June 16, 2024 • 48 mins
We Out Da Mud: Father’s Day Special. This episode is to let people know that there are good fathers out there. The deadbeats getting no respect.
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Father's Day is the worst holiday in the world. I've done the research I already
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know. Let me tell you something. Mother's Day is the second most celebrated holiday
in the world. Christmas is first so it means it's Jesus being your mama. You
know what Father's Day fall at? Number 20. I can't think of 18 other holidays. Do you
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realize Halloween is number six? That mean ghost and gobbling, scoping for
father's? All the day is number 13. I don't even know what that is. I just know
it coming for me. That's crazy. Columbus Day is number 16. Celebrating Columbus Day
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is like celebrating somebody finding money in your house.
Where you get that fitted out from out of the cupboard in your kitchen?
Yo, yo, what up? What up the snap? Yo, yo, yo, what's up? This Marty from North Fully
from We Out the Mud, you know what I'm saying? I said North. I'm in West.
Yeah, you know what I'm saying? North is the bad side. Ain't no wrong with it.
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We're gonna talk about that. We're gonna talk about it. We are gonna talk about that.
But um, yeah man, we gonna give a shout out to everybody that been tuning in from one
to five. Yeah man, we on episode six. Just a little special episode for Father's Day.
You know what I mean? So we gonna, you know what I mean? Touch up on why did Beach get
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more love than the real Father's Day? I ain't feeling it. True. But before we get that,
just like when I said, I appreciate everybody for liking, commenting, listening.
This taking so much of the day to listen to us. Like this truly appreciate it. Don't
think like we don't appreciate it. We truly appreciate it.
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We really do man. You're showing man love out there. MK, good looking baby. You know
what I mean? Sorry about the last episode baby. Alright bro, you know what I mean?
Let's talk to him. We're talking to him. We talking to him. Let's talk to him. What
are we talking about? Alright, so this is our Father's Day special episode. I'm saying
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so we trying to break the cycle of day B and bad fathers and a better rep that fathers
get. So now you being a dad. Yes sir. So let the people know like how is it?
Listen man. Being a dad a real dad a real father is the truth. It's also it's hard
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to you know what I'm saying? Because you don't get no manual. You don't get no directions
how to be a pop, how to take care of kids. All your kids want is time man. They spell
love T I M E. Say it again. They spell love T I M E. They don't want no sneakers. They
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don't want no clothes. They really don't want no games. They just want to spend time with
you. You feel me? Exactly. Not gonna sit here and act right you know when you do have a baby
with someone and then you know shit changed the attitude change. She may feel as though
you ain't doing enough. But they don't mean you if you break up with your baby mom. It
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don't mean you break up with your child too. Right. Some men can't take not being with
their baby mom. So they take it out on a kid. True. I mean but then with another guy step
in and really do the part of a step dad. Then actually when the real father want to come
around and act like no nigga. No. Get the fuck out of there.
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Exactly. So are you this way because you really concerned about your child well being. You
want to know who this man is. I mean is he a rapist is he psychotic. You know what I mean.
Well you just thinking with your lust thoughts or this man in your crib your son or daughter
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going to sleep and he banging her back out. You understand the same. So I just coming
up bro. Five was they really wasn't a big deal. It wasn't. I mean I know my mom brothers.
It was good pops. I guess you asked my cousins and they probably did things but father they
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never was a big holiday bro. It wasn't. I want to break that cycle. I'm a hell of a dad
hell of a father. I got my my force. If you ask my kids though like I said don't never
ask the parents if they agree parents. Oh yeah. Definitely ask the kids. Ask the kids.
Right. You understand. The kids going to tell you the truth. Definitely would. You understand.
So five was they got to come back around the map because it's real gas out there man. Right.
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And we don't get enough credit. Right. We left these dead beats when true. No. Like for
me being a dad is like the best thing that ever happened to me. Yeah. For a for like
of course like I laugh and joke around say I don't like my kids and shit like that. But
like I love the show my kids bro. Like I'm not I'm not like an aggressive person. I'm
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not like the fighter and shit like that. But if you fuck his bro is over. That's how I feel
like don't like but you know about the aggressive part. Like I said my son Chris really taught
me how to be a dad because I had to learn patience. Right. You know I'm saying I had
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to learn how to be kind hearted. I can't be all the way tough. Yeah. You know what I mean.
So like I said man it don't come with a blue plan. You think the way you was raised that's
how you put the rage. Your kids. Right. It don't work that way. Yeah. You know what I'm
saying. I'm not again. I'm not going to say all baby moms or the mother of your kids are
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innocent but they should not have to take care that child that you're made together
on your own. Right. Like on her own like no. It shouldn't happen man. I don't I don't care
what y'all went through that young lady or that young boy they all had should have both
parents in their life. I don't care if y'all together separate bro do your part bro. Right.
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Don't get mad because you're not on the door. And you hear the boy watching the Eagles game.
I know that's a good guy. Yeah. Don't get mad bro. I mean but some boys do be doing
too much. You can't when it if that's not your child bro. Like that lady and that man
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talk. Right. You mind your business. Long as this dude ain't trying to put his hands
on your now girlfriend. Mind your business. That's his son and her son. Right. Long as
he ain't coming in your crib disrespecting you or her. Let them handle that but some
boy be your man. No you can't come past here. Hold up. Hold up. First of all I know how
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this is. This ain't your house. Fuck you me. You know what I'm saying. Right. All right.
So we're going to take it back. So how was it. How was your relationship with your dad.
I ain't really had one. So I can't. I mean in the beginning of the time I was hearing
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stories like you didn't get that you know always took you to the doctor's appointment
made sure this and that was real happy when I was born and all that. You know then I guess
my mom and him go through some things and all that separate. I can remember times you
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know he was you know fighting to come get us and see us and shit and then it just stopped.
Oh well. Now that I have kids of my own I don't think I would have stopped trying to
fight to get my kids to see my kids regardless of what my wife was talking about. Ain't nobody
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keeping me away from my son and my daughter. Right. You know what I'm saying. So I think
some men take the easy road. But are you saying that because you in a life because think about
it you're not there every day because sometimes I'm not trying to keep from I'm not but you
can't take off. I'm not taking them but like it's like when you like working for something
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without I'm not talking about father's and shit but you know work for something you
keep on getting beat down and you get harder and harder to get up each time. Maybe that's
the reason why. But think about it if the son of the daughter see the parent fighting
for them. That get them the time to get 18 21. Right. I don't hate this man. Right. I
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witnessed this man really trying to fight to get us or he took my mom to court to get
on. What's that share custody. That's a joint custody. Yeah I mean joint custody. You feel
like you know what I'm saying. So when you don't see that and then you don't hear from
them you only got no phone number. Yeah you know the mom and dad is beefing they sometimes
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the mom can't take the dad with his life. Right. So you don't want the kids around his
new girlfriend like that. So the kids get caught in the middle. But you got to show them kids
you know I try like I was saying you don't see it. Because it's an easy route for them
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because from the beginning the lady first of all is dangerous. That's that's that's
see this is about a female. This is why most they more poor in there. They carry in a baby
for nine months. Right. Right. When they deliver in the baby it's a 50 50 chance. They could
die or they baby could die on that tape. You know what I'm saying. Well they both could
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die. Both could die. Yeah. You know what I'm saying. All we got to do is what? Really?
Nothing. Hold their hand hold their leg up. That's it. Yeah. The baby automatically go
home to the mom. Yeah they give it to mom. And then go to the dad if they don't live
together. Yeah. If y'all live together it's different. The baby come home to both parents.
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Mm-hmm. Y'all just boyfriend and girlfriend. She live here with her parents and you live
there. Yeah. She's dealing with that baby 24 seven. Seven days a week. Yeah. You get
to pop up whenever the fuck you feel like it. Right. Yeah I'm saying so. I see why
they get mad at certain men and fathers but I'm not one of them. You're not one of them.
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Right. I know a lot of good fathers out here. I do too. But I think we need to start patting
ourselves on the back and having events and shit because there's a lot of dead beasts
at these barbecues and they shouldn't be at a fucking barbecue. You're right. They're
so true. Yeah man. Maybe the first one with the bigger plate. They drunk all the liquor.
Right. Smoked all the blood. You know what I'm saying?
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True. Go fuck out of there man. Go take your ass back where you was at before you was trying
to take them care of that kid. Man fuck out of there. So for me right from what I heard
my parents were separated. Right. And then they came together and that's how I came along.
So in the beginning like I said like I said an episode of the Friends of Family episode
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I live with my dad mom. But I don't remember seeing my dad when I lived with his mom. Right.
And holding it to my pop and I said a butler the first. Yeah I mean not saying I don't get
along with him now like I said when you grow up under one roof you only hear one side of
the story. Right. Now that I have my own family I kind of understand what he was going through.
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Right. I ain't had to go through that but I know what type of mom I had. She was a gangster.
Keep saying that. So he probably didn't want to keep dealing with that. Right. And then
he ain't want to stop his career. He had a career. You know what I'm saying. So it ain't
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like he just was trying to just say forgive my boys. Right. How many times you won't keep
going through the same thing every time every time. So right now me being 44. We talk he
called me. Right. I'm saying we ain't never really had that sit down yet. You know that
one. Yeah. I mean because I really want to understand like what happened and why. Yeah
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I mean because certain things he do I do my brothers do we got you in our blood. You know
what I'm saying. So yeah. So the go back right. So I don't remember him being there but he
told me he was there. Right. The only thing I know about my dad that we got the same name
like you second I'm a junior too. Right. So I remember you a junior. I'm a junior. I was
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second. My fault. Yeah. So I'm a junior. Right. And do I have the course of me growing
up when I moved from South Living on Chester Avenue in Southwest with my grandma to I moved
I can't treat with my mom. I would he will come like every weekend. I remember going
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to the
And then after a while it stopped. OK. And then they pick back up again when I moved from
I just should come so she come he come every week and fight two months straight then it
stopped so that I don't know what happened. What he told me is that my older system my
mom kept me from him. But from what I know my older system my mom never talked bad about
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him around me. That's that was the rule. But a lot of females was keeping the kids away
from the dads. It was an era where it was. The moms did not let the sons or daughters
go to the dad cribs. Bro. Especially the daughters. If I know what they're doing here over. But
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I can say my mom and dad my mom and my mom and my mom and my older sister wanted me to
go. They my mom first me to go every weekend when I didn't want to go. OK. I used to like
cry and stuff. She made me go and shit like that. So like I can't say that. And then like
just like you fell out fell out. When I had my first kid the way the way he found out that
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I had my first kid is because I asked him for something and then he said something made
me mad. And I'm like no I'd find all right. Cool. Whatever. No. No I told him I told him
I said I said look I'm grown. I got my own kids. So I feel as though maybe us like you
miss him father some relationship. It might be too late for that. But I still want to
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build a relationship with you. All right. This is like the father thing. It was filled
already. Oh OK. Yeah it was filled already. So I had other people I can go to talk to
and stuff like that. So I'm like yeah. So he said something I'm like fine. No that's
crazy because that's crazy because how my son not going to get changed to me his granddad
because you like feel the same way right. Then that's how he found out. That's how you
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found out I had a son. That's what I'm saying. I just don't like when they want to come around
after the work is done. Like it's crazy. You'll never see the dads the dead beats from Kenny
Gartner to 11th grade. Yeah. It seemed like as soon as the 12th grade get here all the
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dead beats pop up. How like is it a fucking alarm going on for dead beats and shit. They
let me know man. Like let me know man because they come as soon as the job done then they
want a brain and low ass old ass flowers. Teddy bear. When Teddy bear car with nothing
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in it. Right. Want to take all the pitches. Leave the mom out. Like no. Let me just my
daughter. Hold on. Hold on. Oh my. I got a couple pictures like that too. This me and
my dad and shit. Yeah. What the fuck was you at. Your flu season. Exactly. Oh let me
see some car. Let me see some. So no growing up when I was simply for the six years shit
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like that. Everybody had breaks. So I had breaks. Yeah. He was mad. He was mad. He was
mad. I had breaks. I'm bored now but I had breaks. I had breaks but he was mad that I
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had breaks but bro you wasn't even there to like at all from. I got. You ain't even paid
for my haircuts. Right. So I got braids in the sixth grade. So from third grade I've
been to the sixth grade. That's when I cut my ex my mom on my braids. Can I get braids?
Can I get braids? And so y'all dead beats not to cut my bro body off. Don't think cause
y'all send that little check to the crib every month. That's taking care of your kid. That's
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not taking care of your fucking kid bro. Right. You just sending that shit so you won't go
to jail with your dead beat ass. Right. Ain't nobody in the courtroom gonna tell me what
I should do or take care of how I should take care of my kids. Right. I don't care if I
was with the wife or not. Understandable. Ain't nobody keeping me away from my kids
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and anybody that really know not said they know I'm playing about my kids but I really
don't play about my daughter. Bullshit. Are you making up for that episode? Yeah. These
dead beats man. Like these dead beats get too much credit bro. Yeah. You know what I'm
saying? They walk around with their head up chest out. Like bro no. Sit the fuck down
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and let the real fibers do this. Right. You know what I mean? Because it made me not want
to celebrate fibers day bro. What? Off the world because I'm a dad every day. Right.
So when you were a dad every day, fucking fibers day once a year. Yeah. Understandable.
Fuck I'm on a barbecue for. You know what I'm saying? But for me, my motivation was
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the total opposite. Like I don't even, I can't tell you my dad birthday to this day. But
all my kids know my birthday. They know my name. They know where I come from. They know
the house I grew up in. They know everything about me. But don't give them a dead beat
to us. How to be great dads. Right. Because we knew, we knew what we wanted from our pops.
Right. So now we know what they do for our kids. So in a way they helped us without them
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even knowing they helped us with their dead beat ass. Right. I thought you bro. You know
what I'm saying? Yeah. My goal was to be there at all times. So yeah. That's it. Good. Bad.
The ugly bro. Just be there for your kids. Yes. They go, listen. Look at what you did
to your mom at Pop when you was at a certain age. Right. Of course they go and get attitudes
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when they start getting little pubic hairs and a guy might tell your daughter she look
cute. Right. A girl might tell your son, you look handsome. So now he's filling this
self. Right. You see a little muscles coming in. Little hair and shit. Yeah. So to be around
and see your kids grow into a younger adult bro. That shit is priceless bro. Enjoy it
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because unless they got a high school bro. That's it. I know it's for you bro. You tell
it all the time. Tell you this all the time. I got time. So stop bringing it up though.
No. You gotta enjoy it. Go like that. Right. Snap over finger. Alright. So my first kid
was a boy. Right. Your first kid was a boy. Yes sir. So since we didn't grow up with
our dads. Right. Was you scared to become a dad? Yes I was. Why is that? Because I
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didn't want to fail bro. Right. You know what I'm saying? I just didn't want to like
he look at me and like that's my dad. You know what I'm saying? I feel you. I want to
like that's my dad. Like yeah. That's how it is. Like you your kid's first hero. Exactly.
They're super hero. I'd be damn unless somebody take my motherfucking tape off. Shit. Yeah for
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you bro. They ain't taking that from my kid's life. Like I said ask the kids if they fuck
with their parents. Ask the parent. Every parent in the whole world if you ask them
are you a great parent? I'm gonna say yeah. Everybody gonna say yes. Yeah. But no go ask
their sons or their daughters. Right. Your dad why some of my motherfucking home. Right.
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You never do nothing for me. Always hitting on my mom. Just standing there. You know what
I'm saying? Oh. Tell my dad bro. My dad will only he used to call me and say you know like
he's. Hold on. Let me stop that. I don't even think I got to have his birthday from my
way. Listen. Listen. He will call me. He will call me right. Tell me how his friends and
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his son doing this father dad thing or like how his friend and the people at his church
and they said we do all this stuff together. And in my head I because I didn't want I don't
want to be disrespectful. But my head I'm like bro you never had that. So wow. So you just
want to come through so you can take pictures with me so you can show your friends that
look I'm with my son too but not be there in real life. Like my dad like ask my sisters
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and my other brother. They know how my dad is. He just for the show. Right. He not he
not. It's a lot of pops out there. Yeah. He put a show. So like he the type of he the
type of football player that don't want to go to practice. But this one show for the
game. He just want to wear the uniform. He don't want to put the. Yeah. She went to
Chile. Yeah. Like that. Playful the nights. Yeah. So I'm fucking gonna practice. Don't
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go to practice. Yeah. I don't know. Like I said I don't need to think. I can't remember
the last time he called me on my birthday. Right. Yeah. When you young like I said when
you young you be upset you be mad. Right. It's your point like that. Fuck it. Right.
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I did all this shit without you for real. And you looking at it. That's the only thing
though. With dead beats. That's that. They'll call your phone and try to tell you how to
live and move. Oh. I'm gonna fuck. I've been doing this without you. Oh. Let me tell you
about that. Yeah. You know what I'm saying. Or you asked him for some of it. And they
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they're acting like it's the end of the world. Fuck. I ain't asked you for nothing since
I've been fucking on my own. Right. Or they don't say they proud of you. Like damn bro.
Like you know kids do want to hear that. So a lot of kids out here still need a hug from
their parents. Exactly. A lot of kids no matter how old they are especially the men. Yeah.
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They want to hear a good job son. It's a party boy. You're gonna do it boy. You know what
I'm saying. Like real rap bro. Like this shit is ridiculous. These dead beats got to go.
Like y'all got to go. Y'all getting too much credit. Y'all y'all having too many barbecues
and you have a father day barbecues. You a dead beat. Get a banner and say this is a dead
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beat barbecue. You should not be at a real father's day barbecue. Man. To the real father
start calling these dead beats out because you shouldn't be hanging with somebody that
don't take care of kids. How can you trust them bro. Exactly. You can't. So for me right
back to what I asked you for me. I remember like I don't know what happened but I was
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in the break room when I was at McDonald's. So I was talking to my homie at the time
and like I remember this like I was scared. I think I got home like that or something.
I know I was scared. I'm like bro like how am I gonna be a dad. I got no blueprint. I
got nobody to look forward to. So I'm like what the fuck I want to do. I was in there
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crying like terrified like I don't know what the fuck to do. I don't want to fuck up and
like all that shit. But then like just jumping is kind of like like how we talk about the
middle band is how you say the birds kick them out the window and push them out. Yeah
that's how I do. You just got jumping to deep in and like. But see with me I had practice
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too because I had nephews. So watching them maybe sitting them you know how to change
pampers. Yeah I know how to do the food make the bottles and shit burp them before you
lay them down and all that. So when you do have your kid it's somewhat like a little
practice with your nieces or your nephews you know what I'm saying. But they get to leave
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they get to go home. Your state wish. I was about to say ain't no practice when you wake
up 3 a.m. in the morning. No I'm not thinking you sleep at 2 30. Oh. Time for me to eat
bro. You gotta get your ass sucked. Lady like it's your turn. No. It's your turn.
But yeah man like I don't bang with dead beats. I just started back talking to my pop after
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my mom passing. Like I said I go through my phase when I say fuck him man. I ain't gonna
say in line. You know what I mean because if I knew what you didn't do and I wanted
you to do. You look at him and you know you're in a good pop man. Right. I mean I ain't gonna
keep saying it to you. I mean you know. Right. And the people would just say I didn't call
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you and so that my dad used to call my wife and ask her why I'm mad at him or don't talk
to him. He would never call me and say that. I'm like bro first off I don't even think
about you to get mad at you. I'm so used to you not being there. Right. Like you don't
even you never crossed my mind. So he passed away last year two years ago. Right. And like
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we went up there. Yeah. RIP. We went there right. We need to say that. I mean I do many
because there are people that care about them so I do. I got empathy for that. But like
for me as a son like I felt nothing. So me my sisters my wife and one of my nieces went
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there went there and saw them and my sister was like my older sister was like one be crazy
if you pop up and like was faking and my head is crazy crazy part. I thought like you know
he might do some shit like that because he do shit for the show. So he believed that he
died until we went there and we went there and seen them and so I'm like damn that's
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crazy. That's all I said. No tears. Nothing like damn that's crazy. And I carry his name
exactly. I'm saying like I carry his whole name. We got the same first name same middle
name same. I know I'm the first boy from our pop man. Oh I got to something about that
bro. Certain times he is in relationships and the person might have had a son or something
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bro. I feel some type of. Oh I got to something about that shit too. Like I'm your son dog.
Fuck that nigga. Like I'm being real. Like I'm not saying. Oh I got to something about
that. The lady he went is a bad person. But that's my pop. Like I don't give a fuck about
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what him and your son doing. Right. Or whoever he doing with another son chilling. I'm gonna
fuck bro. You're stealing that from me. Right. Some motherfuckers might say no no you
know. Fuck that. Fuck that. Alright. How you gonna know my old man better than me. Alright
so for me. So my dad got married three times. So he got married to my mom. Right. That's
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where we got my oldest sister and me. Then he got married the second time. The lady he
got married to had a son. So I wasn't there with him. But my oldest sister told me that
he the lady son or call him daddy and he would spend time with him all that stuff. So when
he worked at the radio station he would call up there and say I love you dad and all that
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shit bro. I found that out later on in life. So he was a horrible dad with great stepdad.
Yeah. Yeah. Oh and another thing yo. So I remember it was 1999. Juvenile back the asshole
was on the radio. Right. I asked my dad cuz. Yeah. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No.
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No. Exactly. So like. So. I asked
someone about the lady son. He said, Oh no. You are my only son. I'm like alright. Tell
me why. I was like you'll get to do that. A 1 year later. 21. My older brother came
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I had, yo, my brother just went through some situation
like they're doing like the pandemic,
some bulls in my fucking DM.
And he's like, yeah, you ain't not saying,
like, yeah, like motherfuckers on my grand, like, yeah,
what's up with you?
Y'all think your dad, man, listen, bro,
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that guy's saying ain't Butler, bro,
you don't look like my pop, bro.
My one thing about that old man,
he ain't gonna deny his kids.
That's one thing about him.
You know what I'm saying?
He ain't gonna deny his kids, you feel me?
And to all my siblings from my pop,
like if you know him, he gonna lead you to the water.
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He ain't gonna help you drink that shit.
You feel what I'm saying?
Like, we're a wet boat.
And if you don't got a big toe,
that's my pop trademark.
All his kids got that big toe, bro.
If I throw on a guy, I'm sorry, baby,
I ain't need to throw you out there.
But yeah, I don't got a big toe on my fucking body.
Right, so he came, he came on Facebook,
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said I'm your brother.
I'm like, I call my sister.
I'm like, yo, this person saying that he's our brother?
Like, this is new to me, cause I'm the youngest.
So my sister went up there, oh, he's my brother.
He's our brother.
I'm like, what the fuck?
And then after he passed away,
find out he got another brother.
Oh, y'all find out, oh, gang out there.
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Y'all find out a basketball squad.
That is exactly real.
So like, I came from having eight siblings from my mom.
I'm at 10 now from my mom and dad.
And we think it's more, we don't know for sure,
but we think it's more.
You got a whole lot of show.
You got a whole lot of little village.
Exactly, yo.
And that's only counting my brothers and stuff.
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I ain't counting the people with like relationships,
people like that.
Yeah, this is.
I don't think we all for y'all deadbeats.
Yeah, we all for deadbeats.
Back on your ass, fucking deadbeats ass,
and all for you.
Jump off deadbeats.
So since we didn't have our days,
did you have, did you have any father figures?
Yeah, I did.
I have a bunch of those.
You know what I'm saying?
Like I said, hold up.
Wait, you don't have to say no names
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because they tired of shouting people's roles.
Fuck, fucking tired of.
You know what I'm saying?
My father figures was my uncle's skit.
Right.
I ain't gonna lie, let me begin all my own goals, man.
Uh huh.
I mean, all my own goals, though.
Rest in peace, uncle Melvin.
So all my own goals.
And my only day-day step-pop, Mr. Tommy Nelson.
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Right.
And my OGs and the Jets.
You know what I'm saying?
Like I did have father figures around.
Even people from like in my school days
and mansion and shit, you had certain NTAs
that treat you like a nephew, you know what I'm saying?
So back in the day, I had a lot of Mel road models, bro.
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But like I said, again, it's not day four.
Right.
If you go to left route and do little shit to find out
if you're gonna get knocked on your ass, you know what I mean?
Right.
But I can't lie, I had a lot of Mel road models, bro.
And I appreciate y'all too.
The ones that still here and the ones that's gone.
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I ain't gonna name all y'all, I ain't gonna name y'all,
but I appreciate y'all a lot.
All right, so for me, I got, I had father figures,
but growing up, I first started off my uncle,
my uncle Oliver from my grandma house.
He was like the older kid there.
So like I was with him all the time.
So I shot at him because he do reason why I'm in sports
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and football and all that shit like that.
All right, shot at him, huh?
But he got a bullshit ass football team.
You told him wrong about that.
No, he didn't, because I saw those
the Eagles fans, the Eagles fans,
but I was a kid that didn't count.
So I switched to a Broncos fan.
So then.
They like the Eagles.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
So I seen that.
And then when I moved, it was like,
when I moved to live with my mom,
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it was like no, like real like,
metal figures and shit like that.
Like I said, we had no sub-foundation.
So it was the teenagers raising the younger kids.
True that, true that.
So it didn't happen until my second sister,
my middle sister, she got her husband.
Her husband became the new like,
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father figure slash mentor to me.
Like, cause he was a dad.
He's there every day, taking care of his kids,
know that's a good house, all that stuff.
Like other people and my brothers don't,
I don't know how they feel about them,
but this how I feel.
I feel like he was a great like father figure.
So my brother all the time, thank you.
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I appreciate you for me, for guiding me.
Whenever I can call, at least when I talk to,
I can call you and like shout with you.
And I appreciate that.
And then my older brother, Chris,
the one from my dad,
I can call him and talk to him.
If I need any advice and stuff like that.
But all that from 21 and up.
So them years when you needed father figure,
I didn't have that shit.
Yeah, see I had my own boys and them,
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but then like you said,
when something moved out to Chris,
that was all me.
I was going like, fuck all that.
Fuck all that.
My way, girl, what?
What bro?
Like no, bro, no, I mean, well, fuck that, bro.
Fuck all your deadbeats, bro.
I'm serious, bro.
Cause y'all know what y'all do to these kids, bro.
Y'all mean kids need day five,
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is don't listen to these fucking ladies out here.
They only be upset man,
because they doing the job by themselves.
I'm being straight up, bro.
You talk to a motherfucker who always wished his dad
with a shoulder up.
His dad would have just took him to a game.
Let the other guys know he around.
By getting into a fight.
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I know my dad right there behind me.
Right me on, you know what I'm saying?
So you do something good in school.
You want your pop to be there, bro.
Not be there when the fucking job is done.
The fuck out of y'all pop up at every fucking graduation.
Oh my God, he's fucking.
How the fuck, how the fuck you popping up
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at every graduation,
but you ain't pop up at the doctor's appointment.
Bitch ass nigga.
I'm serious, dawg.
Fuck y'all deadbeats.
You fucking it up for the real pop.
So now we gonna talk about how us being a dad.
So coming from your first child to your second child,
how was it?
Alright so, I ain't a lot of found out.
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I ain't a lot of found out.
There was a girl, bro.
Go ahead.
I was the fuck off, dude.
Like, you're gonna tell me nothing, bro.
Like I said, you don't be prepared.
You be scared,
cause you're trying to plan everything right,
but you can't, you know what I'm saying?
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You wanna take some bumps and bruises
along being a parent, you know what I mean?
I'm trying to learn being a great parent.
When she came on my arms,
I took her to the window and I told her,
as long as your dad breathing, I got you.
Right.
And you know what I mean?
With or without dawg, my daughter knew I had her, bro.
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I ain't give a fuck if I gotta go home,
or even reach without you.
You not, you know what I mean?
You a girl, you should've go without her.
You know what I'm saying?
And not go a lot dawg of mom, bro.
Abyss.
You know what I'm saying?
No, I'm being real.
Right, good.
You know what I'm saying?
I'm a beast, bro.
So, even when I wasn't doing what I should've been doing,
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bro, mom did the thing.
You know what I'm saying?
Right.
Our relationship crazy.
That's my twin.
That's your twin?
They know that.
That's my twin, man.
That's my dog.
Looked just like he was crazy.
You know what I'm saying?
So, having my son, boom, grooming him.
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Like I said, I always told him be yourself, bro.
You don't gotta be like me.
You don't gotta be like your cousins.
Be you.
Be you.
Stand on that.
You know what I mean?
Cause when you being somebody else,
now you gotta watch over your shoulders or back.
Love the shit out of my son.
Chris, love you, boy.
MK, love you, girl.
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You know what I'm saying, bro?
So, yeah, bro, I wanna change that shit for the world, bro.
My dad beat my dad, bro.
Bro, this is how I hate dad beat.
My dad beat made me a better father, bro.
So, thank you.
I wanna thank you for not being there.
I wanna thank you for not giving me
that pickup calls and all that.
Thank you, cause you made me a hell of a dad, man.
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Everybody that know me know now I love his kids, bro.
So I appreciate you for being a dad beat.
Right.
If that makes sense.
All right.
So for me, right from going to my first son
to my second son,
I wasn't nervous cause I had another son.
Right, right, right.
And then I got four kids.
So my third son, same thing.
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All right, cool.
All three of my sons are totally different.
This shit is wild.
Like my oldest son is a cool laid back one.
Not really for me trying to fight and stuff.
He will fight if he had to, but not all night.
My middle son, the scrapper, he throw down.
Like.
All the little kids.
Something about the little kids, man.
Bro, he's a scrapper.
He throw down.
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Like my oldest son is bigger too.
He don't care.
So ain't going to everything.
He got a little anger problem.
He got chill.
Yeah, I'm trying to guide him.
I broke pit him in that head lock.
Exactly.
So I'm trying to guide him to like, to control his anger.
I'm trying to guide my oldest son to be responsible.
And then my youngest son, he's a typical baby.
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All right.
Fuck with the older brothers knowing that ain't
any trouble shit like that.
So like, I'm trying to teach them like, yo,
you can't do that all the time.
Because people, they not like your brothers.
You know the big brother ain't going to hit you.
But the middle brother will hit you back.
Right, right.
I'm trying to say so you got to be careful.
No, for real.
But then my third child, my daughter, oh.
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See?
Everything, bro.
Told you, bro.
I was at work.
It's the girls.
Yeah.
I was at work.
Got that text on him and the daughter.
Bro, I was about to leave.
I was about to quit that damn.
I'm out.
Shit.
Bro.
Like, go home.
I'm out.
But I ain't got rocked out though.
Like, oh man.
Then like, watching her grow, holding her.
And like, like you said, my wife was a beast though.
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My wife.
Shout to the wives and the baby.
Oh, god.
Like, you don't understand.
Like.
The moms, man.
Yeah, she was a mom.
She was a dog and a love one.
On Father's Day.
That's fucking crazy.
What, bro?
Yeah.
So like, my daughter, like, she's something different, bro.
I'm like, like, you can tell she runs shit.
Like, she gives her way, whatever she wants.
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That's my daughter.
My daughter's a mother.
My daughter's a brother.
Bro, my daughter's a brother.
I cannot be mad at a brother.
Now you know your child, 19, her young adults.
Right.
They f*****g out of here.
You know, it be like, baby, KKK mad at me.
Like, you don't want your son.
You know y'all going to bump heads.
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Yeah, of course.
You know what I mean?
Right.
You know what I mean?
You love him and you love him.
But when your baby girl mad at you, that's different.
That's different, right?
It's kind of like you're like, you're like, you're mad at me.
Yeah, yeah, you feel me?
So, you know what I mean?
Right.
Father's Day, man.
We just want to say, fuck the dead babies.
And so, all right.
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So before, are you done talking about fathers and shit like that, bro?
I don't know.
Because I don't want to forget nothing and people be mad at me.
I don't know.
I just say, man, just shout out to all the real dads out there that do your thing.
Take care of your kids, not just with money, but with time, with conversations showing up
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to the most important things in their life, listening to them.
I want to shout out to them, man, because y'all don't get enough credit, man.
A lot of dads get overpowered and overlooked by the moms, man.
You know what I'm saying?
So, and fuck y'all dads who lead y'all kids and but y'all go to another relationship and
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be the best step dad you could beat the bitch ass.
Oh, so for me and all my brothers, they grow up before dads.
But all of us are dads.
So I shout out to all my brothers.
Yeah, shout out to them.
Yeah.
All of them.
Go ahead.
Shout out to my little bro, Brick.
You a hell of a pop, boy.
Proud of you, boy.
Shout out to all my brothers, y'all.
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All our great dads.
For me and our love when we have a family reunion, we bring the family together and shit like
that.
I appreciate all that shit.
And the only reason why I ain't naming all y'all my squad, because there's too many of
y'all, man, but y'all know the real dads, man.
Exactly.
And my squad too.
All my squad are real dads too.
I appreciate everybody's real dads.
So if you're real dad, I did shout out to you.
Get yourself a panel bag, get a drink, roll one up.
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Yeah, roll one up.
If you don't smoke, smoke a cigar, baby.
Whatever you do, just keep it going.
For me, don't let that shit stop you, bro.
Real wack, fuck the dead beats.
That's hashtag, fuck dead beats, man.
Real wack, man.
All right, so now we're going to go with this.
So if you had a great dad, let us know.
Let us know.
If you didn't have a good dad, let us know that too.
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Yeah, shout your pop out.
Yeah, shout your pop out.
If you was there, shout them out.
If it wasn't there, then I understand.
And Western peace to all the good fathers, because I don't want to lie.
Western peace on Henry.
That's my wife, cousin Lisa dad, man.
Hell of a dude.
Yeah, I'm saying shows up, like I said, there's a lot of good dads that's not here.
Yeah, I mean, but fuck y'all dead beats.
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Y'all leave these ladies out here with all these fucking kids.
And then y'all want to come around doing fucking graduation.
Keep your ass where you was at, you fucking girl.
All right, so we're going to jump off that.
Now, I've been listening to a lot of pop music recently.
I was listening to pop music.
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Yeah, I was listening to, listen, I was listening to NSYNC, Backstreet Boys, One Direction.
I had to go listen to it.
You gotta keep to yourself.
No, man.
I'm saying like, I listen to Sir Shit too, bro.
I'm not keeping myself.
In this sixth episode, you tell them all fuck with you and the crib listening to NSYNC and Backstreet Boys.
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In one direction too.
Yes.
Yes.
And oh, let me tell you that.
Listen, hold on.
This is one country song, right?
Your black car about to get tough.
Hold on, listen.
This is one country song, right?
From a black country artist named Shabuzy.
I don't know what you're saying.
Your car about to get tough.
Why?
I was listening to that shit.
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Come on, bro.
Come on, bro.
I'm on some.
Go ahead.
Right now, like I said, Uncle Murda been in my mom's and try to list any grand story.
Right.
Since you said something about that Dave Eastman playing Dave East.
Right.
I ain't gonna lie, my little bro sent me a Poundside Pop drum.
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Poundside.
I heard.
I ain't listen to it.
I never listen to it.
I ain't gonna lie.
That song by episode seven, I'm gonna have that song named.
Right.
I ain't gonna lie.
That song I ain't.
Poundside Pop.
Poundside Pop.
What else?
R&B.
Uh huh.
I've been on some Anthony Hamilton, man.
Oh, listen, Charlene?
Charlene, my shit.
Yeah, I mean, I really, because a lot of these R&B people get slept on.
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They do.
So, like I said, I always go to the old shit.
Yeah.
I mean, like the boy J Holiday.
J Holiday.
Slut on.
They slept on J Holiday.
But yeah, that's all I've been rocking with.
It's a couple, it's a couple of newer R&B artists.
I got me some.
I don't want y'all think I'm listening to Pop.
Just ain't gonna tell you all my list yet.
I gotta let them know, man.
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I got me shout the paint.
That's my whole...
You know what I mean?
Yeah, I mean, just like a pill.
Stop playing me.
So, I mean, we want people to know that we just don't listen to R&B and hip hop.
Listen to R&B.
It just opens everything.
But back in the R&B, there's a couple of new R&B artists I've listened to.
Boatone Stitch, J-How, Vito, like this R&B music.
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It's still gonna be out there.
My brother told me it's not gonna be.
I got you, bro.
I got you, bro.
But no, it is some good R&B music coming back.
And listen, y'all need to do me a favor too, y'all.
Since we on music, get your ears but chance to listen to some jazz, y'all.
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Listen to me.
Listen to me.
I'm like, what?
Jazz?
Listen.
I'm just like a good instrument.
Right.
Jazz is the shit, yo.
I'm telling you, yo.
I'm telling you, I'm telling you some bangin' jazz artists out here.
Right.
And they playing the young people jazz music.
Don't think you're gonna hear that old Shirley Tump moving who is Armstrong jazz.
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No.
I mean, get jazz to play, yo.
Right.
Because now I told you I asked you, man.
So you ready to sign them out bro?
Let's say man
Happy Fathers Day. Happy Fathers Day. Enjoy your day. Right. You know I'm saying
What you got to tell them?
Before you eat a crib you got to leave with common sense because they're trying to make it common not to have sense
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It stayed low-key like the bottom
And you know how we say Papa was a rolling stone
Wherever he laid his hat was his home and when he died
Oh, he left us was alone
We out
When mother they come around father go in they pocket deep when they pocket the air I want to give my mom or something
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You catch that money out know what mother do and I want to get daddy something will go in that car
It's some change in my look up holding there
Don't nobody even have a sale for father who has a father they say
Mother they says like 30 of everybody have mother they said don't mind the father they said who had my father said the dollar store
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That's how you get water holes and jumper cables for father in the stores
No, this is not a store got a little trick for father. They make little packages where they look box give you suspenders
socks in a shirt one box
And you know what kids do they give you that stuff throughout the year
They give that shirt for father's day them socks for your birthday
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And then they just ran and they give you something else as you know, they think about it's crazy
Five days sucks, and I'm a father. I mean all this work to be a father for the suck. I
Father's Day is the worst holiday in the world. I've done the research I already
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know. Let me tell you something. Mother's Day is the second most celebrated holiday
in the world. Christmas is first so it means it's Jesus being your mama. You
know what Father's Day fall at? Number 20. I can't think of 18 other holidays. Do you
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realize Halloween is number six? That mean ghost and gobbling, scoping for
father's? All the day is number 13. I don't even know what that is. I just know
it coming for me. That's crazy. Columbus Day is number 16. Celebrating Columbus Day
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is like celebrating somebody finding money in your house.
Where you get that fitted out from out of the cupboard in your kitchen?
Yo, yo, what up? What up the snap? Yo, yo, yo, what's up? This Marty from North Fully
from We Out the Mud, you know what I'm saying? I said North. I'm in West.
Yeah, you know what I'm saying? North is the bad side. Ain't no wrong with it.
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We're gonna talk about that. We're gonna talk about it. We are gonna talk about that.
But um, yeah man, we gonna give a shout out to everybody that been tuning in from one
to five. Yeah man, we on episode six. Just a little special episode for Father's Day.
You know what I mean? So we gonna, you know what I mean? Touch up on why did Beach get
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more love than the real Father's Day? I ain't feeling it. True. But before we get that,
just like when I said, I appreciate everybody for liking, commenting, listening.
This taking so much of the day to listen to us. Like this truly appreciate it. Don't
think like we don't appreciate it. We truly appreciate it.
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We really do man. You're showing man love out there. MK, good looking baby. You know
what I mean? Sorry about the last episode baby. Alright bro, you know what I mean?
Let's talk to him. We're talking to him. We talking to him. Let's talk to him. What
are we talking about? Alright, so this is our Father's Day special episode. I'm saying
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so we trying to break the cycle of day B and bad fathers and a better rep that fathers
get. So now you being a dad. Yes sir. So let the people know like how is it?
Listen man. Being a dad a real dad a real father is the truth. It's also it's hard
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to you know what I'm saying? Because you don't get no manual. You don't get no directions
how to be a pop, how to take care of kids. All your kids want is time man. They spell
love T I M E. Say it again. They spell love T I M E. They don't want no sneakers. They
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don't want no clothes. They really don't want no games. They just want to spend time with
you. You feel me? Exactly. Not gonna sit here and act right you know when you do have a baby
with someone and then you know shit changed the attitude change. She may feel as though
you ain't doing enough. But they don't mean you if you break up with your baby mom. It
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don't mean you break up with your child too. Right. Some men can't take not being with
their baby mom. So they take it out on a kid. True. I mean but then with another guy step
in and really do the part of a step dad. Then actually when the real father want to come
around and act like no nigga. No. Get the fuck out of there.
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Exactly. So are you this way because you really concerned about your child well being. You
want to know who this man is. I mean is he a rapist is he psychotic. You know what I mean.
Well you just thinking with your lust thoughts or this man in your crib your son or daughter
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going to sleep and he banging her back out. You understand the same. So I just coming
up bro. Five was they really wasn't a big deal. It wasn't. I mean I know my mom brothers.
It was good pops. I guess you asked my cousins and they probably did things but father they
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never was a big holiday bro. It wasn't. I want to break that cycle. I'm a hell of a dad
hell of a father. I got my my force. If you ask my kids though like I said don't never
ask the parents if they agree parents. Oh yeah. Definitely ask the kids. Ask the kids.
Right. You understand. The kids going to tell you the truth. Definitely would. You understand.
So five was they got to come back around the map because it's real gas out there man. Right.
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And we don't get enough credit. Right. We left these dead beats when true. No. Like for
me being a dad is like the best thing that ever happened to me. Yeah. For a for like
of course like I laugh and joke around say I don't like my kids and shit like that. But
like I love the show my kids bro. Like I'm not I'm not like an aggressive person. I'm
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not like the fighter and shit like that. But if you fuck his bro is over. That's how I feel
like don't like but you know about the aggressive part. Like I said my son Chris really taught
me how to be a dad because I had to learn patience. Right. You know I'm saying I had
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to learn how to be kind hearted. I can't be all the way tough. Yeah. You know what I mean.
So like I said man it don't come with a blue plan. You think the way you was raised that's
how you put the rage. Your kids. Right. It don't work that way. Yeah. You know what I'm
saying. I'm not again. I'm not going to say all baby moms or the mother of your kids are
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innocent but they should not have to take care that child that you're made together
on your own. Right. Like on her own like no. It shouldn't happen man. I don't I don't care
what y'all went through that young lady or that young boy they all had should have both
parents in their life. I don't care if y'all together separate bro do your part bro. Right.
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Don't get mad because you're not on the door. And you hear the boy watching the Eagles game.
I know that's a good guy. Yeah. Don't get mad bro. I mean but some boys do be doing
too much. You can't when it if that's not your child bro. Like that lady and that man
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talk. Right. You mind your business. Long as this dude ain't trying to put his hands
on your now girlfriend. Mind your business. That's his son and her son. Right. Long as
he ain't coming in your crib disrespecting you or her. Let them handle that but some
boy be your man. No you can't come past here. Hold up. Hold up. First of all I know how
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this is. This ain't your house. Fuck you me. You know what I'm saying. Right. All right.
So we're going to take it back. So how was it. How was your relationship with your dad.
I ain't really had one. So I can't. I mean in the beginning of the time I was hearing
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stories like you didn't get that you know always took you to the doctor's appointment
made sure this and that was real happy when I was born and all that. You know then I guess
my mom and him go through some things and all that separate. I can remember times you
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know he was you know fighting to come get us and see us and shit and then it just stopped.
Oh well. Now that I have kids of my own I don't think I would have stopped trying to
fight to get my kids to see my kids regardless of what my wife was talking about. Ain't nobody
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keeping me away from my son and my daughter. Right. You know what I'm saying. So I think
some men take the easy road. But are you saying that because you in a life because think about
it you're not there every day because sometimes I'm not trying to keep from I'm not but you
can't take off. I'm not taking them but like it's like when you like working for something
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without I'm not talking about father's and shit but you know work for something you
keep on getting beat down and you get harder and harder to get up each time. Maybe that's
the reason why. But think about it if the son of the daughter see the parent fighting
for them. That get them the time to get 18 21. Right. I don't hate this man. Right. I
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witnessed this man really trying to fight to get us or he took my mom to court to get
on. What's that share custody. That's a joint custody. Yeah I mean joint custody. You feel
like you know what I'm saying. So when you don't see that and then you don't hear from
them you only got no phone number. Yeah you know the mom and dad is beefing they sometimes
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the mom can't take the dad with his life. Right. So you don't want the kids around his
new girlfriend like that. So the kids get caught in the middle. But you got to show them kids
you know I try like I was saying you don't see it. Because it's an easy route for them
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because from the beginning the lady first of all is dangerous. That's that's that's
see this is about a female. This is why most they more poor in there. They carry in a baby
for nine months. Right. Right. When they deliver in the baby it's a 50 50 chance. They could
die or they baby could die on that tape. You know what I'm saying. Well they both could
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die. Both could die. Yeah. You know what I'm saying. All we got to do is what? Really?
Nothing. Hold their hand hold their leg up. That's it. Yeah. The baby automatically go
home to the mom. Yeah they give it to mom. And then go to the dad if they don't live
together. Yeah. If y'all live together it's different. The baby come home to both parents.
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Mm-hmm. Y'all just boyfriend and girlfriend. She live here with her parents and you live
there. Yeah. She's dealing with that baby 24 seven. Seven days a week. Yeah. You get
to pop up whenever the fuck you feel like it. Right. Yeah I'm saying so. I see why
they get mad at certain men and fathers but I'm not one of them. You're not one of them.
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Right. I know a lot of good fathers out here. I do too. But I think we need to start patting
ourselves on the back and having events and shit because there's a lot of dead beasts
at these barbecues and they shouldn't be at a fucking barbecue. You're right. They're
so true. Yeah man. Maybe the first one with the bigger plate. They drunk all the liquor.
Right. Smoked all the blood. You know what I'm saying?
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True. Go fuck out of there man. Go take your ass back where you was at before you was trying
to take them care of that kid. Man fuck out of there. So for me right from what I heard
my parents were separated. Right. And then they came together and that's how I came along.
So in the beginning like I said like I said an episode of the Friends of Family episode
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I live with my dad mom. But I don't remember seeing my dad when I lived with his mom. Right.
And holding it to my pop and I said a butler the first. Yeah I mean not saying I don't get
along with him now like I said when you grow up under one roof you only hear one side of
the story. Right. Now that I have my own family I kind of understand what he was going through.
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Right. I ain't had to go through that but I know what type of mom I had. She was a gangster.
Keep saying that. So he probably didn't want to keep dealing with that. Right. And then
he ain't want to stop his career. He had a career. You know what I'm saying. So it ain't
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like he just was trying to just say forgive my boys. Right. How many times you won't keep
going through the same thing every time every time. So right now me being 44. We talk he
called me. Right. I'm saying we ain't never really had that sit down yet. You know that
one. Yeah. I mean because I really want to understand like what happened and why. Yeah
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I mean because certain things he do I do my brothers do we got you in our blood. You know
what I'm saying. So yeah. So the go back right. So I don't remember him being there but he
told me he was there. Right. The only thing I know about my dad that we got the same name
like you second I'm a junior too. Right. So I remember you a junior. I'm a junior. I was
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second. My fault. Yeah. So I'm a junior. Right. And do I have the course of me growing
up when I moved from South Living on Chester Avenue in Southwest with my grandma to I moved
I can't treat with my mom. I would he will come like every weekend. I remember going
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to the
And then after a while it stopped. OK. And then they pick back up again when I moved from
I just should come so she come he come every week and fight two months straight then it
stopped so that I don't know what happened. What he told me is that my older system my
mom kept me from him. But from what I know my older system my mom never talked bad about
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him around me. That's that was the rule. But a lot of females was keeping the kids away
from the dads. It was an era where it was. The moms did not let the sons or daughters
go to the dad cribs. Bro. Especially the daughters. If I know what they're doing here over. But
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I can say my mom and dad my mom and my mom and my mom and my older sister wanted me to
go. They my mom first me to go every weekend when I didn't want to go. OK. I used to like
cry and stuff. She made me go and shit like that. So like I can't say that. And then like
just like you fell out fell out. When I had my first kid the way the way he found out that
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I had my first kid is because I asked him for something and then he said something made
me mad. And I'm like no I'd find all right. Cool. Whatever. No. No I told him I told him
I said I said look I'm grown. I got my own kids. So I feel as though maybe us like you
miss him father some relationship. It might be too late for that. But I still want to
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build a relationship with you. All right. This is like the father thing. It was filled
already. Oh OK. Yeah it was filled already. So I had other people I can go to talk to
and stuff like that. So I'm like yeah. So he said something I'm like fine. No that's
crazy because that's crazy because how my son not going to get changed to me his granddad
because you like feel the same way right. Then that's how he found out. That's how you
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found out I had a son. That's what I'm saying. I just don't like when they want to come around
after the work is done. Like it's crazy. You'll never see the dads the dead beats from Kenny
Gartner to 11th grade. Yeah. It seemed like as soon as the 12th grade get here all the
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dead beats pop up. How like is it a fucking alarm going on for dead beats and shit. They
let me know man. Like let me know man because they come as soon as the job done then they
want a brain and low ass old ass flowers. Teddy bear. When Teddy bear car with nothing
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in it. Right. Want to take all the pitches. Leave the mom out. Like no. Let me just my
daughter. Hold on. Hold on. Oh my. I got a couple pictures like that too. This me and
my dad and shit. Yeah. What the fuck was you at. Your flu season. Exactly. Oh let me
see some car. Let me see some. So no growing up when I was simply for the six years shit
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like that. Everybody had breaks. So I had breaks. Yeah. He was mad. He was mad. He was
mad. I had breaks. I'm bored now but I had breaks. I had breaks but he was mad that I
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had breaks but bro you wasn't even there to like at all from. I got. You ain't even paid
for my haircuts. Right. So I got braids in the sixth grade. So from third grade I've
been to the sixth grade. That's when I cut my ex my mom on my braids. Can I get braids?
Can I get braids? And so y'all dead beats not to cut my bro body off. Don't think cause
y'all send that little check to the crib every month. That's taking care of your kid. That's
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not taking care of your fucking kid bro. Right. You just sending that shit so you won't go
to jail with your dead beat ass. Right. Ain't nobody in the courtroom gonna tell me what
I should do or take care of how I should take care of my kids. Right. I don't care if I
was with the wife or not. Understandable. Ain't nobody keeping me away from my kids
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and anybody that really know not said they know I'm playing about my kids but I really
don't play about my daughter. Bullshit. Are you making up for that episode? Yeah. These
dead beats man. Like these dead beats get too much credit bro. Yeah. You know what I'm
saying? They walk around with their head up chest out. Like bro no. Sit the fuck down
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and let the real fibers do this. Right. You know what I mean? Because it made me not want
to celebrate fibers day bro. What? Off the world because I'm a dad every day. Right.
So when you were a dad every day, fucking fibers day once a year. Yeah. Understandable.
Fuck I'm on a barbecue for. You know what I'm saying? But for me, my motivation was
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the total opposite. Like I don't even, I can't tell you my dad birthday to this day. But
all my kids know my birthday. They know my name. They know where I come from. They know
the house I grew up in. They know everything about me. But don't give them a dead beat
to us. How to be great dads. Right. Because we knew, we knew what we wanted from our pops.
Right. So now we know what they do for our kids. So in a way they helped us without them
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even knowing they helped us with their dead beat ass. Right. I thought you bro. You know
what I'm saying? Yeah. My goal was to be there at all times. So yeah. That's it. Good. Bad.
The ugly bro. Just be there for your kids. Yes. They go, listen. Look at what you did
to your mom at Pop when you was at a certain age. Right. Of course they go and get attitudes
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when they start getting little pubic hairs and a guy might tell your daughter she look
cute. Right. A girl might tell your son, you look handsome. So now he's filling this
self. Right. You see a little muscles coming in. Little hair and shit. Yeah. So to be around
and see your kids grow into a younger adult bro. That shit is priceless bro. Enjoy it
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because unless they got a high school bro. That's it. I know it's for you bro. You tell
it all the time. Tell you this all the time. I got time. So stop bringing it up though.
No. You gotta enjoy it. Go like that. Right. Snap over finger. Alright. So my first kid
was a boy. Right. Your first kid was a boy. Yes sir. So since we didn't grow up with
our dads. Right. Was you scared to become a dad? Yes I was. Why is that? Because I
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didn't want to fail bro. Right. You know what I'm saying? I just didn't want to like
he look at me and like that's my dad. You know what I'm saying? I feel you. I want to
like that's my dad. Like yeah. That's how it is. Like you your kid's first hero. Exactly.
They're super hero. I'd be damn unless somebody take my motherfucking tape off. Shit. Yeah for
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you bro. They ain't taking that from my kid's life. Like I said ask the kids if they fuck
with their parents. Ask the parent. Every parent in the whole world if you ask them
are you a great parent? I'm gonna say yeah. Everybody gonna say yes. Yeah. But no go ask
their sons or their daughters. Right. Your dad why some of my motherfucking home. Right.
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You never do nothing for me. Always hitting on my mom. Just standing there. You know what
I'm saying? Oh. Tell my dad bro. My dad will only he used to call me and say you know like
he's. Hold on. Let me stop that. I don't even think I got to have his birthday from my
way. Listen. Listen. He will call me. He will call me right. Tell me how his friends and
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his son doing this father dad thing or like how his friend and the people at his church
and they said we do all this stuff together. And in my head I because I didn't want I don't
want to be disrespectful. But my head I'm like bro you never had that. So wow. So you just
want to come through so you can take pictures with me so you can show your friends that
look I'm with my son too but not be there in real life. Like my dad like ask my sisters
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and my other brother. They know how my dad is. He just for the show. Right. He not he
not. It's a lot of pops out there. Yeah. He put a show. So like he the type of he the
type of football player that don't want to go to practice. But this one show for the
game. He just want to wear the uniform. He don't want to put the. Yeah. She went to
Chile. Yeah. Like that. Playful the nights. Yeah. So I'm fucking gonna practice. Don't
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go to practice. Yeah. I don't know. Like I said I don't need to think. I can't remember
the last time he called me on my birthday. Right. Yeah. When you young like I said when
you young you be upset you be mad. Right. It's your point like that. Fuck it. Right.
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I did all this shit without you for real. And you looking at it. That's the only thing
though. With dead beats. That's that. They'll call your phone and try to tell you how to
live and move. Oh. I'm gonna fuck. I've been doing this without you. Oh. Let me tell you
about that. Yeah. You know what I'm saying. Or you asked him for some of it. And they
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they're acting like it's the end of the world. Fuck. I ain't asked you for nothing since
I've been fucking on my own. Right. Or they don't say they proud of you. Like damn bro.
Like you know kids do want to hear that. So a lot of kids out here still need a hug from
their parents. Exactly. A lot of kids no matter how old they are especially the men. Yeah.
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They want to hear a good job son. It's a party boy. You're gonna do it boy. You know what
I'm saying. Like real rap bro. Like this shit is ridiculous. These dead beats got to go.
Like y'all got to go. Y'all getting too much credit. Y'all y'all having too many barbecues
and you have a father day barbecues. You a dead beat. Get a banner and say this is a dead
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beat barbecue. You should not be at a real father's day barbecue. Man. To the real father
start calling these dead beats out because you shouldn't be hanging with somebody that
don't take care of kids. How can you trust them bro. Exactly. You can't. So for me right
back to what I asked you for me. I remember like I don't know what happened but I was
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in the break room when I was at McDonald's. So I was talking to my homie at the time
and like I remember this like I was scared. I think I got home like that or something.
I know I was scared. I'm like bro like how am I gonna be a dad. I got no blueprint. I
got nobody to look forward to. So I'm like what the fuck I want to do. I was in there
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crying like terrified like I don't know what the fuck to do. I don't want to fuck up and
like all that shit. But then like just jumping is kind of like like how we talk about the
middle band is how you say the birds kick them out the window and push them out. Yeah
that's how I do. You just got jumping to deep in and like. But see with me I had practice
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too because I had nephews. So watching them maybe sitting them you know how to change
pampers. Yeah I know how to do the food make the bottles and shit burp them before you
lay them down and all that. So when you do have your kid it's somewhat like a little
practice with your nieces or your nephews you know what I'm saying. But they get to leave
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they get to go home. Your state wish. I was about to say ain't no practice when you wake
up 3 a.m. in the morning. No I'm not thinking you sleep at 2 30. Oh. Time for me to eat
bro. You gotta get your ass sucked. Lady like it's your turn. No. It's your turn.
But yeah man like I don't bang with dead beats. I just started back talking to my pop after
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my mom passing. Like I said I go through my phase when I say fuck him man. I ain't gonna
say in line. You know what I mean because if I knew what you didn't do and I wanted
you to do. You look at him and you know you're in a good pop man. Right. I mean I ain't gonna
keep saying it to you. I mean you know. Right. And the people would just say I didn't call
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you and so that my dad used to call my wife and ask her why I'm mad at him or don't talk
to him. He would never call me and say that. I'm like bro first off I don't even think
about you to get mad at you. I'm so used to you not being there. Right. Like you don't
even you never crossed my mind. So he passed away last year two years ago. Right. And like
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we went up there. Yeah. RIP. We went there right. We need to say that. I mean I do many
because there are people that care about them so I do. I got empathy for that. But like
for me as a son like I felt nothing. So me my sisters my wife and one of my nieces went
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there went there and saw them and my sister was like my older sister was like one be crazy
if you pop up and like was faking and my head is crazy crazy part. I thought like you know
he might do some shit like that because he do shit for the show. So he believed that he
died until we went there and we went there and seen them and so I'm like damn that's
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crazy. That's all I said. No tears. Nothing like damn that's crazy. And I carry his name
exactly. I'm saying like I carry his whole name. We got the same first name same middle
name same. I know I'm the first boy from our pop man. Oh I got to something about that
bro. Certain times he is in relationships and the person might have had a son or something
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bro. I feel some type of. Oh I got to something about that shit too. Like I'm your son dog.
Fuck that nigga. Like I'm being real. Like I'm not saying. Oh I got to something about
that. The lady he went is a bad person. But that's my pop. Like I don't give a fuck about
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what him and your son doing. Right. Or whoever he doing with another son chilling. I'm gonna
fuck bro. You're stealing that from me. Right. Some motherfuckers might say no no you
know. Fuck that. Fuck that. Alright. How you gonna know my old man better than me. Alright
so for me. So my dad got married three times. So he got married to my mom. Right. That's
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where we got my oldest sister and me. Then he got married the second time. The lady he
got married to had a son. So I wasn't there with him. But my oldest sister told me that
he the lady son or call him daddy and he would spend time with him all that stuff. So when
he worked at the radio station he would call up there and say I love you dad and all that
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shit bro. I found that out later on in life. So he was a horrible dad with great stepdad.
Yeah. Yeah. Oh and another thing yo. So I remember it was 1999. Juvenile back the asshole
was on the radio. Right. I asked my dad cuz. Yeah. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No.
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No. Exactly. So like. So. I asked
someone about the lady son. He said, Oh no. You are my only son. I'm like alright. Tell
me why. I was like you'll get to do that. A 1 year later. 21. My older brother came
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I had, yo, my brother just went through some situation
like they're doing like the pandemic,
some bulls in my fucking DM.
And he's like, yeah, you ain't not saying,
like, yeah, like motherfuckers on my grand, like, yeah,
what's up with you?
Y'all think your dad, man, listen, bro,
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that guy's saying ain't Butler, bro,
you don't look like my pop, bro.
My one thing about that old man,
he ain't gonna deny his kids.
That's one thing about him.
You know what I'm saying?
He ain't gonna deny his kids, you feel me?
And to all my siblings from my pop,
like if you know him, he gonna lead you to the water.
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He ain't gonna help you drink that shit.
You feel what I'm saying?
Like, we're a wet boat.
And if you don't got a big toe,
that's my pop trademark.
All his kids got that big toe, bro.
If I throw on a guy, I'm sorry, baby,
I ain't need to throw you out there.
But yeah, I don't got a big toe on my fucking body.
Right, so he came, he came on Facebook,
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said I'm your brother.
I'm like, I call my sister.
I'm like, yo, this person saying that he's our brother?
Like, this is new to me, cause I'm the youngest.
So my sister went up there, oh, he's my brother.
He's our brother.
I'm like, what the fuck?
And then after he passed away,
find out he got another brother.
Oh, y'all find out, oh, gang out there.
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Y'all find out a basketball squad.
That is exactly real.
So like, I came from having eight siblings from my mom.
I'm at 10 now from my mom and dad.
And we think it's more, we don't know for sure,
but we think it's more.
You got a whole lot of show.
You got a whole lot of little village.
Exactly, yo.
And that's only counting my brothers and stuff.
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I ain't counting the people with like relationships,
people like that.
Yeah, this is.
I don't think we all for y'all deadbeats.
Yeah, we all for deadbeats.
Back on your ass, fucking deadbeats ass,
and all for you.
Jump off deadbeats.
So since we didn't have our days,
did you have, did you have any father figures?
Yeah, I did.
I have a bunch of those.
You know what I'm saying?
Like I said, hold up.
Wait, you don't have to say no names
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because they tired of shouting people's roles.
Fuck, fucking tired of.
You know what I'm saying?
My father figures was my uncle's skit.
Right.
I ain't gonna lie, let me begin all my own goals, man.
Uh huh.
I mean, all my own goals, though.
Rest in peace, uncle Melvin.
So all my own goals.
And my only day-day step-pop, Mr. Tommy Nelson.
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Right.
And my OGs and the Jets.
You know what I'm saying?
Like I did have father figures around.
Even people from like in my school days
and mansion and shit, you had certain NTAs
that treat you like a nephew, you know what I'm saying?
So back in the day, I had a lot of Mel road models, bro.
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But like I said, again, it's not day four.
Right.
If you go to left route and do little shit to find out
if you're gonna get knocked on your ass, you know what I mean?
Right.
But I can't lie, I had a lot of Mel road models, bro.
And I appreciate y'all too.
The ones that still here and the ones that's gone.
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I ain't gonna name all y'all, I ain't gonna name y'all,
but I appreciate y'all a lot.
All right, so for me, I got, I had father figures,
but growing up, I first started off my uncle,
my uncle Oliver from my grandma house.
He was like the older kid there.
So like I was with him all the time.
So I shot at him because he do reason why I'm in sports
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and football and all that shit like that.
All right, shot at him, huh?
But he got a bullshit ass football team.
You told him wrong about that.
No, he didn't, because I saw those
the Eagles fans, the Eagles fans,
but I was a kid that didn't count.
So I switched to a Broncos fan.
So then.
They like the Eagles.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
So I seen that.
And then when I moved, it was like,
when I moved to live with my mom,
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it was like no, like real like,
metal figures and shit like that.
Like I said, we had no sub-foundation.
So it was the teenagers raising the younger kids.
True that, true that.
So it didn't happen until my second sister,
my middle sister, she got her husband.
Her husband became the new like,
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father figure slash mentor to me.
Like, cause he was a dad.
He's there every day, taking care of his kids,
know that's a good house, all that stuff.
Like other people and my brothers don't,
I don't know how they feel about them,
but this how I feel.
I feel like he was a great like father figure.
So my brother all the time, thank you.
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I appreciate you for me, for guiding me.
Whenever I can call, at least when I talk to,
I can call you and like shout with you.
And I appreciate that.
And then my older brother, Chris,
the one from my dad,
I can call him and talk to him.
If I need any advice and stuff like that.
But all that from 21 and up.
So them years when you needed father figure,
I didn't have that shit.
Yeah, see I had my own boys and them,
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but then like you said,
when something moved out to Chris,
that was all me.
I was going like, fuck all that.
Fuck all that.
My way, girl, what?
What bro?
Like no, bro, no, I mean, well, fuck that, bro.
Fuck all your deadbeats, bro.
I'm serious, bro.
Cause y'all know what y'all do to these kids, bro.
Y'all mean kids need day five,
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is don't listen to these fucking ladies out here.
They only be upset man,
because they doing the job by themselves.
I'm being straight up, bro.
You talk to a motherfucker who always wished his dad
with a shoulder up.
His dad would have just took him to a game.
Let the other guys know he around.
By getting into a fight.
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I know my dad right there behind me.
Right me on, you know what I'm saying?
So you do something good in school.
You want your pop to be there, bro.
Not be there when the fucking job is done.
The fuck out of y'all pop up at every fucking graduation.
Oh my God, he's fucking.
How the fuck, how the fuck you popping up
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at every graduation,
but you ain't pop up at the doctor's appointment.
Bitch ass nigga.
I'm serious, dawg.
Fuck y'all deadbeats.
You fucking it up for the real pop.
So now we gonna talk about how us being a dad.
So coming from your first child to your second child,
how was it?
Alright so, I ain't a lot of found out.
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I ain't a lot of found out.
There was a girl, bro.
Go ahead.
I was the fuck off, dude.
Like, you're gonna tell me nothing, bro.
Like I said, you don't be prepared.
You be scared,
cause you're trying to plan everything right,
but you can't, you know what I'm saying?
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You wanna take some bumps and bruises
along being a parent, you know what I mean?
I'm trying to learn being a great parent.
When she came on my arms,
I took her to the window and I told her,
as long as your dad breathing, I got you.
Right.
And you know what I mean?
With or without dawg, my daughter knew I had her, bro.
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I ain't give a fuck if I gotta go home,
or even reach without you.
You not, you know what I mean?
You a girl, you should've go without her.
You know what I'm saying?
And not go a lot dawg of mom, bro.
Abyss.
You know what I'm saying?
No, I'm being real.
Right, good.
You know what I'm saying?
I'm a beast, bro.
So, even when I wasn't doing what I should've been doing,
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bro, mom did the thing.
You know what I'm saying?
Right.
Our relationship crazy.
That's my twin.
That's your twin?
They know that.
That's my twin, man.
That's my dog.
Looked just like he was crazy.
You know what I'm saying?
So, having my son, boom, grooming him.
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Like I said, I always told him be yourself, bro.
You don't gotta be like me.
You don't gotta be like your cousins.
Be you.
Be you.
Stand on that.
You know what I mean?
Cause when you being somebody else,
now you gotta watch over your shoulders or back.
Love the shit out of my son.
Chris, love you, boy.
MK, love you, girl.
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You know what I'm saying, bro?
So, yeah, bro, I wanna change that shit for the world, bro.
My dad beat my dad, bro.
Bro, this is how I hate dad beat.
My dad beat made me a better father, bro.
So, thank you.
I wanna thank you for not being there.
I wanna thank you for not giving me
that pickup calls and all that.
Thank you, cause you made me a hell of a dad, man.
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Everybody that know me know now I love his kids, bro.
So I appreciate you for being a dad beat.
Right.
If that makes sense.
All right.
So for me, right from going to my first son
to my second son,
I wasn't nervous cause I had another son.
Right, right, right.
And then I got four kids.
So my third son, same thing.
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All right, cool.
All three of my sons are totally different.
This shit is wild.
Like my oldest son is a cool laid back one.
Not really for me trying to fight and stuff.
He will fight if he had to, but not all night.
My middle son, the scrapper, he throw down.
Like.
All the little kids.
Something about the little kids, man.
Bro, he's a scrapper.
He throw down.
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Like my oldest son is bigger too.
He don't care.
So ain't going to everything.
He got a little anger problem.
He got chill.
Yeah, I'm trying to guide him.
I broke pit him in that head lock.
Exactly.
So I'm trying to guide him to like, to control his anger.
I'm trying to guide my oldest son to be responsible.
And then my youngest son, he's a typical baby.
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All right.
Fuck with the older brothers knowing that ain't
any trouble shit like that.
So like, I'm trying to teach them like, yo,
you can't do that all the time.
Because people, they not like your brothers.
You know the big brother ain't going to hit you.
But the middle brother will hit you back.
Right, right.
I'm trying to say so you got to be careful.
No, for real.
But then my third child, my daughter, oh.
(39:36):
See?
Everything, bro.
Told you, bro.
I was at work.
It's the girls.
Yeah.
I was at work.
Got that text on him and the daughter.
Bro, I was about to leave.
I was about to quit that damn.
I'm out.
Shit.
Bro.
Like, go home.
I'm out.
But I ain't got rocked out though.
Like, oh man.
Then like, watching her grow, holding her.
And like, like you said, my wife was a beast though.
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My wife.
Shout to the wives and the baby.
Oh, god.
Like, you don't understand.
Like.
The moms, man.
Yeah, she was a mom.
She was a dog and a love one.
On Father's Day.
That's fucking crazy.
What, bro?
Yeah.
So like, my daughter, like, she's something different, bro.
I'm like, like, you can tell she runs shit.
Like, she gives her way, whatever she wants.
(40:20):
That's my daughter.
My daughter's a mother.
My daughter's a brother.
Bro, my daughter's a brother.
I cannot be mad at a brother.
Now you know your child, 19, her young adults.
Right.
They f*****g out of here.
You know, it be like, baby, KKK mad at me.
Like, you don't want your son.
You know y'all going to bump heads.
(40:40):
Yeah, of course.
You know what I mean?
Right.
You know what I mean?
You love him and you love him.
But when your baby girl mad at you, that's different.
That's different, right?
It's kind of like you're like, you're like, you're mad at me.
Yeah, yeah, you feel me?
So, you know what I mean?
Right.
Father's Day, man.
We just want to say, fuck the dead babies.
And so, all right.
(41:03):
So before, are you done talking about fathers and shit like that, bro?
I don't know.
Because I don't want to forget nothing and people be mad at me.
I don't know.
I just say, man, just shout out to all the real dads out there that do your thing.
Take care of your kids, not just with money, but with time, with conversations showing up
(41:24):
to the most important things in their life, listening to them.
I want to shout out to them, man, because y'all don't get enough credit, man.
A lot of dads get overpowered and overlooked by the moms, man.
You know what I'm saying?
So, and fuck y'all dads who lead y'all kids and but y'all go to another relationship and
(41:45):
be the best step dad you could beat the bitch ass.
Oh, so for me and all my brothers, they grow up before dads.
But all of us are dads.
So I shout out to all my brothers.
Yeah, shout out to them.
Yeah.
All of them.
Go ahead.
Shout out to my little bro, Brick.
You a hell of a pop, boy.
Proud of you, boy.
Shout out to all my brothers, y'all.
(42:06):
All our great dads.
For me and our love when we have a family reunion, we bring the family together and shit like
that.
I appreciate all that shit.
And the only reason why I ain't naming all y'all my squad, because there's too many of
y'all, man, but y'all know the real dads, man.
Exactly.
And my squad too.
All my squad are real dads too.
I appreciate everybody's real dads.
So if you're real dad, I did shout out to you.
Get yourself a panel bag, get a drink, roll one up.
(42:29):
Yeah, roll one up.
If you don't smoke, smoke a cigar, baby.
Whatever you do, just keep it going.
For me, don't let that shit stop you, bro.
Real wack, fuck the dead beats.
That's hashtag, fuck dead beats, man.
Real wack, man.
All right, so now we're going to go with this.
So if you had a great dad, let us know.
Let us know.
If you didn't have a good dad, let us know that too.
(42:51):
Yeah, shout your pop out.
Yeah, shout your pop out.
If you was there, shout them out.
If it wasn't there, then I understand.
And Western peace to all the good fathers, because I don't want to lie.
Western peace on Henry.
That's my wife, cousin Lisa dad, man.
Hell of a dude.
Yeah, I'm saying shows up, like I said, there's a lot of good dads that's not here.
Yeah, I mean, but fuck y'all dead beats.
(43:15):
Y'all leave these ladies out here with all these fucking kids.
And then y'all want to come around doing fucking graduation.
Keep your ass where you was at, you fucking girl.
All right, so we're going to jump off that.
Now, I've been listening to a lot of pop music recently.
I was listening to pop music.
(43:36):
Yeah, I was listening to, listen, I was listening to NSYNC, Backstreet Boys, One Direction.
I had to go listen to it.
You gotta keep to yourself.
No, man.
I'm saying like, I listen to Sir Shit too, bro.
I'm not keeping myself.
In this sixth episode, you tell them all fuck with you and the crib listening to NSYNC and Backstreet Boys.
(43:58):
In one direction too.
Yes.
Yes.
And oh, let me tell you that.
Listen, hold on.
This is one country song, right?
Your black car about to get tough.
Hold on, listen.
This is one country song, right?
From a black country artist named Shabuzy.
I don't know what you're saying.
Your car about to get tough.
Why?
I was listening to that shit.
(44:21):
Come on, bro.
Come on, bro.
I'm on some.
Go ahead.
Right now, like I said, Uncle Murda been in my mom's and try to list any grand story.
Right.
Since you said something about that Dave Eastman playing Dave East.
Right.
I ain't gonna lie, my little bro sent me a Poundside Pop drum.
(44:43):
Poundside.
I heard.
I ain't listen to it.
I never listen to it.
I ain't gonna lie.
That song by episode seven, I'm gonna have that song named.
Right.
I ain't gonna lie.
That song I ain't.
Poundside Pop.
Poundside Pop.
What else?
R&B.
Uh huh.
I've been on some Anthony Hamilton, man.
Oh, listen, Charlene?
Charlene, my shit.
Yeah, I mean, I really, because a lot of these R&B people get slept on.
(45:08):
They do.
So, like I said, I always go to the old shit.
Yeah.
I mean, like the boy J Holiday.
J Holiday.
Slut on.
They slept on J Holiday.
But yeah, that's all I've been rocking with.
It's a couple, it's a couple of newer R&B artists.
I got me some.
I don't want y'all think I'm listening to Pop.
Just ain't gonna tell you all my list yet.
I gotta let them know, man.
(45:29):
I got me shout the paint.
That's my whole...
You know what I mean?
Yeah, I mean, just like a pill.
Stop playing me.
So, I mean, we want people to know that we just don't listen to R&B and hip hop.
Listen to R&B.
It just opens everything.
But back in the R&B, there's a couple of new R&B artists I've listened to.
Boatone Stitch, J-How, Vito, like this R&B music.
(45:51):
It's still gonna be out there.
My brother told me it's not gonna be.
I got you, bro.
I got you, bro.
But no, it is some good R&B music coming back.
And listen, y'all need to do me a favor too, y'all.
Since we on music, get your ears but chance to listen to some jazz, y'all.
(46:15):
Listen to me.
Listen to me.
I'm like, what?
Jazz?
Listen.
I'm just like a good instrument.
Right.
Jazz is the shit, yo.
I'm telling you, yo.
I'm telling you, I'm telling you some bangin' jazz artists out here.
Right.
And they playing the young people jazz music.
Don't think you're gonna hear that old Shirley Tump moving who is Armstrong jazz.
(46:41):
No.
I mean, get jazz to play, yo.
Right.
Because now I told you I asked you, man.
So you ready to sign them out bro?
Let's say man
Happy Fathers Day. Happy Fathers Day. Enjoy your day. Right. You know I'm saying
What you got to tell them?
Before you eat a crib you got to leave with common sense because they're trying to make it common not to have sense
(47:06):
It stayed low-key like the bottom
And you know how we say Papa was a rolling stone
Wherever he laid his hat was his home and when he died
Oh, he left us was alone
We out
When mother they come around father go in they pocket deep when they pocket the air I want to give my mom or something
(47:30):
You catch that money out know what mother do and I want to get daddy something will go in that car
It's some change in my look up holding there
Don't nobody even have a sale for father who has a father they say
Mother they says like 30 of everybody have mother they said don't mind the father they said who had my father said the dollar store
(47:51):
That's how you get water holes and jumper cables for father in the stores
No, this is not a store got a little trick for father. They make little packages where they look box give you suspenders
socks in a shirt one box
And you know what kids do they give you that stuff throughout the year
They give that shirt for father's day them socks for your birthday
(48:13):
And then they just ran and they give you something else as you know, they think about it's crazy
Five days sucks, and I'm a father. I mean all this work to be a father for the suck. I
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