June 6, 2024 • 50 mins
We Out Da Mud Ep4: MIDDLE ROOM BANDIT.
When is it a good time for your kids to move out?
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Yo, what up, what up, what up, what up?
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Yo, what up, what up, what up?
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Now, we on episode four, bedroom bandits.
You calling it bedroom bandits?
Yeah, bedroom bandits, man.
So first of all, before we get into this episode,
how was your week, brother?
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I mean, you know, we've been good, working shit,
chilling with the fam, you know, the holidays past and shit.
Yeah, how was your holiday?
I mean, it was good.
Me and the kids, home, chilling, watching a little TV.
Let me go outside and shit, you know.
What about you, bro?
Oh, man, you know, I fell back.
I only got a little one, so I'm like an empty nester.
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True.
So we just fell back, chill, had a little barbecue
with me, wifey, and the kids.
And then, you know, mom, Duke's birthday just passed.
Rest in peace.
Happy, happy birthday, June the 4th.
Happy birthday.
So, you know, let some balloons go,
had a little cupcake, you know what I mean?
I feel you.
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And that's it, man.
So, man, we're about to, you know,
we're going to get into the episode,
but, you know, we're just checking up how was y'all week.
So we want to hear from y'all, man.
How was y'all week?
How do y'all like the podcast so far, you know what I mean?
Yes, please let us know.
Thanks for all the love, though.
Definitely.
And like we said, we got them wristbands coming, man.
Definitely.
You know what I mean?
So what's up, bro?
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What we talking about?
What the fuck we talking about, bro?
We doing too much talking, not talk.
Not talk, all right.
So this week, we going to talk about,
now we going to call it bedroom bandits,
but it's mainly about what is the appropriate age
for your kid to like move out and be on their own.
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As soon as they think they grown.
As soon as they think they don't got to respect you.
Word, I don't feel like that, though, for me.
No, man, because listen, right.
Go ahead.
So I don't want to sound like a better OG,
but it's a lot of young people and it's a lot of grown people
too out here, you know, talking that talk,
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but not walking that walk.
Elaborate, elaborate.
You got to be able to walk that walk.
You know what I mean?
You can't be talking that talk and then you
go in the middle room and get mom for it.
You know what I'm saying?
I don't understand that, like all the designer clothes,
right?
All the foreign hell cats, all the guns in the world,
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all the purses, but you going in your middle room
that you was going to since high school.
So if you think you're going to your parents
or you're going to your mom, get your own place.
That's what I say.
Get your own place.
Now, if you're going to college, you know what I mean?
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You fell on hard times or your mom's ill.
You know what I'm saying?
That's different.
But if you got a good job, you driving a good car,
you going on trips every other month,
but once you get off that plane, you ain't going to your home.
You going to your mom's home or your grandma's home,
your cousin's home, in the middle room.
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That don't add up.
Your whole child is going to be better than your real room.
What the fuck is going on here?
Well, they give a little pushback, bro.
It's not the same like it wasn't when we was growing up.
You know what I'm saying?
Bro, you change years.
You got to do it, bro.
I know, but I'm saying, like, they ain't me,
but I heard a lot of people say, yo, by the time you're 18,
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you got to get out of my house.
Right, right, right.
Right.
So if I'm fresh out of high school,
and you want me to like this move out,
I didn't have no experiences.
I just know I've lived in a house with you, paying bills,
trying to help out when I can.
I got me a little job and shit.
Now you want me to go find an apartment on my own?
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Right, right, right.
I mean, looking at it now, being 44,
you also got to know your kids.
So you say, it is different from when we was coming up.
It's a lot more dangerous.
And it's more expensive.
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Very expensive.
So don't walk around like the shit don't stink.
You know what I'm saying?
You walk around like the shit don't stink.
But knowing, you know what I mean,
you're going in that little middle room
or that basement, you feel what I'm saying?
Be humble.
Oh, that's hard.
You know what I'm saying?
Because it is hard.
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It's definitely hard.
Like I said, I want to sign up to be the OG.
Because I love all my young boys, all the young ladies
that are doing their thing.
Because if they don't get the credit,
the ones that are busting their ass,
was living with their mom in the school, in the college,
had kids, and still going, they don't get the credit.
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But the middle room bandits get all the love.
Because I guess as a parent, it kind of seems as a friend.
You don't worry about the strong friend,
because you think your strong friend got it.
So if you got the responsible kid,
you're not going to be worried about the responsible kid.
You got to worry about the kid that, yo,
if I put this motherfucker out, he might end up on cracker,
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or dead or some shit.
But how long do you keep them under you?
Because even animals, straight from their kids.
Yeah, that's true.
You know what I'm saying?
Birds do kick the big bird out the next year.
Yeah, so you got to fly along on your own.
And then if you do fall, and this is to the parents, man,
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don't be turning your back on your kids
if they need your help to come back.
Don't throw it in their face.
Don't be telling their aunt or uncle, yeah,
it's my ass or her, my ass had to come back.
And no, no, they ain't actually be here at the end of the day.
But to the bedroom bandits, the middle room bandits,
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I'm tired of y'all.
Like, I'm really tired of y'all, because y'all be the main ones
talking shit.
Y'all be talking shit, bro.
Talking shit like how?
Right, all right, so it's one is that, all right,
so I'm going to say it like this,
if you almost pushing 50.
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Who's almost pushing 50 in their mind, Craig, bro?
I'm just talking in general, man.
Say it.
I'm not talking to nobody in particular.
I'm just talking in general.
I feel you, but if you 50, still with your mom, Craig,
and she's not sick, you got, bro, something's up.
Now, listen, somebody might say, well, I did move out, OK.
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When was that last time you moved out?
Sometimes you move out before y'all go to your in-law, Craig,
or you might got to go to your folks' crib,
you know what I'm saying?
But you're not supposed to stay home.
Bro, it take people 20 years to get back on their feet.
No, it fucking don't.
It takes 20 years to get back on your feet, bro.
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What 20, who?
Bro, it could take somebody 20 years to get back on their feet.
20 years?
Man, you should be, boy, 20 fucking years.
It could take somebody 20 years.
That's two decades.
Yeah, it's two decades to fucking cry.
The fuck was you doing?
That's what I'm saying.
I don't know, man.
I know, bro.
Like I just said, I ain't coming down on them,
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because I said I know what's hard,
but it's females and men that have been on their own,
doing what they're supposed to do since they was like 16, 17,
and still doing it now, but don't get the credit for it.
All right, so for that, so do you blame the kid
or you blame the parent?
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Because you got to put that in there.
Because some kids might want to go,
but some parents might be a little nervous.
Because you let me say it.
If you know your child, no, you don't just push them out there.
But if your child's showing that indepedency, like, I got it.
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Like, I got this.
I mean, let them go ahead, but also let them know,
if you come on rough times, I got you.
You know what I mean?
Don't tell them, yo, I got you.
But then when they come on rough time, man,
it's the third time I helped you out.
Yo, you said you had me.
Right.
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I mean, you know where I work at.
You know they not paying for our expenses.
They not.
You know what I'm saying?
They not paying for that.
They not.
So you go part time, how's you paying for your bills?
You go four times, you're down.
They got to get a part time now.
Yeah, you got to get two jobs.
Two jobs.
Especially now.
Back in the day, you get one.
Right.
And be all right if you manage your bread, right?
True.
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You know what I'm saying?
Some places in Philly, like, 1,300 for one.
And it ain't even worth it.
You paying 1,300 for the fucking kitchen floor
and the refrigerator that play music on it.
Yeah, true.
Back in the day, one bedroom was $575.
Two bedrooms ain't on it.
That's crazy, dog.
Now it just hits on my 13th.
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And I don't blame these young.
All right, so you are, all right, this what I say to them,
to the middle room bandits.
Y'all be in all them group chats.
Y'all got a bunch of friends.
That's middle room bandits, too.
Why the fuck y'all don't get together and get a crib together?
Especially if all y'all work.
Now, if you don't have a job where you failed in 100 times,
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or you're going to school, you know what I'm saying?
I ain't talking to you.
I'm talking about the ones that's working, going on trips,
and got cars, and all this other shit they do on the side.
But look for an apartment for a crib.
Yeah, you're right.
So you want people to, so you're saying
this is like, why don't they get a roommate?
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Yeah, basically.
Get a roommate.
You know, y'all always together.
You going to this middle room bandit house.
You going to that middle room bandit house.
Y'all all middle room bandits.
But y'all can't go in one of y'all middle rooms and say,
yo, why the fuck we ain't got a crib?
Why we ain't roommates?
So you just going to be in that middle room?
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So you 60.
60, that's fucking wild.
60?
Come on.
Crazy, bro.
And some people might listen, no, man,
I ain't coming down on y'all, man.
Just a lot of us are tired.
You know what I mean?
So I'm speaking for the ones that picked the work in,
that came out the mud, that fell on hard times,
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and kept pushing.
So they making it where as though you can't
show love to yourself.
You know what I'm saying?
Like, you can't big yourself up.
Yeah.
Oh, they showing up.
No, this motherfucker been doing this for years.
Yeah.
So why the fuck they can't show off or show
they accomplishments?
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Well, for me, I was on the verge of being a middle room
bandit until my wife ended up getting pregnant,
and my sister Lisa kicked me out.
She said, ain't nobody, baby daddy,
going to be sleeping in my basement.
I'm like, what are you talking about, lady?
Oh, man.
I was not ready for that conversation.
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Like, court me off guard.
I mean, it's so cool to this day.
I mean, I understand what she did.
But I don't know what would happen if she didn't do that.
Because some people take advantage of it.
Like, they know you got a harder goal.
So they can be like, they falling on hard times or whatever.
And then they might ask you, you know, you say, yeah.
You give them a like, yo, you got like six months.
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Some people ain't even supposed to have you in their crib.
Yeah, true.
You know what I'm saying?
You get caught up in their crib.
They can put the fuck out.
Yeah, true.
Certain, certain sex, they got eight jobs.
You right.
You know what I'm saying?
So you tell them six months or they be like, well,
I'll do this and do that.
Now all of a sudden, it went from six months to six years.
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That can happen sometimes, bro.
And then this motherfucker got a nerve to have an attitude.
Because you got to get the fuck out.
When you ask them to do something, they get rules.
True.
What?
That's understandable, understandable.
Now you went from a middle room to get your ass out of my crib.
And they're going to porch.
Yeah, you know what I'm saying?
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Right there, man.
Like, just to all y'all out there,
I want to give a shout out to everybody that's
not a middle room bandit.
Y'all don't get enough love.
Shout out to y'all holding it down since y'all were pups.
Shout out to all the youngins just holding it down.
Because there's a lot of youngins out here making bigger
moves than the OGs, too.
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Definitely true.
You know what I'm saying?
So shout out to y'all.
Right.
I see y'all out there.
There's a lot of young, young, young ladies and gentlemen
out here owning businesses.
True.
Yeah, I mean, working they ass off,
the ones that got kids, the ones that don't have kids.
Right.
You know what I'm saying?
So keep doing your thing.
And don't stop again.
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Congratulations to all the graduates of 2024, man.
Oh, congratulations to everybody.
Yeah, from kindergarten to 12.
I know them 12 years was hard because that shit was hard
for me, bro.
So I knew it was hard.
So congratulations.
And congratulations to all the college grads, man.
Oh, yeah.
People been in college for like 10 years.
It's not a great dream, bro.
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If you graduate class of 2024, man, congratulations to you.
Yeah, that's a different type of dedication.
Yeah, different type of dedication.
That's all it was.
You can't say it's bullshit if you never went through it.
Right.
You know what I'm saying?
All right, so let's go back on topic.
So for the people who kind of need that inspiration
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and stuff like that, let me know what you did when you were
No, so all right, so I graduated out of high school.
I thought I was grown.
So my mom gave me a curve.
Like, yo, being a kid before 12, I think it was.
So I'm just a Spanish smoking weed and all that.
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I'm drinking wine with Rose, mad dog.
Being in that 2020.
Yeah, all that bullshit.
You know what I'm saying?
So I show up late.
It's like 2 o'clock in the morning.
So knocking on the window.
Her stepfather is the Tommy Nelson and shit.
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They don't open the door.
So when she open the door, she say,
then I tell you, to be in my house at a certain time,
don't be coming in here until 2, 2.30.
You coming in here at 2.30, bro?
Now, look, I'm on, so I'm like, why aren't you
dope for me working and working with my aunt?
I got money saved up, so make a long story longer.
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They let me in.
I'm on dope.
But in my head, I'm like, yo, I'm out.
Like, I'm out.
So next day, which was a Saturday,
ran into papers or whatever.
Started looking through for apartments and shit.
Called Hillside Gardens or whatever.
And then the rest is history, man.
All right, so in order to find the apartment you got,
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before you caught, how difficult was
that process of transitioning from your mom's house
to your first apartment?
I was happy because at the time, I
thought my mom was real strict, not knowing that she already
been in the streets.
She knew what the streets about.
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And I think she knew, like, Nasir would be good,
and his own life would be good.
So it was all right.
It was scary, though, like, when you first get in there.
It was like, you 18.
So you the fuck.
But then, you know, you do certain things
that you couldn't do in your mom crib.
And then you feel like a man.
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Like I said, I mean, I was working at Keystone.
So at first, I was at UPS with the apartment and all that.
And then I went to Keystone.
And then the rest was history, man.
Then back to my mom crib since I moved out,
rest in peace, Dukes.
But yeah, bro, it was rough.
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It was, you know, you had to really be a responsible adult
because you couldn't play around.
Like, if you ain't pay that rent,
you know you getting kicked out.
You ain't know, oh, Nasir, we good?
No.
No.
Yeah.
Don't have it on that day.
They'd probably be like two days.
And you get a late fee.
That late fee crazy.
You know what I'm saying?
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But you keep playing, this shit going to be outside.
You know what I'm saying?
So and I ain't want to hear people say,
I told you you couldn't do it.
You know what I'm saying?
So that gives me more motivation to do this shit.
You know what I'm saying?
So for me, right, like I said, my sister put me out.
I was 21.
My wife at the time, my wife was seeing my girlfriend.
My wife was pregnant with our first kid.
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OK.
And she was like, ain't no baby that live in my house.
So I had to move from living with my sister
to living with my wife.
Like we knew each other, we began to know each other,
stuff like that.
Trying to understand.
And you know, my sister was like a mom.
Like she cooked every night.
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We made sure that I do the chores and shit.
Like this and shit.
Like all my brothers know how it was living with my sister,
Lisa.
So now being on your own is like,
I'm not doing that fucking chores and shit like that.
But also, I still had to get up, go to work, still had to,
can't spend my money on anything.
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Yeah, it wasn't on calling out.
No, it wasn't.
Yeah, for me.
Because then, like, you know, back then,
I was working at McDonald's at the time.
So I'm like, shit.
And then, girlfriend pregnant, I'm like, fuck.
Like, all right.
So I can't call out.
I call out, my check will be $20 shirt.
Rent was back in, was it 2011?
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Yeah, my rent was like $500.
Yeah, that shit wasn't hot.
That shit was like.
It wasn't hot at all, bro.
So I could do that $500.
But for me, if I missed a date, that $500,
look like $300, that check like $300.
And I'm like, oh, I can't let that happen.
And then, like, when you get the, first,
I get the hang of it.
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Because me, I had to get the hang of it moving with somebody,
living with somebody.
And then, like, because, like I said before,
my mom had all boys and then one little sister.
But this is my first time actually living with me
and, like, a girl and all the, like, stuff that girls do.
And my wife had to get used to, like, all the stuff
that dudes do and shit like that.
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Because now she's farting in front of you.
Now she's farting in front of her,
waking up and stinking ass bruh.
All day, man.
You know what I mean?
I mean, it's fun when it's visiting.
And when y'all there together, now you about to see the world.
Yeah, they shit around.
Because come on, man.
Come on.
Come on.
Come on, fellas.
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That shit was different, bro.
You gotta give these ladies world credit.
They deal with a lot of bullshit from us men.
Exactly, bro.
But yeah.
All ass toads, ass, ass feet.
My bad, bro.
I'm just saying, I don't get no credit, man.
Right.
So then, like, this the learning, like, all right.
So, oh, bills come every fucking month.
Oh, yeah.
No, no, no, they don't.
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They don't?
No.
They don't.
What you mean, every month?
Oh, you talking about the ones that's not middle room bandits.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Yeah, I'm talking about middle room bandits.
OK, middle room bandits, every six months.
Every six months.
Oh, my god.
Yeah, but when you first move out, do you think, oh, shit.
They don't just pay a fucking electric bill.
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They don't just pay rent.
It's already, like, time.
I ain't going to lie to people that being broke.
When it came to my bills to pay, I used to do, like,
the fucking Libra scale.
Just see how I got to see it.
Bills.
Bills.
Fuck.
If it's everyone who read the most, that's what I'm doing.
Right.
So that's how I did it.
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But then, you know, sometimes you went out.
Yeah, I could do without lights, nigga.
It's summertime.
Fuck that.
Oh, shit.
Sun will go out until, like, 7.30.
I could do without lights?
What?
Yeah, man.
These people just saying, like.
I could do without lights, lights and candles, you know what I'm saying?
Like, sometimes you had to scratch to survive.
Right.
You know what I mean?
My first apartment, we didn't have to, we would pay.
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I think the only we had to pay for was electricity.
Yeah, lights.
Yeah, we had to pay for electricity and shit like that.
And if you want cable and shit, you got to pay for that too.
And, like, oh, shit.
And, like, the security deposit and shit.
Yeah, the mic dog.
The mic dog.
Y'all.
That's Marty.
And don't forget about the whole security deposit.
No, this to get the money up.
Yeah.
To move out.
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That's, like, oh, my God.
It's like every time you had the amount, something happened.
Yeah.
Always like that.
It's like that now, honey.
It's like that now.
It's so weird.
Well, I don't think nobody got no money saved.
Man, if you do.
It is just a hoot.
If you got money saved, salute to you.
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I really respect you.
Right.
Because you must don't be outside.
At all.
Yeah, I mean, if you do go outside, you could really manage that bread.
Salute to you.
Call it discipline, bro.
Yeah, because of our.
Because of our what?
Look at it.
I can't tell you with me, but I'll leave this bitch.
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I know.
I feel the same way you do, though.
Like.
Man, listen, I'm tired of picking it up for bills and.
Right.
Emergencies.
And you don't get to enjoy that shit.
Fuck no, bro.
That's what the scene like, though.
No, bro.
I done seen people.
I got 20k saved.
Right.
Two years later, gone.
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Yeah.
Now you got 20k in the savings.
You don't know why you're damn cold.
Right.
You hate it from your boo boo.
You ain't fuck with kids.
You know what I'm saying?
Right.
I ain't saying go out there and blow your shit, but enjoy it.
Right.
You know what I'm saying?
But it's hard.
You got rent.
Right.
Like you said, utility bills, your kids bills.
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Oh, Brian, you can talk about groceries.
Groceries.
Niggas got to eat.
Oh, niggas got to eat.
Yeah, bro.
You got to eat every day.
You do got to eat every day, too.
Hold on.
Back in the day, how many times we went shopping?
Like twice a month?
Yeah.
Now it's like you going every fucking Friday.
Yeah, true.
You in the market.
Yeah.
And then especially now school ended for the summer break.
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Oh, you need shit for the kids to do, bro.
Activities every day.
Come on.
Especially when you got young kids.
Come on, man.
Oh, man.
Come on.
Yeah.
So I mean, my thing is for the whole middleman,
I say nudge them out.
But also you got to make sure they ready.
I don't know.
But no.
No, bro.
You don't.
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What?
See, you know.
That's the no.
What?
Like I said, if you out here acting like you got it,
go get it.
You know what I'm saying?
Because if you never moved out, how can you tell other people
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how to run their house?
How to pay for your shit?
You never experienced it.
True.
You know what I mean?
You just paying little bullshit bills, a phone bill.
That's nothing.
Might pay a car note or insurance.
Right.
You know what I'm saying?
But a lot of times out of 10, whatever you living with,
helping you pay that.
That's true.
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You know what I'm saying?
But what if the kid not good with money?
That's some people.
I know some people, that shit is burned through their pocket.
Like it's nothing.
If the kid not good with money, you take your fucking half out
and you give it to the person you living with to make sure
your half is paid for.
Right.
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You know what I'm saying?
You feel me?
Or, yo, I'm trying to move.
Can you pick this up?
But then some people, it's shite today.
They be spending it.
Yeah.
You know what I mean?
So get a fucking savings account.
The fuck?
True.
You know everything but to get out that crib and get a crib.
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And what about the comfortability though?
But that's true.
But never mind.
Now I said that like people being comfortable is not going
to get you where you want to be.
So you got to get used to being uncomfortable.
You right?
See right?
I hate to agree with you.
Yo, just know that.
If you in that middle room and you got to go and you're doing
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what you're supposed to do, that's one thing.
Right.
But if you in that middle room, just to be in that middle room,
you clocking out every day, just to go back in that middle room.
Right.
So you telling me for them eight hours even on a break,
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because you know, you ain't saying let me look and see if
any cribs out here on sale, anybody out in your apartments.
No, you just said fuck it.
I'm going to go right back in that middle room.
I mean, think about it though.
Three Chris Mills.
You're saying Jim?
I'm saying but if your mom home, bro, and then you got somebody
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do the laundry for you.
You got like, some people got laundry from them.
Hey bro.
What?
Hey bro.
Some people's parents do the laundry.
Stop.
Some people's parents do the laundry from them.
You're messing me off because you should not have your mom doing the laundry
and you're 40 plus, 30 plus, 25 plus.
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And look, free cable, free electric.
Come on now.
And food in house like every day.
I know you bro.
Go ahead.
I know you can.
Please tell me you can.
Well, look, we got to give them some bell now.
No.
No.
Bro, you.
Okay, so your mom birthed you whatever day of the year it was.
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Right?
And your papa ain't going to leave the good dads out here because father's day is coming.
We're going to get to that too.
Definitely going to get to that father's day.
But your mom birthed you and carried you for nine months, right?
Nine months.
She took care of you.
Gave you a roof over your head.
Fooling your stomach.
Clothes on your back.
Right.
Sent you to school.
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Helped you with all this good shit, right?
Yes.
During that time you taking her through hell.
You being a boy though.
Yeah, growing up.
Right.
And some girls too.
Right.
Just being the kid.
Being the kid.
Yeah.
Now you 18.
Right.
Okay.
Some, you know what?
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I'm going to go to college.
Some go to trade school.
Some just get the job.
Some just get the job.
And some just, you know, take a year off and take a break.
Right.
Now you are 25.
25.
Right?
Right.
You still doing the same shit.
I had my second kid by 25.
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Now the one that's going to college you there for what?
Four years?
Four years depends.
Four years.
Six depends.
So you come home.
You graduate.
Got your degree.
Now that don't mean once you come home from your four years
and you got your degree you get comfortable and just say fuck it.
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But then you going to college again to get another degree.
Oh, right.
Right.
Right.
But you ain't even trying to find a crib or nothing.
Or the job that you got the degree for in the first four years.
Now you want to go to school for like a two year trade job.
Like, but it don't mean you got more degrees than you got house searches.
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True.
So now you got more degrees than your middle room.
Then you got apartment searches in your phone.
You sound like that Kanye West skit from the job.
College dropout.
I know you talking about.
It's just because when you say that you going to get old head head and old head.
No, I'm talking to the my age era too.
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Right.
If you're 44, 40 plus.
Right.
You already talking about this gangsta shit or you on Instagram.
Tripping social media period.
True.
And the real people know that man still live in his grandma house.
That man live with his cousin.
That man live with his mom.
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That man live with his uncles.
I had a situation like that, bro.
All right.
So I'm just going to call him my stepdad.
He wasn't really my stepdad, but my my younger siblings dad.
What do you mean?
He was my stepdad, but not really my stepdad.
Because him and my mom they was dating but they wasn't like, I don't know.
I don't know.
Me and my wife had this talk too about in-laws.
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We don't get to that.
Yeah, but the thing is I don't know because they wasn't married, but they were dating.
But like.
So that was just old way.
Yeah, but he my younger siblings dad though.
Uh-huh.
Yeah, so just I don't know.
That's your old way.
Yeah, old way.
It's called old way.
Yeah, but like so he was.
No, listen, no, I don't want Marty.
They not going to say no, bro.
It's not like that.
I don't want Marty.
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It's not that.
I'm just I'll explain it after he done his story.
So it's like all right.
So he lives he was is he had a sister, but he still live with his mom.
Right, but in the course of him living with his mom, he had five kids.
Okay, and then the sixth kid was me who moved in with him.
(30:53):
And he while he was still living with his mom doing all this have you said drug dealer all that stuff,
right, but still live with his mom with his girl and all her kids or young kids and shit like that.
And he was there to the day she passed away or IP but me that's what I'm I don't get that.
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Like what is the purpose of doing that?
I don't know.
Even if you ain't industry you working on a good job.
Why are you still and you and you bring in chicks to the crib?
I know I go live is I go live on sound all sexes and shit, but a female living with their parents.
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It's not as bad as a man living with the parent.
Yes, right.
True.
That's what I'm doing.
It's not it's not when you were going to hold you on 27.
We live my mom you got a wife.
Fuck girl.
Yo, bro.
What's up, fam?
Oh, I the crib drunk.
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Oh, no, I still live with dudes.
So I know I'm 44.
Fucking four years older than me.
Four years old.
48.
48 lives with his mom.
You still with dudes.
You don't want to get 50 years birthday party in the kitchen.
Yeah, I mean that's wild.
No, but that's ridiculous ridiculous.
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But I mean, it's a lot of the ones that got their own.
They can't celebrate having a home because you got worried about making sure to keep the own right,
but it's going to be look like they bragging or doing too much.
That's true, too.
But why can't they do that?
They've been doing this shit since Pup something doing it since they was able to move because they like I said,
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you come through hard times if you try you trying.
Yeah, you know what I'm saying, brother?
You got a you a minimum bandit.
You got five minimum bandit.
Five minimum bandit.
I need to get the government and get an apartment on Cribb.
Especially if all y'all work because there's a lot of minimum bandit that's getting it.
Yeah, they getting it.
Yeah, but it don't count because you don't know what it is to pay rent.
(33:11):
True.
With gas, with water, with electric, with cable, with a car load, with car insurance.
Yeah, with groceries.
Yeah, with your own expensive with your kids expensive.
True.
Now, y'all do your hair do your toes and nails.
(33:31):
Your son need a haircut.
Your daughter need braids.
Right.
Oh, hold on.
Don't forget the cold pay for insurance.
Oh damn, I forgot.
Gas for your car.
Oh shit.
What if the car go down repairs?
All right, so you're a minimum bandit.
(33:52):
Right.
Humble your motherfucking self to stay in that middle room.
Stay in that middle room.
With your door closed.
Oh shit, that's wild.
You good now?
You got up your chest.
I'm all right, man.
You good?
You got up your chest.
I'm all right, man.
I had to just get that all my chest out of me.
And y'all be knowing they minimum bandit, man.
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Let them get away with that shit.
All right, so some people.
All right.
Prime example, my older sister, Kea.
She lived in a house with my grandma.
Right.
She became a cop, had two kids, then
ended up moving out on her own.
That's what?
Come on.
I ain't talking about her.
I know you talking about her.
I'm saying.
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She a boss.
Yeah, I'm saying some people might do with the stack up
brick and move.
Yeah, that's what I'm talking about.
So she did it.
She followed the blue.
That's the blueprint.
All right.
You know what I'm saying?
But you talking about the ones that don't want to leave at all.
Yeah, bro.
You think you still fucking have it?
Come on, bro.
But she don't get talked about.
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She wouldn't get looked at as a person that
did what she was supposed to do.
All right.
You know what I mean?
And just saying, god forbid she was to fall on four hard times
and had to go back.
She would get talked about more than a motherfucker who
never moved.
True.
That's true.
You're right.
That's right.
I can't argue that part.
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I can't argue that.
I'm tired of y'all.
Hey, yo.
Go ahead.
Y'all middle wind band is getting on my motherfucking nerves, man.
Right.
Y'all don't got what my mom used to say.
You don't got a pocket pissing or a window to throw it out, man.
Instead of y'all all on social media posting this shit,
go and Google search and look for apartments and houses, man.
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Stop going to them trips.
Stop going Airbnb's.
Fuck the hookah lounge.
Fuck all the picnics.
We went and had fun too, bro.
Huh?
We had fun, though.
No, you had fun after you get your shit together, man.
Which is true.
It's way more fun when you got your shit together.
You know what I'm saying?
You was supposed to have fun when you even had the pay grant
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because you were living with your mom.
They bought your clothes.
Right.
What about the ones whose moms didn't buy their clothes?
Didn't give them school lunch money.
They had to work filler jobs or save their money from McDonald's
or whatever jobs was hiring, KFC, all that shit.
Right.
They don't get enough credit.
(36:22):
They don't.
You heard it.
So I'm tired of these middle-room bandits getting all this love
that ain't doing shit.
What the fuck, man?
That was sizzling.
All right, so we're going to do this with Gage real quick.
So now today.
What up?
We're recording on Wednesday.
Tomorrow is the NBA Finals.
(36:43):
I mean, the Timbuktu's didn't make it.
Yo, did you just give them a drop?
I ain't give them a drop.
What drop?
Oh, all right.
We ain't going to say nothing about that, bro.
I'm going to tell you at this episode, boy.
So the finals start Thursday.
Yeah.
When our episode four come out, so you got the finals
and we out the mud, drop it.
(37:04):
Come on, baby.
That's a win-win.
So you said Minnesota's going to make it.
Yeah.
Shout out to Ant and the Wolves, man.
Right.
They going to be there next year.
So my East Squad made it, which is Boston.
Right.
So I got to rock with Boston.
(37:24):
You got to rock with Boston.
Yeah.
Like I said, since my sisters got cheated.
They got cheated.
Yeah, man.
I'm rocking with Boston, man.
All right.
All right, before we get into fighting, lean up.
I ain't watch a lot of playoff games,
but I quote a good bunch, a good chunk.
So lean up to everything.
(37:46):
What do you think about the playoffs
and all the games you watch and stuff like that?
I think it's bullshit.
How you think it's bullshit?
There's too much to get into the playoffs.
You got play-in.
Some teams got the play-in.
All that shit.
I mean, it's turned into a rap battle.
It's turned into a rap battle.
There's too much going on.
The first of all was you played the game.
(38:07):
The best team out of each division made the playoffs.
That was it.
It wasn't no, oh, I feel sorry because the Clippers didn't
make it.
I feel sorry such and such and them ain't make it.
All right, they ain't make it.
Get better.
Get better.
Get in the fucking gym.
We're going to get jump shot.
Well, I guess they did the play-in tournament
(38:28):
when the pandemic hit because I thought
it would be better or something like that.
But I don't get it because it's from the seventh seed
to the tenth seed or something like that.
Sixth is one of them seeds like that.
The bottom four.
The bottom four teams.
So if you, the seventh, eighth seed,
and you got a winning record but you not the sixth seed up,
(38:51):
you still got play-in to play-in even though.
That's what I'm saying.
I don't understand.
That's why I watch football.
I ain't going to lie.
I watch football.
I'm a football.
I play mad.
Oh, hold on.
I be playing Madden 24 PS 5, right?
Right.
And not to get off topic, I be playing my man's name,
D Nice 215.
(39:13):
He's garbage.
You hear me?
Garbage.
Garbage.
We play for a bean cooked his ass.
You know what I'm saying?
And bought seafood on him.
My cousin be wanting to back him up and all that.
You know what I'm saying?
Mind your business, cuz.
All right, bro.
All right.
So you got Boston.
(39:33):
Boston.
How many games?
I rock with Boston.
Boston 6, Boston 7.
I got Boston in 6.
Really?
Boston in 6.
If they go to 7, that's because you know,
whoever control the best and all.
Here we go.
You know what I mean?
Drag it out.
They got Boston as a big favorite.
Yeah, because it's they time, bro.
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But Dallas.
What?
What about them?
Balling all the playoffs, bro.
So?
Kari and Lucas.
Not the Cowboys.
Cowboys trash.
If you're a Cowboys fan, I'm sorry.
Cowboys trash.
Oh, yeah, the Cowboys.
It's trash.
But listen, but Luca and Kari been balling.
And look at Kari back in Boston.
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Luca looking to make the stand, but he one of the best players in the league.
I mean, it's a lot of shit going on, bro.
Like I said.
Uh-huh.
I got I got dollars in 6.
Dollars in 6?
We might want to make a little...
What you got in the league?
I got dollars in 6.
I got Boston.
I got dollars in 6, bro.
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Boston.
You know, we're going to hop on that real quick.
So you listening to new music, bro?
All right.
So I'm going to keep it a beam.
Go ahead.
So meat drop 5 a.m.
in Philly.
That's your...
You don't like it?
I ain't gonna lie.
You tripping.
That's your nice.
He fucked that up.
Nice.
(40:57):
So I listen to him.
So when I hear a new song from my artist, I go back to the old shit.
Right.
So meat this week and on the R&B tip.
I ain't nobody.
I ain't really that.
It's just my old shit.
Like my flavors and shit.
Right.
(41:17):
So me, I listen to Davy Easton's new song.
It's called Mike and Keys.
Damn, dawg.
I like Davy Easton.
How the fuck I forget about Davy Easton.
Hey, Davy Easton, nice.
Mike and Keys, that jump fired.
But I'm a big Davy's fan anyway though.
So he nice.
He not just saying it even.
He nice.
Right.
He don't get enough credit even.
He don't.
He don't get enough credit.
Because he don't make very good music.
(41:38):
That's why.
But he nice though.
Like who...
What is people listening for and what's they listening to?
Because you've seen Meph and the Red Man did the Summer Jam.
Right.
Meph said he would never do it again because the crowd was like...
It wasn't a crowd.
Bro, them 20 years don't care about Rockwater.
Okay, now do you blame them or do you blame their parents?
(42:02):
Because I told my kids about the Biggies.
Right.
The Two Pops, the Wu-Tangs, the Lox.
I let them listen to them.
You're going to learn this, dawg.
Like you ain't just going to be out here and somebody ask you who Mild D?
People that's always together with S.D.?
Yo, we had this.
Yo, it's crazy.
(42:23):
Because I was in a car, right, with my kids and my wife.
And we were talking about the Drake and Kendrick John, right?
Right.
And they were saying Drake can't rap.
I'm like one day Drake can't rap.
What are you talking about?
So my middle son...
Say that again.
They said Drake can't rap.
He can?
Cannot.
Oh no.
Exactly.
I'm talking about Drake can rap.
What the hell?
That's not the point though.
(42:44):
Let me get on topic.
So my middle son told me that his top five, his top three rappers
are, he said Kendrick Lamar, Tupac, and Pop Smoke.
I'm like one thing, Pop Smoke.
I'm like one thing, bro.
I'm like one thing.
(43:04):
Rest in peace, Pop Smoke.
Rest in peace.
That's what you gotta understand.
Yeah, so I'm saying, so my 10 year old son know about Tupac.
They know about Michael Jackson, know about Muffin Man, Dio Max, and all that stuff.
So like, it's good to the parents.
No, I think, I mean, his top three gonna change.
(43:27):
Of course it's gonna change.
I'm saying it's a team.
He's gonna listen to more music.
I mean, so I can't, that's a nice top three for his age.
Yeah, I just say that because he said Tupac.
Right, and you did.
Tupac died in like 95.
He was even born.
Yeah, that's what I'm saying.
I gotta be you listening to or telling them about these artists.
You know what I'm saying?
Like, I can't, I don't understand these new rappers, bro.
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But yeah, I own Meek Mill, like I said.
R&B, just regular shit.
You know what I mean?
You know, you got iPhone, you got your favorite playlist, and they reload it on Tuesday.
So I'll do that shit.
So yeah, I've just been doing that, bro.
On the music, too.
(44:09):
I've been listening to a lot of Chris Brown.
Oh, no, hold on.
What's up?
Hold the fuck up, yo.
What's up?
The music, too.
You...
Go ahead.
Listen, I'm going to tell y'all what this motherfucker was about to do.
What was about to do?
So he called me, we talking on the phone, right?
Right.
So he like, yeah, bro, I'm going to own, I'm going to pick the John Kelly Price...
(44:32):
Oh, yeah, yeah, the Kelly Price.
No.
So I'm like, what?
He like, yeah, I'm going to put the song Kelly Price as we lay on my page.
I'm like, no.
What you doing?
So I'm like, yo, bro, you know that song about Bob, bro?
I'm like, bro, just look at the video.
When you look at the video, then you howl at me.
(44:54):
Now tell them what you got from the video.
All right.
So I've been, the last two podcasts, I've been telling y'all about wild songs and shit like that.
I knew Kelly Price as we lay was a wild song, but the video is something crazy.
So we're going to pick up the videos.
(45:15):
So if you've never seen that video before, here's a quick rundown.
It's a dude, he's married.
He's with Kelly Price.
He go home, his wife...
He go have a n***a on the couch.
Exactly.
I was saying like, his wife, his birthday come up, his wife ended up giving him tickets and shit to Kelly Price.
(45:39):
Kelly Price come out, this n***a looks so nervous.
Bro, think about it, bro. That's like a person in real life seeing somebody at a fucking grocery store.
You turn around, only you know who that is.
Right.
Now they being, excuse me, can you pass me the...
(46:00):
You bitch.
Or the n***a. Excuse me, ma'am.
But her head's like, bitch, you see me?
So then it gets worse though, so Kelly Price starts singing and stuff like that.
Boy look mad uncomfortable.
So she get off stage.
Boy look like he's going to shit on himself.
So she get off stage and walk towards him.
(46:21):
And don't you know the part when you like, you got to go home to your wife.
And she points at boy wife.
Bro, this boy, y'all watch his body crazy, bro.
I didn't write the song, I didn't direct the video, bro.
He know all the other joints, but he ain't no ass, he's lame.
Yo, I didn't know how wild that video was, bro.
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I had to pit him deep, you know what I mean? I had to pit a little bro deep, man.
I didn't know how wild that video was, bro.
Look at that video, man.
Oh wait, you talking about Patti LaBelle with you?
Oh yeah, if only you knew.
I ain't know, I mean like, I ain't know that was towards another dude.
(47:04):
I thought she was, you know, singing to like her husband, her boyfriend at the time.
Right.
Like, you know, if only you knew how much, you know, I love you.
You taking me for granted.
But it ain't like that.
She saying that to her side boy.
(47:25):
And then saying like, this boy at home, he ain't even paying me no attention.
You know what I mean? Yeah, man, because you take that shit for granted.
Yeah, true. Some people end up taking it for granted, bro.
You know what I'm saying? So, you know, Moral Story, them songs back in the day,
they was teaching us something. We was just either too young to get it,
(47:46):
or our ears was too immature to listen.
And it's a lot, lot more.
Yeah, man, it's a lot more we gonna be talking about, man, about them songs.
It's real. It's real.
But on that note, now we're gonna close it out.
Now we're gonna close it out, man.
Yeah, go ahead.
Yo, man, listen, man, stop playing, man.
(48:07):
It's way out the mud, man. This is Nile, man, from the North, man.
And like I say, before you eat a crib, eat with common sense,
because they trying to make it common, not to have sense.
Download, listen, follow, comment.
Show us love. Marty, talk to them.
If y'all fucking with us, you gotta let us know y'all fucking with us.
(48:31):
That's what Instagram for. That's what TikTok for.
That's what Facebook for. That's what X is for.
Feel me? Like I said earlier, don't come to me in real life,
tell me about the podcast. I don't hear nothing.
Leave a comment. That's it.
Oh, and before we wrap up, too, go ahead.
Hey, BJ, I just want to say I'm proud of you.
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Love you, big cuz, super proud. It's my cousin BJ from South Philly.
Graduated out of New York State, moved to Alaska, then moved to Atlanta and doing big things.
Moved to Alaska?
Yeah, she moved to Alaska, did her thing, then she moved to Atlanta.
Now, I mean, so, BJ, I just want to let you know I'm super, super, super proud of you.
(49:18):
Keep doing your thing.
And now we got a special shout out to my nephew Salam.
Yes, sir.
Give a shout out to my coworker Justin.
And give a shout out to my other coworker Khalil.
And y'all already know Chris, Todd, Ms, Nell.
Thanks everybody that's showing us love and...
Pen is on your page, man. So we out, man.
(49:40):
We appreciate it.
Hope y'all enjoyed this episode.
And now, you know what I always say.
Go ahead, give it to them, bro.
Let's go.
Give it to them.
You say you a gangster, but you never pop nothing.
We say you a winkster, and you need to stop frontin'.
You go to the dealership, but you never cop nothing.
(50:02):
You better hustle for a long time.
Niggas, stop frontin', and we out.
Yo, what up, what up, what up, what up?
(00:13):
You got the ball now from way out the mud, man.
Yo, what up, what up, what up?
It's your boy Marty from way out the mud.
You know what I'm saying?
We starting off with episode four.
We just want to give shout-outs and thanks
to everybody that tuned in and downloaded and listened
to our episode three, family and friends.
All we ask is if you have anything
(00:33):
to say about the first three episodes,
leave a comment on our Instagram.
Yes, and if you got anything you want
to talk about, any topics or stuff, leave a comment.
Leave a comment.
Don't walk to me up in person, because I
don't hear nothing from me.
If it's not on the Instagram page or TikTok or Facebook
(00:54):
or X, any of that, I don't talk podcasts off social media.
Yeah, I mean, so leave a comment.
Don't forget to repost.
Don't forget to follow.
Don't forget to tune in.
Now, we on episode four, bedroom bandits.
You calling it bedroom bandits?
Yeah, bedroom bandits, man.
So first of all, before we get into this episode,
how was your week, brother?
(01:16):
I mean, you know, we've been good, working shit,
chilling with the fam, you know, the holidays past and shit.
Yeah, how was your holiday?
I mean, it was good.
Me and the kids, home, chilling, watching a little TV.
Let me go outside and shit, you know.
What about you, bro?
Oh, man, you know, I fell back.
I only got a little one, so I'm like an empty nester.
(01:38):
True.
So we just fell back, chill, had a little barbecue
with me, wifey, and the kids.
And then, you know, mom, Duke's birthday just passed.
Rest in peace.
Happy, happy birthday, June the 4th.
Happy birthday.
So, you know, let some balloons go,
had a little cupcake, you know what I mean?
I feel you.
(01:58):
And that's it, man.
So, man, we're about to, you know,
we're going to get into the episode,
but, you know, we're just checking up how was y'all week.
So we want to hear from y'all, man.
How was y'all week?
How do y'all like the podcast so far, you know what I mean?
Yes, please let us know.
Thanks for all the love, though.
Definitely.
And like we said, we got them wristbands coming, man.
Definitely.
You know what I mean?
So what's up, bro?
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What we talking about?
What the fuck we talking about, bro?
We doing too much talking, not talk.
Not talk, all right.
So this week, we going to talk about,
now we going to call it bedroom bandits,
but it's mainly about what is the appropriate age
for your kid to like move out and be on their own.
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As soon as they think they grown.
As soon as they think they don't got to respect you.
Word, I don't feel like that, though, for me.
No, man, because listen, right.
Go ahead.
So I don't want to sound like a better OG,
but it's a lot of young people and it's a lot of grown people
too out here, you know, talking that talk,
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but not walking that walk.
Elaborate, elaborate.
You got to be able to walk that walk.
You know what I mean?
You can't be talking that talk and then you
go in the middle room and get mom for it.
You know what I'm saying?
I don't understand that, like all the designer clothes,
right?
All the foreign hell cats, all the guns in the world,
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all the purses, but you going in your middle room
that you was going to since high school.
So if you think you're going to your parents
or you're going to your mom, get your own place.
That's what I say.
Get your own place.
Now, if you're going to college, you know what I mean?
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You fell on hard times or your mom's ill.
You know what I'm saying?
That's different.
But if you got a good job, you driving a good car,
you going on trips every other month,
but once you get off that plane, you ain't going to your home.
You going to your mom's home or your grandma's home,
your cousin's home, in the middle room.
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That don't add up.
Your whole child is going to be better than your real room.
What the fuck is going on here?
Well, they give a little pushback, bro.
It's not the same like it wasn't when we was growing up.
You know what I'm saying?
Bro, you change years.
You got to do it, bro.
I know, but I'm saying, like, they ain't me,
but I heard a lot of people say, yo, by the time you're 18,
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you got to get out of my house.
Right, right, right.
Right.
So if I'm fresh out of high school,
and you want me to like this move out,
I didn't have no experiences.
I just know I've lived in a house with you, paying bills,
trying to help out when I can.
I got me a little job and shit.
Now you want me to go find an apartment on my own?
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Right, right, right.
I mean, looking at it now, being 44,
you also got to know your kids.
So you say, it is different from when we was coming up.
It's a lot more dangerous.
And it's more expensive.
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Very expensive.
So don't walk around like the shit don't stink.
You know what I'm saying?
You walk around like the shit don't stink.
But knowing, you know what I mean,
you're going in that little middle room
or that basement, you feel what I'm saying?
Be humble.
Oh, that's hard.
You know what I'm saying?
Because it is hard.
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It's definitely hard.
Like I said, I want to sign up to be the OG.
Because I love all my young boys, all the young ladies
that are doing their thing.
Because if they don't get the credit,
the ones that are busting their ass,
was living with their mom in the school, in the college,
had kids, and still going, they don't get the credit.
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But the middle room bandits get all the love.
Because I guess as a parent, it kind of seems as a friend.
You don't worry about the strong friend,
because you think your strong friend got it.
So if you got the responsible kid,
you're not going to be worried about the responsible kid.
You got to worry about the kid that, yo,
if I put this motherfucker out, he might end up on cracker,
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or dead or some shit.
But how long do you keep them under you?
Because even animals, straight from their kids.
Yeah, that's true.
You know what I'm saying?
Birds do kick the big bird out the next year.
Yeah, so you got to fly along on your own.
And then if you do fall, and this is to the parents, man,
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don't be turning your back on your kids
if they need your help to come back.
Don't throw it in their face.
Don't be telling their aunt or uncle, yeah,
it's my ass or her, my ass had to come back.
And no, no, they ain't actually be here at the end of the day.
But to the bedroom bandits, the middle room bandits,
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I'm tired of y'all.
Like, I'm really tired of y'all, because y'all be the main ones
talking shit.
Y'all be talking shit, bro.
Talking shit like how?
Right, all right, so it's one is that, all right,
so I'm going to say it like this,
if you almost pushing 50.
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Who's almost pushing 50 in their mind, Craig, bro?
I'm just talking in general, man.
Say it.
I'm not talking to nobody in particular.
I'm just talking in general.
I feel you, but if you 50, still with your mom, Craig,
and she's not sick, you got, bro, something's up.
Now, listen, somebody might say, well, I did move out, OK.
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When was that last time you moved out?
Sometimes you move out before y'all go to your in-law, Craig,
or you might got to go to your folks' crib,
you know what I'm saying?
But you're not supposed to stay home.
Bro, it take people 20 years to get back on their feet.
No, it fucking don't.
It takes 20 years to get back on your feet, bro.
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What 20, who?
Bro, it could take somebody 20 years to get back on their feet.
20 years?
Man, you should be, boy, 20 fucking years.
It could take somebody 20 years.
That's two decades.
Yeah, it's two decades to fucking cry.
The fuck was you doing?
That's what I'm saying.
I don't know, man.
I know, bro.
Like I just said, I ain't coming down on them,
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because I said I know what's hard,
but it's females and men that have been on their own,
doing what they're supposed to do since they was like 16, 17,
and still doing it now, but don't get the credit for it.
All right, so for that, so do you blame the kid
or you blame the parent?
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Because you got to put that in there.
Because some kids might want to go,
but some parents might be a little nervous.
Because you let me say it.
If you know your child, no, you don't just push them out there.
But if your child's showing that indepedency, like, I got it.
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Like, I got this.
I mean, let them go ahead, but also let them know,
if you come on rough times, I got you.
You know what I mean?
Don't tell them, yo, I got you.
But then when they come on rough time, man,
it's the third time I helped you out.
Yo, you said you had me.
Right.
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I mean, you know where I work at.
You know they not paying for our expenses.
They not.
You know what I'm saying?
They not paying for that.
They not.
So you go part time, how's you paying for your bills?
You go four times, you're down.
They got to get a part time now.
Yeah, you got to get two jobs.
Two jobs.
Especially now.
Back in the day, you get one.
Right.
And be all right if you manage your bread, right?
True.
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You know what I'm saying?
Some places in Philly, like, 1,300 for one.
And it ain't even worth it.
You paying 1,300 for the fucking kitchen floor
and the refrigerator that play music on it.
Yeah, true.
Back in the day, one bedroom was $575.
Two bedrooms ain't on it.
That's crazy, dog.
Now it just hits on my 13th.
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And I don't blame these young.
All right, so you are, all right, this what I say to them,
to the middle room bandits.
Y'all be in all them group chats.
Y'all got a bunch of friends.
That's middle room bandits, too.
Why the fuck y'all don't get together and get a crib together?
Especially if all y'all work.
Now, if you don't have a job where you failed in 100 times,
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or you're going to school, you know what I'm saying?
I ain't talking to you.
I'm talking about the ones that's working, going on trips,
and got cars, and all this other shit they do on the side.
But look for an apartment for a crib.
Yeah, you're right.
So you want people to, so you're saying
this is like, why don't they get a roommate?
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Yeah, basically.
Get a roommate.
You know, y'all always together.
You going to this middle room bandit house.
You going to that middle room bandit house.
Y'all all middle room bandits.
But y'all can't go in one of y'all middle rooms and say,
yo, why the fuck we ain't got a crib?
Why we ain't roommates?
So you just going to be in that middle room?
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So you 60.
60, that's fucking wild.
60?
Come on.
Crazy, bro.
And some people might listen, no, man,
I ain't coming down on y'all, man.
Just a lot of us are tired.
You know what I mean?
So I'm speaking for the ones that picked the work in,
that came out the mud, that fell on hard times,
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and kept pushing.
So they making it where as though you can't
show love to yourself.
You know what I'm saying?
Like, you can't big yourself up.
Yeah.
Oh, they showing up.
No, this motherfucker been doing this for years.
Yeah.
So why the fuck they can't show off or show
they accomplishments?
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Well, for me, I was on the verge of being a middle room
bandit until my wife ended up getting pregnant,
and my sister Lisa kicked me out.
She said, ain't nobody, baby daddy,
going to be sleeping in my basement.
I'm like, what are you talking about, lady?
Oh, man.
I was not ready for that conversation.
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Like, court me off guard.
I mean, it's so cool to this day.
I mean, I understand what she did.
But I don't know what would happen if she didn't do that.
Because some people take advantage of it.
Like, they know you got a harder goal.
So they can be like, they falling on hard times or whatever.
And then they might ask you, you know, you say, yeah.
You give them a like, yo, you got like six months.
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Some people ain't even supposed to have you in their crib.
Yeah, true.
You know what I'm saying?
You get caught up in their crib.
They can put the fuck out.
Yeah, true.
Certain, certain sex, they got eight jobs.
You right.
You know what I'm saying?
So you tell them six months or they be like, well,
I'll do this and do that.
Now all of a sudden, it went from six months to six years.
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That can happen sometimes, bro.
And then this motherfucker got a nerve to have an attitude.
Because you got to get the fuck out.
When you ask them to do something, they get rules.
True.
What?
That's understandable, understandable.
Now you went from a middle room to get your ass out of my crib.
And they're going to porch.
Yeah, you know what I'm saying?
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Right there, man.
Like, just to all y'all out there,
I want to give a shout out to everybody that's
not a middle room bandit.
Y'all don't get enough love.
Shout out to y'all holding it down since y'all were pups.
Shout out to all the youngins just holding it down.
Because there's a lot of youngins out here making bigger
moves than the OGs, too.
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Definitely true.
You know what I'm saying?
So shout out to y'all.
Right.
I see y'all out there.
There's a lot of young, young, young ladies and gentlemen
out here owning businesses.
True.
Yeah, I mean, working they ass off,
the ones that got kids, the ones that don't have kids.
Right.
You know what I'm saying?
So keep doing your thing.
And don't stop again.
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Congratulations to all the graduates of 2024, man.
Oh, congratulations to everybody.
Yeah, from kindergarten to 12.
I know them 12 years was hard because that shit was hard
for me, bro.
So I knew it was hard.
So congratulations.
And congratulations to all the college grads, man.
Oh, yeah.
People been in college for like 10 years.
It's not a great dream, bro.
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If you graduate class of 2024, man, congratulations to you.
Yeah, that's a different type of dedication.
Yeah, different type of dedication.
That's all it was.
You can't say it's bullshit if you never went through it.
Right.
You know what I'm saying?
All right, so let's go back on topic.
So for the people who kind of need that inspiration
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and stuff like that, let me know what you did when you were
No, so all right, so I graduated out of high school.
I thought I was grown.
So my mom gave me a curve.
Like, yo, being a kid before 12, I think it was.
So I'm just a Spanish smoking weed and all that.
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I'm drinking wine with Rose, mad dog.
Being in that 2020.
Yeah, all that bullshit.
You know what I'm saying?
So I show up late.
It's like 2 o'clock in the morning.
So knocking on the window.
Her stepfather is the Tommy Nelson and shit.
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They don't open the door.
So when she open the door, she say,
then I tell you, to be in my house at a certain time,
don't be coming in here until 2, 2.30.
You coming in here at 2.30, bro?
Now, look, I'm on, so I'm like, why aren't you
dope for me working and working with my aunt?
I got money saved up, so make a long story longer.
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They let me in.
I'm on dope.
But in my head, I'm like, yo, I'm out.
Like, I'm out.
So next day, which was a Saturday,
ran into papers or whatever.
Started looking through for apartments and shit.
Called Hillside Gardens or whatever.
And then the rest is history, man.
All right, so in order to find the apartment you got,
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before you caught, how difficult was
that process of transitioning from your mom's house
to your first apartment?
I was happy because at the time, I
thought my mom was real strict, not knowing that she already
been in the streets.
She knew what the streets about.
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And I think she knew, like, Nasir would be good,
and his own life would be good.
So it was all right.
It was scary, though, like, when you first get in there.
It was like, you 18.
So you the fuck.
But then, you know, you do certain things
that you couldn't do in your mom crib.
And then you feel like a man.
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Like I said, I mean, I was working at Keystone.
So at first, I was at UPS with the apartment and all that.
And then I went to Keystone.
And then the rest was history, man.
Then back to my mom crib since I moved out,
rest in peace, Dukes.
But yeah, bro, it was rough.
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It was, you know, you had to really be a responsible adult
because you couldn't play around.
Like, if you ain't pay that rent,
you know you getting kicked out.
You ain't know, oh, Nasir, we good?
No.
No.
Yeah.
Don't have it on that day.
They'd probably be like two days.
And you get a late fee.
That late fee crazy.
You know what I'm saying?
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But you keep playing, this shit going to be outside.
You know what I'm saying?
So and I ain't want to hear people say,
I told you you couldn't do it.
You know what I'm saying?
So that gives me more motivation to do this shit.
You know what I'm saying?
So for me, right, like I said, my sister put me out.
I was 21.
My wife at the time, my wife was seeing my girlfriend.
My wife was pregnant with our first kid.
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OK.
And she was like, ain't no baby that live in my house.
So I had to move from living with my sister
to living with my wife.
Like we knew each other, we began to know each other,
stuff like that.
Trying to understand.
And you know, my sister was like a mom.
Like she cooked every night.
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We made sure that I do the chores and shit.
Like this and shit.
Like all my brothers know how it was living with my sister,
Lisa.
So now being on your own is like,
I'm not doing that fucking chores and shit like that.
But also, I still had to get up, go to work, still had to,
can't spend my money on anything.
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Yeah, it wasn't on calling out.
No, it wasn't.
Yeah, for me.
Because then, like, you know, back then,
I was working at McDonald's at the time.
So I'm like, shit.
And then, girlfriend pregnant, I'm like, fuck.
Like, all right.
So I can't call out.
I call out, my check will be $20 shirt.
Rent was back in, was it 2011?
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Yeah, my rent was like $500.
Yeah, that shit wasn't hot.
That shit was like.
It wasn't hot at all, bro.
So I could do that $500.
But for me, if I missed a date, that $500,
look like $300, that check like $300.
And I'm like, oh, I can't let that happen.
And then, like, when you get the, first,
I get the hang of it.
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Because me, I had to get the hang of it moving with somebody,
living with somebody.
And then, like, because, like I said before,
my mom had all boys and then one little sister.
But this is my first time actually living with me
and, like, a girl and all the, like, stuff that girls do.
And my wife had to get used to, like, all the stuff
that dudes do and shit like that.
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Because now she's farting in front of you.
Now she's farting in front of her,
waking up and stinking ass bruh.
All day, man.
You know what I mean?
I mean, it's fun when it's visiting.
And when y'all there together, now you about to see the world.
Yeah, they shit around.
Because come on, man.
Come on.
Come on.
Come on, fellas.
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That shit was different, bro.
You gotta give these ladies world credit.
They deal with a lot of bullshit from us men.
Exactly, bro.
But yeah.
All ass toads, ass, ass feet.
My bad, bro.
I'm just saying, I don't get no credit, man.
Right.
So then, like, this the learning, like, all right.
So, oh, bills come every fucking month.
Oh, yeah.
No, no, no, they don't.
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They don't?
No.
They don't.
What you mean, every month?
Oh, you talking about the ones that's not middle room bandits.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Yeah, I'm talking about middle room bandits.
OK, middle room bandits, every six months.
Every six months.
Oh, my god.
Yeah, but when you first move out, do you think, oh, shit.
They don't just pay a fucking electric bill.
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They don't just pay rent.
It's already, like, time.
I ain't going to lie to people that being broke.
When it came to my bills to pay, I used to do, like,
the fucking Libra scale.
Just see how I got to see it.
Bills.
Bills.
Fuck.
If it's everyone who read the most, that's what I'm doing.
Right.
So that's how I did it.
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But then, you know, sometimes you went out.
Yeah, I could do without lights, nigga.
It's summertime.
Fuck that.
Oh, shit.
Sun will go out until, like, 7.30.
I could do without lights?
What?
Yeah, man.
These people just saying, like.
I could do without lights, lights and candles, you know what I'm saying?
Like, sometimes you had to scratch to survive.
Right.
You know what I mean?
My first apartment, we didn't have to, we would pay.
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I think the only we had to pay for was electricity.
Yeah, lights.
Yeah, we had to pay for electricity and shit like that.
And if you want cable and shit, you got to pay for that too.
And, like, oh, shit.
And, like, the security deposit and shit.
Yeah, the mic dog.
The mic dog.
Y'all.
That's Marty.
And don't forget about the whole security deposit.
No, this to get the money up.
Yeah.
To move out.
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That's, like, oh, my God.
It's like every time you had the amount, something happened.
Yeah.
Always like that.
It's like that now, honey.
It's like that now.
It's so weird.
Well, I don't think nobody got no money saved.
Man, if you do.
It is just a hoot.
If you got money saved, salute to you.
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I really respect you.
Right.
Because you must don't be outside.
At all.
Yeah, I mean, if you do go outside, you could really manage that bread.
Salute to you.
Call it discipline, bro.
Yeah, because of our.
Because of our what?
Look at it.
I can't tell you with me, but I'll leave this bitch.
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I know.
I feel the same way you do, though.
Like.
Man, listen, I'm tired of picking it up for bills and.
Right.
Emergencies.
And you don't get to enjoy that shit.
Fuck no, bro.
That's what the scene like, though.
No, bro.
I done seen people.
I got 20k saved.
Right.
Two years later, gone.
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Yeah.
Now you got 20k in the savings.
You don't know why you're damn cold.
Right.
You hate it from your boo boo.
You ain't fuck with kids.
You know what I'm saying?
Right.
I ain't saying go out there and blow your shit, but enjoy it.
Right.
You know what I'm saying?
But it's hard.
You got rent.
Right.
Like you said, utility bills, your kids bills.
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Oh, Brian, you can talk about groceries.
Groceries.
Niggas got to eat.
Oh, niggas got to eat.
Yeah, bro.
You got to eat every day.
You do got to eat every day, too.
Hold on.
Back in the day, how many times we went shopping?
Like twice a month?
Yeah.
Now it's like you going every fucking Friday.
Yeah, true.
You in the market.
Yeah.
And then especially now school ended for the summer break.
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Oh, you need shit for the kids to do, bro.
Activities every day.
Come on.
Especially when you got young kids.
Come on, man.
Oh, man.
Come on.
Yeah.
So I mean, my thing is for the whole middleman,
I say nudge them out.
But also you got to make sure they ready.
I don't know.
But no.
No, bro.
You don't.
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What?
See, you know.
That's the no.
What?
Like I said, if you out here acting like you got it,
go get it.
You know what I'm saying?
Because if you never moved out, how can you tell other people
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how to run their house?
How to pay for your shit?
You never experienced it.
True.
You know what I mean?
You just paying little bullshit bills, a phone bill.
That's nothing.
Might pay a car note or insurance.
Right.
You know what I'm saying?
But a lot of times out of 10, whatever you living with,
helping you pay that.
That's true.
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You know what I'm saying?
But what if the kid not good with money?
That's some people.
I know some people, that shit is burned through their pocket.
Like it's nothing.
If the kid not good with money, you take your fucking half out
and you give it to the person you living with to make sure
your half is paid for.
Right.
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You know what I'm saying?
You feel me?
Or, yo, I'm trying to move.
Can you pick this up?
But then some people, it's shite today.
They be spending it.
Yeah.
You know what I mean?
So get a fucking savings account.
The fuck?
True.
You know everything but to get out that crib and get a crib.
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And what about the comfortability though?
But that's true.
But never mind.
Now I said that like people being comfortable is not going
to get you where you want to be.
So you got to get used to being uncomfortable.
You right?
See right?
I hate to agree with you.
Yo, just know that.
If you in that middle room and you got to go and you're doing
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what you're supposed to do, that's one thing.
Right.
But if you in that middle room, just to be in that middle room,
you clocking out every day, just to go back in that middle room.
Right.
So you telling me for them eight hours even on a break,
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because you know, you ain't saying let me look and see if
any cribs out here on sale, anybody out in your apartments.
No, you just said fuck it.
I'm going to go right back in that middle room.
I mean, think about it though.
Three Chris Mills.
You're saying Jim?
I'm saying but if your mom home, bro, and then you got somebody
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do the laundry for you.
You got like, some people got laundry from them.
Hey bro.
What?
Hey bro.
Some people's parents do the laundry.
Stop.
Some people's parents do the laundry from them.
You're messing me off because you should not have your mom doing the laundry
and you're 40 plus, 30 plus, 25 plus.
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And look, free cable, free electric.
Come on now.
And food in house like every day.
I know you bro.
Go ahead.
I know you can.
Please tell me you can.
Well, look, we got to give them some bell now.
No.
No.
Bro, you.
Okay, so your mom birthed you whatever day of the year it was.
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Right?
And your papa ain't going to leave the good dads out here because father's day is coming.
We're going to get to that too.
Definitely going to get to that father's day.
But your mom birthed you and carried you for nine months, right?
Nine months.
She took care of you.
Gave you a roof over your head.
Fooling your stomach.
Clothes on your back.
Right.
Sent you to school.
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Helped you with all this good shit, right?
Yes.
During that time you taking her through hell.
You being a boy though.
Yeah, growing up.
Right.
And some girls too.
Right.
Just being the kid.
Being the kid.
Yeah.
Now you 18.
Right.
Okay.
Some, you know what?
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I'm going to go to college.
Some go to trade school.
Some just get the job.
Some just get the job.
And some just, you know, take a year off and take a break.
Right.
Now you are 25.
25.
Right?
Right.
You still doing the same shit.
I had my second kid by 25.
(28:21):
Now the one that's going to college you there for what?
Four years?
Four years depends.
Four years.
Six depends.
So you come home.
You graduate.
Got your degree.
Now that don't mean once you come home from your four years
and you got your degree you get comfortable and just say fuck it.
(28:42):
But then you going to college again to get another degree.
Oh, right.
Right.
Right.
But you ain't even trying to find a crib or nothing.
Or the job that you got the degree for in the first four years.
Now you want to go to school for like a two year trade job.
Like, but it don't mean you got more degrees than you got house searches.
(29:07):
True.
So now you got more degrees than your middle room.
Then you got apartment searches in your phone.
You sound like that Kanye West skit from the job.
College dropout.
I know you talking about.
It's just because when you say that you going to get old head head and old head.
No, I'm talking to the my age era too.
(29:29):
Right.
If you're 44, 40 plus.
Right.
You already talking about this gangsta shit or you on Instagram.
Tripping social media period.
True.
And the real people know that man still live in his grandma house.
That man live with his cousin.
That man live with his mom.
(29:49):
That man live with his uncles.
I had a situation like that, bro.
All right.
So I'm just going to call him my stepdad.
He wasn't really my stepdad, but my my younger siblings dad.
What do you mean?
He was my stepdad, but not really my stepdad.
Because him and my mom they was dating but they wasn't like, I don't know.
I don't know.
Me and my wife had this talk too about in-laws.
(30:11):
We don't get to that.
Yeah, but the thing is I don't know because they wasn't married, but they were dating.
But like.
So that was just old way.
Yeah, but he my younger siblings dad though.
Uh-huh.
Yeah, so just I don't know.
That's your old way.
Yeah, old way.
It's called old way.
Yeah, but like so he was.
No, listen, no, I don't want Marty.
They not going to say no, bro.
It's not like that.
I don't want Marty.
(30:33):
It's not that.
I'm just I'll explain it after he done his story.
So it's like all right.
So he lives he was is he had a sister, but he still live with his mom.
Right, but in the course of him living with his mom, he had five kids.
Okay, and then the sixth kid was me who moved in with him.
(30:53):
And he while he was still living with his mom doing all this have you said drug dealer all that stuff,
right, but still live with his mom with his girl and all her kids or young kids and shit like that.
And he was there to the day she passed away or IP but me that's what I'm I don't get that.
(31:15):
Like what is the purpose of doing that?
I don't know.
Even if you ain't industry you working on a good job.
Why are you still and you and you bring in chicks to the crib?
I know I go live is I go live on sound all sexes and shit, but a female living with their parents.
(31:42):
It's not as bad as a man living with the parent.
Yes, right.
True.
That's what I'm doing.
It's not it's not when you were going to hold you on 27.
We live my mom you got a wife.
Fuck girl.
Yo, bro.
What's up, fam?
Oh, I the crib drunk.
(32:03):
Oh, no, I still live with dudes.
So I know I'm 44.
Fucking four years older than me.
Four years old.
48.
48 lives with his mom.
You still with dudes.
You don't want to get 50 years birthday party in the kitchen.
Yeah, I mean that's wild.
No, but that's ridiculous ridiculous.
(32:24):
But I mean, it's a lot of the ones that got their own.
They can't celebrate having a home because you got worried about making sure to keep the own right,
but it's going to be look like they bragging or doing too much.
That's true, too.
But why can't they do that?
They've been doing this shit since Pup something doing it since they was able to move because they like I said,
(32:47):
you come through hard times if you try you trying.
Yeah, you know what I'm saying, brother?
You got a you a minimum bandit.
You got five minimum bandit.
Five minimum bandit.
I need to get the government and get an apartment on Cribb.
Especially if all y'all work because there's a lot of minimum bandit that's getting it.
Yeah, they getting it.
Yeah, but it don't count because you don't know what it is to pay rent.
(33:11):
True.
With gas, with water, with electric, with cable, with a car load, with car insurance.
Yeah, with groceries.
Yeah, with your own expensive with your kids expensive.
True.
Now, y'all do your hair do your toes and nails.
(33:31):
Your son need a haircut.
Your daughter need braids.
Right.
Oh, hold on.
Don't forget the cold pay for insurance.
Oh damn, I forgot.
Gas for your car.
Oh shit.
What if the car go down repairs?
All right, so you're a minimum bandit.
(33:52):
Right.
Humble your motherfucking self to stay in that middle room.
Stay in that middle room.
With your door closed.
Oh shit, that's wild.
You good now?
You got up your chest.
I'm all right, man.
You good?
You got up your chest.
I'm all right, man.
I had to just get that all my chest out of me.
And y'all be knowing they minimum bandit, man.
(34:12):
Let them get away with that shit.
All right, so some people.
All right.
Prime example, my older sister, Kea.
She lived in a house with my grandma.
Right.
She became a cop, had two kids, then
ended up moving out on her own.
That's what?
Come on.
I ain't talking about her.
I know you talking about her.
I'm saying.
(34:32):
She a boss.
Yeah, I'm saying some people might do with the stack up
brick and move.
Yeah, that's what I'm talking about.
So she did it.
She followed the blue.
That's the blueprint.
All right.
You know what I'm saying?
But you talking about the ones that don't want to leave at all.
Yeah, bro.
You think you still fucking have it?
Come on, bro.
But she don't get talked about.
(34:54):
She wouldn't get looked at as a person that
did what she was supposed to do.
All right.
You know what I mean?
And just saying, god forbid she was to fall on four hard times
and had to go back.
She would get talked about more than a motherfucker who
never moved.
True.
That's true.
You're right.
That's right.
I can't argue that part.
(35:15):
I can't argue that.
I'm tired of y'all.
Hey, yo.
Go ahead.
Y'all middle wind band is getting on my motherfucking nerves, man.
Right.
Y'all don't got what my mom used to say.
You don't got a pocket pissing or a window to throw it out, man.
Instead of y'all all on social media posting this shit,
go and Google search and look for apartments and houses, man.
(35:39):
Stop going to them trips.
Stop going Airbnb's.
Fuck the hookah lounge.
Fuck all the picnics.
We went and had fun too, bro.
Huh?
We had fun, though.
No, you had fun after you get your shit together, man.
Which is true.
It's way more fun when you got your shit together.
You know what I'm saying?
You was supposed to have fun when you even had the pay grant
(36:01):
because you were living with your mom.
They bought your clothes.
Right.
What about the ones whose moms didn't buy their clothes?
Didn't give them school lunch money.
They had to work filler jobs or save their money from McDonald's
or whatever jobs was hiring, KFC, all that shit.
Right.
They don't get enough credit.
(36:22):
They don't.
You heard it.
So I'm tired of these middle-room bandits getting all this love
that ain't doing shit.
What the fuck, man?
That was sizzling.
All right, so we're going to do this with Gage real quick.
So now today.
What up?
We're recording on Wednesday.
Tomorrow is the NBA Finals.
(36:43):
I mean, the Timbuktu's didn't make it.
Yo, did you just give them a drop?
I ain't give them a drop.
What drop?
Oh, all right.
We ain't going to say nothing about that, bro.
I'm going to tell you at this episode, boy.
So the finals start Thursday.
Yeah.
When our episode four come out, so you got the finals
and we out the mud, drop it.
(37:04):
Come on, baby.
That's a win-win.
So you said Minnesota's going to make it.
Yeah.
Shout out to Ant and the Wolves, man.
Right.
They going to be there next year.
So my East Squad made it, which is Boston.
Right.
So I got to rock with Boston.
(37:24):
You got to rock with Boston.
Yeah.
Like I said, since my sisters got cheated.
They got cheated.
Yeah, man.
I'm rocking with Boston, man.
All right.
All right, before we get into fighting, lean up.
I ain't watch a lot of playoff games,
but I quote a good bunch, a good chunk.
So lean up to everything.
(37:46):
What do you think about the playoffs
and all the games you watch and stuff like that?
I think it's bullshit.
How you think it's bullshit?
There's too much to get into the playoffs.
You got play-in.
Some teams got the play-in.
All that shit.
I mean, it's turned into a rap battle.
It's turned into a rap battle.
There's too much going on.
The first of all was you played the game.
(38:07):
The best team out of each division made the playoffs.
That was it.
It wasn't no, oh, I feel sorry because the Clippers didn't
make it.
I feel sorry such and such and them ain't make it.
All right, they ain't make it.
Get better.
Get better.
Get in the fucking gym.
We're going to get jump shot.
Well, I guess they did the play-in tournament
(38:28):
when the pandemic hit because I thought
it would be better or something like that.
But I don't get it because it's from the seventh seed
to the tenth seed or something like that.
Sixth is one of them seeds like that.
The bottom four.
The bottom four teams.
So if you, the seventh, eighth seed,
and you got a winning record but you not the sixth seed up,
(38:51):
you still got play-in to play-in even though.
That's what I'm saying.
I don't understand.
That's why I watch football.
I ain't going to lie.
I watch football.
I'm a football.
I play mad.
Oh, hold on.
I be playing Madden 24 PS 5, right?
Right.
And not to get off topic, I be playing my man's name,
D Nice 215.
(39:13):
He's garbage.
You hear me?
Garbage.
Garbage.
We play for a bean cooked his ass.
You know what I'm saying?
And bought seafood on him.
My cousin be wanting to back him up and all that.
You know what I'm saying?
Mind your business, cuz.
All right, bro.
All right.
So you got Boston.
(39:33):
Boston.
How many games?
I rock with Boston.
Boston 6, Boston 7.
I got Boston in 6.
Really?
Boston in 6.
If they go to 7, that's because you know,
whoever control the best and all.
Here we go.
You know what I mean?
Drag it out.
They got Boston as a big favorite.
Yeah, because it's they time, bro.
(39:54):
But Dallas.
What?
What about them?
Balling all the playoffs, bro.
So?
Kari and Lucas.
Not the Cowboys.
Cowboys trash.
If you're a Cowboys fan, I'm sorry.
Cowboys trash.
Oh, yeah, the Cowboys.
It's trash.
But listen, but Luca and Kari been balling.
And look at Kari back in Boston.
(40:15):
Luca looking to make the stand, but he one of the best players in the league.
I mean, it's a lot of shit going on, bro.
Like I said.
Uh-huh.
I got I got dollars in 6.
Dollars in 6?
We might want to make a little...
What you got in the league?
I got dollars in 6.
I got Boston.
I got dollars in 6, bro.
(40:36):
Boston.
You know, we're going to hop on that real quick.
So you listening to new music, bro?
All right.
So I'm going to keep it a beam.
Go ahead.
So meat drop 5 a.m.
in Philly.
That's your...
You don't like it?
I ain't gonna lie.
You tripping.
That's your nice.
He fucked that up.
Nice.
(40:57):
So I listen to him.
So when I hear a new song from my artist, I go back to the old shit.
Right.
So meat this week and on the R&B tip.
I ain't nobody.
I ain't really that.
It's just my old shit.
Like my flavors and shit.
Right.
(41:17):
So me, I listen to Davy Easton's new song.
It's called Mike and Keys.
Damn, dawg.
I like Davy Easton.
How the fuck I forget about Davy Easton.
Hey, Davy Easton, nice.
Mike and Keys, that jump fired.
But I'm a big Davy's fan anyway though.
So he nice.
He not just saying it even.
He nice.
Right.
He don't get enough credit even.
He don't.
He don't get enough credit.
Because he don't make very good music.
(41:38):
That's why.
But he nice though.
Like who...
What is people listening for and what's they listening to?
Because you've seen Meph and the Red Man did the Summer Jam.
Right.
Meph said he would never do it again because the crowd was like...
It wasn't a crowd.
Bro, them 20 years don't care about Rockwater.
Okay, now do you blame them or do you blame their parents?
(42:02):
Because I told my kids about the Biggies.
Right.
The Two Pops, the Wu-Tangs, the Lox.
I let them listen to them.
You're going to learn this, dawg.
Like you ain't just going to be out here and somebody ask you who Mild D?
People that's always together with S.D.?
Yo, we had this.
Yo, it's crazy.
(42:23):
Because I was in a car, right, with my kids and my wife.
And we were talking about the Drake and Kendrick John, right?
Right.
And they were saying Drake can't rap.
I'm like one day Drake can't rap.
What are you talking about?
So my middle son...
Say that again.
They said Drake can't rap.
He can?
Cannot.
Oh no.
Exactly.
I'm talking about Drake can rap.
What the hell?
That's not the point though.
(42:44):
Let me get on topic.
So my middle son told me that his top five, his top three rappers
are, he said Kendrick Lamar, Tupac, and Pop Smoke.
I'm like one thing, Pop Smoke.
I'm like one thing, bro.
I'm like one thing.
(43:04):
Rest in peace, Pop Smoke.
Rest in peace.
That's what you gotta understand.
Yeah, so I'm saying, so my 10 year old son know about Tupac.
They know about Michael Jackson, know about Muffin Man, Dio Max, and all that stuff.
So like, it's good to the parents.
No, I think, I mean, his top three gonna change.
(43:27):
Of course it's gonna change.
I'm saying it's a team.
He's gonna listen to more music.
I mean, so I can't, that's a nice top three for his age.
Yeah, I just say that because he said Tupac.
Right, and you did.
Tupac died in like 95.
He was even born.
Yeah, that's what I'm saying.
I gotta be you listening to or telling them about these artists.
You know what I'm saying?
Like, I can't, I don't understand these new rappers, bro.
(43:49):
But yeah, I own Meek Mill, like I said.
R&B, just regular shit.
You know what I mean?
You know, you got iPhone, you got your favorite playlist, and they reload it on Tuesday.
So I'll do that shit.
So yeah, I've just been doing that, bro.
On the music, too.
(44:09):
I've been listening to a lot of Chris Brown.
Oh, no, hold on.
What's up?
Hold the fuck up, yo.
What's up?
The music, too.
You...
Go ahead.
Listen, I'm going to tell y'all what this motherfucker was about to do.
What was about to do?
So he called me, we talking on the phone, right?
Right.
So he like, yeah, bro, I'm going to own, I'm going to pick the John Kelly Price...
(44:32):
Oh, yeah, yeah, the Kelly Price.
No.
So I'm like, what?
He like, yeah, I'm going to put the song Kelly Price as we lay on my page.
I'm like, no.
What you doing?
So I'm like, yo, bro, you know that song about Bob, bro?
I'm like, bro, just look at the video.
When you look at the video, then you howl at me.
(44:54):
Now tell them what you got from the video.
All right.
So I've been, the last two podcasts, I've been telling y'all about wild songs and shit like that.
I knew Kelly Price as we lay was a wild song, but the video is something crazy.
So we're going to pick up the videos.
(45:15):
So if you've never seen that video before, here's a quick rundown.
It's a dude, he's married.
He's with Kelly Price.
He go home, his wife...
He go have a n***a on the couch.
Exactly.
I was saying like, his wife, his birthday come up, his wife ended up giving him tickets and shit to Kelly Price.
(45:39):
Kelly Price come out, this n***a looks so nervous.
Bro, think about it, bro. That's like a person in real life seeing somebody at a fucking grocery store.
You turn around, only you know who that is.
Right.
Now they being, excuse me, can you pass me the...
(46:00):
You bitch.
Or the n***a. Excuse me, ma'am.
But her head's like, bitch, you see me?
So then it gets worse though, so Kelly Price starts singing and stuff like that.
Boy look mad uncomfortable.
So she get off stage.
Boy look like he's going to shit on himself.
So she get off stage and walk towards him.
(46:21):
And don't you know the part when you like, you got to go home to your wife.
And she points at boy wife.
Bro, this boy, y'all watch his body crazy, bro.
I didn't write the song, I didn't direct the video, bro.
He know all the other joints, but he ain't no ass, he's lame.
Yo, I didn't know how wild that video was, bro.
(46:44):
I had to pit him deep, you know what I mean? I had to pit a little bro deep, man.
I didn't know how wild that video was, bro.
Look at that video, man.
Oh wait, you talking about Patti LaBelle with you?
Oh yeah, if only you knew.
I ain't know, I mean like, I ain't know that was towards another dude.
(47:04):
I thought she was, you know, singing to like her husband, her boyfriend at the time.
Right.
Like, you know, if only you knew how much, you know, I love you.
You taking me for granted.
But it ain't like that.
She saying that to her side boy.
(47:25):
And then saying like, this boy at home, he ain't even paying me no attention.
You know what I mean? Yeah, man, because you take that shit for granted.
Yeah, true. Some people end up taking it for granted, bro.
You know what I'm saying? So, you know, Moral Story, them songs back in the day,
they was teaching us something. We was just either too young to get it,
(47:46):
or our ears was too immature to listen.
And it's a lot, lot more.
Yeah, man, it's a lot more we gonna be talking about, man, about them songs.
It's real. It's real.
But on that note, now we're gonna close it out.
Now we're gonna close it out, man.
Yeah, go ahead.
Yo, man, listen, man, stop playing, man.
(48:07):
It's way out the mud, man. This is Nile, man, from the North, man.
And like I say, before you eat a crib, eat with common sense,
because they trying to make it common, not to have sense.
Download, listen, follow, comment.
Show us love. Marty, talk to them.
If y'all fucking with us, you gotta let us know y'all fucking with us.
(48:31):
That's what Instagram for. That's what TikTok for.
That's what Facebook for. That's what X is for.
Feel me? Like I said earlier, don't come to me in real life,
tell me about the podcast. I don't hear nothing.
Leave a comment. That's it.
Oh, and before we wrap up, too, go ahead.
Hey, BJ, I just want to say I'm proud of you.
(48:53):
Love you, big cuz, super proud. It's my cousin BJ from South Philly.
Graduated out of New York State, moved to Alaska, then moved to Atlanta and doing big things.
Moved to Alaska?
Yeah, she moved to Alaska, did her thing, then she moved to Atlanta.
Now, I mean, so, BJ, I just want to let you know I'm super, super, super proud of you.
(49:18):
Keep doing your thing.
And now we got a special shout out to my nephew Salam.
Yes, sir.
Give a shout out to my coworker Justin.
And give a shout out to my other coworker Khalil.
And y'all already know Chris, Todd, Ms, Nell.
Thanks everybody that's showing us love and...
Pen is on your page, man. So we out, man.
(49:40):
We appreciate it.
Hope y'all enjoyed this episode.
And now, you know what I always say.
Go ahead, give it to them, bro.
Let's go.
Give it to them.
You say you a gangster, but you never pop nothing.
We say you a winkster, and you need to stop frontin'.
You go to the dealership, but you never cop nothing.
(50:02):
You better hustle for a long time.
Niggas, stop frontin', and we out.
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