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SPEAKER_00 (00:02):
Yo, what's the word?
(00:29):
What's the word?
Hey, y'all.
Hey, how y'all doing?
We all right.
We straight.
The We Us BU podcast.
Yeah.
It's been a little minute.
It's been a minute.
It's always been a minute.
That's why they tell us to stayfocused.
We climbing up in those numbers,though.
This is episode eight.
(00:52):
Bang.
This is not bad.
They said after 10, you ain'tgoing to be able to keep up.
Yeah, that's what I've beenpushing for.
That's exactly what I've beenpushing for.
I know they say after a certainnumber, it just starts to become
muscle memory.
Yes.
But yo, the editing and all ofthis extra stuff is a lot.
It's a lot of work.
(01:12):
I see why people fall offbecause I have a normal life
also.
Yeah.
I see.
But that's why they hire people.
That's next.
Eventually we'll get therebecause we all have our own
lives.
Life be busy.
Life be lifin'.
Life be lifin'.
We be busy.
Kids be kiddin'.
Kids be kiddin'.
(01:32):
Life be lifin'.
And bitches be bitchin'.
Niggas be niggin' right now.
Anyway, yo, what's up?
It's the WeSBU podcast.
Yes, sir.
I go by the name of Twan TwizzyTwain.
Yeah, yeah, and I'm Day Day.
And we also got Miss Gio.
(01:55):
Georgia Peach in the Texas heat.
Georgia Peach in the Texas heat.
She's still on her mission to20K.
You heard?
I am, I am.
20K on you.
I heard she gonna make thattomorrow.
That's what she was telling me.
Wait, tomorrow?
In one day?
20K in one day?
I'm trying.
Amateur night.
Oh, she said.
(02:16):
I ain't there by any means.
She said.
Are you going to Amhersttonight?
No, I'm not.
I'm not.
How are you going to make your20K tomorrow?
Tell us.
I'm not.
I'm just going to a bacheloretteparty.
That's it.
Oh, so you're going to steal herones.
Maybe.
Oh.
Or his.
Nah, no blah.
I'm that dude.
You be stealing one?
I'm that dude.
(02:36):
You be like this?
I'm that dude.
I'm that dude.
No way.
It depends.
It depends.
It depends.
Because I might pick them up andI might throw them back.
That's recycling.
That's fine.
I'll recycle.
Recycle.
Ain't nothing wrong with that.
Just don't be putting them inyour pocket.
I've been to a couple ofbachelor parties.
(02:57):
And I've seen people do it.
Yeah, yo, she ain't hungry.
She good.
She got another party tomorrow.
She got another party.
She about to leave here.
Because they got a max minimumthey got to make.
Facts.
So she got paid before she even.
I'm saying this is just.
Max minimum.
Yeah, so if it's a house party,we got to pay.
(03:17):
So if they don't reach like$3,000, they got to reach$3,000.
If they don't reach$3,000, thenwe got to come out of pocket.
Y'all know a lot.
Never heard of that.
I've been to a couple of them, Itold you.
Never heard of that.
It be the end of the night withthe cheap niggas.
You got to come out of your car.
Yo, he ain't throwing no money.
Yo, you can help me out withthe...
I'm like, God damn.
There ain't no sense in throwingmoney when you still got to go.
(03:40):
You know what I'm saying?
This is my first bacheloretteparty ever.
Really?
Yes.
Dang, you need more friends.
No, I don't.
I'm good with the ones I got.
I'm waiting for the other onesto get married.
So what do women do atbachelorette parties?
I don't know.
This is my first time.
We about to All right, allright.
So what are you expecting?
20K.
(04:00):
I'm expecting games.
I don't think we're going tohave no strippers because it's
going to be like a brunch andthen we're going out for the
night.
It won't be no strippers.
They always say that.
It's going to be no strippers.
They be playing in bad light.
(04:20):
Like, nah, we just chilling.
I'm just a cool girl.
And then it be the constructionworker that will come out and
The cop.
Yeah, the cop there.
Really?
Yeah, the fight, dog.
He was just there.
He was like, okay.
He took his clothes off also.
I'm hoping for some games andfun, some laughter, no fighting,
just enjoying our time.
(04:41):
We are way too old.
Way too old.
Bones gonna be aching.
Nah, I'm good.
You gotta get home to yourchild.
And I haven't been out since Ihad her, so.
Abort mission.
Yeah.
Okay, that's dope.
Get home safely.
Yeah, right.
That's what's up.
I'm I hope you have fun.
Thank you.
Thank you.
I hope so too.
Sounds fun.
(05:02):
It sounds fun.
Like, bachelorette parties,like, you know, maybe, because I
know how calm we play.
Like, what's a bachelor party?
You know when you get to the,it's up.
So I'm pretty sure.
I ain't asking my girl nothing.
I don't want to know nothing.
You had a good night?
You were safe?
Yeah, that's it.
That's it.
I don't want to know nothingelse.
Good to know.
I'll be over here, insecure,damn.
(05:23):
Yeah, it was a goddamn.
Like, how do you smell likethat?
Not why you smell like that.
Why do you got glitter all overyour face?
I'm like, what?
What the heck?
That's a several.
All right, well, it's been a lotgoing on for the past...
We've been MIA for a littlewhile, so in the world, there's
(05:44):
a lot happening.
Yeah.
Today, Lil Wayne album dropped.
I haven't listened to it yet.
You haven't listened to it?
No.
I gave it to it about twolistens.
I tried.
You tried?
That's it.
I mean, it's not Wayne...
that I'm used to.
Okay.
It's, uh...
(06:06):
It's this new growth, Wayne.
Like, it's just not Wayne I'mused to.
Yeah.
He ain't the same no more.
I mean, he grew.
You talk about the same shit,though.
Yeah, but that's what I'msaying.
Did his sound grow?
So he didn't grow.
You don't think so?
Because if you grow, like...
Like, all right, I'm going tosay Jay-Z, for example, because
that's my favorite artist.
(06:27):
They ain't really out there.
But I'm going to say...
Like Jay-Z, he used to talkabout selling drugs and all
that.
Now that he grow, he talk about,okay, I cheated on my wife, like
stuff like that.
It's not grow, it's groove.
No.
Since he grow.
He grew.
Grown?
Grown.
Grew.
(06:48):
Man.
Hey, what Cam said, this ain'tno speech class, bro.
We are the podcast.
We are media.
This is media.
In fact.
So when you see the littlesubtitles going here, it says
little subtitles that come here,not when he grow, when he grew.
(07:08):
All right.
But yeah, you know, he just, hetalk about money, like he 50
years old still talking aboutMoney, hoes, and clothes.
Yeah, I didn't like the...
It's a few songs that I got tolive with that is kind of...
That Noriega flip that he didwas kind of fire.
I'm kind of fired.
But other than that, I mean...
Yeah, it was like a cool...
I think he dropped 19.
(07:29):
Out of 19, I'm going to say itwas about three to four.
Yeah, cool three, four.
And I don't think that's a goodalbum to me.
I've been hearing that a lot, soI'm not rushing to go listen.
I'm sad.
I love Lil Wayne.
I think he just needs to retirethe Carter series.
Okay.
Before he had the Carter, he had500 Degrees.
(07:52):
He had, you know, on hot boys hehad uh forgot the other name of
the album but ever since he cameout with the card it's been
carter carter yeah i think weneed something he said this is
it though but the last quarter iwhat that was my favorite the
five the last yes really yesthat was my favorite honestly i
(08:14):
didn't even give it a listen icouldn't tell you what's on what
Saved my life.
Is that the one with...
We don't know.
Oh, never mind.
If that's the one with theofficer.
No.
That's Carter 3.
Really?
That was the best one.
Yeah, that's my favorite one.
(08:34):
She like freaking 20, 15 yearslater.
Really?
So what's Carter 5?
Look up on your phone so we canknow.
Carter 5, yeah.
Carter 5 and Carter 4.
That was like...
Yeah, because my favorite jointis with, I think it is Carter
too, because I was listening toit like last week.
Oh, Carter 5.
(08:57):
I like the song with KendrickLamar.
Okay, then no, that's not myfavorite one.
Because the one that you'retalking about is my favorite
album of the Carters.
Carter III?
Yeah.
This one came out in 2011.
Everybody, Carter III was theirfavorite because he came out, he
sold a million copies in thatweek.
The one with the cap and gown.
Yeah.
Yeah, that was my favorite.
Yeah.
I don't know which, the V withthe one, I don't know.
(09:18):
I don't know the Roman numerals.
I don't, I have no idea.
Yeah, that one.
That's my favorite one.
I have no idea.
I don't know the...
Yeah.
It's another artist.
It's another artist I sent Gio.
Jacob Lattimore.
Jacob.
I did not know that he was fire.
Yes.
Yo, he is super fire.
(09:40):
Like, why is nobody talkingabout his style?
I don't know.
Because he on the shot.
No, back in the day when, like,Diggy Simmons and B5 and all
them, that's when he waspopular.
But now that he done got older,it's like he got pushed to the
side.
They don't really listen, but...
Listening to him sing and thenwatching the shot, it's like,
yo, this dude is a wholedifferent vibe.
(10:02):
I was a little shocked to hear.
And I seen it on TikTok.
Yep.
Yep.
For informational purposes.
I seen it on TikTok, and I'mlike, oh, he sings?
And then I'm just going throughhis discography, and I'm just
like, oh, wow.
This dude really sings, and he'sreally an R&B-ass nigga.
(10:24):
Yeah.
His music is fire.
I see him on the shot now.
I'm just starting to bust out ina fucking song and dance.
This last season, he wassinging.
He gave a little melody.
Oh, he did?
Yeah.
After we do this pod, I needto...
Go catch up.
It's good.
It's so good.
Other than that, anything new,guys?
(10:49):
Nothing new.
I'm going back to work.
I had a pop-up Monday.
Like a pop-up shop.
I did clients for half price.
Oh, wow.
Yeah, I did.
I have four clients.
That's what's up.
Yeah, I have four clients thatday, so I might do that again
before I go back into the salon.
(11:09):
Were they your old clients?
Nope, these are new clients.
New clients?
Yes.
Okay.
Do your old clients know you'recoming through?
Like, they know you popping backout?
They do know that I'm in adifferent area, but it's an hour
away from where I was, so Idon't know if they'll travel.
But I'm going back to where Iwas, so I'll get all my old
clients back.
All right, I got a question.
What's the furthest you'lltravel for a haircut?
(11:31):
I give a good hour.
Yeah, about an hour.
Yeah, hours the furthest.
I've traveled some, like I'vebeen...
Maybe I was too loyal.
I lost all my hair now.
Yeah, yeah.
Y'all saving some money with nohaircuts.
Yeah, I done traveled a whilefor my barber and it's like the
loyalty.
It wasn't even the distance.
It's the loyalty.
Yes.
(11:52):
You don't cheat on your barber.
Bet not.
Person that cheat on theybarber, I don't even trust you.
That's how I feel about yourhairstylist.
You can't keep going todifferent people and then you
don't know who to blame.
Yeah.
You're losing your hair.
Oh, the last stylist didn'tknow.
It was the one before that.
So you can't blame nobody butyourself.
They say you can tell if a man'sloyal by his barber.
(12:12):
By his barber.
I like that.
I used to go to my barber untilhe retired.
Since I was 15.
I'm 34 now.
I've been going to my barbersince I was 19.
Wow.
Well, I moved from New York, butmy barber from 19 to about 32,
33.
Wow, that's not bad at all.
And every time she see me, oh,papi, I love you so much.
(12:36):
Oh, so you go to a girl barber.
I'm kind of scared.
Oh, it's a girl?
Oh, that's fire.
I'm kind of scared.
She used to make me look realDominican.
Only thing I didn't like is thatshe used to try to do my
eyebrows and she'd try tofinesse the finagle and she'd
just make me look mad gay.
Give me your arch.
I had to keep my hat real lowsometimes.
(12:57):
I had that one time when I wenton vacation.
She arched my eyebrows.
I was like...
Did you look shocked all thetime?
Yeah, I was like...
My girl gonna think she's sexyall the time.
UNKNOWN (13:10):
Yeah.
SPEAKER_00 (13:10):
Oh, man.
Well, what you call that cameout?
I'm probably going to give mykids.
Nintendo Switch 2.
That shit going to be hard toget.
You might as well.
You're going to have to waitabout a year.
They are in line for that joint.
Really?
They are in line.
They are in line.
And it looks kind of similar.
The same.
(13:30):
I'm sure all of them got thesame character.
So what's the difference?
I don't know.
They just want your money.
That's it.
I'm probably going to look.
To see what the difference is.
I bought the Nintendo Switch offof my nephew.
For$100.
I bought him the Nintendo Switchand you bought it off him.
I see the money circle.
(13:51):
Keep it in the family.
That's what it is.
Anything new?
No.
That's it.
My next loss...
Kind of upset about that, youknow.
But it's all right.
We got next year.
We find our head coach.
(14:12):
I think y'all said that lastyear.
I think that was the worst idea.
No, it is.
It's a bad idea, but then it's agood idea.
Because you never know how it'sgoing to turn out.
Yeah, but he...
We won't know.
Until he came along, we didn'tmake it past...
Like, we didn't even make it tothe playoffs.
Yeah.
This is the first time in...
(14:33):
Like, what, 25 years that we'veactually made it to the playoffs
past the second round?
But you never know what somebodyelse can give us, Paul.
You can't say Paul's.
Oh, my bad.
So it's men's...
You can't say that either.
You just got to let it rock.
All the extra stuff, you justgot to let it rock.
(14:56):
So it's Men's Health AwarenessMonth.
That's crazy.
It's also...
It's crazy because it's mybirthday month.
It's your birthday month?
Yes, my birthday is June 24th.
And then Father's Day is theweek before my birthday.
facts oh so you gotta you knowwhat you gotta do you know what
you gotta do I already know yeahyou know you gotta you gotta put
(15:19):
that on you gotta I don't knowput it on but your your gift is
going to and your guy he's thefirst he's the first time that
right yes you gotta show andprove to see what you're gonna
get what I'm gonna get for mybirthday yeah yeah that's that's
mainly what I say too becauseit's like whatever you get me is
what you're gonna get yeah likeI'm a person that's gonna like I
(15:40):
I'll give you what you get me.
I'll keep that same energy.
If you give me a little tie,I'll get you a skirt.
What shirt?
That is hilarious.
No, it's just...
Yeah, I'm going to try to makeit special.
I ain't going.
But other than that, you knowit's summertime, right?
(16:01):
Yeah.
What that mean?
What that mean?
Niggas is getting rid of theyold work.
Yeah.
Cuffing season ain't cuffingseason no more, boy.
It's too hot.
It's too hot?
It's too hot for cuffing season.
So it seems like Cardi B andyour man Offset and Remy Ma and
(16:22):
Papoose.
I thought that Ben broke up,though.
Who?
Remy Ma and Papoose.
They did, like last year.
Nah, they didn't break up.
They did.
They didn't break up.
They was throwing shots at eachother.
And then now it's getting uglybecause...
Yeah, because she done pulled inwithout his hat on, bro.
Like, bro, that's the ultimateparty foul, bro.
(16:45):
I didn't see that one.
He ain't got no beard.
He ain't got nothing.
He just up there.
So it's just like, bro, I don'tknow what I would do.
You know?
I thought he...
Didn't he already post himselfwithout a hat?
Nah, because I was searching.
Like, before she posted, I wassearching.
I was like, I ain't never seenPapoose without a hat on.
So I was like, nigga, I'msearching.
(17:05):
I'm searching.
I'm like, yo.
He look terrible.
Never.
She posted the ugly picture.
Mike said he look like Smeagol.
I did.
He look like Smeagol.
Well, see, like, wait.
But my new dude ain't a lookereither, so...
I don't know who he is.
Damn sure.
They said he, uh...
They said that he's not PatPoose, he's Pat Moose or
(17:27):
something like that.
Clarissa Shields, somebody saidthis is an ugly breakup, but
they was talking about the twocouples, like both couples don't
look good together at all.
Ripping Ma is pretty, like theothers is like...
The others.
(17:48):
Like Clarissa Shields.
I think Clarissa Shields, she'sa boxer though.
Like how pretty do you want herto look to get beat up?
But she looks rough.
Like she looks rough.
Even when she dresses, she looksrough.
She's a boxer.
Yeah, but I'm a truck driver.
Outside my profession, I'm notgoing to look like a truck
driver.
You do look like a truck driver.
Look at your beard.
(18:09):
You look homeless.
That is the truck driver way.
You look homeless.
She got the set it off braids.
I get what you're saying.
I do understand.
She needs a stylist.
She dress like she's stuck inthe 2000s.
And then even when she was onthe Breakfast Club, she had a
nice top on.
Then she had on some wedges thatwas like a rose.
(18:30):
You seen the pointers?
Yeah, it's like, bro, what?
What's going on?
Man.
I seem like the only personwho's actually having a real
good, well, when I say real goodbreakup, but an okay time is
Cardi.
Cardi is sad.
She having the time of her life.
She is sad.
Yeah.
And she enjoying it.
Yeah.
We know Offset, man.
(18:51):
I can't say the same thing aboutOffset.
He deleted his Twitter.
The whole thing?
Deleted his Twitter.
Well, I think he should havebecause of the stuff he was
saying.
So, just go ahead and get up outof here, buddy.
And Instagram.
And Instagram.
He deleted.
But that's crash out.
He making our Sagittarius lookbad, bro.
Because me as a Sagittarius, youdoing that, I'm going to do
(19:11):
better.
I'm going to buy the boat andthen have all the girls on
there.
Oh, my goodness.
Yeah, but that just makes youlook crazy.
It don't matter.
It makes you look crazy.
It don't, nah.
She got this one mega freakingwhizzy effect.
football player.
Yes.
But I didn't want you.
And then the crash out part waslike how you braid your son
hair.
(19:32):
No, no, no, no.
The son has locks now.
So that picture is old.
Yes.
Oh, I was about to say braidhair.
Yeah.
They braiding his hair.
The son had the style first andthen a long time ago, Stefan
Diggs just did the same style.
I feel like he was trying tomake him upset.
But the picture is old.
The son got locks.
But that's what, you know, ifyou know that as offset right
(19:57):
somebody said he ain't seen hisson since then oh that's true
yeah you crashing out you lookstupid you ain't seen your child
oh wow you don't even know yourchild don't got braids no more
that's crazy I mean that's awhole different perspective yeah
that makes sense you know thatkind of clears everything up yes
That's crazy.
That's what I don't get.
Because it ain't no way.
Because I'm going to just bepetty right back.
(20:17):
Of course.
Of course.
I'm going to be Stephon Diggs.
King Petty.
King Petty.
Stephon Diggs.
Stephon Diggs in this case.
I'm going to just keep it chill,you know?
King Petty Combs.
And then he did the thing on hisInstagram too.
Oh, yeah.
That's, you know, some chillshit.
Yeah.
That's how I would be.
I'm not taking it to theinternet.
(20:37):
Nah, nah, nah.
We got to deal with thisoutside.
I don't want people in mybusiness.
I mean, but that's the thingabout being a superstar nah I
can't even if I couldn't do iteverybody's in your business so
you have to I couldn't do itseem like you're trying to get
one up on somebody I'ma be likeLotto she's she we know she got
a man we don't know who he islet's keep it like that we know
who it is she is so fire thoughyes Lotto is so fire she was
(21:00):
posting some recent pictures myman my man my man yeah it's her
energy that's what I always sayit's not even it's not even
about her look it's just herenergy towards her it's her
looks also yeah she's pretty butit's her looks also It's her
energy towards her man.
Like, it's what makes you lookmore...
I feel like it's not going to belike that once we figure out...
I mean, once she shows Woody.
(21:21):
I think it's going to be thesame.
Oh, I don't think so.
I think it's because we don'tknow.
As long as he's not with theclout.
As long as he's doing his joblike he's doing right now.
Right, and ain't nobodyscreaming, like, yo, yo, I'm Dan
Lotto.
Yeah, that's corny.
I got her news right here, cuz.
That's corny, that's corny.
She also says she can count herbodies on her hand.
Yeah, I mean, same thing.
(21:42):
also mad young.
She's 25?
She don't look like she's beenoutside long enough to have a
bunch of bodies.
Yeah, she's very young.
I mean, keep it right, keep ittight.
She's living to that quota, thatfive-finger quota.
Yeah.
Until she's 30.
Is she 30?
Nope.
Nope, not even 30.
(22:03):
Five niggas, not even 30?
What, lost your virginity, did Isay, at 18?
Five niggas in what, from 18 to30?
Yeah.
That ain't bad.
That's not one of your, not even.5 or even.5.
Because women count on toes,fingers, eyelashes.
Right.
Yeah, they overdoing it.
They got some bodies.
(22:24):
They got some bodies.
Oh, there's another thing thatI've been...
I've actually been participatingin.
The goodnight challenge.
Those have been mad funny.
I've called our brother...
Mr.
Jamie Todd.
Now you got to insert here.
Yeah, yeah.
I'm going to insert it here,which is hilarious.
(22:45):
I was thinking about doing it.
I thought, like, me and my girlwere sitting up watching them.
I was like, bro, I got madpeople walking really cool.
You wanted to do the, um...
the pranks.
So why not?
This has been the best prankthat you can do.
But I just feel like, I justfeel like everybody, I just feel
like everybody has a socialmedia.
So they seen the challenge.
(23:05):
Everybody ain't got TikTok.
Yeah, but it's different.
But it's not only on TikTok.
Oh, I haven't seen it nowhereelse.
Yo, every time I've seen it, Ilaugh a little harder because
it's different reactions.
Yeah.
Yeah, but they gonna be like,oh, you know, I've seen this
before.
Yeah.
Try it.
Yeah.
You might, cause Jamie, causewhen I called him, he was just
like, Bye.
(23:25):
Yo, what is you on?
He thought I was drunk.
He thought I was drunk.
I have to see that.
You in the house?
Yo, you drunk?
I was like, nah, man.
I love you, man.
I just wanted to tell yougoodnight.
And he was like, yo, what iswrong with you?
Perfect person to call.
I got some people.
(23:45):
You should record it.
Yeah, record it.
It's actually pretty funny.
And I watched the video back andit's just funny.
So that goodnight challengeis...
Yeah.
Pretty funny.
We've been seen laughing aboutit.
What's the equivalent togoodnight?
Like, what do you call yourfriend and then you ask, like...
Like, our men just...
(24:05):
Like, why can't we tell ourhomeboy goodnight?
Because I'll be the guy to belike, alright, goodnight, bro,
love you, kid.
Nah, you can't call him...
And tell him goodnight?
And tell him goodnight, nah.
If we in the same facility andit's like, alright, yo, my G,
I'm about to head out.
Alright, yo, yo, goodnight.
That's cool.
But to call your man up...
I don't even think I would stillsay goodnight, though.
I ain't even going to lie.
Really?
Because if we leaving, like, Idone left my friend's crib
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plenty of times.
I never say, yo, goodnight.
Yes, you have.
I'm pretty sure.
I'm pretty sure you've saidgoodnight.
No, I never said goodnight.
I ain't out to see y'all.
I never said goodnight.
What's the equivalent to that?
I was going to call you one dayand be like, yo, what's up?
Yo, you ate?
But then that's just like, oh,yo, let's go.
Yo, you ate.
It's hilarious.
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What?
It's like going to, like, tellyou a little, yo, let's go get
something to eat.
That's kind of weird.
That's what I was going to say.
You buying?
That's exactly what I wassaying.
I'm going to say no.
No, I have not ate.
Now what you going to do aboutit?
Even if I did eat, I'm going tosay, no, I ain't eat yet.
Let's go get some drinks.
I just want the drinks.
Even if I did eat, I want thedrinks.
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I ain't eat yet.
You don't call no woman, like,yo, you ate?
No, I didn't eat in three days.
OK.
I need a hundred bands.
I can't eat rent, dude.
Uh-uh.
Yeah, girls be going through it.
Oh my goodness.
When you just meet them, theyalways going through it.
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I need my bills paid.
Just meeting?
What kind of girls y'all talkingto?
Ones on Tinder.
Why are you on Tinder?
Nah, they on Christian.
Back in my day.
They on Christian Mingle.
You on Christian Mingle too?
Nah, I ain't on ChristianMingle.
No, sir.
Christian Mingle, they be, theybe, I need some money for the
Lord.
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Wow, they brave.
You better ask the Lord.
At least get a coupleconversations in before you
start asking for money.
Nope, nope.
They just real fun with it.
Wow, I don't even like askingfor money now.
I hate it.
I live with my grandma.
I have a couple of stories.
It was rough out there when Iwas dating.
It's rough out there now.
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They said the dating pool gotpee.
It got poop.
It got a little go up.
It got a little STD.
It got a little saliva.
It got a little bit ofeverything in there.
I heard you could pick now.
They say you could pick yourheight.
You could pick your height.
On Bumble, I heard that on theBreakfast Club because I know
all the new social media apps.
But I heard on the BreakfastClub, they was like, oh yeah.
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Bumble guy where you can chooseyour height.
So he can be five foot or sixfoot.
He's still going to cheat onyour dumb ass.
Like, why are you worried abouthow tall he is?
I don't understand.
When I watch these pop theballoons, they be like, oh, I
pop because his height.
I pop because he's not tallenough or he's too short.
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So which the shortest you wouldgo?
I'm 5'2", so how short can...
I'm going to get a midget atthat point.
He at least got to be tallerthan me.
He at least got to be tallerthan me.
5'2"?
That's cool.
5'2 is the minimum?
Like, you got to be height toheight?
Yeah.
Could you date anybody shorterthan me?
Yeah.
Nah.
That's a midget.
I'm short.
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That's a midget.
That is.
Because under 4'9", you amidget.
4'9"?
4'9", you a midget.
Oh, shit.
Or a tiny person.
Little person.
Yeah, little person.
Maybe I heard they beingoffended.
Yeah, little person.
I'm sorry.
Shit, we can get a tiny home.
In a tiny community.
Right?
No.
Get a one bedroom.
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Okay, would y'all date a tallergirl?
A girl taller than you?
Yeah.
Absolutely.
Really?
Yeah.
I would date somebody tallerthan me, you know?
You're already like six foot.
Yeah, but they gonna be what?
Six two?
Oh my goodness.
Amazon.
Just the Amazon.
If you ever seen Jack and theBeanstalk?
I have.
It's like climbing thatbeanstalk and getting to the top
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of that and then just...
And that's it.
Yeah, that's it.
I mean...
My niece is in here.
Listen to Megan.
She tells you all the time.
But I don't think Megan istaller than six.
Nah, she tall.
She's tall.
She's six feet something.
Oh, wow.
Yeah, she's Megan tall.
I don't remember.
That's why I don't get why.
I met her at PV.
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I don't remember her being thattall.
Because Tory Lanez is like,what, five?
Tory Lanez is pretty short.
You know, if Tory Lanez can doit, I can do it.
Crazy.
Stop it.
I don't like when men do that.
What, they tall people?
No.
If he can do it, I can do it.
No.
He can do what I can do.
No, no, no.
He can do what I can do better.
(28:38):
All right, y'all.
Y'all want to talk about lastpod?
We should talk about that first.
But yeah, let's talk about it.
Last pod?
Last pod was good and bad.
It's good and bad?
Good and bad.
We know what to do with theguests.
I'll say that.
Yes, yes, yes.
We got to go through mediatraining.
Yeah.
Yeah.
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So it's like a class before youdon't talk over this person.
It's like one at a time.
And we need more mics.
We definitely learned a lotabout the last pod.
Yes, yes.
It actually made me realize thatI need a better laptop.
I need a way better laptop.
Sorry it took me so long forthat episode to come out.
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I was dealing with sometechnical difficulties.
But this part, this should beout like next week.
This one should be out nextweek.
The girl was talking too much,blew the speaker, and it was
just crazy.
Man blew a speaker, for real?
Yo, I watched that.
Yo, you know, I got, well, otherthan some of the women that were
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there, it was just...
It was a lot.
It was a lot.
It was a lot to do.
I think minimize the...
Because it was more...
girls than guys.
It's just cool, but I think itshould be a ratio.
Eventually, it's going to bemore guys than girls.
We got a dude cast.
Dude cast with one girl.
It's just going to be like that.
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I didn't kick y'all out.
Chio got to be here.
I didn't kick y'all out.
We're just sitting backchilling.
It was they part at that point.
They kept talking.
Loving the death.
They was doing the most.
Some people I keep But I ain'tgoing to say no name because,
you know.
Yeah, I ain't going to say noname.
I'm going to say a name.
Kay, my cousin Kay.
(30:25):
Y'all should have been over herewith me because you barely said
two words, ma'am.
Two words.
You was there for the beauty.
You're just like...
Kay was in her own mind.
Did she do edibles?
I don't know what she was on.
She was on something.
I would invite Chocolate back.
Chocolate is definitely...
Yeah, my sister was chilling.
She was definitely...
I would like to have her adifferent type of pod.
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Yeah, she knows how tocommunicate and have a good,
decent conversation.
You know?
Talk like adults.
Yeah.
I can see how their relationshipgo.
I see why they single.
They are not singles.
Oh, they not single?
No, they got a man.
Both of them.
I thought she had I thought shebroke up with two men in the
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same day.
No.
Oh, all right.
All right.
Enough.
Enough on the pod.
Well, it is Ben's healthawareness.
So that's what we dedicate inthis episode to Ben's mental
health.
And are you aware of your mentalhealth?
Oh, you're asking me?
(31:27):
Yeah.
Are you aware of your mentalhealth?
I'm very aware.
Yeah.
Yeah.
I'm aware person.
So when do you know you need amental health day from work or
people?
When I feel exhausted.
Well, that's like...
It's like society tells us wecan't get exhausted.
We can't get tired.
Why not?
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That's y'all's society.
You can't quit.
You got to keep going.
Yeah, I understand that.
But you still need a day to belike...
A day or a week.
Life goes on.
If I'm out of commission for aday...
Life's still going to go on.
I get you.
So you will feel guilty to takea mental health day?
I wouldn't feel guilt.
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I do.
I would.
I would.
I'm not even going to front.
I would take.
From work or like family?
Nope.
From both.
From both.
It's just like being a man, youhave to, you take on so much
responsibility.
So trying to push thatresponsibility, it kind of seems
selfish sometimes.
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But you have to be selfish.
You have to.
Because you got to live foryourself.
Right.
I remember my dad told me, yougot to work on the machine.
If the machine ain't running,everything stops.
You got to worry about themachine.
The machine keeps everythinggoing.
You have to worry.
You got to oil it up.
You got to give it a break.
You got to service it.
(32:50):
So when a man needs a break, whydon't he just say, hey, I don't
feel like talking today?
Why do you have to go a wholeweek without talking?
My man went a whole week withouttalking to me, laying right next
to me, not saying a word.
Dang, they said hi and bye.
No, that did not.
Did not.
Was talking to my child, did notsay a word to me.
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Okay, but I'm cool with that.
Just say, hey, I just want totake a little...
You know men's mental healthawareness, you know it's all
month, so he didn't have to talkto you all month.
That was last month, nigga.
He was preparing.
He was preparing.
You don't get another week,buddy.
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You don't get another week.
But you know what it is, though?
Because sometimes girls don't beout, like, as a girl, y'all
supposed to be our way out.
But sometimes y'all do make itworse because it's like, I'm
going through this and theny'all asking for this.
So it's like, how am I going toprepare for...
We asking for that in the middleof your break?
Nah, but during, like, we're nottelling you we're going through
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something.
Yeah, so how are we supposed toknow?
We can't read y'all minds.
No, but we don't expect you toknow.
Yeah, but you are the closestperson.
You are a person, though.
Yeah, you are the closestperson.
You're supposed to read us.
You're supposed to know us, bythe way.
I tell people that all the time.
It's not easy.
No, just like I read my girl.
I know when something's wrong.
Yeah, I know when you needsomething.
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I know something, not exactlywhat it is.
It's something, but we don'tknow exactly what it is.
That's your job to figure itout.
What if the man is not sayingnothing?
Men are not complicated.
at all.
Y'all make it so...
Y'all make it complicated towhere it's like men only
probably need three things.
What?
To be fed, fucked, and whatelse?
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Fed, fucked, and finances.
Because, nigga, if my moneyain't right, I ain't trying to
give it to you.
I ain't trying to give it to youall the time.
If my money ain't right, I ain'tright.
I understand that because I'mthe same way about my money.
Yeah.
I don't want to do nothing.
I don't want to talk.
I don't want to go nowhere.
But that's probably what yourman was going through, you know?
Yeah.
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I understand now.
But sometimes we just don't.
And probably his child was hisway out.
I was like, nah, she, you know,she never asked for nothing.
She's just going to be therelaughing.
Not yet, though.
Not yet.
Cry, cry, cry.
Yeah.
Not yet.
That's what you wanted to do?
Cry?
Mm-hmm.
UNKNOWN (35:13):
Mm-hmm.
SPEAKER_00 (35:14):
That's what I wanted to do sometime.
Y'all don't feel safe to cry?
I do.
I don't have a problem.
I'm by myself now.
You know?
Like yourself?
Yeah.
I don't have a problem crying.
It's just I haven't had a reasonto cry.
Yeah, a lot of my cries are mypop stuff.
I can sit here and cry, but it'slike the emotion thing.
I just can't do it.
I'm not an emotional type ofperson.
(35:34):
I just can't cry.
I can see that.
Yeah, I think I got out of it.
I can get my denzel on.
I can bust out crying right now.
I'm a good actor.
I'm a really good actor.
I need to work on my acting,like try to like acting classes
and all that because I couldreally just bust out crying.
Oh my God.
I could be happy as yeah that'sa gay uh that's a gay lord yeah
(35:55):
oh it's also um pride monthpride month it's a lot going on
it's father's day it's a lotgoing on this month you can't
say pause yo challenge youcannot say pause the whole month
if you said it stand on it notstand on it or sit on it Either
(36:16):
or.
Whatever floats your boat.
What is your go-to self-careactivity?
What do you do?
Self-care?
I haven't done nothing lately.
I know there's something that wedo do.
What?
We game.
Okay, that could be one.
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We game.
We game.
We sit there and we...
Because I'll play the game.
That's my way out.
That's my way out.
That's my way of not even...
I don't even know.
Time exists at that point.
I'll take my eyes off thescreen.
It's been three hours.
Yeah.
I'll say that.
What I used to do is play ball.
I used to go bowling.
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And I like working on cards.
Those are my three way out.
I used to say shopping, but...
That's an expensive habit.
Those used to be my ways out.
I would say gaming now becauseI'm older.
Some women think gaming ischildish.
I don't think so, but...
It keeps you out the street.
I don't mind.
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I'll bring you a plate in themiddle of a game.
I don't care.
What you're not going to do isbe on it all night.
That's what you're not going todo.
It's a level to it.
If you're not going to work, ifyou're not doing stuff, if your
mental is like, oh, I'm going tojust come home game, that's it.
No, we're not doing that.
I think that's what cleaned upthe streets.
(37:40):
Video games?
Now that you can play onlinewith people.
Oh yeah, you can make money.
You can make money.
I think that cleaned up thestreets.
Nah, because the streets stillwild.
Nah, but it's not.
You got to think about a lot ofthem be in the house playing
video games, playing 2K allsummer.
After they stole my car.
They be outside.
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They don't know inside.
And it's summertime too, so theyfinna just get into some stuff.
Just please sit down somewhere.
Find a house and chill out.
It's too hot.
They need to play games.
They need to.
Maybe they need to work on theirmental health.
They be stealing cars.
They be shooting for nonsense.
(38:28):
But that's...
I think we, as older, we got tostep up.
I've heard people say it all thetime and all that.
And it's like putting yourselfin harm's way because now, what
if they don't like you?
And they, you know, you come inand trying to give them some
game.
They ain't trying to hear that.
Yeah, if they're already toodeep in, some of them will
(38:48):
listen.
But if they're already too deepin, are they a lost cause at
that point?
Like, what can you say to him?
Because that's what I say.
It's more money than justlike...
These kids need dads in theirlives.
They do.
It's a lot of...
I think a lot of them havefathers.
You think so?
I think a lot of them...
You think a lot of YNs gotdaddies in them?
I don't think so.
It's more...
It's not how back in the daywhen your daddy leaves or
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whatever.
There's a lot of dads stillaround.
They said 70% of men are more intheir lives now.
They're just working all thetime.
Yeah.
I can see that too.
They're working all the time.
But then are you there?
You are there.
But you're not disciplining thechild.
You're not giving them advice.
You're not teaching them.
I'm pretty sure they're gettinglessons, but not that everyday
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type of...
You need that tough love.
And that's what I say, becausemen are here to...
I'm here to keep my daughter offthe stripper pole and my son out
the streets.
Women are here to...
Nurture.
I'm going to give you that toughlove.
My girl is here to give youthat.
Oh, baby, it's going to be okay.
I'm not going to give my sonthat.
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It's not going to be okay.
Step it up, bro.
And that's what they need tolearn.
Women need dads, too.
Yeah, I feel you.
Because they keep them off thestripper pole.
Not the stripper pole.
It's just the emotional stress.
I'm pretty sure you've been witha woman.
You can always tell who hasdaddy issues.
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Always.
I always tell who has daddyissues and it shows in the
relationship how they treat youand how they talk to you.
I had two dads.
I had two dads.
I'm a person that I like to readpeople.
I know what you're doing.
I know what your habits.
So it's like, yeah, I candefinitely tell.
Your father should have taughtyou that.
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Yeah, because I'm not here toteach you.
I'm here to treat you.
You know what I mean?
And slut you out.
What in the world?
I'm not here to teach you, baby.
I'm here to treat you.
Lord.
These two men.
Well, can social media be like,since everything evolves around
social media, can social mediaaffect your mental health?
(40:59):
Definitely.
Yes.
I think it does also, too,because it's just endless
scrolling of different emotions.
Yes.
Oh, my goodness.
And it's like, yo, I wentthrough fucking three emotions
in the past, like, 15 seconds.
Yeah.
That's why I got disconnected.
I seen a big old dookie booty.
(41:19):
And then I seen, I follow weirdshit.
Your algorithm is crazy.
Yeah, my algorithm is all theway.
I would follow these worms andthey was just eating this apple.
What?
And then after that, it was likethe satisfying the toes, you
know, the toes and then theytake out the...
(41:42):
No, I don't know what toes.
My algorithm is a little...
But it's definitely...
I had to unfollow the shade roomthis week.
Why?
They just always postingnegative stuff, and it's mostly
about black people, especiallywith the DDG and Holly Bailey.
I didn't want to see that.
I'm tired of seeing that.
(42:03):
Can y'all post something happy,like Teyana Taylor and her man?
Did y'all see that video?
Who her man?
What?
Aaron, is Aaron something?
That's her man.
Aaron Taylor, yes.
We should have talked about herwith the breakup because her
breakup with Amandis.
But then she with her new man.
Oh, she got a new man?
Yes.
Who, Tiana Taylor?
Yes.
Or Holly Berry.
Aaron Pierre, the guy from LionKing.
(42:27):
Oh.
Mustafa.
I think he was Mustafa.
I don't know.
I thought he was a little.
You know who?
No, that's her man in thatvideo.
Y'all got to go watch it.
I thought he was shooting freethrows.
No, he was not.
Oh.
Not at all, actually.
But anyway, I had to unfollowthem because they just post a
lot of negative stuff and I'mtired of seeing it.
I get it.
I get it.
I get it.
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Sometimes I just need a mentalbreak.
Yes.
I agree.
Because I don't be like...
If you don't, you just don'twant to be on social media.
Yeah, don't.
But that's why I be telling,like, people send me a lot of
reels.
And I be like, bro, don't sendme nothing negative.
I want to be funny all the time.
Like, that's just me as aperson.
Like, even the stuff that Ifollow, I follow stuff
intentionally.
(43:07):
Yes, you have to.
Like, I truly follow stuffintentionally.
Even if you watch one video,that's what you're going to see.
Yeah.
the rest of the time youscrolling.
Because your girl sends yourelationships.
All my shit, relationship,relationship.
I'm careful on who sends mestuff and I click on because
like I said, I'll let them beall over the place.
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All over the place.
Mine is perfect.
Beauty, relationships, andbabies.
That's all I see.
Relationship, clothes, and hoes.
That's it.
I got sneakers.
For some reason, like, womenalways pop up on mine.
I don't know why.
Yo, and they be having thebodiest of the body.
Like, they be thirst trapping,like, everybody.
(43:51):
That's why I'm telling you, bro.
And then when I see something, Ibe like, oh, nah.
Like, I don't even be stimulatedbecause I done seen something
already that's crazy.
It's like, everybody, bro.
I scroll, okay.
It's like they're just trying toget you.
It's like, bro, calm down.
It ain't that serious.
(44:11):
I'd just be looking at y'alllike, bro, y'all thirsty.
Does that affect relationships?
Social media, does that affectrelationships?
I'm going to say it do.
Absolutely, yeah.
Because you're comparing.
No, it's not comparing, butdefinitely comparing.
You're not used to seeinghalf-naked women.
And if your girl don't dress upfor you, then what?
(44:33):
Yo, you know, my uncle, he gaveme a story.
He was like, man, I feel bad fory'all.
Y'all young.
I was like, why, uncle?
He said, because when I wasyoung, I only seen maybe three
women a day.
He seen his wife.
He seen maybe the lady at thesupermarket.
(44:55):
And maybe a lady, a random ladyin the bus.
He said, y'all pick up y'allphone, y'all see thousands.
Thousands.
Thousands of women a day.
And it's like, how can you notcompare?
And it's like, that's what I'llsay too.
And it's not a bad comparison,but it's just like, you know, I
dated you for a reason.
(45:16):
So I would like for you to wearlingerie.
I don't want to see this.
Like, this is not...
entertaining to me it's likeeverybody is doing it yeah but i
want to see it from the personi'm with i feel it and that's
what i that's what i think it'snot insane everybody doing it
and you're just doing it becauseyou're thirsty like you want to
get money that's everybody doingit just so they can get money
(45:36):
shit i mean but that's what isay it's just you know get with
it well that's Part of our men'smental health awareness month.
Be aware of your mental health.
Facts.
Because it's very important.
It's very important.
And I say counseling too.
(45:56):
I went through counseling forabout a year.
Yeah?
Yeah, I did too.
You learn how to cope withstuff.
Because you don't feel asguilty.
Stuff, you don't feel as guilty.
Because she said everybody copedwith stuff differently.
You know what actually helpedme?
When we were younger, we seen atherapist for like a long time
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for trauma that we experienced.
And that helped me a lot.
It brought me up to see certainthings and pay attention to
behaviors and stuff like that.
So that actually helped me alot.
And you know what else helped metoo?
That's why I think we goofy.
Remember what our pops told uswhen we used to go to therapy?
That we was crazy.
(46:42):
He used to say that all thetime.
He said, yeah, yo.
He used to say, yo, I'm crazy.
I'm crazy.
And we used to say it all thetime.
All the time.
But it's like, I get joy.
I get joy out of laughing, outof my own pain.
Your pain is just, it's justweird.
Yo, my son does that.
I seen your post said, I likedark humor, so we ain't gonna
(47:02):
laugh the same or something likethat you said.
Yeah, yeah.
I laugh at things.
It can't be too dark for me, butI laugh at some dark stuff.
Chopping your head off.
If we had a funeral and we'relaughing, people are going to
think, like, what the fuck?
Yeah, what y'all laughing at?
You got to laugh about the goodtimes.
Like, yo, remember what such andsuch?
Exactly.
Mom, but they want to sit thereand cry and not be thinking
(47:23):
about the good.
And that's what my counselortold me.
She said, think about the goodshit.
That was a, whatchamacallit.
But I feel you.
Yeah.
What's the most annoying texty'all got or ever received or
sent?
I didn't think about that.
(47:43):
You know what I really dislike?
And it grinds my freaking gears.
Let's see if you got the sameone as me.
K.
No, we don't got the same one.
I hate that.
I'll send you a whole what youcall and it's like K.
Like I'll turn into the RedHulk.
(48:07):
K.
K.
What's yours?
Yeah, what's yours?
I mean, it's probably somethingpetty, but mine is what you
doing?
Like, what you doing?
That's the most annoying text?
Yes, because you know I'm atwork.
Like, you know my schedule.
It's annoying when you knowthey've been asking for
something.
That'd be annoying.
(48:28):
Like, this is my off day.
Actually, I'm busy as hell.
I'm so busy right now.
All right, Jill, what's yours?
Can we talk?
Or we need to talk.
I love that.
Yo, I love that one.
That is like, if I send that, Isend that on purpose so you can
(48:48):
think about me all day.
I'm leaving work to go talkbecause what we need to do is
get this over with right now.
That's crazy.
That's a good way to tellsomebody like, because they'll
think about it like, yo, we needto talk.
And it's like, all right, aboutwhat?
And then you don't answer.
Yeah.
About what?
Oh, my goodness.
Then they call you.
Yo, you good?
(49:08):
Yeah.
I said about what?
I hate it.
I hate it.
That's a good one.
That's a good one.
Can we talk?
Can we talk?
I don't want to talk.
Please tell me now.
That's a good one.
Because I'm leaving work early.
That would bother me like allday.
Yo, we need to talk.
All right.
What's up?
and then not hear nothing yeahmy mama did me like that last
(49:30):
week probably don't even be nicei need to have a conversation
with you early in the morning iwas like about what ain't heard
from 10 o'clock at night i saidi'm on the way i need to figure
out what we need to talk abouti'm on the way over that's crazy
what's the most annoying texty'all got Yeah, let us know that
too.
Yeah, what's the most annoyingtext that you can send or
(49:54):
receive?
Please let us know in thecomments below.
Yeah, because that is like agear grinder.
Some of those text messages theybe sending.
I'm pretty sure a lot of womengonna hit you with the, what you
doing?
What you doing?
All the time.
That's the conversation started.
Yeah, it's like, all right,that's how you start the
conversation.
Like, don't text me what I'mdoing.
(50:14):
Tell me to pull up.
Yeah, like...
Shut up.
Shut up.
Not if y'all dating.
Not if y'all dating.
Nah, don't text me what you'redoing.
You know what I'm doing.
You got my location.
The fuck?
But I...
We not doing that.
Location sharing ass day-day.
Yeah, but I'm...
She's trying to make sure I'msafe, she said.
Oh, safe.
Okay.
Yeah.
She gonna pull up with theblicky.
(50:35):
The blicky.
Yeah.
Yeah.
That's what she said.
That's what she told me.
What's the list for the week,Tuan?
List of the week.
Out of all these.
Something you're not doinganymore.
I thought we went through thatone already.
(50:55):
I don't remember.
Something you're not doing.
Yeah, something you're not doinganymore.
Yeah, a list of things thatyou're not...
I hope so at our age.
We just talk bad about Lil Waynenot growing.
I've grown.
I've grown.
What did I say?
I've grown?
I've grown.
Alright, yeah.
(51:18):
It's a list of things thatyou're not doing anymore.
I bet.
What's the list of things y'allnot doing?
Because y'all know what I'm notdoing.
I'm not outside no more.
UNKNOWN (51:30):
Um...
SPEAKER_00 (51:31):
A list of things.
I'm not being selfish anymore.
I can say that in the pastcouple of weeks I've experienced
of going to back home and havingconversations with different
people.
I don't want to be selfishanymore.
I've noticed I've been selfishand thinking about myself a lot.
(51:53):
It's like thinking you have tosometimes think about other
people and their feelings.
And most of the times I'll belike, man, fuck your feelings.
But you can't do that aboutpeople you love and you want to
be, you know, what you call.
So I'm, I've been thinking aboutother people's feelings and how
they interact with me.
(52:13):
And yeah, it's a long, it's aprocess though.
Cause sometimes I'll be like,yeah, Alright, Gia, what's up
with you?
Something I don't do anymore.
Take things personal.
If you're dealing with somethingthat's on you, it has nothing to
do with me.
And I have to stop blamingmyself for it.
(52:35):
You gotta grow up.
Yeah, I'm not doing that nomore.
Oh, nice.
Y'all on it.
Y'all got good ones this week.
I've been thinking.
Oh, I wanted to show...
I started something new.
What?
With my kids.
So, could you text your nieceand see if she's still up?
(52:57):
It's 1 o'clock.
She still might be up.
So, there's this thing that...
What's her number?
I don't even know her number.
This is a thing that's beengoing around about with your
kids.
Calling them or...
It's like an affirmation thing.
UNKNOWN (53:18):
Mm-hmm.
SPEAKER_00 (53:19):
So it's like a little speech thing I go through
with my daughter because I'mnot, I can't be there 24 seven.
So it's, uh, I asked her whataccountability is.
She answers what is, um, damn,I'm not going to bring for it.
What's accountability.
Uh, what about, I think I seenwhat our boundaries, what is,
(53:42):
um, discipline, um, Yeah, stufflike that.
What is control and what isrespect and all that.
So I've been doing that for likethe past two, three months.
And my daughter is starting toget it.
Yeah, she is good.
She is excelling at, you know,one of the questions is, it's
not my responsibility to what?
(54:03):
She knows to make anyone happy.
No, it is my responsibility towhat?
make myself happy.
So that's the little thing Iwanted to share.
I liked it.
It actually helps a lot withkids and growing up.
Because right now, everything isTikTok and social media and all
this other stuff.
Sometimes we just have to remindour, well, tell our kids or
(54:26):
remind them of these certaindefinitions that we just, are
very important.
Yeah.
Okay.
I'll take that.
My daughter won't talk back tome.
Oh, yeah?
My G2 chill.
You alright.
We gonna see you, littlebutterball.
She only like three months.
My little butterball.
She yelling at me right now.
(54:47):
Yeah?
Every time she see me, she giveme that little smile.
I think I see a tooth coming.
Yeah, something.
The way she be hollering.
There better be something wrongwith you.
I'm coming in the house, youhollering, just like your mama.
Shots fired.
All right, y'all.
(55:08):
That was a good pod.
There was.
All right, y'all.
Anyway, this is the We SBUPodcast, where we going to be
us.
You be you.
You be you.
Yes, sir.
UNKNOWN (55:21):
Yo! Yo!
Yo, what's the word?
(00:29):
What's the word?
Hey, y'all.
Hey, how y'all doing?
We all right.
We straight.
The We Us BU podcast.
Yeah.
It's been a little minute.
It's been a minute.
It's always been a minute.
That's why they tell us to stayfocused.
We climbing up in those numbers,though.
This is episode eight.
(00:52):
Bang.
This is not bad.
They said after 10, you ain'tgoing to be able to keep up.
Yeah, that's what I've beenpushing for.
That's exactly what I've beenpushing for.
I know they say after a certainnumber, it just starts to become
muscle memory.
Yes.
But yo, the editing and all ofthis extra stuff is a lot.
It's a lot of work.
(01:12):
I see why people fall offbecause I have a normal life
also.
Yeah.
I see.
But that's why they hire people.
That's next.
Eventually we'll get therebecause we all have our own
lives.
Life be busy.
Life be lifin'.
Life be lifin'.
We be busy.
Kids be kiddin'.
Kids be kiddin'.
(01:32):
Life be lifin'.
And bitches be bitchin'.
Niggas be niggin' right now.
Anyway, yo, what's up?
It's the WeSBU podcast.
Yes, sir.
I go by the name of Twan TwizzyTwain.
Yeah, yeah, and I'm Day Day.
And we also got Miss Gio.
(01:55):
Georgia Peach in the Texas heat.
Georgia Peach in the Texas heat.
She's still on her mission to20K.
You heard?
I am, I am.
20K on you.
I heard she gonna make thattomorrow.
That's what she was telling me.
Wait, tomorrow?
In one day?
20K in one day?
I'm trying.
Amateur night.
Oh, she said.
(02:16):
I ain't there by any means.
She said.
Are you going to Amhersttonight?
No, I'm not.
I'm not.
How are you going to make your20K tomorrow?
Tell us.
I'm not.
I'm just going to a bacheloretteparty.
That's it.
Oh, so you're going to steal herones.
Maybe.
Oh.
Or his.
Nah, no blah.
I'm that dude.
You be stealing one?
I'm that dude.
(02:36):
You be like this?
I'm that dude.
I'm that dude.
No way.
It depends.
It depends.
It depends.
Because I might pick them up andI might throw them back.
That's recycling.
That's fine.
I'll recycle.
Recycle.
Ain't nothing wrong with that.
Just don't be putting them inyour pocket.
I've been to a couple ofbachelor parties.
(02:57):
And I've seen people do it.
Yeah, yo, she ain't hungry.
She good.
She got another party tomorrow.
She got another party.
She about to leave here.
Because they got a max minimumthey got to make.
Facts.
So she got paid before she even.
I'm saying this is just.
Max minimum.
Yeah, so if it's a house party,we got to pay.
(03:17):
So if they don't reach like$3,000, they got to reach$3,000.
If they don't reach$3,000, thenwe got to come out of pocket.
Y'all know a lot.
Never heard of that.
I've been to a couple of them, Itold you.
Never heard of that.
It be the end of the night withthe cheap niggas.
You got to come out of your car.
Yo, he ain't throwing no money.
Yo, you can help me out withthe...
I'm like, God damn.
There ain't no sense in throwingmoney when you still got to go.
(03:40):
You know what I'm saying?
This is my first bacheloretteparty ever.
Really?
Yes.
Dang, you need more friends.
No, I don't.
I'm good with the ones I got.
I'm waiting for the other onesto get married.
So what do women do atbachelorette parties?
I don't know.
This is my first time.
We about to All right, allright.
So what are you expecting?
20K.
(04:00):
I'm expecting games.
I don't think we're going tohave no strippers because it's
going to be like a brunch andthen we're going out for the
night.
It won't be no strippers.
They always say that.
It's going to be no strippers.
They be playing in bad light.
(04:20):
Like, nah, we just chilling.
I'm just a cool girl.
And then it be the constructionworker that will come out and
The cop.
Yeah, the cop there.
Really?
Yeah, the fight, dog.
He was just there.
He was like, okay.
He took his clothes off also.
I'm hoping for some games andfun, some laughter, no fighting,
just enjoying our time.
(04:41):
We are way too old.
Way too old.
Bones gonna be aching.
Nah, I'm good.
You gotta get home to yourchild.
And I haven't been out since Ihad her, so.
Abort mission.
Yeah.
Okay, that's dope.
Get home safely.
Yeah, right.
That's what's up.
I'm I hope you have fun.
Thank you.
Thank you.
I hope so too.
Sounds fun.
(05:02):
It sounds fun.
Like, bachelorette parties,like, you know, maybe, because I
know how calm we play.
Like, what's a bachelor party?
You know when you get to the,it's up.
So I'm pretty sure.
I ain't asking my girl nothing.
I don't want to know nothing.
You had a good night?
You were safe?
Yeah, that's it.
That's it.
I don't want to know nothingelse.
Good to know.
I'll be over here, insecure,damn.
(05:23):
Yeah, it was a goddamn.
Like, how do you smell likethat?
Not why you smell like that.
Why do you got glitter all overyour face?
I'm like, what?
What the heck?
That's a several.
All right, well, it's been a lotgoing on for the past...
We've been MIA for a littlewhile, so in the world, there's
(05:44):
a lot happening.
Yeah.
Today, Lil Wayne album dropped.
I haven't listened to it yet.
You haven't listened to it?
No.
I gave it to it about twolistens.
I tried.
You tried?
That's it.
I mean, it's not Wayne...
that I'm used to.
Okay.
It's, uh...
(06:06):
It's this new growth, Wayne.
Like, it's just not Wayne I'mused to.
Yeah.
He ain't the same no more.
I mean, he grew.
You talk about the same shit,though.
Yeah, but that's what I'msaying.
Did his sound grow?
So he didn't grow.
You don't think so?
Because if you grow, like...
Like, all right, I'm going tosay Jay-Z, for example, because
that's my favorite artist.
(06:27):
They ain't really out there.
But I'm going to say...
Like Jay-Z, he used to talkabout selling drugs and all
that.
Now that he grow, he talk about,okay, I cheated on my wife, like
stuff like that.
It's not grow, it's groove.
No.
Since he grow.
He grew.
Grown?
Grown.
Grew.
(06:48):
Man.
Hey, what Cam said, this ain'tno speech class, bro.
We are the podcast.
We are media.
This is media.
In fact.
So when you see the littlesubtitles going here, it says
little subtitles that come here,not when he grow, when he grew.
(07:08):
All right.
But yeah, you know, he just, hetalk about money, like he 50
years old still talking aboutMoney, hoes, and clothes.
Yeah, I didn't like the...
It's a few songs that I got tolive with that is kind of...
That Noriega flip that he didwas kind of fire.
I'm kind of fired.
But other than that, I mean...
Yeah, it was like a cool...
I think he dropped 19.
(07:29):
Out of 19, I'm going to say itwas about three to four.
Yeah, cool three, four.
And I don't think that's a goodalbum to me.
I've been hearing that a lot, soI'm not rushing to go listen.
I'm sad.
I love Lil Wayne.
I think he just needs to retirethe Carter series.
Okay.
Before he had the Carter, he had500 Degrees.
(07:52):
He had, you know, on hot boys hehad uh forgot the other name of
the album but ever since he cameout with the card it's been
carter carter yeah i think weneed something he said this is
it though but the last quarter iwhat that was my favorite the
five the last yes really yesthat was my favorite honestly i
(08:14):
didn't even give it a listen icouldn't tell you what's on what
Saved my life.
Is that the one with...
We don't know.
Oh, never mind.
If that's the one with theofficer.
No.
That's Carter 3.
Really?
That was the best one.
Yeah, that's my favorite one.
(08:34):
She like freaking 20, 15 yearslater.
Really?
So what's Carter 5?
Look up on your phone so we canknow.
Carter 5, yeah.
Carter 5 and Carter 4.
That was like...
Yeah, because my favorite jointis with, I think it is Carter
too, because I was listening toit like last week.
Oh, Carter 5.
(08:57):
I like the song with KendrickLamar.
Okay, then no, that's not myfavorite one.
Because the one that you'retalking about is my favorite
album of the Carters.
Carter III?
Yeah.
This one came out in 2011.
Everybody, Carter III was theirfavorite because he came out, he
sold a million copies in thatweek.
The one with the cap and gown.
Yeah.
Yeah, that was my favorite.
Yeah.
I don't know which, the V withthe one, I don't know.
(09:18):
I don't know the Roman numerals.
I don't, I have no idea.
Yeah, that one.
That's my favorite one.
I have no idea.
I don't know the...
Yeah.
It's another artist.
It's another artist I sent Gio.
Jacob Lattimore.
Jacob.
I did not know that he was fire.
Yes.
Yo, he is super fire.
(09:40):
Like, why is nobody talkingabout his style?
I don't know.
Because he on the shot.
No, back in the day when, like,Diggy Simmons and B5 and all
them, that's when he waspopular.
But now that he done got older,it's like he got pushed to the
side.
They don't really listen, but...
Listening to him sing and thenwatching the shot, it's like,
yo, this dude is a wholedifferent vibe.
(10:02):
I was a little shocked to hear.
And I seen it on TikTok.
Yep.
Yep.
For informational purposes.
I seen it on TikTok, and I'mlike, oh, he sings?
And then I'm just going throughhis discography, and I'm just
like, oh, wow.
This dude really sings, and he'sreally an R&B-ass nigga.
(10:24):
Yeah.
His music is fire.
I see him on the shot now.
I'm just starting to bust out ina fucking song and dance.
This last season, he wassinging.
He gave a little melody.
Oh, he did?
Yeah.
After we do this pod, I needto...
Go catch up.
It's good.
It's so good.
Other than that, anything new,guys?
(10:49):
Nothing new.
I'm going back to work.
I had a pop-up Monday.
Like a pop-up shop.
I did clients for half price.
Oh, wow.
Yeah, I did.
I have four clients.
That's what's up.
Yeah, I have four clients thatday, so I might do that again
before I go back into the salon.
(11:09):
Were they your old clients?
Nope, these are new clients.
New clients?
Yes.
Okay.
Do your old clients know you'recoming through?
Like, they know you popping backout?
They do know that I'm in adifferent area, but it's an hour
away from where I was, so Idon't know if they'll travel.
But I'm going back to where Iwas, so I'll get all my old
clients back.
All right, I got a question.
What's the furthest you'lltravel for a haircut?
(11:31):
I give a good hour.
Yeah, about an hour.
Yeah, hours the furthest.
I've traveled some, like I'vebeen...
Maybe I was too loyal.
I lost all my hair now.
Yeah, yeah.
Y'all saving some money with nohaircuts.
Yeah, I done traveled a whilefor my barber and it's like the
loyalty.
It wasn't even the distance.
It's the loyalty.
Yes.
(11:52):
You don't cheat on your barber.
Bet not.
Person that cheat on theybarber, I don't even trust you.
That's how I feel about yourhairstylist.
You can't keep going todifferent people and then you
don't know who to blame.
Yeah.
You're losing your hair.
Oh, the last stylist didn'tknow.
It was the one before that.
So you can't blame nobody butyourself.
They say you can tell if a man'sloyal by his barber.
(12:12):
By his barber.
I like that.
I used to go to my barber untilhe retired.
Since I was 15.
I'm 34 now.
I've been going to my barbersince I was 19.
Wow.
Well, I moved from New York, butmy barber from 19 to about 32,
33.
Wow, that's not bad at all.
And every time she see me, oh,papi, I love you so much.
(12:36):
Oh, so you go to a girl barber.
I'm kind of scared.
Oh, it's a girl?
Oh, that's fire.
I'm kind of scared.
She used to make me look realDominican.
Only thing I didn't like is thatshe used to try to do my
eyebrows and she'd try tofinesse the finagle and she'd
just make me look mad gay.
Give me your arch.
I had to keep my hat real lowsometimes.
(12:57):
I had that one time when I wenton vacation.
She arched my eyebrows.
I was like...
Did you look shocked all thetime?
Yeah, I was like...
My girl gonna think she's sexyall the time.
UNKNOWN (13:10):
Yeah.
SPEAKER_00 (13:10):
Oh, man.
Well, what you call that cameout?
I'm probably going to give mykids.
Nintendo Switch 2.
That shit going to be hard toget.
You might as well.
You're going to have to waitabout a year.
They are in line for that joint.
Really?
They are in line.
They are in line.
And it looks kind of similar.
The same.
(13:30):
I'm sure all of them got thesame character.
So what's the difference?
I don't know.
They just want your money.
That's it.
I'm probably going to look.
To see what the difference is.
I bought the Nintendo Switch offof my nephew.
For$100.
I bought him the Nintendo Switchand you bought it off him.
I see the money circle.
(13:51):
Keep it in the family.
That's what it is.
Anything new?
No.
That's it.
My next loss...
Kind of upset about that, youknow.
But it's all right.
We got next year.
We find our head coach.
(14:12):
I think y'all said that lastyear.
I think that was the worst idea.
No, it is.
It's a bad idea, but then it's agood idea.
Because you never know how it'sgoing to turn out.
Yeah, but he...
We won't know.
Until he came along, we didn'tmake it past...
Like, we didn't even make it tothe playoffs.
Yeah.
This is the first time in...
(14:33):
Like, what, 25 years that we'veactually made it to the playoffs
past the second round?
But you never know what somebodyelse can give us, Paul.
You can't say Paul's.
Oh, my bad.
So it's men's...
You can't say that either.
You just got to let it rock.
All the extra stuff, you justgot to let it rock.
(14:56):
So it's Men's Health AwarenessMonth.
That's crazy.
It's also...
It's crazy because it's mybirthday month.
It's your birthday month?
Yes, my birthday is June 24th.
And then Father's Day is theweek before my birthday.
facts oh so you gotta you knowwhat you gotta do you know what
you gotta do I already know yeahyou know you gotta you gotta put
(15:19):
that on you gotta I don't knowput it on but your your gift is
going to and your guy he's thefirst he's the first time that
right yes you gotta show andprove to see what you're gonna
get what I'm gonna get for mybirthday yeah yeah that's that's
mainly what I say too becauseit's like whatever you get me is
what you're gonna get yeah likeI'm a person that's gonna like I
(15:40):
I'll give you what you get me.
I'll keep that same energy.
If you give me a little tie,I'll get you a skirt.
What shirt?
That is hilarious.
No, it's just...
Yeah, I'm going to try to makeit special.
I ain't going.
But other than that, you knowit's summertime, right?
(16:01):
Yeah.
What that mean?
What that mean?
Niggas is getting rid of theyold work.
Yeah.
Cuffing season ain't cuffingseason no more, boy.
It's too hot.
It's too hot?
It's too hot for cuffing season.
So it seems like Cardi B andyour man Offset and Remy Ma and
(16:22):
Papoose.
I thought that Ben broke up,though.
Who?
Remy Ma and Papoose.
They did, like last year.
Nah, they didn't break up.
They did.
They didn't break up.
They was throwing shots at eachother.
And then now it's getting uglybecause...
Yeah, because she done pulled inwithout his hat on, bro.
Like, bro, that's the ultimateparty foul, bro.
(16:45):
I didn't see that one.
He ain't got no beard.
He ain't got nothing.
He just up there.
So it's just like, bro, I don'tknow what I would do.
You know?
I thought he...
Didn't he already post himselfwithout a hat?
Nah, because I was searching.
Like, before she posted, I wassearching.
I was like, I ain't never seenPapoose without a hat on.
So I was like, nigga, I'msearching.
(17:05):
I'm searching.
I'm like, yo.
He look terrible.
Never.
She posted the ugly picture.
Mike said he look like Smeagol.
I did.
He look like Smeagol.
Well, see, like, wait.
But my new dude ain't a lookereither, so...
I don't know who he is.
Damn sure.
They said he, uh...
They said that he's not PatPoose, he's Pat Moose or
(17:27):
something like that.
Clarissa Shields, somebody saidthis is an ugly breakup, but
they was talking about the twocouples, like both couples don't
look good together at all.
Ripping Ma is pretty, like theothers is like...
The others.
(17:48):
Like Clarissa Shields.
I think Clarissa Shields, she'sa boxer though.
Like how pretty do you want herto look to get beat up?
But she looks rough.
Like she looks rough.
Even when she dresses, she looksrough.
She's a boxer.
Yeah, but I'm a truck driver.
Outside my profession, I'm notgoing to look like a truck
driver.
You do look like a truck driver.
Look at your beard.
(18:09):
You look homeless.
That is the truck driver way.
You look homeless.
She got the set it off braids.
I get what you're saying.
I do understand.
She needs a stylist.
She dress like she's stuck inthe 2000s.
And then even when she was onthe Breakfast Club, she had a
nice top on.
Then she had on some wedges thatwas like a rose.
(18:30):
You seen the pointers?
Yeah, it's like, bro, what?
What's going on?
Man.
I seem like the only personwho's actually having a real
good, well, when I say real goodbreakup, but an okay time is
Cardi.
Cardi is sad.
She having the time of her life.
She is sad.
Yeah.
And she enjoying it.
Yeah.
We know Offset, man.
(18:51):
I can't say the same thing aboutOffset.
He deleted his Twitter.
The whole thing?
Deleted his Twitter.
Well, I think he should havebecause of the stuff he was
saying.
So, just go ahead and get up outof here, buddy.
And Instagram.
And Instagram.
He deleted.
But that's crash out.
He making our Sagittarius lookbad, bro.
Because me as a Sagittarius, youdoing that, I'm going to do
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better.
I'm going to buy the boat andthen have all the girls on
there.
Oh, my goodness.
Yeah, but that just makes youlook crazy.
It don't matter.
It makes you look crazy.
It don't, nah.
She got this one mega freakingwhizzy effect.
football player.
Yes.
But I didn't want you.
And then the crash out part waslike how you braid your son
hair.
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No, no, no, no.
The son has locks now.
So that picture is old.
Yes.
Oh, I was about to say braidhair.
Yeah.
They braiding his hair.
The son had the style first andthen a long time ago, Stefan
Diggs just did the same style.
I feel like he was trying tomake him upset.
But the picture is old.
The son got locks.
But that's what, you know, ifyou know that as offset right
(19:57):
somebody said he ain't seen hisson since then oh that's true
yeah you crashing out you lookstupid you ain't seen your child
oh wow you don't even know yourchild don't got braids no more
that's crazy I mean that's awhole different perspective yeah
that makes sense you know thatkind of clears everything up yes
That's crazy.
That's what I don't get.
Because it ain't no way.
Because I'm going to just bepetty right back.
(20:17):
Of course.
Of course.
I'm going to be Stephon Diggs.
King Petty.
King Petty.
Stephon Diggs.
Stephon Diggs in this case.
I'm going to just keep it chill,you know?
King Petty Combs.
And then he did the thing on hisInstagram too.
Oh, yeah.
That's, you know, some chillshit.
Yeah.
That's how I would be.
I'm not taking it to theinternet.
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Nah, nah, nah.
We got to deal with thisoutside.
I don't want people in mybusiness.
I mean, but that's the thingabout being a superstar nah I
can't even if I couldn't do iteverybody's in your business so
you have to I couldn't do itseem like you're trying to get
one up on somebody I'ma be likeLotto she's she we know she got
a man we don't know who he islet's keep it like that we know
who it is she is so fire thoughyes Lotto is so fire she was
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posting some recent pictures myman my man my man yeah it's her
energy that's what I always sayit's not even it's not even
about her look it's just herenergy towards her it's her
looks also yeah she's pretty butit's her looks also It's her
energy towards her man.
Like, it's what makes you lookmore...
I feel like it's not going to belike that once we figure out...
I mean, once she shows Woody.
(21:21):
I think it's going to be thesame.
Oh, I don't think so.
I think it's because we don'tknow.
As long as he's not with theclout.
As long as he's doing his joblike he's doing right now.
Right, and ain't nobodyscreaming, like, yo, yo, I'm Dan
Lotto.
Yeah, that's corny.
I got her news right here, cuz.
That's corny, that's corny.
She also says she can count herbodies on her hand.
Yeah, I mean, same thing.
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also mad young.
She's 25?
She don't look like she's beenoutside long enough to have a
bunch of bodies.
Yeah, she's very young.
I mean, keep it right, keep ittight.
She's living to that quota, thatfive-finger quota.
Yeah.
Until she's 30.
Is she 30?
Nope.
Nope, not even 30.
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Five niggas, not even 30?
What, lost your virginity, did Isay, at 18?
Five niggas in what, from 18 to30?
Yeah.
That ain't bad.
That's not one of your, not even.5 or even.5.
Because women count on toes,fingers, eyelashes.
Right.
Yeah, they overdoing it.
They got some bodies.
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They got some bodies.
Oh, there's another thing thatI've been...
I've actually been participatingin.
The goodnight challenge.
Those have been mad funny.
I've called our brother...
Mr.
Jamie Todd.
Now you got to insert here.
Yeah, yeah.
I'm going to insert it here,which is hilarious.
(22:45):
I was thinking about doing it.
I thought, like, me and my girlwere sitting up watching them.
I was like, bro, I got madpeople walking really cool.
You wanted to do the, um...
the pranks.
So why not?
This has been the best prankthat you can do.
But I just feel like, I justfeel like everybody, I just feel
like everybody has a socialmedia.
So they seen the challenge.
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Everybody ain't got TikTok.
Yeah, but it's different.
But it's not only on TikTok.
Oh, I haven't seen it nowhereelse.
Yo, every time I've seen it, Ilaugh a little harder because
it's different reactions.
Yeah.
Yeah, but they gonna be like,oh, you know, I've seen this
before.
Yeah.
Try it.
Yeah.
You might, cause Jamie, causewhen I called him, he was just
like, Bye.
(23:25):
Yo, what is you on?
He thought I was drunk.
He thought I was drunk.
I have to see that.
You in the house?
Yo, you drunk?
I was like, nah, man.
I love you, man.
I just wanted to tell yougoodnight.
And he was like, yo, what iswrong with you?
Perfect person to call.
I got some people.
(23:45):
You should record it.
Yeah, record it.
It's actually pretty funny.
And I watched the video back andit's just funny.
So that goodnight challengeis...
Yeah.
Pretty funny.
We've been seen laughing aboutit.
What's the equivalent togoodnight?
Like, what do you call yourfriend and then you ask, like...
Like, our men just...
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Like, why can't we tell ourhomeboy goodnight?
Because I'll be the guy to belike, alright, goodnight, bro,
love you, kid.
Nah, you can't call him...
And tell him goodnight?
And tell him goodnight, nah.
If we in the same facility andit's like, alright, yo, my G,
I'm about to head out.
Alright, yo, yo, goodnight.
That's cool.
But to call your man up...
I don't even think I would stillsay goodnight, though.
I ain't even going to lie.
Really?
Because if we leaving, like, Idone left my friend's crib
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plenty of times.
I never say, yo, goodnight.
Yes, you have.
I'm pretty sure.
I'm pretty sure you've saidgoodnight.
No, I never said goodnight.
I ain't out to see y'all.
I never said goodnight.
What's the equivalent to that?
I was going to call you one dayand be like, yo, what's up?
Yo, you ate?
But then that's just like, oh,yo, let's go.
Yo, you ate.
It's hilarious.
(24:48):
What?
It's like going to, like, tellyou a little, yo, let's go get
something to eat.
That's kind of weird.
That's what I was going to say.
You buying?
That's exactly what I wassaying.
I'm going to say no.
No, I have not ate.
Now what you going to do aboutit?
Even if I did eat, I'm going tosay, no, I ain't eat yet.
Let's go get some drinks.
I just want the drinks.
Even if I did eat, I want thedrinks.
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I ain't eat yet.
You don't call no woman, like,yo, you ate?
No, I didn't eat in three days.
OK.
I need a hundred bands.
I can't eat rent, dude.
Uh-uh.
Yeah, girls be going through it.
Oh my goodness.
When you just meet them, theyalways going through it.
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I need my bills paid.
Just meeting?
What kind of girls y'all talkingto?
Ones on Tinder.
Why are you on Tinder?
Nah, they on Christian.
Back in my day.
They on Christian Mingle.
You on Christian Mingle too?
Nah, I ain't on ChristianMingle.
No, sir.
Christian Mingle, they be, theybe, I need some money for the
Lord.
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Wow, they brave.
You better ask the Lord.
At least get a coupleconversations in before you
start asking for money.
Nope, nope.
They just real fun with it.
Wow, I don't even like askingfor money now.
I hate it.
I live with my grandma.
I have a couple of stories.
It was rough out there when Iwas dating.
It's rough out there now.
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They said the dating pool gotpee.
It got poop.
It got a little go up.
It got a little STD.
It got a little saliva.
It got a little bit ofeverything in there.
I heard you could pick now.
They say you could pick yourheight.
You could pick your height.
On Bumble, I heard that on theBreakfast Club because I know
all the new social media apps.
But I heard on the BreakfastClub, they was like, oh yeah.
(26:32):
Bumble guy where you can chooseyour height.
So he can be five foot or sixfoot.
He's still going to cheat onyour dumb ass.
Like, why are you worried abouthow tall he is?
I don't understand.
When I watch these pop theballoons, they be like, oh, I
pop because his height.
I pop because he's not tallenough or he's too short.
(26:52):
So which the shortest you wouldgo?
I'm 5'2", so how short can...
I'm going to get a midget atthat point.
He at least got to be tallerthan me.
He at least got to be tallerthan me.
5'2"?
That's cool.
5'2 is the minimum?
Like, you got to be height toheight?
Yeah.
Could you date anybody shorterthan me?
Yeah.
Nah.
That's a midget.
I'm short.
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That's a midget.
That is.
Because under 4'9", you amidget.
4'9"?
4'9", you a midget.
Oh, shit.
Or a tiny person.
Little person.
Yeah, little person.
Maybe I heard they beingoffended.
Yeah, little person.
I'm sorry.
Shit, we can get a tiny home.
In a tiny community.
Right?
No.
Get a one bedroom.
(27:33):
Okay, would y'all date a tallergirl?
A girl taller than you?
Yeah.
Absolutely.
Really?
Yeah.
I would date somebody tallerthan me, you know?
You're already like six foot.
Yeah, but they gonna be what?
Six two?
Oh my goodness.
Amazon.
Just the Amazon.
If you ever seen Jack and theBeanstalk?
I have.
It's like climbing thatbeanstalk and getting to the top
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of that and then just...
And that's it.
Yeah, that's it.
I mean...
My niece is in here.
Listen to Megan.
She tells you all the time.
But I don't think Megan istaller than six.
Nah, she tall.
She's tall.
She's six feet something.
Oh, wow.
Yeah, she's Megan tall.
I don't remember.
That's why I don't get why.
I met her at PV.
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I don't remember her being thattall.
Because Tory Lanez is like,what, five?
Tory Lanez is pretty short.
You know, if Tory Lanez can doit, I can do it.
Crazy.
Stop it.
I don't like when men do that.
What, they tall people?
No.
If he can do it, I can do it.
No.
He can do what I can do.
No, no, no.
He can do what I can do better.
(28:38):
All right, y'all.
Y'all want to talk about lastpod?
We should talk about that first.
But yeah, let's talk about it.
Last pod?
Last pod was good and bad.
It's good and bad?
Good and bad.
We know what to do with theguests.
I'll say that.
Yes, yes, yes.
We got to go through mediatraining.
Yeah.
Yeah.
(28:59):
So it's like a class before youdon't talk over this person.
It's like one at a time.
And we need more mics.
We definitely learned a lotabout the last pod.
Yes, yes.
It actually made me realize thatI need a better laptop.
I need a way better laptop.
Sorry it took me so long forthat episode to come out.
(29:22):
I was dealing with sometechnical difficulties.
But this part, this should beout like next week.
This one should be out nextweek.
The girl was talking too much,blew the speaker, and it was
just crazy.
Man blew a speaker, for real?
Yo, I watched that.
Yo, you know, I got, well, otherthan some of the women that were
(29:43):
there, it was just...
It was a lot.
It was a lot.
It was a lot to do.
I think minimize the...
Because it was more...
girls than guys.
It's just cool, but I think itshould be a ratio.
Eventually, it's going to bemore guys than girls.
We got a dude cast.
Dude cast with one girl.
It's just going to be like that.
(30:04):
I didn't kick y'all out.
Chio got to be here.
I didn't kick y'all out.
We're just sitting backchilling.
It was they part at that point.
They kept talking.
Loving the death.
They was doing the most.
Some people I keep But I ain'tgoing to say no name because,
you know.
Yeah, I ain't going to say noname.
I'm going to say a name.
Kay, my cousin Kay.
(30:25):
Y'all should have been over herewith me because you barely said
two words, ma'am.
Two words.
You was there for the beauty.
You're just like...
Kay was in her own mind.
Did she do edibles?
I don't know what she was on.
She was on something.
I would invite Chocolate back.
Chocolate is definitely...
Yeah, my sister was chilling.
She was definitely...
I would like to have her adifferent type of pod.
(30:46):
Yeah, she knows how tocommunicate and have a good,
decent conversation.
You know?
Talk like adults.
Yeah.
I can see how their relationshipgo.
I see why they single.
They are not singles.
Oh, they not single?
No, they got a man.
Both of them.
I thought she had I thought shebroke up with two men in the
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same day.
No.
Oh, all right.
All right.
Enough.
Enough on the pod.
Well, it is Ben's healthawareness.
So that's what we dedicate inthis episode to Ben's mental
health.
And are you aware of your mentalhealth?
Oh, you're asking me?
(31:27):
Yeah.
Are you aware of your mentalhealth?
I'm very aware.
Yeah.
Yeah.
I'm aware person.
So when do you know you need amental health day from work or
people?
When I feel exhausted.
Well, that's like...
It's like society tells us wecan't get exhausted.
We can't get tired.
Why not?
(31:48):
That's y'all's society.
You can't quit.
You got to keep going.
Yeah, I understand that.
But you still need a day to belike...
A day or a week.
Life goes on.
If I'm out of commission for aday...
Life's still going to go on.
I get you.
So you will feel guilty to takea mental health day?
I wouldn't feel guilt.
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I do.
I would.
I would.
I'm not even going to front.
I would take.
From work or like family?
Nope.
From both.
From both.
It's just like being a man, youhave to, you take on so much
responsibility.
So trying to push thatresponsibility, it kind of seems
selfish sometimes.
(32:29):
But you have to be selfish.
You have to.
Because you got to live foryourself.
Right.
I remember my dad told me, yougot to work on the machine.
If the machine ain't running,everything stops.
You got to worry about themachine.
The machine keeps everythinggoing.
You have to worry.
You got to oil it up.
You got to give it a break.
You got to service it.
(32:50):
So when a man needs a break, whydon't he just say, hey, I don't
feel like talking today?
Why do you have to go a wholeweek without talking?
My man went a whole week withouttalking to me, laying right next
to me, not saying a word.
Dang, they said hi and bye.
No, that did not.
Did not.
Was talking to my child, did notsay a word to me.
(33:10):
Okay, but I'm cool with that.
Just say, hey, I just want totake a little...
You know men's mental healthawareness, you know it's all
month, so he didn't have to talkto you all month.
That was last month, nigga.
He was preparing.
He was preparing.
You don't get another week,buddy.
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You don't get another week.
But you know what it is, though?
Because sometimes girls don't beout, like, as a girl, y'all
supposed to be our way out.
But sometimes y'all do make itworse because it's like, I'm
going through this and theny'all asking for this.
So it's like, how am I going toprepare for...
We asking for that in the middleof your break?
Nah, but during, like, we're nottelling you we're going through
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something.
Yeah, so how are we supposed toknow?
We can't read y'all minds.
No, but we don't expect you toknow.
Yeah, but you are the closestperson.
You are a person, though.
Yeah, you are the closestperson.
You're supposed to read us.
You're supposed to know us, bythe way.
I tell people that all the time.
It's not easy.
No, just like I read my girl.
I know when something's wrong.
Yeah, I know when you needsomething.
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I know something, not exactlywhat it is.
It's something, but we don'tknow exactly what it is.
That's your job to figure itout.
What if the man is not sayingnothing?
Men are not complicated.
at all.
Y'all make it so...
Y'all make it complicated towhere it's like men only
probably need three things.
What?
To be fed, fucked, and whatelse?
(34:36):
Fed, fucked, and finances.
Because, nigga, if my moneyain't right, I ain't trying to
give it to you.
I ain't trying to give it to youall the time.
If my money ain't right, I ain'tright.
I understand that because I'mthe same way about my money.
Yeah.
I don't want to do nothing.
I don't want to talk.
I don't want to go nowhere.
But that's probably what yourman was going through, you know?
Yeah.
(34:56):
I understand now.
But sometimes we just don't.
And probably his child was hisway out.
I was like, nah, she, you know,she never asked for nothing.
She's just going to be therelaughing.
Not yet, though.
Not yet.
Cry, cry, cry.
Yeah.
Not yet.
That's what you wanted to do?
Cry?
Mm-hmm.
UNKNOWN (35:13):
Mm-hmm.
SPEAKER_00 (35:14):
That's what I wanted to do sometime.
Y'all don't feel safe to cry?
I do.
I don't have a problem.
I'm by myself now.
You know?
Like yourself?
Yeah.
I don't have a problem crying.
It's just I haven't had a reasonto cry.
Yeah, a lot of my cries are mypop stuff.
I can sit here and cry, but it'slike the emotion thing.
I just can't do it.
I'm not an emotional type ofperson.
(35:34):
I just can't cry.
I can see that.
Yeah, I think I got out of it.
I can get my denzel on.
I can bust out crying right now.
I'm a good actor.
I'm a really good actor.
I need to work on my acting,like try to like acting classes
and all that because I couldreally just bust out crying.
Oh my God.
I could be happy as yeah that'sa gay uh that's a gay lord yeah
(35:55):
oh it's also um pride monthpride month it's a lot going on
it's father's day it's a lotgoing on this month you can't
say pause yo challenge youcannot say pause the whole month
if you said it stand on it notstand on it or sit on it Either
(36:16):
or.
Whatever floats your boat.
What is your go-to self-careactivity?
What do you do?
Self-care?
I haven't done nothing lately.
I know there's something that wedo do.
What?
We game.
Okay, that could be one.
(36:36):
We game.
We game.
We sit there and we...
Because I'll play the game.
That's my way out.
That's my way out.
That's my way of not even...
I don't even know.
Time exists at that point.
I'll take my eyes off thescreen.
It's been three hours.
Yeah.
I'll say that.
What I used to do is play ball.
I used to go bowling.
(36:57):
And I like working on cards.
Those are my three way out.
I used to say shopping, but...
That's an expensive habit.
Those used to be my ways out.
I would say gaming now becauseI'm older.
Some women think gaming ischildish.
I don't think so, but...
It keeps you out the street.
I don't mind.
(37:18):
I'll bring you a plate in themiddle of a game.
I don't care.
What you're not going to do isbe on it all night.
That's what you're not going todo.
It's a level to it.
If you're not going to work, ifyou're not doing stuff, if your
mental is like, oh, I'm going tojust come home game, that's it.
No, we're not doing that.
I think that's what cleaned upthe streets.
(37:40):
Video games?
Now that you can play onlinewith people.
Oh yeah, you can make money.
You can make money.
I think that cleaned up thestreets.
Nah, because the streets stillwild.
Nah, but it's not.
You got to think about a lot ofthem be in the house playing
video games, playing 2K allsummer.
After they stole my car.
They be outside.
(38:06):
They don't know inside.
And it's summertime too, so theyfinna just get into some stuff.
Just please sit down somewhere.
Find a house and chill out.
It's too hot.
They need to play games.
They need to.
Maybe they need to work on theirmental health.
They be stealing cars.
They be shooting for nonsense.
(38:28):
But that's...
I think we, as older, we got tostep up.
I've heard people say it all thetime and all that.
And it's like putting yourselfin harm's way because now, what
if they don't like you?
And they, you know, you come inand trying to give them some
game.
They ain't trying to hear that.
Yeah, if they're already toodeep in, some of them will
(38:48):
listen.
But if they're already too deepin, are they a lost cause at
that point?
Like, what can you say to him?
Because that's what I say.
It's more money than justlike...
These kids need dads in theirlives.
They do.
It's a lot of...
I think a lot of them havefathers.
You think so?
I think a lot of them...
You think a lot of YNs gotdaddies in them?
I don't think so.
It's more...
It's not how back in the daywhen your daddy leaves or
(39:10):
whatever.
There's a lot of dads stillaround.
They said 70% of men are more intheir lives now.
They're just working all thetime.
Yeah.
I can see that too.
They're working all the time.
But then are you there?
You are there.
But you're not disciplining thechild.
You're not giving them advice.
You're not teaching them.
I'm pretty sure they're gettinglessons, but not that everyday
(39:33):
type of...
You need that tough love.
And that's what I say, becausemen are here to...
I'm here to keep my daughter offthe stripper pole and my son out
the streets.
Women are here to...
Nurture.
I'm going to give you that toughlove.
My girl is here to give youthat.
Oh, baby, it's going to be okay.
I'm not going to give my sonthat.
(39:55):
It's not going to be okay.
Step it up, bro.
And that's what they need tolearn.
Women need dads, too.
Yeah, I feel you.
Because they keep them off thestripper pole.
Not the stripper pole.
It's just the emotional stress.
I'm pretty sure you've been witha woman.
You can always tell who hasdaddy issues.
(40:17):
Always.
I always tell who has daddyissues and it shows in the
relationship how they treat youand how they talk to you.
I had two dads.
I had two dads.
I'm a person that I like to readpeople.
I know what you're doing.
I know what your habits.
So it's like, yeah, I candefinitely tell.
Your father should have taughtyou that.
(40:37):
Yeah, because I'm not here toteach you.
I'm here to treat you.
You know what I mean?
And slut you out.
What in the world?
I'm not here to teach you, baby.
I'm here to treat you.
Lord.
These two men.
Well, can social media be like,since everything evolves around
social media, can social mediaaffect your mental health?
(40:59):
Definitely.
Yes.
I think it does also, too,because it's just endless
scrolling of different emotions.
Yes.
Oh, my goodness.
And it's like, yo, I wentthrough fucking three emotions
in the past, like, 15 seconds.
Yeah.
That's why I got disconnected.
I seen a big old dookie booty.
(41:19):
And then I seen, I follow weirdshit.
Your algorithm is crazy.
Yeah, my algorithm is all theway.
I would follow these worms andthey was just eating this apple.
What?
And then after that, it was likethe satisfying the toes, you
know, the toes and then theytake out the...
(41:42):
No, I don't know what toes.
My algorithm is a little...
But it's definitely...
I had to unfollow the shade roomthis week.
Why?
They just always postingnegative stuff, and it's mostly
about black people, especiallywith the DDG and Holly Bailey.
I didn't want to see that.
I'm tired of seeing that.
(42:03):
Can y'all post something happy,like Teyana Taylor and her man?
Did y'all see that video?
Who her man?
What?
Aaron, is Aaron something?
That's her man.
Aaron Taylor, yes.
We should have talked about herwith the breakup because her
breakup with Amandis.
But then she with her new man.
Oh, she got a new man?
Yes.
Who, Tiana Taylor?
Yes.
Or Holly Berry.
Aaron Pierre, the guy from LionKing.
(42:27):
Oh.
Mustafa.
I think he was Mustafa.
I don't know.
I thought he was a little.
You know who?
No, that's her man in thatvideo.
Y'all got to go watch it.
I thought he was shooting freethrows.
No, he was not.
Oh.
Not at all, actually.
But anyway, I had to unfollowthem because they just post a
lot of negative stuff and I'mtired of seeing it.
I get it.
I get it.
I get it.
(42:47):
Sometimes I just need a mentalbreak.
Yes.
I agree.
Because I don't be like...
If you don't, you just don'twant to be on social media.
Yeah, don't.
But that's why I be telling,like, people send me a lot of
reels.
And I be like, bro, don't sendme nothing negative.
I want to be funny all the time.
Like, that's just me as aperson.
Like, even the stuff that Ifollow, I follow stuff
intentionally.
(43:07):
Yes, you have to.
Like, I truly follow stuffintentionally.
Even if you watch one video,that's what you're going to see.
Yeah.
the rest of the time youscrolling.
Because your girl sends yourelationships.
All my shit, relationship,relationship.
I'm careful on who sends mestuff and I click on because
like I said, I'll let them beall over the place.
(43:28):
All over the place.
Mine is perfect.
Beauty, relationships, andbabies.
That's all I see.
Relationship, clothes, and hoes.
That's it.
I got sneakers.
For some reason, like, womenalways pop up on mine.
I don't know why.
Yo, and they be having thebodiest of the body.
Like, they be thirst trapping,like, everybody.
(43:51):
That's why I'm telling you, bro.
And then when I see something, Ibe like, oh, nah.
Like, I don't even be stimulatedbecause I done seen something
already that's crazy.
It's like, everybody, bro.
I scroll, okay.
It's like they're just trying toget you.
It's like, bro, calm down.
It ain't that serious.
(44:11):
I'd just be looking at y'alllike, bro, y'all thirsty.
Does that affect relationships?
Social media, does that affectrelationships?
I'm going to say it do.
Absolutely, yeah.
Because you're comparing.
No, it's not comparing, butdefinitely comparing.
You're not used to seeinghalf-naked women.
And if your girl don't dress upfor you, then what?
(44:33):
Yo, you know, my uncle, he gaveme a story.
He was like, man, I feel bad fory'all.
Y'all young.
I was like, why, uncle?
He said, because when I wasyoung, I only seen maybe three
women a day.
He seen his wife.
He seen maybe the lady at thesupermarket.
(44:55):
And maybe a lady, a random ladyin the bus.
He said, y'all pick up y'allphone, y'all see thousands.
Thousands.
Thousands of women a day.
And it's like, how can you notcompare?
And it's like, that's what I'llsay too.
And it's not a bad comparison,but it's just like, you know, I
dated you for a reason.
(45:16):
So I would like for you to wearlingerie.
I don't want to see this.
Like, this is not...
entertaining to me it's likeeverybody is doing it yeah but i
want to see it from the personi'm with i feel it and that's
what i that's what i think it'snot insane everybody doing it
and you're just doing it becauseyou're thirsty like you want to
get money that's everybody doingit just so they can get money
(45:36):
shit i mean but that's what isay it's just you know get with
it well that's Part of our men'smental health awareness month.
Be aware of your mental health.
Facts.
Because it's very important.
It's very important.
And I say counseling too.
(45:56):
I went through counseling forabout a year.
Yeah?
Yeah, I did too.
You learn how to cope withstuff.
Because you don't feel asguilty.
Stuff, you don't feel as guilty.
Because she said everybody copedwith stuff differently.
You know what actually helpedme?
When we were younger, we seen atherapist for like a long time
(46:20):
for trauma that we experienced.
And that helped me a lot.
It brought me up to see certainthings and pay attention to
behaviors and stuff like that.
So that actually helped me alot.
And you know what else helped metoo?
That's why I think we goofy.
Remember what our pops told uswhen we used to go to therapy?
That we was crazy.
(46:42):
He used to say that all thetime.
He said, yeah, yo.
He used to say, yo, I'm crazy.
I'm crazy.
And we used to say it all thetime.
All the time.
But it's like, I get joy.
I get joy out of laughing, outof my own pain.
Your pain is just, it's justweird.
Yo, my son does that.
I seen your post said, I likedark humor, so we ain't gonna
(47:02):
laugh the same or something likethat you said.
Yeah, yeah.
I laugh at things.
It can't be too dark for me, butI laugh at some dark stuff.
Chopping your head off.
If we had a funeral and we'relaughing, people are going to
think, like, what the fuck?
Yeah, what y'all laughing at?
You got to laugh about the goodtimes.
Like, yo, remember what such andsuch?
Exactly.
Mom, but they want to sit thereand cry and not be thinking
(47:23):
about the good.
And that's what my counselortold me.
She said, think about the goodshit.
That was a, whatchamacallit.
But I feel you.
Yeah.
What's the most annoying texty'all got or ever received or
sent?
I didn't think about that.
(47:43):
You know what I really dislike?
And it grinds my freaking gears.
Let's see if you got the sameone as me.
K.
No, we don't got the same one.
I hate that.
I'll send you a whole what youcall and it's like K.
Like I'll turn into the RedHulk.
(48:07):
K.
K.
What's yours?
Yeah, what's yours?
I mean, it's probably somethingpetty, but mine is what you
doing?
Like, what you doing?
That's the most annoying text?
Yes, because you know I'm atwork.
Like, you know my schedule.
It's annoying when you knowthey've been asking for
something.
That'd be annoying.
(48:28):
Like, this is my off day.
Actually, I'm busy as hell.
I'm so busy right now.
All right, Jill, what's yours?
Can we talk?
Or we need to talk.
I love that.
Yo, I love that one.
That is like, if I send that, Isend that on purpose so you can
(48:48):
think about me all day.
I'm leaving work to go talkbecause what we need to do is
get this over with right now.
That's crazy.
That's a good way to tellsomebody like, because they'll
think about it like, yo, we needto talk.
And it's like, all right, aboutwhat?
And then you don't answer.
Yeah.
About what?
Oh, my goodness.
Then they call you.
Yo, you good?
(49:08):
Yeah.
I said about what?
I hate it.
I hate it.
That's a good one.
That's a good one.
Can we talk?
Can we talk?
I don't want to talk.
Please tell me now.
That's a good one.
Because I'm leaving work early.
That would bother me like allday.
Yo, we need to talk.
All right.
What's up?
and then not hear nothing yeahmy mama did me like that last
(49:30):
week probably don't even be nicei need to have a conversation
with you early in the morning iwas like about what ain't heard
from 10 o'clock at night i saidi'm on the way i need to figure
out what we need to talk abouti'm on the way over that's crazy
what's the most annoying texty'all got Yeah, let us know that
too.
Yeah, what's the most annoyingtext that you can send or
(49:54):
receive?
Please let us know in thecomments below.
Yeah, because that is like agear grinder.
Some of those text messages theybe sending.
I'm pretty sure a lot of womengonna hit you with the, what you
doing?
What you doing?
All the time.
That's the conversation started.
Yeah, it's like, all right,that's how you start the
conversation.
Like, don't text me what I'mdoing.
(50:14):
Tell me to pull up.
Yeah, like...
Shut up.
Shut up.
Not if y'all dating.
Not if y'all dating.
Nah, don't text me what you'redoing.
You know what I'm doing.
You got my location.
The fuck?
But I...
We not doing that.
Location sharing ass day-day.
Yeah, but I'm...
She's trying to make sure I'msafe, she said.
Oh, safe.
Okay.
Yeah.
She gonna pull up with theblicky.
(50:35):
The blicky.
Yeah.
Yeah.
That's what she said.
That's what she told me.
What's the list for the week,Tuan?
List of the week.
Out of all these.
Something you're not doinganymore.
I thought we went through thatone already.
(50:55):
I don't remember.
Something you're not doing.
Yeah, something you're not doinganymore.
Yeah, a list of things thatyou're not...
I hope so at our age.
We just talk bad about Lil Waynenot growing.
I've grown.
I've grown.
What did I say?
I've grown?
I've grown.
Alright, yeah.
(51:18):
It's a list of things thatyou're not doing anymore.
I bet.
What's the list of things y'allnot doing?
Because y'all know what I'm notdoing.
I'm not outside no more.
UNKNOWN (51:30):
Um...
SPEAKER_00 (51:31):
A list of things.
I'm not being selfish anymore.
I can say that in the pastcouple of weeks I've experienced
of going to back home and havingconversations with different
people.
I don't want to be selfishanymore.
I've noticed I've been selfishand thinking about myself a lot.
(51:53):
It's like thinking you have tosometimes think about other
people and their feelings.
And most of the times I'll belike, man, fuck your feelings.
But you can't do that aboutpeople you love and you want to
be, you know, what you call.
So I'm, I've been thinking aboutother people's feelings and how
they interact with me.
(52:13):
And yeah, it's a long, it's aprocess though.
Cause sometimes I'll be like,yeah, Alright, Gia, what's up
with you?
Something I don't do anymore.
Take things personal.
If you're dealing with somethingthat's on you, it has nothing to
do with me.
And I have to stop blamingmyself for it.
(52:35):
You gotta grow up.
Yeah, I'm not doing that nomore.
Oh, nice.
Y'all on it.
Y'all got good ones this week.
I've been thinking.
Oh, I wanted to show...
I started something new.
What?
With my kids.
So, could you text your nieceand see if she's still up?
(52:57):
It's 1 o'clock.
She still might be up.
So, there's this thing that...
What's her number?
I don't even know her number.
This is a thing that's beengoing around about with your
kids.
Calling them or...
It's like an affirmation thing.
UNKNOWN (53:18):
Mm-hmm.
SPEAKER_00 (53:19):
So it's like a little speech thing I go through
with my daughter because I'mnot, I can't be there 24 seven.
So it's, uh, I asked her whataccountability is.
She answers what is, um, damn,I'm not going to bring for it.
What's accountability.
Uh, what about, I think I seenwhat our boundaries, what is,
(53:42):
um, discipline, um, Yeah, stufflike that.
What is control and what isrespect and all that.
So I've been doing that for likethe past two, three months.
And my daughter is starting toget it.
Yeah, she is good.
She is excelling at, you know,one of the questions is, it's
not my responsibility to what?
(54:03):
She knows to make anyone happy.
No, it is my responsibility towhat?
make myself happy.
So that's the little thing Iwanted to share.
I liked it.
It actually helps a lot withkids and growing up.
Because right now, everything isTikTok and social media and all
this other stuff.
Sometimes we just have to remindour, well, tell our kids or
(54:26):
remind them of these certaindefinitions that we just, are
very important.
Yeah.
Okay.
I'll take that.
My daughter won't talk back tome.
Oh, yeah?
My G2 chill.
You alright.
We gonna see you, littlebutterball.
She only like three months.
My little butterball.
She yelling at me right now.
(54:47):
Yeah?
Every time she see me, she giveme that little smile.
I think I see a tooth coming.
Yeah, something.
The way she be hollering.
There better be something wrongwith you.
I'm coming in the house, youhollering, just like your mama.
Shots fired.
All right, y'all.
(55:08):
That was a good pod.
There was.
All right, y'all.
Anyway, this is the We SBUPodcast, where we going to be
us.
You be you.
You be you.
Yes, sir.
UNKNOWN (55:21):
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