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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Ever walk into a room
and wonder like who here is
secretly loaded?
It's probably not the one withthe flashy watch.
Right, Right, You're requestinga deep dive into those quiet
millionaires.
Yeah, the ones who build wealthwithout the bling.
We're going to uncover theirsecrets to financial success
today.
Speaker 2 (00:18):
Yeah, it's
fascinating how they blend in.
Speaker 1 (00:21):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (00:22):
Yet their approach to
money is anything but ordinary.
Right, it's like they have isanything but ordinary.
Speaker 1 (00:25):
Right.
Speaker 2 (00:25):
It's like they have
this hidden playbook.
Speaker 1 (00:27):
Okay, so let's crack
open that playbook.
Then we're drawing insightsfrom financial expert Tay Kim
Mm-hmm, and one of the firstthings that really struck me was
his observation that moneytalks, but wealth whispers.
What's that all about?
Speaker 2 (00:41):
It's about
understanding the dynamics of
wealth.
Speaker 1 (00:44):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (00:44):
Quiet millionaires
recognize that money can be a
sensitive topic Instead ofbragging about.
You know, their latestinvestment win.
Speaker 1 (00:53):
Right.
Speaker 2 (00:54):
They might steer
clear of those conversations
altogether.
Speaker 1 (00:57):
So dodging those like
what's the next hot stock
questions.
Exactly, they're masters atredirecting Interesting.
Speaker 2 (01:01):
To shared interests
Right.
They'd rather connect,redirecting Interesting To
shared interests.
Speaker 1 (01:05):
Right.
Speaker 2 (01:06):
They'd rather connect
with you on a personal level
than you know, make you feeluncomfortable.
Speaker 1 (01:11):
Yeah, protecting
their peace and others too.
But this doesn't mean thatthey're timid, does it?
Speaker 2 (01:17):
Not at all Okay.
It's actually quite theopposite.
Kim describes this quietconfidence that comes from truly
knowing your financial standingand having a crystal clear life
purpose.
Ok, it's not about showing off.
It's about having the resourcesand the peace of mind to live
life on your own terms.
Speaker 1 (01:37):
That quiet confidence
probably translates into their
lifestyle choices too.
Absolutely OK.
Speaker 2 (01:45):
One of the most
intriguing things about quiet
millionaires is theirinclination towards well
minimalism.
Speaker 1 (01:49):
Minimalism, huh,
that's where things get really
interesting.
It's not about deprivation.
Speaker 2 (01:54):
Right.
Speaker 1 (01:55):
It's about making
intentional choices.
Speaker 2 (01:57):
Exactly.
Speaker 1 (01:58):
Kim talks about them
driving practical cars, living
in modest homes.
Speaker 2 (02:02):
Right.
Speaker 1 (02:03):
Even maintaining a
minimal digital footprint.
Speaker 2 (02:05):
Precisely Wow.
Take index funds, for example.
Speaker 1 (02:08):
Okay.
Speaker 2 (02:09):
They're not trying to
time the market or pick
individual stocks.
Instead, they often opt forthis simpler, more diversified
approach.
Speaker 1 (02:17):
Okay.
Speaker 2 (02:18):
It's like buying a
small piece of the entire stock
market, which historically hasyielded solid returns over time.
Speaker 1 (02:24):
Wait, hold on stock
market which, historically, has
yielded solid returns over time.
Wait, hold on.
Are you saying that mostfinancial advisors are
incentivized to push productsthat might not be in my best
interest?
Speaker 2 (02:32):
It's not about all
advisors being malicious, but
rather understanding theirincentives.
Quiet millionaires recognizethis and are incredibly
discerning about where they seekadvice.
Speaker 1 (02:44):
Okay, that makes
sense.
So they're careful about whothey trust, especially regarding
their finances.
But what about their physicalwell-being?
I mean, what good is all thatwealth if you're not healthy
enough to enjoy it right?
Speaker 2 (02:57):
That's such a crucial
point Quiet.
Millionaires view their healthphysical, mental and emotional
as the cornerstone of theirwealth.
Speaker 1 (03:05):
Right.
Speaker 2 (03:05):
It's not about vanity
.
It's about investing in theirmost valuable asset themselves.
Speaker 1 (03:11):
So it's less about
chasing the latest fad diet.
Speaker 2 (03:14):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (03:15):
And more about
creating a sustainable lifestyle
.
You got it.
Speaker 2 (03:18):
Think quality food.
Mm hmm, regular exercise Rightand professional support when
needed, whether it's a personaltrainer or a therapist Right,
it's about investing in theirlong term well-being.
Speaker 1 (03:30):
OK.
Speaker 2 (03:30):
Which allows them to
enjoy their wealth for years to
come.
Speaker 1 (03:34):
Instead of blowing it
all on expensive medical bills
later on.
Speaker 2 (03:36):
Exactly, they're
playing the long game Right,
which extends to their approachto knowledge and learning as
well.
They're not just passivelyscrolling through social media.
Are they Right?
Which extends to their approachto knowledge and learning as
well?
Speaker 1 (03:43):
They're not just
passively scrolling through
social media, are they Right?
What are these quietmillionaires reading and
absorbing?
Speaker 2 (03:50):
They are indeed
voracious readers, but their
media diet is very intentional.
They're not chasing the latestget rich quick scheme.
They view knowledge, especiallyfinancial literacy.
They view knowledge, especiallyfinancial literacy, as a
compounding asset.
Speaker 1 (04:05):
Okay.
Speaker 2 (04:05):
They want to
understand how money works, not
just how to make a quick buck.
Speaker 1 (04:10):
So more Warren
Buffett biographies, yeah, and
less how to get rich by 30 typebooks they're catching on
quickly.
Okay.
Speaker 2 (04:17):
They recognize that
building lasting wealth requires
a solid understanding offinancial principles.
Speaker 1 (04:22):
Right.
Speaker 2 (04:23):
Not just following
the latest trends.
Speaker 1 (04:25):
They're building that
solid foundation of knowledge,
but they're also smart enough toknow when to bring in the
experts, right, kim talks aboutthem assembling a team of
trusted advisors.
Speaker 2 (04:35):
Exactly.
They're not afraid to seek outspecialized counsel, accountants
, lawyers, even coaches to helpthem navigate the complexities
of wealth.
They see the value inleveraging expertise to make
informed decisions.
Speaker 1 (04:51):
Instead of relying on
that one size fits all
financial advice, they'retailoring their strategy to
their specific needs and goals.
Speaker 2 (04:59):
Precisely, and this
focus on intentionality goes
beyond their finances.
You see it in their approach totravel, for example.
Speaker 1 (05:07):
OK, how so?
Speaker 2 (05:08):
They might be
globally minded, but they're not
lugging around those massivesuitcases.
Speaker 1 (05:13):
Oh, so they're not
like holding up the security
line with a mountain of luggage.
Speaker 2 (05:17):
Right.
Speaker 1 (05:18):
I'm trying to picture
this.
Speaker 2 (05:19):
Not quite.
They've mastered the art oftraveling light.
Speaker 1 (05:23):
OK.
Speaker 2 (05:23):
Understanding they
can always purchase what they
need upon arrival.
Speaker 1 (05:26):
There's that
practical mindset shining
through again.
It's about experiences, notaccumulating stuff.
Speaker 2 (05:33):
Right.
Speaker 1 (05:34):
But here's a question
Do they ever indulge?
Sure, I mean, they've earned itright.
Speaker 2 (05:39):
That's a great
question.
Speaker 1 (05:40):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (05:40):
And it gets to an
interesting point.
Speaker 1 (05:42):
Okay.
Speaker 2 (05:43):
While they're
generally frugal, they're not
afraid to spend money on thingsthey truly value.
Okay Kim actually uses authorRamit Sethi as an example.
Okay Sethi is known for hissimple style Mm-hmm, yet he owns
a sweater worth thousands, wow,because it's made from
incredibly high quality material.
Speaker 1 (06:03):
Wow, I guess you
wouldn't know it just by looking
at them.
Speaker 2 (06:06):
Right.
Speaker 1 (06:07):
So it's not about
deprivation.
Speaker 2 (06:08):
Exactly.
Speaker 1 (06:09):
But rather making
conscious choices about what
they bring into their lives.
Exactly Okay, and thisdiscerning taste applies to
their living spaces as well.
Speaker 2 (06:18):
It does.
Speaker 1 (06:19):
And to favor a more
minimalist aesthetic.
Speaker 2 (06:21):
Yes.
Speaker 1 (06:22):
So on.
Are you saying they're allliving in those stark white
boxes with zero personality?
Not necessarily Because I'm notsure I could handle that.
Speaker 2 (06:29):
It's not about
following a trend Okay but
rather about creating a spacethat brings them peace, right
and reflects their values.
They choose items thoughtfully,ensuring each piece serves a
purpose and sparks joyThoughtfully, yeah, ensuring
each piece serves a purpose andsparks joy.
Speaker 1 (06:44):
So it's more about
curating a meaningful
environment rather than chasingafter some idealized version of
minimalism.
Speaker 2 (06:51):
Right.
Speaker 1 (06:52):
Kind of like their
approach to information.
Exactly Speaking of which I'mcurious, what are these quiet
millionaires reading?
Speaker 2 (06:58):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (07:01):
I'm always up for a
good book recommendation.
Speaker 2 (07:02):
Well, you won't catch
them with those flashy,
get-rich-quick books.
Remember, they're all aboutbuilding lasting wealth through
knowledge.
Right, they're more likely tobe found with a biography of
someone like Warren Buffett.
They see books as long-terminvestments, sources of wisdom
that pay dividends over time.
Speaker 1 (07:22):
It's like that,
saying the more you learn, the
more you earn.
Speaker 2 (07:25):
Exactly.
Speaker 1 (07:26):
They're not just
reading about finance, are they?
Speaker 2 (07:27):
You're right.
Their interests are far fromone dimensional.
They're curious about the worldand enjoy conversations that
span a variety of topics.
Speaker 1 (07:37):
Okay.
Speaker 2 (07:38):
They understand that
true wealth is about more than
just money.
Speaker 1 (07:42):
Right.
Speaker 2 (07:42):
It's about enriching
your life on multiple levels.
Speaker 1 (07:45):
It's about expanding
your horizons and engaging with
the world around you, but in theend, it all comes back to time,
doesn't it?
Speaker 2 (07:52):
It does.
Speaker 1 (07:53):
We all have the same
24 hours in a day, absolutely
Okay.
Speaker 2 (07:57):
And quiet.
Millionaires understand theprecious and finite nature of
time.
Speaker 1 (08:01):
Right.
Speaker 2 (08:02):
Perhaps better than
anyone.
They see it as their mostvaluable asset, often even more
so than money itself.
Speaker 1 (08:10):
Which is a really
interesting concept.
Speaker 2 (08:11):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (08:12):
We often equate
wealth with material possessions
, but for them it seems liketime is the ultimate luxury.
Speaker 2 (08:20):
Precisely.
They're willing to spend moneyto buy back their time, Whether
that's hiring someone to handlehousehold chores, outsourcing
errands or paying a premium forconvenience.
Speaker 1 (08:32):
Because those minutes
and hours really do add up.
Speaker 2 (08:35):
They do.
Speaker 1 (08:35):
Yeah, it's about
reclaiming that time to focus on
what truly matters.
Speaker 2 (08:39):
Exactly Spending time
with loved ones pursuing
passions or simply enjoying thefreedom that comes with
financial security.
Speaker 1 (08:48):
It's about designing
a life you don't need to escape
from.
Speaker 2 (08:51):
You got it.
Speaker 1 (08:52):
Okay.
Speaker 2 (08:52):
A life filled with
purpose and intention, where
work doesn't feel like a choreand there's ample opportunity to
pursue your passions.
Speaker 1 (09:00):
It's like they've
discovered the secret to living
a truly fulfilling life.
Speaker 2 (09:04):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (09:05):
One where wealth is
about so much more than just a
number in a bank account.
Speaker 2 (09:09):
And what's inspiring
is that it's attainable, I think
, for anyone willing to put inthe effort.
Speaker 1 (09:15):
Right.
Speaker 2 (09:16):
It's not about
hitting the lottery.
Speaker 1 (09:17):
Right.
Speaker 2 (09:18):
It's about making
conscious decisions day after
day that compound over time.
Speaker 1 (09:22):
It's about playing
the long game.
Speaker 2 (09:24):
Exactly.
Speaker 1 (09:24):
Like those index
funds we were talking about.
Speaker 2 (09:26):
Building a solid
foundation through financial
literacy.
Speaker 1 (09:29):
Right.
Speaker 2 (09:30):
Smart decision making
and a genuine commitment to
personal growth.
Speaker 1 (09:35):
This deep dive has
been eye opening Good.
It makes you wonder how we canall incorporate these quiet,
millionaire principles into ourown lives.
Speaker 2 (09:44):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (09:45):
Where do we even
begin?
Speaker 2 (09:46):
You don't have to
overhaul your entire life
overnight.
Speaker 1 (09:49):
OK.
Speaker 2 (09:50):
Right, it's not about
mimicking their every move.
Speaker 1 (09:53):
Right.
Speaker 2 (09:54):
But rather about
internalizing their core values.
Speaker 1 (09:57):
OK.
Speaker 2 (09:57):
Start by asking
yourself yeah, what truly
matters to me?
What kind of life do I want tocreate for myself?
Speaker 1 (10:04):
So it's less about
the specific tactics and more
about adopting their mindset.
Yes, quiet intentionality.
Speaker 2 (10:12):
You nailed it it's
about aligning your actions with
your values.
Maybe that means simplifyingyour lifestyle.
Speaker 1 (10:19):
Okay.
Speaker 2 (10:19):
Prioritizing
experiences over material
possessions Right, or becomingmore intentional about how you
invest your time and energy.
Speaker 1 (10:27):
Or, finally, taking
charge of your finances,
educating yourself aboutinvesting or seeking out mentors
who can guide you along the way.
Speaker 2 (10:34):
Okay.
Speaker 1 (10:35):
Remember, true wealth
encompasses all aspects of life
.
It's about having the financialsecurity to pursue your
passions, the health andwell-being to enjoy those
pursuits, and the freedom tolive life on your own terms.
Speaker 2 (10:50):
This has been an
incredible deep dive into the
world of quiet millionaires.
They might not seek thelimelight, but their approach to
wealth and life holds valuablelessons for us all Indeed.
Speaker 1 (11:04):
Perhaps the most
important takeaway is that true
wealth isn't about flashydisplays or keeping up with the
Joneses.
It's about aligning your innerand outer worlds to create a
life of purpose, meaning andgenuine fulfillment.
Speaker 2 (11:18):
And who knows, maybe
there are some future quiet
millionaires listening right now.
Maybe, Quietly building theirown versions of success.
Quietly but confidently,crafting a life of intention and
abundance.
Speaker 1 (11:28):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (11:29):
One mindful choice at
a time.