh, yeah
You know what I mean?
A son out there Friday after I get off and work
Right
They come get you and your brothers
And you wait and then all the world ones been through that
Yeah
You know what I'm saying?
So when you wait, you wait, you wait
Right
Wait
Oh, yeah
You know what I'm saying?
Right
So it start right there
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You know what I mean?
So then you know
You're like, I don't trust, I don't fucking know what you mean
I don't trust nothing
Fuck you, you say dog
Exactly
You know what I'm saying?
And then you see people do crumb shit that a motherfucker put trust in
Oh, yeah
And then you're looking like, damn
I thought that was your homie, bro
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Yeah
Especially, I think especially if you grow up like around like the underworld
Like the drug dealers and shit like that
You see that a lot
Like for me growing up in the house I grew up in
Not even growing up in the house
The two years I told you about being on Aethan Street
Right
That shit like fucked me up for real
So Martin Lewis and the Trust issues came from my mom
(06:01):
Okay
It was my dad too
But I said my mom because of my mom work
Right
Like seeing my mom doing the stuff that she did
And she out like she wasn't
Because of the addiction
She wasn't like there
As a mom
Okay
And shit like that
Or like caretaking, shit like that
So watching it
Seeing like oh shit
(06:22):
I'm like oh man so like
Like how can you trust the main people
Who's called the Trust which is your parents
Fucking up
And this is trickle down to every other
Sense of the worst
You know what I'm saying, trust issues start from
From childhood bro
Right
Like real rap
And like I said you expand shit, see shit
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And it make it hard to trust motherfuckers man
It do bro
Cause then when you do
And then they do that crumb shit too
You got no more
I know I should not
Fucking do it man
Alright so what you think so
Is it do hurt more that you trust somebody
And they broke the trust
Or does it hurt more that
(07:05):
No is it hurt more that you
I'm sorry what I mean is are you more made
Of yourself or trusting them
Or mad at the person for breaking the trust
Mad at the person for breaking the trust
I gave you no reason to break it
True understandable
If I gave you a reason it would not
(07:25):
If I gave you a reason it would not
If I gave you a reason
Fuck you break it for
Like what you meant for it like
Yeah like if I
I don't tell you but I love them you feel me
Yeah I feel you
So if I told
A significant other
A friend
Family member
(07:45):
Yeah man
Alright for real
For real for real you feel me Zane
Right
So I trust that you should
For real for real
So do you give second chances
Somebody break your trust
Fuck no
Fuck no
I don't
I don't
I don't and that's
And I keep hearing that's bad
(08:07):
But bro you shouldn't have broke it bro
Yeah
You know what I'm saying
How can I trust you again
Yeah how are you gonna do it again
I feel you bro
You fucked it up
And people say
And people say trust a person
Who showed you who you who they are the first time
Right
And don't give them a second time they'll stab you in the back
Exactly
(08:28):
So I'm saying
It's crazy though like
Because if you really fucked with me and loved me
You wouldn't have did nothing or hurt me
True
And then look at Starfung when you young
Parents hurt you
Alright
You know what I'm saying
Right
But I think
I think trusting the parents and like trusting a friend is different though
(08:51):
Yeah
Because like you know your parents are you a kid like you if you get a beating
Oh I don't can't trust you no more because you beat me
But then it's still your parents though
But like when a friend like do some crumb shit a snake shit like
All right like growing up one of my homies
That we grew up with
Or I pay to him now but he stole my mom rain
(09:12):
From my from our house
What?
Yeah and we didn't know
He did it until I went to my other homies house the twins at no house and they found it
And I go yeah such and such had it
And we found it here I'm like whoa that's my mom's like
Yo
Yeah so like
See me and me and my nigga never did that
(09:33):
Right
We not stealing from my mom's
The rest of these dukes
We ain't never do that
My mans could leave me in a crib
I want to get the girls their sisters their moms their cousins their aunts
Nothing bro like
That's a different type of trust bro
Yeah
They can go to the store
(09:54):
They can make a run
And no now I ain't doing nothing
Right
I mean now is my nephew that's my little brother
That's my cousin
Whatever
You know what I mean?
Yeah
That's a real shit
Like I'm anybody that know me
Yeah
Yeah I'm the same way
I know niggas that
(10:14):
Really did crumb shit to the day one homies
They call me best friend
That's your best friend bro
They get mad when they get called out on it
Yeah
Bro you're crumb
See that
Before bro
They're fucking crumb
Yo alright I just had before
So when I worked in McDonald's right
Right
At these two bulls
(10:34):
They came in together
Talking about how they was cool since Kenny got in
Best friends all that shit
Alright
So I'm gonna say K and S
I ain't gonna say anything
So the boy K liked the girl that worked with us
So they was chilling together talking all the time right
And then so since S was his best friend
They was talking, chilling, talking about it
(10:55):
And they think I know S and they'll smash in the jaw
That K loved that light and shit like that
I'm like bro I thought that was your mans
Why would you do that if you knew he liked her?
It didn't come to find out K said that S did it
Three times before and he forgave them all three times
No I once he did it the first time man
If y'all ain't had that understand LAO
(11:17):
She for the team or this really ain't my girl
Cool
But if you know your man really like Shorty
Regardless of what her status is
Let him do him and learn on his own
Find out on your own
Right
I say the best if she was like a slide or something like that
(11:38):
You can tell her
Tell them yo bro you know be careful like that
Right
But don't just like smash and then get wonder why he mad at you bro
He trust you nigga
Trust my trustworthy bitch
They're crazy party they told him he told him everything too bro
I remember
I ain't I ain't even liking my niggas baby moms and wise pictures if they ain't in it
(12:02):
I'm standable yeah I feel you
Yeah I don't even think I'm following any of my niggas baby moms and girls and that's what I do is probably one
Yeah man I don't play that shit man
Yeah I don't do it
I don't know
I don't know that
It's certain stuff that you don't want you don't want to open that door
(12:25):
Yeah I don't want to see you know she on vacation on the beach you know
I don't want to see none
All right
That's my man pebbles
Yeah to me you look at her different and something like that this is
I feel you I feel you bro
You feel me so
Who get this
All right I got another all right all right is there is there a trust issue in your relationship
(12:48):
Like was there and how you get past it or
How you working with her
Because I'm gonna answer your two bro don't worry I got your own answer the same
Um it was but it was mainly me though man the shit that I was doing and shit man then
thinking someone else doing that shit so that's what I say man
(13:10):
It could be what you've been through and doing right and you're thinking someone else doing it too
Because of what you've seen in them streets
Or you've been around chicks that are
Be on the farm with their niggas or their husband
And got the song nigga right there
I just saw the video like that on the phone what they do
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Or whatever and suck it in and go off in the whip
And pause in the phone while I'm talking to a speaker
You know what I mean
This is bro this is this is
So that's what it is
But that don't mean every female do that right that don't mean every man do what niggas do right so yeah, man, so
(13:57):
You get through it by saying
Everybody not the same. Yeah
Yeah, man one thing I don't like like I
Dislike when people say yo all niggas act the same or all bitches are the same
No, they not yeah, they not I'm like no, that's just get a bad rep because
The ones that are out there doing whatever
(14:20):
Get them a bad name. Yeah, but if you hang with them, you're gonna look like you do the shit they do
Yeah, exactly. It's gonna be hard for a man to say
To pick you out that crowd right?
I saw I saw the video bull broke it down crazy. He said
Girls like girls and not holes hanging over holes
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It's like you see in a pack of lines and the one of the lines not gonna eat you
But are you gonna stand around and find out which one I'm gonna eat you?
Same same thing
The ladies the ladies dressing like holes and like the
The the regular citizens trying to be the thugs and shit like that. That's I just think these niggas got trusted shoes
(15:06):
Because these these women ain't waiting around no more
Yeah, they're going to get their own back
They got their own motion
Yeah, I mean they ain't waiting for no hand dogs
So the first thing that should occur nigga do is leave because she make more money than he
Right, you know I said, well or she got work late or whatever
(15:27):
And he thinking she's dipping off with a nigga, but she's really working
But yeah, it do be going down at the workplace
There's a lot of boo boo's and job husbands and wives
So I ain't gonna act like you can't not a cool word
My fuck is be acting like that shit is like not happening
(15:50):
You better go and you go have lunch
Which is check on on lunch time where you're nigga
Right. Oh, right. I didn't I'm all right. I didn't answer the question. So many ask the question
There you go
All right. So in the beginning of my relationship
I say no, I had no trust issues. No insecurities now that
I say about earlier this year. That's when a little bit start creeping up
(16:18):
It's so wild so wild now
It's this is like like I said a little stuff from
My childhood creeping up and shit like that. That's all that is
Okay, nothing. Yeah, why oh no, no no, no nothing more. No, no, no, no, no because nothing changed
So is you it doesn't mean yeah, this is thinking
(16:39):
Sunny world, yeah, social media, bro. Yeah social media too though social media, bro
That will fuck you up bro. Bro. I just I stay off it man thinking
Because first all right good
All right, so when I'm seeing a lot of
Females becoming that the niggas that even got girls or Mary. Mm-hmm like any pictures or
(17:06):
Common or whatever then you might see a shorty pit
Uh watch it they go this that what I would have kissed me big right I ain't no
You couldn't like a person picture that you follow
I do the purpose of social media if you slide in her DM. Yeah, that's different and doing dick messages and leaving comments too
(17:28):
Then that's that's yeah, I understand what she's coming from. All right, and then you trust in this nigga. You trust in this bitch
Yeah, I might be in the city videos help plan with a man. Yeah, I understand that
But I ain't always a problem if you like a shorty picture or you like the nigga picture and there ain't no
Flirtation shit with it. Yeah, I just like the picture. I'm not talking to you. I'm not even oh sure. That's a good pick
(17:53):
Nice pick from that. You're so insane
so
I guess I guess some
That's that that could be media. I do not trust in nobody. Yeah, that could be insecurity though, too
Yeah, a lot of niggas deal with that shit because these females is bossed up. Yeah, they are bossed up, bro
If you want to believe it at night
(18:14):
They're not waiting. All right
They're working more and harder than a man. That's not holding down a crib and take care of the family
Yeah, if I just do so now they're getting a good job in the back
I understand but that
Yeah, I feel you though, bro. Cause like if you want to
(18:38):
If you want to like do something you could do something but people just sit on social media
They're scrolling and looking and scrolling and looking and shit like that
Like if people these social media alone for six months
Can you not if you don't run a business or nothing
Can you not be on social media for six months? I don't think people can bro
(19:00):
I don't think people can bro and your mate picked a trust in you like yeah
I trust you kid do it. You could do it and then you fucking around going. It's the same shit every day
Yeah, the same shit everything and like people going there crying. They going there telling that whole story, bro. I don't
Knock them. Uh-huh because that's dumb right. I mean, I don't knock them, but I just can't do it. I can't do it
(19:25):
Never yeah, I mean I might get on there throw a rant
Right for nigga playing with me
I give him a couple days and I'll
Fuck that's you know, that's what we doing a little subtle message. Yeah, that's what we want to do
Because a lot of people talk through music. That's what I'm learning. Yeah, I learned this to you
You can't even like shit because you like I said you put an rb song or they're gonna think you stress
(19:47):
Right, they're gonna think you only get make on through it right they're gonna. Thank you to press. Oh, yeah
You put a shirt wrap up. Oh, we talking about oh, we beef
Oh, you got to go get my tips, but uh about the end of drill. Yeah, right
Not because I like the song right now because I came up in that ever
Right and the shit y'all talking about is bullshit, but that's a that's a scene that that's a sign of uh
(20:12):
Insecurity and trust issues too from another person because you thinking like I don't know you right?
So what makes you assume this song is talking about you or what makes you assume I'm talking about somebody else
I put a post up
put up a rap lyric
uh, no kiss, uh
On the way see my bitch typing on the way to college see my bitch
This might put or you got to a bitch in college niggas are fucking verse like
(20:38):
Yes
You saw these shit
You know, we got that segment coming up. What's up?
Who we calling? Oh, right on call bro. We calling this episode trust issues. Oh, I got some money
(21:05):
Oh, I got somebody good. I'm about the call. I got you. I got you
Yo, we whenever in the car
Hello, yo, this Lisa
Yes
Yo, what up? What up? It's now from we out the money. We want it with nine martyrs your little bro
Oh
Yeah, I mean so yeah, we looking for picking up and um today's topic is trust issues
(21:32):
Oh boy. That's a that's a tough one. Yeah, so we want to know if you're going through trust issues
Uh, if you don't have trust issues and how do you feel about people who have them?
To bring it to the people that don't have trust issues. Yeah. All right, so
I would say growing up. I didn't have trust issues. I think I was a little
(21:55):
Too trusting so I believe people took advantage of me, you know, because I just couldn't
Understand like what people were doing. I thought everybody was like nice and sweet like me
So when um, you know, people took advantage of me. I was like it really caught me off guard like every single time
Which is just crazy. Um, so but as I got older
(22:17):
I um started to understand that that wasn't like a reflection of me
It was more of a person and with the things they were dealing with and I noticed like
A lot of the times people would attach their own emotions to my actions and then, you know, try to give me
Try to imply that that's the way I felt because that's the way they made them feel so
(22:40):
Um, you know, I just decided that I'm not going to worry about that anywhere
I just feel what they want to feel think what they want to think
I don't really want to um, you know, I feel like it's unnecessary for me to start correcting adults
If you know by now and you ain't my problem, right?
(23:01):
You know, that's that's my biggest thing, but I was saying when I was younger man, I was like
A nutty people got over me all the time. Um, you know, but now that I got older and
I realized, you know
People just weird
It made it easier for me to like not worry about other people's feelings
(23:23):
but I think that's the biggest issue with trust because
We worry about hurting other people's feelings and doing everything to make
Everybody feel good and we kind of forget about ourselves. So
I just started trusting in myself more than anything and things just fell into place, you know, okay?
Okay. Hello, Lisa. This is your brother Marty
Oh, hello Marty
(23:45):
So so how long did it how long did it take you to like get past the whole like not caring about what other people think and stuff like that?
It took me a very long time. Actually, I would say I didn't
Really stop caring about people
caring about what people think until I like got laid off from my job like a couple years ago
(24:08):
I'm not gonna lie. I was there for 27 years and I got laid off and I'm like, wait
I was sitting there trying to be the best employee I could be and
You know, I still got let go. So it's like I stopped caring about everybody at that point. I'm like, it's all about me
Whoa, wait a minute. I don't know what we're in on. Wait, wait. You said you was there for what?
(24:29):
27 years, bro
and
They let you go
Yep, they're not there to say that. You did to say that, bro. I just say that bro. Yeah, exactly, man
They like these jobs don't be given enough. Fuck. That's what I'm saying. And I was like
This is deep filling name of the company. I give them a promotion, but
(24:53):
I was like superstar employee there if you ask me, but
But didn't it get a lazy
promotion
Yeah, once we don't know anything like there are people I trained and got promotions over me and all that so
But so I mean just think about that. So that was what three years ago. So I was like already
(25:15):
40 something
and uh, you know, so now it's just like I just
Worry about me, you know me and my family
So so you don't have no trust issues
um, I mean
I would just say
I don't think I have trust issues because like I'm married. I've been married for almost 21 years
(25:38):
There's no trust issues there like my kids
I mean, I get nervous like when they go out into the world like my oldest is 19
She's been driving for a while. So I don't trust other cars and streets, you know, right?
When they go to stores and you know, I just
people trying to take advantage of them and stuff like that like
(25:59):
But when it comes to like something internal like
I don't I don't think I have trust issues in that way people actually have to show me that
I shouldn't be asking what I'm like that and then I'll just leave them alone
But it's not something I carry with me over and over, you know, okay now. I'm at this point
It's like one time and I'm done like I see what you are
(26:21):
I try to you know
I think like, you know, I'm a person like almost I'm an observer, right?
So and that's another thing that people get wrong about me because if I walk into a room or from somewhere
I'm sitting there quiet. I'm just observing the right thing. I'm juggling, you know
It's like
(26:42):
Me too though, I can't throw me too. I get that all the time. All right
Lisa is it it's because we quiet people think that we better than them or
What's that? I am better
I think people do take my silence and it makes them it makes them nervous or it makes them uneasy, you know
(27:03):
So they kind of like assume I'm thinking something or whatever and I like I want everybody to win Marty, you know that like I share
Everything I know I'm sharing it. I'm sharing like
investment information, style of information and how to buy a house. That's sure any information I get I'm like
Giving it away like on the corner. So like, you know what I'm saying? So, like I'm I want everybody to win
(27:28):
I want everybody to be great and you know, if anything anybody need to know just come ask me
I'm not like I ain't talking to you in three books. I can be calling you now. Like that's not me
I'm welcome every phone call every hug every drop by all of that. So, you know, it's it's it's kind of tough, you know, because
People do assume they know things about you that they don't know because I'm still learning stuff about myself
(27:52):
Exactly
You know, but
All right, so
All for that what since you listen to us every week you're you're you're a real listener, you know, yeah
What can we do
different
To improve and what topics do you want us to touch on?
(28:15):
All right, so I would say
The number one thing so you guys y'all drop like what 8 30 on Thursday or something like that, right?
Right
I work from home on Friday. So I'm listening to y'all every Friday morning. Right and
So that's fire. I think what a cool thing y'all can do is like add like a survey to your social media like Friday's afternoons
(28:39):
Like what y'all think about the podcast?
You know, what you think about our guests or whatever. I think that's fire to get
People to be a little more interactive on your social media because I think I see y'all get like a lot of likes
Right, but I don't see a lot of comments, right? So but if you do a survey
They want to be like tempted to just click a button, which is easier than to write in a sentence, you know, okay?
(29:00):
So that's one thing
I do think that Nas though you didn't be name dropping too much
You didn't be name dropping too much
Need somebody keep it in world so all young I would I swear to God. I bet I see one comment
(29:25):
Of y'all talking about
Yeah, she white because I swear to God. I'm not gonna do that
I don't have 13 episodes to tell me this shit
Nobody said
It's like cool because y'all be going in the flow and he just go up into your own little world
(29:53):
The only reason why I suggest that though is because I see this podcast doing big things, right?
So it's like y'all going national. Yeah people all over the world. They don't know these people. They don't need to know that
So we like keep it high level
You know, I think that's that's the only reason why I say that
and um
I think another thing is like this is definitely for mardy. Oh lord
(30:16):
Oh lord start fact checking bro. You acting like
Trump
Hold on let me talk let me say something
What it's not my job to fetch it is my job to talk and how you're jowling
It's just jowling fetch it because my job just to put out there put the information out there and you look it up
(30:39):
All right, I got you. I'm gonna start fetch it. I got you. Yeah, like even if like
fact check doing the show pull out the phone, you know, you got like a
What seven eight hundred dollars computer in your pocket?
You know
And if not like the next week start off like
Yeah, next week I said this right but that was wrong because you don't want to lose credibility
Yeah, y'all chilling credibility. Sorry. Right, but you know, I'm saying y'all y'all chilling y'all doing great
(31:04):
Every week did y'all really consistent like y'all staying true to yourself?
um, you know all all the
Great meetings of a podcast y'all got a down pat, you know, you're engaging in your social media is always popping
um
You know, y'all definitely got your personality showing I do like when y'all need to um talk about the song at the end
(31:27):
That's like
Why do you think he was the rmb?
I am mr. Rmb
112
Missing member. I am listen. Yeah, I got this
He's he's a mr. Member and sink not one to wow
(31:51):
That's fire. It's my sister
I love this show. Seriously. It's like a me
Appreciate I really
You know
That's it man. We appreciate you keeping it a b&c group
Again y'all back now coming to fucking comments. Don't
(32:12):
Don't come in the comments on my yeah, Marty sister was right. No, don't do that
We appreciate you picking up me
All right. Thanks Lisa and we'll talk to you later
All right, yo
Yo, so that was Marty sister Lisa, man
(32:33):
Thank you Lisa. Appreciate it. That was a class in there. That might that might be
I mean, what are the best? No, so so everybody's who called man. Y'all got some
Saying I got some comp man. I got some comp and we doing that survey do not name drop too much
All right. Yeah, ladies good looking
(32:53):
So Marty, what did you see this week man? That was crazy. Uh, I saw the crazy
Well, I did see how
Uh, the cops tricked this girl into getting her getting her boyfriend arrested. What? Yeah
She said that the cops had a girl called said her boyfriend got her got got the girl pregnant
They were s.c.d. And he wasn't talking to her and calling her back and nothing like that. So she was like
(33:17):
She went to confront them and talk to them. She like that. They start arguing
So she like I'm done. She walked out the door. You know when you girl walk out you follow bonder
Right. So when he followed behind her the cops like freeze going the ground and booked them
What? Yeah
It's exactly bro. This is a new generation crazy. I don't know if I'm like, that's crazy
(33:38):
Only thing I seen how LeBron James took over the limit. Oh, yeah
Why you ain't talking about that?
I ain't saying that from LeBron James
He did
LeBron James
I guess I mean her today
It was and Steph Curry. Oh Steph crazy
Bro, we are going to miss them three bro. Are you going?
(33:59):
Yeah, because the the list
That I heard from
Jeff T. You know parkas
Bro, that list doodle of all the superstars that's coming after
The ones that just want to go metal. Right. We might not even get a bronze. So who's it though? Is Anthony Edwards?
Now they think it was on that team
(34:23):
Well, all right, so but the future is there there's no future superstars their future stars. It's not no
Like it's like no no and a superstar. They he's a superstar. He's a superstar
But but normally it's more than one
It's him
I'ma say the young boy from okc. Oh shade Canada. They from Canada don't talk to us
(34:48):
Oh from us. So I gotta say we might got a job in the ramp
Yeah, but the things get back to his shit. Yeah, it will pose the benzion
Jan's ain't I got got going this lose his weight too though. Yeah, I mean
So we got some potential with just they got to get into the basketball sheet. Yeah, true
(35:09):
Oh, did you did you see some own bottles killed them bitches got four goals?
That's it. No Richardson
Huh the track star. Oh, yeah
Yeah, bro, when she got that look to the side and she knew it was over
Where you at?
Like she was a boost mobile
Like oh no the other the other girl I can't remember her name, but did the hurdles broke the world record hurdles?
(35:34):
Oh, no. Yeah, I don't know the name but like that's hurdles. He broke the world record hurdles, bro
Shout out to us. Say yeah, shout out to us man. I did your thing women basketball too unstoppable. Yo, y'all did your thing
Yeah, I mean, oh, so you didn't have more pressure on them the men's who didn't who went bronze last time
(35:55):
Or the other or the women's who damn near went gold every single time. Who didn't have more pressure on them?
I gotta say the pressure was more on them
On the men only because if
I'm by what that goes
(36:21):
Bro, yeah, they would uh, dog
dog
That's my man like
I wish
He was the type that really talks it like
What?
Yeah, I care from acting right fuck you. Yeah
Yeah, got all that with all my shoulder. You can't hold me
(36:42):
All right, I'm doing this 20 plus years
20 plus years bro. Come on man. And that's what he's like 60
My son got drafted on the team with me
People hate that bro. People hate that bro and bought that gold medal home. He did
Come on, bro. You can't hate though, but people still gonna find it with hate though. They said they asked
(37:03):
They said yeah the last team with the redeem team what you call this team. He said they're Avengers
The avengers
All right, but I was worried by that game the second game against Syria when they was down by like 12 points
Yeah, that's why I'm nervous
Stuff carry stuff. Oh my gosh stuff carry bro. Now. I see why people worry his fans
(37:25):
It's the stuff to do that shit every day this throw that shit up saying he the best garden in the world
I can see that he got handle any issue. So like that's
Yeah, man, so all right, that's what you're saying. So, you know
Little white shit topic trust issues. I mean, hope y'all like it for me y'all like it man. That was I was so
(37:48):
Hortene, man, right? Yeah, I mean so what you got with this music man because you're just this I hear my sister
Yeah, but I'm back on my music. But like I said the survey with the flip side
I
Krat
Was a free way. Oh, we're
All right, I feel like what you got this week for all right this week
(38:13):
We're gonna do I'm gonna do the battle the bars first. All right. So
This is I'm picking duels. These people got multiple songs together
All right, so for me, I was gonna be yonkers versus Harlem. I'm gonna put dipset
Cam and jewel sent in an old boy. So there's a versus part two. Yeah
(38:34):
Pretty much. So we got cam and jewels old boy
Going against kissing styles. We gonna make it
You know
For me, no, he's younger. I like that. Uh, oh boy, but I'm gonna say oh boy. What a nice song but
(39:02):
So for me growing up
I I say oh boy better because it came out when I was growing up and really into the music thing
But I got older and really started listening to we gonna make it. I'm gonna say we gonna make it too
Like uh like cam and maestro. I'm not coming
Styles and kiss the way they like flow off each other. I don't know they write that shit together or do that shit separate
(39:24):
But style said he don't even write so I don't even know
I don't think they write so you think this is go a feeling
I think one late
And then I want here and then he's gonna is
Or they might want to go together and just feel off each other for if they that's crazy
If they do because they know I never see how they did it. I never said it didn't either. I mean, so if there's a video out there
(39:48):
Let us know
They've been doing this shit for years, right? So I'm like, oh, did you oh before I jump into the r&b zone? Did you see uh
The locks a tiny desk
No, oh, they got a tiny desk is the tiny desk is where artists go when they play the music
They do they song with a lot of band and shit like that. Oh, okay. Okay. The locks got one bro. That shit fire bro
(40:12):
Tell me we gonna make it with the pianos and a lot of guitar and a lot of drums and shit. Yo that's on fire
And like and they got it they got a 30 year
It's a 30 or 25 year tour coming up
We might got go to that job to come to Philly bro. They do come to Philly
We definitely got to go to that job bro. Do come to Philly though and they've been together no beef. None of that shit
(40:36):
That's how that's how we're gonna be bro. Yeah, of course, but if they dare with this agreement, we see that's how it's supposed to be though
We we supposed to know we supposed to see
They grown as nothing right and and they friends from like and I appreciate
What they bought to the culture exactly bro and to the hood
They prove that y'all can you get stick it out?
(40:57):
Who you can stick it out no matter what?
Kiss and she nigga
Fuck y'all talk about the locks living off experience
Yeah
I forgot what the locks do
All right, so now I'm about to jump into the R&B jump
(41:17):
Damn we missed it. What they came August 11th. Oh they did
Oh, they did
Damn
We missed that. Oh shit. That's crazy next time bro, but
But we by the jumping to the R&B jump bro
(41:38):
Give it time. All right. So this next song. All right. So I've touched every song
But this genre here. I will listen to it today
And like it's super disrespectful. The name of the song is called disrespectful
It's Trace songs got a song called disrespectful. Right. So
The chorus people must say you can call my phone at four in the morning. He talking is Trace songs featuring
(42:02):
Uh, Mila J. That's a geniaco sister. So they got some. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. They got some
But you he said you can call my phone at four in the morning
You can ride shotgun every time you're rolling
He said
He said he can take you out to a favorite diner. She even took me home so I could meet her mama
(42:23):
They ain't disrespectful. I don't know what it is
That shit. Well
I'm like that's crazy
He's she's the girl. I think the girl first was worse than the than Trace first
She said she said my man find out I'm watching your draws
My man find out you paying my rent bro. That's disrespectful
(42:43):
I can spit disrespectful bro
Let me go if I know some more disrespectful than that, let me know because I think that's the most disrespectful song I heard
Disrespectful
What's the more disrespectful I can't think of nothing more disrespectful than that
Yeah, that's yeah, that's a top that might be one of top five disrespectful
(43:07):
Disrespectful jar. We're gonna we're gonna put that in a survey general. Oh, yeah, we're gonna pull that
So what you got for the lyrics man?
All right, so before we go
I mean, let me tell you that y'all know that's what song
You know you did wrong
Up in the club and you left your man home
(43:30):
You couldn't even wait till we got to the bedroom
Well, I know I forgot the rest
(43:52):
Uh-huh
Oh, I got it now bring it back bring it back bring it back and you know
No edit you know you did wrong
Up in the club and you left your man home
You couldn't wait till we got to the bedroom
I know it ain't good, but these holes gonna do it. They want one one
(44:15):
I know what that is
They gonna do it they want one one. I know
Who that is?
Yo, man listen man again, this is episode 14. We want to shout out
Lisa on the random call. Thank you Lisa. I appreciate you
Shout out to everybody that listen and shout out to my wife. Shout out to my kids. Shout out to Marty wife
(44:40):
Happy early birthday. Every birthday wife. Love you. Yeah, I mean and this is episode 14
So always y'all know my saying by now
Say it when you leave the crib
Leave with common sense
Because they're trying to make it common not to have sense and I hollered and we out peace
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