We Out Da Mud Ep17: Peer Pressure

We Out Da Mud episode 17 Peer Pressure.

Episode Transcript

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Yeah, what up? What up? What up? What up? I already know who this is.
Now from we out the mud. I'm chillin' with my bro.
Yo, what up people who's Marty from we out the mud? How y'all doing out there?
Yeah, I mean, we on episode, you know, 17.
Big 17.
Hope y'all enjoy episode 16, you know what I mean?
Yeah.
Got the feelings, you feel me?

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Yeah, I mean, so, you know, we on episode 17,
some of my bro Marty, some of all that Marty do his little, you know, you know what Marty do,
you should know by now, we on episode 17, you should know what your bro Marty do.
Exactly.
Let's get it.
I got you. So people, first, when we start, like we say every week, we want to keep on saying it every

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week. Thank you so much for listening, subscribing, liking, reposting. If you're first time listening,
thank you. If you continue with us and they're thank you. Thank you for giving us a time,
a chance and because y'all fuck with us, make it when the fuck we try to work.
Bullshit. Everybody that reposts like he said, that show love, that's what a Snapchat, Facebook,

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Instagram. Appreciate y'all. We're right, man. Like we said, we started out the mud.
You know what I mean? We out the mud.
We here, you know what I mean? Some stuff, bro.
All right. So this week, we're going to talk about prayer pressure.
So we're going to try to touch on everything. Prayer pressure, your family,

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prayer pressure, your friends, prayer pressure, all workers, prayer pressure, like school and
all the expectations. Social media. Oh, definitely social media, prayer pressure.
Music. Yeah. True. All that. But before we start, bro, how was your week?
Got to keep it a being with my folks. It was rough, bro. I ain't gonna lie, bro. Then this week

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was ass. Yeah, bro. Like, I really understand the meaning of her people, her people.
Yeah, I mean, I will, man.
I know it was rough, bro. Said a lot of things to certain people.

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There's a lot. I'm gonna tell y'all this, dawg. Death will have you changed, bro. You don't know
who the fuck you is. You don't know what the fuck going on. You lashing out. You don't know why.
And sometimes people gonna get tired of that. Sorry, bro. How many sorries do you get?
Yeah, true. I mean, so it was a rough week, seven months. My mom wasn't here.

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You know what I'm saying? So, yeah, man. I'm gonna get better, though, but yeah, I ain't gonna lie to
the people. I ain't gonna lie to myself. It was rough, bro. Rough.
All right, bro. I feel you. My week, it wasn't as rough because, you know, the second week of school,
you know what I'm saying? Everybody, we got a schedule down pack. Then we got a week of schedule

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down pack that way. People not late to work or late to school and shit like that, bro. It was a
struggle, man. How is it, bro? Like, I don't know. I keep saying this, bro. Like, how is it, bro?
Like, getting up, getting them dress, can't find a shoe, missing book bags, books.

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Oh, the thing is for me, they want to eat right before we leave.
Oh, why don't they eat before we leave? You about to leave, my son come on and say,
yo, I'm gonna pop tart. Oh, yeah, yeah, that's the gunter. I'm like, bro, come on. I'm a bro that
has been doing that. I know, but like, not before you about to leave the crib. You have that for 30 minutes.

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Get the pop tart. Yeah. It's a genre, bro, but understand. But besides that, though,
it's cool, though. For me, once you get into the routine, it's cool. Except for some days,
over sleep, wake up late. The worst is when I'm off. And I still got to get up. Get up.
That's the worst thing. But other than that, it's cool, bro.

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That's for sure. You don't miss it? No. No. No, I didn't know. Because, like I said, the wife was,
I ain't gonna hold you. Holding it down, man. With the school shit, the homework and all that. Like
I said, the dad really helped with homework projects and all that, bro. We barely go to the parent

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teacher conference. As soon as you get there, the teacher start talking straight to the mom.
They don't pay the pop no mind. Exactly. You know what I'm saying? That's the single
paying pop. But other than that, I don't miss that shit. I don't miss staples. I don't miss Target.
I don't miss the uniform store. I don't miss tuition. None of that. I don't miss her getting sick.

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And then the whole house getting sick from them germs. None of that. Soon when they kiss our school,
all of them get sick from them snotty ass noses. Oh, yeah, especially you got a young kid too.
Yeah, man. I ain't doing that. But yeah, man, I don't miss it. I don't fuck with it. I'm keeping it real.
I'm a baby girl and my son ain't in school no more, but yeah, I got a couple more years of that,

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bro. But we're going to jump into episode. All right, bro.
Man, peer pressure.
Peer pressure. God. So we want to start with, let's start with family.
All right, well.
All right. So for you, was there any pressure put on you from your family?
At any time?

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Let me see. No, no, not really. I mean, it just wanted you to do good in school and all that.
Right.
But that wasn't really no pressure.
Oh, I got one, bro.
I'm trying to think on the arms.
Pressure.
I think the only pressure was graduating out of high school. I didn't want you to,

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you know what I'm saying? You better graduate. But then you kind of found out down here without
the promise.
Yeah, a lot of them don't got the promise.
I don't fuck, man. Hold the fuck up, yo. You bitch them on and you act mean.
About getting up, being not being late, don't hook you and cut.

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Right.
Don't disrespect the teachers.
You know, there are no fucking diploma.
Because they want you to be better than them. That's the goal, man.
Yeah, be better than me.
How? What? How? You can't even give me that speech. You ain't doing shit.
I don't know, bro.
This is the goal, bro. That's the goal. Yeah, do better than me.

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You know what I'm saying? So that's the only thing I guess was prayer pressure.
Oh, I got one, bro. What about the pressure of being an older brother?
I liked it that pressure.
You did?
You know, I did that pressure.
Yeah, I took that home because it was like, yeah, I got a pentagon.

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Yeah. Make sure nobody, you know, fuck them up and all that.
But then they go out to learn they self though, you know what I mean?
Certain shit. But yeah, being a big brother was a shit.
I mean, and even being a big brother, you tend to fuck up being a big brother.

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Of course.
You know what I'm saying? Because you so worried about yourself,
you forget you was younger siblings, you know what I'm saying?
So yeah, man.
Certain times, man, you like, god damn, if you could do it again, you would.
But you know, yeah, that pressure of being a big brother.

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Yeah, I took that shit off.
Sometimes I didn't want to do the shit.
Walking with them at the school.
Yeah.
Yeah, I mean, and all that.
Because you want to do your own thing and say, well, you don't want them seeing certain
shit you know.
True.
You know what I'm saying?
True.
But yeah, I like it though, because I know you fuck my little brothers no matter what.

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I'm coming.
I like that.
I like that at that time or now.
They should know if anything happened.
They still get the pin on the nigga.
You feel what I'm saying?
So yeah, I like that shit.
All right.
So what about the pressure you put on yourself though?
On me?
On yourself.
Myself?
Yeah.
I hate it.
You hate it?
Yeah, I do.
I put a lot of pressure on my damn stuff, man.

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Good and bad.
You know what I mean?
So is it more fatherhood pressure or more husband pressure?
It's life.
Life pressure?
Life.
It's everything, bro.
Life.
Being a husband, being a father, being a friend.
Right.
Yeah, I just told one thing I just told my wife that like, sometimes you get tired of like,

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like being that.
You gotta be that aggressive motherfucker 24 seven.
Because if not, motherfucker, I get to play with you.
Yeah.
But some people don't see your growth evil.
Right.
You know what I'm saying?
I'm not the same motherfucker that was 15, 10 years ago.
Right.
I mean, but some people only see that person.

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Yeah.
Oh, yeah, the prayer pressure of being a pop or parent.
I think that's crazy.
I think that's the most pressure.
Yeah.
Because you gotta, it's like you can't fail.
Like some kids think they parents rich as shit.
Not knowing they parents fucked up for a while.
Oh my God, bro.
They parents fucked up for a while.

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You're looking at this shit on commercials.
Yeah.
You have, you've seen other friends know they parents faking it, so they make it.
So yeah, they go to Amazon.
They get, they got paypal.
Yeah.
After pay.
Yeah.
Yeah.
I mean, you ain't gonna tell me all nine niggas bought them Gucci's.

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Straight up cash.
Truly run sneakers.
Oh shit, they do that.
They do do that.
Fuck you that feeling.
Oh shit.
I'm being up on prayer pressure with that.
Like you said, with being a husband.
Yeah.
That's a lot too.
I'm gonna say I ain't gonna blame it on the age.

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I think that's an excuse.
But like when people say, well, we were young and we ain't know.
No, that's an excuse.
I think no matter what or some real shit, bro, you gotta, you just gotta buckle and just

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be the man and be the sensitive person in a relationship.
I see that.
It's no more being a dominant man.
It's like the females don't like that shit.
Not all females like females like the soft niggas.
I don't think it's soft.

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I think, I think.
I think soft.
What's, what's, what's getting in the way for soft?
I can't think of it.
Cotton balls.
I can't think of it.
That's why I say soft.
I said that word for soft.
I don't, I don't know nothing.
I think, I'm saying what you're saying.
I'm telling you, I'm saying what you're saying, right?
But I think, I don't think they want you to be soft.

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I think they want you to open up and talk more about your feelings.
But us as men see that as being weak, bro, because why am I telling you about my feelings?
My feelings don't matter right now.
I gotta make sure nobody breaking this fucking house.
No, right.
Right.
I don't know that I get down no time to change.

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It's not 82.
It's not 92.
Yeah.
It's not 2002.
It's 2024.
Bro, you've been in like 30 years.
That's fucking crazy.
That's fucking crazy.
So, I don't know man, that, that, if you got certain people or social media

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dictate on how your relationships should be ran or your household should be ran, you lost.
Right.
And you gotta stop being stubborn and heart-headed when you're made, which is your wife,
want to have them conversations too, talking.
You know what I mean?

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Having them conversations talking and shit.
You know what I mean?
But fuck all that.
What?
Prayer pressure man, when y'all together, you and your girl are something, a family,
y'all diggy and so on.
When y'all don't get married, just because we got a baby on the way.
Fuck out of here, bro.
Bro, I was about to talk about that too.
You want to be a thing about your wife, not saying that the person you're going to marry,

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your daughter or your niece or your cousin or goddamn, like,
that's a lot of pressure you put on a young man.
Right, bro.
Y'all understand?
I can speak on that from experience.
Like, before me and my wife got married, we already had two kids.
And like everybody from her side and my side.
So when is the wedding date?

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When is the date when y'all going to get married?
Like, kept on hearing that.
Man, I want to ask you this, not to cut you off.
Go ahead.
The ones that was asked you this, right?
Was they married?
I say like 20%-
They ain't long, they ain't long.
No, like 20% of people was married.
It wasn't a lot of them.
20% out of 100%?

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Yes, some of them.
They don't matter.
They don't matter?
They don't matter.
They don't matter.
That the one, boy?
I mean, man, now, no, whoa, whoa, wait, wait.
I don't want to say.
Leave that in.
Not taking that out on you.
I don't want to say, like, y'all don't matter.
I'm saying the percentage don't matter.
Yeah, of course.
Like 20% like what the hell?

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Yeah.
Like, oh fuck, that's what I'm saying.
Like if you not married or you ain't in a relationship,
you should have been your mom.
Right.
I think you should just listen to the person who's going through it.
How you going to tell somebody about that situation
and you never been in that situation?
Yeah, true.

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But-
I mean, none of your homies that's not married
should be able to tell you about marriage.
Okay, tell me, should have been married, bro.
Same thing with the female.
Yeah.
If they now married, how can they go on off a regular relationship?
Yeah.
Yeah, they might say, oh, it's the same thing as paperwork.
Oh, my mom is way, way deeper than-

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But I wasn't paying pressure to marry them though.
I wanted to do that show.
Oh, you wasn't?
You didn't pay pressure with that?
No, I wanted to marry her too.
I just had the funds.
That's why.
That's what's for me.
I ain't had the money right.
So what's the time to do that?
And so them saying that, that was a lot of pressure.
Yeah, they had the funds.
They had the funds that everybody asked them to do.
That's like me with the fucking commercial I said I hate.

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Which one?
The Cays commercial.
Oh, yeah, it's-
I'm not gonna fucking enjoy it.
That's like, that's about a pay and pressure too.
Fuck that, dumbass commercial.
That's what kids do, dance with Cays.
Oh, yeah.
They hate that fucking commercial.
Oh, they- every season is wet and season with Cays, bro.
Yeah, man, fuck that, man.
All right, so let me see.

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For me, pay and pressure.
Yeah.
As a kid, it wasn't really much, pay and pressure.
I started feeling it more like the pressure you put on yourself.
Right, right.
Like, all right, shit.
I'm 18 now.
I'm a senior.
I got to graduate.
But what I'm gonna do at the school, am I going to college?

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Am I just going to work?
See, your 18 was different from my era.
Yeah, it was.
I'm gonna tell you what I'm going to do.
Like, that's the thing you think about.
And then you see like, some of your friends
going off to college.
And some people just going, shake the work.
And then like, you trying to find your way and balance- balance them both out.
Right, right, right, right.

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So what makes your 18 different from ours?
Because like, see how you said 18, graduate, you got to go to college,
just at the third.
Our 18 was, graduate, we got to get the fuck out the house.
We got to move.
Oh, yeah.
See how the different prayer pressure-
Yeah, true.
You know what I'm saying?
Yeah.
It wasn't really, you know what I mean?

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You had some so-called thugs.
Yeah.
I was like, boy.
Like that?
So-called gangsters.
Ooh, what's up?
You know what I mean?
I was like, how did it was gangsters and they was in college?
You know how, there's a lot of these gangsters that was in college, man.

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When you got time to be a gangster, what you was fighting your books?
Oh, yeah, true.
What you was fighting your eyelids to stay wilder, wilder, while you were studying?
Bro, you got to have a certain GPA to even stay in college.
So-
You know what I'm saying?
Yeah.
So the, y'all, y'all prayer pressure was like, all we heard was 18, you got to go.

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18, you going to get the fuck out, you got to move out.
Not just my house, no, a lot of household, you heard that.
Right.
When you turn 18, you got to get the fuck out of there.
I never understood that, though.
You know what I'm saying?
We had this conversation over the phone, but not on the podcast before.
But I never understood that, y'all.
How you going to tell somebody 18, you got to get out of my house?

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Fresh out of high school, a lot, and like, even though we said a lot of them grew up,
like helping a single mom out and stuff like that.
But, bro, I don't even got a job yet.
Like, you want me to find an apartment and pay bills at 18?
But, but, but think about the end.
Let's look at it. I ain't calling us animals, but so people are animals.

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Some people are animals.
But think about the animals and the wildlife.
They let their young go early.
They don't give a fuck how little they are or how tiny they legs are trying to keep up with the pack.
Once you have that age to go, the moms let you go, the pups let you go.

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Yeah.
Birds old.
The birds will kick a big bro.
18 is a good number to get out that nest, if you're really thinking about it.
Because if you go to college for real, for real, that's the way of really kicking you the fuck out.
Yeah.
You know what I mean?
Yeah.
Sounds like I can help you out.
You got higher education, but you know what I mean?
Everybody, yeah, 18. I look at it now, and I'm like, damn, I don't think these kids could do it.

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Like, being 18, it's first of all, it's a different time.
Yeah.
Second of all, it's more expensive.
Oh, very more expensive.
Very expensive.
So they're going to have roommates.
Definitely, oh yeah, true.
Yeah, man.
These kids that they deal with a lot of parapreshing, they got social media.

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Oh yeah, we did.
We got to live up to the social media shit like that.
Going there, see regular people, everybody got drawings on the Gucci.
So, parapreshing, we didn't do shit.
I ain't get parapreshing.
I ain't nobody could parapreshing me do.
Nothing I ain't want to do.
A word?
Yeah, I ain't no father.
You ain't making me do anything I don't want to do.

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Right.
Me, I, I don't do nothing I don't want to do.
I first thing we do.
But like if family functions and shit like that, when people try to give me the ticket shot and shit, I do that.
Even though I don't like drinking.
But I do that.
Prayer pressure take over.
But that's the only time though.
Everything else now.

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All right, look, say that if you don't do it, you don't do it.
I don't do it.
Majority times I don't do it.
Majority times I don't do it.
You folded your hair.
I did.
I didn't fold the prayer pressure.
Listen, y'all, like, no, I know a lot of y'all deal with prayer pressure.
And shit's for real though, like, especially growing up in a hood or just growing up in a city.

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Right.
Even in suburbs or whatever you have in.
Just growing up here around other people that do shit like that.
But no, I ain't prayer pressure anywhere in the bottom.
I ain't, I ain't.
Oh, oh, let's go.
I got it.
Sun is popping in my head, bro.
All right, so did you find me prayer pressure to lose you a genie?
No, no.

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I know a lot about that shit.
No, no, no.
No prayer pressure.
Y'all may be because one of my homies had a young and early.
So you'll hear the, like, you'll hear the rumor like, damn, when you gonna have one?
Bro, I'm like 17, 16, think I'm having no fucking baby?
Wait, they said that to you?
Yeah, like a lot more.

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Listen, and back in the day, in the 90s and shit, early 2000s, a lot of females was going to run away.
And certain niggas that make a baby with it.
You know what I mean?
That was a thing.
That was a thing.
Females really come up to certain niggas.

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You should have my baby.
Come on.
Like what?
Prayer pressure.
You're like, no, I'm cool.
Like just because my man's got kids, I don't want no kids yet.
I did not know that.
I did not know that.
Yeah, for real, bro.
That's crazy, bro.

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For real, man.
It's just weird, man.
And then if you, and with me, if a female kept trying to pressure her kuchi on me,
I thought she had something.
Like the fuck you gonna give me your ass for so bad?
Like what you got?
She got the labs or something.
She got the labs or something.
She got the labs or something.

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She got past that shit around.
Yeah, fuck out there and show me.
You like this shit, that kid.
All right.
What about certain work, like going to work or staying as a job or quitting a job?
Have you been in pressure by that?
I won't call it pressure.
I'll call it just manning up.
Like some jobs you gotta stay because of the family situations too.

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Like, you know what I mean?
You can't, basically saying income can't fall on one pocket.
Yeah.
You know what I'm saying?
Even if it do, you gotta get up on your shit, you know what I'm saying?
And stop acting like it don't happen.

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You got what I'm saying?
Yeah.
A lot of people is gone.
This world when I'm not involved is cool with lying.
And fraud, that's also who media is.
She's from me, bro.
Bro, it's nothing wrong.
Everybody's felt the hard times.
Of course.
You know what I'm saying?

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And I don't like the pressure you're doing something you don't want to do.
That's pretty much what this whole episode is about, bro.
Yeah, it don't, man.
If it's something you don't want to do, don't do it.
If you don't want to lose your gender, don't do it.
Yeah, no means no.
You don't want to talk to them about shit.
Exactly. If you're not a street dude, don't be a street.
Yeah, stop the violent and increase the peace.
Exactly. If you get in school but you don't want to go to college, don't go to college.

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Yeah, don't let nobody crush you again and doing nothing you want because at the end of the day, you gotta deal with that shit.
Exactly.
You know what I'm saying?
But yeah, ain't nobody gonna crush me. You shit.
You know I got pressure doing nothing.
I'm trying to think, bro.
You know, you know, smoking weed was my choice.

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So, does somebody introduce you to you?
Yeah, I ain't, yeah, my nigga's dead.
Oh, I know.
Yeah, I know.
I ain't got to be high as shit.
I ain't got to be free, man.
You never look back.
No, bro.
How was that story? I gotta tell it. I gotta hear that, John.

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It was a spot over the bridge. I ain't gonna, you know what I'm saying?
It was a spot over the bridge where we used to call it a red house or whatever.
Husky ass, dongs and doves.
I'm like an 11th grade, bro.
I told my man, I'm like, yo, roll it up.
Sharon Rose, that shit up. We went back.
We go to more than a park called More than a shit.

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More than a shit.
Right.
Smoke that shit, bro. I just started laughing.
I don't know.
I'm just laughing. So they like, don't chill.
Now you can get this court, don't chill.
They knew my mom ain't playing this shit.
They knew she ain't playing.
Now you can get this court, bro.
I'm laughing at every fucking thing.
But it wasn't prayer pressure.

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It was something I wanted to do.
But I was the one before saying, I don't think it's dumb as shit.
I swear to the weak, fucking dumb as shit.
I'm serious one.
Bro.
Also, you're like Dr. J wasn't.
And now you're a big crime drinker.
I'm a crime drinker.
Bro, I go to the crib.
My mom had chicken from the night before
in the refrigerator.

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Bro, I opened the refrigerator.
Fuck them drumsticks up.
Boom, boom, boom.
I ain't warm them up with nothing.
That's how I got caught.
I knew.
Because you eating cold fucking chicken.
Fresh food coming outside.
If you'd have warmed them up, you'd have been good.
Goes to the store.
Corner store on Taney Street.

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Grabped.
Peanut shoes. A grape soda.
Fuck that shit up, bro.
That shit was the best combination in the world.
So now, since you asked me that,
I know why people still be getting high on smoking.
Why?
They chasing that first high.
I got you, bro.
First fucking feeling.
A lot of people, not all,

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be stuck in that same age they
was when they first started smoking.
Thinking about it.
They thinking about it.
Not all, but some people
when they started smoking at 18,
they met Tony 18.
They might be 44.
Mmm.
Okay.
That makes sense.

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That makes sense now.
Random call, you know, that's our shit
This random car is my son
So about the column see me pick up
Yo, yo, yo, yo, what up, what up son?

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What's happening? Yeah, you want you want to you want to podcast you want to we out the mud with your pot and money young mom
For those who don't know this my son, Chris, you know

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You know me
I'll ask you to grab college grad
I
Work hard get on my nerves sometimes
I mean so
We've got something for you though son we got today's topic is pen pressure, right?

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Yeah
I mean we go Marty go ask you some questions
All right, and you got an incident Jones
Yo, Chris can you hear me?
Yeah, all right, so growing up did you feel any pressure from your parents to do certain stuff?

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Yes, like what elaborate not gonna do nothing to you go
You know, you get to a certain age, you know, we get as you get older
Your parents want to hit you with the hey you um
Take a little bit of I'm going a little bit slow bit

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And I and I used to be on some line now. I want that like get like get over like
Over what it like over do it, you know, I'm saying I'll just told him no like
I grew up to not like

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You safe Chris is a safe place
No, I like that like over like people in my life and then led to when they were happening like
This little like think a little shit like nothing like pure pressure like that. But just like
Well, that's a joke. You know, I mean it. I mean like that but like

(29:52):
Well, that's the household that kind of like built up to like I was how people are asking me and you know
I'm saying like and then when it was low calm with the parents I just over did it and that's what the pressure leads up to that moment
You know, I'm saying
For me, as we said, is it speaking truth?
Boy, that was a bunch of bullshit
Speaking

(30:14):
All right, what about what's your friends?
um
high school going up
all my people's
smoked
And I didn't see the the thing behind it. You know, I'm saying like I just didn't feel that need to want to look cool or
Do certain stuff, but it's like everywhere I turn

(30:36):
Everybody on me they do it
And they be trying to like when they was like I'm being circles just chatting up. I've been in them circles was like
People just passing the blunt and I'm just here looking like this boy said
Blunt
I'm looking crazy in my pocket. They just for me to try past them and I

(30:57):
Swerved that I feel so out of place, but then I just stopped going to them. But there's like
You don't know who you go. Who you might meet. You know what I'm saying? It just happens
You gotta calm these things. No, and then
You know, you people it's like all right, cool
But you people are like, oh, come on man. Like just come like like it's not a big deal just take it like it's just for the

(31:17):
Not and then it's like you never know what you
um
Never know what you might be
Addicted to in the future. You know saying like even one thing can lead to another, you know, I'm saying so
You gotta know your body know your limits
All right, so last question last question was there ever time was there ever time that you let peer pressure take take over?

(31:42):
Ah
It's cool remember you'll say you in the safe space
This one in the vault
This is high school
I this is my year after I didn't pass. Let me breathe
I was tired the same old go to home go to go to school go home or back and forth like and then

(32:09):
I was just
She was really real cool and then you know, it was end of the day
In the area was like, you know, we're about to go smoke. You know what I'm saying?
The name was like oh some
Oh, come on Chris. You just come out. What is you're saying like?
I like nah
if that was the bathroom like

(32:31):
My god, I don't fly going home
You know what I'm gonna see what they talk about. Let me see what they talk about
I get outside. She already sparked up as soon as we left the door. I was like, oh, this is real
He's cheap or not playing. They made a spark up soon right after the class. I was like that

(32:51):
So then that's when I got to the corner and it was he's been heard
Since the man's like, yo
To start off Chris with a roach
I was like, roach. Hang on a second
I'm trying to hold it and then I'm outside
Downtown I'd say too puffed. I'm thinking it's like smoking in the cold without the you know saying the blood

(33:16):
I was no kind you can always pretend, you know, just blow that hot air. You'll get the
The fake smoke word, but then I took it down was like I like taste and I was like nah, I say me
I had the bad taste all the way going home. Oh, that's that's that's when that's when I knew you were at when you was high remember
Yeah

(33:38):
I'll talk about you what no fucking
Oh

(34:02):
He said he don't drink but when he get around his family he take a shot
You said you ain't smoke you got around
Surely your school your shorty you took a L. You feel I'm saying
Yeah, now listen here. What if you were to take a L? Did you watch them roll it up?
Not it was all right to care see less than that

(34:25):
Don't know a smoke nothing
If you don't see it being rolled because you don't know what they pitted that shit. You feel I'm saying
Right, we're all right, but yeah
Rather than that
Yeah, man 29
Good kid never been locked up. No police record
No kids
I want to be a granddad. I'm just waiting on him

(34:49):
I'm waiting on him, man. Are you waiting for Chris? See peer pressure right there. You want pressure?
I'm trying to pass off his fucking sister nigga might know
There's more pressure, bro. Yeah, that is peer pressure
No, it's the only way
It's time for me to be pop up now. You're I feel you though, bro
Yeah, man, Chris

(35:11):
Yes, you know football season start tomorrow. What's your team? I sound fucking football. You don't watch football
I don't fucking football
I know how to play the game. I know where and I put his horn. I know the rules and all that
I know how to write down. I just don't watch it. Oh, I understand
I understand what I'm about to say, but but but we're gonna say go birds. What's up, me?
What you a brock or something? Don't worry about it. I'm too busy

(35:33):
I don't know if the bandwagon broke it. No
All right, hold on Chris. Yes. You are so you said all right
So how is it?
Being 29
Right. Yeah
Seeing everything that's going on with your era a lot of people die from gun violence in your era

(35:54):
Um, you got a lot of people with kids
in your era
So like how do you deal with that? Like how do you keep your head up? How I still be you?
And don't let that prayer pressure
Make you do anything you only want to do
Well, I know it stems from a lot of times where

(36:16):
the
the household and the family isn't like
Tell you, you know, I'm saying so it's like you have to really go off like you're on experience
Or other people that their lives like all day, you know say well how they had kids
It was probably like, you know
Everyone goes through it. So just seeing them go through this like that I can

(36:41):
I'm just being a good friend. This is doing the best I can to like
help they mind out. So I know people that's like
that uh, baby baby moms and then they they moms kind of a baby dad. So it's just like
It's the plot thickens every time. So I just tell them like listen

(37:02):
One situation at a time. I can't really help you. You know, I'm saying I could tell us like, yo
Don't let this
Go stereo away from your purpose. You know, so whatever your life going through
Whatever you want to do because a lot of people like they get so like caught up
They're they're looking at us like, oh
I should be doing something right now

(37:23):
Um, stuff that I used to
Enjoy the kid and aspirations kind of died. So it was like that's this situation or I started doing this this and that
Now people stay away from that you get distracted and get caught up
either by love or just
The moment so I always tell people just just watch me. I'm

(37:45):
striving towards purpose
I want everyone to just like if you ain't got a girl and she already got this
I'm just grateful because that's all those very most fruits and fire and your life by yourselves
I'm so
So what do you say? What do you say to people?
Who might say ash or at all you might say they have an opinion on something they say

(38:11):
Well, you
You never did this or you never did that like some people don't like people giving
Opinions on things if they haven't been through it basically this so how you deal with that?
Well, you don't have to be in anything
To know that what's the best option for them because because I never

(38:35):
Crossed over to this flat so but you did but you're looking at me like what do you know?
You don't have no experience. Yeah, but I know right from wrong and
I'm just giving you insight like all right your hand is the wrong way. Let me give you the better option
Which is situation, you know, I'm saying I people say like oh, you just you know what you're talking about

(38:57):
I'm just trying to steer people to write the pressure. They don't like it
You're not taking nothing out of my life for I'm like I'm staring in the wrong path
I'm just putting my two cents in if you don't like it
Uh, it's not my life. I'm living
You know, I just realized that's your national way
All right, man. So there y'all have it, man. That's my boy Chris

(39:20):
You know I'm saying good. I'm hitting I'll pick him against anybody on gta y'all
Real wack but no man, my son came along more fucking way on some real shit
He came the wrong way man. He don't give up. He's a fucking go getter. He don't let nothing bother him

(39:41):
So I'm I'm being a parent right now. I mean, so
if if anything if they had a
Fucking picture and he say a great kid. Yeah, he's a no. I'm not just saying a dog to be 29
You don't have to worry about
Nobody looking over the shoulders or he in and no bullshit and he's still his self

(40:06):
That's thorough. So love you
Thanks for tuning in. Thanks for showing us love man
I ain't put up bracelets and the teas and all the merch
I love you calling us on the phone
It's coming soon. We working on it. We working on it, man
But no man, we appreciate you for always listening and

(40:28):
Pitting us on your page and telling your homies elive number bothers and all that man. Yes. Oh, hold on
y'all my bad Marty and my son is uh
He is career is active man. So oh
He's gonna be on the tv stream by the next three years. I'm telling y'all man. He belong on tv, man

(40:49):
I could see it. I could see it. So good looking some real bad prayer pressure, man. You made them you finally made the show
You happy bro you on there now you get to tell Eli and anybody from westchester yearly
Let them know. Yeah, so we out the mud. That's my son Chris

(41:09):
This is Marty yo, all right, Chris. Thanks, yo
All right, they found me. All right, bro
So, yeah, that was my son Chris on the rim call. Thanks Chris pressure. Good looking son. That's yeah
I mean, we know you was on here sound like a motherfucker Barry white
I hope you didn't hit my motherfucking family the bed

(41:30):
Hey, yo, bro, what you see this week?
Oh, I seen on dame dash issue a challenge to 50 cent and shit for about what about the networks and shit. I think 50
You did the interview
They don't forget me. Sure. Yeah, so I guess
dame ain't
Take kind of what 50 said

(41:51):
So he said, you know, I'm too old to be on the gangster shelf in three years old, but we can't do
You know network versus network
You know what I'm saying? So dame said he put a new movie out on this joint original joint and all that
You know, he said since I broke, you know
I got you. Oh
I seen that

(42:13):
on
One of us one of us one of us or a football, you know football season started
Shadoff my friend. Listen. I'm in a fantasy league with my bro. You ever seen John?
You know, y'all heard him last episode
episode 16 got feelings
I'm in a fantasy league
Right. Yeah, man. How you gonna do?

(42:35):
I'm gonna do good man. They got me angle. I I got graded on my fantasy league grade
It was a D minus word. Yes. Keep it all. It will it was a D minus
And it projected me to go oh and 14. You just gonna lose every game
I'm gonna keep it work

(42:55):
Damn, this is a game, bro. That ain't happening though. That's wow
That ain't happening though. So what would you see this week? Oh me? Yeah, all right. I see this question floating around
You're gonna ask me the question. No, what's that? The question is
Would you
pick cotton for
350 dollars an hour

(43:18):
350 dollars an hour not three dollars and fifty cents. I don't even like picking clothes. They really got cotton
You think I'm a fucking big guy
Bro, they gonna give you listen. I don't give off that slave, bro. Let me break it down. You can't I can you can
That's what's wrong with your generation. Y'all

(43:39):
Y'all see money
And y'all just go for no bro, bro
Good
What the fuck am I doing? It's too many machines out here that can pick cotton
Right, but what's machine breakdown? They might need you to uh pick me in the warehouse when I'm in the car a little bad
You know me and my brothers have this conversation really?

(44:00):
And you you'll be out there picking that kind of bro. See your toys
Listen, listen, listen with a brown bag. Listen. I'm not saying
I wouldn't do it
But I'm not saying I wouldn't do I'm not saying I wouldn't do it either
Saying you wouldn't is like saying you would. No, it was a difference because my brother
Because my brother brought up a big a big thing. He my brother terry. He was like

(44:22):
All right, all right, what if you the supervisor?
No, I'm off of you had the black cotton before to get that
I'm saying though, what if you the supervisor you'd be like you'd be like the black boy of life
What you mean before the supervisor you was picking cotton
Like how you pick cotton because you're a supervisor man you

(44:42):
Supervising these other dumb ladies picking cotton. So so so now you could be like the boy of life
He from new york city boss like no, I'm not picking. No, I ain't picking no fucking cotton for free
I ain't picking cotton for 350
You know I'm saying
Bro, no, that's oh, so we're gonna put that that's the question I think we should put on the social

(45:04):
Yeah, we're gonna have to put that in the pool when you pick cotton for 350 dollars an hour
An hour, bro. I don't give a fuck you get you get all the benefits. I don't give a money do friday
And I do get the benefit. Yes saying no money. Do friday
That's their prayer pressure
That's their prayer pressure
That's that prayer trying to make me work
Seven in the field like a motherfucker. No, I'm not coompton. The only reason why I say no

(45:28):
No, bro, keep it a bean only reason why I said no because you know them console that black and Texas and shit
That's in the middle of the summer. I'm not so you tell them that
You will really pick cotton. No, I wouldn't do it because it'd be too hot. I say it was a job for real
Bro, would you yes you were? No, you only were bro. No, you only were looking for leave me
Promise. Like honestly, I want to

(45:48):
I wish y'all could see this nigga
I promise y'all. I wouldn't do it. I wouldn't do it because I don't I don't I money don't move me
Like I don't do stuff this for money. So whatever your wife say, yo, get out there and make that break
But also
What if your wife say, hold on listen
350,000 an hour
Picking cotton
So let him
Take it all they ain't do it because the whip the whip together. Yeah, no whip. That's it. No whip

(46:13):
And the end of pencil and the pencil how like I said picking cotton is in itself like Texas and shit like there is
How far is
the building
and
Where's the water it how far is the water it? Hey, do my brothers just not
I'm not picking a fucking car
Not not

(46:34):
And some people might say damn now you selfish. No the fuck. All right, take 15. That's different. I get another job
Chill
350 dollars now. Yes. Any guy being a field. Yes eight hours a day. Yes. Like you a slave

(47:00):
You get two 15s in the 30 like you a slave
Slaves didn't get breaks slaves didn't get breaks. Yes. They did. No, they did. Yes. They did. They worked from sun
Up and sundown. What slave removal you watch bro. They don't get breaks like that, bro. They did too. They sat in the middle
They had a little little tree. They sat under the A. They little rice pudding or whatever they called it

(47:21):
Then they go back to work. Then they went back to work. Yeah, you're right. Come on, bro
I wouldn't do it on kill the bean. I'm saying I
I got you. No, you're generation. What I do with them
You thinking about it. You think about it, bro. You don't want to rush this. You mean that's wrong with y'all born in the 70s
You say, no, no, no
We should mark

(47:41):
But I'm thinking about we think before we react. I'm thinking now what I do with them
What the fuck? I don't know. I'm really thinking. I don't know what I'm thinking about
Listen my product telling me no as a black man. They telling me no not don't do it
And what's that thing you do

(48:03):
The 350 dollars
What bro they oh, yeah, they they don't slave. How am I gonna slave your mind?
They don't slave my mind. They don't slave your mind. Why would they keep my wedding?
That's not true
Yeah
Yeah, let me say it, dawg. I'm just saying man
I'm just saying all the ancestors don't come see you tonight. I'm not saying I would do it, bro

(48:28):
I'm not saying that
And I bet you a lot of them don't fucking say it
Oh, of course a lot more fucking say yeah, look at the calm. I look that's all they come in. Hey, right? Yes
That's another poll we gonna put up too. What?
Like we said with the first poll
Oh, the hot would y'all pick cotton? Right? Right? And
What if it was real
Because a lot of it is a door a lot of things will do the keeping me a lot of things will do the

(48:52):
350 and I when they really give you 350 and I will all you gotta do is pick cotton in the field
But now you got to think about get bit by bugs. Yeah, all that. Yeah. Oh, yeah, that's why I said
slavery bro, you get hot you take the shirt off you like a slave out that job. Yes
They they walk they ain't even walking around. They don't horse buggies that slavery shit

(49:13):
They not gonna have guns. I don't think
Yeah, you don't think they gonna do it. Hey, then look, whatever you go out there dawning keep your ass out there
Oh, yeah, that's like a track overtime
overtime b
But I think they get back to my job
Dash and 50 cent

(49:34):
I think that will be a good job. So what are you trying to do?
This is like who like they want us to go on
They go on dame dash network check his out go to 50 network check his out. I don't see who went
No, and just see like who got the better though
Like
Well, they don't they do got a lot of shows

(49:57):
Was a ceo before ceo, bro. Yeah, true. He's not broke
They didn't broke you know, and I think 50 gave my all of you too. The only reason why people think damage broke
Is because he don't got the liquid asset when he got sued for rocket falling shit like that
No, he bought a soda. Yeah, but I'm saying yeah, but I'm saying like because people think he don't because he don't got the liquid money
But he got all assets. So let me not broke broke. Yeah

(50:21):
This man is wealthy like like what if you if you already look and see the
Millionaires and billionaires and show that people up there. They have they don't have
Money like they got shit tied in real estate
Uh stock session like that, bro. No, this what I seen bro. What's up? Ah
I'm walking and walking to the store. Uh-huh

(50:45):
Out the blue bra. I'm just look not on no creep shit
But you know cars drive past you they get caught at the light. You happen to see people in their cars or whatever, right?
bro
each fucking car I looked in
No matter who was on the pageant side, whether it was the male or the female right?
Looked at miserable. It's fucking the car really everybody

(51:09):
Back in the day when they used to drive in the car used to be music playing. Yes laughter
When we might have your argument once or twice, bro, it seemed like nowadays, bro
You ain't talking you in your phone. You're looking out the window. Yeah, uh
Either she's trying to make conversation with you. You try to make conversation with her

(51:33):
Bro, what the fuck happened? It's all I see every time I look in the picture to
Every time I look in the car. So I'm sure car the nigga you will look miserable or the female
miserable
Oh
That's what I seen too this week bunch of miserable phases and will
miserable motherfucker, bro. Hey, oh, yeah, man. That's a good job, bro. That's a good job, bro. All right, let's go

(52:03):
I got you bro
This week. I'm doing a little battle of the bars. I'm gonna keep it in Philly. They're getting last week. And I said
Oh, it beans and free. I got you this week. I got a good job for you though. I'm gonna keep it
I'm gonna keep it rocket for the state property
So I'm gonna say who's bringing up these old-age niggas because I don't know what you listen to

(52:26):
Oh, man, bro. Next season, bro. I'm sending you some songs, bro. I listen to a lot of songs, bro
I just keep it 30 years ago. Yeah. I'm trying to put this on. I know every a lot of people heard
All right, bro. I think it's bro. So you gonna do it. Yeah, I got you, bro
I'm put the young the young guns Kristen. They
You're a grown man. We're grown man. I'm fucked that old guns

(52:51):
Got Kristen Neff. And then we got no is it better love?
Who did it better Kristen Neff?
Neff. Wow
I only thought Neff was better than Chris. Chris got the uh, no, he got the attention and the love

(53:12):
Yeah, because he was younger
Flaming shit don't get it fucked up nice, but
Chris is still nice to this day, bro. I fuck with Neff though
Because all the allegations that was against him. Oh, yeah
That's doing me. Yeah, we just we just talking strictly bars bars. Ain't nobody really fucking with Neff
Barnes, bro. Neff is nice. I

(53:35):
Neff is nice, bro
I am there, bro. Yeah
He asleep or bro. They sleep morning. They do sleep on these pictures one of the bad
Neff is nice. Oh, yeah, oh, that's a good job. You did
Yo, I'm to that you want to see young Chris
I don't

(53:55):
Yeah
I was about to need to I fucking need first to never last ever so you said so anxious
Yeah, and I said that I had a story about that. Yeah, so when that song came out one of the og's
Used to ride around with that motherfucker song
24 seven

(54:16):
And his name is Bruce
Oh
Bruce
Hey, Bruce. That's when the realms was in right. I forgot what car here was an all black drunk
He had like 20 I want to say yeah 20s or 24s, right? Maybe 18s 18s. I know there was some big ass realms

(54:37):
And he used to come through the Johnson Holmes dog and that song
So ain't she used to come on blasted that shit, bro. So when you said that shit, I was like, oh
Oh, here Bruce used to come through the blessing. So anxious
All right, young guns. Oh, this is a good job young guns. Let me see
What crazy song was today? Oh

(55:01):
All right
There's a song from uh, Chris Brown
It's wild too though. He got a song called hate me tomorrow
So pretty much the premise of the song is
This had a phone this is the first thing you say he said I know I'm not supposed to call
You told me that a thousand times
So pretty much
He's called his ex

(55:22):
He's drunk the henny got him lit and he called his ex who got a new dude, right?
Henny says he says in the song he said you knew do not around

(55:43):
Bro
Bro, he's trying to get he and the crazy part is he now he ain't even trying to get back with her
He just want to spend one night with her and then hate me tomorrow. Go back hate me tomorrow. Oh, Lord

(56:06):
I never like that
Go fuck that nigga go fuck that bitch. No, I don't think you can't be you can't be friends with your ex. Yo
No
No, like like y'all y'all like the relationship don't got an on bad terms y'all can end on good terms, but y'all can't be friends
Yeah, it can't be friends with ex bro, but that's my job though called chris brown hate me tomorrow out there. Listen to that

(56:31):
Johnson, you know what y'all think? Yeah, man, you gotta be music before we get out of here. You listen to who drop uh
Let me see
Though I listened to a lot of songs
I'm gonna put you dick
Go ahead. I listen to a lot of jones, but uh nothing really stood up stuff at dochi
No, I see I'm in my bag. We listen to stop playing

(56:54):
Oh, Tyrese John did this in Tyrese John. I got finished. Wildflower. I know that's the old you know, some people remake songs. Yeah
Just can't do it. Yeah
Yeah
Wildflower was that city that Tyrese John some romance. It is the job. Well, he got a job came in name of it
It was uh, I think yeah, so Tyrese John talking about what's called bedroom building this job. I like that job. Yeah, like I said Tyrese

(57:19):
Marcus Houston
Oh
A group I use all the time just came out on day 26. I said 26
Yo, it might know me. No, I'm a day 26
Bro, I'll listen listen. I'll watch in the band. I did all that shit, bro. I can't
I think you was yo, what they almost what you was a dancer. I was a dancer. They turned down none of them think it's dance

(57:46):
I never danced
Bro's in there
Know that mean that sound bad bro
Yeah, bro does it Tyrese Marcus Houston
Right dosi right day 26. That's about it. That's all I listened to

(58:10):
All right, there it is man
That's what it is man. We wind it down man. Like we're up on song 17 man
We we we just having a ball man. Yeah, I'm a fun with it. Yeah, we got three more to go into
It's a rap man. It's like, I don't know man. I don't even want to stop man
We keep it going. We can keep it going through bro. Yeah, I mean but oh, yeah, man, so

(58:34):
Like I said, it's me and Marty. We appreciate y'all. Thank you. Hope y'all had a good holiday too. Oh, yeah
In the summer
True. So shout out. So shout out to all the labor they cook out all the black parties and shit in the summer
Yes, rest in peace to anybody
That lost they like oh, yeah, you brother too, bro

(58:55):
I like to say a resting piece to the old here mr. Steve
For me if y'all listening y'all know mr. Steve was the one we got the bootleg she she these from
He was the one that tore everybody had to drive and shit. So
R.I.P. Mr. Steve will be miss bro
Yeah, I mean and again shout out to my son Chris on the random call
And yeah, pet pressure man. Don't let nobody do anything you don't want to do. Oh, right before we go

(59:21):
We're gonna squeeze in a little bit, bro
Uh, did you watch uh, bass and Berlin?
Yeah, yes, sir. Yes, sir. Yes, sir. What you think of it little cook John food? It was good. It was good. It was good
The last match, you know, it was drawn out, but it was good. Me my daughter watched that John me my daughter
My wife watched that shit
Monday, right raw. What's this shit Monday night raw? What's this shit? Oh, hold up? Yo

(59:44):
You're awesome
No, listen, I did the episode 17. I said yo, it's like Daniel son
And me I
Yeah, what's his name?
Mr. Miyagi
This motherfucker
Is
Me

(01:00:05):
I
See that function is
I
Fuck me up. You still
Is
I wasn't listening bro. I was listening
I'm fucking come on
You know what I'm saying?
Yeah, I mean
Episode 17 man. Yeah, big 17 big 17 man football season start

(01:00:30):
You know what I mean? Who played Thursday bro? Uh the chiefs and Ravens. So you got
Chiefs and Ravens. I'm going with I'm going with the chiefs
I mean, yeah, you know my green Bay Packers
See them bum ass egos this week
Friday, so we got the chiefs. I got the Ravens. All right

(01:00:52):
Packers, I'm going with egos. Let's go against you
This weekend and then the Broncos playing this
This is my fucking
My five-dash whip though. Y'all see this shit and then the Broncos the Broncos is playing the Seahawks
And the Broncos gonna fucking lose they barman bro
Hey now now you ahead of quarterback man. Now you ahead of it's your quarterback man

(01:01:13):
Bo nicks don't ask me to back up. No, no back up. I don't know
Bo nicks came from a motherfucker in the bar. Oh, yeah
He used to work in a bar
I'm gonna say it I said, um
So anxious. No, not so anxious. That's so interesting told you that punch in this eye

(01:01:36):
So when I said that I draw you throw to the ball y'all nervous
Look
I was thinking about that. Yeah, he dares. All right. Got you. I want to see
What you got for me?
I've been waiting way too long
Got me losing my cool
Don't know what I'm gonna do

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But you got me going
You got me going now. Would you tell him?
Yo before you need to create these career
Comments because they try to make a comment not to have sus and I
Oh that no we out. Yeah, I'll