Choosing the Right Wedding Planner Mentor + Celebrating 50 Years of Laurie Hartwell

Ever wonder why some planners seem to leap ahead while others grind for years? We unpack the real advantage behind the scenes: a mentor who listens, challenges, and opens doors. From first weddings full of unknowns to high-stakes productions, we walk through the qualities that separate a true guide from a loud voice—proven experience, integrity, generosity with knowledge, strong listening, access to opportunity, and the emotional intelligence to navigate family dynamics and vendor teams with grace.

We also draw a clear line between healthy guidance and harmful patterns. If your “mentor” shuts down ideas, never replies, nitpicks without solutions, stacks fees without value, or keeps you small to guard their turf, it’s time to walk away. You’ll hear practical ways to structure a mentorship—clear goals, regular touchpoints, defined boundaries, and metrics that track progress across sales, operations, and event-day excellence—so advice turns into momentum.

Along the way, we celebrate the 50th birthday of CWP Society founder and CEO Laurie Hartwell with moving tributes from educators whose careers she’s lifted. Laurie's legacy is more than certifications; it’s a culture of community, education, and collaboration that helps planners grow faster and with more heart. If you’ve felt that tug for a mentor who believes in your potential and a community that has your back, consider this your sign: there’s a place built for exactly that.

Ready to take the next step? Subscribe, share this with a planner friend who needs encouragement, and leave a review with one takeaway you’re going to implement this week. Want mentorship plus a thriving network? Visit CWPSociety.com to learn about certifications and memberships and join us.

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