We Said Sumthing

In this powerful and transparent episode, Sophia Ruffin Wilson and Tommy Wilson Jr. dive into the topic so many are asking about: Is it really possible to wait on God’s best without compromising?They unpack what it means to trust God for a ready-made spouse—someone who’s already been prepared, refined, and aligned for you. No fixing, forcing, or settling required.💍 If you’ve ever wondered if you’re asking for too much, or if you’r...

In this powerful episode of We Said SumThing, Sophia Ruffin Wilson and Tommy Wilson Jr. sit down for a real, raw, and honest conversation about balancing marriage and ministry. 💍✝️

From learning how to love and lead each other in faith, to navigating the unique challenges that come with ministry life, this episode is full of wisdom, laughter, and truth. Whether you’re single, dating, married, or in ministry yourself — this one’...

In this soul-stirring episode of We Said Sumthing, hosts Sophia Ruffin, Wilson, and Tommy Wilson Jr. dive into the prophetic truth: Once we learn the power of waiting on God, we will discover the beauty of His appointed time. From personal testimonies to prophetic insight, this conversation reminds us not to rush, not to settle, and above all—not to deviate from the Word God spoke. If you’ve been in a season of waiting, this episod...

In this powerful and candid episode of We Said Sumthing, Sophia Ruffin Wilson and Tommy Wilson Jr. dive deep into the topic of kingdom dating. From boundaries and intentionality to healing and purpose, they share their personal journey and offer real, raw insight into what it means to date God’s way. Whether you’re single, dating, or preparing for marriage, this conversation will challenge you, inspire you, and remind you that when...

In this episode of We Said Sumthing, Sophia Ruffin Wilson and Tommy Wilson Jr. get real about the highs and lows of being in the spotlight. From clapping back to staying silent, they dive into the pressure of responding to negative comments on social media—and how being in the light comes with both critics and supporters.How do you protect your peace while still keeping it real? Should public figures always take the high road? Let’...

In this episode of We Said SumThing, we’re diving deep into the real, raw, and sometimes hilarious journey of love and friendship with Sophia Ruffin Wilson and her husband, Tommy Wilson Jr. From building a strong foundation of faith to navigating life as best friends and partners, this conversation is full of laughs, lessons, and powerful truths about what it means to truly do life together.Whether you’re single, dating, married, o...

In this episode of We Said Sumthing Podcast, Sophia Ruffin Wilson and Tommy Wilson Jr. keep it real about life before and after ministry trips. From how they prepare their hearts (and suitcases) to preach the gospel, to the way they recharge and decompress once they’re back home—nothing is off the table.They’re sharing stories, laughter, and wisdom on what it really looks like behind the scenes of traveling ministry. Whether you’re...

Let’s Talk Sports! | Sophia Ruffin Wilson & Tommy Wilson Jr.| We Said SumThing PodcastYou know we had to talk sports! In this episode of the We Said SumThing podcast, Sophia Ruffin Wilson and Tommy Wilson Jr. dive into all things sports—from game day hot takes to their personal favorites and everything in between. Whether you’re a die-hard fan or just here for the fun, this episode is packed with laughs, unexpected opinions, an...

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This week on the We Said SumThing podcast, Sophia Ruffin Wilson and Tommy Wilson Jr. are diving into the world of kicks! From the thrill of the sneaker hunt to the stories behind their favorite pairs, this episode is all about what it means to be a true sneakerhead. Whether you’re into Jordans, Dunks, or just love a fresh pair of kicks, this convo is for you.

They’re talking collections, sneaker culture, and the me...

Are you an introvert or an extrovert in your relationship? And how does that dynamic play out when opposites attract? In this episode of We Said SumThing, Sophia Ruffin Wilson and Tommy Wilson Jr. dive into the unique challenges and strengths that come with being an introvert or extrovert in a relationship.

From communication styles to social energy levels, they share personal experiences, laughs, and wisdom on how to make it work—w...

In this episode of We Said Sumthing Podcast, Sophia Ruffin Wilson and Tommy Wilson Jr. open up about life as newlyweds! They share their journey of balancing marriage, navigating friendships, and growing in ministry—while Tommy adjusts to life in Chicago.

From the joys to the challenges, Sophia and Tommy keep it real about what it takes to build a strong foundation in marriage while staying true to their purpose. Tune in for lau...

In this episode, we’re taking you back to one of the most special days of our lives—our wedding day! We’re sharing all the details, from the décor to the emotions, and our unique perspectives as bride and groom.

We also dive into Tommy’s book, Later Date, where he tells the full story of how we met, what it was like to believe in love again after divorce, and the wisdom gained along the way.

To wrap it up, we reflect on the past two ...

In this special episode of We Said Sumthing Podcast, Sophia Ruffin Wilson and Tommy Wilson Jr. sit down to share the full story behind their unforgettable proposal! From the moments leading up to the big question to the divine way God led Tommy to the perfect ring for Sophia, this conversation is filled with love, faith, and testimony.

Tune in as they reflect on their journey, the prayers that guided them, and how God’s timing made ...

Love, Purity & Purpose – Trusting God & Setting Boundaries in RelationshipsIn this episode of We Said Sumthing, we’re getting real about love, purity, and purpose! 💕 Join us as we share our journey of keeping God at the center of our relationship, setting boundaries, and trusting His timing. From navigating temptation to staying committed to our values, we’re diving deep into the challenges and blessings of waiting God’s w...

Join hosts Sophia Ruffin Wilson and Tommy Wilson Jr. as they tackle life's biggest topics with honesty, humor, and heart. From faith and family to love and everything in between, this podcast is all about summing it up with real talk, relatable stories, and practical insights. Whether you're looking for inspiration, laughter, or a fresh perspective, We Said Sumthing has something for everyone. Tune in and let's talk about it!Availa...